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Dont say Nonsense the place you dont beleong to, the place you dont know about. Jee has given the best Engineers, Neet has made the best doctors . Do Respect that, Beside that the video is really good.
- introvertism is a sedative misconception: “I guess this is who I am” - inherent introverts and acquired introverts: people who socialise poorly socialise poorly - introverts and being good at communicating are not correlated at all - social game is about intensity (more impactful) (with which and of which you communicate) not energy. - energy needs words, intensity doesn’t (it works by body language and emotion) - extroverts win by making their impact area larger by saying more - mistake of first interaction is not my first impression, is there no second interaction, don't be fixated on fucking up or doing smth wrong - a good adage is focus on expressing not impressing cause that’s what is worth remembering about anyone, be comfortable with talking about what you are like and what you like to talk about - how you express things in language becomes how reality is then mapped - articulation is fixing the puzzle with words - social map is how you understand the matrix of social reality: the grid that creates social reality: understand the landscape: what is it that does what - people primarily operate on emotion and body language - people don't care if they get what you are saying, they care if they feel they get it - body taking space, eyes being purposeful, for smile to be radiant: words are a wrapper on top - communicating key emotions: happiness: step in the way you walk, a smile, a levity in the way of your behavior safety: make them feel comfortable with your insecurity: be non judgemental of yours and they will feel comfortable with their insecurities supportive: the general lack of support that people have in an everyday basis: bro I know you: “you got this” fun: that up and down, that playfulness, that humour - what are people’s propensity’s what is it that people actually like: people like when they get to talk about themselves for a long time, people like you when they spend time with you (people only review conversations or incidents I free time when they can build a story around that), movement equates to psychological time, if people feel understood (soften what they are tensed about), if you tell something that opens their mind (ask meaningful questions), people who stand in a non confirmist way or who stand apart in their own way since a liberty emotion or that of freedom is passed along (be driven and convinced about it if their is a difference about you in public (not drinking)) - conviction behind what you do (be convinced of your opinion) - being free of social stupidity: if I met you for the first time, I have to be politically correct or some opinions that we must not say, express being not tied to things but not radically - non neediness: if you are fine in yourself, something like Vihaan, - authenticity: how comfortable are you with who you are, own up to it, confident, be certain (since people confuse certainty for clarity) - passion: try speaking about this, - exoticise whatever outside you are coming from: something so cool and unattainable for the new person who has never been to that outside
Introversion is good if you have few close friends (2-3 max) Otherwise struggle is for those with 0 friends like me. I don't even feel bad for it anymore. Advice in this video is gold. Prakhar is best
Make effort to make friends you can't just stay by yourself and say you are introverted lol introverts do have friends they can be good in social skills as he said.
I will prefer to make efforts to make friends even if they're someone who doesn't have the same goals as yours. Don't be a people pleaser another thing
@@shivanshshukla5883 intoversion for introverts is more like a phase of life. They can change to a great extent if they just get out of their zone and try to reach another depths
@@rahul-rz5ujI still have made only one good friend but maintaining that friendship requires lot of fights, resourcefulness is important, and then bakchodi sab kuch hona chahiye and friendship requires lot of give and takes ek quality honi chahiye tumhare paas atleast jisse dusra Banda tumhara saath time spend karega. Ek acha dost banane ke liye 2 mahine same cheeze pe kaam Kiya tha saath mai ne toh atleast uske baad bahut effort laga. No same hobbies no same goals friendship is a must for introverts or extroverts both.
W for long detailed video. Lets Go. Keep making such long videos on more topics . Video suggestion : "Masculinity Guide for Those Without a Father Figure"
Only if you have meaningful things to say, articulation /vocab will come handy. This person is selling you English instead of whatever his titles claim to sell and people are still falling for it. Sad
My god, what a video I can't explain how much I needed it in my past interactions with people, learned my mistakes which were actually not my mistakes it was just me not trying hard enough. Just thankful from the bottom of my heart for these videos.
thank you so much Prakhar bhai, I am one of those people that was shy but have improved a lottt after watching your content and putting efforts and taking the harder choice to interact with people, but still I feel (from what I understand) that I lie more on the introverted side, such detailed content is of immense value to people like me, keep such bomb long form content coming, only ❤ & support for you
The part about you still feeling you're an introvert, I think that's expected. Prakhar said there can be 2 types of introverts: one by nature, and one who acquired it. Tbh, I think in most people there's usually a combination of the 2 in varying degree. We usually have some predisposition towards one side (introvert or extrovert) and then on top of that our life experiences solidify our personality. And I do feel that the natural predisposition is quite difficult to remove, and honestly it's useless to even try to remove it, since that's just the way we naturally are.
