Why American Suburbs are so Creepy (liminal spaces)

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  • @flurfdesign
    @flurfdesign  6 місяців тому +158

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    • @deangraves7462
      @deangraves7462 6 місяців тому +7

      Milkman Conspiracy in Psychonauts.

    • @KuleGuy27
      @KuleGuy27 6 місяців тому +4

      With NordVPN, I can pretend to be in Japan. Now I can tell people that I live in Japan!

    • @PepperSprayed-bc5de
      @PepperSprayed-bc5de 6 місяців тому

      First, can we scale the "creepy" metric by starting with the AI-generated animated image narrating this video? "Creepy" OFF the meter . . . (And why are its lips glistening wet?)
      Combining a whole lotta' concepts that don't apply to the thesis, buttressed by pop-psychology and a lack of understanding that America was built as a "car culture" post-World War 2.
      The can-do country. The better-living-through-chemistry country. New. Shiny. Convenient. Efficient. The whole point of the suburbs was to be away from the hustle, the bustle of the city, the urban areas, where the only sounds you heard on the weekend were your neighbors' lawnmowers and children playing. An oasis away from it all . . . That was the intent. A feature, not a bug. Yes, there is sprawl. But that is changing in many areas. (Not addressed.) This creepy animated narrator also doesn't make any distinction between/among older 'burbs and newer 'burbs, east coast v. west coast. Down with parking lots. Uh, okay . . . Now, we have to convince tens of millions of people to forgo the independence of their own mode of transportation, and trade them in for the noble "efficiency" of more rail (something of which I am in favor, actually.) And....this will be done overnight? Subsidized by the federal, state or local governance? As they say, "It's complicated." I found the example of Japanese "suburbs" precious. Truth be known, there are no genuine SUB-urban areas in Japan. It is a nation of 126-million people in an area the size of the State of Florida. Of course, they're going to be more "connected." They have no choice but to learn to create spaces with more crammed into it. The same can be written about much of Western Europe. They simply do not have the space. We do, in the United States. There are more issues I could counter. Suffice it with this video serving as yet another down-with America polemic, and all of the propaganda therein. Pretty tedious stuff. And, of course, there is never any room for improvement or optimism. Nope. Don't fit da narrative. More doom. More gloom. Aw, shucks . . . In short., not worth any serious consideration. (And I LOVED the jab, "Freedom, right?". Does this ghostly avatar wish to discuss 'conformist culture' in the United States as compared to Asia? Truly? We could be here for days . . . )

    • @PepperSprayed-bc5de
      @PepperSprayed-bc5de 6 місяців тому

      First, can we scale the "creepy" metric by starting with the AI-generated animated image narrating this video? "Creepy" OFF the meter . . . (And why are its lips glistening wet?)
      Combining a whole lotta' concepts that don't apply to the thesis, buttressed by pop-psychology and a lack of understanding that America was built as a "car culture" post-World War 2.
      The can-do country. The better-living-through-chemistry country. New. Shiny. Convenient. Efficient. The whole point of the suburbs was to be away from the hustle, the bustle of the city, the urban areas, where the only sounds you heard on the weekend were your neighbors' lawnmowers and children playing. An oasis away from it all . . . That was the intent. A feature, not a bug. Yes, there is sprawl. But that is changing in many areas. (Not addressed.) This creepy animated narrator also doesn't make any distinction between/among older 'burbs and newer 'burbs, east coast v. west coast. Down with parking lots. Uh, okay . . . Now, we have to convince tens of millions of people to forgo the independence of their own mode of transportation, and trade them in for the noble "efficiency" of more rail (something of which I am in favor, actually.) And....this will be done overnight? Subsidized by the federal, state or local governance? As they say, "It's complicated." I found the example of Japanese "suburbs" precious. Truth be known, there are no genuine SUB-urban areas in Japan. It is a nation of 126-million people in an area the size of the State of Florida. Of course, they're going to be more "connected." They have no choice but to learn to create spaces with more crammed into it. The same can be written about much of Western Europe. They simply do not have the space. We do, in the United States. There are more issues I could counter. Suffice it with this video serving as yet another down-with America polemic, and all of the propaganda therein. Pretty tedious stuff. And, of course, there is never any room for improvement or optimism. Nope. Don't fit da narrative. More doom. More gloom. Aw, shucks . . . In short., not worth any serious consideration. (And I LOVED the jab, "Freedom, right?". Does this ghostly avatar wish to discuss 'conformist culture' in the United States as compared to Asia? Truly? We could be here for days . . . )

    • @silvererain
      @silvererain 6 місяців тому +4

      fuqoff to nordvpn

  • @doomtomb3
    @doomtomb3 6 місяців тому +3156

    It’s also the lack of trees in all of the images you depicted

    • @auntiegravity7713
      @auntiegravity7713 6 місяців тому +98

      THIS!

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +166

      exactly. plenty of hoods have trees and diverse plants and look fine

    • @robertd9850
      @robertd9850 6 місяців тому +80

      We have lots of trees in our suburban neighborhood.

    • @papi654
      @papi654 6 місяців тому +8

      factsssss

    • @robertflanagan6168
      @robertflanagan6168 6 місяців тому +52

      I live in a subdivision and they cut all the trees along the road because someone scratched their truck 😖 in Ireland there is a tidy towns competition and people take pride in trying to out do other towns by cleaning up, painting and planting flowers etc

  • @poppulseupdate
    @poppulseupdate 5 місяців тому +643

    I was delivering food pretty late at around midnight in the outskirts of my city. Passing by seemingly endless amount of houses, all with no lights on, and not a single soul walking or driving. Truly felt like I was utterly alone almost in some sort of twilight zone.

    • @AshleySpeaks4U
      @AshleySpeaks4U 5 місяців тому +27

      Eeeew. Like a creep could come after you and screaming your brains out in front of a dozen homes, but nobody is there to hear. 😢

    • @brendadrew834
      @brendadrew834 4 місяці тому

      Depends on where you live!

    • @taranvainas
      @taranvainas 4 місяці тому +17

      I always say that to see life in those suburbs you need to see a zombie movie.

    • @brendadrew834
      @brendadrew834 4 місяці тому +9

      @@taranvainas Yeah, like living on a fake movie set! smdh

    • @hallsofivy128
      @hallsofivy128 4 місяці тому

      It's creepy

  • @kailahmann1823
    @kailahmann1823 6 місяців тому +4045

    Many of these places make me question "is it legal to walk there?".

    • @aehnosv
      @aehnosv 6 місяців тому +472

      i cant drive so i walk most places and it feels like im doing something wrong when im just trying to walk to my dentist appointment 😭

    • @LolonMatinez
      @LolonMatinez 6 місяців тому +382

      Yes, the police have stopped me a couple of times in these places because they found it suspicious that I was walking

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому +61

      ​@@LolonMatinezin the suburbs?? Lots of people walk and bike ride in suburban neighbors because the streets are wide, there's little to no parking on the road so there's always people walking or jogging.

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому +13

      ​@@LolonMatinezin the suburbs? Where?

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому +9

      @rattlesnake1fulwhy do you need a side walk to walk when the streets are wide? That makes no sense. It's easier to go for a bike ride than those narrow city streets.

  • @poshko4144
    @poshko4144 6 місяців тому +91

    It's modern suburbs that look this way. The ones from the 1950s - 1980s really emphasized wide, spacious lots and self expression in development; they really took that charm of the country, convenience of the city concept to heart. It seem like from the 90s onward the emphasis was on construction efficiency (uniformity) and cramming as many "units" into the available acreage as possible.

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly ! They're beautiful ❤️

    • @1Orderchaos
      @1Orderchaos Місяць тому +2

      Suburbs need to go all together, especially the ones from the 50's.

  • @ToastedFox
    @ToastedFox 6 місяців тому +1276

    its wild when i see rows of homes and they dont even have sidewalks. like, those neighborhoods arent even designed for people.

    • @shraka
      @shraka 6 місяців тому +134

      Everything in America is designed for one company or another. Suburbs are designed for the car / oil / tire companies, which in turn helps the large box stores kill off their local competition. Look at almost any bit of design - even stuff that doesn't seem deliberate - and you can find some company that wanted it like that.

    • @jayeisenhardt1337
      @jayeisenhardt1337 6 місяців тому +17

      Even the ghetto has sidewalks in the US and only time I've seen no sidewalk is way out in the boonies with dirt driveways. Never even met an American who didn't have a sidewalk but sources online say only half of America has them. Half living in the city/suburbia and the other half living in the country so kinda makes sense. It'd be odd for some city people to not have them but not so odd if it's an older city that was used to horses. Ghetto by grandma's house got sidewalks and railroads and the slaughter houses. Much smaller sidewalks but area around there used to be fields and sorta recently that it's now city. 3:16 looked like a german name, then before that the asian place. They got less sidewalk than I've ever seen for a populated area.

    • @shraka
      @shraka 6 місяців тому +7

      @@jayeisenhardt1337 80% of Americans live in cities.

    • @segapena5033
      @segapena5033 6 місяців тому +25

      ​@@shrakathe 2nd largest city in the country is one massive suburb. The most populated state in the country is one giant suburb. It's not 1930. Most people do not live in "cities" but metro areas which are mostly giant suburbs rather core cities. Actually core city population of the US is probably less than 20%.

    • @jamesheggs6825
      @jamesheggs6825 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@shrakawow!....the real big picture😢

  • @KuleGuy27
    @KuleGuy27 6 місяців тому +1650

    Agreed. I ride my bike to school everyday and it feels so boring tbh. It feels like a desolate wasteland, and also because I'm the ONLY ONE riding a bike. It definitely feels like I'm in a zombie movie or smth.
    It truly sucks, in no civilized society would you have to drive to a grocery store and not walk there. It seems that the country has been more about making money than putting health first.
    "Kids, be thankful for your freedom, now get in the car"
    (I stole this comment)

    • @spectre3492
      @spectre3492 6 місяців тому +75

      i feel the same way about certain suburbs. one thing that makes it much worse is if there aren't a lot of trees around. in order to make a neighborhood feel normal there has to be a lot of trees otherwise its like you're on another planet

    • @PelosiStockPortfolio
      @PelosiStockPortfolio 6 місяців тому +26

      In LA riding your bike to school can become a high speed chase at any moment... very exciting

    • @cloudy1723
      @cloudy1723 6 місяців тому +14

      Congrats your the main character, truly

    • @darrenjackson8854
      @darrenjackson8854 6 місяців тому

      Seems? Nobody gives a fuck about me or you anymore.
      (To specify, not literally nobody but. 99% of infrastructure ignores normal citizens now.)

    • @CatchMyself-c8v
      @CatchMyself-c8v 6 місяців тому +6

      I am not american but I like these streets. It is real like zombie vibe.

  • @mjg239
    @mjg239 6 місяців тому +587

    I grew up in Los Angeles. My parents who are now both over 75 years old said to me that they used to ride streetcars all over Los Angeles, AS CHILDREN, in the early 1950s in the middle of central L.A., but they disappeared... seemingly all at once. I asked my mom, "well, what happened?" She said they were replaced with buses and more highways were built (destroying many vibrant neighborhoods in the process). I later come to find out that the General Motors company had a nationwide conspiracy to get more people into cars and to buy their vehicles, so they bought up streetcar systems all over the U.S. and replaced them with big, gas-guzzling buses. When the buses proved inefficient in your daily life, you needed to buy a car. The car became de-facto "required" as a means of convenience, plus it was aspirational to own one (along with a suburban home, the car was a sign of "making it and part of achieving the American Dream", riding the bus or taking public transit in many towns was then viewed as socially "undesirable" and "inconvenient" -- and in many cases even derelict). Of course, car ownership shot up. However, the U.S. government FINED General Motors and ruled what they did as a conspiracy. But by then it was already too late. Also General Motors was one of the main lobbies behind the Highway Act which built more and more roads throughout America for its vehicles and to drive sales, under the guise of "convenience," "efficiency" and "modernization". Thanks, General Motors. Oh yeah, the U.S. gov't also bailed out this company not too long ago.

