【电影】我想和你好好的（冯绍峰,倪妮）
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- Опубліковано 3 кві 2019
- 导演：李蔚然 主演: 冯绍峰，倪妮
2006年，某广告公司文案蒋亮亮（冯绍峰 饰）和演员喵喵（倪妮 饰）相会于熙攘喧嚣的北京街头。他搭乘着从富二代车中出来后贸然坐入他车中的喵喵，与对方的兰博基尼相互飙车，看似见义勇为，却也给自己引来不小的麻烦。因工作关系，亮亮与喵喵再度相逢，二人相谈甚欢，别样的情感在彼此心底悄然升起。闹市的莫大孤独感，最终让两人走到一起。他们在北京一角同居，体会着属于两人的微妙幸福感。只是虚妄的幸福过后，裂痕在他们心间产生。亮亮号称对女性有“不主动、不拒绝、不负责”三大原则，而他和包括前女友梅梅等女性之间藕断丝连、暧昧之情也让喵喵心中滋生种种不安。 这条路，他们该如何走下去……
#冯绍峰 #倪妮 #电影 - Фільми й анімація
看了這部片，慶幸當初眼裡只有我一人的女孩，我沒有丟掉，劇中出現的事情，八成都出現過，到現在還好好的在我身邊，也已經結婚了，女生要的不多，只要感情雙向奔赴，就足以❤
我靠 大半夜看完我怎麼睡覺😣...為什麼倪妮演的都是讓人這麼心疼的角色😔
倪妮的演技真是一流啊，看得我好焦慮
最後倒帶一切過去的畫面感覺好扎心...彷彿一切回到原點，就像當初一樣 從來沒有交集...。
女主原本明明不是這樣的一個人，為了愛情漸漸迷失自我，這也是她不想要的...可無奈的是被迫讓愛人搞得自己變得都不自己。
當好不容易建立起來信任的城牆，總是很容易被一點小謊言輕易的推倒...。一次次的不信任造就了一次次的不安全感，日益漸增，導致一點事發生都會產生心裡的害怕，同時也不想重蹈覆轍讓自己矛盾...，最後一發不可收拾...
看了真的心裡很難受，太走心了。
女主離開他百分百正確，看不出亮亮遊甚麼值得女主如此深愛，一個以找各種女子玩性愛為樂的渣男。
@@mcyip2193好看的皮囊、壞壞的玩世不恭的調調。若把男主換作韋東奕，看還會有幾個不能自已。當然，ipo後的韋東奕們，會因為鑽石王老五的身份，反而有了接盤的風險。
說男主渣男，應該言重了。不至於的。
其实只要互相再理解对方一些。迁就一些。。。就能很幸福，其实女孩要的也很简单。男孩要的也很简单，女孩多给一些信任，男孩多给一些安全感。祝大家都能幸福
看完之後好心疼女主角、她的體貼入微是我最心疼的地方、至於男主角的地方不給於評論。
心疼个鸡巴 控制狂谁也受不了
男的欠電來說女的控制？
男的會自制、守份？
我如果是女方家長，估計男的跑不了、吃飯要人餵。
变态的人挺多啊
女孩 好自然 好漂亮唷❤❤❤
I love reading the comment section😊
Anyone like me...?😅
拍鱼美人那段太美了!倪妮这段演得极好!
倪妮的表演如鱼得水！👍👍👍
Good movie. Human relationship and love have become so stressful and complicated in the modern times. Thank you for the clear and readable Eng subtitles.
Im hook with Ni ni's acting and captured her beauty..She's great in acting
看了这部电影好像现实版的自己，之前在抖音看到片段的时候看一次哭一次，而且不能自已，于是决定看一下完整版。过去的点点滴滴突然历历在目，情节相仿，只是主角不同，感受相同，心疼倪妮的同时也在悼念自己卑微的过往！感叹这世界的女人虽然性格不一样但是对于真爱的人都拥有着极度相似的患得患失感。如果说女人要多爱自己一点的话，那是那个人还不够你深爱，记得有一句话：The more you love, the more you hate.受过伤害的人从此就会像刺猬一样的活着。
本以為是爛片，出乎意料的好，男女主角很貼切、生動演譯愛情無法控制的「窒息」，相愛容易，相處難的原因
This is one of the best movies I've seen in a while now.
