Waka & Tammy: What the Flocka 'Marriage Is Deception' Ep.2 😱Free Full Episode

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  • Опубліковано 24 бер 2020
  • Waka holds a secret that threatens his marriage. Meanwhile, Tammy suspects something is wrong. Things at home run amok when Waka’s lies are revealed and Tammy unleashes her fury! What The Flocka Thursdays at 10/9C!
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    Hip Hop’s iconic sweethearts Waka Flocka Flame and his fiery wife Tammy Rivera have been through it all. They have each survived childhoods shook by murder, violence and drugs... only to find each other, fall in love, and begin building a successful life together. From home renovations, juggling Tammy’s bustling music career, parenting their teenage daughter Charlie, and meddling in-laws..navigating marriage has become their biggest hurdle yet. Waka and Tammy have swapped roles and the power struggle is real!
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  • @NobodyCanHandleMe.
    @NobodyCanHandleMe. 3 роки тому +1659

    When she said, "I have to be hard, because when I was soft you didn't respect me." I felt that.

    • @maureen1031
      @maureen1031 3 роки тому +12

      @Alissa very true.

    • @patriciahandy739
      @patriciahandy739 3 роки тому +7

      Wooow

    • @NessaGee-hx1et
      @NessaGee-hx1et 3 роки тому +73

      She’s not over how many times he cheated on her. Actions speak louder than words- she still hasn’t healed.

    • @maureen1031
      @maureen1031 3 роки тому +8

      @@NessaGee-hx1et absolutely

    • @maureen1031
      @maureen1031 3 роки тому +2

      @@NessaGee-hx1et are they still togetger?

  • @2jazzy2bt
    @2jazzy2bt 4 роки тому +1429

    Aw to see waka momma take responsibility in how she raised her son n know she plays a part in how he is as adult is life because most black parents wont

    • @latarshiacouch8829
      @latarshiacouch8829 4 роки тому +75

      Tiffany Brown parents don’t understand how a child is brought up determines the person they become.

    • @4islandbeauty
      @4islandbeauty 4 роки тому +36

      Nope don't go there just parents period, trust me it's universal.

    • @joannafreedom7914
      @joannafreedom7914 4 роки тому +33

      Most parents in general. That was amazing to see. I hope it inspired other parents to acknowledge their parenting.

    • @MsBossyBaddnezz
      @MsBossyBaddnezz 4 роки тому +2

      So true!!!!!!

    • @jayvacay
      @jayvacay 3 роки тому +2

      DAT PART

  • @jassn6957
    @jassn6957 3 роки тому +316

    “I refuse to raise a snotty , snobby ass daughter”. Yesss Tammy !

  • @IndispensableBeauty
    @IndispensableBeauty 3 роки тому +301

    Tammy loves him. She is protecting herself and that is the hardness everyone is seeing. She isn't willing to be too soft with him because he took it as a weakness. He does have to work very hard to show her differently and he should.

    • @user-np9kh3ro8t
      @user-np9kh3ro8t 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah.. especially she got cheated on tv .that hurts

  • @harribr3
    @harribr3 4 роки тому +1379

    Tami still hurt. You can tell she hasn't forgiven him. Charlie is a typical teen. Waka is maturing.

    • @kyleighsuniquee2400
      @kyleighsuniquee2400 4 роки тому +32

      best comment thus far

    • @Laron.G
      @Laron.G 4 роки тому +14

      facts my lil sister act just like her thats just todays world

    • @brittanybonnie1478
      @brittanybonnie1478 4 роки тому +15

      that and her past....but...like you said.i see the growth in waka and charlie is honestly a good girl...

    • @brittanybonnie1478
      @brittanybonnie1478 4 роки тому +8

      @@Laron.G she could be a whole lot worst

    • @Laron.G
      @Laron.G 4 роки тому +8

      Brittany Bonnie yea the kids is not bad at all but just think is it going to get better or worse as they get older

  • @chellez29
    @chellez29 4 роки тому +998

    I like Deb and Da Brat's relationship. They're friends, but Brat still has a certain level of respect while keeping it real with her. It's amazing!

    • @Uppitynegrogoddess1
      @Uppitynegrogoddess1 4 роки тому +14

      So true

    • @siggnatureshakur9037
      @siggnatureshakur9037 4 роки тому +12

      Love love love their bond

    • @sengoma8638
      @sengoma8638 4 роки тому +22

      Me too! Da Brat is so level-headed it's beautiful. She cuts to the quick and sees what's really there.

    • @thatraspyshxt
      @thatraspyshxt 4 роки тому +8

      Yes they have a great relationship..I love it.

    • @realvictoria5970
      @realvictoria5970 3 роки тому +12

      I know cuz if Idk anyone else that could check deb like that and not take a big ol gulp

  • @alondranycole2763
    @alondranycole2763 3 роки тому +152

    I feel like Waka giving Charlie that life he didn't have when growing up as a kid, but he gotta know when to be a father and when to be a friend

  • @cathyfriend2933
    @cathyfriend2933 3 роки тому +210

    I can respect Deb for being honest with herself. It's hard as a mom when you are doing your best by yourself. Single moms have to do it all

  • @sha-shaw3495
    @sha-shaw3495 4 роки тому +644

    I applaud Deb for being able to identify her short comings as a mom. Now that she knows where she failed they need to work on fixing those issues.
    I just want to hug waka deeply like he has so much hurt and pain. He is living with so much trauma

    • @sha-shaw3495
      @sha-shaw3495 4 роки тому +9

      @Shari Patrice you are being weird. No one meant in a sexual way

    • @shannongeorgiapeach76
      @shannongeorgiapeach76 4 роки тому +12

      I agree. I'm the type that loves affection, to me you tell someone you love them but you also show them. My husband's parents didnt show much affection and that was how he was to me. Luckily as we got serious I showed him how to show affection. Children follow what you do way more than what you say.

