My Boyfriend Baked Me A Cake So I Got MAD

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 155

  • @achannel2916
    @achannel2916 2 роки тому +649

    The first person’s husband and her daughter are so sweet, why wouldn’t she be wrong???

    • @youalwaysyounever
      @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому +93

      I can see being a little disappointed maybe but how ungrateful csn she be?
      I can't think of any situation where I'd be mad at someone for baking me a cake

    • @rosy_chan283
      @rosy_chan283 2 роки тому +35

      Ikr? Her story made me a little bit mad at her, ik that this is off Topic but i didn't know that you also watch her Vids. :D

    • @kaleefisher2928
      @kaleefisher2928 2 роки тому +2

      Nice pfp

    • @booki7057
      @booki7057 2 роки тому +6

      @@youalwaysyounever I personally if in that situation wouldn’t be disappointed knowing the cake was made with love from my husband and daughter

    • @youalwaysyounever
      @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому +5

      @@booki7057 I wouldn't be disappointed at all, they say it's the thought that counts, and I think making something for someone that you think will make them happy takes way more thought than buying it.
      But I can understand if someone really had their heart set on or was expecting something, that they might feel a little disappointed but I would hope the appreciation for the homemade cake would outweigh that feeling.
      This lady's response though is so rude and entitled. Like, tell me you're with him for the money without telling me you're with him for the money 🙄
      I hope he ditches her for someone that will appreciate him (and his daughter) and their homemade cakes 🙃

  • @Ishtarwithinwater
    @Ishtarwithinwater 2 роки тому +383

    Wow, it's rare to see a story through an entitled person's eyes. That first story was without a doubt a woman who wants to be given expensive things instead of a cake that was HANDMADE. That poor man should just dump that lady; I wouldn't want my daughter to feel like money matters more than her own hard work.
    In the second story, the "father" was probably so happy with all the attention he was getting and didn't want to lose that spotlight. His reaction to that news was incredibly stupid. I feel bad for the future mother and child. I'd hate to think how'd life would be for that child - if the dad is yelling at the mom already, imagine if that kid tries to get the dad's attention.
    In the third story, no, the woman was not wrong for leaving. Shame on the husband for suggesting she stayed knowing his mom talked bad about a gift. If anything, the mother made it worse by dragging the topic on; why bother calling and texting after the guest is gone? Just thank them for attending in that case. The woman felt crushed having her gift called an ugly rock; she had every right to leave.
    Everyone, please don't be like these people: respect others and try not to crush their own emotions like that. And if someone does this to you, walk away and try to stay strong. Take care of yourselves. ❤

    • @youalwaysyounever
      @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому +4

      Right? I can't fathom being angry about a homemade (with love) cake.
      I think he should take the cake back and enjoy it with his daughter.
      If she's That ungrateful for the cake then she won't mind not having it. She can buy her own damn cake lol

    • @Rovoke
      @Rovoke 2 роки тому +1

      The first story lowkey sounds like a gold digger and the second story was so stupid.

  • @smartz5523
    @smartz5523 2 роки тому +341

    The people in this video were extremely selfish and didn't even want to accept what they did wrong🙄. I hope Kyutie continues doing these videos and bless her as always😁.

  • @jei_b
    @jei_b 2 роки тому +193

    The first story really threw me for a loop. If my boyfriend made me food AND a cake, there would be no complaints! I would be the happiest person alive because he tried so hard to make me happy. I feel bad for the woman in the second story as well, because that was like her present to him, and he's just being immature. The third one, that woman should wear/keep the necklace since they paid for it, or get your money back. But Grandma was wrong for saying the things she did.

    • @lunarialoonatic
      @lunarialoonatic 2 роки тому +11

      Yeah at first I thought I was gonna dislike the boyfriend (the beginning made me think he was gonna mooch off of her or something), but she’s just being greedy… even if she didn’t like the cake, he and his daughter both made an effort :/

  • @sariahbowman1681
    @sariahbowman1681 2 роки тому +53

    I think the guy from the first story and the lady from the second story deserve eachother or people who actually appreciate them.

  • @alexcorvin3612
    @alexcorvin3612 2 роки тому +60

    The first one. Ofc she was wrong. If my (nonexistent) boyfriend made me a dinner AND a cake, I would just marry him lol

  • @ricktheexplorer
    @ricktheexplorer 2 роки тому +154

    There is a lemon cake I make; lemon juice squeezed over the top of the icing. Lemon juice put in the mix and the icing. Lemon slices put on the top of the icing.
    So good. Better than a store.

