This is probably the last thing you want to hear
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- This is probably the last thing you want to hear today, but I do not care… I do not owe you anything.
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This guy just explained my whole life story in a minute and half lol
This is my story, too
@@carolyncampbell291same here
same
True most time they think they deserve better and end up with nothing
Better sometimes means having nothing; well nothing but your sanity. Im leaving and at 61 no I don't think ill find someone, at this age you only remarry because your afraid of being alone. If you can't live with you, why should anyone else. That and a bunch of devorces who blew it the first time around. Most men remarry, most women don't. Narcissist usually get married right away. Like my ex . He put it off for a year, like I didn't know about her . I never wore fake nails yet twice I found them in his work duffle bag. Get your own clean underware boy. The first one was a high dollar salon nail, the second a cheap one. We know which woman he catered to the most. 1,2,3 with me being last. You heard that song Could've Been Me. All I had to do was be ok with the cheating and spending all his money on other women. Oh and attempted murder when my money was all gone. Life insurance, dont buy it. They have to bury you, just dont claim the body.
Thank you very much ,I really need to hear this .Now i hope i will change and not feel so guilte and sad anymore 🤗💝
Thank you! Youre right!...i love u!
👀 I love his speaking voice... His voice and face just scream wisdom 🔥💯💯
He has very kind eyes
I am hearing you 100%. And i completely agree. Now i have to unfortunately do something I never, ever thought I would have to. It is sooo out my comfort zone because the core of my heart is more worried about possibly hurt the person than i can seem to convince myself that I need to do this for myself. I don't know how to not think of the other one too. My heart is kind and gracious to a fault. I know I have to do this in my head but my overthinking brain is making it very difficult. Please pray for courage and heavenly clarity.
Thank you. That the best thing I’ve heard this year so far. ❤
Thank you. I needed to hear this. I want to be myself again. 💜💗
Our most powerful adversaries are the ones who open our hearts at the deepest level to allow the Light to shine through us, which benefits not only us but every individual we encounter. We cannot reach the greatest heights without first being willing to plunge to the deepest depths of our being. ❤❤
If you are unhappy no one can fix that
Only you can fix that ❤
So RIGHT. ❤
I think I have gotten used to it and I don't know who I am anymore. I've lost myself and it's so hard to find myself bc I don't know where to begin.
Needed this 😢
That was the problem I got to use to it
You don't want to hurt over and over again. I have to protect my heart. NO one else would.
I sincerely hope so 🙏 say's Gayla I sincerely hope and pray you find the right person 💯💝
The more humans I meet, the more I love my dog and my livestock etc... thy give so much love and ask for nothing but feeding and scratching 😊
@@MurphyFarm2014 They Need Hugs
And Kisses, Too !
@@carolyncampbell291Absolutely
Thank you for these words. I appreciate them. Sometimes it feels like we’re the only ones going through this hell. I’m so tired.🙏🏻♥️
Pearls of wisdom. Thank you for sharing it. 🙏🏻
You know, when you choose yourself, they label you lost. It's not because you are lost, but because they lost you . And they know this, but what they didn't know is that you knew this all along, even from the beginning. Now with due respect I want you to know that your eyes are so beautiful, they can speak. Thank you! 🤍
Jesus is coming back with his angels turn to God
It’s exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you 🙏🏼
I say ignore all the "thems" who hurt me, and like the song...all those "thems" never knew they loved me until they let me go.
Kind wisdom. Thank you.
At 80, I've learnt that nothing in life is permanent. Out hearts are broken in so many ways, whether that's a partner leaving us for another or the death of a loved one to the loss of possessions. We have to not lose ourselves. We are the greatest love we will ever have. The only constant.
I’m glad you have made it to that old ripe age. Keep going strong!
I agree with you.
Only bad things can be permanent...
Exactly..
I know that…..but right now I can’t stop crying….and where do broken hearts go, how do we heal? 😢
Excuse me for being indecisive, I have learned to accept they will leave, even if it’s just a few feet away, they’ve removed themselves so I have no one to talk to. Some days, I need to be physically pulled out of bed; others, I need that safe place to fall when I close my eyes and fall backward.
THERE WILL BE NOTHING LEFT FOR THEM TO CHASE!!! Greetings from Jacksonville, ARKANSAS. I resonate with this prophetic message. I know exactly who you're talking about. The person in question is a NARC.
