⏲ TIME STAMPS ⏲ 0:00 : Preview 1:00 : Intro!🔥 2:00 : Show begins! - Who is Mystery? 3:30 : “I didn’t loose my virginity till I was 21” 5:30 : The Mystery Method - Does it still work in 2024? 8:30 : TOP 5 attraction triggers to get women 11:30 : The phases of Pickup & how to execute a successful pickup? 20:10 : How do you find a good wingman? 22:00 : The 7 hour rule & how do you avoid the friendzone 24:30 : How to build comfort & get her in bed? 28:00 : Move the set to different locations 30:00 : Quick Overview of the Mystery Method 32:00 : Mystery talks about the VH1 Show - The Pickup Artist 35:30 : How did Mystery’s life change after the show? 37:30 : Cold Approach is king 39:00 : The 5 levels of game 43:00 : How to Demonstrate Higher Value (DHV)? 48:00 : How to rephrase words to be more interesting to women? 51:00 : What is peacocking & should men still do it? 57:00 : What are some common IOIs that guys miss? 59:30 : Body language while approaching a girl 1:04:00 : How to open girls in groups? 1:07:00 : How to approach with a wingman? 1:13:30 : How to tell a DHV story 1:17:00 : The biggest mistakes guys make in pickup 1:20:30 : Best countries to pickup women in 1:23:00 : Worst place to pickup women 1:26:00 : Thoughts on Miami 1:28:00 : Has Mystery disconnected from Neil Strauss? 1:30:00 : How did Rob meet Mystery? 1:31:20 : Superchats! - Where is Matador? 1:33:00 : Grind to Find 1:35:30 : Final thoughts from Mystery - How can newbies learn game? 1:38:00 : How can you get coached by Mystery? 1:39:00 : Mystery is the man!🔥 1:39:30 : Outro! (LIKED THE VIDEO👍)
@@simonsays3391It's all a numbers game. Read the book many years ago The method is just repeating the same lines over and over the first time you stutter the hundred time your great . I haven't watched the episode yet but trust me that all it is . And social proof helps . Not thought by red pill a group of girl makes you more attractive but going out alone and closing is the ultimate rush and trust me it a numbers game
I was watching this, automatically thinking, caucasian women cannot parent one bit. Watching this guest's, easily reconcilable, brokenness is intensely irritating because as much as I don't want to share this, I find myself concerned and caring for this guest's health like he's an ailing sibling. Further I can't help but do this and this is excruciatingly painful, to watch someone, I know I shouldn't loose mind over, exist in these kinds of conditions because it's 100% solvable and avoidable with the most basic options to do so, conveniently available to him.
He had an interview with Sartain and suggested he go to Vegas and do a show with him and also do F and F and other people and he was excited to do it. So i would except to see him on other youtube channels that are related
One of my favorite episodes if not my favorite. I remember vividly learning about mystery method in the late 2000s and watching his show on VH1. Truly a legend. My daughter wouldn't be here without him.
Some guys can keep gaslighting dating coaches that they're "manipulative" but anyone who's worked with a dating coach knows they bring out the best in your personality. They literally made thousands or maybe even millions of relationships bloom.
Tom Leykis came before mystery and was actually doing manosphere work such as being the first big media guy to publicly release the name of the woman who falsely accused Kobe. But no doubt Mystery is a legend and a different type of thing. He is a mystic. Leykis was doing what Myron does now. Myron in many ways is a successor to what Tom did but still different.
cap. The manosphere and pick up are two different entities that became one when pick up artists had to switch lane to stay relevant. The manosphere was never about picking up women, but about bettering ourselves as men and not fall prey to female nature. Watch how 90% of pick up artist are full on RP, but they used to heavily demonize it and call us names. Mystery is a pioneer, but it had nothing to do with the manosphere. They were just paying girls to make out with them in front of their followers so they could keep buying their courses
it seems the comments are saying we know a lot of this stuff but thats because fresh and fit repeat talking points that were from rollo and rollo got a lot of his points from mystery. I remember when i first listened to the book "the game" on audiobooks fresh and fit didn't exist yet and the mystery method completely blew my mind. It really was a revolutionary change and brought a whole lot of perspective on game. So this guy is a legend and an OG when it comes to pickup. That's why this episode is a big deal even if for some of you it just seems like the same rp talking points.
@@KingsguardRP Ross Jefferies didn't connect his stuff so evolutionary psychology as far as I remember? When Mystery tried what worked and what didn't, the patterns that emerged, happened to align with patterns from evolutionary psychology. "Red pill" as I define it, is basically that you have the evolutionary lens when you view humanity instead of "the blank slate"(or "social constructivism").
Yeah but Myron does the best job at summarizing all these points together. This mystery guy is a little strange as is Rollo as well. Myron does much better at conveying these points than the other two.
@@Rodwill18 yeah it be like that where the guests get interviewed and think myron is professional and calm then they get on afterhours and are in shock to see a different guy then the one who just interviewed them like 2 hours ago lmao
In 2006 I was in a very critical point of my dating life. I was living in Italy. I discovered Mystery. In few months I became another person. I even surprised myself. Thank you Mystery.
One thing that works for me when they are groups of men mixed with women is to befriend the guy's first. Compliment their shoes or style of clothing then sneak your way into the girl's. Make them laugh then ask them "how do you guys know each other" most often then not they always say "oh we're co workers" or "were just friends having a drink" make it seem like an organic connection and alot of time's the guys will back off and wont cock block, sometimes they will go as far as leaving you alone with the girls.
There are pickup skills and relationship skills. These guys seem to master the one night stands, but don't say a word on how to turn that into long term. The fact that after 20 years they still go to clubs for pickup is really telling.