    • @ris7ahs907
      @ris7ahs907 2 роки тому +3

      facts a lot of mother don't even acknowledge the hurt they cause, its commendable that she acknowledged her

    • @thatsright5949
      @thatsright5949 2 роки тому

      She is Amazing💕💗💖✨

  • @beautyishername503
    @beautyishername503 4 роки тому +595

    When waka said I can’t deal with. I just wanted to give him a hug. He has so many buried feelings. There’s no way he got over his brothers deaths in just days.

    • @straighttalk8732
      @straighttalk8732 4 роки тому +29

      Beauty IsHerName men not supposed to have feelings we gotta bury those & keep it pushing! Thanks to society 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @therealbmatt2
      @therealbmatt2 4 роки тому +35

      You'll never get over loved ones deaths.

    • @Babywyde
      @Babywyde 4 роки тому +27

      I believe he meant he only mourned for one week/two days.
      My oldest brother died 16 yrs ago and everyday is a new day to get through it.

    • @sengoma8638
      @sengoma8638 4 роки тому +2

      Hurt hearing that. Hope the doctor helps him learn how to heal from the past.

    • @RedaGirl55
      @RedaGirl55 3 роки тому +6

      @@Babywyde Keywords here... Getting OVER & then Getting THROUGH!! He definitely skipped 1 of the 2.

  • @keic6891
    @keic6891 4 роки тому +260

    Da brat is so damn beautiful. Love her energy too. She's just unapologetically herself. Love that.

    • @armellentalaja3972
      @armellentalaja3972 3 роки тому

      She looks stupid with them bit clothes on. I don't think she's pretty to me. Her make up is off.

    • @GuyAye
      @GuyAye 3 роки тому +11

      @@armellentalaja3972 you kind of don’t matter

    • @natoshawilliams5869
      @natoshawilliams5869 3 роки тому +3

      @@GuyAye agree

  • @cammyed1261
    @cammyed1261 4 роки тому +409

    Men if you make your woman insecure, you lie, you cheat you make her feel disrespected etc she can forgive you but the female you had before is not gonna be the same you met before.... she started reflecting how you have been treating her even if she don’t want to change it just happens.... and that’s what I see with Tami

    • @curiousspectator6846
      @curiousspectator6846 3 роки тому +3

      Nah. We'll just find another one.

    • @cupcakepatrice8418
      @cupcakepatrice8418 3 роки тому +39

      @@curiousspectator6846 women especially a woman you have build unconditional love and trust with CAN NEVER BE REPLACED!!! Women are not dogs or pets you can’t just replace them

    • @InwardBeautyMinistries
      @InwardBeautyMinistries 3 роки тому +6

      @@cupcakepatrice8418 yup!

    • @InwardBeautyMinistries
      @InwardBeautyMinistries 3 роки тому +13

      @@curiousspectator6846 maybe.. but the next won’t be SHIT compared to the one you lost, and you can best believe what goes around comes back! Karma a bitch! BOW!

    • @edawyaj
      @edawyaj 2 роки тому +6

      @@InwardBeautyMinistries LMFAOOO the “BOW” killed me 😂😂

  • @ROA1988
    @ROA1988 4 роки тому +1552

    Da Brat has not aged a SINGLE MINUTE!!!

  • @kristeenagipson716
    @kristeenagipson716 4 роки тому +1940

    I see two hurt people who are trying to build on pain ...

    • @Freedomrings4433
      @Freedomrings4433 4 роки тому +39

      GirlKodesbyKris u said it best sis

    • @mikacastillo1909
      @mikacastillo1909 4 роки тому +35

      Say that shit again!

    • @karima8927
      @karima8927 4 роки тому +56

      Sounds like something Iyanla would say. They should consider going to her and learn how to heal.

    • @finessence808
      @finessence808 4 роки тому +7

      Preach!

    • @livelifebehappy0118
      @livelifebehappy0118 4 роки тому +10

      @@karima8927 yes yes ill watch that

  • @brittanycantu4041
    @brittanycantu4041 2 роки тому +43

    Shout out to Tammy’s mother for accepting and acknowledging the fact she hurt her children rather than make excuses for it. That’s something you rarely see parents do is taking ownership of the trauma they cause their children. So it’s wonderful for to see how apologetic she is because you can tell she really is sorry.

  • @buffyshillings3138
    @buffyshillings3138 11 місяців тому +14

    “I gotta learn the ugly in a person to enjoy the good in them” that line is very deep and true

  • @TheRealTiffanyLacole
    @TheRealTiffanyLacole 4 роки тому +805

    He talking about wanting to go to counseling and she talking about she wanna grandchild you don’t think that’s selfish deb 🙄

    • @conniemoore1786
      @conniemoore1786 4 роки тому +16

      I thought that the dead son left a daughter tho🤔

    • @TheRealTiffanyLacole
      @TheRealTiffanyLacole 4 роки тому +9

      Yessss the girl stated that in the video 😒😅

    • @conniemoore1786
      @conniemoore1786 4 роки тому +3

      @Ba Hashem Yeshua my MIL was an Eastern 🌟 and my ex a Mason🤔I have learned their histories and in the order of things our family is no longer 🙏

    • @MarcusMartn
      @MarcusMartn 4 роки тому +3

      Tiffany Lacole Deb is very selfish

    • @TheRealTiffanyLacole
      @TheRealTiffanyLacole 4 роки тому

      Why y’all here subscribe to my channel content coming soon 👏🏾😭

  • @kishagreen6809
    @kishagreen6809 4 роки тому +434

    Brat spoke the truth. Her face when Deb was talking about the grandbaby. Brat like WTH are you saying.