    • @kirishimasmanliness3735
      @kirishimasmanliness3735 2 роки тому +9

      I would love to taste it, but I can't 😔

    • @ricktheexplorer
      @ricktheexplorer 2 роки тому +13

      @@kirishimasmanliness3735 Get the cake mix and icing, I think it's Betty Crocker. Then, after the 2 layers of cake have cooked, douse the layers with lemon juice and let it soak them. Then add the icing, and lemon slices on top. It's so good.

    • @kirishimasmanliness3735
      @kirishimasmanliness3735 2 роки тому +2

      @@ricktheexplorer thanks!

    • @littlelemon3465
      @littlelemon3465 2 роки тому +2

      My brethren

    • @youalwaysyounever
      @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому

      So... care to share the recipe 👀

  • @iamobsessedwithshadowsight
    @iamobsessedwithshadowsight 2 роки тому +137

    In the first story, the woman is absolutely in the wrong. Trust me, I’ve seen delicious-looking food I’ve really wanted to, I think we all have, but I‘d be grateful if someone attempted to recreate the food for me or even gave me cake at all. I can understand her being used to having money, but if she wanted it so badly she should’ve split the bill. She’s plainly entitled.
    In the second story, obviously the woman isn’t in the wrong. Firstly, the news of a pregnancy is in my opinion, more important than someone’s birthday bc it affects everyone in the long term. Secondly, how was it ruining “his day”? Especially when he wanted it and the baby is literally his?? He has no logic bruh
    As for the third story, I’d say the mother-in-law is in the wrong. This is coming from someone who’s also incredibly picky with gifts. Just ask for money or send exactly what you want, and if you get something you don’t like you can always regift it.

    • @Cecil1213
      @Cecil1213 2 роки тому

      But I think it's mean to announce a pregnancy while he is having a day celebrating himself only one time a year, she could have told him the day after, but I see where you're coming from, however I do believe the reaction was extreme but I understand the frustration

    • @enakshiparua836
      @enakshiparua836 2 роки тому +3

      @@Cecil1213 he was literally the dad
      Do you realise he is jealous of his own wife and baby

  • @mandudumpling8816
    @mandudumpling8816 2 роки тому +38

    Ellen glow brighter and brighter everyday! I used to be a silent follower for 4 years. She's really the reason why I wake up early (she posts around 8 am in my country! Ilyyy Ellen! 🌹❤️

    • @Kyutie.
      @Kyutie.  2 роки тому +10

      awww! so sweet!!

  • @nyen7594
    @nyen7594 2 роки тому +49

    The wife in first story doesn’t deserve Alex or his daughter

  • @rosepetunia1829
    @rosepetunia1829 2 роки тому +11

    For the first one, umm.. YEAH! He clearly said he couldn’t afford it so he tried his best (with the help of his daughter) to bake you a cake. And you still got upset over it?? Getting upset because someone couldn’t afford something for you and then trying their best to make you something special, just proves what kind of a person you are.

  • @Silverraine1
    @Silverraine1 2 роки тому +3

    That cake in the first story was priceless. You simply can't equate the money someone is able to spend on you with the level of their love and care for you. That's not how love or family works.

  • @marytichelaar7225
    @marytichelaar7225 2 роки тому +57

    For once I say yes you are wrong, sometimes you should take what's given to you, at least he did something for you on your birthday... personally if I were you I would just be grateful that that my birthday was Remembered at all and that's somebody did something for my birthday. Even if we couldn't go to that restaurant or even if we couldn't get that cake... look the point I'm trying to say is this, be grateful for what's given to you and always be kind to others because you never know what somebody's going through.

  • @banishasinha141
    @banishasinha141 2 роки тому +5

    Bro that first girl is so ungrateful, I once had a birthday party n literally no one showed up accept 2 people and I never got any surprise from my family for any occasion not even a Christmas present , and we r financially stable . So if someone made me dinner AND A CAKE I would start crying thinking why did I do to deserve this . Seriously some people just don't appreciate what they have.

  • @kirishimasmanliness3735
    @kirishimasmanliness3735 2 роки тому +39

    The first story: of course you were wrong, they got bills to pay, he and his daughter even baked it for you, then you wanna go to a expensive restaurant, take what you get and don't be greedy and selfish 😒, I would've broken up with her.
    The second story: you weren't wrong. You guys have been trying for a baby for so long and that how he responded, she just wanted to make it a present and you reacted like that, girl you better break up with him, and your mom saying that you should've wait is non-sense.
    The third story: you weren't wrong, you spent YOUR MONEY on a present for her birthday, she didn't like it and told you that you ruined her birthday, despicable, utterly despicable, I would just wear the chain and not give no more present to her on her birthday, and you did not react emotionally, I would've left too😒.