    • @cathylindeboo.9598
      @cathylindeboo.9598 6 місяців тому +30

      That's really depressing!!

    • @TheYutongCaptain
      @TheYutongCaptain 6 місяців тому +32

      You are correct General Motors (Ford) did, as others in the car manufacturers, conspire to bring street cars to their end. They cited reasons such as labour costs, the inflexibility of the system to adapt to growing areas of the community, scheduling of services which provided the ideal excuse to replace them with buses instead of providing an integrated public transport system. The fact is when big business is involved and there is lame efforts by government's to "punish" their friends it is only tokenism and having to "appease the public" the reality is, money and profits, hidden agendas and personal interests which are always political (like winning the next election) will always have priority over any public consultation. The whole process is a sham, be seen to being to the right thing, even though the decision has already been made.

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 6 місяців тому +9

      "general motors street car conspy." wiki...it deleted me the first time, let's see if this takes...anyway, experts say it wasnt due to gm and that it happened naturally.

    • @mtamech535
      @mtamech535 6 місяців тому

      @@TheYutongCaptain "the inflexibility of the system to adapt to growing areas of the community" Well that makes sense. You've convinced me that it was the right thing to do.

    • @FredoNavajas92
      @FredoNavajas92 6 місяців тому +12

      @@joejones9520 trust us that big company’s lobbied against public transportation in favor of personal cars, it’s one of the most American things ever.

  • @drakondra
    @drakondra 4 місяці тому +204

    I'm from Eastern Europe. American traffic lights and road signs are terrifying for me

    • @flyingnan2520
      @flyingnan2520 4 місяці тому +20

      May I ask why the signs or the lights in the US are terrible to the people from Eastern Europe?

    • @frtzkng
      @frtzkng 4 місяці тому +2

      IDK about the lights but for signs, it may be that all speed limit signs have a 1.6x multiplicator compared to Eastern Europe (or any place except Britain, where those customary units came from, and Myanmar for some reason. But switching everything from miles to kilometers is probably not worth the cost anymore in the US)

    • @monk3yboy69
      @monk3yboy69 4 місяці тому +8

      What a silly comment…..
      I grew up in South Africa with the metric system you have in Eastern Europe ( all of Europe to be honest ) .
      I have been living in the UK for 27 years and not once have converted miles to km.
      Why would it even cross your mind.
      If a sign says 80 miles and you are driving a car marked in mph, you’re not going to convert the distance km.
      Speed signs in mph…..you drive at the required speed in your car marked in mph….
      Maybe I’m missing your point……but I’m struggling nonetheless

    • @frtzkng
      @frtzkng 4 місяці тому

      @@monk3yboy69 Do you have anything worthwhile to contribute? If not, don't dump it here.
      Also I take no liability for people taking my comments seriously.

    • @IvanaRassija
      @IvanaRassija 4 місяці тому +5

      I’m not sure what exactly drakondra meant but I had a similar feeling when I visited the states for the first time. I remember everything was giant. The roads, the malls, the drinks, everything. And the amount of signs really overstimulate your brain. Same for the streetlights plus they’re also on the other side of the road which you really need to get used to first.

  • @ElusiveDino
    @ElusiveDino 6 місяців тому +814

    Having grown up in the USA, this video precisely describes how I felt about these places. Its like these places are not places at all like Not Just Bikes says. Being stuck at home feels like being stuck on a remote island surrounded by an inhospitable concrete wasteland. The only practical way to get around is to get in that metal box on wheels. Oh, and you must ask mommy and daddy to take you pretty much anywhere, but to where if everything is just copy-paste chain stores and restaurants.

    • @erikmorales17
      @erikmorales17 6 місяців тому

      I’d walk to a 711 near me 😂😂 I’d go out and train ⚽️ everyday 😂😂 I love the suburbs it’s the best. Losers like u stay behind while I get better

    • @Bob-ze9id
      @Bob-ze9id 6 місяців тому +39

      amen. love to drive but hate having to have to drive. suburbs tend to have no souls in part because they have no history and there is little or nothing to individualize them.
      while there are solid places to live in usa....the primary reason i stayed in montreal quebec having also grownup in the usa is it is a city as a city should be. rare in north america.
      i have had a car more often than not but its great not being absolutely dependent on it. here there is a time for driving but also a time for walking, subway, cycling etc.

    • @nilmerg
      @nilmerg 6 місяців тому +12

      ​@@piejecko the issue is that places with better quality of life are likely more expensive compared to where one is currently living in, making it more difficult to save to reasonably afford a move.
      there's many aspects that make it ridiculously difficult for many to even begin considering a move.

    • @nickruscigno3633
      @nickruscigno3633 6 місяців тому +14

      It’s better than living in the city with the lost and soul less

    • @nilmerg
      @nilmerg 6 місяців тому +12

      @@nickruscigno3633 saying "could be worse" when both have massive problems that need change adds nothing valuable to this topic or discussion

  • @theragnarok13
    @theragnarok13 6 місяців тому +1102

    I came to America in March 2020. Didn’t have a driving license when I arrived, so had to walk through empty highways to my first job site for like 4.5 hours on my first day. Lockdown + no sidewalks + empty giant highways + ugly stroads. No bus or metro before 8 AM. I didn’t get my debit card until two weeks later. Didn’t have no friends who could help with taxi. It was the moment I realized this country is not designed for people. It’s designed to feed capitalism.

    • @nixonmalasi8982
      @nixonmalasi8982 6 місяців тому

      America is the new BABYLON.. purely artificial from it's soul outwards. In any other country you would have made so many friends (casual and potentially long-term) from the few days you had arrived. And that's the people you would have met in the streets showing you directions you were trying to find.

    • @dklang
      @dklang 6 місяців тому +80

      This is the "urbanization" of America. Yes it's ugly, but Japan, China, Korea, and many other places have the same thing. You should have found a better place to work. Why did you leave your country if it was better than the US? It's the product of industrialization and is all over the world. Hey, now you can come on YT and whine about it. Living on earth means dealing with problems.

    • @rootdoc1997
      @rootdoc1997 6 місяців тому +28

      You came at a bad time, but you are welcome that we allowed you in our country

    • @C9LD
      @C9LD 6 місяців тому +170

      @@dklang "wHy DiD yoU LeAVe yOur cOuNtRy-" beacuse they didnt know what they actually had. a lot of people in other countries have been fed lies about america thinking that not only is the american dream still alive, but also that not having a car would just be a mild inconvenience. a lot of people outside america also dont realize how big america truly is, you've clearly never seen someone in europe or asia be dumbfounded by the size of texas, let alone alaska. a lot of japanese dont realise that their entire country(377,930km2) is smaller than california(423,970km2). same with ireland being half the size of kansas(almost 2:1 in size). they're unaware of the true scale of how big the us is, let alone one state, and get surprised when they realize you cant walk across 4600km. (let alone 1k km)

    • @JM-xu3cr
      @JM-xu3cr 6 місяців тому +29

      I hope you're supporting yourself and not living off of government handouts.

  • @Alias_Anybody
    @Alias_Anybody 6 місяців тому +1235

    Fact is, if the street is barely wider than two cars, you actually a) need to know how to drive, b) drive slowly and c) be undistracted. Three things many US-citizens seem to be allergic against.
    Edit: Because some people in the replies think I'm endorsing that, no, it's obviously pathetic.

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +67

      Narrower streets will be safer for the people because it'll take shorter time to cross, and less exposure to sunlight while doing so.

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +24

      Street and road are different words. The whole purpose of a street is as some kind of open air, outdoor public space for people to socialize while walking to certain place. It makes sense to ban any motor vehicles from our streets,

    • @Betweoxwitegan
      @Betweoxwitegan 6 місяців тому +63

      ​@@selflesssamaritan6417Narrow streets also make drivers focus more, subconsciously drive slower, etc. Narrow streets are just superior, look at The Netherlands for example. The problem with The USA comes down to its sheer size, they haven't had to adapt to optimal efficiency because there's so much space, whereas in places like The Netherlands, (a small nation) they were forced to use space optimally.

    • @Alias_Anybody
      @Alias_Anybody 6 місяців тому +12

      @@selflesssamaritan6417
      Suburban streets will always be of mixed use. Should there be side streets with no cars? Sure, but drivers have to be able to drive in a peaceful fashion too.

    • @kailahmann1823
      @kailahmann1823 6 місяців тому +8

      And it's not just the street (as the asphalt) itself, it's also the front lawns with NOTHING on them - at very best a few cars are parked here and there. So you often have 40 meters of total emptiness, where it feels safe to drive as fast as your car can go. Pretty sure, most race tracks are narrower between solid obstacles…
      For comparison a tiny residential street in Germany is 5 meters with a fence right next to it (no sidewalk, as traffic is limited to walking speed) and another 5 meter of front garden on each side and then come's the building.

  • @buioso
    @buioso 4 місяці тому +87

    I'm glad in Italy we never adopted this model for the suburbs of big cities.
    I mean, we have zones made only of single houses, but not this vast and monotone.

    • @locked01
      @locked01 4 місяці тому +5

      We did not adopt that because we couldn't. And it's not that Italian zoning is good, most of the times. We got a lot of ghost villages, especially in the South, that are impossible to live in and look eerie enough.

    • @fuzzyduck1989
      @fuzzyduck1989 4 місяці тому +1

      @@locked01 1 Euro homes... lol

  • @taotaoliu2229
    @taotaoliu2229 6 місяців тому +595

    Man, the suburbs can be quite a miserable place for teenagers. Literally all of my close friends live outside of my neighborhood, so I rarely, if ever, get invited to the fun things they do.
    This past winter was really rough. I was planning to learn to snowboard this winter, and possibly go to a ski resort with my best friend, but the cost was too expensive. So while everyone else was having fun during the winter with their friends, I was basically stuck at home. This lead me to borderline addiction to a mobile video game called Clash Of Clans. On some weekends, I’d spend hours and hours raiding people’s villages and earning massive amounts of resources and trophies. I’ve gotten more passive about the game now, but man, was that game my lifeline.
    Living in the suburbs as a teenager with most fun places being either expensive, too far away, or lonely, is hard.
    😔

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +121

      A boring, isolating place where you cannot access places that entertain you accessible by foot for a short time.
      Suburbs also ruined childhood by making them reliant for parents to drive them if they want to go somewhere interesting. A perfect place for strict, manipulative parents.

    • @micosstar
      @micosstar 6 місяців тому

      @@selflesssamaritan6417 the environment practically encourages abusive parents... because when it comes to transportation, they are you lifeline until you are 16.

    • @arsteel2388
      @arsteel2388 6 місяців тому +26

      I ended up biking places I wanted to go as a teen, despite my mother being against it because she thought it was too unsafe. Ended up biking 5.5 miles one way to go play Magic the Gathering a few times a week.
      That still is only feasible if you're within like 5-7 miles of where you want to go, though. 10-12 miles if you have an electric bike. That's a decent range, though.

    • @reckonerwheel5336
      @reckonerwheel5336 6 місяців тому +34

      @kingvonfrom63rd000 These parents err deeply on the side of caution while doing so, and believe a child just going to school fulfills all their needs for socialization and development of independence.

    • @reckonerwheel5336
      @reckonerwheel5336 6 місяців тому +19

      The summers were the worst. I was an introvert so I knew how to enjoy my own company and had many interests, and even so, I always got sad a week into the vacation. I'd get together with friends every couple weeks, and it wasn't enough. I enjoyed the freedom from school as much as I was saddened from the isolation it brought.