I appreciate you making these videos 😊
I am going through exactly what he explained. Thank you
Truth sets you free
AMEN Praise be Jesus
Such wisdom....so kindly spoken. Life teaches all you said.....
Thanks
Those who chase novelty versus those who enjoy consistency.
Those who don't feel, versus those who feel deeply.
I know which side I choose... consistently
I chose too..
And I let them know
Man, this might be the first thing I’ve wanted to hear. Not to be a burden and talk so much, but I have been trying to find something that resonates with my soul after a massive heartbreak from a guy who pretended to love me and be everything he’s not and it was so sudden to find out that he was a liar. I’ve been depressed for 9 months and nothing is getting me out of it. Thank you for saying this actually, because I needed it and someone finally said it. I actually feel very stupid some days for how much it hurt me, and today my own dad even told me “if you’re hanging on to someone who treated you like that then something is wrong with you” ….that hurt because I’m not hanging onto the guy. I know he’s bad for me and I know he’s not coming back, so I’m not holding onto him. I’m devastated and heartbroken, but I am not sitting here expecting he’ll come back. So thank you for saying it’s okay for me to hurt about what I’m going through. That guy will always be chasing for the next best thing and never find it again. He’s never happy with anything, even when he had a home and a little family with me, a.k.a our dog. I’m so depressed and I’m tired of it but I’m also tired of people saying it’s time to get past it. Why don’t they try being in my shoes? It’s miserable when someone made you believe they loved you but they love themselves more enough to hurt you and be complacent about it. Every day hurts even when I’m not thinking about it. I feel it everywhere man, so thank you for reminding me I’ll be happy. I’m hoping for that 💛
Hello Snowbird. I had exactly the same experience. But you owe it to yourself to put it behind you & give thanks that you are free from someone who was very bad for you. "To thine own self be true". I also love the saying I found on line that says this --- "I've been on my own for some time now and I have to say, it's working out rather well - in fact, I think I'm THE ONE." 😁. Don't worry you will be fine, start enjoying life. Have hobbies & interests God is good. With love & best wishes from Ireland. 💖🇮🇪
@@ClaireQuinn566 Hey there Claire 🩷 thank you for your kind words. I’m not the type of person to easily go with the advice you have given, which is unfortunate because I wish I was. My heart just loves too much and I pray for him daily. Yes, it’s good that I’m free from someone that was bad for me, and maybe someday in the long run I’ll be glad, but for now, I am not. Thank you for sharing the quotes with me! They hold great wisdom as do you. I hope you are always well, Claire! 🩷 p.s. Ireland roots here! 🇮🇪❤️
This means you Love Deep in your Soul. I Grieved for someone 20 years! My first boyfriend and husband!
@@carolyncampbell291 absolutely, this is very true. I’m glad you understand it, cause a lot of people tell me to just “get over it, he’s bad for you” yes I know but I ACTUALLY loved him. First boyfriend here too. Truly loving someone isn’t just a feeling. It’s real attachment and concern and connection with that person, you can’t just “get over them”. I’m so sorry you grieved for so long. That’s what happens when you really love and your heart gets broken. I think I’ll always love this guy on some level, even when I’m past this stage. There’s a quote that seriously sums grief up and it says “grief is just love with no place to go” and it’s the most real thing I’ve ever heard. I hope you are doing better these days 💗
Dear snowbirdspirit,
Please don't give up. I also suffer from depression, so I know what you're feeling. But something drew me to a music video that really touched my heart. I've since rediscovered the love of music in my life that I thought I had lost many years ago. Please, please, try to find that hook to grab onto that will help pull you up again. I'll pray for you. Sincerely, Fran💖💖
Thank you man! I'm going through that in my life, it's nice to listen to your beautiful words from you, god bless you 🙏❤️
You make smile and laugh ,you know a lots of secrets ❤😊
Ironically, this is exactly what I needed to hear today.
The worst thing I experienced in my life Was the feeling of permerntly undervaluing myself and passiveness, I had just so High Standarts how to treat others with respect and understanding for who they are but I lost myself on it. So I played a role for example when Im at school I just act sometimes like I understand why they are so disrespectfull and ugly but deep inside I just hate myself for that. Maby Im the one who acts wrong but I don't care anymore. Fitting in is just a Problem, but It feels like Im Over it now. Took me about 10 years🫠 Thank you
This was one of the most soulful messages I’ve heard on UA-cam, keep going brother the people need this ❤
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that.
have a blessed day
Well I am to old to grow and to expect to be happy one day . I don’t feel strong any longer.
