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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @Tayy-Ann
    @Tayy-Ann Рік тому +36

    She’s so strong, I love that she’s validating your feelings and truly acknowledging them. That is so awesome to see. And you can see it on your face how much that validation matters to you. This whole situation is so heart warming to see.

  • @sadgorl
    @sadgorl Рік тому +49

    i love that you and your mom have rebuilt to what you have now. it’s inspiring and it warms my heart. i can see how important this time is to the both of you. ❤ your mom is a warrior for how she fought to get here - and so are you, Zoe.

    • @TheVanClan
      @TheVanClan  Рік тому +10

      Thank you for these kind words 🥹🥹

    • @sadgorl
      @sadgorl Рік тому +1

      @@TheVanClanyou’re so welcome! it needs to be said. ❤

  • @emilynydam4411
    @emilynydam4411 Рік тому +33

    Both your mom and wilder say absolutely! So cute!!.

  • @kaylasteinbring8301
    @kaylasteinbring8301 Рік тому +21

    I’m so so proud of how far your mom has come in life she’s an amazing woman

  • @mikaylaharding1483
    @mikaylaharding1483 Рік тому +13

    Wow
    You two are such a picture of healing
    My boyfriend and his mom are going through a tough situation with her having addictions aswell
    But watching you two heal and laugh I know in my heart him and his mom will get back to each other it’s so beautiful to see the healing happening
    Thank you ladies ❤

  • @clairesnelson9961
    @clairesnelson9961 Рік тому +10

    Your moms giggle in the beginning 🥰 you two are the cutest! I love that you are getting this time togather

  • @krystlep7353
    @krystlep7353 Рік тому +13

    Support 💞 is the biggest thing... I'm soooo happy you both have that for one another ... Love seeing the support and growth ✌️💓💞💓

  • @christinahaythorne3633
    @christinahaythorne3633 Рік тому +5

    As a recovering alcoholic that's finally fixed my relationship my son I am very proud of your mom. I know how hard it is and she's trying so hard and at the perfect time for you!

  • @jaydencurtis8961
    @jaydencurtis8961 Рік тому +1

    This makes me have hope for my situation. All my life my mom has been in and out of addiction and about 4 years ago she relapsed I was 16 at the time and I became an addict as well. My home became a trap house full of addicts and my mother became a person who I no longer know thats how bad the addiction got ahold of her. She is still using now and I am 19 and 465 days clean. Thank you for sharing this❤

  • @michaella3594
    @michaella3594 Рік тому +4

    I never comment on videos BUT, I just have to say Zoe.. your mother looks at you with SO much love - you can genuinely see it in her eyes how much she loves & adores you! You are so special to her. Shes come into your life at the right time & I just love the bond you have already.. so so beautiful to watch 🤍

  • @naomi6348
    @naomi6348 Рік тому +6

    your mommas mindset is beautiful. the hard work and dedication. i am so proud of both of you. seeing videos of you and your mom have become my fave

  • @agnes2344
    @agnes2344 Рік тому +4

    Your mom is so BEAUTIFUL inside and out. Its so nice to watch your relationship.

  • @gigi32287
    @gigi32287 Рік тому +6

    I love y’all’s relationship, this is healing. ❤️‍🩹

  • @madisonduplessis9721
    @madisonduplessis9721 Рік тому +2

    This video brought me to tears!! Both of your stories are beautiful. The healing and love you can feel through the camera. Sending you tons of love and blessings❤

  • @AlaskanAngelz
    @AlaskanAngelz Рік тому +5

    Zoe, I LOVE that you and your mom are reconnecting. I didn't talk to my Dad for yr's after he left us for another woman. I called him when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and then we would send card's and what not but then my sister passed away unexpectedly and I called my Dad from the ER and told him over the phone and he came to her funeral. He lived in NC and we live in Alaska, it had been 17yrs since I saw him. I was terrified I wouldn't recognize him at the airport but I did. I begged him not to go back, I just knew in my heart it would be the last time I would see him again. Six month's later he was diagnosed with cancer (again) and sadly he passed away from cancer exactly 1yr after my sister passed away. I never got to know my Dad and share with him thing's as an adult, he only met 2 of his grandkids when he was here for my sister's funeral. It's been really rough and heartbreaking. I would give anything to go back in time so I could spend more time with my Dad and sister. 💔💜💙 Sending you and your mom hug's. 🤗 Sorry soo long.

  • @baileylorton8705
    @baileylorton8705 Рік тому +27

    Your mom is STUNNING! 💕

    • @TheVanClan
      @TheVanClan  Рік тому +3

      I agree❤❤ thank you for this!!