  • @Himmelgrau68
    @Himmelgrau68 6 місяців тому +300

    North American suburbs are worse than most North Americans realize. I grew up in the US, and lived in both semi-rural, and suburban environments, but never realized just how horrible they were until after I moved to Germany then came back to visit the US after several years. Although the German town I live in has only about 40,000 inhabitants, I can still walk out of my home and within 10 minutes and have access to any amenity that I wish: shopping, restaurants, pubs, theaters, outdoor/indoor cafés, bakeries, supermarkets, doctors, train/bus station, etc... just about everything - and that is in this town alone. Most other towns of this size are similar. People are out and about all day and even at night during the warmer months of the year. If I want to visit that next, much larger, town over, I can bike or take a bus, or even drive my car, but I don't have to drive, and prefer not to as driving can be more inconvenient depending on the situation and available parking. Why drive somewhere if you know you might drink a beer?
    The US is TOTALLY different, and not in a good way. About a year ago I came back to the US to visit my brother who lives in a single home suburb in the Denver area. I was amazed by just the width of the road in front of his house. (Why had I never noticed that before?) It is more than twice the width of the road in front of my home in Germany, which was only built in 2014. One day when my brother was not at home, I figured I would go for a meal in the *closest* nearby restaurant for a hamburger and fries. I figured I may have a beer or two, so I decided to walk rather than drive, which turned out to be a mistake. The walk was nearly an hour in one direction, with a “stroad” and no other pedestrians along the way. On my way home, a nosy cop pulled over along the side of the road and asked me what I was doing walking along the road in the dark. Luckily, he left me alone, but not after admonishing me for not having a way to get home “safely”. It was surely my authentic, yet fake, German accent that got me out of that one.
    I was in the Denver area again about a month ago, but this time I stayed in a hotel. Looking out my hotel window toward the back of the hotel, all I could see was a huge wall with a highway flyover behind it, and when looking out the front of the hotel from the lobby all one could see was a HUGE parking lot with a strip mall way off in the distance. What does it take to come up with the idea of building a hotel among so much ungodly concrete? This experience was more soul-crushing than the visit to my brother last year. I can now understand why so many Americans unashamedly and casually admit to having “therapists”.
    I find this all very unfortunate and have decided that I will not be spending the time and money to bring my wife to visit my suburban family members anywhere in the US outside of New York City. Most American cities and towns are just too boring and ugly, and are essentially just huge parking lots. There are plenty of much nicer places to visit here in Europe. If I start feeling nostalgia for America, I can just drive for 20 minutes to Ikea and walk around the parking lot.

    • @bw2442
      @bw2442 6 місяців тому +60

      It’s all about the money in USA, we have been sold out to corporations by lobbyists and politicians, our new motto is- USA a nation of the corporations, by the corporations and for the corporations.

    • @shaunigothictv1003
      @shaunigothictv1003 6 місяців тому +12

      Excellent analysis@Himmel.

    • @gibbyjibby0
      @gibbyjibby0 6 місяців тому +3

      Your first mistake was living in a suburb in the West

    • @thunderbird1921
      @thunderbird1921 6 місяців тому +13

      Have you been to some of the smaller, old-fashioned US rural towns? The difference from the suburbs is unbelievable with some of them, a lot of stuff is much better connected and they clearly designed stuff with more people in mind (sidewalks, mixed zoning areas, etc.).

    • @VictorSanchez11
      @VictorSanchez11 6 місяців тому +13

      America was not made for pedestrians AT ALL

  • @booboss
    @booboss 6 місяців тому +411

    Fun fact: even though American suburbs are so sprawl they are actually in total taking less space then parking lots in America - which BTW is another alarming statistics. In total there are 8 parking spaces for each car registered in America. In Europe on avarage there's 0.8 parking space for each car registered.

    • @baronvonjo1929
      @baronvonjo1929 6 місяців тому +22

      And yet I still struggle to find parking sometimes lol. If the car is my only means of getting around then you're going to need parking spaces.
      If you want to get rid of parking then have reasonable, practical solutions that can be used by people all over the suburban sprawl and not be limited to certain areas.

    • @ImieNazwiskoOK
      @ImieNazwiskoOK 6 місяців тому +29

      @@baronvonjo1929 2 things:
      -Get rid of needless zoning laws so the layouts of suburbs can improve in future
      -Public transportation (bike lanes could also be used to for example get to bus stops)

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 6 місяців тому +1

      Why is this a fun fact, why isn’t it just a fact?

    • @ImieNazwiskoOK
      @ImieNazwiskoOK 6 місяців тому +5

      @@baronvonjo1929 Re-reading your message in a way you even said it yourself: "If the car is my only means of getting around then you're going to need parking spaces."

    • @BasedHyperborean
      @BasedHyperborean 6 місяців тому +7

      So less than one…? That sounds woefully below what it should be. We have so many parking spaces because basically everyone here is prosperous enough to be able to afford a vehicle… in part, because our government isn’t taxing 50%+ of our income. Europe isn’t a good place to live. Any of it.

  • @alexleanh
    @alexleanh 3 місяці тому +9

    I like quiet neighborhoods, so... if no one is outside making noises and being noisy... it doesn't bother me. My subdivision is pretty aesthetic with manicured lawns, trees, plants, vegetable gardens, flowers, canals, bikes and walking paths, tennis courts, basketball courts, golf courses, swimming pools, etc. but it is mostly empty and quiet during weekdays... and only a bit busy during weekends with people doing things (mow their lawns, tend to their yards, etc.) and exercise (walking, biking, etc.) outdoors. I like my suburb that way.

  • @ung427
    @ung427 6 місяців тому +131

    Yes I'm so glad I grew up in the 70's and 80's where tons of kids on Bikes roamed all around, each house had kids playing outside.. families barbecuing outside, everyone minding their own business to an extent... There were never any HOA's...so everyone had their thing going. One yard had cars on it with people working on them, customizing them...the next had older people gardening... there were always kids everywhere. People back then values freedom and individuality over conformity. They also valued vigilance, and weren't always distracted by the hand held phone. There were block parties.. people went for walks in the afternoon and evening. Kids turned vacant lots into baseball diamonds, or BMX tracks... it was a very fun time. Now I'm completely shocked to hear that some parents get arrested for letting their kids play outside... what a disgusting world we live in!!!

    • @michaellockhart6632
      @michaellockhart6632 6 місяців тому +5

      In the 70's and 80's there were no cell phones and no YT.

    • @r.guerreiro140
      @r.guerreiro140 6 місяців тому +1

      Excuseme, but what is a HOA?

    • @sekovittol3124
      @sekovittol3124 6 місяців тому +9

      I'm 55, it used to be like that in my old hood, now it's like a ghost town. Kids play in front of the monitor these days.
      And adults are too divided or too busy.

    • @marlak4203
      @marlak4203 6 місяців тому +7

      thank youuuuuu.
      THIS is the America NONE of these channels talk about.
      All they talk about are other countries and how America needs to be that way instead of saying things like it should go BACK to how it USED to be. Some of the statements they make i always shake my head because i too remember back in the 80's and 90's how it used to be just like they complain about now. And there were cars during all of these periods so the problem is NOT cars. Its other things that have been going on.

    • @sekovittol3124
      @sekovittol3124 6 місяців тому +4

      @@r.guerreiro140 'Home Owners Association' I believe.

  • @weloveprincessdi
    @weloveprincessdi 6 місяців тому +238

    i live in a small Texas town, and there are legit NO SIDEWALKS. if you walk anywhere, ppl will look at you from their cars and be like “why are they walking to _____?” because it’s so denormalized here. i used to live in the bay area, where walking anywhere was completely normal because there were actual sidewalks, smaller roads, and smaller parking lots. it’s actually wild how society functions in some places.

    • @jacelongoria6070
      @jacelongoria6070 6 місяців тому +24

      Fr I live in a small Texas town, and you are instantly classified as a crackhead if you are seen walking somewhere, bc there ain’t no sidewalks lol

    • @David-TX59
      @David-TX59 6 місяців тому +6

      Here in Irving, Texas we don't have sidewalks along many roads and people walk or ride their bikes in the right lane, especially late at night. So I avoid the right lane when driving, but picked a neighborhood with good sidewalks and 2 shopping centers where I can walk to the restaurant's have dinner a few drinks, buy a few groceries and safely walk home.

    • @stevedickson5853
      @stevedickson5853 6 місяців тому +1

      Where I live its the other way around, more and more areas pedestrianised, speed humps everywhere in built up areas and pavements wide as landing strips

    • @Dargonhuman
      @Dargonhuman 6 місяців тому +2

      I live in a medium CA town in the heart of the Gold Country, and it's the same here - there are plenty of sidewalks in the urbanized areas like Old Town, Down and Up Town but go a quarter mile outside of those areas and there might be a sidewalk on one side of the road or the other, but it's more likely you're walking in a bike lane or gravel shoulder if you're footing it anywhere. What's really fun is the areas where the sidewalk on one side stops suddenly for no reason and starts again on the other side of the road so you have to decide to walk the gravel or chance crossing the street to the next section of sidewalk, and of course there aren't any crosswalks, stop/yield signs, crossing lights or even a speed hump at the end of the sidewalk.
      On the upside, we are known as the Endurance Capital of the World and host a number of international bike and foot races, so there are an abundance of bike lanes to utilize as pseudo-sidewalks if you're walking.

    • @guyburgwin5675
      @guyburgwin5675 5 місяців тому +6

      That's funny. I was walking home from the grocery store in meridian Idaho. Some one pulled over to offer me a ride. He assumed my car broke down.

  • @juugerjuuger3141
    @juugerjuuger3141 6 місяців тому +675

    Holy shit… this explains why people from the suburbs always act like they’re fearful/vulnerable. Like a mouse in the middle of an open field where there is nowhere to run or hide to

    • @cassandraknight8804
      @cassandraknight8804 6 місяців тому +38

      Good explanation

    • @nataliekhanyola5669
      @nataliekhanyola5669 6 місяців тому +61

      Pretty much. Plus they're all on xanax.

    • @juugerjuuger3141
      @juugerjuuger3141 6 місяців тому

      @@nataliekhanyola5669LMOOO reading this while in Xanax

    • @joylox
      @joylox 6 місяців тому +53

      This makes me appreciate my area. Our suburbs have trees, gardens, trails, rivers, and small stores and businesses you can walk or bike to, depending on how far the street goes back. It's getting worse, but I'm in a good spot. I've walked along a wooded trail to physio, a local grocery, and pharmacy before. I feel like suburbs on the prairies would be horrible.

    • @tombailey1059
      @tombailey1059 6 місяців тому +48

      There's nothing wrong with the suburbs or the people who live there. This is a trope born out of envy.

  • @luxianolee7497
    @luxianolee7497 4 місяці тому +47

    I will never ever wish I had grown up anywhere else except New York. I truly love my city and how diverse, beautiful, modern and yet so classic it feels at times. Theres cars, sure. But theres also people every corner. Small businesses and stores that are different every neighborhood. And you can actually walk... basically everywhere. Thank god.

    • @龘纛爨灪麤彠
      @龘纛爨灪麤彠 4 місяці тому +8

      The flipside of the coin is just that its too expensive for regular people to live in NYC now. Rents are ridiculously high, and the living cost just exploded after 2000

    • @luxianolee7497
      @luxianolee7497 4 місяці тому +4

      @@龘纛爨灪麤彠 Yeah that's the only bad part. That's why I said "grown up". Because to be honest? I don't think I'd be able to survive here now. Things were different when I was a child.

    • @龘纛爨灪麤彠
      @龘纛爨灪麤彠 4 місяці тому

      @@luxianolee7497 Is it really true that many sectors in NYC were controlled by the Mafia? I have never been to NY, thats why Im askin

    • @abunchahooey
      @abunchahooey 4 місяці тому +5

      😂 NYC is a cesspool. Keep voting them in, tho

    • @justadude117X
      @justadude117X 3 місяці тому +4

      If you think NY is great then you should go to Amsterdam or The Hague

  • @ziqi92
    @ziqi92 6 місяців тому +184

    My suburban neighborhood had an internal sidewalk and a community clubhouse and pool that kids can easily get to and use without being exposed to the risk of cars or needing adult supervision. Had it not been for that, I would have been much more miserable growing up.

    • @laurie7689
      @laurie7689 6 місяців тому +3

      I'm sure that your parents paid for that privilege, too, of using the clubhouse and pool.