This movie is pretty good movie, this is my second time watching it ....it talks about relationship and letting go and be confident in yourself and don’t be an insecure person. Always learn how to love yourself first before anyone else can love you. When being in a relationship with a new partner you got to let go of your old partner and focus on your new love. If you don’t focus on your current relationship at the end there will be no relationship.
One of my favorite actors--Feng Shaofeng!
Zhou li ying the husbend
愛情這東西就像太陽底下的一塊冰，怎麼保存都保存不住
太喜欢这个女演员了
若是以前的我..可能已经泪流满面了
现在看完这部片...我能明白那种痛
可是没有眼泪...是经验让人铁了心肠
Bunny DK 我也一点都没哭
我哭慘了 因為處於這樣的感受裡 不知道該怎麼辦
好电影， 喜欢女主演倪妮演的电影，每一部作品都能被她带入。 这部电影我真的很喜欢，刚刚离婚的我，就是电影里女主那样的，怪我爱的太深，爱而不得。 导致很多事情变的扭曲 ，希望大家都能遇到真心相爱，互相理解，互相珍惜的人
lala w 祝你离婚了会得到快乐
Hope things are better after 4 years. Wish you well.
Its so painful for both of them to stay each other because of different personities they have,,, but it even more painful to stay to a relationship where you could hurt each other at a little ways,,
倪妮的颜值和独特的气质，真是会迷上。
床上很主動
她沒有在宸汐緣裏美
谋子的人
能在一起就是幸福的即使是过往，哪怕是瞬间也是上天的礼物
That’s a great movie, just a little crazy girl. Amazing Nini really good actress.
真的是可悲又可笑 像极了爱情最初的模样， 看到最后的倒叙 才发现最初遇见你时候的我的模样是那么漂亮和帅气 有哪种不甩你的眼神，而现在的我是那么颓废无助，。所以啊喜欢再多也不能迷失自己啊
有些爱情是你失去后才会想到珍惜。
当你得到时却承受不了它的。
最爱的人也不一定是最合适的。
现在在一起的也许不是最爱的。
只是偶尔会想起她。
但是绝不会在见面了。
Love really making us crazy.. But true love do is to care, trust, support and respect.. Dont forget to enjoy your relationship with full of love😊😊😊
剧情起伏敲到好处，演员演得特别好，女主的表情好到位。好电影无疑
太年輕時候的愛，大多如此，懵懵懂懂，不知如何去愛，以為佔有就是愛。
那是自私！
The coolest opening ever. Love Ni Ni
She is the moon the sun and the stars.
有一种爱情就是相爱，相杀，在一起痛苦，不在一起也痛苦，等到若干年以后回忆起那个人，那时候的自己得了病，不能以正常的思维去评价
这部电影确切不是感人片，可让我看的哭的稀里哗啦……感触太多。
相当接地气的一部影片，年轻的爱情啊爱情
一部好看的電影，演技精湛，值得推薦
好看，只能說在對的時間遇到的人很重要。
刚开始觉得这片不现实，后来才想到其实是我老了，离年轻的我很远很远，年轻的时候谁不是这样冲动。可现在的我却再难心动。
那就不要动呗，现病戏不需要动。
我也是刚开始谈恋爱，但我不是恋爱脑，所以也无法理解🤣🤣
@@nihoang9285 一個60歲的老婦人 跟你說 所以想就是有這種 強迫 佔有慾的人 你很幸運沒有遇到
男主角要離開她 必須用生命代價
@@lilychen690 我就很害怕被这种占有欲很强的人爱上，真的很累，但他们也真的可怜啊
看似平凡的感情生活 卻是很有深度
好喜歡他們一起哦！❤😢
劇情也是人生會經歷的過程，太年輕😅
Fights 😂❤then I can buy myself flowers 🌸
very nice movie..it shows exactly how suffocating someone's love can be without having any trust because this person is insecure..mostly this insecurity grows by having a partner who is not capable to make you feel loved..as happened in this story..