I know what you mean.
I feel you
Just tired and angry...that's me.
i'm 27 next week and i feel that way for almost 10 years now, idk how to change that other than forcing myself to feel better, but, then, it'd be forced, wouldn't it?
hm, idk, I just stick to feeling good because I want to feel good. How you feel ULTIMATELY Is a choice. whether it's a subconscious or a conscious choice, it is a choice. so make yours ♥
@@ZenfulHaze You make that "feeling good" business sound relatively simple...glad it works for you.
I try everyday to get something done that I have on my procrastination list. If I do manage to scratch something off that list, then I feel less stressed, less depressed, less miserable and I guess you can say I feel "good."
YES, this is truth delivered just how it should be, with no sugar coating and and a warm smile. Thanks for that. I know that they are coming back and I AM VERY skeptical. 💔
The best way to live your life is to avoid all human interaction.
Man speaks the truth! Listen again❤🎉
Sounds about right. The right perspective changes everything. Thank you
Yes! I got thrown away by a number of idiot men for the “fancy” woman. Hard to feel bad for them Now! 😊❤
From what I've learned , most men don't give a damn about what's in a woman's heart and mind . They only care about how pretty and hot she is . Then , they end up getting hurt in so many different ways .
Complete shallow dorks .
Yeah, it sure hurts to be thrown away. After a 2 year friendship with a young man, he made a mistake and threw me away….without an explanation. If only he could see me now…married 44 years to a man I’m growing old with.
@@doriskray1430
Good for You! I finally found out why I attracted men who threw me away. I attracted them with my feeling of unworthiness. You may have changed your feelings about yourself and got you the Best Man!
I just heard it loud and clear. Sadly my love story ended this way
Thanks very much.
You are very kind.
Your words are
comfortable.
God bless you
and to all of yours.
Kind Regards.
Absolutely so so well put and spot on you nailed it thank you for your words of encouragement and tough times.
Just chanced on this, recently my marriage of 23 yrs ended with a jolt. I was told not to make a big deal out of it as he wanted to explore n it's normal nowadays.
The first question to God was my trust is broken, how could I even trust myself anymore.
He sent me so many beautiful souls as friend and in random.
Iam still full of love, still recovering from this addiction and building myself again peice by peice.
Thank you for these videos, they help
Many thanks for your last words. I appreciate it that you have shared the ultimate truth. The evil spirit is that they intentionally play with people’s heart/ emotions for their own game. When you associate with them, all you gonna get are betrayal trauma, chronic pain and emotional wounds at the end of the day.
Is basically people who are narcissistic judging emotions believing they have control over another, but is just in their mind, an illusion that they do have control. A lot of people on the street believing they make you and your person feel a certain way, when they hate you for leading a life full of love and joy, can't truly come through to you but believe there is a problem for you being a certain way, when they interfere with their nose, you don't force them to. There is nothing wrong with you, you never had wrong emotions or reactions, is just that they find a problem with how you are, you don't give them a reason to have it.
*Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2020 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me*
There's wonder working power in following Kingdom principles on giving and tithing. Hallelujah!
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Ms. Chisty Fiore❤️✨💯May God bless Christy Fiore services,she have changed thousands of lives globally
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
Love from Vancouver Island….💗🏖️🐳
Thanks for putting this out there.
Thank you for this 🙏🥰
“You will change”, “you will be happy”. I know there’s other, more brutally honest stuff in here, but those particular words really helped me feel good rn. Thank you.😊
Thank you LS
Such true words so heartfelt ❤
Very good right on point
What you said it happened to me. People keep judging me for no reason at all. It's hurting me a lot but I still give a smile and doing good things. But I don't to be used anymore just because I'm kind it doesn't mean people can anything to me. I must quite but make them see if they in the position of judging by society, how about that? Thank's for this wonderful quote, God Bless You, Amen, Namaste 😇🙏✝️
Idk man, she's living her dream right now and I've never been in a lower point.
Well, there's a time for that...but change is coming for EVERYONE, and faster than you think. Day by day deal with each circumstance bird by bird.
Thank you!!!
Nailed it 👌 ❤
Always Always speaking from the ❤️
I so appreciate your “realness”& raw messages that mean so much..Stay Strong.. I hear you,I see you ..Have a beautiful day
Accept Jesus.
