ok but like, serious answer on the incel phenomenon, not saying this is the whole story most dudes who self id as incels are profoundly mysoginystic, to the point where they will listen to other dudes saying what women *actually* want rather than listening to women about what they want. And another side of it is that a lot of guys recognize that they need to work on themselves but for 99.9% the only thing that working on themselves can ever mean is make more money or going to the gym.
Exactly. All around. They don't work on being a better person, or having critical thinking, or being empathetic, or have hobbies, or have non-incel friends. They do the easy stuff: haircut, $. Nothing that requires personal growth. Then wonder why it doesn't work.
It's also kind of a self fuelling thing. Most of them don't start out raging mysoginysts. But they (often maybe only in their eyes) experience failure after failure, rejection after rejection so hate just brews. And shokingly many people (of all genders) lack self reflection skills so it has to be someone elses fault. Many incels start off as decently looking but socially inept dorky guys maybe with nerdy niche interests that still tend to be looked upon as weird by the average person. They could totally find someone! But then this downward spiral happens
I just finished Hannah Gassbys gender agenda mixed special tonight and omg we need every single comedian on there to do the pod- they were all so great!!
Not be on the side of the incels/alpha males, but another problem with men being able to be more "feminine" (using air quotes, because being in touch with your emotions is not feminine but it is what society has ascribed it as such) is how women will react to men who are more in touch with their emotions. My mind immediately races to the whole ick trend, which was basically women seeing men be happy/sad/express an emption besides "manly confidence" and see it as icky. Like how sad is that.
I don't know who those women are, I'm going to guess they're very young, bc a guy having emotional IQ has always been seen as a big plus among the women I've known (from late 20s onward)
those women are a very loud minority. if you look at the majority or step outside the internet, you'll see that most women don't share that view. there were only a few videos like that, and if they reflected a broader opinion, the “ick” trend wouldve become a more serious issue rather than just a passing fad. on the other hand, women have been vocal about their dislike of the rise in “incel culture” for a while now.
See and this is why i have such a problem in the romance department. Im a 5-6 who is only attracted to 9s and 10s. I honestly wish my standards weren’t so high so i could find someone but i just can’t be attracted to what I’m not attracted to
Thinking that someone is pretty or beautiful is not the same as attraction. Perceived beauty is heavily dependent on socially imposed standards, while attraction is how an individual relates to those standards. I might judge someone as a 10/10 and feel literally zero attraction towards them. Of course, I'm not saying there is zero correlation between perceived beauty and attraction, but that correlation is usually overstated
I am beyond THRILLED to see two of my fave comedians sharing a room! Omg, I have wanted Josh on this pod for so long, I'm so happy you guys are friends ♥
It's interesting Josh can see the issues with his friends bc with my guy friends they'll tell me that their buddy got dumped or can't get a girlfriend and they'll say "I just can't figure it out" and I'm like "are you kidding? Just from this story I can tell you. They are a good bud for you, that doesn't mean good partner."
A common prison in straight dating, that more and more people talk about, is the idea that men must always be the ones to initiate contact. So a lot of women are sitting around frustrated that the cute guy won't come talk to them. At the same time a lot of men have become aware of how easy it is to come of to strong, or come of as a creep. So they are hesitant to approach women in public, if they doubt thier interest to be mutual Another problem in dating in general, is a lack of common spaces, where people can meet and get to know one another without the expectation of dating /hook ups. Amateur sports, community teaters, open gaming groups ect. When we think of finding a partner, we think of going to a bar, or dating apps and that doesn't work for a lot of people. For some it is easier/ better to get to get to know people and make a connection, before pursuing them romantically. But that can not happen without oppotunities to broaden ones social circle
I’m not sure this is limited to men and straight dating- this is a popular misconception from my perspective in queer spaces as well, wherein mascs are definitely more encouraged to always be the ones to initiate.
