I Was Harassed...!?
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- Опубліковано 23 лют 2024
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Please be careful out there! Be aware of your surroundings and what's happening around you! No matter who you are, it could happen, so again, be careful everyone!
Have you guys had anything like this happen? Only share if you're comfortable! This is a sensitive topic, so please be kind and respectful when replying to others as well
i love your vids
My friend was being stalked in 7th grade
@@yeefyeet4925 Scary..
Heyy lol i luv ur vids u slay yoon
@@yeefyeet4925wtf
Harassment should be a felony
Just remember, just because something is doesn’t mean it should be. Laws are different EVERYWHERE, but harassment should still be a felony.
Isn’t it already a felony
It should be it is overlooked to much
Yeah, and people totally wouldn't abuse it to put whoever they don't like in jail.
@@anthonywalker6268 that’s true. I think us girls should always be aware about people around us. Stay safe when walking outside and having a friend with you are great ways to keep us safe. Also whenever you drink be sure to have a group of people with you.
Tis
As a male, I can’t believe that my kind does stuff like this. People should not just let those intrusive thoughts win. If this ever happens again, let me know. I will call a meeting. The council will decide on the offender’s punishment.
Edit: My notifications are being bombed
Edit 2: My IPad exploded
Edit 3: Please stop
Edit 4: How the hell is this the most liked comment
Edit 5: why
Edit 6: Pain and suffering
Edit 7: I give up
Edit 8: Literally how did this happen☠️
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Help what😭
can’t tell if the meeting part is satire
Dw bro.
Girls are equally suspects of this
As a male, I'm gonna apply for the council
The fact that people like this exist on the same planet as me never fails to disgust me to no end. dont know you at all, but stay safe man
I'm still 10 almost 11 but I understand this a lot I can comprehend the bad and the good people after getting to know them. But personally I have not been harassed before....so far
yes, im glad you explained this because now im realizing my dad and his girlfriend have been harassing me and even sometimes my friends, and the fact im 12 is sad.
Dam bro you ok?
Are you ok??? Sending hugs 🫂🫶🏻
I hope you get too a safe space wish you well
sending emotional support
Are you ok?
It sucks, because like, when youre trying to be genuinely nice and give compliments, creepos ruin it.
Like, i like making people happy. I like seeing that glow when someone gets complimented about something that they worked really hard on, or that theyre really excited about. But these days, i honestly am afraid to say ANYTHING out of fear of making someone uncomfortable.
I feel that, I always want to keep an open mind about that kind of stuff but I've been told a lot of times I'm not good at reading social cues or people's real intentions, so I'm always worried I'm putting myself in a situation I don't want to be in :,)
I do know there's kind people like you who mean it though! The creepy ones should really back off 😔
average compliment experience:
me: hi btw your pretty
girl: thx
random person: now kiss.
BRO WE CANT GIVE COMPLIMENTS?
or:
me: your pretty
girl: ew weirdo
This happened to me and I felt really uncomfortable I felt like my heart disappeared ngl
@@WhizAviation1Help my class in a nut shell
I tried to compliment a girl I sow in class because she won something (this was like 3 year ago) and she took it the wrong way 3 dam minutes of me having to explain that I am not a creep. I HATE CREEPS FOR MAKING GUYS AND GRILS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE.
Harassment is really the worst things that could happen to anyone.
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Very true
It really isn't, but it IS a sign of other potential dangers.
There’s worse but alr
I will say it's one of the worst ones, it just sucks ahhh 😭
One time in the seventh grade, my cat died due to a roadkill, and some guys came up to me saying my cat died because he got shot.
Cool
@@dailydoseofgreyYo that’s mean! Also sorry for your loss, and that’s bullshit why would they say that
I'm so sorry that happened when you were out of it. Noone deserves to feel unsafe, especially after a long or awful day. :(
I was thinking of Joker when I saw that.
Those guys are so stupid...I'm so sorry that happened to you, glad you're okay😭💗
Wahhh I'm a fan 😂 💗
@@euxlizaa tyyy
Thank you~
@@yoontoons I’m sorry this happened to you
It must be traumatic
Womp womp
It's crazy that some people can't do something as simple as respect another person's boundaries. I'm so sorry you went through that.
I was harassed repeatedly during my final year in high school, and unfortunately this was by someone I used to be friends with. They wouldn't stop hugging me and drawing pictures of us together, even when I politely told them to stop. And my teacher said that "he just had a crush on me," despite repeatedly telling her I wasn't comfortable with what he was doing. She was useless anyway, because when my mom planned a meeting to deal with the situation, SHE LEFT TO GO TO A DIFFERENT ONE. I've never seen a teacher so completely ignorant to the well-being of one of her students. Thankfully, after a good long hour of my mom screaming at everyone else who was there, the boy finally left me alone.