01:03 🎙 Mystery and his wingman Rob Bexter are introduced, marking an anticipated interview for the podcast. 02:19 🌟 Mystery's influence on red pill ideology, female psychology, and dating is acknowledged, making the interview significant. 03:29 🇨🇦 Mystery, a Canadian, shares his background, starting with teaching friends after his own late blooming success with women. 04:51 🎮 Bexter describes his introduction to pickup through tapes at 19, later focusing on night game in clubs. 05:33 📚 Mystery discusses "The Mystery Method," emphasizing its unchanged soundness over 25 years, focusing on the structure of pickup and the importance of material. 08:24 💡 Mystery introduces the idea of two narrative arcs in pickup: having the woman chase you, which he deems more effective. 09:44 🎭 Mystery outlines the top five attraction triggers: pre-selection, leader of men, protector of loved ones, willingness to emote, and successful risk-taker. 10:55 🗣 Mystery explains the importance of showing a rich range of emotion, termed "willingness to emote," in storytelling for captivating interactions. 11:45 💬 The podcast host recaps the pickup structure: opening a set, demonstrating value, eliciting indicators of interest, qualifying, and moving the set. 14:10 🕵 Mystery breaks down the three main stages of pickup: attraction, comfort, and seduction, emphasizing the need to progress in order. 18:38 🔄 The structured pickup process involves phases like A1 (opening), A2 (demonstrating value), A3 (qualifying), and C1 (building comfort) before moving to seduction. 21:08 🤝 Mystery suggests wingmen are often found organically where beautiful women are, emphasizing shared experiences and understanding of game dynamics. 22:43 🕰 Building comfort typically takes 4 to 10 hours in a solid pickup, avoiding both rushed encounters and situations leading to buyer's remorse. 23:23 💑 The Love Game emphasizes building such strong attraction that the woman willingly engages in physical intimacy out of love, not just seduction. 23:58 🕒 Following the "7-hour rule" of pickup, spending around 4 to 10 hours with a woman before escalating ensures comfort without compromising too much. 25:32 🏡 Comfort building occurs in three stages: C1 (attraction location), C2 (separate comfort location), and C3 (intimate setting like one's home). 27:32 🔄 A successful seduction journey progresses through stages: A1 to S3, including arousal, handling last-minute resistance, and closing the deal. 30:27 🎭 Pickup follows a structured approach: attraction, comfort, and seduction, encompassing specific actions and phases essential for success. 39:34 📱 Cold approach pickup offers nuanced levels of skill development, from basic interactions to advanced social circle and celebrity game strategies. 43:40 🎩 Demonstrating higher value (DHV) through engaging stories and playful interactions is key in building attraction and rapport during cold approaches. 45:36 😊 Smiling during approach conveys a positive emotional state and reduces fear in the person being approached. 48:22 🎩 Incorporating magic into interactions can significantly impact attraction and create memorable experiences. 50:37 🦚 Peacocking involves wearing unique or attention-grabbing clothing or accessories to stand out and convey social status. 53:35 🔥 Wearing at least one peacocking item can elicit indicators of interest (IOIs) from others, facilitating interaction. 56:16 🔄 Building a social circle in a new city involves gradually approaching sets, merging groups, and establishing connections. 57:29 🤝 Recognizing indicators of interest (IOIs) like mirroring and matching can help gauge interest and guide interaction. 58:54 👀 Initiating eye contact isn't always necessary for the first approach; direct approaches can vary based on context and preference. 01:00:29 💼 Blading the body and using subtle body language cues like the over-the-shoulder approach can convey openness while preserving mystery and interest. 01:02:19 🎭 Understanding group dynamics and winning over the entire set, including friends or family members, is crucial in social interactions. 01:03:00 🌟 Employing indirect approaches and engaging with the entire group rather than just the target individual can lead to more successful interactions. ⚡ GPT calls on Web Session Connection may be rate limited to protect your account and avoid service abuse. Please use API Key connection for automation. 01:05:44 🍹 Mystery shares a clever gambit for joining a VIP table without buying a bottle, leveraging social dynamics and mutual benefit. 01:06:55 🚪 Walking into a club with women opens doors, allowing free entry and access to VIP tables, demonstrating social proof. 01:08:16 💬 Mystery emphasizes the importance of structuring game with openers and gambits to confidently initiate interactions. 01:11:54 🔮 Mystery shares a DHV (demonstration of higher value) story involving a Hollywood adventure, highlighting pre-selection, social proof, and risk-taking. 01:17:07 🤔 The biggest mistakes in pickup include not smiling and lacking structured game with openers and gambits to guide interactions effectively. 01:21:34 🌍 Helsinki, Finland, is recommended as an excellent city for pickup due to its beautiful, educated, and diverse women, along with vibrant festivals like Vappu. 01:25:58 🌆 Mystery and Matador lived in Miami for a year, attracting many girls from South Beach to their place. 01:26:39 🏙 Miami's pickup scene is unique, akin to New York's or Las Vegas', with its own challenges and dynamics. 01:27:20 🌴 Miami has a notably sexual vibe and a high concentration of attractive women compared to other US cities. 01:28:44 📚 Mystery and Neil Strauss, despite busy schedules, remain good friends and admire each other's work. 01:29:11 🎬 There were plans for a movie adaptation of Neil Strauss' book "The Game," potentially featuring James Franco as Mystery, but the project got shelved. 01:30:43 🤝 Fresh and Matador became partners after meeting in London, leading to collaborations and boot camps that changed lives. 01:35:04 🗝 Mastery of the Mystery Method's five keys-structure, material, delivery, volume, and velocity-is essential for success in pickup. 01:36:52 💃 The essence of "The Game" was doing 12 sets a night, focusing on skill development and not just numbers, akin to a dojo for socializing.
Guess not a lot of people read The Game by Neil Strauss - that book when I was from 20+ I could pick up girls and my ratio was 8/10 get their number and get a date. Their steps was sick and you didn’t need even have to have money. I had girls buying me drinks - it was a sick experience. I was living in Orlando at the time and that was one of the best times I had doing pick up.