    • @ziqi92
      @ziqi92 6 місяців тому +9

      @@laurie7689 came included with the HOA fee

    • @Coffeepanda294
      @Coffeepanda294 6 місяців тому +3

      We had a community swimming pool when I lived in Houston, too. I seem to recall we kids in my family basically lived there during summer break. It was a godsend on hot days.

    • @laurie7689
      @laurie7689 6 місяців тому +1

      @@ziqi92 An HOA is not the type of subdivision that I'm ever willing to live in. Those of us that don't live in them, don't have access to clubhouses and community pools, etc. We wouldn't be willing to pay for those amenities either as a community. We'd prefer to have our own individual pools in our own individual yards.

    • @lovingsunshine3515
      @lovingsunshine3515 6 місяців тому +1

      And how much is your HOA though? Our friend’s HOA just went from $700 to $1200 a year and that will just keep going up and there is nothing anyone can do about it. In some expensive areas, it’s hundreds of dollars a month 😬 I love my neighborhood. Even though we don’t have a sidewalk, people are very respectful. We drive slow since we have people constantly going for a walk with their dogs and children visiting their friends in the neighborhood and we don’t have HOA. Property tax is only $750 a year. We talk to our neighbors, share vegetables, and tools or whatever we need for fixing something in our house.

  • @lmattsonart
    @lmattsonart 6 місяців тому +81

    Dude my dreams are full of creepy, empty suburban areas. They aren't quite nightmares but they aren't good dreams either. So glad I live in a community that has biking trails throughout town and a historic downtown with personality. Helps combat that liminal/hopeless feeling.

    • @auntiegravity7713
      @auntiegravity7713 6 місяців тому +5

      I live in SE Europe (and previously NL) but grew up in the burbs. I'm so glad to hear that there are places that aren't so damn depressing and isolating. (In North America)

    • @kstrofii
      @kstrofii 6 місяців тому +2

      @medina__anidemWoah, what’s with the defensiveness? Lmao

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 6 місяців тому

      Walking is good ​@medina__anidem

    • @milksdad926
      @milksdad926 6 місяців тому

      @@kstrofiihit dogs bark my friend lol that’s why they’re so defensive

    • @kiwitrainguy
      @kiwitrainguy 6 місяців тому +1

      @medina__anidem You don't know how old the OP is, they may still be in their teens and still living with their parents. Besides it wouldn't be necessary to relocate all the way to Asia just to find liveable suburbs.

  • @AnimeFridays
    @AnimeFridays 6 місяців тому +399

    It's so depressing seeing America turn into Corporate America with all its blandness and "productive" aesthetics. Especially how creative everything was back then (I'm 33)

    • @analyticalhabitrails9857
      @analyticalhabitrails9857 6 місяців тому +10

      "Already long ago, from when we sold our vote to no man, the People have abdicated our duties; for the People who once upon a time handed out military command, high civil office, were politically engaged populations, legions - everything, now restrains itself and anxiously hopes for just two things:
      bread and circuses."

    • @robertd9850
      @robertd9850 6 місяців тому

      Demand drives decisions. "Corporate America" makes what people demand. There is no diabolical agenda. Except for tech companies.

    • @ursulasmith6402
      @ursulasmith6402 6 місяців тому +1

      Reagan' BS, he was a complete idiot!

    • @Markodude
      @Markodude 6 місяців тому +14

      Haha half the houses he filmed are in Canada

    • @americanegale697
      @americanegale697 6 місяців тому

      Go to europe and suffer to find a arking spot. This video is dumb af and i grew up in Europe

  • @lordkayla4186
    @lordkayla4186 4 місяці тому +3

    Yeah, its pretty much how you describe over here. I think I got lucky because I grew up in a place close to all of the schools, just a few blocks from an expensive but convenient shop where I can buy things I forgot, and right next to a park. But its pain going for a walk in the neighborhood. It is so very empty and sad. Nothing is unique.

    • @Awsome_Bread
      @Awsome_Bread 4 місяці тому +2

      Same here, there's like a store near by where I live. But my school is far away so I have to go by car, and yeah. This place is like empty and boring country, like not much to do.

  • @mattd5147
    @mattd5147 6 місяців тому +99

    As someone who lives in suburban Philadelphia I have to say, I cannot relate at all to this video. The town I live definitely has the cookie cutter home style as described in this video, but it does not at all feel “liminal” or “empty” here. The streets are lined with trees and sidewalks, and it is a very active community where I live. People are always walking around outside, walking dogs, riding bikes, etc. There are multiple community parks with biking trails and nature trails within walking distance of my house, as well. We also have state parks that are not too far of a drive away. I guess it’s because the town I live was built before all these zoning laws came into effect is why it feels much different than the places described in this video.

    • @johna.5150
      @johna.5150 6 місяців тому +14

      Yes, there are many great suburbs in America, some very beautiful with trees, and different sorts of architecture, and the majority of Americans live in suburbs, more than rural areas and urban areas combined. and they include many of America's most creative and interesting people, of different ethnicities and occupations.
      There are also many different sorts of suburbs with different economic classes, ethnic groups, population density, etc. and many of them are not as bland as that youtube seems to believe they are. There is actually in some ways more diversity in some of the suburbs than in some cities or country areas.
      This youtube has a very limited and ignorant view of the diversity of suburbs.
      Prejudice against the suburbs is as dumb as ethnic prejudice, or other unnecessary prejudices.

    • @robs5688
      @robs5688 6 місяців тому

      The OP is pushing an agenda. He's an in-your-face World Economics Forum agent. He rails against one-family houses, cars, "Everythinbg being spread out" and basically laments people being independent. He's basically promoting the so-called 15-minute city.

    • @robs5688
      @robs5688 6 місяців тому

      @@johna.5150 This channel is blatantly pushing an agenda. He's an in-your-face World Economics Forum agent. He rails against one-family houses, cars, "Everything being spread out" and basically laments people being independent. He's basically promoting the so-called 15-minute city, where you will "own nothing and be happy".

    • @andtipidee
      @andtipidee 6 місяців тому +17

      Lots of comments (not all of them) complain about suburbs yet don’t even live in one. I live in one and honestly, it’s peaceful. People who live in suburbs WANT to live in suburbs; depending on your location it can get expensive so there’s no reason to live in a suburb if you don’t want to. There’s nothing “liminal” or “eerie” about them. I’m a kid who walks around in a suburb day and night and the most liminal thing I’ve seen was a deer.

    • @j.j.juggernaut9709
      @j.j.juggernaut9709 6 місяців тому +12

      I am glad to see this comment. As someone who grew up in a third world country surrounded by ugly brutalistic post soviet buildings that made my city look like concrete grey hell (plus dirty grey air lol) american suburbs always seemed like such a lovely place to live in. Sometimes I look at such videos and think that this people really are complaining about a non-issue when there are so many other things about USA they could be complaining about instead 🙄

  • @lucynyu333
    @lucynyu333 6 місяців тому +113

    It's like the new Australian suburbs that are built like an unorganised soulless dystopian nightmare minus the parking and big enough roads. Where the mansions are for the rich people the roads are in much better conditions and the parks are very dreamy. Every immigrant I met always complains how empty the streets are and there is no community

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +6

      Some cultures are more reserved than others. Japanese cities are very walkable, and yet a huge percent of them don't even leave their room if they don't have to. Meanwhile, Americans may have boring suburbs, but also they have many social events in family for Christmas and other holydays.

    • @user-gu9yq5sj7c
      @user-gu9yq5sj7c 6 місяців тому +24

      @@josephang9927 At least those Japanese people have walkability if they want it. It's harder to change the city design. Introverts and extroverts can live in walkable places.

    • @evgeny7039
      @evgeny7039 6 місяців тому

      Immigrants ARE the main problem why there's no sense of community.
      Comes from an immigrant btw. But I am honest about it.

    • @ACDZ123
      @ACDZ123 6 місяців тому +9

      Immigrants in Australia complaining?? Tell them they could always go back

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +1

      @@user-gu9yq5sj7c I get your concern, blaming suburbs or countryside for cities being too expensive, specially for people who would benefit the most with walkability, is kind of a stretch.

  • @aubriethegreat8175
    @aubriethegreat8175 6 місяців тому +74

    Every day we get a little closer to being like the Borg...
    I never liked suburbs like that. I grew up in rural U.S.A. in a house in the woods with just a few neighbors through the trees, way outside of town. My only source of socializing my family members, because we were too far away from everything to walk, and there weren't many good places to even go to. It really is mostly chains of gas stations and stores and fast food restaurants. It's horribly ugly and repetitive and unappealing and car centric. I grew up very lonely and isolated. People wonder why kids and teens are on phones and playing video games so much nowadays... just look around. So many of them live in copy and paste suburbs like these, and can't drive until they're 16, and even then fun things cost money they may not have. What else are they supposed to do? There is nothing to do outside. The only entertainment available is digital, and their phones are the only way to talk to their friends because they can't get to them in person. Phones aren't the cause, they're a symptom, of restrictive capitalism-driven bad urban design.
    Great video.

    • @SomeGoatedPerson
      @SomeGoatedPerson 6 місяців тому +6

      well said

    • @TheLandon8806
      @TheLandon8806 6 місяців тому

      Funny you blame capitalism for the government zoning you bitch about.
      Also. Hey when I was kid in the old days. Go outside and play in the dirt or climb a tree or go for hike. What you talking about digital is only source of entertainment??? That digital phone probably costs a lot more than real life hobbies. Maybe start a garden. Ride bikes. Get creative. Instead of bitching someone else’s fault for your boredom

    • @auntiegravity7713
      @auntiegravity7713 6 місяців тому +3

      Very well said. I used to think that I would always want to live in a larger city. (I was born and raised in a suburb of Chicago in the 70's and 80's) Now I live in a small Bosnian town. I'm used to much less strict zoning laws.. I can walk to the store and run errands easily on foot. (Unless I need to buy something larger, I don't need a car)
      My backyard is a HUGE pasture with trees on it. I feel very fortunate.
      I'm also lucky because I don't need to travel far to get a big city experience. I can get a very cheap flight to London, for example.
      Also because of the pandemic and remote work (I build websites and automations for small businesses) I can work from anywhere.
      Getting back to your point.. I would now definitely choose to live in a rural area in the US, without HOA's. I've lived in places where you can grow food on your own property and where people don't have a weird aversion to hanging laundry to dry in the sun.
      Americans think that we have less freedom in Europe.. but you do have organizations that operated pretty much like a mafia.. HOA's,. that severely restrict basic freedoms, autonomy, and quality of life.
      But if I ever moved back to the US.. I might avoid areas very prone to tornadoes.. :)

    • @platinumfalconm3891
      @platinumfalconm3891 6 місяців тому

      The first "Wrinkle in Time" movie 2003, nailed it.

    • @vilagistene2939
      @vilagistene2939 6 місяців тому +1

      @@auntiegravity7713Nobody belive that in U.S has any freedom.

  • @Inaworldoflove
    @Inaworldoflove 3 місяці тому +1

    City life versus suburbia. Both have pros and cons. I think it's good to have a vocal point for a community. Where I grew up it was a golf club/country club, a place where locals could go play golf, swim, play tennis, have a meal, enjoy the bar, even play video games. Had it not existed the area wouldn't have the same connection.

  • @matias5924
    @matias5924 6 місяців тому +41

    I would like to know why in the United States it is illegal to have businesses within neighborhoods.
    I am from Argentina and literally the neighborhood stores are small but efficient compared to the large supermarkets.
    Because for example, I just need to buy a drink or buy something for dinner, I just walk 1 or 2 blocks and I'm already shopping. The total time is at most 10 minutes round trip walking.

    • @eclipticsonata1313
      @eclipticsonata1313 6 місяців тому +9

      In the U.S. supermarket chains had the money to undercut the small neighborhood stores and eventually put them out of business. Most of those buildings are still there, but are vacant. When designing new suburbs they got rid of the zoning that allowed for those small neighborhood stores, because supermarkets already won.