Sorry that happened I remember me and my sister we were Cross the road this guy's just start shouting like hey beautiful girl I was 11 I just ignored them but stay safe everyone❤I think they should put themselves in my shoes to how it feels at a young age
Dang if it takes an angry parent to handle a situation like that, that's a good sign that the teacher doesn't understand the importance of boundaries. I'm so sorry you had to go through this
That’s crazy I had a similar story and btw sorry for what happened
@@gretaclayton6173 bro I remember once group of kids punched me in the eye with a ROCK and the teacher saw it all and did NOTHING so the next day my mom came to school and threaten to kill him if he sees him again, and she also yelled at the kids and told them when they were crying “cry to your mom not me” and she banged on the principals desk office and yelled at her to me move me and my big sister to a new school, and basically I hate teachers like that too it just makes me pissed that he did nothing when he saw that
@@gretaclayton6173Thank You for your concern. The thing that ticks me off the most was that she was A FULL GROWN WOMAN. There's not understanding something, and choosing not to acknowledge something. She sent a kid to the principal's office when we were discussing Down Syndrome and they laughed at one of the pictures of the kids in the book. Yet when someone repeatedly says they don't like how another student is constantly invading their personal space, that's when you think nothing's wrong with the situation? Some teachers don't need to be teachers, or at least need to be in different grades. 😮💨
Fortunately for me, I live in a really wholesome, small little town, so I’ve never had to experience this. But I feel for everyone who has, because this is not ok. Even if it seems like a joke, you never know what someone’s already been through or may be going through. Just leave each other alone (unless you want to actually be nice ☺☺.) I love a good compliment!! Stay safe, besties!!
(Also, great music choice at the beginning 🕺🏼🕺🏼)
Aww you poor soul people can be so creepy I hope this never happens again to u❤ stay safe out there
Guys, if you ever get harassed, just because someone is “good-looking”, does not mean they didn’t harass you! This goes for both genders y’all, please remember that! Stay safe!
Agreed and yes
All genders*
@@Lilou_Smiley ???
@@andrcwlol "Guys, if you ever get harassed, just because someone is “good-looking”, does not mean they didn’t harass you! This goes for *all genders y’all, please remember that! Stay safe!"
@@Lilou_Smiley Theres only two genders, everyone is born One of the two genders, unless your unisex No one is born non-binary and etc..When people say both genders they refer to everyone I believe..
I've been harassed multiple times and I just turned 15😢. I look a lot older than my actual age I'll admit but this has happened multiple times when I'm walking home in my UNIFORM. I've been whistled at by construction workers on buildings, harassed by food vendors.... One time I was so scared cos I was in a taxi by myself and the GROWN man who was driving kept saying some really creepy stuff to me. Or when I walked past some police officers and I heard what they said about me and the dress I was in😞. That encounter made me so sad cos they're supposed to be there to protect me from stuff like that. 😢. I have so many other instances and it's sad cos many of them happen on my way from school.
Be safe everyone😢 it's a cruel world out there.
Be bold and confident. It is the only way of surviving on this cruel planet.
Since I'm a 16-year-old boy, I think I'll not be able to think critically in this situation the way you can, but still , in my opinion, confidence is the only thing that can help.
U wore pinafore?
@@awangkumohamaddanishbinawangja what's that?
Sorry had to go through that, this world can be really scary. No real experience myself but I suggest having you local emergency number for the police on speed dial.
i cant believe people do this kind of stuff i hope your okay and i hope this never EVER happens again or i will track them down istg on a serious note stay safe and im praying for you❤
Sorry to hear you had to go through that. I hope you manage to move on. I respect the personal bounties of both men and women
I'm really sorry that's happened to you it's not ur fault and that's really hard to share especially on the internet, ur amazing and never let anyone tell u otherwise!❤
As a guy it's horid that other men do this.
As a fellow guy, I do not recognize them as one of us
As another fellow guy i cannot comprehend the fact that let alone someone would try stuff like this (Sorry for bad English its not my first languedge)
@@albertpedersen8606 Yeah I hope on day we can live in a world where women don't have to be discriminated for they're appearance.
Exactly, like wth is wrong with some of these guy's out here!?