  • @litasjt2368
    @litasjt2368 4 роки тому +84

    love how he lights up talkin bout charlie

  • @britaneeengland7862
    @britaneeengland7862 4 роки тому +83

    Charlie and wakas relationship is literally adorable. she is mad spoiled and a little disrespectful towards her mom tho. but all and all she's not a bad kid, she just a regular teenager.

  • @denisevasquez9988
    @denisevasquez9988 4 роки тому +730

    Waka’s dreads are everything 😍😍😍😍

  • @monique_dannigirl7111
    @monique_dannigirl7111 4 роки тому +703

    He's clearly DEPRESSED..he is happiest helping others and it doesn't look like he is getting the opportunity to do that.

    • @arienneave3588
      @arienneave3588 4 роки тому +14

      I agree

    • @shawnm.martin5721
      @shawnm.martin5721 4 роки тому +4

      Good assessment

    • @yomamasbackhand
      @yomamasbackhand 4 роки тому +27

      🤔that makes alot of sense. If you're calling is helping people and you don't feel you're fulfilling that, I can see how that could lead to depression

    • @sundaywhite6082
      @sundaywhite6082 4 роки тому +13

      Monique White I don’t think he’s happy being married it just don’t seem like it

    • @222evolvedpisces
      @222evolvedpisces 3 роки тому +2

      especially he’s a pisces so i honestly believe this

  • @leo11266
    @leo11266 3 роки тому +43

    How can waka cheat on this beautiful woman I mean she’s a loving mother supportive she’s such a package deal. It doesn’t make sense.

  • @miguelmontique1454
    @miguelmontique1454 4 роки тому +31

    Everything aside wake and Charlie’s bonds is so adorable I can’t lie

  • @TheRealTiffanyLacole
    @TheRealTiffanyLacole 4 роки тому +282

    The way he sitting on that thing giving me anxiety 😭

    • @tayashley3539
      @tayashley3539 4 роки тому +22

      Especially with Tammy walkin up, and she likes to slap people. 🙄

    • @Tanisme777
      @Tanisme777 4 роки тому +6

      Taylor 😩🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @neeshbeesh
      @neeshbeesh 4 роки тому +2

      I was saying the same thing.. He could've fell all the way off the rail!

  • @FaithLoveDreams
    @FaithLoveDreams 4 роки тому +1576

    Tammy is aggressive with Waka because she really loves him and he hurt her deeply. Like she said in the clip when Waka asked her to stop talking aggressive, she’ said when I was soft you didn’t Respect me! Her aggressiveness reminds him of his mother who he only received tough love. So when Tammy came along and truly showed him she loved him he didn’t know how to receive it because he never had love like that but he took it for granted.

    • @iamamarie
      @iamamarie 4 роки тому +40

      Faith Love & Dreams and that’s how Gemini’s are. They run from stuff like that. They want the drama and all that and then it gets to be too much for them and they want the calmness again. It’s nerve wracking.

    • @CeeShelli
      @CeeShelli 4 роки тому +5

      What?

    • @deejoseph6206
      @deejoseph6206 4 роки тому +26

      Damn nicelyyy said, you guys are giving me life with these observations

    • @lucypollard6012
      @lucypollard6012 4 роки тому +3

      So true...

    • @AnotherLosttSoul
      @AnotherLosttSoul 4 роки тому +7

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @ruthdiaz8995
    @ruthdiaz8995 3 роки тому +59

    Tammy is such a sweet genuine woman who deeply loves those around her, but doesn't always get the appreciation she deserves . She's a selfless woman who deserves the upmost respect especially from her husband and daughter. I can really relate to her being so tired and exhausted juggling all areas of her life. Woman have it the hardest and men do not appreciate it.

    • @ninjanibba4259
      @ninjanibba4259 2 роки тому +3

      Ok but us MEN need that exact support too, we have feelings too
      Communication and trust is key on both ends

    • @joypyne3467
      @joypyne3467 2 роки тому

      That is a biased opinion. Marriage is a relationship that requires the participation of the both of them. Tammy doesn't speak or treat him respectfully much of the time. She seems very self-centered to me. She has also consistently refused to give him a child.

    • @barikareese
      @barikareese Рік тому +1

      @@joypyne3467 no shade, but if my husband kept cheating on me every other month, I wouldn't have a baby with him either. And after all that hurt he just want her to forget about it and not give her time to heal. Tbh it's selfish and as much as I don't condone her attitude she's being selfish right back as she should.