  • @moraelity
    @moraelity 2 роки тому +23

    The first one, wow. He said he couldn't afford it, appreciate you got something nice. Maybe I don't understand because I'm from a very low income family so I'm used to having home made birthday cakes and meals (which are far better than shop brought ones, because they're from the people who care about you). She's definitely in the wrong

    • @ShootingHimDown
      @ShootingHimDown 2 роки тому +4

      @@user-mAfuNqrSe020x thats so cute for you and your husband - you guys sound very humble ^^ this story made my day btw lmao

  • @aarushikishore1417
    @aarushikishore1417 2 роки тому +6

    For the first one, isn't it too obvious that she is wrong? I mean from which angle is she right. It was so sweet of her husband and her step daughter to bake a cake for her. It is just more thoughtful. And she would just say that? That is just so rude and selfish. They tried their best. If they hadn't, I would have understood her. But they were so thoughtful and sweet about it. If someone makes me something, I would love it so much. Rather even if someone gives me the smallest gift possible, I would be really grateful about it. Then over here they literally baked her a cake.

  • @crazygamer_1082
    @crazygamer_1082 2 роки тому +19

    Six figures don’t mean nothing if you have a whole kid, house, and SO to pay for, darling. WTF. How ungrateful. He said he couldn’t afford it, my god. And his daughter is so sweet to want to help make a cake just for her “step-mother’s” birthday. Of course she’d be upset. She spent thinking you’d like it.

  • @_Solo-SUS_
    @_Solo-SUS_ 2 роки тому +16

    *For the first one: She was wrong. Because he and his daughter worked hard and she didn't even cared.*
    *For the second one: No, she wasn't. The guy was wrong, because if he wanted a baby for so long..he would have been excited atleast and she already asked him politely before she announced it to everyone.*
    *For the third one: No, she isn't. The mother in law was just rude and picky, if I were her, I would gladly appreciate it.*

  • @jmcdermid
    @jmcdermid 2 роки тому +19

    1st - I ain't saying she's a gold digger...
    2nd - On that day, she found out she didn't really need to try for a baby.

  • @pepelepu5534
    @pepelepu5534 2 роки тому +13

    As someone who's never had a bday party or a get together for it.
    Whose family except for one member remembers. I would absolutely be in love with a person who would be so thoughtful especially with their daughter for me on my bday. Honestly the meal could be crap but just the thought I'd love.

  • @LonelyWriter26
    @LonelyWriter26 2 роки тому +75

    Ayup everyone, I'm headed to NCY and stuck in traffic, so this video was an awesome way to keep me entertained! Thank you for uploading, Kyutie. (But remember to take time for mental health because I doubt uploading everyday is easy.)

  • @samanthagm4663
    @samanthagm4663 2 роки тому +12

    Oh my god- im dating this dude who loves to bake and if this was going to happen. I would actually be really happy that he made it himself since it will makes me feel very special!
    Shes in the wrong, it should be very obvious. I feel bad for the little girl and father they seem soo sweet!

  • @rivstarlightt
    @rivstarlightt 2 роки тому +1

    In the first story, for my birthday if someone made me a cake and cooked me dinner, it would mean more than a store bought cake, because of the effort and love put into it. And overall that’s so nice of them

  • @mandudumpling8816
    @mandudumpling8816 2 роки тому +12

    THE WAY I JUMPED WITH THE TITLE 👁️👄👁️

  • @Onnarashi
    @Onnarashi 2 роки тому +16

    He and his daughter baked her a cake? What a monster! /s

  • @aarushikishore1417
    @aarushikishore1417 2 роки тому +1

    For the second story, BRUH WTH LIKE SERIOUSLY SHOULDNT THAT HAVE MADE YOU SUPER SUPER HAPPY AND MADE YOUR DAY A HUNDRED TIMES BETTER

  • @maesnow6684
    @maesnow6684 2 роки тому

    The husband who made the cake is a godsend. He spent all the time making her a cake bc that’s how much he cared and he also made her dinner. She is very selfish and seems like she only cares about his money. She doesn’t deserve him and she shouldn’t have even gotten a cake if she can’t appreciate it. I would be happier if my boyfriend made me a cake, even if he didn’t do well. He still tried and that’s what matters.

  • @katie15732
    @katie15732 2 роки тому +8

    The first story though...atleast be thankful thay they took the time to make something for you

  • @youalwaysyounever
    @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому +6

    The first one... who gets angry at someone for baking them a cake?
    He should have taken the cake back. Bitches don't deserve cakes. especially not cakes made with love

  • @MissYurikoSenpai
    @MissYurikoSenpai 2 роки тому +5

    First one is kinda selfish. You know he's struggling with money yet you're wanting expensive shit. It's pretty immature of an adult to get so upset over not getting the cake they wanted. If you wanted it that badly you should have bought it yourself

  • @CarlosArturoVelarde
    @CarlosArturoVelarde 2 роки тому +1

    That guy who got upset about being told he was going to be a father is stupid and inconsiderate. What better gift than to be told you are going to be a parent?

