Our Father Is Suffering And Is Begging Us But Our Mother Refuse - Sonia Uche Reveals

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  • Our Father Is Suffering And Is Begging Us But Our Mother Refuse - Sonia Uche Reveals

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  • @pernellapratt7842
    @pernellapratt7842 2 місяці тому +38

    You all girls don't be no fool you all suffered already now is his time let him see how it feels stick with your mother nice family beautiful girls ❤❤❤

  • @cynthiagilbert4751
    @cynthiagilbert4751 2 місяці тому +61

    You can forgive him in your heart, but do not let him back into your life.

  • @bagamisai6190
    @bagamisai6190 2 місяці тому +36

    I will forgive him and tell him that he has already made his bed.🙏🙏

  • @noluthandokobese870
    @noluthandokobese870 2 місяці тому +24

    Do not let him back he will destroy you all where were he the time your mother suffer we were very happy family we do not need him

  • @adassahemana2228
    @adassahemana2228 2 місяці тому +35

    He must not reap where he did not sow

  • @HlubieSigenu-qi9xj
    @HlubieSigenu-qi9xj 2 місяці тому +21

    He could fight for her family, stand by her,loving her unconditional, now he wants to come back to those kids he abandoned, they still girls nothing change, how he can wants to come back, that means there were no culture involved if he can want to come back,but the decision is Nancy 's

  • @sherrystafford755
    @sherrystafford755 2 місяці тому +15

    Didn't know her then N mistreated her. Don't kno her now that she is rich n successfully MAKING it. KEEP IT MOVING PAL ......

  • @cSoniaRoach
    @cSoniaRoach 2 місяці тому +29

    No if they were poor he would not want them but because they are rich he wants to come back please forgive him but don’t take him back 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @aliceaddah8686
      @aliceaddah8686 2 місяці тому

      Exactly, coz you never know his motive. He might want to finish you coz you've made it. If you didn't have anything, he wouldn't asked you back to his life. Let God's punishment work on him for abandoning you. Serves him right and let it be a lesson to the rest. It's your mum's time to enjoy and reap what she suffer ed for . Obey your mum for you don't know what she passed through to see you succeed in life. Allow your mum enjoy. A leopard never change its spot.

  • @alyssabenton5421
    @alyssabenton5421 2 місяці тому +45

    I will not let him come back he only wanna come back cause of her money

    • @lilyofthevalley2248
      @lilyofthevalley2248 2 місяці тому +4

      😡😡😡😡EXACTLY, that is how those things always do🤮🤮🤮Wanna crawl back after the fact😡😡😡😡

  • @emmamattin1828
    @emmamattin1828 2 місяці тому +19

    Where was he while your mother was suffering to raise you all. I know two wrongs don’t make a right but you all have worked hard for what you have. Now his family wants him to go and find the diamonds they three away. You are intelligent girls and you know what to do.

    • @YolandaAlstrom
      @YolandaAlstrom 2 місяці тому +1

      He had to stay far away from me.l don't vex with her.

  • @gladyssiamwindi9550
    @gladyssiamwindi9550 2 місяці тому +18

    Watching from Zambia I will forgive him but not to be welcomed at home nothing has changed

  • @casylwatson8989
    @casylwatson8989 2 місяці тому +7

    Forgive him but let him stay where he is too late, from Trinidad

  • @mariedurandis7891
    @mariedurandis7891 2 місяці тому +5

    No im Haitian it doesn’t matter i will never forgive him for doing that live a woman to struggle for herself it’s hard

  • @nennehweekes6884
    @nennehweekes6884 2 місяці тому +23

    It is difficult, but His children can help him from a distance if they want to . The hole that him and his family dug for Uche and hers girls, he has fell into it. Please don’t allow him close to Uche because his intentions are not known.

  • @mariasloan5024
    @mariasloan5024 2 місяці тому +7

    Forgive him from a distance the bible said you rep want you sow this family is beautiful GOD will continue to bless them ❤I am in the USA

  • @zie4229
    @zie4229 2 місяці тому +30

    Didn’t he marry and have other children 🤗🤗now he wants help from the children that he himself chased away😊😊

  • @yvettejames6491
    @yvettejames6491 2 місяці тому +7

    Uche Nancy's husband wants her now, because she has money. In my culture in the Caribbean this male Child issue doesn't home into play. It's better to have four hard-working girls, than a good for nothing son