  • @britaneeengland7862
    @britaneeengland7862 4 роки тому +46

    "the hell happened to yo head" had me fucking dead otc🤣

  • @krysshadel
    @krysshadel 4 роки тому +1000

    I think Waka is a softy for Charlie because that’s the softness he needed from Ms. Deb growing up. No shade, cuz I know that hurt, but because he’s tryna give it with no structure or boundaries, it creates chaos. And Charlie is merely being a teen, taking advantage of what comes easy. Is this an excuse? No. Should her behavior be condoned? Absolutely not. Maybe they all need individual therapy (including baby girl), and then come together as a unit for family therapy, so that everyone can be on the same page.

    • @aura5944
      @aura5944 4 роки тому +11

      KRYS SHÁDEL 👏🏽👏🏽 Deep!

    • @zakiyanafisa2979
      @zakiyanafisa2979 4 роки тому +4

      KRYS SHÁDEL yes sister

    • @fah232
      @fah232 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @shawnm.martin5721
      @shawnm.martin5721 4 роки тому +13

      Shiddd when can you fit me in??? You called that thing out....

    • @krysshadel
      @krysshadel 4 роки тому +2

      Shawn M. Martin 🙌🏽😂

  • @LightsCameraAshley
    @LightsCameraAshley 4 роки тому +2147

    The daughter is so disrespectful. Waka needs to realize he’s a dad not a friend and not disagree with his wife in front of their daughter because if he can choose not to listen to his wife then she will feel like she can too.

    • @drewtom9813
      @drewtom9813 4 роки тому +150

      @Ashley D'Nea you right, but also him making her lie will come back and bite waka in the ass bc when she dating or seeing lil dudes that he may not approve of then he wont be able to tell her shit for going behind his back n lying and being deceptive...so he better be a dad and not too much of a friend

    • @corettarichardson9723
      @corettarichardson9723 4 роки тому +75

      She knows how much Waka loves her. And she's gonna milk it for what it's worth. And when she finds out it will not always go her way. She'll understand adulthood. Waka is a softy. Just preparing for when they have another 👶

    • @freshness4214
      @freshness4214 4 роки тому +43

      Ashley Da’Nea kids can disagree with their parent . It like telling your kid their opinion don’t matter then your kid will be scared to speak up for themself because their parent said their opinion don’t matter .

    • @wakeupppl8278
      @wakeupppl8278 4 роки тому +33

      At the age, they do that. It will stop, or get worse honey. Story of my life.....
      #ihateteenagers😂

    • @homebody6353
      @homebody6353 4 роки тому +57

      The daughter is disrespectful bc Tammy is

  • @JulieZuljeliSedeno
    @JulieZuljeliSedeno 3 роки тому +27

    Wakas genuine love for Charlie 🥲 wow. I respect him for that.

  • @legenalways1214
    @legenalways1214 3 роки тому +26

    Waka is so fine, those eyes just melt you away. Mom Ded has those eyes. He got them honestly.

  • @Blue98332
    @Blue98332 4 роки тому +1251

    I don’t think Charlie is a brat like people in comments are saying, I think she’s smart and has waka wrapped around her finger and decided to take advantage of that because her mom was gone 😂 typical teenager behavior

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 4 роки тому +22

      Yes

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 4 роки тому +26

      Thank you females are females. We think were entitled even when we dont have a dime so I can only imagine when you're parents have two coins

    • @stink91
      @stink91 4 роки тому +1

      Chelsea Webb facts

    • @jadaaadoraa
      @jadaaadoraa 4 роки тому +31

      Chelsea Webb We all have our moments why people act like they were never a teenager

    • @BlackGirlMajik
      @BlackGirlMajik 4 роки тому +6

      They're talking about "Da Brat" the rapper who was talking to Deb! 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 They haven't called the child a brat! Lol you must be super young 😂

  • @Nottyana
    @Nottyana 4 роки тому +276

    This is what happens when you trauma bond with someone and so addicted to hurt. How are you married and been with someone for years and you don’t know what genuine love is?

    • @yolanag
      @yolanag 4 роки тому +28

      Tania ikr? It’s SAD! It hurt me when he said that. You’re wife is suppose to give you love. They been together all those years and don’t know love?

    • @Nottyana
      @Nottyana 4 роки тому +22

      Jasmine Fletcher that’s why I said trauma bonding bc that’s what it is. There is no genuine love in trauma bonding.

    • @theperfectescape5785
      @theperfectescape5785 4 роки тому +1

      Damn

    • @AA-in4iv
      @AA-in4iv 4 роки тому +10

      Wow truma bond. That's deep.

    • @brittanyjulien252
      @brittanyjulien252 4 роки тому +5

      Codependency that's what it's called..

  • @autumnkooiker2802
    @autumnkooiker2802 4 роки тому +108

    I thought Tammy was in a domestic violent relationship before Waka so why is she putting her hands on him??? Hitting your partner is not cool

    • @Teachingtea
      @Teachingtea 3 роки тому +6

      Exactly

    • @jenaelovely6268
      @jenaelovely6268 3 роки тому +36

      Sometimes the abused can become the abuser. When you find your voice and strength after being beat down and scared sometimes that rage comes to life and against the wrong people. I had to learn that myself.

    • @Rejectcolinization
      @Rejectcolinization 2 роки тому +5

      This is so true. I hate the double standards.

    • @LaurenSClark
      @LaurenSClark 2 роки тому +2

      I did not like that either. Not cool.