Can confirm, was a giga broke uni student, was banging some of the hottest girls in town using mostly Mystery Method, with some variations (some material from David de Angelo and Swingcat if you know). Huge huge respect to Mystery & Neil Strauss and all the guys of that era, was just before social media or the very beginning of facebook.
What a fantastic book that was. An absolute page turner. However, it was solely focused on achieving a one night stand or 2 with tricks and ploys as opposed to having a personality development aspect, which makes you desirable no matter what you do. Lets not forget Mystery himself resorts to simping for a stripper in the book.
@@CoIdestMoments I dropped out of college at 19. Moved to Orlando at 20. Actually my neighbor was the radio DJ for Orlando so I got hooked up into VIP area. I used mostly Neil’s 4 step method. Open/Neg-disarm/comfort/close. I had about 4 different variations within those 4 steps.
@@Mannypacquia0 I’m Filipino. Average looking. I would say like a 6 - strong 7 when I used to wear my grey contacts. I’m close to 6ft most of my friends down there were above 6ft and I was standing as tall as them if not about the same footing when I used air forces lol.
I googled Tom Leykis. I haven't heard of him since I'm from Europe. Apparently he was a radio host. What Mystery did was to break it down to a science and explain it through evolutionary psychology, and also testing and confirming it irl.
mystery our mentor, a great coach, we owe him a lot!!!!! it would be great having him on studio with chicks, that would be a hot show!!!!! inspired by Mystery i learned magic tricks myself and they work!!! people on sets like them a lot
Mystery is still the king, I read his book ten years ago and styles and it worked, I've seen hundreds of videos of pickup that get to complicated without any simple structure but say a million things that make it overcomplicated but the simple book still works and always will and it's a just a fun way to meet people on general for comfort for all.
Most dudes just can't read social cues and situations, they cross lines or come off as awkward without knowing it. Good game just looks like social skills
Yes. When Rollo traces the history of the red pill knowledge - to understand human sexual behaviour through the evolutionary lens - he traces it back to Mystery. I would say that Mystery and Rollo are the two most important guys in helping men understanding female psychology. I see those two as the goats. I think Mystery is a genius and one of the most important social scientists ever.
@@Skelfi Rollo missed the mark on that one. Ross Jefferies and David X were teaching in the early 90s, both big names, both featured in The Game, and both mentored Mystery.
There is an old tvshow on youtube with Ross Jefferies. I'm sure he got game when seeing his attitude and behaviour. But I don't think his nlp-style is really such as an effective way of thinking. What Mystery did is based on evolutionary psyvhology, and I would say also neuroscience and phenomenology. I see his stuff as more connected to reality. He is a very systematic and pragmatic thinker. Mystery also laid the framework of using evolutionary psychology to understand human behaviour, to what we today call red pill.
If i ever meet Mystery i would honestly shake his hand and thank him greatly. His work opened a vast network to me. Not just about women but as he called it - Social Dynamics - or how to speak with strangers in essence. There is so much knowledge this man has given
The impressive thing is not what Mystery has done in the past, it's the wise man energy he emits. He speaks and gestures slower than in the past - give a really positive energy both for male and female. Happy that he found love long enough to start a family, a bit sad that it hasn't lasted long time (+10-15 years is long time kids... not months or a few years!)
Mystery is also 6’5” and overall not a bad looking guy. So it worked for him. Back in the day I never saw this Method work unless the guy was already a decent looking guy in the first place. Additionally in this day of social media I don’t see how his “Method” works.
Then take a boot camp with him and see for yourself. I'm 5'6, average looking guy from the Philippines, experienced dating beautiful women whom I met during the day and club, these girls are beautiful, some are taller, and has more money than me. But still, I was able to have a for a romantic relationship with them back in the days because of his M3 Method. I suggest try it yourself first before having a conclusion that "it might not work", cause I'm telling you from my experience and my wingman/ guy friends experience, it works.
@@dreyfitness6400- hi I appreciate your note but yes I did try Mystery Method. I did some training with some top mystery method instructors (some of them were actual students of Mystery himself) and nothing ever happened. I’m kind of glad it didn’t. As a Christian, I shouldn’t be studying this type of stuff anyway. Need to rely on Jesus to help our find our respective mate or whatever path we may take in life. Trust in the Lord.
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So I’m coming back to this video to make this comment to confirm that Finland women the best to pick up. Cold approached a girl from Finland two nights ago. She made it so easy. Took her back to my place and we smashed that same night. Afterwards that mornings she made me breakfast, did my laundry the whole nine. I’m not plotting my next vacation to Finland
Mystery's teachings are still relevant in todays climate & actually more effective since most people have gotten lazy & would rather be online than at the "party"... I personally found implementing both to be very effective & great way to maximize ur results. Meeting from online & at the party! Youll double ur success...
I used Mystery's and Neil Strauss's tactics 10 years ago.. In 2020 it didn't work. I cold approached some chick who does ACRO in Manhattan beach just like me. Im a guy, I got a 6 pack, 6 feet, im like a 7. She had so many options in her inbox, she ghosted me for 6 months. LMFAO. She waited at the finish line for rich guys from Newport Beach. Don't listen to old school MMA guys about modern day combat. Don't listen to old schoolers still preaching like its the year 2000.
@@TBlock1347 It worked in the 2000's somewhat. Moreso cuz dating apps werent a thing & only black guys " hollered " as they called it back then . Once 2015 hit, u can cold approach & she will treat u like an online simp. So technology made PUA tactics lose effectiveness. 2024 u need 100k, 6 pack, 8", & be a 9 or 10 white Chad. Thas why in the next 10 years women age 30-50 will be husbandless. Sucks for them. Women arent built to sleep around and work a 9-5 till age 99 like men .