  • @neeverussell9417
    @neeverussell9417 2 місяці тому +9

    Amen i will not take him back he did her and her kids bad and she had to take care of all of them and struggle as a single mother is very hard to raise even one child not alone for no way do not let him come back in your life. He’s disgusting and it shouldn’t matter what sex the baby is as long as this a healthy baby that’s what counts and tradition. We know that boys can carry the father’s name, but still look what he threw away. He has such beautiful daughters, mother is just a magnificent mother don’t let him back in your lives u guys can talk to him but don’t do it your mom went through a lot from your number one fan watching from the United States of America I love all of y’all. We love y’all in America, especially Nigeria. My nephew and law is from Nigeria❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

  • @martinabalbosa6634
    @martinabalbosa6634 2 місяці тому +8

    I will say forgive him but let him come back were was he all these years coming to reap where he did not sow let God judge him love you guys

  • @GenevieveObakpolor-f9s
    @GenevieveObakpolor-f9s 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgive but never go back ❤

  • @vivilynwilson8232
    @vivilynwilson8232 2 місяці тому +20

    Watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 men in my culture appreciate whatever child or children they got it does not matter also no family member can take away anything from the child girl or boy in Nigeria family member can just take away whatever the husband die and leave put widows and children out to suffer can't happen here in Jamaica there's laws in place for that.

    • @annointedpauline3787
      @annointedpauline3787 2 місяці тому

      Well said…yes so true bad as it may be we have laws for that for real🙋
      From Jamaica 🇯🇲 as well ❤

    • @CarmenLair
      @CarmenLair 2 місяці тому

      Jamaica n respect my islander that can happen here❤🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲all the way

    • @CarmenLair
      @CarmenLair 2 місяці тому

      Can't happen here I mean the men love their boys n girls same way❤🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @HeatherTyrell
    @HeatherTyrell 2 місяці тому +13

    I have 3 sons and no daughters I'm sad I love girls i will not let him come back

  • @korluwolobah-kuyon5321
    @korluwolobah-kuyon5321 2 місяці тому +12

    What a senseless culture! Is it the woman who decides the sex of the child?

  • @RosemarieValentine-un8xw
    @RosemarieValentine-un8xw 2 місяці тому +1

    watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 I would not let him come back I would forgive him that's it in our country jender of a child doesn't matter God continue to bless Nancy and her daughter's love them❤❤❤❤

  • @elainehines4880
    @elainehines4880 2 місяці тому +17

    Where does he wants to go? He needs to go to his son or sons. Let his ignorance and his ignorant family takes care of him.

  • @vall2633
    @vall2633 2 місяці тому +7

    You can forgive but don't forget what he did to you and the children, by throwing his own wife and children out of the house just because they are girls is disgusting. Now because she and the girls who he rejected are now so very successful, he now wants them to crawl back to him? Its a no from me, he would never come back. He should look for his male children and stay where he is. Uche Nancy and her girls are blessed and better off without him and also he would be a bad luck to them and bring them down.

  • @hazellawrence568
    @hazellawrence568 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgive and move on, if he needs help, help from the distance and keep it moving

  • @cherylrose9095
    @cherylrose9095 2 місяці тому +6

    No way he should stay where he is girl or boy it doesn't matter in my culture

  • @elainepeart8574
    @elainepeart8574 Місяць тому +1

    For give him but don't let him back in your life.

  • @stacyming543
    @stacyming543 2 місяці тому +4

    When you where babies 🤱, you and your mother suffered . 🚩 Jamaican mom is mostly single mom not because of lock of male child, any child is welcome

  • @donnamartin1021
    @donnamartin1021 2 місяці тому +2

    God blessed me with four sons and no daughter, but two of my sons gave me two granddaughters... I don't have any girl child, but im blessed and content with what God gave me... I love my family very much 😅❤❤❤.
    I will pray to God and seek guidance from him because he's not a God who sleep 🙏.

  • @kadiatuconteh5965
    @kadiatuconteh5965 2 місяці тому +5

    No my culture is not whether a girl or a boy. A child is a child.

  • @tootooprince6135
    @tootooprince6135 2 місяці тому +8

    I would forgive him but I would allowed him family to take care of him they are not God who gives children they should appreciate what the almighty father bless there wife with that's nonsense

  • @amaakumamyi5347
    @amaakumamyi5347 2 місяці тому +7

    They should not help their wicked father

  • @jenniferdonthave5606
    @jenniferdonthave5606 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness is the biggest of all,if you're a true believer and so shall it be🙌🙏👐

  • @cordwelllashington5349
    @cordwelllashington5349 2 місяці тому +3

    In my country male and female children are treated equally.