    • @TheMariemarie16
      @TheMariemarie16 6 місяців тому +5

      Zoning laws are supposed to prevent incompatible land uses such as having a nightclub next to a beautiful suburban neighborhood which would lower those people's property values and disturb their peace. We don't have many small shops here unless it's in certain huge cities such as New York or LA. Most shops are regulated to require many parking spots per square foot of store space so this is another reason. It's not safe to have kids walking home from school next to a huge parking lot. There's like hundreds of reasons that the cities considered zoning laws to add to beauty, safety and organization. We don't have that European or Argentine lifestyle.

    • @cut419ram
      @cut419ram 6 місяців тому +4

      In most neighborhoods where I currently live, there are gas stations and small convience item shops nearer to the homes then the big stores. As well as restarants.

    • @TheMariemarie16
      @TheMariemarie16 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes as another person said we usually will have a gas station/ convenience store in the Neighborhood but honestly it's not right inside the neighborhood. You would still have to walk quite a bit. Several of my friends live in communities where there is honestly nothing which can be walked to in a reasonable time frame.

    • @Coffeepanda294
      @Coffeepanda294 6 місяців тому +4

      Xenophobia and the oil/car industry.
      And, more recently, an insular population ignorant about alternatives. A lot of Americans seem to think their way is the only possible way to build suburbs.

  • @sarahcamarillo1442
    @sarahcamarillo1442 6 місяців тому +46

    I live in Fresno California and this had ALWAYS been an issue growing up. The suburbs are dead quiet which can be nice at night when youre trying to sleep but in the middle of the day it felt like i was the only human in a dystopia. No one wanted to go out because even going to the nearest grocery store was a 10 minute drive through winding neighborhoods and copy-paste houses. It was practically completely unwalkable and left me a complete homebody. When I travelled I noticed how walkable everywhere else was. In my hometown you almost NEVER see people walking around.

    • @Ratnavina-ht6xq
      @Ratnavina-ht6xq 6 місяців тому +2

      A little horible thing..

    • @lastswordfighter
      @lastswordfighter 6 місяців тому

      Commiefornication liberals: Waah car bad. Waah private property bad. Waah suburbs bad.

    • @feedbackcontent
      @feedbackcontent 6 місяців тому +1

      209 Here. Nees/ Woodward

  • @lauren1779
    @lauren1779 6 місяців тому +52

    I miss living at a university you had school, work, gym, food, and other actives all within walking distance

    • @h.d.thoreau8967
      @h.d.thoreau8967 4 місяці тому +10

      That's called Europe.

    • @rochester212
      @rochester212 4 місяці тому +6

      Every normal country has that, dude, no need to go to university to have this "luxury".

    • @simba8665
      @simba8665 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@h.d.thoreau8967 naah, have you ever been to Canadian major cities? That's pretty much the urban planning here

    • @justadude117X
      @justadude117X 3 місяці тому

      ​@@rochester212 then europe has the only normal countries i guess

    • @spaghettiisyummy.3623
      @spaghettiisyummy.3623 3 місяці тому

      ​@@h.d.thoreau8967There's also Asia, Africa, and Latin America.

  • @lucky8057
    @lucky8057 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm from a 'developing country' and to me that symmetry and neatness looks beautiful because it's very chaotic here :D

  • @sarahchoi2657
    @sarahchoi2657 6 місяців тому +43

    speaking on behalf of south korea, I think that walkable cities only work there because they have the foundation of a good public transportation system + the country is small, so housing is typically built upwards. It would be difficult to implement a similar format into a country such as the U.S. given its size and its lack of reliable public transport

    • @kaiparker1756
      @kaiparker1756 6 місяців тому +12

      Apartment housing is just as dystopian and liminal. You have tens of people living on top of you and under you. Your apartment is tiny, but costs a fortune to even live there. To even get outside or to your apartment you have to either climb or descend how many flights of stairs, or use an elevator. Apartment living and suburbia are both comparable to hell for me. It seems so claustrophobic and dehumanising and I’m not even a claustrophobic person.

    • @edpoe1108
      @edpoe1108 6 місяців тому +2

      I appreciate that you pointed out the size difference between the nations. All too often people make one-to-one comparisons between countries, cities, etc. without considering scale-whether it be that of geographical size, population density, demographics, or any other important distinction.

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому

      There is reliable and cheap public transport in NYC and Chicago and many other big cities... it is just full of criminals and junkies.

    • @adam1984pl
      @adam1984pl 6 місяців тому +16

      @@kaiparker1756 I live in Apartment housing in small town in Poland.Its really good,its close to visit friends,shops,church,park.

    • @SomeGoatedPerson
      @SomeGoatedPerson 6 місяців тому +6

      We don't travel the country on a daily basis or even leave our area. This is a terrible excuse for not having good cities.

  • @meperson8341
    @meperson8341 6 місяців тому +58

    I recommend watching Vivarium which truly makes the suburbs look extra liminal

  • @idriveamerc
    @idriveamerc 6 місяців тому +137

    i clean some pools in alot of subdivisions and let me say. its insane how desolate some of these places are. theres subdivisions within subdivisions. no trees at all, some have gates that lock everything down after a certain time. these people make good money, and they choose to live in a arguably nice house. but barely any yard or freedom to do anything. some of these houses are literally just a house. enough room in the backyard for a pool. and then a fence that seperates the lots. and these people are paying like $2000-$4000 a month. just to be told you cant have flowers in your yard or paint your house a different color. fuck that

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +4

      Aren’t you glad you can choose to not live there? And they can live there if they want?

    • @moriyamakyon1067
      @moriyamakyon1067 6 місяців тому +17

      "Freedom" and many people like that, just looking by 0 protests against that. It's amazes me that someone lives on such a plain street at pretty hot places like most of US, no trees, nothing to catch eye on etc. no wonder no one is oustide because there is nothing to do + hot af because there is no shadows

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому

      @@moriyamakyon1067 Would it be hot af in the winter in Denver? Or Minneapolis? And it’s “shade”, not “shadows”.
      People in America have thousands of options on styles of living and different weather types, and it’s fucking awesome. If you don’t like it, don’t live there, instead of acting all superior and condescending. It’s very Euro-trash.

    • @KaitouKaiju
      @KaitouKaiju 6 місяців тому +14

      ​@@katydid2877The problem is most of the residential property is zoned that way and there are plenty of people who literally have nowhere to live because of it.

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +8

      @@KaitouKaiju People could live in inner cities if they weren’t filled with crime and murder and filth that the leaders of those cities don’t seem to mind happening. Maybe if they hadn’t ruined the city, people wouldn’t be wandering out into the suburbs looking for another place to ruin. America is a huge country. There are many more affordable places to live than LA or Chicago or NYC.

  • @ENigma-um8zw
    @ENigma-um8zw 4 місяці тому +5

    Grateful to live in an inner ring suburb that is more city than suburb, there’s personality and electricity and connected community and life flowing within its very natural design, the opposite of creepy

    • @beebo907
      @beebo907 4 місяці тому

      Maybe thats why its creepy! Unnatural. Ive never seen a modern suburb or any in real life. I came across one on a short and I had to stop and ask myself why I feel creeped out by it, and I just thought it was because there are no ditches between the roads and houses. And that it was too flat 😂.

  • @RAWBOT301
    @RAWBOT301 6 місяців тому +21

    My neighborhood has been lived in for a about 40 years. 15 minute walk to a downtown area with beautiful streets, lots of stores and restaurants. My street always has kids playing on it. Its also so safe the kids leave their bikes and lawnmowers out and none have ever beeen stolen.

    • @auntiegravity7713
      @auntiegravity7713 6 місяців тому +2

      It's good to see that there is hope..

    • @RAWBOT301
      @RAWBOT301 4 місяці тому +1

      @MoparGuy1625 Correct.

  • @selflesssamaritan6417
    @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +210

    Suburbanites make fun on city dwellers regarding how out-of-touch they are from nature. Yet they settled on wide open, sprawling settlements that consumed a lot of wild habitat. While dense and compact urban development (especially with green space as the pollution-absorbing third place), even for biggest and busiest cities - will definitely save nature and farmland.

    • @Betweoxwitegan
      @Betweoxwitegan 6 місяців тому +10

      In cities you typically have parks or pitches to use, hopefully in a walkable timeframe or via good public transit Infrastructure whilst in American suburbs you might be surrounded by nature but that nature is completely inaccessible, cities are just better.

    • @kailahmann1823
      @kailahmann1823 6 місяців тому +13

      what exactly is "nature" about a 3 inch lawn with no other plants allowed?

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +19

      @@kailahmann1823 "Nature is when boring grass manicured with various harmful pesticides." /s

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +12

      @@Betweoxwitegan In the suburbs, most of the "parks" are privately-owned yards where the respective privileged homeowner always try to threaten young folks who accidentally "trespass" there - due to lack of third places.

    • @Betweoxwitegan
      @Betweoxwitegan 6 місяців тому +5

      @@selflesssamaritan6417 I'm not surprised, tbh a good business would literally just be creating a privatised coffee/garden business in every wealthy American suburb, like the coffee shops they have in Asia, where there's a garden out back which you get access to if you buy something or pay specifically for garden entrance, you could also create a subscription based membership card. If you think about it this one business would be the only hang out spot in the whole community effectively. I'm not sure if this is even possible with the zoning laws in The US though.

  • @user-_-404
    @user-_-404 6 місяців тому +70

    as someone living in asia (taiwan) i envy you guys so so so much to have a dedicated living area, low traffic flow outside residential houses, and wide walkable streets. come to taiwan and live, and you will cherish the suburbs in the US again

    • @bircruz555
      @bircruz555 5 місяців тому +18

      Both are extremes. In suburbs, you die of boredom. In your type of cities, you die of stress.

    • @bobbyalexanderdatingaling
      @bobbyalexanderdatingaling 5 місяців тому +14

      Having lived in the Philippines most of my life, and now living in the US...I'll illustrate something.
      To get an authentic dimsum from my house in the Philippines, I just need to walk 10 minutes.
      To get an authentic dimsum from my house in the US, I need to drive 10 miles.
      It's not as "pretty" what the suburbs look like in the video, from an Asian perspective.

    • @aries4378
      @aries4378 5 місяців тому +4

      Go ahead, leave the city and move to the suburbs. You'll be bored and you'll need to depend on your car.

    • @codysparks1454
      @codysparks1454 5 місяців тому

      ⁠@@aries4378yep.

    • @fernthaisetthawatkul5569
      @fernthaisetthawatkul5569 5 місяців тому +9

      so people should only get to choose between a lonely wasteland and an overcrowded meat-grinder? 😂

  • @georgecaplin9075
    @georgecaplin9075 3 місяці тому +2

    He said it. Planning. In my opinion, it’s not bad planning, it’s planning. Every town/city in England that people like has organically grown. It starts with a flat piece of land near a river, where people once stopped to water horses and have a rest, then just never got around to leaving. Merchant stops by one day, because there are a few people, then people stop because there’s a merchant, the handiest of all the crowd says he’ll try to re-shoe people’s horses for a small fee, before you know it, there’s a village. Milton Keynes, Swindon and Bradley Stoke, on the other hand, were designed from scratch. Say no more.

  • @colepuryear2271
    @colepuryear2271 6 місяців тому +11

    My current neighborhood was built in the 80s and I love it! Every house is built differently, the lawns all have the homeowners unique decorations, trees and foliage all over the place, people walking and super friendly; HOWEVER it also has a street that connects it to a suburban neighborhood that was just recently built. That neighborhood is like what was described here. Eerily empty and devoid of people, no trees, cookie cutter houses, no character or uniqueness because it's an HOA; Its like a night and day difference. The fact that the HOA neighborhood is more expensive to live in, despite having no character or charm blows me away.

    • @lovingsunshine3515
      @lovingsunshine3515 6 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like we have similar neighborhood. The houses on my street were built in the late 1970s. Majority of us are on a half acre with some large trees but no sidewalks. A lot of my neighbors have lived here for 20+ years and they look out for each other. My neighbor puts my trash can back in the driveway close to our garage if we’re out of town after trash day. Also, gives me fruits and vegetables in the summer time. I love it and it’s rare to find a neighborhood now where there’s an actual community feeling where you look out for one another.