  • @y20..
    @y20.. 2 роки тому +6

    Hi kyutie! Watch your vids everyday lol

  • @asileginger8223
    @asileginger8223 2 роки тому +2

    1 I totally agree! I prefer a homemade cake made with so much love over a fancy cake. Buying a cake can be done in so little time, but making a cake takes time and effort. I would love to receive a homemade cake :D
    2 If I was that girl in the story... I would thing about the relationship... is he the right guy? I mean, I would consider leaving him. It seems that he can`t control his temper... Even if it was his day and didn`t want to share the day, there are other ways to handle it than sending everyone away.
    3 The mother in law is so rude! It`s okay to not like a gift, but not okay to say it in front of everyone. That gift you don`t like, was chosen by someone after thinking a lot! (Maybe not everyone thinks about what to gift, but the lady in the story sure did! She even searched the mother in law`s birth stone!)

  • @piegirl8263
    @piegirl8263 2 роки тому +10

    People can be so silly

  • @rosieposie2404
    @rosieposie2404 2 роки тому

    homemade cake is superior and the best kind. knowing it was made from people who care about you and you know they tried their best makes it better! for the second story, its a special day for BOTH of you since you really wanted it so why such a reaction lol??

  • @dot2166
    @dot2166 2 роки тому +16

    I'm sorry what the hell was the first story 😀✋ she is in the wrong no doubt

  • @Aerodil
    @Aerodil 2 роки тому +3

    If my partner baked me a cake I would be so happy. I'd cry, knowing they put effort into that to make me feel happy.
    People can be so selfish.
    Homemade cake is superior anyway.
    It tastes better.

  • @haiiiyall5465
    @haiiiyall5465 2 роки тому

    A GIFT IS OPTIONAL. It’s an I’m thinking of you thing. You should be grateful you even got something. The cake girl, mother in law, and the “Dream Dad” need to learn that just because the day is about you it don’t mean you can act like a spoiled brat.

  • @wakamekuun8523
    @wakamekuun8523 2 роки тому +1

    the first one, honestly the fact that the husband AND daughter HANDMADE THE CAKE!!! idk about her but I would rather get a handmade gift from my person than something expensive.

  • @skz6810
    @skz6810 2 роки тому +1

    I love her reactions to these stories

  • @js8303
    @js8303 2 роки тому +4

    I love these vids! I was just watching your psychology tricks😌

  • @aihposfr
    @aihposfr 2 роки тому +5

    AHHH YOUR SO PRETTY!!! I LOVE YOUR VIDS LOL

  • @notadi666
    @notadi666 2 роки тому

    I CAME BACK FROM LITERALLY YEARS AGO I REMMEBERED UR CHANNEL AND IM SO HAPPY UR CONTINUING UR CONTENT, I STILL LOVE AND ENJOY IT GENUINELYYY

  • @LadyJoyce0822
    @LadyJoyce0822 2 роки тому +4

    2nd story: I feel so bad for the pregnant gf! She is going to share a baby with this trash of a human being. Also, poor baby! I hope the gf distances her and her baby away from her bf’s toxicity for the babies safety and well-being.

    • @arleneclark6369
      @arleneclark6369 2 роки тому

      Agreed if he really wanted a baby he would have thought that was the best birthday gift ever.

  • @ryanbayer1012
    @ryanbayer1012 2 роки тому +2

    Hii I recently rediscovered your channel and now I'm bingeing :) love you!

  • @Nates_anime_artwork_yt76
    @Nates_anime_artwork_yt76 2 роки тому +1

    I know right I would definitely rather bake a cake then go to the store and buy a cake. That guy who did that shit is OG😭🔥

  • @kittykitecupcake1662
    @kittykitecupcake1662 2 роки тому +1

    I have a “was I wrong?” Story.
    When I was 12 my step-mom made a baking gift basket for my best friends birthday because she likes baking. It was a nice gift, but that basket cost over 100$. I personally thought it was ridiculous to spend that much just for a birthday gift. But I didn’t say anything because I knew that would sound rude. My friends birthday came and on my way to her party I started worrying. I thought it would be awkward carrying such a big gift in. I also knew my other friend would be there, and I knew it would have made them feel awful seeing the gift I brought. They got my friend a nice gift, but it wasn’t a 100$ basket full of stuff. I asked my mom if my friend could just open it after the party, and my mom admitted she felt awkward too. My friends mom said she totally understood why we didn’t wanna bring it in and said it was fine. When I went to my dads house the day after, my step mom found out my friend opened her gift after the party and my other friend and I didn’t see her open it. She told me it was so mean of me to have my friend open the gift from my moms house but not my step moms. I still feel bad about it tbh. But honestly, I think if my step moms gift was from the heart, she wouldn’t have needed a bunch of people to see my friend open her gift.