DOPE episode fellas 2 years in the making and finally y'all made it happen. 2 goats of the game. Mystery was somebody me and my friends looked up to growing up we read his books and applied the methods he talked about. Man I felt like I was back in college again watching him here lol. For any guy who grew up in the 90s and came of age in the 00s if you know you know how important Mystery is to the space. the book 'The Game by Neil Strauss (another legend) was like a the playbook for every young man around that time. Before there was RP it was Mystery!!! 🔥🐐
Mystery mentioned Las Vegas twice but no details. I live in Las Vegas. Very transient city friendships difficult to maintain. So the approaches are often solo. That being said, the women are all down to sleep with you as long as you are in good shape, have any money at all, and have a splash of charisma. The encounters are not always love and the women disappear from the city and out of your life after a handful of months. Thoughts?
Lvl 0 : approaching a set of girls when you are a total stranger and no one knows you Level 1 - opening sets of people Level 2 - merging sets (introducing people to each other?), Level 3 - continuing the party (successes ) from last night Level 4- last month continuity to new gatherings , social circle Level 5 - having influence/fame having people talking about you even before you arrive .
I got into the Pua movement in 2008 and I've watched and still watch clueless guys diss and go against what Puas teach and Mystery has shown that all Pua haters are wrong. The information that Mystery is giving here is solid gold.
Mystery really put me on to game. "The Pickup Artist" 2007 & 2008. I did canned openers for years until i realized most women know if a guy's trying to game them so i just started doing direct & saved me & them the time. It all depends at times but cold approach is so much more than just meeting women. It really does prepare you for so many aspects & situations of life
⏲ TIME STAMPS ⏲
0:00 : Preview
1:00 : Intro!🔥
2:00 : Show begins! - Who is Mystery?
3:30 : “I didn’t loose my virginity till I was 21”
5:30 : The Mystery Method - Does it still work in 2024?
8:30 : TOP 5 attraction triggers to get women
11:30 : The phases of Pickup & how to execute a successful pickup?
20:10 : How do you find a good wingman?
22:00 : The 7 hour rule & how do you avoid the friendzone
24:30 : How to build comfort & get her in bed?
28:00 : Move the set to different locations
30:00 : Quick Overview of the Mystery Method
32:00 : Mystery talks about the VH1 Show - The Pickup Artist
35:30 : How did Mystery’s life change after the show?
37:30 : Cold Approach is king
39:00 : The 5 levels of game
43:00 : How to Demonstrate Higher Value (DHV)?
48:00 : How to rephrase words to be more interesting to women?
51:00 : What is peacocking & should men still do it?
57:00 : What are some common IOIs that guys miss?
59:30 : Body language while approaching a girl
1:04:00 : How to open girls in groups?
1:07:00 : How to approach with a wingman?
1:13:30 : How to tell a DHV story
1:17:00 : The biggest mistakes guys make in pickup
1:20:30 : Best countries to pickup women in
1:23:00 : Worst place to pickup women
1:26:00 : Thoughts on Miami
1:28:00 : Has Mystery disconnected from Neil Strauss?
1:30:00 : How did Rob meet Mystery?
1:31:20 : Superchats! - Where is Matador?
1:33:00 : Grind to Find
1:35:30 : Final thoughts from Mystery - How can newbies learn game?
1:38:00 : How can you get coached by Mystery?
1:39:00 : Mystery is the man!🔥
1:39:30 : Outro! (LIKED THE VIDEO👍)
He looks like a carbon copy of rollo. Rollo copied his style from head to toe
The one and Faken only?! The Legend, the Abraham of PUA?!
16:34 & 16:40 what is that qualifier gambit that mystery said?? anyone
Mystery is a genius. He invented the "theory"; tested the "theory", perfected the "theory" and is able to teach it. Amazing man.
Mystery is a 6'3 good looking guy lol
@@simonsays3391doesn't matter, stop making excuses, there are literally TONS of fat ugly dudes with dime pieces
@@simonsays3391it lit has little to do with it
@@simonsays3391It's all a numbers game. Read the book many years ago The method is just repeating the same lines over and over the first time you stutter the hundred time your great . I haven't watched the episode yet but trust me that all it is . And social proof helps . Not thought by red pill a group of girl makes you more attractive but going out alone and closing is the ultimate rush and trust me it a numbers game
He truly is a genius and pioneer.
Black guys reacting to magic never disappoints lol
I remember that Aziz Ansari joke (before he got MeToo'd)
@@RazorEdge2006 wish he never rayped that dude
Bruh…he’s doing it from a screen. He clearly drop the lighter out of screen and then picked it up again🤣. That’s trick is much harder in person
Pffffffhahahhaha
Just look at the David Blaine videos LOL
Finally! Long time coming to have Mystery on. He needed to be there in person
Facts
He's with his kids
I was watching this, automatically thinking, caucasian women cannot parent one bit. Watching this guest's, easily reconcilable, brokenness is intensely irritating because as much as I don't want to share this, I find myself concerned and caring for this guest's health like he's an ailing sibling. Further I can't help but do this and this is excruciatingly painful, to watch someone, I know I shouldn't loose mind over, exist in these kinds of conditions because it's 100% solvable and avoidable with the most basic options to do so, conveniently available to him.
Damn, the infamous mystery? Can’t believe they were able to pull that guy in
He's out of hibernation on a mass marketing tour.
So they can charge more for their boot camps. Mystery probably looking to retire soon doubt he'll be approaching when he's 60
He had an interview with Sartain and suggested he go to Vegas and do a show with him and also do F and F and other people and he was excited to do it. So i would except to see him on other youtube channels that are related
@@LostDrifter361 Fast and Furious?
One of my favorite episodes if not my favorite.
I remember vividly learning about mystery method in the late 2000s and watching his show on VH1.
Truly a legend. My daughter wouldn't be here without him.
Mystery's the Best. Congrats on your Daughter.
lmfao
@@DrKaabSSudoGRossoI’m serious
I was honestly surprised to see mystery on here. These new kids don’t know
Some guys can keep gaslighting dating coaches that they're "manipulative" but anyone who's worked with a dating coach knows they bring out the best in your personality. They literally made thousands or maybe even millions of relationships bloom.