I appreciate it! Though even men get harassed as well! Make sure you're all safe! It can happen to anyone, so please everyone be careful
Yoon i love how your so optimistic im a big fan and yes this topic happend to me i wasent even comfortable talking to any boy for about 2 years i know its much but i dont trust so easily anymore but im glad that im not the only one facing this thank you
I’ve had a couple of sexual harassment incidents and honestly it’s the worst because you get into that mindset that it was your fault not the person doing it. Like why didn’t I speak up for myself I’ve been told time and time again to defend myself if anything ever happened and I have a couple times, but there’s times where I was left dumbfounded cuz people I thought I could trust, people who I thought were my good friends go on to hurt me in ways I wish it didn’t. For those who have a situation of any kind where you feel is not right, please tell someone, anyone. I’m grateful for the support I have with my family, who understand and care abt my feelings and we’re there when I needed a shoulder to cry on. This was a rant oh gosh sorry but just be more in tune with your surroundings.🙏🙏
"No matter what you wear, you gonna be harassed"
- Yoon
Goddamn I juat learned aomething new
It's the same thing with attractiveness. People really tell you "if you're ugly you'll avoid harassment and SA!!!" when in reality, that's not how it works 💀 and it is also very degrading and crappy to say. Sick minds are sick, you being ugly or not won't change their trash asses. Rather than attractiveness, most look for vulnerability, that's why a lot of abuse situations go "you're ugly yet i still loved you!! you think anyone will love you?". It's all bullcrap, just be safe out there bud. Don't be paranoid but also don't believe you are 100% safe from stuff like this☝
The only time I was ever catcalled I was in Florida and walking out of a building which had a lot of stuff in it but we had gone there for a torture museum (we're a really dark group) and a couple of guys no more than 30 years old started flirting with us from across the street (I was with my friend and his mom) and I just laughed and pointed at the museum's sign and grinned evilly as we walked away their flirting stopped real quick
They would’ve trough you were a psycho😭😭
@@urlocalvampire17 that
That must be the best response to catcalling ever 😂
LMAOO I'll have to try something like that myself ahaha that's hilarious 😂😂😂
That is the best way to respond to this sort of stuff🤣
Honestly, some people even men can be sick honestly that’s like one of the worst things I’ve ever heard of. I hope those people grow up and realize they did something so disgusting and so rude. I’m so sorry that happened to you. It shouldn’t have happened plus people should’ve stood up for you too. but i’m sure we know all guys are like that. I know me. I had a lot of stuff happen that scared me and my friend and it was all from guys and made me refrain from guys a lot until I met one while ago. I’ve known him for a long time, but we started talking more and it’s nice and I feel like he appreciates the time that we spent together talking together but anyway I’m ranting but I’m really sorry about what happened and I’m just trying to remind you and I’m sure you do know but just in case not all guys are like that but some are please be safe and careful and aware specially now I should know.❤
I'm glad I've never been catcalled in my life.
I also love your videos, and you and Tru earned a subscriber.
One time some old random guy started to bark and my friend and I so I started shouting ‘SOMEONE HAS LOST THEIR DOG U BETTER GO GET HIM! ANYONE? NO?’ And then he started running away 😂😂
Lmao I need to try that
HAHA that's the funniest way to get out of that situation good job 😂
@@yoontoons thank you! 😂❤️
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This is very affective Ngl, did it before with a 8th grader😅😅😅
4:54 the fact that you drew Hisoka for that scene, how fitting. perfection
And the fact she adds sugou from sword art online, which makes it so funny and accurate😭😭
And Griffith freakin Griffith 💀
BUT DONT FORGET: BunGeE gUm ConTaInS tHe PrOpErTiEs Of BoTh RuBbEr AnD gUm! 💧👁️👄👁️⭐️
My thoughts exactly
Friken hair sniffer
I'm a few days late lol, but I remember this one time I was at a store with my mom and (sorry) a guy in a wheelchair passed behind me. Me thinking, "Oh, a guy in a wheelchair couldn't be that bad." Dude grazed his hand on my butt...I felt so uncomfortable so I have this fear of people ESPECIALLY guys and to top it off, I am now afraid of people in a wheelchair...I feel like he took that as an advantage so he could look innocent. Now I feel stupid and not telling my mom what happened...Yeah, that's my story so remember that you're not the only one going through stuff :)
sending you hugs
Damn this is y I stay away from most people and if someone tries to like make a move like the men in this vid and in ur story I walk away and or run cuz wel yh
I really hope your doing okay.
Thanks for telling us to keep ourself safe.
You too take care 😊
Whoa, that is a suspicious thumb nail 🗿
It happened idk what to tell ya 🗿🗿🗿😭😭😭
@@yoontoons💀
Whaaaaaat
@@yoontoons
LOL
@@yoontoonsthat’s so horrible though. I hope you’re okay.
The anime characters make it much more comforting to watch.. I have struggled with many versions of this and even have some moments of these where it’s hard to even listen to other’s stories. But I do hope people can recognize that this stuff happens to anyone no matter what and to be safe and aware🩵💜
Was the guy with the long black hair a reference to an anime?
You’re not alone. Wish you healing❤️🩹
I feel really bad for you. I hope you are okay wherever you are. I'm so sorry that happened. I wanna answer and be honest, i had stuff thay happened that was so similar. It happened during freshman year and when i was a small kid. I never understood back then, but I understand everything now. I had to learn any sort of self defense just to stop people like that. For people that read this, she is right. Anyone can harass anyone. Stay safe and take care of yourselves. You guys are amazing and strong survivors. Keep going and stay safe.
I’ve started to watch your videos and I really like them! Ya gained a sub!
TW Sexual Assault:
I was sexually assaulted by a man that should've had been a guardian, I still remember it like it was yesterday and it too makes me sick, to most he was just a innocent elderly man who fed the neighbors cat, but to me he was a monster. I was three at the time when he exposed himself to me. I froze. It felt like a century when he asked me if I wanted to touch, I screamed 'no' and before I left he threaten me; "If you tell anyone, I'll F*** you when you're older." and as a kid not knowing the situation I kept that secret until I was thirteen.
i was too
EXUSE ME?!?! WHAT SORT OF- MESSED UP MAN- TO A 3 YEAR OLD?! I-… I’m sorry you had to witness that BUT IF I MEET HIM 🗡️- (seriously though I’m fuming, I’m so mad some man would do that to an innocent 3yr. Our world can be messed up and there’s no need to explain because the internet will. But I’m sorry and- 🗡️)
@@Nori_DoormanCore Don't worry about meeting him, he's where he belongs.