  • @dmarkslove
    @dmarkslove 4 роки тому +59

    That Therapest had me tripn with those facial expressions 😂

  • @matheiathompson628
    @matheiathompson628 4 роки тому +108

    Kudos to Tammys mom for overcoming her drug addiction. Keep it up

  • @hc5240
    @hc5240 4 роки тому +191

    Dude him sitting on that balcony railing was making me nervous AF

  • @MissSabzSays
    @MissSabzSays 4 роки тому +26

    Brat is the friend that'll tell you what you gotta here, not what you want

  • @kekenicole825
    @kekenicole825 4 роки тому +18

    “It was straightened with a style. This side was longer than that side”😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bwilliams6583
    @bwilliams6583 4 роки тому +264

    Da Brat always somebody counselor... Bow Wow, J Dee, now Deb. Lol

    • @sspain3800
      @sspain3800 4 роки тому +13

      Lol true sometimes Ricky, Gary and her sis Lisa Ray

    • @natasharobinson6010
      @natasharobinson6010 4 роки тому +27

      She give good advice tho. She said everything that I was screaming at the screen to Deb last episode 😆

    • @lovelydae7455
      @lovelydae7455 4 роки тому +2

      Lol

    • @jaynicole23
      @jaynicole23 4 роки тому +4

      S Spain - SHES LISA RAY SISTER ?!

    • @alethiawilliams8755
      @alethiawilliams8755 4 роки тому +2

      @@jaynicole23 yes

  • @S0ulB3autee
    @S0ulB3autee 4 роки тому +364

    Best marriage advice: keep your marriage to yourself!... but that’s just my single ass opinion 🥴

  • @trendyjunubi6612
    @trendyjunubi6612 3 роки тому +53

    "I gotta learn the ugly in person to enjoy the good in them"
    Wisdom right there

  • @Tay-bo2rv
    @Tay-bo2rv 3 роки тому +30

    I’m sorry deb slayed that grey lace

  • @DokBua0424
    @DokBua0424 4 роки тому +67

    Bless his heart. His words said it "gotta learn the ugly to enjoy the good in them"( "some people's ugly you can't deal with")

  • @beautyishername503
    @beautyishername503 4 роки тому +154

    I love the growth in Waka, he has matured so much over the years. I’m praying they can get their relationship back on track. They really love each other. 🙏🏽

  • @haydeejohnson8290
    @haydeejohnson8290 3 роки тому +46

    I appreciate the fact that this man realizes he needs help and to seek counseling. This is a great minority❤

  • @AdriennFiles
    @AdriennFiles 3 роки тому +22

    Legit, Da Brat don't age at all. Gorgeous

  • @prettylove8887
    @prettylove8887 4 роки тому +994

    To see all the perfect mothers, perfect wives, and psychologists commenting is hilarious to me..

    • @whostrue
      @whostrue 4 роки тому +65

      Paige Smith it’s always funny to see people who don’t got they shit together judge someone else lol

    • @aaleyah5380
      @aaleyah5380 4 роки тому +8

      Paige Smith Precisely

    • @weareuniqueforareason7503
      @weareuniqueforareason7503 4 роки тому +9

      Right like ANYTHING and EVERYTHING is PERFECT NEGATIVE!!!!

    • @beautyisskindeep3328
      @beautyisskindeep3328 4 роки тому +6

      Facts!!!!! Like they so perfect!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @diorprince4579
      @diorprince4579 4 роки тому +8

      Mann Nobodies Relationship, perfect gotta "Go Through it to Grow Through It"...

  • @beautyishername503
    @beautyishername503 4 роки тому +112

    The love waka have for Charlie is unmatched. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmaweaver486
    @emmaweaver486 4 роки тому +24

    “That’s photoshop” had me weakkkkk😂😂

  • @preeeandrews3609
    @preeeandrews3609 3 роки тому +13

    The way Waka talks about Tammy, I was scared for her to come home too 😂 like we all in trouble messing w Tammy.

  • @yolanag
    @yolanag 4 роки тому +594

    Charlie is spoiled. Tammy needs to stop being aggressive & Waka need to talk to his wife about his feelings and be more open.

    • @khalilbashir7141
      @khalilbashir7141 4 роки тому +46

      Her aggressiveness is centered around something though. I can tell shes frustrated and lashing out

    • @realniga3012
      @realniga3012 4 роки тому +16

      Charlie didn't raised her self she reflection of her mom

    • @shaunet77
      @shaunet77 4 роки тому

      I agree

    • @sundaywhite6082
      @sundaywhite6082 4 роки тому +1

      YolanaG Vlogs spoiler isn’t even the word but it’s waka and Tammy fault

  • @msog_mozzy6435
    @msog_mozzy6435 4 роки тому +127

    Tammy is tired of being sick and tired..

  • @sincerelysmak68
    @sincerelysmak68 3 роки тому +44

    Tammy is such a Leo! She’s been through a lot and now her lioness is started to come out!! ❤️♌️

  • @AndreaGarcia-pq1ru
    @AndreaGarcia-pq1ru 3 роки тому +20

    Charlie is so spoil but in the wrong way, she’s grounded and doing what she wants with Waka he needs to show her sometimes tough love.

  • @TheJulithegreat
    @TheJulithegreat 4 роки тому +141

    Brat is so pretty. She has hardly aged!

  • @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd
    @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd 4 роки тому +97

    Da Brat is gorgeous! I need her makeup tutorial.

  • @highgradefrass8768
    @highgradefrass8768 3 роки тому +8

    Wake was raised like 99.9% of Jamaican kids never hugged or even were told I love you gang life

  • @Waynespalding.
    @Waynespalding. 2 роки тому +7

    Waka your Mother is AMAZING and your so lucky to have her . much respect.