  • @VeronicaAppiah-zu2nc
    @VeronicaAppiah-zu2nc 2 місяці тому +3

    Forgive yes but accept no

  • @ttfam8742
    @ttfam8742 2 місяці тому +4

    Forgive, yes - but do not allow him back to take control of your lives
    Remind him daily of how he rejected your mom and you all his children. Ask daily if he came back for money now that you are all grown up and successful

  • @modupe4125
    @modupe4125 2 місяці тому +2

    You can forgive him, but do not take him back. The children are all grown, they do not need their father, God has done so well for them. From London.

  • @antheacanoville9873
    @antheacanoville9873 2 місяці тому +1

    You can for give but don't forget stick with all mom. Love all the way from Dominica ❤❤❤❤

  • @TinaJameson-l6t
    @TinaJameson-l6t 2 місяці тому +1

    In life we have to learn too forgive. The forgiveness is for you,but for to come. Relationship is on my time not that ,he would have a place in our home. That’s the issue with this kind of behavior. I’m so so so proud of Ms. Uache and her beautiful daughters all 5 of them. She is a blessing to those who are struggling with life issues. Like she and by the Grace of the Most High, He brought them through. Keep letting His light shine through you all, and how that if you. Trust and believe on Him everything will be possible. Ladies keep on living your best life, because it looks great on you’ll . And your father will be alright, but forgive him. That’s for you’ll 🙏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉🎉🎉💖✨🌹💖✨🌹💖✨🌹💖✨🌹💖✨🌹💖✨🌹😊

  • @cynthiagilbert4751
    @cynthiagilbert4751 2 місяці тому +2

    Some times is better to have peace without any individual that has caused hurt and pain, but only you can determine that. Ask God to guide you

  • @mildredallen9346
    @mildredallen9346 2 місяці тому +5

    If the children want to forgive the I have no problem with that, but he can't live or stay in my house I am a serious Jamaican.

  • @dahlia3369
    @dahlia3369 2 місяці тому +1

    Help him if you can ladies God will bless you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @edolcastello5014
    @edolcastello5014 2 місяці тому +3

    Forgive him yes, take him back NO.

  • @ruthduniya4090
    @ruthduniya4090 2 місяці тому +2

    They can forgive him but don't let him in to your hearts again ooo

  • @christinafarrington1580
    @christinafarrington1580 2 місяці тому

    For give him keep moving keep moving

  • @christinaofori-atta7739
    @christinaofori-atta7739 2 місяці тому +2

    Come back for what. To enjoy a single mother's hard work. Queen Nancy, if you want to marry again, get you another husband. The ex husband doesn't deserve you. It was a blessing he let you. See what God has done with your life. Congregations.

  • @gerdenewilliams4061
    @gerdenewilliams4061 2 місяці тому +3

    Watching from Jamaica I know he hurts you but forgive him you become the father of your children they are all working don't follow your heart let the pass be the pass if you don't want to have any thing to do with him please encourage your children to to for give him the fact of the matter is he is still your children father I know it hurts to remember but God made it possible for you to give your children a proper up bringing he as done you wrong and it hurts to remember but give a helping hand to give him a helping hand he needs it

  • @Heena2016
    @Heena2016 2 місяці тому +5

    Forgive him & leave it at that. Y does he want to be in their lives now? Unless he is ill & he wants to make peace. Or he could have some hidden agenda. Uche Nancy and her daughters have been successful for a while now, so y has he chosen this moment? Well, they r all grown, so they can make their own decisions, I just pray they will be in Gods hands & their father is not up to no good.

  • @addiesims7300
    @addiesims7300 2 місяці тому +3

    The answer is No...

  • @marychukwudumebi2133
    @marychukwudumebi2133 2 місяці тому +1

    Remember that Bible say we should forgive one another, if you guys do not forgive him who else would you 4give. And we do pray 4give us as we 4give those who trespass against us

  • @uzornjoku8569
    @uzornjoku8569 2 місяці тому +3

    Forgive him but keep him where he belongs, far away from you all.

  • @fayemiller414
    @fayemiller414 2 місяці тому +4

    Girls if your father is calling for you to come Find a place in your heart to forgive him As a child of God if you don’t forgive God will not forgive you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @liliangbassa9135
      @liliangbassa9135 2 місяці тому

      Daddy is forgiven however, he is not needed. Let him stay where he is.

  • @olivelanre9149
    @olivelanre9149 2 місяці тому +1

    Never let him back in your life if you really want peace ,You can help him financially from a distance ,he is now cry out cos the Creator has blessed you if not he will never ,dnt be blind will the words of men that says take him...A word is for a wise..