  • @danielmanges8936
    @danielmanges8936 8 місяців тому

    Nothing is stronger than a mother daughter relationship so happy you reconnected. I’m so proud of your mom getting clean and may god continue to bless her.

  • @darienkeay5819
    @darienkeay5819 Рік тому +2

    So incredibly happy for your new beginning with your mom. It’s rare to see somebody turn their life around and rebuild relationships after addiction. Its definitely true that it won’t usually happen until they want it for themselves. I unfortunately lost my mom in 2020 at the age of 42 from addiction. She would always try to get clean for us, but never for her and it never stuck. Life is very hard without parents to go to. I lost my dad as well a year ago. He was homeless due to addiction and our relationship was ruined. I pray that you and your mother’s relationship continues to grow ♥️

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 Рік тому +2

    Your mom is hilarious. Your guys’ relationship is precious. So happy for you! I hope you are all truly doing well xox ❤

  • @Bc-hy1lx
    @Bc-hy1lx Рік тому +7

    Sending lots of love to you and your family. You’re doing such a great job keeping up a positive attitude for your kids. Also love the new relationship you have with your mom. It gives me hope that one day I can have that kind of relationship with my mom too.

  • @oliviapinter9478
    @oliviapinter9478 Рік тому +1

    Awe mother daughter relationships are actually the most precious that's so sweet you missed her when she was at work it reminds me of how much I love and appreciate my mom too ❤

  • @kimberlylott1459
    @kimberlylott1459 Рік тому +2

    Oh my goodness shopping for each other that was so much fun to watch. Thank you for sharing. Much love from Minnesota💖💖💖

  • @danycalifornia
    @danycalifornia Рік тому +3

    The energy in this video is so freakin good!!!! ❤

  • @emmaebloodworth
    @emmaebloodworth Рік тому +1

    So happy to see you and your mother together. I work at a drug rehab for women who are in need of help with recovering. To see y’all’s relationship and bond makes me happy being in the field I’m in ❤️

  • @WorldOfNicky
    @WorldOfNicky Рік тому

    This made my heart smile so big. ❤I love seeing your relationship with mom blossom. She is too cool

  • @christinem9280
    @christinem9280 Рік тому +2

    I really love your relationship with your mom! I am excited for you guys to keep growing together and have each other through the hard times. I love you guys!

  • @michaelyneason7699
    @michaelyneason7699 Рік тому

    i love the content with your mom, you should definitely do this more! yalls relationship is so cute❤️

  • @jodygiles8223
    @jodygiles8223 Рік тому +1

    You guys are so flippin cute together , Mumma and baby and it’s so clear how much love is between you guys xooxoxooxoxo

  • @megghancote1979
    @megghancote1979 Рік тому +2

    she is sooo the opposite of toxic. she has truly acknowledged her faults

  • @surfingirl89
    @surfingirl89 Рік тому +1

    Your mom really hit the nail on the head there. My mom struggled with drinking my whole life and it really messed up our relationship; there was a lot of trauma that came from that. In the last year my mom and I really. started building a relationship. My mom unexpectedly and suddenly passed away from a 5 day binger; I had to withdraw care on Nov. 7, 2022. I really do miss my mom so much.... I love that you guys have been able to build up your relationship and you now have her in your life.

  • @evilbrat
    @evilbrat Рік тому +1

    I just love you & your momma. I think both of you are wonderful people & deserve this happiness! 💞

  • @Hillside-Hive
    @Hillside-Hive Рік тому +3

    Wowzers- your mom is 'doing' recovery. Thats the only way it works. So happy for yall.

  • @jeancorreia7583
    @jeancorreia7583 Рік тому +1

    Your mom is so pretty! You look a lot like her! Two beauties……. I absolutely loved watching you two together!

  • @annbednarczyk1006
    @annbednarczyk1006 Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy for you guys!! I've been sober for 7 years now and I can relate to your Mom so much, I really appreciate that she's so open and sharing her experience, strength and hope! I still struggle with rebuilding my relationships with my Dad and brother. Unfortunately my Mom passed away before I became sober so I'm just praying that my dad will soften his heart towards me, but I know I put him through a lot of pain for 20+ years so I know it's going to take time. I'm so thankful that my husband and my son are back in my life though!! Anyways, thanks for sharing both of your stories I'm enjoying watching the perspective of both sides!! Sending you all love and prayers and blessings 💞🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @erinabretski3580
    @erinabretski3580 Рік тому

    This was a great video. I love the relationship you have with your mom. I love getting to watch how ya'll grow together in your recovery (which is a never ending thing). You are amazing! I think it's great that she is moving down to FL to be with you and the kids, the adventures you all will have will be amazing! ❤

  • @delaneyexpressionalart
    @delaneyexpressionalart Рік тому +2

    i found my dad dead from an overdose in 2021, this video was hard for me to watch because this is all i have ever wanted with my dad but it also makes me so happy for you guys and that both you and your mom were saved

  • @britneygutierrez6897
    @britneygutierrez6897 Рік тому

    I am a recovering addict. It's very hard at 1st. 12 years of sobriety in Dec. Your mother is amazing and I'm glad you guys are together again.