    • @robs5688
      @robs5688 6 місяців тому

      @@lovingsunshine3515 This channel is blatantly pushing an agenda. He's an in-your-face World Economics Forum agent. He rails against one-family houses, cars, "Everything being spread out" and basically laments people being independent. He's basically promoting the so-called 15-minute city, where you will "own nothing and be happy".

    • @jeltoninc.8542
      @jeltoninc.8542 6 місяців тому +1

      I live in an old 1950s neighborhood in Florida. My house is beautiful, with giant picture windows and trees throughout the yard. I love living here. I am thankful for it every day!

  • @Coudy_the_Cat
    @Coudy_the_Cat 6 місяців тому +18

    I grew up in the suburbs and there’s nature trails that intersect the suburb with parks and creeks and little wooded paths and I love it it’s peaceful

  • @beesquestionmark
    @beesquestionmark 6 місяців тому +27

    I always thought I was directionally challenged, but now I know it’s because everything looks the same!!

  • @TimYong2
    @TimYong2 6 місяців тому +4

    I always thought it odd that developers would wipe out all the trees when making subdivisions.
    So glad I grew up and live in an area where they DON'T do that. The developers know to leave the trees as they serve as natural boundaries, beautify the area, prevent erosion and help reduce noise and air pollution.
    Of course, having lots of ravines, hills and creeks nearby also helps!

    • @gphilipc2031
      @gphilipc2031 4 місяці тому

      When lage tracts are developed, all the trees must go to allow for grade setting and uniform building setbacks. The question is ... Why don't they landscape atterward? Answer: money $$$

  • @BMoney8600
    @BMoney8600 6 місяців тому +111

    As someone born and raised in the suburbs words can’t describe how tired I am of them.

    • @MrJacksspleen
      @MrJacksspleen 6 місяців тому

      You're young. You'll get older and find them desirable again after living in the city for a few decades. These places exist in a free market because there is demand. There isn't a government centrally planning where they want people to live. This video is propaganda trying to convince you that population density is good.

    • @tommybotts
      @tommybotts 6 місяців тому +19

      Move to the nearest big city then!! Experience the poverty, crime and homelessness first hand. Experience waiting 45 minutes for a cop after you've called 911. Live in a closed in soviet style housing unit. It's a great way to grow up in America.

    • @erosgritti5171
      @erosgritti5171 6 місяців тому +9

      @@tommybotts much better to stay away from reality and your fellow men in difficulty...

    • @The_Stockfather
      @The_Stockfather 6 місяців тому +2

      @@tommybottssmall towns and rural communities all over America. I’m in Kansas, not in a big city and not in a suburb.

    • @auntiegravity7713
      @auntiegravity7713 6 місяців тому +1

      You said it perfectly, though

  • @williamddougans
    @williamddougans 6 місяців тому +19

    Where I live we don’t really have huge suburbs like that so when I saw those photos I legit got scared

    • @djdigital3806
      @djdigital3806 6 місяців тому

      Las Vegas is a giant suburb.

  • @oscaryuen311
    @oscaryuen311 6 місяців тому +148

    the suburbs feel like even if a slasher invades into your home and you scream help there will be no one to save you

    • @MrTrevortxeartxe
      @MrTrevortxeartxe 6 місяців тому +36

      You can get mugged on the side of the three lane road in America and literally everyone will drive right past you like its not even happening.

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +27

      @@MrTrevortxeartxe And record it on their phone.

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +14

      Lots of people in suburbs can defend themselves, and it just increases the farther away from crime filled cities you get. You don’t want to mess around in a small town.

    • @bibby3027
      @bibby3027 6 місяців тому +14

      ironic because that literally happens in american cities

    • @jayeisenhardt1337
      @jayeisenhardt1337 6 місяців тому +10

      @@bibby3027 City life is wild. Cat fight, dude walks up and shoots one of the women.
      everyone stops looking and turns to NPC that had their aggro set to zero, oblivion music stops
      they just calmly walk around to do whatever they were gonna do before
      monkey "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil"

  • @mahdirasouli4626
    @mahdirasouli4626 4 місяці тому +10

    but I love suburbs, they feel very peaceful

  • @marktroddyn3351
    @marktroddyn3351 6 місяців тому +19

    Driving through suburbs in Massachusetts feels like this. Endless neighborhoods, no open space, suffocating.

    • @Blaidd7542
      @Blaidd7542 5 місяців тому +4

      As a Brit with American family, it’s really a jarring experience being in the US.
      Sure the UK has suburban blandness that actually looks more depressing than most US suburbs,
      but in the UK they are human scaled, there are corner shops, pubs, bus stations etc people walking on the sidewalks, kids on bikes etc. so though they look grey, bland and miserable compared to the US they actually feel alive.
      The only places in the UK that give the same feeling as US suburbs and town centres in the UK are Industrial estates and motorway service stations,
      but those are intentionally places you visit in a vehicle, no one lives in them.
      I look forward and enjoy every time I go to the US, but it’s disorienting and unnatural feeling, and even as an adult being alone outside is very creepy.

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Blaidd7542nothing is more depressing than usa suburbs trust me

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 4 місяці тому

      I live in Massachusetts. Grew up in Cambridge, which is one of the most pedestrian and cyclist friendly places in the world. Nearly everyone walks or bikes there, and cars are secondary. I live in Marblehead now but I still go to Cambridge on my days off to walk down the street and feel normal again lol.

    • @marktroddyn3351
      @marktroddyn3351 4 місяці тому +1

      I used to work in Cambridge. I do like it. The problem with Boston and Cambridge is that they have brought in all these businesses and have done zero to improve transportation into the city and have they done nothing about the cost of living so people HAVE to commute in. America is far from solving the traffic problem and refuse to believe people could actually get on without cars.

    • @josebro352
      @josebro352 4 місяці тому +1

      @marktroddyn3351 Well said Mark. Bravo! You make some very good points. The cost of living in Cambridge is astronomical, and most of the people who work there can't afford to live there, so they commute from nearby cities and towns. Why they can't allocate the money to improve infrastructure and transportation instead of building another biotech institution every six months is beyond me. Coincidentally, I was just in Cambridge on Tuesday in the Mount Auburn area on the Watertown line. I feel that's the only part of Cambridge that hasn't changed and succumbed to progress. Still looks the same from when I was a kid. I'm amazed how that Star Market on the corner of Aberdeen Ave has been there since the 70s and is still there.

  • @georgelucas2571
    @georgelucas2571 6 місяців тому +140

    Middle class punk rock bands from California be like: I had difficult childhood growing up in the hood
    The “hood” they grew up in:

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp 6 місяців тому +16

    Why dont they put shops inside suburbs? Why centralize everything in malls?

    • @stephaniecorelli3034
      @stephaniecorelli3034 4 місяці тому +4

      Corporations and control

    • @justadude117X
      @justadude117X 3 місяці тому

      Zoning laws from the 1950s that were meant to segregate the poor/black and the rich/white. Also automotive companies lobbied very aggressive, like hundreds of millions to "convince" politicians to design things this way and convince consumers that cars are cool. Theyre not. Its all about profit and control. Always has been

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 2 місяці тому +1

      It's illegal. Zoning laws

    • @wzupppp
      @wzupppp 2 місяці тому

      @@cooliipie the dumbest thing ever. It sucks all the life out of the suburbs

    • @wzupppp
      @wzupppp 2 місяці тому +1

      @@cooliipie horrible laws

  • @celieboo
    @celieboo 4 місяці тому +1

    Loneliness. That has been my experience in the suburbs. We are surrounded by families and houses, but we haven't connected with anoyine in the 5 years that we have lived in our subdivision. I have never been so lonely in my life. We are

  • @TheGingerjames123
    @TheGingerjames123 6 місяців тому +9

    It's not a suburbia/urbanites difference. The uniformity comes from the same builders using the same plans. I live in a suburbia with many different custom builds and it is full of soul.

  • @tristanridley1601
    @tristanridley1601 6 місяців тому +74

    I didn't grow up in a suburb so I have always found them super creepy. It's wrong and alien and flat and empty and inhuman. And now I made my skin crawl by thinking about it too hard.

    • @timothyknight2236
      @timothyknight2236 6 місяців тому

      I bet you are a liberal........................

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +7

      Isn’t it awesome you are free to not live there?

    • @johnmendoza5907
      @johnmendoza5907 6 місяців тому +2

      Agree. I live in Donna, Texas in the Rio Grande Valley. What I've notice is the same apartment complexes literally everywhere. We used to have our own style because the majority of us here are of Mexican Americans. Literally same city same stores. The unique taqueria shops, tortilla shops are small and few to find.

    • @Vaquix000
      @Vaquix000 6 місяців тому +7

      An ordinary suburb freaks you out? I guess you're the type that finds almost everything scary.

    • @laurie7689
      @laurie7689 6 місяців тому +1

      My suburb is far from flat. My entire small city is built into the hills. The suburbs here are built on the hillsides and the hilltops. No matter which way you look, you can't see most of the housing because they follow the terrain. I agree that suburbs in flat areas, particularly without trees, look strange, but most of the suburbs East of the Mississippi River have more character.

  • @1029db
    @1029db 6 місяців тому +7

    This just made me understand why I find subdivisions so creepy

  • @ViraL_FootprinT.ex.e
    @ViraL_FootprinT.ex.e 5 місяців тому +3

    It's the NIMBYs that creep me out the most when it comes to the burbs. Just that natural distrust they have, which actually makes them dangerous, and prone to committing hate crimes. So not having to see them wouldn't be the worst thing in the world.

  • @jadam4036
    @jadam4036 6 місяців тому +31

    As someone who’s lived in the hood their entire life and is currently living in the projects - yet also just got accepted into nursing school for this fall, trying to get myself through school so I can make it to a decent suburban neighborhood one day.. this is just insane to me seeing thing’s from the other side and how it isn’t ideal in the suburbs either. Still, the quietness would be better than constant fighting and gunshots lmaoo

    • @AustinMathias
      @AustinMathias 6 місяців тому +8

      There is nothing wrong with living in a nice neighborhood. People will find anything to complain about. Most the people talking down on suburbs most likely can't even afford a house. So you keep doing you and do what makes you happy. People will always have something negative to say.

    • @djdigital3806
      @djdigital3806 6 місяців тому

      Get a RV trailer like me at 60 years old!🤗

    • @thorpower1015
      @thorpower1015 6 місяців тому

      Well said bless you and your family, you will do it I know you are a good person and deserve it.

    • @railroadforest30
      @railroadforest30 6 місяців тому +3

      Quiet neighborhoods don’t have to be built like these suburbs

    • @Ayverie4
      @Ayverie4 6 місяців тому

      I live in a neighborhood in a small town that's been around for a couple hundred years and grew organically over time. No weird copy/paste subdivisions. There's options

  • @TimEssDub
    @TimEssDub 6 місяців тому +34

    Are you familiar with the author James Howard Kunstler? He wrote two books about suburbanization called "The Geography of Nowhere" and "Home from Nowhere."

    • @davidprice2182
      @davidprice2182 6 місяців тому +1

      This made me think of Kunstler too!

  • @Coffeepanda294
    @Coffeepanda294 6 місяців тому +127

    You- you mean Americans can play Backrooms just by going out the door?

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +2

      These Suburbs can be found in every developed country outside of Europe and Japan. Australia, Canada and USA.
      If they are rich enough to have cars and cities were build when cars existed, then cities are built this way.

    • @Coffeepanda294
      @Coffeepanda294 6 місяців тому +2

      @@josephang9927 "Every developed country outside US/Europe" (lists three countries)

    • @ImieNazwiskoOK
      @ImieNazwiskoOK 6 місяців тому +6

      @@josephang9927 So... every developed country aka 3 countries? Really? And the rest of developed countries doesn't matter?
      "If they are rich enough to have cars and cities were build when cars existed, then cities are built this way." Man, seems like suburbs just kill thinking of anything outside of them.