I have a friend who went through something similar. When she was 7 an old man (around 70 she thinks) exposed himself to her and asked if she wanted to come into his car. I'm so happy she was smart enough to say no and run away to an adult.
Stay safe out there
🤢🤢thats gross glad ur ok
it’s disgusting that people think that’s okay to do! people need to be more aware of how often things like this is happen… i feel like since this happens so often it’s overlooked, which is not okay at all!!
Be safe yall, and I love your animations man! Keep up the good work (and hopefully this doesnt happen again)
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you find comfort again despite the cruelty that was brought upon you:(
I like how she portrays women AND men being harassed some people are like "men can't be harassed because their stronger then women" here's my thoughts on that, A. that's offensive toward women, since you calling them inferior to men, which, newsflash, is untrue, and B. it's offensive towards men, and harmful, as just because we are "stronger" *Which isn't true*,doesn't mean you can harass us.
Yay! You’re actually so sick for this and seem like a cool guy. People who say men can’t be harassed need to literally use their brain for once in their pathetic life. Anyone could be harassed. Thanks for this!
@@koriaki I would say thanks to you but you beat me to it :)
As a man myself, A majority of the harassment I faced was at the hands of men. Just because the victim is a man, doesn't automatically mean that the aggressor is a woman.
@@errorsheep true, sorry if it sounded like I was only implying it was the opposite sex to the over sex.
@@llllllllllllllllllll474Yes, but that truth, men are truthly stronger, and that a fact. But yeah that doesn't mean we can't be harrasted.
Sorry to hear that, especially with that train. Well done for saving your friend. 💙
I'm really sorry for what happened to you, Yoon. I'm really really sorry. I hope you stay safe as well, we're all here for you. 😢
Hope you feel better soon. Please keep yourself alive and safe 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
Girl got catcalled while wearing the royale high puffy jacket 😭💀
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Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you've been harassed by these awful people 😢.
It's okay, but thank you! I'm okay now, I just want to make sure you guys are careful and aware of your surroundings so you don't make the same mistake as me
Hello!🤩🤩🤩
@@yoontoonsHello❤❤
@@yoontoons meh ik it doesn't seem like it but alot of the time guys do it as a stupid prank I used to do it with my friends it was all fun and games and I grew outta it but we were 14-15
I'm so sorry you went through that but I just gotta say the anime refrences are killing me once I saw Todoroki I was just like MY FAVORITE ANIME CHARACTER my mind was like "if Todoroki passed by me I'd hug him" also I have ADHD and uh you earned a new sub ❤ Have a amazing day!
1- Im a boy and I'm dating my girlfriend, I won't share much but every boy she met she would get physically harrassed. Until we started dating it got less worse but it happens time to time. It caused me to have less sleep and got me overprotective and paranoid about any situation that could happen to her. It caused me to get a bit tougher against any other boy.
2- But then me and my girlfriend talked about it for a while and things got better. We are good now and very happy! I just wanted to share a little bit of her experience =)
As a hijabi girl, I have been exposed to these situations several times, and I do not want to go into details.
Does this mean that my hijab and loose clothing are useless? No, no, no, dear, it makes a big difference in many ways
Blame those who use clothing as an excuse for harassment
Which makes me feel even more disgusted. I am modest, I am a child, why is this happening to me?
This is all because of some sick minds
Stay safe
God protect you
I saw a lady in a hijab at the grocery store yesterday and I was like "wow,she's so pretty" and she really was
@@Meadow_Meelee That's so sweet of you to think this way
@@kepler5889 Thank you! Also, this was in my head so I was thinking that but I think you already know that, but, I think people should be treated with respect, because just because you might believe in a different god then me, I support you! There could be multiple gods ruling heaven/hell we'll never know until we die!
@@Meadow_Meelee Yes, respect is very important
My religion says that you should respect all people and respect other religions, even though we believe that we are right.
Thus our prophets say (You have your religion and I have mine)
Every human being believes that his way is right,
We will inevitably die one day, so we dedicate our lives to knowing God, getting closer to Him, and doing all the good He has commanded us to do, so that we will be among the winners of Paradise.
What is your religion if my question doesn't bother you?
@@kepler5889 well my Dad is Christian? And my Mom is Catholic? But it might be the other way around
“Tic tac…I love you but GURL ” 😂
She's such a sweetie but I worry ahaha 😭
@@yoontoons
I had this happened to me before. Always keep an eye out from creeps like that. One time i got pushed to a wall and i tripped due to my laces and i just spaced out for a second and when i came back i was just surrounded up close by guys. I just pushed them and ran into the farthest bathroom for me to lose them. Always have a clear opened mind and keep away from stuff like this guys. love y'all ❤
Must've been a terrifying experience for you. Stay safe and i hope u recover from this 🫂
Harassment is really worst that can happen to anyone. There can be really disgusting people around when you don't know it. Its a good thing I keep an eye around my own surroundings a lot
I'm sorry that happened to you yoon...