@@ashgavs oh for sure! No disagreements there. The way I read this just seemed to frame it as not a problem in our communities as much as straight ones when it definitely is, but I’m autistic as shit and maybe that wasn’t the intent of the paragraph lol Just finished the rest of this episode today and loved it btw 🫱🏼🫲🏽👍🏼
I love how they started the male loneliness discussion hitting all the right beats, but fell straight into the most common pitfall: giving the same advice as alpha male podcasts (get some more money, put yourself together etc). They had it right while talking about the cultural shift of healthy masculinity not being directly translated into an individual's behaviors. There are a multitude of reasons for this. You can point at men not being allowed to embody certain characteristics because they're deemed as "feminine", while still being asked to let go of traditional toxic masculinity tendencies. A lot of men feel like they're being asked to live up to an impossible task, an unsolvable riddle. You could also point at the lack of masculine role models, and you'd also be correct. Dr. K has many hours of content talking exactly about this, I'd recommend anyone interested to take a look
I 100% agree with your first point. I think it kinda serves to show how we as people have the ability to think about ourselves and our behaviors in a highly self-aware way, but this self-awareness on its own won't stop us from falling back right into these same behaviors.
I don’t think put yourself together is ever bad advice. Taking care of yourself is good for you and it’s attractive and I think that’s a good thing, and we’ve discussed a ton of healthy ways to do that on the pod. Did we say get more money or did we just acknowledge that money is helpful as a bit lol?
@@ashgavs I didn't intend to mean that it's bad advice, if I that's how it reads then my bad. My point is, while 'put yourself together' isn't bad, it's just superficial. A lot of men are actively trying to put themselves together, but are unsure about how to do it, and end up down the alpha male pipeline. Saying "get a haircut and get more money" isn't bad advice at all, if it's followed by some other advice that I won't go into, just to keep this short-ish. If you don't follow it up, it's just an echo of alpha male advice. Again, for the complete picture Dr.k is a good start Also I love your content, I've been watching for a couple of years now and I've never missed an episode
So I’m ace/demi and at some point in my life I realized I just don’t have the desire to seek sex. Like most people I’ve ever known are MOTIVATED to get laid and it just never occurred to me that I don’t feel that. Society kind of makes you feel flawed for being that way, there’s this attitude that not dating, not trying to get laid, is some kind of defect to be ashamed of and so you perform. You try to date people and get frustrated because it’s hard to understand how to behave when you don’t feel the same actual feelings. So it took a lot of pressure off me when I realized I don’t need to seek a partner, it’s not something I’m interested in spending my time on and so it no longer bothers me. It’s just interesting how it confuses people so much, “you…don’t date? At all?” So not that y’all are being insensitive, just that your “allosexual” perspective so radically different that even just “not fucking” is alien to y’all.
I feel like cis allos especially can’t even have a conversation about it until they’ve looked into Split-Model Attraction at the very least. I experience romantic attraction but never sexual attraction, and people who have never considered the difference talk about it as if they’re the same (or worse like they’re some essentialist trait attached to gender or sexual orientation…) and not being able to seperate romantic, sexual, and gendered attractions as intersecting things means they lack the framework to even get where they themselves are coming from that kind of bio-essentialist take on attraction is extremely present in storytelling media of all forms, manly urges and womanly needs and all that weird shit, you just hear it on the radio and see it on daytime television and sitcoms and allos think nothing of it since they they think it’s normal relative to their own experience…Little Game by Benny starts playing softly in the bg
Josh is very entertaining to listen to when he is doing stand up, and very easy and enjoyable to listen to in conversation. It's a unique combination and makes him awesome to listen to. Whether he's on his own podcast or a guest on someone else's you know you're going to love it.
Very happy to see Josh on the podcast. I love his comedy and admire his work and prolific ideas. About the things on "men and women", I bit of a fair critique: You talk from your experience as US Americans and the society you gew up in. Even if some things are the same, in other countries/cultures the behaviors are not necessarily the same. And that is also an interesting thing to take into account.
@@JustLisnin2 Yeah. I'm always kind of baffled at the way dating works in America. Don't get me wrong, some of those things apply in my country too, but many of them don't or have nuances that make them different. Also the "manly" things change a lot through culture. What in some places is considered a man's job in others is not.