(the other option is that some lovers get jealous because they are themselves not trustworthy and can not recognize true love and honesty at their partner)
看完感觸很深，十年前我也曾那樣過，就是女主的翻版，最後支撐我好好生活下來的卻是我逞強生下來的女兒，回想起來那時候真傻...
傻
其實無法被控制的人大部分都是玩心未減，劇中女主只求安定生活，而男主卻是還想玩下去，一個接一個！
控制會因爲愛而變成一種甜蜜的負擔
只有永远失去了，才会想起原来那渗透进你生活的点点滴滴也是一种幸福....
Don't know but I can totally feel her overwhelming pain and her love for him who he totally took granted..
❤❤
WoW this is our lovely fairy 🧚♂️ Ling Xi ?? Ni Ni is such a great actress!!!
故事的刚开始喵喵也是个优秀 勇敢 不回头看的人 对开豪车的追求者不屑一顾，她漂亮有趣可在故事的结尾他却变成了一个偏执狂 她想确定是自己的直觉是对的 想找到亮亮出轨的蛛丝马迹 却又不想和他分开。几年前看这部片子很同情男主会有这样的女朋友 而现在经历过感情才知道 如果你身边的人一直都是像最初那样疼爱你的话 你是不会胡思乱想的。
女主需要的爱情是把时间和精力都给对方，而男主是希望爱的同时，又有对方的空间。这种观念冲突是不会有结果的。女主只需要爱情，但男主还需要生活。男主固然有错，其实男主也并没有太多过失，情有可原。也可以说是被女主逼出来的。女主的心情和做法也并不算过分。男女之间，只是看对方是什么样子的人了。如果女主放纵男主，不那么担惊受怕，其实会有一个好的结局。但如果女主不嘟嘟逼人的爱，可能生活也少了份味道。
Present
@@chuanxiao6148 不敢苟同你的说法，可能你的世界观里男主的做法是正确的吧。空间可以留给对方，但前提是你们同居你还要在背后偷偷摸摸，选择了就坦诚些，男主女主都不去沟通交流所以才会这样，如果你给女人足够安全感，我相信没有一个女人闲的去做监视人的事情
I see myself to her. She loves the guy so much. But so much love will kill the relationship. If the two of them really in love then trust and respect are in between.
i dont mean to disagree but yes..she loves him but shes also scared...she cant give her trust competely...how can you love without trust...i guess one must to gamble...i remember when the guy said...lets have a child...if you re a man..and you asked your girl to have his child..what comes first to your mind?..as for me...an answer to that question...as a man..i want to have a family...a home i can call my own...dont you think?
In my opinion this got nothing to do with love..this is all about being insecure and the need to control everything, instead of to admit it..without understanding this will drive the other person away from you, so the biggest fear to come true..
故事不错，演员们拍得非常入味，的确反映的是现实生活中的真实写照，希望此片能敲醒剧外的你我她，对身边的人好一点吧！
Thank you so much for the upload and the subtitles in English.
很喜欢这个电影，这个故事告诉我们，爱人之间除了爱情，更要彼此信任，宽容，留给彼此空间，否则一味光想着掌控和占有对方，就会伤害彼此，最终葬送这段感情。剧本构思的好，男女主演的真实自然。
zhang grace 所以，现实生活中两人念爱了，又分手了💔！
謝謝你的恩典。這是事實。我有同樣的經歷
原来冯绍峰演技这么好。但是现在看他的命运却不怎么样。
@@lisa-yg7xwwhat happened? Read up on his bio and said he divorced but that’s all I read into.
女生太没自信了，令人窒息的爱，注定两败俱伤
那个男的也有问题，比如和前任藕断丝连之类的。
I just remember something with this movie. That no matter how u stay and work for your relationship, if you're not meant to be to each other, it will never be.
Yes indeed
No money, no honey!