When I was in 4th grade(I was 10 yrs old) I had to walk home from school. One of the days I was on my way back home, three men were walking across the street from me. I was wearing my big puffy winter jacket and snowpants. They repeatedly kept saying discusting remarks of what they wanted to do to me. In the moment I was scared and alone. I told them to leave me alone and f off because I was feeling uncomfortable. After that they got mad and started to walk towards me. Luckily my house was close enough so I could quickly run off and get away from them. The second I made it home, I remember crying in my moms arms for what felt like hours.
Oh my god I'm so sorry I hope you feel better now ❤❤❤
Its so entertaining watching your vids! there so fun!
I have had several people text me VERY INAPPROPRIATE THINGS several times over my life. Most of these happened in middle school, and I'm currently in my freshman year of high school. When I was 12, I was invited to a group chat with my brother and some of his friends. They were about 14 at the time, and they would personally message me about things they wanted to do to me (I won't go into a lot of detail but it's not the kind of thing a 12 year old should be exposed to) I did know what they meant mostly at the time, but it was still really wrong of them. Literally a third of these people said these things to me. Later in middle school, they finally let me leave the gc (they kept adding me back, I couldn't leave) i blocked all of them except for my brother (for obvious reasons). I told this to my best friend, but then she said that she was friends with one of them and that they didn't "seem like a bad person" so she completely discredited my story and this is really one of the first times I'm telling this to anyone since then. We're no longer friends, but she and my abuser are. And he is still trying to build relationships with my friends to this day.
4:10 I am so sorry, Yoon. As a guy, I understand this. I felt very degraded when I got harassed in high school.
There was this weird girl who was getting WAY too close to me. I didn't know who she was, but I knew she was very mean to other girls in high school. I was sitting in the lobby and she asked me what I thought of her body (out of nowhere)... I stuttered like crazy and said "I don't know?!?!". She then proceeds to catwalk around me and try to be "seductive..." it was very, very creepy.
As someone who wants to find a loving, respectful girlfriend... that broke me for a long time. I am painfully single and sometimes I look back and say "am I just viewed as an object?" I never understood how women felt until I got harassed myself. That woke me up. Heck, some people saw what happened and did nothing. I reported the girl and she didn't get punished. She just had to "stop talking to me." Like bro if I did something like that to a woman, I'd be expelled...
Harassment is horrible, y'all. It frightens the victim and can cause some serious mental health issues (speaking as a victim).
Be safe, everyone. This world is crazy.
I’m a high school freshman and I do track, we weight lift sometimes so I would stick with my friends. There is a sophomore on the team who is kinda a creep, but most of the guys on the team ignore us when we say that because "He’s to friendly for that". He is also one of the faster runners and close with the coach. Anyways, me and my friends were weight lifting and he kept on staring at us. And, like, not in a normal way. And he would come over to us and get really close to us girls to correct our form, especially with squats, like he literally would not leave us alone. He also would never help any of the guys fix their form. So me and my friends would go outside, and we have some guy friends who thought we were being paranoid, and said that the person would never do that. Anyways he hasn’t gotten punished yet.
just insult her
that's terrible man for both of your stories
damn she asked if you thought she was hot and walked around you. Couldn't imagine. I would break down. I would reconsider my stay on earth.
This story borough back a strange memory from when I was a freshman in high school. There was this girl in my Spanish class who would act really suspicious around me. She would say borderline sexual remarks to me, which thankfully I never understood because I was exceptionally dumb to that kind of stuff back then. Anyways, one day my class went outside for a walk around the campus. As we were getting to the front doors, I heard snickering behind me. I turn around, and this girl is incredibly close to me and about to kiss me (I also want to mention that this girl has a bf). When she notices I’ve turned around, she says “I guess you discovered the secret love” and walked away with her clique laughing as they left. I always had problems with my looks, and this was the final nail in the coffin. I started eating nothing in the hopes I would lose weight, but I ended up getting worse. It took a lot to recover, and I really only understood what this girl did to my mental health 2 years later
Moral of the story: people can be assholes and don’t let those kinds of people take advantage of you
6:10 NOT TODOROKI AND BAKUGO IN THE BACK 😭😭😭
YUP!!
Yup. I saw Hisoka and Zenitsu during the vid too
lol I saw that too 😂
At 1:57 when I was Zenitsu, I screamed a high pitch scream that was at a decibel so high I never knew it was humanely possible to produce
even as a male ive experienced this before and it was by someone who i thought was my friend we were sitting beside each other on the bus and he started touching my thigh and i told him to stop and he tried to gaslight me and say "if you were really my friend you would let me do it" and the then he tried to shove his hand down my pants but i was able to stop him and luckily my bus was at my stop and i quickly ran off the bus and then after that i never talked to him or sat next to him on the bus ever again and i never told anyone about it.