Why did not I watched this video earlier, it was like you said everything I wanted to hear. When you sai "You don't need to be liked by every person or talk everytime you see someone", I just felt very light, even though I am very fat. Thankyou brother, this help of yours will definitely increase the quality of my life.
It's actually so much relatable to many of the situation I faced up till now. It's like I got then answers to many questions I had up till now. Great content, truly appreciate it.
That thing that you said " Once I get comfortable it's easy for me to be myself" that's 200% true and thanks for that tip of being more comfortable in first interaction.
Finally, first time I feel proud to be an introvert. Honestly, for me reprogramming maybe the only useful thing to ponder upon right now (gem) All material after that, is what we learn in bits here and there (it's valuable for sure) I don't know how many serious hours of journaling, therapy, exploring would have taken me to dig up all those misguided beliefs Thanks so much Prakhar ❤❤ Love You (Btw i already have bought your AOC Course I feel This Video, should be the Introduction right before the course beginning)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🎙️ Intro and Purpose of Video* - A comprehensive guide for introverts on navigating social interactions confidently. - Aimed at self-identified introverts or those struggling with social interaction. - Encouragement for viewers to watch the entire video for valuable insights and practical advice. 02:51 *🤔 Understanding Introversion* - Clarification of the clinical definition of introversion. - Discussion on inherent vs. acquired introversion. - Addressing common misconceptions and societal narratives about introversion. 09:31 *💡 Reprogramming Introverted Mindsets* - Dispelling the notion that introverts are inherently bad at socializing. - Explaining the "poor man's mindset" and its impact on social perception. - Discussing the reinforcement cycle and its role in shaping self-perception. 14:03 *🗣️ The Role of Intensity in Social Interactions* - Differentiating between energy and intensity in communication. - Debunking myths around social dominance and conversational engagement. - Emphasizing the importance of impactful communication over mere verbosity. 21:02 *🌲 Fixation on Mistakes and First Impressions* - Introverts often fixate on mistakes and fear making the wrong first impression. - The conflation of the first mistake with the first impression leads to avoidance of social interactions. - Childhood experiences contribute to the fixation on first impressions and conformity. 24:20 *📊 Law of Small Numbers and Social Interaction* - Introverts often operate with a small sample size of social interactions, leading to skewed perceptions. - Extroverts benefit from interacting with larger numbers of people and focusing on expression over impression. - Increasing the sample size of interactions can lead to more positive outcomes for introverts. 26:27 *🛋️ Comfort and Introversion* - The comfort level in social interactions is crucial for introverts' ability to express themselves. - Focusing on techniques and social mapping helps introverts reach a state of comfort more quickly. - Comfort is key to distinguishing between inherent, acquired, clinical, and colloquial introversion. 28:20 *🗺️ Understanding the Social Map* - Articulation shapes perception, creating a social map that influences social reality. - Emotion and body language play a significant role in communication, often outweighing verbal expression. - Expressing happiness, creating a sense of safety, providing support, and fostering fun are essential in social interactions. 34:10 *🤹♂️ Key Emotions in Social Interaction* - Happiness, safety, support, and fun are crucial emotions to convey in social interactions. - Communicating emotions effectively can overshadow verbal communication. - Fun serves as a powerful emotional pull and enhances the overall interaction experience. 41:41 *🗣️ People like people who hear them talk* - People enjoy conversations about themselves. - Active listening and allowing others to talk fosters likability. - Spending time listening to someone can lead them to like you more. 42:23 *🕰️ Spending time together builds rapport* - The amount of time spent with someone influences how much they like you. - Longer durations of time spent together lead to increased fondness. - Psychological time can be manipulated through movement and activity. 44:58 *💡 Understanding others fosters connection* - Empathy and understanding make others feel valued and appreciated. - Sensing and addressing someone's insecurities can deepen the bond. - Softening sensitive topics for others enhances their perception of you. 46:35 *🧠 Opening minds through novel insights* - Introducing new perspectives can change how someone views themselves and the world. - Sharing information that challenges beliefs or preconceptions fosters admiration. - Skillful communication can lead to profound shifts in perception. 48:13 *🌟 Standing apart garners admiration* - Non-conformity and authenticity attract attention and admiration. - Expressing uniqueness and individuality sets you apart from the crowd. - Confidence in owning one's differences can be magnetic to others. 50:10 *🚀 Traits that serve as social "cheat codes"* - Certain traits, like conviction and liberation from social norms, significantly enhance likability. - Non-neediness and authenticity are key components of social attractiveness. - Confidence, certainty, and passion are powerful attributes in social interactions. 54:13 *🚫 Overcoming obstacles as an introvert* - Fear of rejection is a common obstacle in social interactions. - Confronting and overcoming the fear of rejection can lead to personal growth. - Transforming fear into a superpower can enhance social confidence and effectiveness. 01:02:03 *🏙️ Overcoming the Feeling of Being an Outsider* - Embrace the outsider status and exoticize your background. - Own your circumstances and be proud of your unique experiences. - Use your outsider perspective as an advantage to share intriguing stories and perspectives. 01:05:16 *🤔 Overcoming the Fear of Making a Wrong First Impression* - View the fear of making the wrong impression as a pre-selection mechanism. - Embrace your true self and attract those who genuinely resonate with you. - Accept rejections as part of the process of finding genuine connections. 01:06:41 *🤝 Assuming Comfort in Initial Interactions* - Gradually increase your comfort level in first meetings. - Assume comfort in initial interactions to accelerate intimacy. - Be bold in signaling comfort while maintaining appropriateness. 01:07:51 *🌟 Leveraging Strengths as an Introvert* - Emphasize substance over verbosity in communication. - Communicate effectively through body language and eye contact. - Maintain a sense of mystery to intrigue others and create interest. 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Make something for Indians to feel comfortable in America. I know you have mentioned a couple of things about having a certain mindset but if you make a dedicated video about how to completely get rid of the inferiority complex then I think it well help many watching your videos Edit: Also a question: Are you yourself completely free of the inferiority complex or not?