Butter sculpturing started as a winter pastime, but it's now a staple event at the Minnesota State Fair and many other leading dairy states. Caterers sometimes use them at fancy events, normally perched on ice.
because i know people skip the episodes with men, here is my obligatory comment: this episode is fantastic. josh is so funny and hot (respectfully) and i'm glad you had him on the pod because i hadn't heard of him before 10/10
The shared vibrator point is interesting to think about. As a man who is into women, the first problem with this is that you couldn’t rely on most men to fully clean it between uses. That alone is a big risk The second issue is that vibrators seem to generally be preferential and I don’t know that a one-size-fits-all approach would work well The counterpoint to this is that if a woman brought her own vibrator, I’m 110% on board with using it. And if you’re at her place, then it’s already there and there should be no issues using it. Both people should be able to have the same experience at the end
I've always said that I can appreciate a stereotypically attractive male, but I am more attracted to men who have something "off" about them. Lol it's like a painting where you linger on the sculpture or the painting that is different and has character
53:16 Although I do understand where the point "casual sex is unhealthy" is coming from, I disagree with the idea that monogamy is the only path to healthy romantic relationships. This idea invalidates many experiences of polyamorous people, who are much more fulfilled and happier in that type of relationship than in monogamous ones.
"Some woman want both a gentle femmenist AND someone who ruffs them up, but that can not co exist" Oh Ashly you are so Vanilla it makes you oblivious to how these things can coexist consentual and savely ❤
Well in the case for 2s Maybe because I'm a DemiPansexual they drop to a too A 2 if I don't like their personality. For me I start everyone out as a 5 And depends on their personality and how well I can connect with someone determines if they go up or down on the scale. If someone comes to me with that incel energy sorry at best they are a 2. But if they are Optimistic, love their personality, and they bring that Dom, Masculine energy, and I can find a connection with!? Then UWU!
My friend always says she dates medium ugly guys because she doesn't have to be afraid of them leaving her... IDK there is something fucked up in there but also I get it somehow
Okay…that baby story from your patreon was the most wholesome shit I’ve ever heard. God dammit. That’s probably the most effective ad for your patreon I’ve ever heard
If you want butter, check out the Ohio State Fair "Butter Cow". The cow is there every year AND then there is a second sculpture that is different every year.
“Just get a vibrator” Is such a lesbian solution to to heterosexual relationship “problem”. Josh said it best. “There are too many podcasts trying to give advice which is usually bad advice.”
Josh and I are friends. We write together. If you have a problem maybe go talk to him about it? You could watch a pod he runs that’s more your style? Thanks for coming by!
@@ashgavs @nicolesweere4182 I'll be the asshole in the comments since Ashley's too nice to. These ppl are comedians who know the rules of comedy AND podcasting AND UA-cam. Do you know all those rules? Maybe learn them b4 u comment. Hosts are supposed to host their podcast. Don't hate her just because she's a woman. or a lesbian. or a gender non conforming man. what ever you're reading her as lmao
Josh Johnson is definitely one of the best comedians in the USA right now.
There's actually a 2011 movie call Butter about butter sculpting
hilarious & heartwarming. also, Olivia Wild playing a mischievous sapphic 😂🙌🌈✨️
Jennifer Garner was in it... cute movie.
Tummy time also stops babies from developing a flat head.
Saw Josh in Grand Rapids MI he was so good live❤ I'm beyond excited to watch this episode 🎉 great start to Monday
ok but like, serious answer on the incel phenomenon, not saying this is the whole story most dudes who self id as incels are profoundly mysoginystic, to the point where they will listen to other dudes saying what women *actually* want rather than listening to women about what they want. And another side of it is that a lot of guys recognize that they need to work on themselves but for 99.9% the only thing that working on themselves can ever mean is make more money or going to the gym.
Exactly. All around. They don't work on being a better person, or having critical thinking, or being empathetic, or have hobbies, or have non-incel friends. They do the easy stuff: haircut, $. Nothing that requires personal growth. Then wonder why it doesn't work.