I hope your ok Yoon pls stay safe❤
I'm okay now! Thank you so much~ you too 🥺
Be careful next time@@yoontoons
Sorry to hear that. sometimes what people don't realize is that almost anyone can learn to harass, even little kids which makes the situation even worse.
4:53 The face of the dude in the middle makes me have chills down my spine, I hope you stay safe
I think he was a character in an anime (probably SAO) and was used in this video
I just started college for less than 2 months, in the past my parents will take me to the school I went, so after college started I started walking to school, I use train, my dad told me that if someone is touching me in the train I should just stand up and walk away, but guess what ?? This country's people train a lot, we barely even have space to sit, everyone is kinda squished, so how ??
There was this time where a middle age man walked to me asking where I study and if I need lessons for math, I told him no I don't need it and I study at what college, he told me he works there, I asked him if he knows this app/webside used for quiz for math in the college and he didn't respond (that's the first red flag), the train came, we all got squished in by the people from the back, this man was behind me. At first it was alright until he adjusted himself into a certain position where his pp will be on my butt (he was having the horomones.) So I tried to move away my butt and he P.U.T. I.T. O.N. M.Y. B.U.T.T. AGAIN. I tried to move again for several times but he always has it on me. The lady that sits in front of me looked at me in the eyes and use her eyes to tell me to move, at this train stop he said to me "I'm getting down here, are you getting down??" I told him no and I will be getting off the next stop (I should have got down in that one but I didn't), he walked out and I was FINALLY free, I talked with the lady in front of me and the other ladies aside for a little bit, and I got off.
Before this I got harrased another time (studying college and at the train stop too), but it's a little different and I don't want y'all reading my comment for too long
Everyone be safe, no matter your gender please stay safe.
I had this quote "It's not all men but always a man" in my head, but there's also men harrased by woman too
Honestly thinking about how there's so many people out there in the world who do this kind of thing and don't think twice about it, it's not okay, no women or man should have to go through this. Hearing about your experience Yoon made me really sad especially having that happen to you after having a bad day just makes it even worse. I'm so sorry that happened to you, Idk what I would have done in that situation I probably would have just started crying
So heres my harassment story that I feel comfortable w/ sharing with you guys 🥺💙:
I was in high school and too young to understand how hormonal teenage boys can be.
I had this classmate in my class named F. F and I chatted here and there but I’d say we were more so acquaintances than friends. One day he sat in front of me
(in those weird high school desks where the chair is connected to the small desk and you can only sit down through one side but not the other 🙄 who remembers those days? 😂)
and I remember him asking if I liked anime (Yes I’m Asian).
I said it’s something I grew up with (like pokemon, sailor moon, etc) and thats when things got weird. Of course I’m aware of the fan service anime shows bring but as a girl (and therefore not the targeted audience for those scenes) skip it or ignore it as I’m completely uninterested in those parts.
I don’t remember entirely how the convo went but I remember him asking if I’d ever worn short shirts before like they do in the anime shows and I just didn’t know how to answer.
I said “um, no. Thats just not for me”
And he replied saying “maybe you should”
Next thing you know (because he was positioned in front of me and he turned around to talk to me) he grabs the sides of my desk and started to press down on my desk and tilt it toward him at an angle so that I (who is on that connected desk chair and doesn’t weight much ) starts to lift off the ground (think of it like a see saw) and then he starts to do an up and down motion faster so that I’m moving up and down
I didn’t understand what was happening (it was so random and no one was around) but what I DID notice was that he was staring at my chest as he was doing that motion and that just didn’t settle right with me 😣
Again I was young so I really didn’t understand what happened but I felt gross and somewhat guilty for letting that happen? (Even tho it was not within my control)
Looking back at this now I think he had an Asian fetish from those animes and did that to me so that he could see my breasts jiggle and maybe simulate what it would be like if I was like…on…him?…yea ik gross 😖 I hate thinking about it, it gives me chills and to this day its so hard to talk about this. But I feel safe to do it here 💙
I’m so sorry :((
That guys weird
@@fishydork this literally means a lot to me 🥺 like I know its just a “I’m sorry” but it recognizes the weirdness of the situation that shouldn’t happen to girls at all.
It’s something I haven’t even told to friends because I feel they’d judge me or look at me differently for some weird reason. Idk but thank you for the reply 🥺💗
@@kaiapather5295 right?? 😭 like idek why he thought it was ok
@@Spearsa omg your such a sweet and kind person you dont deserve anything like that :(( we girlies gotta stick together the world is so cruel 🥲🥲🥲❤️❤️
This is really annoying that this is really common. Especially because I've experienced this, I was only 12 or 11 back then, but some weird guy at least in their 50s came up to me and started saying very Interpropiate things to me and encouraged me to follow him. Its sickening to see this happen so much😢
Girly I hope you do better after this and stay safe girly! ❤
Love your videos, they're awesome. 👍
Thank you so much!! 🥺✨
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@@yoontoons you're welcome. 😁
I’m 13 and I’ve been cat called way too many times…
So sorry you had to go through all this shit. It must’ve been horrible.
i had one when I WAS 13 A MINOR still am. but i was in the city and there was this waking behind me so my mum walked behind me. this dude came up and said you look pretty. me and my mum BOLTED down the street and this dude finally went away. probably one of the scariest life experiences
These stories are awesome but amazing
1:56 zenitsu 😭💀 but I hope you’re ok :) stay safe ❤
Knowing his personality and being dumped many times and still liking many people, makes sense
I’m so sorry this happened to you
Oh god i hope you and everybody else is okay and make sure you have a form of protection in case is go's too far be safe everybody and don't be afraid of fighting them if they touch you
I see you playing 'okay, everyone!' from DDLC in the intro
i'm sorry for what happened to you, its good to know you're okay now!