Mystery is the OG. His work was the foundation for the manosphere.
Facts
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Tom Leykis came before mystery and was actually doing manosphere work such as being the first big media guy to publicly release the name of the woman who falsely accused Kobe. But no doubt Mystery is a legend and a different type of thing. He is a mystic. Leykis was doing what Myron does now. Myron in many ways is a successor to what Tom did but still different.
Him and Zan Perrion!
cap. The manosphere and pick up are two different entities that became one when pick up artists had to switch lane to stay relevant. The manosphere was never about picking up women, but about bettering ourselves as men and not fall prey to female nature. Watch how 90% of pick up artist are full on RP, but they used to heavily demonize it and call us names. Mystery is a pioneer, but it had nothing to do with the manosphere. They were just paying girls to make out with them in front of their followers so they could keep buying their courses
Who remembers "Matador" and his rascal fur waistcoat 😂😂
BRUH ☠️
Or lovedrop the kino master
RSD Tyler is still going strong 💪
Me😅
it seems the comments are saying we know a lot of this stuff but thats because fresh and fit repeat talking points that were from rollo and rollo got a lot of his points from mystery. I remember when i first listened to the book "the game" on audiobooks fresh and fit didn't exist yet and the mystery method completely blew my mind. It really was a revolutionary change and brought a whole lot of perspective on game. So this guy is a legend and an OG when it comes to pickup. That's why this episode is a big deal even if for some of you it just seems like the same rp talking points.
facts!
Facts. You know who was the OG tho? Ross Jefferies.
@@KingsguardRP Ross Jefferies didn't connect his stuff so evolutionary psychology as far as I remember?
When Mystery tried what worked and what didn't, the patterns that emerged, happened to align with patterns from evolutionary psychology.
"Red pill" as I define it, is basically that you have the evolutionary lens when you view humanity instead of "the blank slate"(or "social constructivism").
Yeah but Myron does the best job at summarizing all these points together. This mystery guy is a little strange as is Rollo as well. Myron does much better at conveying these points than the other two.
Nooo way, Mystery himself. Man F&F on another level.
Bro, this man is the GOAT
@no.name.huncho4938 indeed, unfortunately the new generation doesn't know him well.
Man they need to get him in studio
Yes they do!
He'd mog them both so it won't happen
Hope he’s not scared for late night show 🤔
With Owen Cook
@@Rodwill18 yeah it be like that where the guests get interviewed and think myron is professional and calm then they get on afterhours and are in shock to see a different guy then the one who just interviewed them like 2 hours ago lmao
In 2006 I was in a very critical point of my dating life. I was living in Italy. I discovered Mystery. In few months I became another person. I even surprised myself. Thank you Mystery.
One thing that works for me when they are groups of men mixed with women is to befriend the guy's first. Compliment their shoes or style of clothing then sneak your way into the girl's. Make them laugh then ask them "how do you guys know each other" most often then not they always say "oh we're co workers" or "were just friends having a drink" make it seem like an organic connection and alot of time's the guys will back off and wont cock block, sometimes they will go as far as leaving you alone with the girls.
Good game bro
He changed my perspective of dating forever.
You guys are awesome, I cannot wait to dig into this podcast.
There are pickup skills and relationship skills. These guys seem to master the one night stands, but don't say a word on how to turn that into long term. The fact that after 20 years they still go to clubs for pickup is really telling.
Agreed.
“Relationships don’t end, they complete” 🤯
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what time point was it?
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When did he say this?
01:03 🎙 Mystery and his wingman Rob Bexter are introduced, marking an anticipated interview for the podcast.
02:19 🌟 Mystery's influence on red pill ideology, female psychology, and dating is acknowledged, making the interview significant.
03:29 🇨🇦 Mystery, a Canadian, shares his background, starting with teaching friends after his own late blooming success with women.
04:51 🎮 Bexter describes his introduction to pickup through tapes at 19, later focusing on night game in clubs.
05:33 📚 Mystery discusses "The Mystery Method," emphasizing its unchanged soundness over 25 years, focusing on the structure of pickup and the importance of material.
08:24 💡 Mystery introduces the idea of two narrative arcs in pickup: having the woman chase you, which he deems more effective.
09:44 🎭 Mystery outlines the top five attraction triggers: pre-selection, leader of men, protector of loved ones, willingness to emote, and successful risk-taker.
10:55 🗣 Mystery explains the importance of showing a rich range of emotion, termed "willingness to emote," in storytelling for captivating interactions.
11:45 💬 The podcast host recaps the pickup structure: opening a set, demonstrating value, eliciting indicators of interest, qualifying, and moving the set.
14:10 🕵 Mystery breaks down the three main stages of pickup: attraction, comfort, and seduction, emphasizing the need to progress in order.
18:38 🔄 The structured pickup process involves phases like A1 (opening), A2 (demonstrating value), A3 (qualifying), and C1 (building comfort) before moving to seduction.
21:08 🤝 Mystery suggests wingmen are often found organically where beautiful women are, emphasizing shared experiences and understanding of game dynamics.
22:43 🕰 Building comfort typically takes 4 to 10 hours in a solid pickup, avoiding both rushed encounters and situations leading to buyer's remorse.
23:23 💑 The Love Game emphasizes building such strong attraction that the woman willingly engages in physical intimacy out of love, not just seduction.
23:58 🕒 Following the "7-hour rule" of pickup, spending around 4 to 10 hours with a woman before escalating ensures comfort without compromising too much.
25:32 🏡 Comfort building occurs in three stages: C1 (attraction location), C2 (separate comfort location), and C3 (intimate setting like one's home).
27:32 🔄 A successful seduction journey progresses through stages: A1 to S3, including arousal, handling last-minute resistance, and closing the deal.
30:27 🎭 Pickup follows a structured approach: attraction, comfort, and seduction, encompassing specific actions and phases essential for success.