The Map Intensity not energy. Dissimilarity not similarity. Stellar not dominant. Expressing not impressing. Work your strength. Big sample size less try hard. People PRIMARILY operate on emotions and body language. Not being judgemental to your insecurity and that enables them to not be judgemental with theirs. Tell them they are supported. People love talking about themselves, and they'll love you for listening. If you can ease their discomfort by predicting it from their body language. If you opens their mind, make them think, not easy. If you have a flavour of non conformity, authenticity, it allows them to be authentic and that's what they've been looking for all their lives CHEAT CODES: CONVICTION, degree to which you are convinced of what you're saying. BEING FREE OF SOCIAL STUPIDITY, everyone recognises it and accept regardless how they feel about it. If you are beyond it, it's a breath of fresh air, communicates that you're liberated FREE OF NEEDINESS, what neediness looks like is, like me like me, leans too close, cares too much that you like them, impressing not expressing, lack of conviction and end statements with the tonality of a question, and it's communicated in their body language. IF YOU NEED NOTHING FROM A PERSON, they like you so much more, if you are very intense very direct and speak in very few words, carry certainty in their words and actions. CERTAINTY, in a world drowning in uncertainty about the future, if you are sure of what you're communicating it is communicated as you being clear about the future, that you know your shit. People confuse CERTAINTY for CLARITY, and very easily so. It comes from, Purposeful eyes, Passion, your investment into niches that you really care about. OBSTACLES: FEAR OF REJECTION, if you're okay with rejection, the possibilities for you are virtually infinite, IT SUCKS no question about it, but if you're able to transcend it, it's a superpower. FEELING LIKE AN OUTSIDER, exoticize the OUTSIDE, one of the simplest thing, you already have something they don't and probably never will, all is left for you to do is own it. Use what you've got and make it flowery FEAR OF MAKING THE FIRST WRONG IMPRESSION, people that are supposed to like you will like you regardless of your mistakes, it's a pre-selection thing. If you show your true self bones and all, people that won't like you were not meant for you in the first place so you're not actually loosing something but filtering out what's not for you. Bad strategy to PRETEND with someone you want to date, cuz then you attract the wrong kind of people for the pretend version of you, who'll punish you every time to try to be true so you stick to the pretend. Take those rejections but find the right person. SUTRAS: COMFORT LEVEL, assuming comfort carefully with conviction where it's not there, people play along. If you can manage to be just a lil more invasive that signals comfort you become more comfortable exponentially faster with each meet. USE YOUR STRENGTH, if you want to speak less, speak less with intensity, be impactful with your words, use the impact and intensity instead of energy, don't play to your weakness. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BODY AND EYES, if your head is free of the nonsense programming you'll automatically communicate that in your body, you don't have to consciously think about it. MYSTERY, reveal yourself in degrees of mystery, it's works way better than the extrovert way of putting everything on the table too soon. This doesn't cover the whole video but only the things I found useful for myself. For The Technique, check out art of conversation.
Bro a Part 2 of Indians moving abroad and how to define the exact game to conquer , a video on that would be much appreciated , i mean i ll watch it and im sure alot of your audience will move abroad at some point so you got demand too , cz i also think your ideas on this topic must have matured too since your last video.