(this is actually my first time watching you and i love your art-style and how you draw the situations, it is really a hard work but its a really good job, i really love your style!)
The fact that the characters are Jiraya and Rossi makes it more funny rather than serious
Gurl, you've been trough a LOT. Poor you ;-;
I wouldn't be able to stand all you've been through...
My sister has autism. This year she graduated high school! It was really hard for her and us because she was falling far behind but she never gave up. And we are so proud for her!
Girl your stories wild fr, hope you’re doing better now 😭
Thank you for the advice, Yoon! The thumbnail is crazy though, I hesitated to watch this vid because of it. I agree that people should mind their own business and leave people alone, but we as girls needs to make sure we are aware of our surroundings and should take that into account. Just to put some perspective though, women who try to goat or frame guys into looking their direction for a video is the very reason why there are so many harmful stereotypes around harassment in the first place. I'm mostly referring to gym TikTok videos I've been seeing recently. Everyone needs to lower their gaze and mind their own business, both men and women.
I had something like that happen. So last year (2023) I was 8 young I know. My dad let me go in the shop by myself to pick up milk and frozen fruit so there was this old man and he was following me everywhere I go. So I went to the checkout and bought the stuff and left quickly. I’m safe guys, always be aware of your surroundings and of the people near you!
I love anime references just hanging around in your videos XD
That thumbnail gave me 5 heart attacks
I felt that when I was drawing it and when it happened 😭😭😭
@yoontoons I understand your pain as I had been harrasssed in many forms growing up. By fellow students and sadly one of my old friends. She did a lot to me and when I went to get help I was told it was my fault. Just know that despite it all I stayed strong and I am happy I’m sorry for what you went through but it’s great you got through it. I love your videos and keep it up
I loved the video, very well done and happy days 🎉
5:08 DAMN THATS A SUS GIGGLE
Hisoka being added in this is crazy-
Poor Yoon..
I was in my first year of middle school we had open mic days in choir and I had just finished singing a song, felt good about myself, went to talk to an acquaintance when suddenly this random dude put his arm around me and went "yeah that's my girl!" And "this is my girlfriend!" I was bewildered, I did not like people touching me and since it was only the first couple weeks of school I really didn't know anyone that wasn't from my elementary, i literally looked up at this dude who was like a foot and a half taller than me despite us being in the same grade and went- "Who are you?"
The kids who went to the same elementary as me just giggled and laughed(they were the fake nice kind of people who would use any opportunity to make fun of me) at the predicament as I pushed off the dudes arm and walked away, confused and somewhat embarrassed.
Somehow this dude got this delusion that I was his girlfriend despite me never hanging out with him and always glaring at him whenever he would say anything inappropriate, for four freaking years I dealt with harassment from him and his friends, over of his friends had even gotten me backed up in a corner one day all alone, but luckily someone walked by or called him (don't really remember cause I was freaked out), he was laughing and smirking like he was some powerful person. It makes me feel like I was just something to toy with and not even a person.
One of the major things Mister delusional did that actually got the teachers attention(I was in my final year of middle school) was he suddenly sang a song at me and was gyrating/dancing against my table with my best friend next to me, my friend and I had sat in the back purposefully to avoid him and his friends, but then they insisted on sitting at the table directly in front of us(we were in science so the tables were just these long tables with these heavy tops, so it wasn't a four seater or anything in practice and we had stools rather than seats).
Honestly I was done, he'd already been harassing me much more harshly that month even making scenes like yelling at me "you said you loved me!" When I was never alone with him nor would willingly put myself in a situation to hang out. Not the point, but I didn't give him the attention he claimed and I don't get the obsession with saying I was his girlfriend, he was popular for some reason and on one of our teams, I was the weirdo and myself with all my friends were artsy, there was literally no correlation to be able to hang out let alone anything for him to have a crush on me other than enjoying making someone feel uncomfortable.
So when he did that inappropriate dancing on the table I suddenly slammed this heavy thing across the floor and started heading out of the classroom, the same friend of his that had cornered me before got up, grinning as he tried to keep me pinned between the tables in the walkway, but I just shoved another table out of the way and kept walking, the teacher was yelling at us for making a scene, I walked out, red faced in anger and slammed the door, I walked straight to the office and I do not remember the finer details from there, I was so mad and humiliated, I felt degraded and blamed.