I really loved this movie!!! Such a beautiful movie.acting and plot was on point.❤
Scary to have a relationship with a very possessive and obsessive partner! A very good movie.. 👍 🧡🧡🧡
As long as she don't cheat on me ... I would actually be fine with that
nop...samtayms it pils gud...ip yu olso lab dat samwan..dat s onli may opinyon.
电影看完了…… 男女主两个人谈不上谁有错 但是作为男人我想说 这个世界真正对你好 对你爱的人 一定要珍惜，不是谁都有的、那是幸福！ 换做是我会珍惜这个女孩！ 有幸的是我做到了！😊
This movie depicts reality about the ups and downs in relationships! Every relationship needs some space or else it won't work !
😂lies 🎉drama out
But having kids isn’t a good idea
At first place they were totally unknown. They meet again and love each other. But their love made them cry, fear, scare. And their scary love make them as unknown as where they were at the first place .
such a roller coaster :(
心痛...久久不能自已...忆起...黯然神伤……往事过眼云烟...
心好痛，曾經的我也做過類似的事，總是要失去後才知道珍惜！真的好痛
愛得很深深到只會傷害自己不會傷害你，但是被愛的人真的會很害怕好比驚弓之鳥
这是一段每个年轻人既向往又害怕的爱情
没有一场轰轰烈烈的爱情能叫人生吗？
GREAT MOVIE ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️Fact of life 🌵 sometime love drive us crazy🐞
That was not love that's obsession and she needs therapy
发人深思的一部电影，越深刻的爱越令人窒息，相爱相杀，互相折磨，爱情真的是一门高深的学问
You are a great producers.this love is made me a cry
愛情這東西跟鬼一樣，相信的人多，見到的少
爱只是化学式，学会了，把握好了。成份配比都有，那就常在长有。
你这个总结非常精辟
@@cironbt 学会爱情保鲜
他俩挺配的
真实的爱情故事，感人。这老婆我要了
She is an Actress, actually she is the director and she enjoys and feel high with all happiness and sadness .
很有感触，仿佛好像看到过去的自己，幼稚不成熟，错过了对我很好的男生。成长是需要代价的
很理解女主，不是真的想控制，只是男主因为前女友给女主造成了伤害，那种伤害成就极度的不安全感。女主也很累，也不想控制他，只是太爱他，日积月累的伤害使女主总想确认他是不是真的听从她，爱她，这种控制对女主本身就是伤害，而且越积越深
Thanks to this film.. Ive relized how much mistakes ive made in my life . I remember how I treat the people who loved me purely. Regrets after regrets, but at the same time, I am happy I won't be making another mistake again. And I promise to treat a girl how she deserves to be treated, with and respect.. Respect all women guys.. In the end, They are the one who gave birth to us.. And I also realised women have more love than men..
Its really painful sometimes when ur in love with someone who doesn't really recognizes ur effort. Or should I say doesnt really know the meaning of true love.
Maybe because that' person is really not meant for you
看這部電影彷彿回到了以前
This movie make me cry,She love d guy so much.if u really love d person u must face all d consequences being in a relationship....ako yung nasasaktan para sa girl lalo na yung pinagsabihan siya ng d magandang salita....
I enjoy the movie but sad ending ...love from Nepal🇳🇵❣️
又来回顾了，每一阶段看都是不同的感受...以前我认为喵喵很恐怖只想控制蒋亮亮。但现在经过一段感情之后，才发现蒋亮亮其实是不值得被深爱的。
对！比起心爱，心安更重要
的确，但是也不能每次拿自己生命开玩笑啊
并不是想控制他，只是他没能给她基本的信任，男方的爱不够深，他不值得被她爱
不是不爱，还是年轻，不想被约束，等成熟了会怀念过去
真的。。。最怕的就是你深爱她，却无法信任她。。。
It was my first Chinese film, and I'm surprised how good it was, celebrate me on discovering Chinese cinematography ❤
Thanks for your like💕
Congratulations
@@irenereveluvs8872 `(*∩_∩*)′
You should explore their drama...They are so good.. Especially Rise of Phoenix and Ashes of love..