So true thank you bless
Exactly! So stop getting so upset when you hear the truth. Or stop applying rules to everyone else that you don't apply to yourself
This is what a lot of people do.
Thanks beautiful soul..so true seek yea the kingdom and his righteous and all this things shall be added unto you... Repent and forgive and seek spiritual knowledge and ask to be guided in faith.. spiritual love Rules no pain no gain from darkness to light... God bless...
Amen ❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear !
Your message is very genuine 👌
You’re right. I don’t take advice from men. So yes. It IS the last thing I want to hear.
Funny… a wise BOY got it
@@shellylavigne5913 I’m not a fucking boy sir.
@@shellylavigne5913 I fucking told you to stop misgendering me SIR. I am a FEMALE. I MENSTRUATE. Now STAY THR FUCK out of my newsfeed.
❤❤❤
"I've turned my pain into power yeah. I took my power back yeah and I'm a stronger person than before. Not looking back again yeah. Super reading 100 %yeah. Thanks for sharing yeah.!! 💐🤗🙏🙏👍
I needed to hear it! Thank you❣️
Thank you Universe🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻
Such a great message..wow.😮
That was Beautiful healing medicine..... Please! Continue......
Of course, that's why all my ex's want me back. Don't work that way. The one true love died in front of me. Nothing the same after that. I was impressed by your life story. Life deals a very difficult hand often. May you find all that you wish and even more of what you need. ❤
The universe will one day make them experience it? Eh....i sure as hell hope not. Tem years recovering from severe PTSD after dad unalived himself infront of us basically. Severe under treated bipolar disorder. 30 years of isolation and friendlessness/romancesless. Mood instability to a terrible degree. 2 suicide attempts. Deconstructing, redefining concepts and ideas associated with "making it in life", "success" "getting better" into something more workable. Finding a way to daily keep going with no self esteem bordering on no self love and autoginy or self loathing.
I do NOT wish that on anyone, not even enemies or the person that caused my father to die.
I am not strong, i just dont think there are do overs or an afterlife to die for. I am not strong. Its all ive known thats why i can endure it.
I don't know why you popped up here or why I clicked on the video to watch but I felt like you were speaking directly to me in my current situation!! Thank you.
That morning is coming - by unsided relationship, especially when our partner fooled us, hiding from us the fact that he left us already secretly behind long ago. But keeping the appearance that he is in contact with us in certain form...still. Unfortunatelly, the story is real . ⁉️
I haven't cried in over 15 years. I refuse to let my narsasisst husband know how his behavior and words cut me open. This, your touching into the part I hide...made me cry.
What a calming voice you have. I feel that because I'm getting older I will not have the opportunity to meet someone. EVERY man I went out with has hurt me and all I heard from them was "Your so nice" and that's because I do not like to bring anyone hurt and your right you get use to the hurt. I always felt when I was with someone they were always chasing something better and I love what you said that they will become to realize there's nothing left to chase. Funny thing is more than one of those men wanted me back and it was a big "NO" for me. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I do hope I meet a nice man who will appreciate me.
Wise words...Hurt has the power to heal if you allow it.
If ever I didn't come across this video today...I would have ended up broken heart forever....Thank you so much for reviving me in fresh thoughts from the next moment onwards...tomorrow I would be stronger than ever before...Stay Blessed dear..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔💯💯💯💯💯
To the one I love, I can let my heart be broken to pieces if you like. I can let you play with those pieces if you like. Just I pray to God every day, don't leave me.
You are absolutely right! Kudos to you!
Thank you. You are an encourager, you are so kind and speak from experience and you soothe the hurt. ❤
Who are you?❤😊
Humans are crap/that's why I avoid em.
Thank you yes being hurt and judge is not nice I love that you are so honest thank you are so inspiring love listening to as always take care ❤❤🤗
This is amazing. Thank you for posting❤
Do I know you?
Wow this hit hard. Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this.
Truth is meant to be told ..when u long enough into someone n we try to make it work no matter wat the cost we always consider wat everyone thinks of us n y people belittle our actions let people see it from their perspective n then they will understand yyy.. who..n how
Damn bro. That's awesome! Thank you!
Good
He's SADFISHING YOU FOLKS.😂
People really need to learn to heal and not live in the past this is how it gets better. It takes time but you will feel better
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟 DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜,REAL WISDOM
I love and i forgive, ❤😊