  • @Sarastadtman
    @Sarastadtman 2 роки тому +1

    I’m loving the lipstick you’re wearing it looks amazing on you

  • @cloudii4070
    @cloudii4070 2 роки тому

    The guy who got mad in the second story just made his day even worse by sending everyone home and telling others not to come. Because then he doesn’t get to celebrate his birthday

  • @josephodell8493
    @josephodell8493 2 роки тому +1

    The mother in law story kinda reminds me about a story my grandma told. My grandmas preacher was getting arrived so as I wedding gift she got him a Waterford crystal clock. She gave it to him in person and he opened it. He rudely said that we would of preferred money, so my grandma took it out of his hands and left with it.

  • @amrutha8235
    @amrutha8235 2 роки тому +1

    The stories here are unbelievable like these people don't deserve what they have and are so selfish

  • @janesmith1917
    @janesmith1917 2 роки тому +1

    Its ppl like that that break the good out of a man for the next person he gets with . He'll be broken by then

  • @rashidaabdurahman6992
    @rashidaabdurahman6992 2 роки тому +1

    We may also be a little biased while hearing these stories. We don't know both sides of these stories. The woman in the first story and the man in the second story are both bad for reacting this way. But we really don't know what they are going through.
    The woman in the first story might be handling all the bills after her husband got fired. She may just have wanted a good birthday dinner outside. She did not even declare it straight at the table that she didn't like it, she told him personally. His daughter overhead it. Why would she apologize to the daughter while she was not being mad or rude to her. She was clearly upset with her husband and not the daughter.
    I say this because I have seen ladies working so hard for their families and receiving the bare minimum. Most of the time, their earnings go towards their family and rarely for their happiness (to get things they want). And when they say they want something for their birthday (once in a year), men can't get those. I am not talking about men who really don't have money but about those who don't have money but still somehow manages to get expensive phones, cars and other things for themself.

  • @Nikita-wj1ls
    @Nikita-wj1ls 2 роки тому

    I was so excited about the title :(
    But, still a great video! ❤️

  • @kallinskai1427
    @kallinskai1427 2 роки тому +3

    What an ENTITLED *****

  • @Phantomg1rl
    @Phantomg1rl 2 роки тому +1

    The first one should have just shut up because at least she got a cake and that's a good thing (apparently) In my culture having a cake on your birthday isn't a good thing

  • @katrinaybanez6621
    @katrinaybanez6621 2 роки тому

    I like to say that I found the husband & his daughter are so sweet & loving that they went to all that trouble to bake a cake for her. What is wrong with the first person? Her partner went to all the trouble to cook a great dinner & bake a cake even though they were tight on money & she just had to be ungrateful for all the effort the father & daughter duo did to give a unique birthday. The woman was so in the wrong.
    Okay second person I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend & your own mother did you wrong. Seriously your mother should have been because you are her child & you are carrying her grandchild... she is not even related by blood to your boyfriend. Secondly, your boyfriend is an idiot... instead of thinking of the news of his impending fatherhood in a positive light like "I going to be a father/daddy" he went with the route of " this is my birthday... it's only supposed to be about me, myself, & I". I for one think that you & your baby are to good for him. I hope you find someone who puts you & your baby first before his own fragile ego.
    Third person I like how your husband stood by you & your decision to leave the party even though he said you were being emotional about it. That fact that he stood by your side shows how much he respects & love you. The mother-in-law is in the wrong first of all is she was really into jewelry so would have known that the so called piss rock was in fact a topaz gem her birth stone. Second she instead of insulting your gift should have been grateful that you even got her one & she could have kept her opinion about your gift to herself or waited until no one else was around to share her opinion to you. Third I bet she wouldn't have been so nasty if you husband was able to attend the party. Lastly you had every right to leave the party before it became more toxic.

  • @bobbabear7087
    @bobbabear7087 2 роки тому +2

    Hi kyuite! Lov you’re channel

  • @hueyspectrum
    @hueyspectrum 2 роки тому

    1:52 we literally had the same reaction. In my mind I thought “Yeah?” and she said the same thing after.

  • @Myla_614
    @Myla_614 2 роки тому +2

    This is funny because I'm making a cake for my cousins bday just now

  • @Vibes4Life536
    @Vibes4Life536 2 роки тому

    The second story - the heck!? If he really wanted a baby he would be ecstatic no matter what. And the mom!? Are u serious? Who acts like that as a 30 year old!?