Watch the same actress Ni Ni star in it again Suddenly seventeen ,Chinese bride wars and u be amazed by her acting,the flowers of war
好有感触的片子，倪妮演的真好，好多情景都似曾相识……自己也曾经那么的爱过恨过
有一個如此癡狂愛著你的女孩,其實是很幸運的事。
我也曾經有過,但我已遺失了她...
看這片讓我好有感觸,當時的我像他.當時的她像她，可惜都回不去了
再来一次，也是一样。除非经历过～～
This drama is depicting what a love addiction is about! Just like drug you can not stop! A distraction of Life!
Resulting from an abandonement during childhood! Some people survived from rejection, some people don't! Counseling in the early stage can! May God bless them with complete healing!!!
在女主身上看到自己过去的影子---那种放下一切的去爱一个人，祈求一个人，卑微到极致.....
只想给各位说一句：爱人先爱己
但不是這樣的監控對方 讓對方一點呼吸都沒有吧
我怎麼就遇不到這樣的女孩？
@@leebeet5989 是男生明明恋爱了还是和其他女生不清不楚 导致女生本来就没有安全感的性格更极端
这种女的男人都会害怕。好的爱情是彼此滋养，互相成长
@@wushmarst 因为她在屏幕里
年輕時，會害怕遇到，這樣的女朋友
長大後，才發現，身邊應該要有，這樣的一個女生，無時無刻，都把自己放在第一位
失去後才明白她的愛
曾经的我也是这样，后来放手了，突然觉得世界好大，珍惜自己
是的，我是就是那个男的一模一样，
语气摔门！相貌性格！就拍的我吧！服了
@@guzha 相貌性格也一摸一样？我合理怀疑你在夸奖自己！哈哈
说得好 突然觉得世界好大 珍惜自己 这个感觉很棒。很多人也都是这样长大的，其实就是遇到的男孩不够耐心不够诚恳，当遇到好的人的时候，大家都会一起长大一起变好的。感情结束一定是两个人都会有问题~并不都是一个人的错。
@@latte1694 哈哈～长得还可以吧，别人说我是帅哥，可我自己觉得不是！不过看那些明星帅哥也感觉帅不到那儿去，哈哈
@@guzha 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈既然长得帅 就不要跟男主一样的脾气了！会错过好女孩！
演得真好，才会感触良多
很喜欢这部电影，大多都是这样爱情吧，女孩子，对爱投入要死要活的，很教育人，
Sophia Wang 结局我不喜欢，可是，男人的心更脆弱，男人全身心投入，比女人更可怕！
Their relationship was the same as how they met. Intense and powerful. He accepted her and her challenges. The karaoke, the implied building jump. She could not accept that he was a player. He showed himself clearly in the beginning. She was crazy in trying to cage his free spirit which is what brought them together
Good comments :) It is exactly what I think. And I always believe the reason that makes lovers apart should be the problems of the both. The girl was too extreme and the boy was not letting her feel better. They were both loving each other and keep doing the wrong things on each other.
Don’t think this guy is a player
@@Rachel-ou5sv He´s totally a player, even with her at his side, he was always looking at other girls, he said he wanted to be free. Both of them were wrong, she was in need of psicology help and he need to be more mature.
這樣的愛
太讓人窒息了
覺得女生愛到沒有自我
好不容易有的機會 居然這樣就不演了
應該要有自己的生活重心
也應該要有隨時準備要走的決心
看到曾經的我 覺得心疼也覺得可憐
自此之後 我知道 安全感 自己給~
這部戲後面就不是愛了 變成負擔
已經變成是一段不健全.生病的愛情了
沒辦法互相信任.神經質.兩人每天都不快樂.真的很痛苦 每天提心吊膽的
連一句話都覺得沒辦法溝通 一開口就不耐煩想吵架
很可怕
女方条件这么好，为什么要这么卑微，不自信，只觉得她太二，爱的那么深，那个男的不配拥有她
願每個女孩都能找到帶給你安全感的男孩
This made me realize that when you love, you dont need to give it all. Have something left for yourself.💕💘💞
100% true
5% for love
95% for yourself lol 😁
exactly
Just Love yourself first than others
Sometime you'll never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory,,, :(
so true
把悲历留给自己吧，自食其果，自作自受川
好故事好演员！！
thank you for reminding me to stay single. This is exactly like me and my ex.