They watched the cameras to match and confirm my story(but for some reason wouldn't let me watch?) And told me they would do something about it. I waited for days to be called back in cause they made it sound like there would be a meeting, but nothing happened, later my mom and my bestie who was sitting with me when it happened(don't blame her she always had my back, but it didn't stop them from messing with both of us, just for some reason they only directly harassed me, but I'm glad that she didn't have to go through that from them) told me I should've pressed them on it cause otherwise they wouldn't do anything, which confused me sense they always seemed to want to push non issues so often, but that's just something I learned.
Do yeah harassment sucks and it can feel so demeaning and make you feel crazy at times especially when no one wants to hear the truth from you. It was insane, he somewhat did the same in our freshman year of highschool, but it seemed to die off from there, after that he was just an unpleasant memory, but actually seemed to become decent I guess? I don't know, probably helped that his friend that was also a creep wasn't in the same school as us, but that's just a guess.
do u know how long this took to read? LOL but im glad ur ok tho😇
@@shinobu_the_qt lol sorry I'm a very detail heavy person 😂
@@shinobu_the_qt but thank you
I would've said "i'm gay" and push him or kick him in the balls, don't get me wrong, i don't mean to offend you, i actually feel so bad for you. i'm so sorry this happened to you, sending hugs ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Once when I was 6 I was sexually abused by my cousin and I couldn’t escape, I was trapped for 2 days. I’m still trying to heal mentally but always be strong no matter what. I’m 11 now and have a supportive and loving family and still am trying to stay strong ❤
Honestly Harrasment shouldn't exist..
2:11 got me wild ngl
The advice I give always give to my friends is to make sure you keep your head on a swivel.
When you are walking in the streets, make sure you walk opposite of traffic. Like, you’re on the side walk and the cars are coming towards you instead of behind you. This makes it harder for those trying to take you into their cars.
Keep your location on with a friend or family member and have a tool that could help you in a dire situation, like pepper spray, sharp keychain, loud sound device, or a blade.
Hope this helps! Stay safe out there.
Woah, boy... I sure hope that don't happen to people too often... if you're with a friend and there's some creepy situation happening, do try to run away... If you don't... terrible things will happen... And if you're a bystander... figure something out to help them out safely please... I'll try my best to do the same. If that's possible anyways...
"No matter what you wear, you gonna be harassed"
- Yoon
Can confirm. I had this shit happen to me three times. Once, as a sixteen-year-old, when some random NPC tried to lure me in at a park. I was legit just minding my own business taking pictures of a some swans and some flowers when he was like "dOn'T bE aFrAID". Even at that age, I knew that was a red flag, so I bolted to the library close by, but what made this so much worse is that I was trying to be polite about it.
The second time happened a few months after I turned eighteen. Exams had finished, and my mom and sisters decided to go to a park to relax for a bit. I was sitting down all day, so I needed to stretch my legs. I was still within calling distance of my family when this happened. I sensed someone staring at me, so my dumbass looked for who it was. Lo and behold, an NPC was sat at a bench, pretending not to stare. He turned his gaze back at me, smiled and beckoned me over. I never booked it back to my family so fast in my life.
The third time actually happened a few weeks ago (I'm 22). I was walking to university after buying some pens from a dollar store on the way. Some construction workers were shouting some some shit I didn't get. I looked back at them, but then thought not to give them any attention and just skedaddled off.
You know what all these have in common? I'm a hijabi. I was a hijabi in all these cases.
I was not prepared for the Sanji jumpscare, it's accurate tho
But I'm sorry that something like that happened to you on the train people can be so gross and immature, it really sucks and i hope something like that doesn't happen to you again.
One time as a dude walking out in public, after highschool. There was this woman following me home and I wasn’t too worried because I had my face in my phone.. then when went to a gas station to use the restroom, this woman was waiting outside my stall and I didn’t know it. Then when I got out and washed my hand this lady came up behind me and said “hey there cutie what are you doing this late”(I was 17)
And this was the boys bathroom so I was like “uh hello? This is the boys bathroom what are you doing” [completely oblivious of what happened] and then she touch me from behind and said “follow me” so I called my parents and I ran out the bathroom.
😢❤thk you for talking about this! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I was out walking back from school and i was walking in the alleyway down to my apartment and a white truck went past me, i thought nothing of it because its around the time of day where people either leave or come back for work, i thought that until he stopped his truck and got out walking towards me and then he said "hey little girl, wanna come hang with me at my apartment, your so cute you know that?" do j didn't take a second to say anything back and i was running away as fast as i could and he started chasing after me and he was saying "c'mon i just wanna hold you in my arms little baby" and i'm glad i brought my keys because i quickly opened my apartment door and slammed and locked it, and when he saw that he walked away, that happened to me only a few months ago, STAY SAFE OUT THERE ❤
BRO I WENT THROUGH SIMILAR OMG the man who was tryna get to you and your friend? That happened to me when I was 12 😭I even made a video about it a few years back on my own channel! It’s eerily similar!! Except he chased me and my friend in my neighborhood 🫠it was terrifying. People are scary
I’m so sorry this has happened to you! Harassment is never okay! I hope you’re doing okay!
Sadly I had many experiences like this😢 so I’m praying for all y’all ❤️
You deserve 1 millions subs ❤❤