It's also kind of a self fuelling thing. Most of them don't start out raging mysoginysts. But they (often maybe only in their eyes) experience failure after failure, rejection after rejection so hate just brews. And shokingly many people (of all genders) lack self reflection skills so it has to be someone elses fault.
Many incels start off as decently looking but socially inept dorky guys maybe with nerdy niche interests that still tend to be looked upon as weird by the average person.
They could totally find someone!
But then this downward spiral happens
I just finished Hannah Gassbys gender agenda mixed special tonight and omg we need every single comedian on there to do the pod- they were all so great!!
hilarious episode with many deep conversations.. amazing
56:15 Ashley’s forlorn depressed face when she considers ugly people who can’t get laid
You can feel their gears turning lol
There’s actually a movie called Butter (a comedy) all about this!
This collab was as unexpected as it is welcome! My favorite comics, what a treat.
Josh and I have been pals for years! He helped me a LOT with the stand up show I developed over the summer. He’s a genius.
There's definitely a movie about butter sculpture
JOSH JOHNSON ON THE POD WAAAAt
Yes yes yes! The guest I have been waiting for (again)!
The way I screamed at the incell thing. Holy shit 🤣🤣🤣
The fact that Ally‘s voice sounds just like Elasta woman from incredibles 😮🤌🏻
thought provoking and funny. I liked it (as usual) but does anyone have a tally on how many times they said "ugly" 😂 😭
This one was different and I loved it 😂
Not be on the side of the incels/alpha males, but another problem with men being able to be more "feminine" (using air quotes, because being in touch with your emotions is not feminine but it is what society has ascribed it as such) is how women will react to men who are more in touch with their emotions. My mind immediately races to the whole ick trend, which was basically women seeing men be happy/sad/express an emption besides "manly confidence" and see it as icky. Like how sad is that.
I don't know who those women are, I'm going to guess they're very young, bc a guy having emotional IQ has always been seen as a big plus among the women I've known (from late 20s onward)
those women are a very loud minority. if you look at the majority or step outside the internet, you'll see that most women don't share that view. there were only a few videos like that, and if they reflected a broader opinion, the “ick” trend wouldve become a more serious issue rather than just a passing fad. on the other hand, women have been vocal about their dislike of the rise in “incel culture” for a while now.
Parasocial comment for the algorithme
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See and this is why i have such a problem in the romance department. Im a 5-6 who is only attracted to 9s and 10s. I honestly wish my standards weren’t so high so i could find someone but i just can’t be attracted to what I’m not attracted to
Good news, be funny and they'll think ur a 9 or 10 too I promise
Josh Johnson has the hottest most sexy voice ever!!!!
And also, he brings the bi- back in my life after dating women for 5 years, lol.
@@monniemccracken8716 I love this for you. he made me realize I'm not a lesbian NO JOKE
Rejecting rejection lol walks a lot needs new socks. Dude only wants one chick so is pushing other girls away. He good he just pissed lol.
Damb this is the smartest and intuitive black man i've ever seen in my lifetime..wow
“Sometimes you just wanna be dying and you’re not even dying” produced such a loud cackle that my cat is pissed off at me
Thinking that someone is pretty or beautiful is not the same as attraction.
Perceived beauty is heavily dependent on socially imposed standards, while attraction is how an individual relates to those standards. I might judge someone as a 10/10 and feel literally zero attraction towards them.
Of course, I'm not saying there is zero correlation between perceived beauty and attraction, but that correlation is usually overstated
I am beyond THRILLED to see two of my fave comedians sharing a room! Omg, I have wanted Josh on this pod for so long, I'm so happy you guys are friends ♥
🎉Josh is on the pod!!🎉
It's interesting Josh can see the issues with his friends bc with my guy friends they'll tell me that their buddy got dumped or can't get a girlfriend and they'll say "I just can't figure it out" and I'm like "are you kidding? Just from this story I can tell you. They are a good bud for you, that doesn't mean good partner."
A common prison in straight dating, that more and more people talk about, is the idea that men must always be the ones to initiate contact.
So a lot of women are sitting around frustrated that the cute guy won't come talk to them.