  • @haruharu06225
    @haruharu06225 2 роки тому +2

    early notif gang!!!❤️❤️ Hi Ellen!

  • @rinchan7534
    @rinchan7534 2 роки тому +3

    I'm honestly torn by the first story. Like, I understand that the boyfriend made her dinner and he and his daughter baked her a cake. That's very thoughtful. Very nice. But I understand where she's coming from as well? Like, maybe eating out at one of those restaurants was a treat for her? It was her birthday and we all wanted to be treated for our birthdays, right? Plus, she does help out with his bills. He could splurge a little to take her out for her birthday. Like, maybe they could've picked one? Like he could make the dinner, but also splurge a little and get her the cake she wanted or vice versa. I understand wanting to go out for a nice dinner every once in while. Especially for special occasions, like a birthday. I do agree that she could've been more appreciative for what he did provide. A home cooked meal is always amazing.
    Anyways, great video! I always love watching these and seeing the different sides to these stories.

    • @fairiesarefair
      @fairiesarefair 2 роки тому +1

      Sure ,he could ,But she clearly didn't wanted to split any bills for the meal or she could've offered to do so and he is worried that JUST HIS money won't be enough having someone bake a cake and other meals is way better sign of showing that they care about you ,I always ask my mom to make my fav meals on my bday ,I do not get sulky because they sometimes don't treat me to a restaurant even though our family is financially stable and we don't even eat cakes but I'm happy nonetheless. And she could atleast pretend for his daughter, can't she?

    • @rinchan7534
      @rinchan7534 2 роки тому +1

      @@fairiesarefair I understand that. But I also view it from her perspective as a treat for her birthday. It's not like she asks to eat out every night. Some people are different and enjoy being treated to a nice restaurant for special occasions. And honestly, on her birthday, she shouldn't have to pay half the bill. It's one special day for her. Splurging for her wouldn't be the end of the world. Plus, like she pointed out, she helps out with his bills with HER money. So honestly, that's kind of a poor excuse, in my opinion. I'm not saying either of them are right or wrong, but I do try to view the situation from both perspectives. I get that she should be grateful for what they did for her, because making dinner and a cake is a thoughtful thing to do, but I also don't see the harm in taking her out to a nice dinner to treat her on her birthday. That's what she asked for and it's not an unreasonable request. It's like asking people to prepare a special dinner for your birthday. That's a treat for you. A nice dinner at the restaurant is a treat for her. Everyone has different ideas of what they view as a special treat for a special occasion. Besides, she agreed to the home cooked meal. So, really, he could've just treated her with the cake she picked out. Again, that's not an unreasonable thing to ask for on your birthday. We all like to be spoiled with something we love on our birthdays. She shouldn't get all the vicious hate just because her idea of a treat is different from others.
      Again, I don't think either of them are right or wrong. I feel like they could've compromised one for the other. She honestly doesn't deserve the amount of hate that she's getting. It's sad to me that she's basically being demonized for wanting to be treated on her birthday.

    • @youalwaysyounever
      @youalwaysyounever 2 роки тому +4

      Being disappointed is one thing , but being mad and then *telling* him it wasn't good enough is rude and ungrateful.
      He told her he couldn't afford it unless she helped, which she wouldn't do. Instead he invested his time and energy in trying to make the night special anyway within his capabilities
      Tbh, She's just being a brat 🤷
      (Edit to correct word)

    • @fairiesarefair
      @fairiesarefair 2 роки тому

      @@youalwaysyounever yes!! ,This is exactly what I'm trying to explain to this user .......

    • @rinchan7534
      @rinchan7534 2 роки тому

      @@youalwaysyounever Again, I understand that. She could have, and should have, been more grateful for what she got. I never said she was in the right. But neither is he. If buying her this cake, after she agreed to his home cooked meal instead of the restaurant, would have really affected his ability to pay his bills, she would've helped him. Like she said she does already. She says she pays half or more depending on his situation. That alone is a big dedication from a girlfriend. Plus, it's a cake. Not a diamond. She honestly could've asked for more outrageous things. A cake for someone's birthday is NOT unreasonable. Besides, if he truly loved his girlfriend, who again, helps with his bills when she really doesn't have to, he could've started saving up a little money here and there to get her one nice thing. That's not asking a lot. A birthday doesn't just pop up like a slap to the face. He had time to save up money to treat her. It's not asking a lot. They're both not in the right or in the wrong. They both could have handled things differently for each other. So again, I don't think she should be demonized for wanting a special treat for her birthday. Some comments are pretty nasty. People calling for him to dump her and calling her some pretty awful names. That's not okay. And if he did dump her, then he'd really be hurting for money. She helps him out more than a girlfriend or boyfriend usually does, so it's really not the end of the world to go the extra mile for her and get her a nice cake, at least. And this is just my opinion. You're welcome to your opinion. I just feel like he didn't really try. He has a year to save up to get her something special. It's not that hard to set aside a dollar or two every couple of weeks to save up a birthday fund. But again, that's just my opinion. It may change if I could hear his side of the story. It might not. He may really be struggling with bills and saving money or he may just be a bit stingy. We don't know. In my opinion, she deserved at least one of the treats she asked for and she handled disappointment in a bad way. But I also think he could've saved up a bit to be able to treat her on her birthday. It's almost like he wasn't even thinking about doing anything for her until she started making suggestions. Which probably played a part in why she was so upset.