39:34 📱 Cold approach pickup offers nuanced levels of skill development, from basic interactions to advanced social circle and celebrity game strategies.
43:40 🎩 Demonstrating higher value (DHV) through engaging stories and playful interactions is key in building attraction and rapport during cold approaches.
45:36 😊 Smiling during approach conveys a positive emotional state and reduces fear in the person being approached.
48:22 🎩 Incorporating magic into interactions can significantly impact attraction and create memorable experiences.
50:37 🦚 Peacocking involves wearing unique or attention-grabbing clothing or accessories to stand out and convey social status.
53:35 🔥 Wearing at least one peacocking item can elicit indicators of interest (IOIs) from others, facilitating interaction.
56:16 🔄 Building a social circle in a new city involves gradually approaching sets, merging groups, and establishing connections.
57:29 🤝 Recognizing indicators of interest (IOIs) like mirroring and matching can help gauge interest and guide interaction.
58:54 👀 Initiating eye contact isn't always necessary for the first approach; direct approaches can vary based on context and preference.
01:00:29 💼 Blading the body and using subtle body language cues like the over-the-shoulder approach can convey openness while preserving mystery and interest.
01:02:19 🎭 Understanding group dynamics and winning over the entire set, including friends or family members, is crucial in social interactions.
01:03:00 🌟 Employing indirect approaches and engaging with the entire group rather than just the target individual can lead to more successful interactions.
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01:05:44 🍹 Mystery shares a clever gambit for joining a VIP table without buying a bottle, leveraging social dynamics and mutual benefit.
01:06:55 🚪 Walking into a club with women opens doors, allowing free entry and access to VIP tables, demonstrating social proof.
01:08:16 💬 Mystery emphasizes the importance of structuring game with openers and gambits to confidently initiate interactions.
01:11:54 🔮 Mystery shares a DHV (demonstration of higher value) story involving a Hollywood adventure, highlighting pre-selection, social proof, and risk-taking.
01:17:07 🤔 The biggest mistakes in pickup include not smiling and lacking structured game with openers and gambits to guide interactions effectively.
01:21:34 🌍 Helsinki, Finland, is recommended as an excellent city for pickup due to its beautiful, educated, and diverse women, along with vibrant festivals like Vappu.
01:25:58 🌆 Mystery and Matador lived in Miami for a year, attracting many girls from South Beach to their place.
01:26:39 🏙 Miami's pickup scene is unique, akin to New York's or Las Vegas', with its own challenges and dynamics.
01:27:20 🌴 Miami has a notably sexual vibe and a high concentration of attractive women compared to other US cities.
01:28:44 📚 Mystery and Neil Strauss, despite busy schedules, remain good friends and admire each other's work.
01:29:11 🎬 There were plans for a movie adaptation of Neil Strauss' book "The Game," potentially featuring James Franco as Mystery, but the project got shelved.
01:30:43 🤝 Fresh and Matador became partners after meeting in London, leading to collaborations and boot camps that changed lives.
01:35:04 🗝 Mastery of the Mystery Method's five keys-structure, material, delivery, volume, and velocity-is essential for success in pickup.
01:36:52 💃 The essence of "The Game" was doing 12 sets a night, focusing on skill development and not just numbers, akin to a dojo for socializing.
Guess not a lot of people read The Game by Neil Strauss - that book when I was from 20+ I could pick up girls and my ratio was 8/10 get their number and get a date. Their steps was sick and you didn’t need even have to have money. I had girls buying me drinks - it was a sick experience. I was living in Orlando at the time and that was one of the best times I had doing pick up.
Can confirm, was a giga broke uni student, was banging some of the hottest girls in town using mostly Mystery Method, with some variations (some material from David de Angelo and Swingcat if you know). Huge huge respect to Mystery & Neil Strauss and all the guys of that era, was just before social media or the very beginning of facebook.
Are you a very good looking guy or very ugly?
What a fantastic book that was. An absolute page turner.
However, it was solely focused on achieving a one night stand or 2 with tricks and ploys as opposed to having a personality development aspect, which makes you desirable no matter what you do.
Lets not forget Mystery himself resorts to simping for a stripper in the book.
@@CoIdestMoments I dropped out of college at 19. Moved to Orlando at 20. Actually my neighbor was the radio DJ for Orlando so I got hooked up into VIP area. I used mostly Neil’s 4 step method. Open/Neg-disarm/comfort/close. I had about 4 different variations within those 4 steps.
@@Mannypacquia0 I’m Filipino. Average looking. I would say like a 6 - strong 7 when I used to wear my grey contacts. I’m close to 6ft most of my friends down there were above 6ft and I was standing as tall as them if not about the same footing when I used air forces lol.
It's weird seeing Mystery after imagining him as a just a character in THE GAME book, crazy 😂
he's all over internet
Yeah, Mistery is no longer a Mistery😅
Mystery and Beck in a after hours would be MAYHEM
Would be like bringing a gun to a knife fight!
Has Mystery mentioned Tom Torero's passing in 2021? Tom was very much inspired by Mystery & even studied under him in America.
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The real Godfather of the Red Pill
Facts
Nah, that would be Tom Leykis
He's not the Godfather of the RP.... He's the Godfather of PUA's........ He's a pioneer in pick-up...... That's it.
@@Johnny-CageI go back and forth between the 2 🤔
I googled Tom Leykis. I haven't heard of him since I'm from Europe. Apparently he was a radio host.
What Mystery did was to break it down to a science and explain it through evolutionary psychology, and also testing and confirming it irl.
Damn it’s Mystery! Thank you FnF always on point! Great podcast!
The GOAT no doubt. Its a shame to see him chain smoking in his 50's though. We need him around for a long time!
"the goat" there are 25 year old white chads that will wreck him any day of the week, and these guys don't have game
Mystery has already left his wisdom for generations to come. If he'd pass tomorrow. We'd be fine
We need mystery on after hours that would be dope
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Myron please plan for another 2 hours chat, I love it so much, your questions are legit
When did he do that
Thank you mystery your book was a life changer
Name of the book?