At the same time a lot of men have become aware of how easy it is to come of to strong, or come of as a creep. So they are hesitant to approach women in public, if they doubt thier interest to be mutual
Another problem in dating in general, is a lack of common spaces, where people can meet and get to know one another without the expectation of dating /hook ups. Amateur sports, community teaters, open gaming groups ect.
When we think of finding a partner, we think of going to a bar, or dating apps and that doesn't work for a lot of people.
For some it is easier/ better to get to get to know people and make a connection, before pursuing them romantically. But that can not happen without oppotunities to broaden ones social circle
I’m not sure this is limited to men and straight dating- this is a popular misconception from my perspective in queer spaces as well, wherein mascs are definitely more encouraged to always be the ones to initiate.
Right but you would probably argue it’s a relic or impact of heteronormativity
@@ashgavs oh for sure! No disagreements there. The way I read this just seemed to frame it as not a problem in our communities as much as straight ones when it definitely is, but I’m autistic as shit and maybe that wasn’t the intent of the paragraph lol
Just finished the rest of this episode today and loved it btw 🫱🏼🫲🏽👍🏼
Lesbians are often just as worried about coming on too strong or whatever, and just don’t ask each other out even when we very much want to 😔
I love how they started the male loneliness discussion hitting all the right beats, but fell straight into the most common pitfall: giving the same advice as alpha male podcasts (get some more money, put yourself together etc).
They had it right while talking about the cultural shift of healthy masculinity not being directly translated into an individual's behaviors.
There are a multitude of reasons for this. You can point at men not being allowed to embody certain characteristics because they're deemed as "feminine", while still being asked to let go of traditional toxic masculinity tendencies. A lot of men feel like they're being asked to live up to an impossible task, an unsolvable riddle. You could also point at the lack of masculine role models, and you'd also be correct.
Dr. K has many hours of content talking exactly about this, I'd recommend anyone interested to take a look
I 100% agree with your first point. I think it kinda serves to show how we as people have the ability to think about ourselves and our behaviors in a highly self-aware way, but this self-awareness on its own won't stop us from falling back right into these same behaviors.
I don’t think put yourself together is ever bad advice. Taking care of yourself is good for you and it’s attractive and I think that’s a good thing, and we’ve discussed a ton of healthy ways to do that on the pod. Did we say get more money or did we just acknowledge that money is helpful as a bit lol?
@@ashgavs I didn't intend to mean that it's bad advice, if I that's how it reads then my bad. My point is, while 'put yourself together' isn't bad, it's just superficial.
A lot of men are actively trying to put themselves together, but are unsure about how to do it, and end up down the alpha male pipeline. Saying "get a haircut and get more money" isn't bad advice at all, if it's followed by some other advice that I won't go into, just to keep this short-ish. If you don't follow it up, it's just an echo of alpha male advice. Again, for the complete picture Dr.k is a good start
Also I love your content, I've been watching for a couple of years now and I've never missed an episode
Ali low-key looking like Parappa The Rappa
I SCREAMED
if low is the peak of mt. everest
As an ace listener, this convo is hilarious
"I thought it was butter" and "it means good" going together is cracking me up 😆
So I’m ace/demi and at some point in my life I realized I just don’t have the desire to seek sex. Like most people I’ve ever known are MOTIVATED to get laid and it just never occurred to me that I don’t feel that. Society kind of makes you feel flawed for being that way, there’s this attitude that not dating, not trying to get laid, is some kind of defect to be ashamed of and so you perform. You try to date people and get frustrated because it’s hard to understand how to behave when you don’t feel the same actual feelings.
So it took a lot of pressure off me when I realized I don’t need to seek a partner, it’s not something I’m interested in spending my time on and so it no longer bothers me. It’s just interesting how it confuses people so much, “you…don’t date? At all?”
So not that y’all are being insensitive, just that your “allosexual” perspective so radically different that even just “not fucking” is alien to y’all.