  • @debbielopez6593
    @debbielopez6593 Рік тому +1

    So very proud of your mom she is one amazing woman who made life changes and is an inspiration! Zoey you got this God placed your mom in your life to be there for you and the kids your relationship is so wonderful to see how you both are there for each other when you needed it the most. Love you both❤❤

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 Рік тому +1

    Awesome Video! What a Beautiful Family I Love This Sweet and Beautiful Family Zoe your Stunning Garick Is adorable Wilder Is a cutie Hazel Is just drop dead gorgeous!!! Venture Is cute!!!!! I Love You Guys So So Much!!!!!

  • @alexisfriend8143
    @alexisfriend8143 Рік тому +2

    I had to cut ties with my cousins and it’s been the hardest. Been so forgiving in the process and pray to God one day they will want to get better. Beautiful video and your mom is inspirational. She makes me believe that one day they will realize they want it too. Love you girl, you’re doing amazing!

  • @brendasnider7130
    @brendasnider7130 Рік тому +3

    Got your first like today 🎉❤😂 love you get to spend time together making up for lost time. 😊❤

  • @bdescamps
    @bdescamps Рік тому

    I am loving the mom content. This makes my heart so happy. My mom passed away when she was just 42 and my first born daughters(twins) were just 6 months old. Life is so short! Enjoy your momma!!

  • @User-tj6kg
    @User-tj6kg Рік тому +2

    Your mom saying absolutely is just so Wilder😂🥹♥️

  • @mairamiddendorf9796
    @mairamiddendorf9796 Рік тому

    Your mom is literally comforting me so much. She motivates me and I already love her as much as you and your kids, Zoe ! Y’all are my fav duo, so fun to watch and inspiring ! Please never stop doing videos together 😭 also the length of this video is sooo good. Can’t get enough, seriously !
    I love you guys !!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @reneehanninen5490
    @reneehanninen5490 Рік тому +2

    I appreciate your honest conversation ❤ I feel this to my core. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @moneysports1793
    @moneysports1793 Рік тому +1

    There’s no other love like your mothers. My mother passed when I was 26. Cherish every moment together. ❤️Australia

  • @JohnnaRomans
    @JohnnaRomans Рік тому +1

    I love seeing you and your momma share your story! What a blessing! ❤️

  • @user-Mia-123
    @user-Mia-123 Рік тому +1

    Glad you guys are working things out, stay safe and healthy

  • @kelseagoddyn7615
    @kelseagoddyn7615 Рік тому +1

    So proud of both of you for moving forward and building a beautiful relationship together for you and your kids future, as well ❤❤

  • @alyssasizemore5780
    @alyssasizemore5780 Рік тому

    I’m so so happy for you! Watching you grow and how mature you are and getting to have that bond with your mom I know that means a lot to the both of you!! ❤❤

  • @kristinclark3304
    @kristinclark3304 Рік тому

    I just adore your mom son much, and am so happy that you're back in each others lives and making beautiful memories together ❤

  • @minnie77able
    @minnie77able Рік тому +1

    Hi I really have enjoyed watching you and your mom together 🫠 so happy for both of you. !! I am sure so many people can relate to you guys and even I was thinking of Yasmym she has a similar story. And I’m so happy that you’re mom is there for your kids too that has to be a big help on there part so she’s doing a great thing just let her know please 🙏

  • @BabyMango
    @BabyMango Рік тому

    I just love your mama! What a wonderful woman. My parents are different people now too, and it’s worth every second with them!

  • @tammyluce8474
    @tammyluce8474 Рік тому

    I’m so happy to see your relationship with your mom. My oldest daughter hasn’t let me see my 4 grandkids since 2015!! But I’m expecting two new grandsons before Christmas!!

  • @britneygutierrez6897
    @britneygutierrez6897 Рік тому

    It's so great to see you guys reconnecting I love it. And you guys look a lot alike actually

  • @sydneyb986
    @sydneyb986 Рік тому

    Love to see this! My parents struggle with addiction too and for the longest time I have but as soon as I got pregnant with my first son I've been clean since and that was 5 years ago, I'm currently pregnant with my 3rd baby and I couldn't imagine the struggle if I continued to do what I was doing. so proud of your mom!