@@Ancient_philosophy2 The Mystery Method
@@Ancient_philosophy2 the mystery method
You HAVE to bring Mystery in the studio! It will be the bomb! 🔥
Damn, i got a lot of play back in the day from mystery's tips. Glad to see he's still coaching.
social dynamics so advanced. most guys just try to ask the girl out and hope for the best😅
mystery our mentor, a great coach, we owe him a lot!!!!! it would be great having him on studio with chicks, that would be a hot show!!!!!
inspired by Mystery i learned magic tricks myself and they work!!! people on sets like them a lot
I wish Rollo was also here for this one.. having Mystery & Rollo would have been awesome
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I read the Game in 2007 in Germany, then Mysterys Book. He is the GOAT of Pick Up. Great Eoisode Guys!
Mystery is still the king, I read his book ten years ago and styles and it worked, I've seen hundreds of videos of pickup that get to complicated without any simple structure but say a million things that make it overcomplicated but the simple book still works and always will and it's a just a fun way to meet people on general for comfort for all.
I use to watch Mystery so much... crazy to see him live.
You the same guy from the old mens room tv channel from back in the day?
@@beezowdoodoozoppitybopbopb9488 negative. I am not
Read his book so many times. Really knows what he's talking about. I appreciate this interview. Get niel Straus on next!
Niel Strauss or Style 😏
Fresh adds nothing to this show
Yes he does. He makes everyone else look great🤣🤣🤣
I have always said that he has the easiest job in the world 😂
Never seen a bloke try so hard to be cool.
I can't believe you guys actually got Mystery
He's a hasbeen and wanted attention
Mystery has hyperelite social awareness.
He really takes in regard stuff other great PUA's don't.
Most dudes just can't read social cues and situations, they cross lines or come off as awkward without knowing it. Good game just looks like social skills
Damn its mystery! Blast from the past
Finally, the best interview pick, especially for the young audience who never heard of the goat Mystery.
Mystery also shows great social intelligence while interacting with the three of you guys
At the end of the day if you’re lame or unattractive you won’t get the girl you lust for the most or you won’t keep her
Neil Strauss was short and bald... Maybe don't be a defeatist and believe in yourself, and you'd get girls
Just hearing his voice takes me right back to 2008
This the guy Rollo mentioned a few times.
Yes. When Rollo traces the history of the red pill knowledge - to understand human sexual behaviour through the evolutionary lens - he traces it back to Mystery.
I would say that Mystery and Rollo are the two most important guys in helping men understanding female psychology. I see those two as the goats.
I think Mystery is a genius and one of the most important social scientists ever.
@@Skelfi Rollo missed the mark on that one. Ross Jefferies and David X were teaching in the early 90s, both big names, both featured in The Game, and both mentored Mystery.
There is an old tvshow on youtube with Ross Jefferies. I'm sure he got game when seeing his attitude and behaviour. But I don't think his nlp-style is really such as an effective way of thinking.
What Mystery did is based on evolutionary psyvhology, and I would say also neuroscience and phenomenology. I see his stuff as more connected to reality. He is a very systematic and pragmatic thinker.
Mystery also laid the framework of using evolutionary psychology to understand human behaviour, to what we today call red pill.
Also a guy called tom leykis.... He got a lot of stuff from him
@@beezowdoodoozoppitybopbopb9488 Ross Jeffries did _not_ mentor Mystery, nor does Mystery use any of Ross' methods.
Wow. This has got me so excited
If i ever meet Mystery i would honestly shake his hand and thank him greatly. His work opened a vast network to me. Not just about women but as he called it - Social Dynamics - or how to speak with strangers in essence. There is so much knowledge this man has given
Was lost after my wife passed away. Mystery, saved me.
This man is a genius
The impressive thing is not what Mystery has done in the past, it's the wise man energy he emits. He speaks and gestures slower than in the past - give a really positive energy both for male and female. Happy that he found love long enough to start a family, a bit sad that it hasn't lasted long time (+10-15 years is long time kids... not months or a few years!)
Mystery is also 6’5” and overall not a bad looking guy. So it worked for him. Back in the day I never saw this Method work unless the guy was already a decent looking guy in the first place. Additionally in this day of social media I don’t see how his “Method” works.
He also taught Neil Strauss who is ugly and short.
Then take a boot camp with him and see for yourself. I'm 5'6, average looking guy from the Philippines, experienced dating beautiful women whom I met during the day and club, these girls are beautiful, some are taller, and has more money than me.
But still, I was able to have a for a romantic relationship with them back in the days because of his M3 Method.
I suggest try it yourself first before having a conclusion that "it might not work", cause I'm telling you from my experience and my wingman/ guy friends experience, it works.
Did you. Go to the bootcamp how long did it take for you to learn the game completely to put you on a level to date such hot woman?@@dreyfitness6400
Did you make trial and errors at first?
@@dreyfitness6400- hi I appreciate your note but yes I did try Mystery Method. I did some training with some top mystery method instructors (some of them were actual students of Mystery himself) and nothing ever happened. I’m kind of glad it didn’t. As a Christian, I shouldn’t be studying this type of stuff anyway. Need to rely on Jesus to help our find our respective mate or whatever path we may take in life. Trust in the Lord.
So I’m coming back to this video to make this comment to confirm that Finland women the best to pick up. Cold approached a girl from Finland two nights ago. She made it so easy. Took her back to my place and we smashed that same night. Afterwards that mornings she made me breakfast, did my laundry the whole nine. I’m not plotting my next vacation to Finland
Nice bro, when i was in Helsinki i had the same experience.
From Komplimente on the Street to my hotel room in under 45 min 👍🏼
Now if F&F can get Mystery, Neil Strauss and Rollo on the same show. It would be legendary!