I feel like cis allos especially can’t even have a conversation about it until they’ve looked into Split-Model Attraction at the very least. I experience romantic attraction but never sexual attraction, and people who have never considered the difference talk about it as if they’re the same (or worse like they’re some essentialist trait attached to gender or sexual orientation…) and not being able to seperate romantic, sexual, and gendered attractions as intersecting things means they lack the framework to even get where they themselves are coming from
that kind of bio-essentialist take on attraction is extremely present in storytelling media of all forms, manly urges and womanly needs and all that weird shit, you just hear it on the radio and see it on daytime television and sitcoms and allos think nothing of it since they they think it’s normal relative to their own experience…Little Game by Benny starts playing softly in the bg
@@Xanderj89we get into that the tiniest bit on an upcoming episode actually!
Omg Josh Johnson is one of my fave comedians!! Amazing!!
Two of my favorite comics on the same pod and a solar eclipse. Not a bad Monday.
You got Josh on?? Holy shit!! I'm floored. This is fantastic 😊
Josh Johnson has a very attractive face
I'm so excited for this, I've been a huge fan of Josh for a very long time!
Thanks for the show in Copenhagen yesterday. It was absolutely phenomenal!
I'm about to leave for Amsterdam right now! I can't wait!
Josh is very entertaining to listen to when he is doing stand up, and very easy and enjoyable to listen to in conversation. It's a unique combination and makes him awesome to listen to. Whether he's on his own podcast or a guest on someone else's you know you're going to love it.
36:55 “ the demand for content is pushing people to the extremes”
Very happy to see Josh on the podcast. I love his comedy and admire his work and prolific ideas. About the things on "men and women", I bit of a fair critique: You talk from your experience as US Americans and the society you gew up in. Even if some things are the same, in other countries/cultures the behaviors are not necessarily the same. And that is also an interesting thing to take into account.
That was my thought, too. Even as an American, if you're a child of immigrants, the worldview is different, so some of it didn't apply.
@@JustLisnin2 Yeah. I'm always kind of baffled at the way dating works in America. Don't get me wrong, some of those things apply in my country too, but many of them don't or have nuances that make them different. Also the "manly" things change a lot through culture. What in some places is considered a man's job in others is not.
19:43 There is a movie called "Butter" that takes place in the world of butter carving contests
Butter sculpting is a Midwest fair culure thing.
I hope fresh rolls are a Midwest thing, too
Ali just smashing it from the start :D
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Wow, this was one of the deepest episodes and I love the dark dirty humor
I love Josh Johnson! One time I went to see Trevor Noah just to see Josh open for him.
That would be a great show all around!
Butter sculpturing started as a winter pastime, but it's now a staple event at the Minnesota State Fair and many other leading dairy states. Caterers sometimes use them at fancy events, normally perched on ice.
Love this ep but damn let him talk a lil 😂
I said the same
This pod is the best part of my Mondays, can’t wait to listen 🙌🏾
💯
SAME!!
34:11 Fd signifier’s video “how to make money from dumb men” (he might change that title cuz he does that) is about this phenomena
because i know people skip the episodes with men, here is my obligatory comment:
this episode is fantastic. josh is so funny and hot (respectfully) and i'm glad you had him on the pod because i hadn't heard of him before 10/10
The shared vibrator point is interesting to think about. As a man who is into women, the first problem with this is that you couldn’t rely on most men to fully clean it between uses. That alone is a big risk
The second issue is that vibrators seem to generally be preferential and I don’t know that a one-size-fits-all approach would work well
The counterpoint to this is that if a woman brought her own vibrator, I’m 110% on board with using it. And if you’re at her place, then it’s already there and there should be no issues using it. Both people should be able to have the same experience at the end
i dont know why i didnt think of that. just normalize men asking if women have their vibrators. great idea.
Three comedians talking about how to make babies laugh killed me
I've always said that I can appreciate a stereotypically attractive male, but I am more attracted to men who have something "off" about them. Lol it's like a painting where you linger on the sculpture or the painting that is different and has character
You should have Kehlani on the pod
omg i let out an audible gasp when i saw josh johnson was the guest!
53:16 Although I do understand where the point "casual sex is unhealthy" is coming from, I disagree with the idea that monogamy is the only path to healthy romantic relationships. This idea invalidates many experiences of polyamorous people, who are much more fulfilled and happier in that type of relationship than in monogamous ones.