  • @strawberrycowxo
    @strawberrycowxo 2 роки тому +4

    sorry the one where she was pregnant, its not just his day around 20.8 million people are also born on that day. also what a weird reaction.

  • @kyutibunni
    @kyutibunni 2 роки тому

    “What’s with people >:(“ LMAO 😂

  • @destinyd317
    @destinyd317 2 роки тому +1

    The first woman is definitely wrong, i understand her disappointment about not getting the cake she wanted, but cmon man, you still got a cake. I didn’t ask for anything big, I just wanted a happy birthday without me having to remind them, and if i were get a present id simply ask for an ice cream cake,id even be okay with someone buying a boxed cake bc I actually like baking, i got neither and the only ppl to tell me
    to tell me happy birthday without me saying anything w my boyfriend and mom, my brothers didn’t say anything either. Me and my boyfriend ended up going to Applebee’s and they sang me happy birthday (bc i asked) then had had to go home in a storm that flooded parts of my city

  • @Surroundingpluto
    @Surroundingpluto 2 роки тому +3

    The first girl is so materialistic oml

  • @sayesha6464
    @sayesha6464 2 роки тому +1

    And here some of us don't even care about Birthday 😐

  • @Frovael
    @Frovael 2 роки тому

    Story one....looks like not ever woman deserves a man that can cook well...
    (saying this cuz there was this time where one of my male classmates told he cooks for a hobby and over half of my female classmates suddenly got interested lol)

  • @민윤기-j8t
    @민윤기-j8t 2 роки тому

    ik no one asked but ELLEN LOOKS GREAT TODAY

  • @rebekkaisaac4549
    @rebekkaisaac4549 2 роки тому

    Watching this makes me realize my day wasn’t that bad.

  • @alaiaat6920
    @alaiaat6920 2 роки тому

    the first one sounds like my step mother, except my dad makes more than her(he works 3 jobs) and she doesn’t help out with bills like at all

  • @ozyona.s.4434
    @ozyona.s.4434 2 роки тому +2

    I love you so much

  • @isismeow111
    @isismeow111 2 роки тому

    I’m picturing someone gifting someone else a dead rat lmao 😂

  • @Clavdia8367
    @Clavdia8367 2 роки тому

    Wow, the first woman is such an ungrateful one...

  • @runa1248
    @runa1248 2 роки тому

    The birthday/baby announcement dude clearly didn't want a kid. He said it should be his day and not about her, if he sees the baby as HER thing and not THEIRS together then he was just giving her a baby because she wanted one and didn't think it was that big of a deal to just agree. It's a goddamn kid who will grow into a full on person, if you're unsure about such a big decision you should wait and think about it more.

  • @Cameron-wk1zf
    @Cameron-wk1zf 2 роки тому +11

    hi

  • @blobbythepotato7062
    @blobbythepotato7062 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 2 роки тому

      Third!
      Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

  • @properjellydontbeproper3652
    @properjellydontbeproper3652 2 роки тому

    Well u gotta pay bills. But people should save in advance for people u love.

  • @kurisuchiinu1206
    @kurisuchiinu1206 2 роки тому +1

    Quick question to everyone: I wonder how would you have reacted if you got the same gift every year? While I put a lot of thought and effort giving this person a gift. I know I should be thankful but it's pissing me off that I'm putting effort with my gift and she isn't.

    • @werearewolves
      @werearewolves 2 роки тому

      I hate the same gift if it isn’t varied in some way. Because I put a lot of thought into my gifts I want the same done for me. Honestly when people give me the same gift over and over I just do the same to them, of course something they’d like but same gift.