So you learned that " Single is simple. double is trouble" . （PS：Tringle is terrible）
Guys... listen to me ... i did the exact same things the girl was doing to my boyfriend.. i was jealous and possessive...... please dont do it .. nothing comes out of it,.... heartbreak and pain.... its been 6 years but i still cant get over him ...the love is toxic, it will consume you..... he has a girlfriend now and he is happy, so i am happy for him......... but the pain is endless..... love yourself first, have high self esteem, respect yourself, find a passion in life, cherish every moment, don't base your happiness on someone else........
Krita Dus we all make mistakes and we should learn from them, and we shouldn't blame it on ourselves, we should evolve from them. You have your reasons to be that way to your boyfriend, and it just shows that he wasn't for you. I'm sure there is someone out there for you, but don't keep on building a wall from love. Love may be toxic, and it does consume you, but it isn't love if there aren't hardships. Love is all about hardships, love isn't always about being happy, but it's about going through fights and hatred but always staying by that persons side on matter what, that's because you love that person that much. No matter how many fights you have, love is where you will stay there for them, staying there not to consistently fight, but to work on your relationship. Krista Dus you seem like a good person, but don't mourn because it ended, be happy that it happened.
@@lulubear5046 That is so beautiful... "be happy that it happened"......... i agree with you .... but this is Kaliyuga and after all love is just a game....if you lose, you will get hurt...... I have no problem with hardships for the person i love as long as he does the same..... The kind of people we attract depends on the kind of person we are...... and yes, i promise i will do better with life, thank you for your kind words, i wish you all the love in the world....Om !!!!!!
You are so right. I wish I could have seen your words before.
爱一个人别失去了自我
应该是性格缺陷！
Oh my ...my Feng shaofeng i love him very much ❤️❤️❤️
沒有安全感！太愛了⋯⋯
So real.. This film made me realize that relationship isn't always happy moments. Knowing the faxt that you two are different individuals. Trust and freedom goes together. Too much love can kill all relationships. No matter how sweet it started, still everything that's too much is not good. This made me scared of commitment... Though am already is loving someone but I'm getting more scared to commit because of this reality.
“Relationships - of all kinds - are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.”
- Kaleel Jamison -
很有感触的一部电影，或许有些人无法理解这一种的感情，但我能体会到男女主角的心情。只能说他们都在不成熟，不自信的情况下，遇到了爱。虽然没女主角般严重，但我也曾经如此，爱着对方，同时对自己没有自信，更不懂得如何维持这段感情，因为害怕失去，所以更加占有欲地控制着，害怕着会不会就一个不小心失去了他。
而现在的我，突然怀念起当时的我，因为她，我如此疯狂过 。因为有她，我成长了。
爱情信任真的很重要，爱不爱其实可以感觉得到的，每个人都有自己的空间和朋友圈。
說得好
那只能说你认为爱你的那个并没爱你。你对爱的标准太低。一个男的爱不爱自己，自己有没有飘起来，自己还没感觉吗？
没有一个标准可以来形容爱情。每个人的感觉也不一样，没人一开始就懂得爱情，都会经历了不一样的事情，才学会成长，学会经营，更没人可以100%的了解对方的感觉，这一切都需要信任，相处，了解，沟通。别把事情看得太简单，也别把事情看得太自我，试着了解不一样的人便有不一样的思想。这是我学到的同理心。
@@princesstan284 喜欢就一起，不喜欢就分开。还需要多复杂吗？那注定得不到简单的幸福。
不健康的爱情生活，便是互相折磨。
天下本无事，庸人自扰之。那有什么对错，只是找到合适的方式方法。非常好的电影，娱乐的时候，应该学到一些东西。谢谢分享！加油加油