What u said is true yar, i also used to thought that I'm introvert and then i also thought it depends on person, now I'm thinking I'm kind of ambivert😂, that fear is true when I was preparing for competitive exams i thought i couldn't make it but after 3 years shit this is so easy, then i understand it's the fear my parents and people in our circle created in my head, my parents always say u buying books u study these? they'll just create that self doubt fear bcoz of that I didn't buy courses or books, then when i test and read i feel like books r so good, even self help books, I'll buy those i want to and i feel so connected❤
You spoke about Offering all our acts as an offering to god in the previous stream it is a fundamental teaching of sri Aurobindo's as well prakhar would reccomend reading sri Aurobindo's essays on the gita
I have a Strong Superiority complex and often don't speak to people my age since they usually talk about stuff Far from my domain and interest, BUT now Whenever I Get a chance to Speak to people High on the value chain on me I am certainly weak On building Good rapports Hence never would Make a great Connection to anyone....
You can't be fearless. Being fearless is stupid... Fear is a survival instinct. And yes if you wanna get rid of fear of getting beaten up is get beaten up. Ykwim? Walk towards your fear #sheracadmy Be a sher
Prakhar bhai vocabulary is too hard😅 but the content is amazing, really whenever i listen your content my mind is like , uff dimag ghum jata h pura, a huge knowledge of everything keep it up brother.
1)how neccessary is be in relationship? 2)why is this need of being in relationship? 3)what are factors we must see before starting relationships into next person. 4)what are differences between "opp. gender wala" relationships and other relationships like friends, colleagues and what ever relationships we make in our life. 5)me❤prakhar is this virtual relationship? 😂😂😂😂 Note:- Any one can answer.
1) Subjective(Depends on your current situation) 2)Support system (Mainly emotional & Sexual) 3) Again Subjective 4) Friendship is for Adventure and emotional support only 5)Funny
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Just purchased AOC last week. Haha
Just signed up for Ultimate Value Bundle, will go thru in June due to examination ❤🤝
Dont say Nonsense the place you dont beleong to, the place you dont know about. Jee has given the best Engineers, Neet has made the best doctors . Do Respect that, Beside that the video is really good.
@@AmitSinghIITH read the recent news maybe you'll change your mind too
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10 mins in the video and I already know its top notch content! My man Prakhar never fails to amaze me.
Your man 😏😏
- introvertism is a sedative misconception: “I guess this is who I am”
- inherent introverts and acquired introverts: people who socialise poorly socialise poorly
- introverts and being good at communicating are not correlated at all
- social game is about intensity (more impactful) (with which and of which you communicate) not energy.
- energy needs words, intensity doesn’t (it works by body language and emotion)
- extroverts win by making their impact area larger by saying more
- mistake of first interaction is not my first impression, is there no second interaction, don't be fixated on fucking up or doing smth wrong
- a good adage is focus on expressing not impressing cause that’s what is worth remembering about anyone, be comfortable with talking about what you are like and what you like to talk about
- how you express things in language becomes how reality is then mapped
- articulation is fixing the puzzle with words
- social map is how you understand the matrix of social reality: the grid that creates social reality: understand the landscape: what is it that does what
- people primarily operate on emotion and body language
- people don't care if they get what you are saying, they care if they feel they get it
- body taking space, eyes being purposeful, for smile to be radiant: words are a wrapper on top
- communicating key emotions:
happiness: step in the way you walk, a smile, a levity in the way of your behavior
safety: make them feel comfortable with your insecurity: be non judgemental of yours and they will feel comfortable with their insecurities
supportive: the general lack of support that people have in an everyday basis: bro I know you: “you got this”
fun: that up and down, that playfulness, that humour
- what are people’s propensity’s what is it that people actually like: people like when they get to talk about themselves for a long time, people like you when they spend time with you (people only review conversations or incidents I free time when they can build a story around that), movement equates to psychological time, if people feel understood (soften what they are tensed about), if you tell something that opens their mind (ask meaningful questions), people who stand in a non confirmist way or who stand apart in their own way since a liberty emotion or that of freedom is passed along (be driven and convinced about it if their is a difference about you in public (not drinking))
- conviction behind what you do (be convinced of your opinion)
- being free of social stupidity: if I met you for the first time, I have to be politically correct or some opinions that we must not say, express being not tied to things but not radically
- non neediness: if you are fine in yourself, something like Vihaan,
- authenticity: how comfortable are you with who you are, own up to it, confident, be certain (since people confuse certainty for clarity)
- passion: try speaking about this,
- exoticise whatever outside you are coming from: something so cool and unattainable for the new person who has never been to that outside
bhai yrr tere thumbnail ne nostalgia de diya
Bro ...on the psycho level also 😮
Changed
Introversion is good if you have few close friends (2-3 max)
Otherwise struggle is for those with 0 friends like me. I don't even feel bad for it anymore.