  • @Aaron-TheHandsome
    @Aaron-TheHandsome 2 роки тому +1

    5:40 yeah, just take the girl's👧🏻 side @Kyutie .....😏😂😉😆😂✌🏽✌🏽 (Only joking 😉😂✌🏽😇)😎✌🏽

  • @enakshiparua836
    @enakshiparua836 2 роки тому +1

    The second woman was not wrong
    But the first woman was wrong

  • @ameliab324
    @ameliab324 2 роки тому

    The first girl was wrong for getting mad at her partner, but I think she was not wrong for feeling disappointed. I know that their financial problems weren't her boyfriend's fault, still, I know how such situation can simply be frustrating, no matter how loving of a family some people are. Also, I think that someone's feelings of being appreciated do not fully depend on how much effort the other person put in the present, but also on how much the other person knows them. For example, if I told my family that my favourite flavour is toffi, and they baked me a strawberry cake - I wouldn't be mad, but I'd still wish they payed more attention to what I like, because it's a part of knowing a person well.
    And no, I don't think the girl was right. She wasn't - she knew what the situation looked like and that Alex couldn't do anything about it - she should have appreciated what he and his daughter did for her, because you can't always have everything. Still, I don't think that it was like everything was perfect and she was feeling bitter for absolutely no reason.

  • @shaunahiggins544
    @shaunahiggins544 Рік тому

    Give he tried. Give him a break.

  • @elizabethheadings
    @elizabethheadings 2 роки тому

    I’m sorry but if I was a guy and a woman did what that woman did in the first story, I’d know right then and there that she is not the one. It’s the thought that counts. At least she had someone who cared enough to COOK, and make a cake for you.

  • @mahaylahuff2026
    @mahaylahuff2026 2 роки тому

    Such nerve being that rude to him.🙄

  • @s.a.hbarmarymary9786
    @s.a.hbarmarymary9786 2 роки тому

    Wow...how materialistic one can be😔

  • @doki637
    @doki637 2 роки тому +2

    Hi 🤗

  • @apricot6789
    @apricot6789 2 роки тому

    Jeez the entitlement in the first story.....

  • @shadowcat4529
    @shadowcat4529 2 роки тому

    People really do show their true colours on their birthday huh

  • @TigerLily12345
    @TigerLily12345 2 роки тому

    First one she’s absolutely wrong

  • @torquedawg
    @torquedawg 2 роки тому

    Oooo

  • @kkmp4285
    @kkmp4285 2 роки тому

    In the first one I would like a little help understanding please, like it's not like she got mad, she just said she was hoping for better... I didn't think anyone was in the wrong, just that children get hurt easily, am I not getting something?
    Okay just watched the second one, may need a little help there too. The boyfriend EXTREMELY overreacted and shouldn't have reacted the way he did at all and is not acceptable, I'm not trying to say he's in the right, I know he's not, but I feel like she shouldn't have announced her pregnancy just there.
    1. When you find out you're pregnant you have to tell your partner first before telling other people, you don't tell your partner the same time as you tell other people.
    2. Birthdays are special days for the person, you NEVER announce a pregnancy at someone's birthday whether it's with the or not, cause believe it or not, the attention of that one special day will shift from that one person to you 100% no doubt about it, it's like proposing at someone's wedding. I feel like they're both in the wrong in this story, she didn't think it through, and he was only thinking about himself
    I do also wannabe address that I'm not taking the boyfriends side, he acted horribly and also shouldn't have been dismissing her when she asked to talk to him.

  • @rachelly1464
    @rachelly1464 2 роки тому

    Yo yo yo’

  • @andypham1636
    @andypham1636 2 роки тому

    Early squad 22m ago

  • @hellynlight
    @hellynlight 2 роки тому

    To be fair.. The lady in the second story is a little bit wrong.. She probably didn't tell him she'll be late for his party and then when she got there she immediately wants his attention (that's how it seemed to me).. She could have seen that he's upset and wait..
    Once someone is angry or upset its hard to take in anything that comes next..
    I hope they sort it out. Congrats to them

  • @Krrr00x
    @Krrr00x 2 роки тому

    2nd

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 2 роки тому

      Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

  • @carleeeee2125
    @carleeeee2125 2 роки тому +1

    First

  • @clementlantier8289
    @clementlantier8289 2 роки тому +2

    I believe that there's no black and white and every story has 2+ different sides. In the first one I believe that the lady must have been used to expensive gifts and that she felt that the husband was saving money on her. I believe the best decision for both of them is to break up because their mentalities are different. The woman wants to be given most of the attention and she wasn't supposed to apologize because the daughter overheard. The daughter wasn't even supposed to hear that and the father acted poorly. He should've comforted his daughter, but not force his wife to say sorry for something she said indirectly to her own husband, but the nosy daughter eavesdropped. I completely understand the daughters and husbands perspective, but can you blame a woman that's used to luxurious things that has downgraded. If this husband doesn't have the same values and priorities they are too different which can bloom several arguments.