10,000 dudes are gonna do the lighter trick this weekend at the club🥴
Mystery's teachings are still relevant in todays climate & actually more effective since most people have gotten lazy & would rather be online than at the "party"... I personally found implementing both to be very effective & great way to maximize ur results. Meeting from online & at the party! Youll double ur success...
Absolutely
So awesome to have Mystery on
Epic knowledge🙌
I used Mystery's and Neil Strauss's tactics 10 years ago.. In 2020 it didn't work. I cold approached some chick who does ACRO in Manhattan beach just like me. Im a guy, I got a 6 pack, 6 feet, im like a 7. She had so many options in her inbox, she ghosted me for 6 months. LMFAO. She waited at the finish line for rich guys from Newport Beach. Don't listen to old school MMA guys about modern day combat. Don't listen to old schoolers still preaching like its the year 2000.
Terrible take. Who you think your favourite MMA fighter's coach is? 😅
So it didn't work out once for you. So it's terrible advice.
@@TBlock1347 It worked in the 2000's somewhat. Moreso cuz dating apps werent a thing & only black guys " hollered " as they called it back then . Once 2015 hit, u can cold approach & she will treat u like an online simp. So technology made PUA tactics lose effectiveness. 2024 u need 100k, 6 pack, 8", & be a 9 or 10 white Chad. Thas why in the next 10 years women age 30-50 will be husbandless. Sucks for them. Women arent built to sleep around and work a 9-5 till age 99 like men .
@@ScorpionSuerte ??? Saenchei, buaka., mike musemecci cool role modes .
LA has a very high cost of living right now. A lot of women are in survival mode in Los Angeles currently.
DOPE episode fellas 2 years in the making and finally y'all made it happen. 2 goats of the game. Mystery was somebody me and my friends looked up to growing up we read his books and applied the methods he talked about. Man I felt like I was back in college again watching him here lol. For any guy who grew up in the 90s and came of age in the 00s if you know you know how important Mystery is to the space. the book 'The Game by Neil Strauss (another legend) was like a the playbook for every young man around that time. Before there was RP it was Mystery!!! 🔥🐐
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Agreed. I sat down in Barnes & Noble my freshman year in college and read The Game- that book changed the world
Wow another legendary episode💯💯✅✅‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🔥 this is why you are #1⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
All thanks to fresh!!🔥🔥💪🏾
“Methodology of acquiring leads “ lol
Love mystery, love also the fact he sounds exactly like Ryan Reynolds
Mystery mentioned Las Vegas twice but no details. I live in Las Vegas. Very transient city friendships difficult to maintain. So the approaches are often solo. That being said, the women are all down to sleep with you as long as you are in good shape, have any money at all, and have a splash of charisma. The encounters are not always love and the women disappear from the city and out of your life after a handful of months. Thoughts?
It seems like Vegas is generally in a boom or bust cycle, continually... People moving in and back out when the jobs end. Is this still the case???
I think Vegas has become kinda dangerous and people have their guard up. The young women stay in their groups
Some stds are forever.
Oh darn they leave after a few months?
MYSTERY is a legend, does he even know what kind of cultural influence hes had!? man its nice to see him talk again. Hes a pickup DOCTOR lol
I was shocked when I saw this title lol I read everything this man wrote when I was younger
What a legend ! Mystery got me started at 20 I still use his stuff till this day
Damn....... Mystery
FnF are FIRE !!!!!
Lvl 0 : approaching a set of girls when you are a total stranger and no one knows you
Level 1 - opening sets of people
Level 2 - merging sets (introducing people to each other?),
Level 3 - continuing the party (successes ) from last night
Level 4- last month continuity to new gatherings , social circle
Level 5 - having influence/fame having people talking about you even before you arrive .
W Pod one to save & re-watch. Share it to your simp friends w/No game.
I have my notepad for brainstorming.
hearing him talk about his life over the past 20 years would have been a lot more interesting than this redundant overview of game.
Im here to watch mystery, what a legend
Bruh, getting a woman is not that difficult.
just be tall and handsome, all the extra stuff is, well, extra, and can be too much
chat has nothing positive to say at any point anymore no matter what is on the screen
W SHOW!!!!!
Best iOi is when the first 2 seconds a girl sees you she fixes her hair. That means she thinks you look good and wants to be presentable
I’ve only herd of legends of this guy
Mystery was a huge life changer for me. Discovering his method was trully mind blowing
Great show... pure knowledge ..
Damn fam. Good to see this gentleman again. Great show!
Mystery Method.
The Complete OG of the PUA game. I still have his book
I should re-read it for a refresher
I hope Mystery could join yall in the future and be on After hours too
Mystery! Genuine legend! Would love if you could get Ross Jeffries on da show
Awesome to see Mystery again, please get him on the show more guys! Much love
How weird is this, earlier today sunbathing in the back listening to "The Game" then this podcast pops up.. love it.
W stream! Glad FNF were able to have the legend Mystery on the show.
The mastermind who literally invented it all.. legend.
Mystery 😮 W guest
7 hours lol ive picked up women with 2 minutes
You gotta make it to the party
Epic cause Mystery is the godfather
I got into the Pua movement in 2008 and I've watched and still watch clueless guys diss and go against what Puas teach and Mystery has shown that all Pua haters are wrong. The information that Mystery is giving here is solid gold.
dude we miss mystery we need him now more then ever he is the god father of red pill it he didn't exist red pill wouldn't
1:25:00 - Face and personality. Mystery is at a whole higher level of conciousness.
This guy changed everything .
Mystery really put me on to game. "The Pickup Artist" 2007 & 2008. I did canned openers for years until i realized most women know if a guy's trying to game them so i just started doing direct & saved me & them the time. It all depends at times but cold approach is so much more than just meeting women. It really does prepare you for so many aspects & situations of life
Happy to see you smiling around, Erik. :)
Bring mystery & rsd Tyler in
The Legend is back! 😎
These episodes are way better than the OF broads normally on F&F
I love Mystery