"Some woman want both a gentle femmenist AND someone who ruffs them up, but that can not co exist"
Oh Ashly you are so Vanilla it makes you oblivious to how these things can coexist consentual and savely ❤
I already know josh is gonna be a great guest
who came here just to know whethee Josh has a GF, the answer is yes
As a Madisonian, I too thought they were butter sculptures
As a gay man, i need him back on your podcast, please darlin.
Whats the study that Josh talked about? Anyone have it? Loved the episode!
Josh has been going off lately posting non stop bangers, bros been on that anime DEMON TIME power up just tossing haymakers
I've been waiting for this episode! His stand-up is hilarious!
Omg I’m already excited 🎉!!!
EDIT: thank you to the algorithm for suggesting this one 🙏. It knows me so well, 😌
Love when Ali is on the pod!
This may be the happiest I’ve ever been to see a notification I fucking love Josh and you guys equally this is amazing
Such a great episode! great deep conversation and so many laughs! Thanks for a good watch!
Not Ashley buying a shirt thinking it has butter sculptures on it 😂 I'm crying
I really enjoy Josh.
Well in the case for 2s
Maybe because I'm a DemiPansexual they drop to a too
A 2 if I don't like their personality.
For me I start everyone out as a 5
And depends on their personality and how well I can connect with someone determines if they go up or down on the scale.
If someone comes to me with that incel energy sorry at best they are a 2.
But if they are Optimistic, love their personality, and they bring that Dom, Masculine energy, and I can find a connection with!?
Then UWU!
My friend always says she dates medium ugly guys because she doesn't have to be afraid of them leaving her...
IDK there is something fucked up in there but also I get it somehow
The Butter movie from 2011 with Jennifer Garder and Alicia Sylverstone.
So happy for Ali 🖤
“Being pretty as a women is like being rich for a man”
Love this episode!!! 🎉🎉 👏 👏
Get Ilana Glazer on the pod
im freaking out cause i really wanted this collab omg😭 idk if anyone else did but i was def in the google forms putting his name
19:08 if you own a sculpture fridge…
Okay…that baby story from your patreon was the most wholesome shit I’ve ever heard. God dammit. That’s probably the most effective ad for your patreon I’ve ever heard
What a booking! Love it!
I have not yet watched. So far i just love the ambience. Hope Amsterdam is having a fabulous time
If you want butter, check out the Ohio State Fair "Butter Cow". The cow is there every year AND then there is a second sculpture that is different every year.
You should make an episode about you and the guest (or you, Alayna and Mak) just sculpturing the butter
“Just get a vibrator”
Is such a lesbian solution to to heterosexual relationship “problem”.
Josh said it best. “There are too many podcasts trying to give advice which is usually bad advice.”
Hearing about Milwaukee & hearing some Madison love made me happy
I’ve been wanting Josh to be on the pod for FOREVER. Love this ❤
This is one of my favorite ones.
It was very educational.
This is the collab I didn't know I needed
i think you’re definitely 10% more masc
"I don't talk to people well" is so real😭😭
I would consider Trump a 1 or 2
56:00 2s represent
This was so funny
Dope ♥️🔥
Loved the episode ❤
Fantastique 😁🙌
As a possible lesbian Josh's voice is so hot it's insane
I am not joking. He was the biggest portion of me realizing I'm bi not a lesbian lmao
You have Josh Johnson on the pod then interrupt him incessantly with unfunny banter. Bravo!!!
Josh and I are friends. We write together. If you have a problem maybe go talk to him about it? You could watch a pod he runs that’s more your style? Thanks for coming by!
@@ashgavs @nicolesweere4182 I'll be the asshole in the comments since Ashley's too nice to. These ppl are comedians who know the rules of comedy AND podcasting AND UA-cam. Do you know all those rules? Maybe learn them b4 u comment. Hosts are supposed to host their podcast. Don't hate her just because she's a woman. or a lesbian. or a gender non conforming man. what ever you're reading her as lmao