  • @10byrdie
    @10byrdie 4 роки тому +236

    Waka never wanted to be married and still
    doesn’t. Tammy would be me if I stayed with a man who continuously emotionally abused and cheated on me. You disrespected her for years now she doesn’t respect you anymore.

    • @VantaBlackin
      @VantaBlackin 4 роки тому +27

      Right. Their foundation ain't shit and it's sad.

    • @VantaBlackin
      @VantaBlackin 4 роки тому +26

      @De'Sean Walker for me it took realizing I was codependent...learning all about codependency (and narcissism) I had to learn about me and why I would stay not why he wouldn't stop. No victim shit.

    • @dejab.5454
      @dejab.5454 4 роки тому +8

      Titaness Writes “NO VICTIM SHIT!!!” Love that sis

    • @tonna_explains
      @tonna_explains 4 роки тому +7

      I agree. They give me anxiety. Undermining her authority with her child is childish. What’s wrong with saying “what did your momma say?” Also not doing stuff to Tammy. Who wants to see their man on social media after you telling me something else. 🤦🏽‍♀️. The Brat is correct about Deb

    • @tamarasuber
      @tamarasuber 4 роки тому +11

      I think he loves her but is emotionally abusive. Tami is a abuse victim who now is abusive.

  • @megadancefan
    @megadancefan 4 роки тому +97

    Hold up, so you just slap your man in front of your child?? NO.

  • @lovelydae7455
    @lovelydae7455 4 роки тому +30

    She putting too much pressure on him
    Damn she makes me rethink how I talk to my husband

  • @92cgray
    @92cgray 3 роки тому +19

    Charlie really is Waka daughter lol I could tell he was pissed at Tami but he knows she is her mom. I know you were mad Waka but it’s a mother daughter challenge you won’t ever understand. Charlie was testing Tami and she had to learn not to try it again.

  • @ysmith79
    @ysmith79 4 роки тому +307

    😂😂Why did the camera 🎥 zoom in on Deb’s kitten heels😂😂😂😂

    • @sassysass9737
      @sassysass9737 4 роки тому +3

      😂😂

    • @antwanitadurham9802
      @antwanitadurham9802 4 роки тому +9

      Right like 3 damn times

    • @ysmith79
      @ysmith79 4 роки тому +8

      Antwanita Durham they didn’t do Deb right at all😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ysmith79
      @ysmith79 4 роки тому +7

      Tomessa McGraw I had to watch it like 3 more times and every time it tickled me😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BenaandLife93
      @BenaandLife93 4 роки тому +6

      Girl !!!!

  • @sirena7811
    @sirena7811 4 роки тому +211

    They seem so draining😭 if this is marriage ion want it

    • @boldandcourageous4176
      @boldandcourageous4176 4 роки тому +5

      I AGREE

    • @joeronald654
      @joeronald654 4 роки тому +21

      Stay single nothing worth having comes easy in this life

    • @2jazzy2bt
      @2jazzy2bt 4 роки тому +16

      Marriage is alot of work

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 4 роки тому +37

      This ain't marriage, this is their marriage, don't let that define your marriage if you desire it

    • @monayfromdabay
      @monayfromdabay 4 роки тому +1

      and yet here we are watching it

  • @deeniemcgahee3203
    @deeniemcgahee3203 3 роки тому +11

    Da Brat don’t age! She gets more beautiful as time goes by!

  • @hugtheworld2922
    @hugtheworld2922 3 роки тому +19

    I know this is an old post but I gotta say, Flakka’s mom is real. Down to earth and willing to question herself like all women should do without prompting. The definition of a fool is a person who denies the chance to learn.

  • @KMYACANIECE
    @KMYACANIECE 4 роки тому +283

    Everyone has their own pushing points , lying is one of mines.

  • @VETASALMONE11
    @VETASALMONE11 4 роки тому +288

    He starts shit and then plays victim... he knows all the things that trigger her and he constantly does them. Then gets mad at her response

    • @wtfpwnish
      @wtfpwnish 3 роки тому +2

      Nah

    • @barewithnay5226
      @barewithnay5226 2 роки тому

      like sir you know how she is you just chose to do what you wanted to do

  • @chantalince8452
    @chantalince8452 4 роки тому +26

    Y is he depressed when it was his cheating that got him to this situation he is in now. If they cant resolve then they should seperate ...period instead of being depressed n unhappy

    • @CeeTheGreatest
      @CeeTheGreatest 2 роки тому

      @Sundus Ali he was probably depressed before and then he cheated and made it worse because he had to experience almost losing her. And waka has to love her he could get with anybody else and they could make him look good. Waka loves Tammy but neither one of them knows how to be vulnerable and patient with one another. They’ve both had thing happen in there lives that made them build walls and close themselves off. But in ways Waka is growing and Tammy needs to work on thing to because she brushes him off sometimes and makes him feel like she doesn’t care. And if that’s the case she can divorce him but neither one of them will so they must love each other. And I can see Tammy is still hurt but she cares but she still hasn’t let go of all that hate she probably had for him and might even still have.

  • @JordanAdvice
    @JordanAdvice 3 роки тому +36

    Looking from the previous episode.. Deb didn’t want him to seek individual counsel because she was scared of what would be discovered. She said herself she was not an affectionate person while raising him because she was so hell bent on being “strong.” In the end, the past is the past. But he is allowed to internalize those things. She wanted to make it seem like his problems only stemmed from the relationship and not necessarily him. Any person needs to get themselves right to be of any asset to another. A man wanting to seek therapy is honestly a step in the right direction. Sometimes you just need an unbiased opinion on things/challenges you’re going through and dealt with. It’s okay. We all have pain.