  • @fatmattabangura704
    @fatmattabangura704 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is of the Lord, but do not let him in, you can help him from a distance. He only wants to come back because of the wealth

  • @graceidoko8791
    @graceidoko8791 2 місяці тому +1

    The bible says do not repay evil with evil rather overcome evil with good.Forgive him help him out if he is suffering because his past will bring much trauma to him as you show him kindness.

  • @orlettacort3358
    @orlettacort3358 2 місяці тому +1

    To err is human and to forgive is devine. Girls you can forgive him but keep him at a disance. You weren't brought up to hate or keep malice for anyone who has offended you , so find it in your hearts to forgive him and show him that you are bigger than him even though he doesn't deserve it.

  • @laureldouglas4245
    @laureldouglas4245 2 місяці тому +3

    It's not her fault why she do not have a male child God bless her with four beautiful daughters stupid idea must have a son

  • @margaretmodeste6202
    @margaretmodeste6202 2 місяці тому +2

    That culture has to be change, it's god that give children to us and not we ourselves female children are very hard working some even work harder than male. Now he needs help they're valuable what a joke,

  • @oyavuzudonu1301
    @oyavuzudonu1301 2 місяці тому +3

    Big no byby to father

  • @PORTIABAHOLO
    @PORTIABAHOLO 2 місяці тому

    Mama Nancy Uche congratulations to be trong for your kids big up love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kingofglorywarrior31
    @kingofglorywarrior31 2 місяці тому +1

    You girls are big enough to forgive your father.

  • @chinettemurphy9341
    @chinettemurphy9341 2 місяці тому

    You can forgive him you all but not be close to him cause just from watching the movies I would be afraid to go near him or his family. If you want to help him it he’s sick pay his medical bills and pay for his medications but directly to the medical facility that is treating him. But as I say don’t let them touch any of your money. Love you all guys, you’re an inspiration. I’m a Jamaican lady single mother too. Stay blessed you all.

  • @guchieskitchen
    @guchieskitchen 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @uzohtee9744
    @uzohtee9744 2 місяці тому

    I am a victim of same with girls. For 36years now. Thank God for His numerous blessings

  • @olatundunmustapha8723
    @olatundunmustapha8723 Місяць тому +1

    Forgive him from the bottom of your heart but don't allow him in your life again. Love you ❤

  • @joanjohnson888
    @joanjohnson888 Місяць тому

    For give you guy's are all grown up so just but it in God's hand ❤❤

  • @gloriadowden1034
    @gloriadowden1034 2 місяці тому +1

    I will forgive him because God wants us to forgive one another but they don't need him they all grown up now let him stay with his Relatives who things a woman can take what child she wants it's time to wise up God gives children and he knows you before you were born God bless her with her girls

  • @richterjuliet5332
    @richterjuliet5332 2 місяці тому

    God bless you always ❤️ 🙏

  • @susannastrose2791
    @susannastrose2791 Місяць тому

    👌

  • @dianafikes4568
    @dianafikes4568 Місяць тому

    to err is human and to forgive is divine.

  • @renem.297
    @renem.297 2 місяці тому

    For give him but keep moving on with your life. God knew what he was doing when he gave your daughters it is really to bad he could not see that he needs to study about how babies are made. Many blessings to you all what a beautiful family you are. 🙏😊🌹🌹🌹 Watching from united states'

  • @cynthiagilbert4751
    @cynthiagilbert4751 Місяць тому +1

    Man has no legacy; only God, because is tge author and finisher of faith. He is the one that is writing our story. In the natural he is the producer and we are the cast. Because he died for us we have the victory in our hearts. We can forgive from the heart and move on; do not go back to what has hurt us.

  • @yinkao8727
    @yinkao8727 2 місяці тому +2

    Nothing wrong with being a single mother. Please Nigerias should stop making this look like a taboo. Marriage is becoming a sham in that part of the world.