Advice in this video is gold. Prakhar is best
Make effort to make friends you can't just stay by yourself and say you are introverted lol introverts do have friends they can be good in social skills as he said.
I will prefer to make efforts to make friends even if they're someone who doesn't have the same goals as yours. Don't be a people pleaser another thing
@@shivanshshukla5883 intoversion for introverts is more like a phase of life. They can change to a great extent if they just get out of their zone and try to reach another depths
@@rahul-rz5ujI still have made only one good friend but maintaining that friendship requires lot of fights, resourcefulness is important, and then bakchodi sab kuch hona chahiye and friendship requires lot of give and takes ek quality honi chahiye tumhare paas atleast jisse dusra Banda tumhara saath time spend karega.
Ek acha dost banane ke liye 2 mahine same cheeze pe kaam Kiya tha saath mai ne toh atleast uske baad bahut effort laga. No same hobbies no same goals friendship is a must for introverts or extroverts both.
@@shivanshshukla5883 friendship is not must.
Close relationships are must friendship is more of choice thing
W for long detailed video. Lets Go. Keep making such long videos on more topics .
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Yes yes we need it
DO YOU WANT THIS GUYS?
Yes we need
@@PrakharkePravachan yes yes we need it
Yes
Thank you for not making this video members only.
These are genuinely very helpful
Bro keep running the channel like olds days ❤ Long and Raw Content !
this video feels like in depth version of HOW TO CHARM PEOPLE ( 4 rules ). Great video as usual. have to say I'm liking these in depth long videos.
28 mins in the video and would like to say, Damn! Prakhar never disappoints with his content.
Never ever...😮..
Baba apne vachan k pakke hai
Year goal :- have vocabulary as good as baba Prakhar.
Multi year*😊
Na bhai. Vocabulary to bahuto ki theek hoti hai, articulation is superior to vocabulary
@@Sol-ck3tp agreed
More like articulation brother
Only if you have meaningful things to say, articulation /vocab will come handy. This person is selling you English instead of whatever his titles claim to sell and people are still falling for it. Sad
My god, what a video I can't explain how much I needed it in my past interactions with people, learned my mistakes which were actually not my mistakes it was just me not trying hard enough. Just thankful from the bottom of my heart for these videos.
I am not an introvert...i am just uncomfortable with my self...which i will work on...thanks prakhar
Hey Prakhar, I really appreciate what you're doing. Keep up man. Let's go sher gang. Let's gooo!!
thank you so much Prakhar bhai, I am one of those people that was shy but have improved a lottt after watching your content and putting efforts and taking the harder choice to interact with people, but still I feel (from what I understand) that I lie more on the introverted side, such detailed content is of immense value to people like me, keep such bomb long form content coming, only ❤ & support for you
Was
@@DhruvGuptad I was one of those people*?
The part about you still feeling you're an introvert, I think that's expected. Prakhar said there can be 2 types of introverts: one by nature, and one who acquired it.
Tbh, I think in most people there's usually a combination of the 2 in varying degree. We usually have some predisposition towards one side (introvert or extrovert) and then on top of that our life experiences solidify our personality.
And I do feel that the natural predisposition is quite difficult to remove, and honestly it's useless to even try to remove it, since that's just the way we naturally are.
Why did not I watched this video earlier, it was like you said everything I wanted to hear. When you sai "You don't need to be liked by every person or talk everytime you see someone", I just felt very light, even though I am very fat. Thankyou brother, this help of yours will definitely increase the quality of my life.
You're a genius prakhar! Just know it!!
It's actually so much relatable to many of the situation I faced up till now.
It's like I got then answers to many questions I had up till now.
Great content, truly appreciate it.
Dayum The best, the best video for introverts, Now I am able to understand introverts better.
That thing that you said " Once I get comfortable it's easy for me to be myself" that's 200% true and thanks for that tip of being more comfortable in first interaction.
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ya, I'm my true authentic self now..I can do what I set my mind to..
Finally, first time I feel proud to be an introvert.
Honestly, for me reprogramming maybe the only useful thing to ponder upon right now (gem)
All material after that, is what we learn in bits here and there (it's valuable for sure)
I don't know how many serious hours of journaling, therapy, exploring
would have taken me to dig up all those misguided beliefs
Thanks so much Prakhar ❤❤ Love You
(Btw i already have bought your AOC Course
I feel This Video, should be the Introduction right before the course beginning)
old PG is back! Keep creating gold brother
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 *🎙️ Intro and Purpose of Video*
- A comprehensive guide for introverts on navigating social interactions confidently.