  • @t_harris2_489
    @t_harris2_489 4 роки тому +485

    She emasculates the hell out of him because she resents him for what she endured in their relationship.

  • @melaninqueen5613
    @melaninqueen5613 4 роки тому +449

    That child is disrespectful. Wake needs to try to be a parent and not a friend and agree more with Tammy on parenting.

    • @londyncharlizec.5668
      @londyncharlizec.5668 4 роки тому +29

      Melanin Princess omg I was just saying this that child is very disrespectful and I understand why Tammy reacts the way she does cuz waka doesn’t respect her word or how she feels .

    • @melaninqueen5613
      @melaninqueen5613 4 роки тому +5

      LondynCharlize Chanel 💯

    • @darflexswolez2266
      @darflexswolez2266 4 роки тому +9

      She's a teen what do u expect

    • @randomkendrickfan3228
      @randomkendrickfan3228 4 роки тому +1

      I saw this comment already like almost exactly but u changed the words u copied ashley

    • @nme.8473
      @nme.8473 4 роки тому +12

      Melanin Princess, exactly. She isn't just being a teenager, she's being a spoiled brat.

  • @kalianyg9872
    @kalianyg9872 3 роки тому +6

    Don't everybody just love Charlie like she's the funniest kid ever

  • @MsBossyBaddnezz
    @MsBossyBaddnezz 4 роки тому +6

    I think I need to go watch this whole show lol. When Tammy said "When I was talking soft you didn't respect me!" I felt that!!!!!

  • @nasiaprettyoungthang
    @nasiaprettyoungthang 4 роки тому +268

    I don’t think waka should tell Charlie to lie to her mom and he shouldn’t undermine Tammy’s authority. You would think Deb would be supportive of Waka going to therapy especially since she lost a son to suicide. Deb shouldn’t pressure them to have a baby if neither of them are ready.

    • @theedailyshannon
      @theedailyshannon 4 роки тому +14

      she's being selfish and only thinking about herself, especially with this baby.

    • @traciecromartie5408
      @traciecromartie5408 4 роки тому +6

      YEEEEEESSS!!!!💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

    • @Crystal-rj5is
      @Crystal-rj5is 4 роки тому +7

      They dnt want a baby cause even though they been together they dnt knw if its really gonna last...and they knw tht would be the end if them...ijs

    • @theedailyshannon
      @theedailyshannon 4 роки тому +3

      @@Crystal-rj5is lol how can you form that opinion when they both literally said they dont want a child because they're too busy. everybody doesn't want more kids just because and to get pressured for it is not ok.

    • @Crystal-rj5is
      @Crystal-rj5is 4 роки тому +2

      @@theedailyshannon it's not fact...but it is my opinion and how I feel yeah thts wht they say but is tht the truth?

  • @kliz7590
    @kliz7590 4 роки тому +333

    Charlie too comfortable coming up with all kind of lies...she clearly does it often....

    • @kierra3825
      @kierra3825 4 роки тому +86

      every teenager lies. y’all acting like this is something SOOOO out of the ordinary

    • @AlexisMaria
      @AlexisMaria 4 роки тому +26

      yes we all do/did this as teens.. lol cmon now

    • @suesue2100
      @suesue2100 4 роки тому +26

      @@kierra3825 right i hate how everyone acts likes they weren't teenagers once

    • @kingcook-we7vw
      @kingcook-we7vw 4 роки тому +9

      Fuck outta here.. we did teenager shit without ANY adults around to validate.. this lil broad got camera crew and all that.. and using leverage.. plzzzzz

    • @victoryalexander-otakpor2591
      @victoryalexander-otakpor2591 4 роки тому +11

      @@kingcook-we7vw "lil broad"??? What is this useless comment??

  • @wendyadame627
    @wendyadame627 4 роки тому +4

    Waka has the most beautiful mom she is so understanding about her son daughter in law and life. She amazes me.

  • @alexagarcia7819
    @alexagarcia7819 2 роки тому +6

    When deb talked about how she was with flaka made me realize a lot of mothers do that there’s no guide to motherhood or fatherhood just what society tells us how to be and I definitely feel her I don’t always feel like I’m doing my best when it’s for my children

  • @jae9581
    @jae9581 4 роки тому +211

    I hate when grandparents ask for babies if you want babies adopt,keep ya damn nose out their business..

    • @theblessed1848
      @theblessed1848 4 роки тому +6

      Word that is a good idea 😂

    • @Ms.Carter90
      @Ms.Carter90 4 роки тому +16

      I don’t like when they (keep) asking. Asking once or even twice is fine. After they are told “no” or “not now” a couple of times, then it should be left alone. There are responsibilities that come with those babies, as we all know. So the grandparent can want a grandchild all day, but it’s their child that has to deal with the responsibilities.

    • @aura5944
      @aura5944 4 роки тому +21

      Why don’t they focus on raising their (own) kids they skip and disregard that whole generation for their offspring. Don’t really care too much about the kids but love love grandkids or is it just me?

    • @ebonih7138
      @ebonih7138 4 роки тому +2

      Alexandria Culver facts. I don’t have the best mother relationship 😂 but she’s looking at me to have kids but has so many restrictions like ugh.

