Marriage Is A Big Sacrifice | Powerful Reminders On Challenge Upon Challenge | Mufti Menk
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📌 #MuftiMenk starts acknowledging the efforts & sacrifices of mothers and sisters who are going through so much to strike the balance between their own life and the lives of their children but that becomes their life and He does know that we are facing so many challenges with a lot of husbands who are not supportive at all towards family in this lecture.
He brings up that #marriage is a big #sacrifice through reconciliation with in-laws powerful reminders. So we need to compromise somewhere we need to make each other's lives easy .it will be a sacrifice we will have to sacrifice when we grow out or when we bring our children up, we must make sure that we have told our children that you will need to sacrifice as well. Mufti Menk also talks about using #socialmedia
💓💓💓Ismail Musa Menk was born in Harare, Zimbabwe. He is a student of knowledge trying to disseminate the Deen in the current age.
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It helps me so much to improved myself as a newly converted muslim
Amara Billedo May Allah bless you
Mufti Menk is a legend
Mufti Menk looks unwell in this clip.
May Allah bless him with good health and wellness and all of us too.
Ameen
Ameen....may ALLAH reward him for his great efforts ....
Mufti Menk, I agree with everything what You are saying. Why? - Because You are saying the truth, and I like to listen the truth. Thank You.
ALLAH bless Mufti ismail menk with good health aaameen
Thanks to almighty Allah for giving me a precious gift to hear and understand your every speech. Mufti Menk sab.
I recently opened a channel.... n waz little worried that ppl will criticize me saying ... how cud u be on utube? ... but Alhumdulillah, after seeing this video... i’m at peace with myself that I’m not doing anything wrong... Its all abt making a balance... Thankyou brother for lending ur helping hand to guidance... really appreciate it....
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Life is so very very hard when your inlaws dislike you. Happy marriage is impossible when inlaws dislike their child's spouse. The best part of my divorce was being disowned by my inlaws. My last child's grad will be the last time I never have to be in the same room with my ex inlaws. If Allah grants me a new marriage, I hope his parents love me and my children. Please parents accept your child's spouse. I hope I can be the in law my inlaws never were. I only wish I knew what I am that they disliked so much. It really hurts. My own father did not love me, than my father law thought I was Satan incordnate I felt so rejection. I would have done anything for his son, and his family.
Same for me too.. She is not leaving us to go my hubby will not leave her and come with me... She doesn't like me having problem every single day... Even we are not talking with each other from so so long... In this situation also she keeps on torturing me... My hubby doesn't mean it how much I'm suffering
Maashallah mufti menk, may you, your lectures and we all Allah's creations be blessed with very best lives,,,in sha allah... Aameen
Mashallah May Allah Help you and give you goodness Amen Inshallah .
Sabr
A man of wisdom. Tabarakallah. Masha Allah. May Allah-The Most Merciful guide us all to the straight path and forgive all our sins-the minor and the big ones and let us die in a state of Islam. Ameen.
Jizarkallah for all the advice, Subhanallah may Allah make it easy for us, may he give us Sibr and understanding. May we love Allah, our families and all others around us regardless of who or where their from. Aameen
#ParentsPleasure
Hazrat Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi was approached once by a young man who complained that his life was full of problems and requested hazrat to make duaa that his troubles end.
Hazrat asked 'are your parents alive?'
The man replied in the affirmative
Hazrat then asked 'are your parents happy with you?'
The man shamefully replied in the negative.
Hazrat then told the man 'if every pious person in the world came and prayed that your problems go away they will never go away until your parents are happy with you'
If your parents are alive do their khidmat day and night.
Abdulalim Omar if parents pleasure is in oppression of wife, then? So such examples are non sense.
Evil do exist in society, one cannot escape this fact or turn blind eye towards it in the name of "parents"!
all people old or young have a responsibilty to do as ALLAH says...all will be answerable to their deeds .....so if parents are doing wrong then u must explain to them and teach them ..not side with them if they commit sins....no one on this earth is perfect not even me..because their was only one person who walked this earth who was 100% perfect and that is our beloved prophet Muhammad s.a.w ....
May Almighty Allah guide and protect you for all the Muslims Umar Ameen Yaa Allah
May Allah bless u mufti menk
What happen to people that make our life miserable....how so they can keep hurting our feelings and never feel sorry for what they have done....how can they think that they are doing the right thing & that they are the only people who are right and yet they keep thinking bad and saying bad things about us. What happen to the people that rejects proper discussion on any problem arise and keep blaming us for everything that happens againts their will or wish?....I`m just wondering how much sabr must we have to face these kind of people. They are creating unhealthy environment for my kids to grow up in....they are families (in laws) but I feel much more at ease being and dealing with other people than them....they are bless with a good life...career....while my family is struggling to have enough food ...but does that mean we have to agree and fulfill all their wishes even if it will effect negatively on my children's upbringing....I dont think so....I dont want to fight with them....im not the one who ignores them....im not the one who make it hard to have a peaceful discussion...I dont care anymore of their resentment towards my family...I am teaching my children to always have an open heart and mind and keep making dua' for us not to be like them...o' Allah forgive me cause I have distance myself from my IL family....I am trying to create a peaceful and positive life for my children and I...and we cannot have it if they keep hurting our feelings everytime we are with them....aamiin
spot on ....i totally relate to ur story...i now am trying to do same ...my children now come first ...and aslo i myself....