- Aimed at self-identified introverts or those struggling with social interaction.
- Encouragement for viewers to watch the entire video for valuable insights and practical advice.
02:51 *🤔 Understanding Introversion*
- Clarification of the clinical definition of introversion.
- Discussion on inherent vs. acquired introversion.
- Addressing common misconceptions and societal narratives about introversion.
09:31 *💡 Reprogramming Introverted Mindsets*
- Dispelling the notion that introverts are inherently bad at socializing.
- Explaining the "poor man's mindset" and its impact on social perception.
- Discussing the reinforcement cycle and its role in shaping self-perception.
14:03 *🗣️ The Role of Intensity in Social Interactions*
- Differentiating between energy and intensity in communication.
- Debunking myths around social dominance and conversational engagement.
- Emphasizing the importance of impactful communication over mere verbosity.
21:02 *🌲 Fixation on Mistakes and First Impressions*
- Introverts often fixate on mistakes and fear making the wrong first impression.
- The conflation of the first mistake with the first impression leads to avoidance of social interactions.
- Childhood experiences contribute to the fixation on first impressions and conformity.
24:20 *📊 Law of Small Numbers and Social Interaction*
- Introverts often operate with a small sample size of social interactions, leading to skewed perceptions.
- Extroverts benefit from interacting with larger numbers of people and focusing on expression over impression.
- Increasing the sample size of interactions can lead to more positive outcomes for introverts.
26:27 *🛋️ Comfort and Introversion*
- The comfort level in social interactions is crucial for introverts' ability to express themselves.
- Focusing on techniques and social mapping helps introverts reach a state of comfort more quickly.
- Comfort is key to distinguishing between inherent, acquired, clinical, and colloquial introversion.
28:20 *🗺️ Understanding the Social Map*
- Articulation shapes perception, creating a social map that influences social reality.
- Emotion and body language play a significant role in communication, often outweighing verbal expression.
- Expressing happiness, creating a sense of safety, providing support, and fostering fun are essential in social interactions.
34:10 *🤹♂️ Key Emotions in Social Interaction*
- Happiness, safety, support, and fun are crucial emotions to convey in social interactions.
- Communicating emotions effectively can overshadow verbal communication.
- Fun serves as a powerful emotional pull and enhances the overall interaction experience.
41:41 *🗣️ People like people who hear them talk*
- People enjoy conversations about themselves.
- Active listening and allowing others to talk fosters likability.
- Spending time listening to someone can lead them to like you more.
42:23 *🕰️ Spending time together builds rapport*
- The amount of time spent with someone influences how much they like you.
- Longer durations of time spent together lead to increased fondness.
- Psychological time can be manipulated through movement and activity.
44:58 *💡 Understanding others fosters connection*
- Empathy and understanding make others feel valued and appreciated.
- Sensing and addressing someone's insecurities can deepen the bond.
- Softening sensitive topics for others enhances their perception of you.
46:35 *🧠 Opening minds through novel insights*
- Introducing new perspectives can change how someone views themselves and the world.
- Sharing information that challenges beliefs or preconceptions fosters admiration.
- Skillful communication can lead to profound shifts in perception.
48:13 *🌟 Standing apart garners admiration*
- Non-conformity and authenticity attract attention and admiration.
- Expressing uniqueness and individuality sets you apart from the crowd.
- Confidence in owning one's differences can be magnetic to others.
50:10 *🚀 Traits that serve as social "cheat codes"*
- Certain traits, like conviction and liberation from social norms, significantly enhance likability.
- Non-neediness and authenticity are key components of social attractiveness.
- Confidence, certainty, and passion are powerful attributes in social interactions.
54:13 *🚫 Overcoming obstacles as an introvert*
- Fear of rejection is a common obstacle in social interactions.
- Confronting and overcoming the fear of rejection can lead to personal growth.
- Transforming fear into a superpower can enhance social confidence and effectiveness.
01:02:03 *🏙️ Overcoming the Feeling of Being an Outsider*
- Embrace the outsider status and exoticize your background.
- Own your circumstances and be proud of your unique experiences.
- Use your outsider perspective as an advantage to share intriguing stories and perspectives.
01:05:16 *🤔 Overcoming the Fear of Making a Wrong First Impression*
- View the fear of making the wrong impression as a pre-selection mechanism.
- Embrace your true self and attract those who genuinely resonate with you.
- Accept rejections as part of the process of finding genuine connections.
01:06:41 *🤝 Assuming Comfort in Initial Interactions*
- Gradually increase your comfort level in first meetings.
- Assume comfort in initial interactions to accelerate intimacy.
- Be bold in signaling comfort while maintaining appropriateness.