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому

      @@Coffeepanda294 yes, developed countries are the minority. Surprise.

    • @Coffeepanda294
      @Coffeepanda294 6 місяців тому +5

      @@ImieNazwiskoOK I don't know if he even knows of other developed countries. Also love the 'but their cities were built for the car' myth.

  • @thelibyanplzcomeback
    @thelibyanplzcomeback 6 місяців тому +36

    I love how cars have made it so the design of the neighborhoods are implanted into our brains.

  • @MajinSaha
    @MajinSaha 6 місяців тому +35

    1:04 She says it's quiet. As someone who's living in a large city with background noise from never ending reconstruction, drunken mob, and neighbors behind apartment walls, I would kill to live in such environment.

    • @Yams-Hams7734
      @Yams-Hams7734 4 місяці тому +5

      Right!? Like what are they complaining about? It’s fine if they don’t like it, that’s their prerogative, but don’t completely discredit that lifestyle simply because it isn’t suited for you.

    • @TaxinGigs
      @TaxinGigs 4 місяці тому +4

      1st world problems

    • @Emperorstarwars
      @Emperorstarwars 4 місяці тому +1

      I would like to see how she will live in PIK 20m2 apartment with highway and railroad near of it

    • @MajinSaha
      @MajinSaha 4 місяці тому

      @@Emperorstarwars yep, I feel it bro

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 4 місяці тому

      ​@@TaxinGigsLol wdym 1st world 😂 wouldn't 3rd world countries have less noisy infrastructure 😂

  • @trollingisasport
    @trollingisasport 6 місяців тому +8

    This is why Rush Subdivisions is one of the best songs of all time.

    • @TheOtherPath1
      @TheOtherPath1 6 місяців тому +1

      "Conform or be cast out." Rush was always ahead of its time. Also blame neighbourhood groups that form even in area where HOAs are not present. Even in a high-crime city like LA, the camera situation contributes to gossip, suspicion and general "hills have eyes." Then it forces you to adopt the same attitude. If you don't become part of the group discussion or attend community meetings, you are the one being talked about! :) The desire for California real estate allows people to weaponize these cameras on you as well. Greed makes people do strange things to others.

  • @Bhakt-TheDevotee
    @Bhakt-TheDevotee 3 місяці тому +16

    To me American Suburbs look like heaven. It's quiet & peaceful, free & open, uncrowded, clean. I would kill to have a place like this.

    • @flashh6919
      @flashh6919 3 місяці тому

      They so sad and bored cuz it’s not enough hood ppl in it 😂

    • @janina9789
      @janina9789 3 місяці тому +2

      Feel the same, but some Americans don't like it and they complain all the time about how bad suburbia is.

    • @Crusader1984
      @Crusader1984 3 місяці тому +1

      @@janina9789 no we don’t. It depends what neighborhood most of them are very safe because we don’t have minorities.

    • @janina9789
      @janina9789 3 місяці тому

      @@Crusader1984 I know. But some complain a lot, but I know that kind of people from Europe. They hate single family homes, they hate cars and they want everybody to live in public housing apartments and use public mass transportation.

    • @adornedskies
      @adornedskies 13 днів тому

      ​@@Crusader1984
      wow. that racism was really not needed.

  • @bunsonhoneydew9099
    @bunsonhoneydew9099 6 місяців тому +27

    These feelings are in you head. If you feel creeped out by a suburban neighborhood, you are the one with the problem.

    • @burrrn___
      @burrrn___ 6 місяців тому

      you have to be missing all of your brain cells, it’s your brain saying that it’s uncomfortable in environments that don’t feel human

    • @burrrn___
      @burrrn___ 6 місяців тому +5

      anyone with critical thinking skills would realize this

    • @FutureKidz777
      @FutureKidz777 6 місяців тому +3

      This.

    • @FutureKidz777
      @FutureKidz777 6 місяців тому +5

      I never thought I’d see some weird kid on UA-cam telling us suburbs are ‘weird, liminal spaces’.
      I’m starting to think these kids watch too many movies.

    • @burrrn___
      @burrrn___ 6 місяців тому +3

      @@FutureKidz777 american suburbs are terrible lmao, shit places tbh

  • @ifGarage
    @ifGarage 6 місяців тому +10

    Whenever I see suburban development houses it just feels weird driving through the neighborhood. 90% of the houses look the same, they’re all that ugly tan color, and most of the time there’s no trees around which means you have no privacy in your backyard, and then there’s those HOAs with strict rules. It just feels like I’m driving through a prison yard. I’ll happily keep living in my 1960s house with trees all around, privacy, no HOA, the houses on my street all look different and have different styles and vibrant colors, and best of all I don’t feel imprisoned in my own house.

  • @rowan5891
    @rowan5891 6 місяців тому +18

    Where I live, we have suburbs that were built in the early 2000s (and a new suburb build last year) and the differences are CRAZY. The new suburb looks exactly like the ones shown in the video (large samey houses, small properites, liminal as hell) and is connected to one built in the 2000s (small but unique houses, bigger properties, much more pleasing visually). The roads in the older neighborhood are worse for wear, there's a big pothole near the entrance :(( It's unfortunate that they decided to connect the two neighborhoods but not invest any money to fix up the road a little

    • @tristanridley1601
      @tristanridley1601 6 місяців тому +2

      Fixing the roads for a suburb costs more than the suburb provides in property taxes. Older suburbs will always look poorly maintained unless seriously subsidized by other areas.

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому

      @@tristanridley1601 NO OTHER CITY PAYS FOR ANOTHER CITY, what the hell are you talking about? Name a SINGLE instance!! You can't!! Suburbs are NOT paid for by property taxes, they are paid for by the commercial part of the suburban town and those businesses pay income taxes etc. And Costco makes a lot of money, a lot more than some seedy corner store. That's not a subsidy!! That's the DESIGN. People wanted the commercial and residential separate. I just can't stand this regurgitated 'strong towns" nonsense that doesn't even make sense in the US.

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +1

      It takes time for houses to differentiate and get their identity, if there is no HOA.

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому

      @@josephang9927 exactly, HOAs are terrible, but they're the only thing keeping these urbanists from ruining the suburbs. It's an impossible situation. I wish they'd just lead us the hell alone. We're freaking happy, they don't want us to be, they want to say we aren't but we are. They never stop. And I think behind them are wealthy people who want our meager homes to make millions forcing everyone into rent slavery.

    • @QuantumVoid-ro3hi
      @QuantumVoid-ro3hi 6 місяців тому +2

      Yeah, really what he's talking about are corporate-owned tract homes.

  • @benetnasch_alkaid
    @benetnasch_alkaid 22 дні тому

    I’m originally from Mexico, and I lived in the U.S. for three and a half years (1998-2001). The town I lived in was beautiful, especially because it felt so different in terms of urban planning. What really surprised me was that almost no one walked on the streets, everyone used cars to get around, even if the nearest shopping plaza was right next door. I remember often walking or riding my bike to explore the area, which had plenty of wooded areas and rivers. When I walked, people would often stare at me and my brothers... I think it was unusual for them to see people just walking along the streets. Some suburban areas had unique styles with different colors and house designs, but there were others that looked identical, like the copy-paste style you mentioned. I thought the neighborhood where I lived was "unique," but as my family and I visited nearby towns, counties, and states, we realized they all looked pretty much the same. In the end, I enjoyed my time there, but this video really captured something I’ve always noticed and thought about. Great video!

  • @luigigreen_
    @luigigreen_ 6 місяців тому +10

    The human/car scale is the most annoying, it's bad for everyone because buildings look like straight concrete and ugly square. and if you are a human, not a car, you can't even look at the signs without leaning your head to the point where all you can see is the universe at night

    • @lastswordfighter
      @lastswordfighter 6 місяців тому

      Liberal: Waaah car bad. Waaah private property bad. Waaah suburbs bad.

  • @Manand54
    @Manand54 6 місяців тому +120

    He should make a video about asian suburbs. Who agrees?

    • @pianistguy
      @pianistguy 6 місяців тому +16

      as an asian myself i completely agree!

    • @Manand54
      @Manand54 6 місяців тому +13

      ​@@pianistguy thanks for agreeing with me and I hope that flurf sees this coment

    • @psyraxx39
      @psyraxx39 6 місяців тому +20

      As an Asian myself I think American suburbs = Backrooms but Tokyo = vaporwave, and Vietnam’s suburbs would be like a Roblox lobby (they’re wild)

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +11

      The so-called suburbs in Southeast Asia are divided into two types: A cluster of sprawling same-looking small houses subsidized by the government for lower-income people. Second one are those suburbs for richer folks. The worst thing about it is some kind of a HOA-esque rule that prohibits running small business in one's house. Albeit smaller land use, I still consider them bad because they still facilitate private automobile ownership and use to access all the amenities in the city, despite government campaign to encourage transit use. All of them mostly do not have direct access to mass transit.
      If the respective government use their 100% of brain capacity, they should've just build affordable apartments in the city instead of suburban homes. Vertical housing is also a great way to house all the poor people impacted from demolition of their filthy, unsanitary urban slums.

    • @inkajoo
      @inkajoo 6 місяців тому +4

      Ugh yes I wanted to live in Shenmue

  • @Partaz
    @Partaz 6 місяців тому +7

    I’m so glad that I live in a small city that’s very constricted by land. Even though I live on one of the the east most part of the city, I can still hang out with my friends from the west most neighbourhoods because of decent bike paths and a downtown smack dab in the middle of the city.

  • @zeruty
    @zeruty 4 місяці тому +1

    The videos you're using to illustrate suburbs makes my suburb life look downright rural

  • @zacfabian3046
    @zacfabian3046 6 місяців тому +8

    An empty school at night always gets me...

  • @mgplaysyt
    @mgplaysyt 6 місяців тому +16

    UNDERRATED AS HELL

  • @_A_Cube
    @_A_Cube 3 місяці тому +3

    There a two types of suburbs: 1) the plain looking grey walls and floors, perfectly green synthetic grass, No people outside, and the SAME looking trees in the SAME looking lots. 2) The full and Lucious looking lawns, The different shaped and colored houses sometimes on a slanted base, no sidewalks besides ON peoples property’s, few cars on the road and more in the front of peoples houses, people ACTUALLY walking on the streets, and a better sense of nature. THE SECOND OPTION IS WHAT WE WANT. This suburb is rustic and is getting less and less common with people abandoning the houses due to other needs and the local copy and paste suburbs construction company wanting in on that land so they could build houses that maximize profits and minimize happiness

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 2 місяці тому

      3.) Streetcar suburbs which are human-scaled and have access to various amenities like mass transit.

  • @UrbanCritic
    @UrbanCritic 2 місяці тому +1

    As someone who has actually spent some time living in Japan, I've gotta say that I much prefer driving over using a bike or train. I've also seen parking lots that seem completely overkill with how many spaces they have (but they always fill up eventually).

  • @amberjasmine2347
    @amberjasmine2347 6 місяців тому +5

    Please. Nothing’s more creepy than Kensington in Philly.

  • @robertrohde4579
    @robertrohde4579 4 місяці тому +48

    I hate how close the houses are together, too much traffic, lack of trees, and everything looks the same.

    • @justadude117X
      @justadude117X 3 місяці тому +5

      Close together? Youve got it all wrong. Its too far apart. All those lawns, driveways, backyards and roads that are too wide. Thats how you get urban sprawl. Its all wasted space. This (and zoning) is why america looks the way it does

    • @_zigger_
      @_zigger_ 3 місяці тому +3

      So you described a city

  • @mariajones8304
    @mariajones8304 6 місяців тому +22

    American suburbs are very different so don’t say that they creepy. They are for different people and different lifestyles. Everyone can find a neighborhood that they would love to live in or neighborhood that they hate.

