21 things i learned at 21 (graduating college and becoming an adult)

another year, another life lessons video!
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0:00 intro
0:14 1. "your best qualities are your worst qualities."
0:33 2. don't dull your personality because of or for other people.
1:09 3. becoming an adult is so weird and there are so many changes.
2:07 4. how temporary things in life are.
2:52 5. "if you're avoiding life, showing up to anything, that's a sign that you're not meant to be there."
3:19 6. understanding people that think differently than me.
3:54 7. "i believe in love because of the way i love."
4:21 8. "when you find someone you want to keep around, you do something about it."
4:49 9. so much can change in a year.
5:07 10. pick who you spend your energy on more wisely.
5:21 11. there isn't time for EVERYONE/EVERYTHING.
5:41 12. prioritize friendships that you align with at the moment.
6:04 13. my gut instincts were not always right about people.
6:19 14. some things people have to learn/accept on their own.
6:36 15. social stuff multiplies exponentially.
6:57 16. assume you're wanted at social things. your presence is a gift.
7:18 17. others aren't doing better than you even if it appears that way.
7:37 18. "you are too concerned with what was and what will be."
7:52 19. "don't wait until the conditions are perfect to begin. beginning makes the conditions perfect."
8:01 20. be proactive with taking care of your body.
8:03 21. don't drive when you're emotional/distracted.
8:09 outro
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[@TimeTraveler65]

Very thoughtful advice! This past year I also got to learn most of these things and have started viewing the world differently.

[@MsAlison]

wow, that's great to hear, noah! we're on similar paths it seems!

[@cassandranguyen2352]

omg my favorite time of the year (alison's annual birthday video)

[@MsAlison]

hehe i miSs you