01:07:51 *🌟 Leveraging Strengths as an Introvert*
- Emphasize substance over verbosity in communication.
- Communicate effectively through body language and eye contact.
- Maintain a sense of mystery to intrigue others and create interest.
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Your clarity of mind is damn amazing Prakhar ❤️🔥
Prakhar, Please next detailed video on How to convince someone or negotiate what you want from a relationship/interaction.
Such a beautifully written video! Perfectly delivered
Learnt so many new things and realised the mistakes i was doing all this time…keep up the good work!
Damn yrr!? your contnet is just on a whole another level man..thanks a lot for such a valuable content
Literally one of the best video I've seen on internet.
Thanks bhai
Make something for Indians to feel comfortable in America. I know you have mentioned a couple of things about having a certain mindset but if you make a dedicated video about how to completely get rid of the inferiority complex then I think it well help many watching your videos
Edit: Also a question: Are you yourself completely free of the inferiority complex or not?
This one will go far beyond ✨
"Yeh toh meri baat kr rha hai" fits soo well
Yo would love the *EXTRA* notes' content. Great stuff.
The Map
Intensity not energy.
Dissimilarity not similarity.
Stellar not dominant.
Expressing not impressing.
Work your strength.
Big sample size less try hard.
People PRIMARILY operate on emotions and body language.
Not being judgemental to your insecurity and that enables them to not be judgemental with theirs.
Tell them they are supported.
People love talking about themselves, and they'll love you for listening.
If you can ease their discomfort by predicting it from their body language.
If you opens their mind, make them think, not easy.
If you have a flavour of non conformity, authenticity, it allows them to be authentic and that's what they've been looking for all their lives
CHEAT CODES:
CONVICTION, degree to which you are convinced of what you're saying.
BEING FREE OF SOCIAL STUPIDITY, everyone recognises it and accept regardless how they feel about it. If you are beyond it, it's a breath of fresh air, communicates that you're liberated
FREE OF NEEDINESS, what neediness looks like is, like me like me, leans too close, cares too much that you like them, impressing not expressing, lack of conviction and end statements with the tonality of a question, and it's communicated in their body language.
IF YOU NEED NOTHING FROM A PERSON, they like you so much more, if you are very intense very direct and speak in very few words, carry certainty in their words and actions.
CERTAINTY, in a world drowning in uncertainty about the future, if you are sure of what you're communicating it is communicated as you being clear about the future, that you know your shit.
People confuse CERTAINTY for CLARITY, and very easily so. It comes from, Purposeful eyes, Passion, your investment into niches that you really care about.
OBSTACLES:
FEAR OF REJECTION, if you're okay with rejection, the possibilities for you are virtually infinite, IT SUCKS no question about it, but if you're able to transcend it, it's a superpower.
FEELING LIKE AN OUTSIDER, exoticize the OUTSIDE, one of the simplest thing, you already have something they don't and probably never will, all is left for you to do is own it. Use what you've got and make it flowery
FEAR OF MAKING THE FIRST WRONG IMPRESSION, people that are supposed to like you will like you regardless of your mistakes, it's a pre-selection thing. If you show your true self bones and all, people that won't like you were not meant for you in the first place so you're not actually loosing something but filtering out what's not for you. Bad strategy to PRETEND with someone you want to date, cuz then you attract the wrong kind of people for the pretend version of you, who'll punish you every time to try to be true so you stick to the pretend. Take those rejections but find the right person.
SUTRAS:
COMFORT LEVEL, assuming comfort carefully with conviction where it's not there, people play along. If you can manage to be just a lil more invasive that signals comfort you become more comfortable exponentially faster with each meet.
USE YOUR STRENGTH, if you want to speak less, speak less with intensity, be impactful with your words, use the impact and intensity instead of energy, don't play to your weakness.
COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BODY AND EYES, if your head is free of the nonsense programming you'll automatically communicate that in your body, you don't have to consciously think about it.
MYSTERY, reveal yourself in degrees of mystery, it's works way better than the extrovert way of putting everything on the table too soon.
This doesn't cover the whole video but only the things I found useful for myself.
For The Technique, check out art of conversation.
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Yaar iss topic par video banao na "How not to get hurt easily?"
Call me
Don't be vulnerable.
Only you allow the people to hurt you. Dont give anyone the ability to hurt u
What a coincidence.........I read about "the weak of large numbers" on same day this video came out
Bro a Part 2 of Indians moving abroad and how to define the exact game to conquer , a video on that would be much appreciated , i mean i ll watch it and im sure alot of your audience will move abroad at some point so you got demand too , cz i also think your ideas on this topic must have matured too since your last video.