    • @robs5688
      @robs5688 6 місяців тому

      This channel is blatantly pushing an agenda. He's an in-your-face World Economics Forum agent. He rails against one-family houses, cars, "Everything being spread out" and basically laments people being independent. He's basically promoting the so-called 15-minute city, where you will "own nothing and be happy".

    • @ShaylenGirlLooter2006
      @ShaylenGirlLooter2006 6 місяців тому

      ngl suburbs are worst to grow up in. 10/10 not moving back to my old suburb

    • @theYorkies
      @theYorkies 6 місяців тому

      As an introvert, I prefer suburbs. Plus, I like the uniformity and cleanliness. I would hate to have a nice house, nice yard, and have a neighbor who doesn’t mow their yard and have junk laying around. People have different preferences, some people prefer to live in a loud and chaotic neighborhood, but some prefer a quieter, more organized neighborhood.

  • @NBportofino
    @NBportofino 4 місяці тому

    We moved from a southern California suburb to Nashville which is almost all old walkable neighborhoods and we love it

  • @THETINYMALEK1
    @THETINYMALEK1 6 місяців тому +11

    When I was in the inner city sure you had to deal with the crime and poverty but the sense of community in the inner city was something that could NOT be ignored. The amount of neighbors who knew each other and had each others backs with block parties, side shows, many neighborhood events it was crazy. I live in the suburbs now and I miss that sense of community

  • @zhiqiandu3110
    @zhiqiandu3110 6 місяців тому +54

    Don't forget the ever-present No Loitering! sign.

    • @muhammad-bin-american
      @muhammad-bin-american 6 місяців тому

      LOL! You're so right.

    • @muhammad-bin-american
      @muhammad-bin-american 6 місяців тому +2

      @medina__anidem Yeah but still there is a better way to do it.

    • @zhiqiandu3110
      @zhiqiandu3110 6 місяців тому +4

      @medina__anidemLMAO so angry defending. Yeah you come to the right place hope you enjoy

    • @railroadforest30
      @railroadforest30 6 місяців тому +5

      The No trespassing signs are worse

  • @МаксимАндреев-щ7б
    @МаксимАндреев-щ7б 6 місяців тому +4

    At least these suburbs are incredibly clean. I've seen lots of suburbs and villages in Russia. There are no asphalt there except the main streets, their streets are dirty, houses are surrounded by high and opaque fences. They look more depressive than American ones

    • @zuzanazuscinova5209
      @zuzanazuscinova5209 6 місяців тому

      Exactly. I like the orderliness and calmness of American suburbs. I guess some people prefer a jungle. Russia's housing is horrible. It's either commie blocks or run down villages.

  • @L_H_Bruh
    @L_H_Bruh 5 місяців тому +1

    The lack of trees and vegetation makes it feel artificial... which is strange to say about an existing space, usually you call food or other products artificial, but never to an actual physical location... and every house looks the same too. Just looking at a picture of american suburbs just drains me of energy while making me anxious at the same time

  • @elsarm178
    @elsarm178 6 місяців тому +11

    Totally agree! Exactly what I was thinking.
    👍👏👏👏

  • @rexx9496
    @rexx9496 6 місяців тому +9

    We are forced to have preservatives put into our foods because the supermarkets are miles away, going shopping every day makes little sense. We shop maybe once on the weekend and get everything we need. Food like bread and cheese has to last awhile since you don't make frequent trips to the store. Thus food get filled with preservatives. If you live in Paris, you pick up bread and cheese every day as you walk past the bakery on your street while coming home. No need to put a bunch chemical in it to keep it from spoiling for 2 weeks.

    • @jayeisenhardt1337
      @jayeisenhardt1337 6 місяців тому

      oof paris lol

    • @ahogQ
      @ahogQ 6 місяців тому +2

      I live in Europe and I do shopping once a week. In fact, most people I know have similar habits. Personally I prefer the American way, Europe is sometimes too claustrophobic for me. Houses are built so tight that you can hear your neighbours snoring at night. I would much rather live in the American suburbs.

    • @rexx9496
      @rexx9496 6 місяців тому

      @@ahogQ then why not just move to a rural area?

    • @ahogQ
      @ahogQ 6 місяців тому

      @rexx9496 I live in England now and the rural areas don't have roads designed for cars. They are way too narrow with curves and very limited visibility. I find driving in large cities less stressful than driving the countryside.

    • @SincerelyFromStephen
      @SincerelyFromStephen 6 місяців тому

      @@ahogQmost country roads, at least in the eastern half of the U.S., aren’t wide arterials. They’re going to be just as winding and narrow. Especially around the mountainous areas

  • @iseektruth64
    @iseektruth64 6 місяців тому +8

    I've always said I hate the suburbs without knowing quite why. Thanks for your clear and insightful analysis. American suburbs are SO depressing. I've always felt that I want to live either right downtown where I can step out of my building onto a sidewalk with people walking by. Or live in the countryside where there is land and nature and a sense of life doing its various cycles!

  • @clowdymouse
    @clowdymouse 2 місяці тому

    The first time I ever visited America (talking 13 years ago) my mom and I were in Orlando and all I can say at the time was, “this looks like the Sims game in real life” I couldn’t describe how perfect yet vacant the areas were

  • @knarf_on_a_bike
    @knarf_on_a_bike 6 місяців тому +40

    Riding through suburbs, what I find most disquieting (other than the lack of humans) is the fact that the most prominent part of houses is the garage. Sticks way out the front of the house. Not very welcoming. . .

    • @Kevin60611
      @Kevin60611 6 місяців тому +11

      Sort of shows where priorities are. We have a sick society.

    • @a.zamora2795
      @a.zamora2795 6 місяців тому +5

      Garages should be at the back of the house imo. A lot of older houses are actually situated that way

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +4

      Depressingly empty and quiet.

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 6 місяців тому +3

      Garages in America are used for way more than cars, tho. They are used for storage, extra room, gaming rooms, family gatherings, etc. I don't get why you find that more disturbing than living in a pod in the city paying 2000 a month.

    • @selflesssamaritan6417
      @selflesssamaritan6417 6 місяців тому +9

      @@josephang9927 Suburban homes are also larger pods by this logic.

  • @Flawtistic
    @Flawtistic 6 місяців тому +8

    The music from the ghost tower in Pokemon, very apropos.

  • @omaronnyoutube
    @omaronnyoutube 4 місяці тому +4

    This was how it felt like on the verge of the COVID-19 pandemic

  • @Kevin-mi2xj
    @Kevin-mi2xj 2 місяці тому +2

    lived in both and greatly prefer the suburbs over the city. Especially for raising a family. none of the stuff you listed is “creepy”

  • @acacacacacacaccaca7666
    @acacacacacacaccaca7666 6 місяців тому +39

    Supermarkets just started opening 24 hours in my city and I went to one to purchase something at 2 am
    Walking into a completely empty store and I mean completely empty, no security guard at the door, no cashiers, no cleaning personnel, nobody filling the shelves, nobody shopping was every as fuck. I could have grabbed anything and walked out

    • @michah321
      @michah321 6 місяців тому +3

      so?

    • @TheLandon8806
      @TheLandon8806 6 місяців тому +12

      So you live in a high trust area. Is that something to complain about?

    • @katydid2877
      @katydid2877 6 місяців тому +4

      @@TheLandon8806 Sure doesn’t sound like NYC.

    • @SunsetAssassin
      @SunsetAssassin 6 місяців тому +7

      Sounds like you went at a good time, buy your things and leave, why are surprised that nobody is at the store at 2am😂
      Any store workers or security working at the store would be chilling somewhere or sleeping because of how slow the store is.

    • @TheLandon8806
      @TheLandon8806 6 місяців тому +2

      @@katydid2877 I didn’t bring up NYC

  • @corntastrophy
    @corntastrophy 6 місяців тому +5

    2:31 whats intersting about this town (keokuk, iowa on the littke dip on the bottom right of the state), is you can see the original downtown that was built on one side, then the otherside where its strip malls put in presumably after the 50s, where there were older buildings like the one on the left. they were demolished to widen the road. and it was for nothing because keokuk is a dying town.

  • @idontknowwhatmynameis7704
    @idontknowwhatmynameis7704 6 місяців тому +4

    Great vid!

  • @HubCityMan
    @HubCityMan 4 місяці тому

    I lived with my aunt and uncle on Bainbridge Island in high-school and the silence of that place was creepy and unnerving

  • @frisconianlove5568
    @frisconianlove5568 4 місяці тому +31

    What's creepy about the suburbs is that they are places designed for raising children, yet not places of actual community. Most suburbs have an antisocial antiseptic vibe.
    In most suburbs there is a culture that people must leave their hometown upon graduating high school or a few years after. But what this creates is a bunch of adults with no sense of community, culture, civic duty or responsibility or desire to give back and fosters contempt for the less fortunate.
    That is why privileged people who grow up in the suburbs feel no guilt gentrifiying established poor communities often of color in big cities because they lack the empathy and understanding that poor people have lived in these communities for generations and do not simply move out the second they turn 18 and acquire high paying jobs in far away cities through family or wealthy friend group connections and continue to live an upper middle class lifestyle their whole lives uninterrupted. Gentrifiers look at their new poor neighbors in big cities in the same contemptible fashion they look at their old classmates who never left their suburban hometowns.

    • @-taz-
      @-taz- 2 місяці тому

      I believe that's intentional as part of atomization.

    • @stevewalther2293
      @stevewalther2293 2 місяці тому

      The whole state of Florida...

    • @stevewalther2293
      @stevewalther2293 2 місяці тому

      The Boomers love it...

  • @Joker-no1uh
    @Joker-no1uh 6 місяців тому +22

    I love the burbs. Growing up i always wanted to move to the city and finally did. I lasted 3 months in Denver and went back to the burbs. Quiet, no crime, big yard, big house, know your neighbors. Cities are too loud, too crowded, too dirty, too expensive, no space. I have never been so uncomfortable as being jammed into a small place with so many people always around. Humans weren't made to live like that.

    • @Comedybomb-nh4st
      @Comedybomb-nh4st 6 місяців тому +10

      Nor were they made to live in these copy and paste, lifeless, eco-deadly "neighborhood".

    • @SincerelyFromStephen
      @SincerelyFromStephen 6 місяців тому

      Humans have been living in cities for as long as civilization has existed.

    • @Erintii
      @Erintii 6 місяців тому

      You enjoy your house, yard, and car. Good for you and enjoy. Others prefer cities and prefer being car free. No freedom from a car in a land of free.

    • @sulyoki7
      @sulyoki7 6 місяців тому +3

      Cities are not loud, cars are.

    • @benedekhalda-kiss9737
      @benedekhalda-kiss9737 6 місяців тому

      You are literally in a space where thousands of humans are crammed together. Just because you have a few extra square feet does not mean you are living in a flat apartment devoid of any nature

  • @ElMalito187
    @ElMalito187 6 місяців тому +66

    As SCP-079 once stated "That was the day I learned there is no such thing as freedom - there are only bigger prisons".

    • @NoOne-kx7zs
      @NoOne-kx7zs 4 місяці тому +3

      Well if those giant pretty suburbs of America are prisons according to u .....most people in world including europeans would love to live in those prisons

    • @TheGreatOne-gw7xh
      @TheGreatOne-gw7xh 4 місяці тому +4

      I'm 13 years old and this is deep. 😂

    • @phaedrussmith1949
      @phaedrussmith1949 4 місяці тому +1

      @NoOne-kx7zs Isn't that the point to the quote?

    • @NoOne-kx7zs
      @NoOne-kx7zs 4 місяці тому

      @@phaedrussmith1949 let me make an even more dumber and all encompassing quote...
      "The universe is a prison!"

    • @phaedrussmith1949
      @phaedrussmith1949 4 місяці тому

      @@NoOne-kx7zs That's not the point of the quote. You don't understand the statement.

  • @TayWoode
    @TayWoode 3 місяці тому +1

    Being from the UK, those suburban houses always remind me of Poltergeist, ET, Night of the comet, Edward Scissorhands, all the 80s films, in the uk it’s all narrow roads and houses next to each other like in Shaun of the dead