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 3 роки тому +1

      @@aura5944 so they cam grandparent out of guilt for not doing g what they were supposed to do. It's sickening

  • @kimbranch4125
    @kimbranch4125 4 роки тому +148

    I’m not ever going to tell people how to raise their kids, but they definitely need to get on the same page with how to discipline Charlie. You can tell the girl isn’t taking Tammie serious. It’s all funny & cute until things get real and Charlie completely disrespects them both

  • @genesisyiret
    @genesisyiret 3 роки тому +5

    The way they both smiled at each other 😂😂😂. They both knew they were about to come up with a master plan lmaoooo

  • @esreneroache1006
    @esreneroache1006 2 роки тому +4

    I just love this family too much. I love ❤️ love Waka . He’s has a great soul and he is brilliant.

  • @lisaperea5151
    @lisaperea5151 4 роки тому +76

    No one can fix someone when they're broken. Healing is going to hurt and it's going to hurt like hell.

  • @frankmathews
    @frankmathews 4 роки тому +35

    It’s always that 1 friend that say “go check yo man IG girl” 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Dee2bank
    @Dee2bank 3 роки тому +4

    da brat is a REAL friend not gonna tell you what you wanna hear but tell you what you NEED to hear💯

  • @TheTbaby
    @TheTbaby Рік тому +3

    Tammy is so pretty especially without the makeup her natural look is just so gorgeous

  • @cheyenne7615
    @cheyenne7615 4 роки тому +36

    Ayooooo Charlie’s hair was more busted looking afterwards than it was before Tammy left 😭😭😭😭😤😭😭 I’m wheezinggg

  • @brooklynsecrets21
    @brooklynsecrets21 4 роки тому +53

    Waka is giving charlie the love he never got from his mom & now his wife has the same personality as his mom . both of them are hurting rt now & i think there such a perfect couple but regular people that have issues .

  • @danand6223
    @danand6223 4 роки тому +3

    Waka is such a gemini! And Tammy knows his moods
    🙏🏽👑👑🙏🏽❤❤

  • @Officialnurselexi
    @Officialnurselexi 3 роки тому +4

    I love Tammy so much, she’s so real and down to earth

  • @TijasWorld
    @TijasWorld 4 роки тому +319

    Charlie needed to take those braids out anyway. They were a mess. & why Waka lie ab something so small? I see why Tammy be blowing up. She can't discipline her child if Waka lets her get away w. everything & she undermines Tammy.

    • @allstar3845
      @allstar3845 4 роки тому +8

      tee lovee periodt

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 4 роки тому +16

      Tammy hair be clean, but Charlie's be looking a mess sometimes.

    • @TijasWorld
      @TijasWorld 4 роки тому +11

      Ronda S I think she be letting one of Charlie’s lil friends do her hair sometimes.

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 4 роки тому +3

      @@TijasWorld girl me too.. lol

    • @TijasWorld
      @TijasWorld 4 роки тому +2

      Ronda S 😂😂😂

  • @stephanyrenae4544
    @stephanyrenae4544 4 роки тому +56

    I love Da Brat. No matter what platform she's on ,she keeps it real.

  • @ashleybennet9243
    @ashleybennet9243 3 роки тому +3

    I love how he is with Charlie that’s so sweet

  • @thatsright5949
    @thatsright5949 2 роки тому +1

    She Is Beautiful...Floka Mother Really Loves Him😢💗💖

  • @kiki1573
    @kiki1573 4 роки тому +420

    Honestly Tammy cutting out Charlie’s braids was the right thing to do. She’s at that stage where she’s pushing boundaries and Tammy gotta dead that before she walks around being a spoiled brat. I get that they want to have some fun, but c’mon now Waka on IG, Charlie gets BLONDE braids and Tammy was supposed to miss that???? I don’t like how violent she is by slapping Waka so hard she has to shake off her hand, but they did try her bad that day.

    • @msboolpnw9563
      @msboolpnw9563 3 роки тому +21

      They need some counseling.I don’t agree with Walka teaching the daughter to lye to her mother that’s wrong.I was very shocked to see Tammy smack Walka in his face. I don’t condone violence in any shape or form.Now if the shoe was on the other foot and Walka smacked Tammy then it’ll be a whole different situation.She probably will call the police, press assault charges, restraining orders and so on. It’s not ok to put hands on anyone.Then Tammy cut her daughters hair. The whole family is dysfunctional.

    • @GeorgiaWhisper
      @GeorgiaWhisper 3 роки тому +18

      That was a form of abuse. She could have sat her down and made her take them out 1 by 1 just like she sat there and let whoever put them in 1 by 1. Those little fingers would have been in pain.

    • @loveyb3347
      @loveyb3347 3 роки тому +9

      @@GeorgiaWhisper thats not abuse

    • @juboo4015
      @juboo4015 2 роки тому +11

      @@loveyb3347 yes it is

    • @doravaldez3045
      @doravaldez3045 5 місяців тому

      Right !!

  • @snoopybull5405
    @snoopybull5405 4 роки тому +103

    They need to actually listen to each other

  • @IndispensableBeauty
    @IndispensableBeauty 3 роки тому +1

    Awwww Waka just wants someone to be affectionate with and feel unconditional love. That's why some people really love kids because that love is the most amazing love.

  • @DreamersUniverse
    @DreamersUniverse 2 роки тому +3

    Anxiety level was on 1000 when Tammy was running with those scissors!! 😬