AsSalaamualayikum! The brother has made many good points and I do listen to Him often(alHamdullilah) also I Like the one about games inShaaAllah, maybe the brother will connect with Nouman Ali and Wee can make an ISLAMIC GAME to teach the deen and give the Youth a better genre ☝🏽😌
Assalamvslaykom sir thanku for improving our knowledge in a beautiful way mashaallah 🕊
Jazakallahu Kairan ❤
May Allah protect with strong protected for you all and familly ..aameen
Masha Allah amazing lecture
mashallaha mashallaha what a wonderful speach
Thank. You so much mufti menk may allah bless you and your family
Your advices are truly truth
Salaam Aleikhume Brothers & Sisters. Jazak Allah Khair to Mufti Menk for the beautiful reminders & to this channel producers for capturing & sharing so that we may receive Allah's (swa) most merciful blessings of these reminders as beneficial guidance MashAllah may Allah (swa) please continue to guide & bless us all the believers all straight to enter Jannah InshAllah. Love to all of you our beloved Ummah Family. (Yes I am a convert so please my dears please forgive me excuse me if I have made spelling or grammar mistakes)🙏💕😊💕🙏
Salaam , i have told my children that marriage has to sacrifice
my husband is good to me but he cant express nothing to his mother about us
Assalaamalaikum wrwb... Please do try to provide same lectures in urdu language also... Jazak Allah qair...
Allah Bless you for all this wonderful advice it has given us so much advice each time I listen to your lectures it makes me a better person
201573 micky better to learn English bro
It’s not always in-laws who are bad people. But the society has put all in-laws in the bad books. Some in-laws get treated so bad that they are scared to communicate with their daughter in law and live like a prisoner in their own home. Mother In laws were once daughter-in-law too. There are open minded mother in-laws out there who say to their sons to live their life as they wish. As long as they’re happy parents are happy unfortunately Some mother in laws aren’t privileged to get gifts from their sons because the daughter in law doesn’t allow him to spend any money on his mother. No Eid gifts nothing, why waste money on her. Some husbands will do everything to please their wife even degrade their parents but even that’s not enough. The man is suffering too because whatever he does to please his wife, e.g going on holidays regularly and eating out few nights a week,still isn’t enough. She also forgets one day she will become a mother in law which is a reality and history will repeat. A home becomes a lifeless house. It’s a real shame that both sides can’t get on. Life wasn’t meant to be easy it’s a struggle and patience plays a big role so we daughter-in-laws should also try to be patient and tolerant Allah will reward us in the hear after for respecting our in-laws even if they sound bitter or they may be elderly.
Masha Allah
She's clean
MashaAllah SubhanAllah jzk khair shukran wassalam. can anyone tell me the name of the nasheed played at the end please ?jzk
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What if the mother in law doesn't want her daughter in law to stay with her in her house in absence of her son n compels her to stay in other house, also doesn't want any restrictions on her ,She can go where ever she feels like going and the daughter in law has to stay alone .she has no permission to enter the house where her mother in law stays with her other children .(points to be noted here -daughter in law wanted to stay with her husband's family with mutual respect n had no fights n arguments as such with any of the family members ,still mother in law forced n compelled her son to keep his wife n her daughter in law in some other place in his absence n he ,the son i.e. the husband of the girl didn't stop his mother frm taking this ruthless decision) Before marriage the mother in law had promised n given word to the daughter in law 's mother n sister that she will stay with her in her house n with her family n now after marriage she refused to even allow her to enter her house.Also when the daughter in law asked her husband (twice) to give her meher n quran back ,but they are least bothered to return her meher.husband made an excuse saying that he will give in her hand when he comes back. It has been 6months she is staying with her mother n husband is not even bothered to call n ask her about her khairiyat ,To knw whether she's still alive or dead.What do you suggest? should the girl believe in her husband's words who has only deceived her or take some action against them ?
saman kazi why would u even want to stay with ur mother in law . Run as fast as u can .
Salam temanku temanku buat kiayi, pak anda pak tanto, pak Agus pak Solihin. Pak Sugeng , pak Angga, pol angkasa pura suports hummm.
سبحان اللہ
Is there any reason to dislike this video
The mother in law is crazy. I just can't pretend to be nice to someone who is fake.
Ma shaa Allah. Can I get the email id of Mufti? I badly need help from him to solve problem in my married life that too only in few months of marriage. May Allah make it easy for me and everyone. Aameen.
muftimenk.com/contact/
Jazakallah khair.
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Hello im confused..
Is it secret marriage are allowed to MUSLIM OR ISLAM??
why my motherinlaw blaming a lot.
Same thing happens with me also sister
I'm clean
Ddi they alter the pitch of his voice in this?
Duet pol dreiver ,angkasa pura suports, JKT pusat.
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Masha allah
Salam kenal Buton ,Lanto kec, betoamvari kab Buton. Jln Lae laengi nmr nmr 7
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