Please add the step to step guide, would be very helpful
BTW LOVED THE VIDEO
I got equally obsessed with your content as OSHO's preachings😊 it hypnotic indeed ❤
The way he says felt like jordan b peterson
What u said is true yar, i also used to thought that I'm introvert and then i also thought it depends on person, now I'm thinking I'm kind of ambivert😂, that fear is true when I was preparing for competitive exams i thought i couldn't make it but after 3 years shit this is so easy, then i understand it's the fear my parents and people in our circle created in my head, my parents always say u buying books u study these? they'll just create that self doubt fear bcoz of that I didn't buy courses or books, then when i test and read i feel like books r so good, even self help books, I'll buy those i want to and i feel so connected❤
what a useful video!!! loved each part
Gorgeous. Respect and love.
Thanks for premium level content bro
Love you man❤❤
kindly, please make a video on How to Market our self ?
Prakhar never fails to amaze me.
helpful video. would be happy to see the step by step guide you talked about in the end
You spoke about Offering all our acts as an offering to god in the previous stream it is a fundamental teaching of sri Aurobindo's as well prakhar would reccomend reading sri Aurobindo's essays on the gita
Dude. Everything makes sense now. Thank you
LOVE HIM MAN....
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21:30 law of reverse effect ~osho
bro fr like i hate when people confuse shy/underconfident/socially awkward/not popular people with introverts
I have a Strong Superiority complex and often don't speak to people my age since they usually talk about stuff Far from my domain and interest, BUT now Whenever I Get a chance to Speak to people High on the value chain on me I am certainly weak On building Good rapports Hence never would Make a great Connection to anyone....
Bhaii pls make podcast on how to control inner self from feeling insecure after hearing so many ppls thier stories and experiences ..
thanks prakhar,
this is gold for me
can you please make a video on physical strength and fear of getting beaten ( overall, how to become fearless)?!
You can't be fearless. Being fearless is stupid...
Fear is a survival instinct.
And yes if you wanna get rid of fear of getting beaten up is get beaten up. Ykwim?
Walk towards your fear #sheracadmy
Be a sher
How to Ace social world as introvert chahiye plz ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Also, loved this stream❤❤❤
4-5 baar aur dekhunga
Prakhar bhai vocabulary is too hard😅 but the content is amazing, really whenever i listen your content my mind is like , uff dimag ghum jata h pura, a huge knowledge of everything keep it up brother.
Will surely implement just made a 1 page note of few points that i completely understood
yes give us how to ace social world as an introvert
Big applause for you Prakhar . Thank you so much for making this video.
Ps. I don't usually comment on a yt video
30:12 Emotions and Body language.
1:05:20 Wrong first impression.
We want the video of exactly how to do it.....plzz prakhar make it happen....👊❤
Subscribed immediately ❤
The day i will start earning money, Sabse pehle art of conversation kharidunga
I want that course you talked about in the end
Didn't watched the video yet , but I know it's another baap video... cfbr
Thank you so much for this❤
changing thumbnails will do the job
Try uploading the video by increasing the audio volume by 5-10db in premiere pro
Want 2nd video on step by step guide to ace the conversation
Go for it... pointed advices
I would just love to thank GOD, for bringing Prakhar on this planet.
Bhai itna to prostitute bhi nai leti muh m aur free m to bilkul bhi nai😂😂
1:11:15 yes we want it
I used to be an introvert, and then changed my life as nothinvert 😂😂
He is the kind of friend we all want
Do we have an AOC 4.0 comming out anytime soon?
This piece was much better.
Just amazing bro 🤘
now i watch your content for how to create it not for consumption purpose.
Great content, the Content I need more clarity and help
Love you prakhar thank you so much ❤️❤️
Awesome content !!
Never delete this video......
Maybe maybe maybe, you can make these videos Members only after few weeks
A lot of good stuff! Thank you so much really helpful
Loving the content.
Thanks bhaiya..for helping me
More of this me lord!
Let's go shers 🦁
Don't be in comment section put this shit in fullscreen mode and watch it bitch in a single go
Brilliant, thanks ❤
1)how neccessary is be in relationship?
2)why is this need of being in relationship?
3)what are factors we must see before starting relationships into next person.
4)what are differences between "opp. gender wala" relationships and other relationships like friends, colleagues and what ever relationships we make in our life.
5)me❤prakhar is this virtual relationship?
😂😂😂😂
Note:- Any one can answer.
1) Subjective(Depends on your current situation) 2)Support system (Mainly emotional & Sexual)
3) Again Subjective 4) Friendship is for Adventure and emotional support only 5)Funny
Hey can i use some of this content in my college speech related to introvertism
finally found a gold mine with unlimited gold
I'm loving these G(old) format Long videos
Game changer ❤