  • @Omega-y4l
    @Omega-y4l 2 місяці тому

    Respect your parents for your days to be numbered the bible says.so I say love him he's your father no matter what.dont judge give everything to God 💕💕💕

  • @yassahwolobah5939
    @yassahwolobah5939 2 місяці тому

    Ma uche Nancy woman of God just forgive your beautiful an great children father for God sake an for your children please mamaaaa 🎉 sweet mother ma uche Nancy woman of God bless you and your family and friends and children with long life and good health forever and forever long life ❤❤❤❤❤🙏👏🕯️🛐✝️

  • @veronawright4354
    @veronawright4354 2 місяці тому

    I know that god will bless you so forgive him and help him my dear sister and let them be a shame of them self my dear god will bless you and the kids them

  • @ChiemenaFrancesca
    @ChiemenaFrancesca Місяць тому

    Just forget and forgive ❤

  • @MirriamNakanyika-gi8if
    @MirriamNakanyika-gi8if 2 місяці тому

    Watching from Zambia please forgive your father from the bottom of your hearts he is you your father maybe our good lord wanted men of our continent of Africa to learn something ther' s power in forgiveness stay blessed girls

  • @PatienceShodimu-be6ge
    @PatienceShodimu-be6ge 2 місяці тому

    Let him be.Whatever the children can afford as a monthly parental care shld be sent to their father his his upkeep- fulfilling Gods will for their life.

  • @EjaetaBalance
    @EjaetaBalance 2 місяці тому +1

    Do not forgive

  • @edithfigueroa430
    @edithfigueroa430 2 місяці тому

    I see they are doing just fine mom did her job, maybe it will benefit women are facts from the U.S Virgin Islands

  • @sharifudiniAhidjo
    @sharifudiniAhidjo Місяць тому

    No let Dem forgive and forget his still dear father.Nomatter what dey passed true let Dem forgive him and acsept dear dad

  • @sherlydarby571
    @sherlydarby571 2 місяці тому +1

    Watching from Jamaica those family with that rubbish culture They should block all correspondence from that family however the children are adult and if they aren't around me and want give anything that's their business but not if they're with me he can go to hell

  • @graceuko-hj1dv
    @graceuko-hj1dv 2 місяці тому

    My humble suggestion is that you girls should play your parts as children to him not minding what he did to you. So that your blessings will be filled although he acted wrongly

  • @corrineperkins3665
    @corrineperkins3665 2 місяці тому

    Forgive and move on. If you all haven't become successful, would he be coming looking after these years.

  • @oyavuzudonu1301
    @oyavuzudonu1301 2 місяці тому +2

    No

  • @sylviaunstoppable8606
    @sylviaunstoppable8606 Місяць тому

    Matthew 6:15 "If ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Heavenly Father forgive your trespasses.”
    I would say you guys should forgive him, but still, you don’t have to scoop him back in your lives!

  • @LavernDouglas-r8r
    @LavernDouglas-r8r 2 місяці тому

    Everyone deserves a second chance forgive him my Country boy or girl gets the same rights watching from Guyana

  • @lioneljohnson1833
    @lioneljohnson1833 2 місяці тому

    Yes, they should forgive their father, but he cannot share there, Richness l am from the United States 🇺🇸 because he is a sad man for that love all of your kids the same because god no what’s the right thing to do

  • @euniceajayi5101
    @euniceajayi5101 2 місяці тому

    Let the daughters take care of him but not coming back to the woman.

  • @carmaletasmith7965
    @carmaletasmith7965 2 місяці тому

    I do understand ur mom but in order to please the lord and yourself please for give him if he need help do help him , the Bible says we must forgive each other , yes he do ur mom and is four daughters wrong he have the lord to answer to ,make ur answer to the lord be good .the good Lord bless ur mom for a reason and lady’s please do the best you can for ur bad all of you mom and daughters are very very bless let it continue by doing god’s will love you all keep up the good work

  • @britneyscott42
    @britneyscott42 2 місяці тому +1

    yes forgive him but girls stick to your mom she is one of the best mom

  • @christineosei8036
    @christineosei8036 2 місяці тому

    Forgive him BUT NERVER ALOW him in your LIFE

  • @anitaglover5426
    @anitaglover5426 2 місяці тому

    Pls they are good withe their father for sometime now,watch all their videos 5years back their mother said they are adults so the decision is theirs. She didn't stop the children from contacting their father pls.dont spolt her name pls.

  • @noluthandokobese870
    @noluthandokobese870 2 місяці тому

    🎉you are

  • @brendajames1314
    @brendajames1314 2 місяці тому

    Hi guy hope all is well by the grace of God I am agree with Mama Nancy you can forgive him but don’t take him back he took happiness from all of us why should he enjoy you and your Children happiness no way he’ll have to freeze over❤❤😇

  • @pauloluwole8036
    @pauloluwole8036 2 місяці тому

    They should forgive him. He as learn his lesson

  • @CarlawGranted
    @CarlawGranted 2 місяці тому

    Forgive is good but love him from a far.....he didn't have any child to finish his money so we're is his money to take care of his self kmt?