  • @stacinichole4752
    @stacinichole4752 Рік тому +1

    Awwww. Just brought me to tears
    I’m Soooo Proud of you 2
    Love Yooou 💞

  • @cathylaw
    @cathylaw Рік тому +3

    Great video. ❤ Seedy vs CD was a good laugh 😂

  • @heatherpetty6834
    @heatherpetty6834 Рік тому

    congrats momma i have 13yrs u can do it!!! gotta stay away from people places and things!!!! love this video xoxoxo

  • @DanigirlsNine
    @DanigirlsNine Рік тому

    Happy that you both are back together.. it’s good to have family together.. know the kids are growing fast!! Love your videos!! Keep up the good work!! Zoey!!

  • @rebeccaperkins5003
    @rebeccaperkins5003 Рік тому

    I just saw my dad this past weekend for the first time in 10years due to his addiction and me being so mad at him for letting me go to foster care..
    I have recently forgiven him and this weekend at my grandpas services and everything was amazing

  • @jaylak524
    @jaylak524 Рік тому

    So heartwarming! So happy for you both and wish you nothing but love and happiness 💗

  • @jaimebh30
    @jaimebh30 Рік тому

    So glad you and your mom are having a great relationship. I am so proud of her that she can come home and be a grandmother to your kids!

  • @lixcsi
    @lixcsi Рік тому +1

    I‘m soo happy for you and your mom, Zoe 🥹
    Your mom is so sweet :)

  • @christinamontefiore6955
    @christinamontefiore6955 Рік тому

    So happy for you guys I have been sober for 8 years now from pain medication and I lost my momma to drinking and pills but mostly drinking ❤❤❤❤ 30:34

  • @kathybagley8915
    @kathybagley8915 Рік тому +1

    Your mother is so beautiful you two look so much alike I hope you're doing a lot better keep up the great work loving all of the videos may God bless you and your beautiful family

  • @valarielutz4964
    @valarielutz4964 Рік тому

    This makes me so happy to watch, my mom was a recovering addict, she unfortunately relapse one time and that was it, but these videos remind me of how we acted together and makes me feel as if she’s still here with me 💗 thank you for sharing

    • @valarielutz4964
      @valarielutz4964 Рік тому

      Tell your mom I am so proud of her and to stay strong, addiction is a disease and my mom said it was a struggle everyday it’s not as easy as people think, sending blessings💗

  • @michelezeigler6167
    @michelezeigler6167 Рік тому

    Watching you with your mom makes me happy Zoe.

  • @katelynnruest4828
    @katelynnruest4828 Рік тому

    Watching this honestly makes me think a lot about my mom. How much she has and will continue to miss in my life due to her addictions and life choices….

  • @michelezeigler6167
    @michelezeigler6167 Рік тому +1

    Sending prayers for your whole family.

  • @angelvary6565
    @angelvary6565 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed this video. You and your mom having that conversation brought tears to my eyes. I’m really happy for both of you and you can tell the sincerity in your voices. 🥰

  • @jennyfrostelid76
    @jennyfrostelid76 Рік тому

    You guy's are so sweet together. And I love how much love you're mom has for you're babies as she says. It's beautiful to se you all together. Sending you good vibes and lots of love ❤❤

  • @sydneyels271
    @sydneyels271 Рік тому

    U guys look identical!!! Both so beautiful!!!

  • @juliepesch8417
    @juliepesch8417 Рік тому +2

    You’re mom just glows with light

  • @angelaarnold4255
    @angelaarnold4255 Рік тому +1

    I can’t ever find a bra that works for me. So I buy the cup that fits and the biggest around. The I go over into the sewing department (of like a Walmart or Target) and they sell Bra Extenders. You need to know if the bra has two or three hooks on it. By one or two of them. As long as the cup size is right, the extenders help the part that goes around.

  • @brookes4148
    @brookes4148 Рік тому

    You two are too cute! I love that affirmation song! I’m a childcare teacher and I play it multiple times a day! The Good Morning Song by Gracie’s Corner is good too!

  • @babygirlnute
    @babygirlnute Рік тому

    I literally love you two!!!!! I’m in happy tears!!!!! ♥️

  • @DezMartinez-eu5bb
    @DezMartinez-eu5bb Рік тому

    I hope things get better for you guys!! Your so beautiful

  • @kailynhaws6294
    @kailynhaws6294 Рік тому

    Thank y’all for sharing. This is really nice to hear and also very informative. ❤️❤️

  • @tanaherson6767
    @tanaherson6767 Рік тому +3

    Always sending lots of love ❤

  • @reneehanninen5490
    @reneehanninen5490 Рік тому +5

    If your mom wrote a book I’d buy it! I absolutely love her!!

  • @PatriotafVenise
    @PatriotafVenise Рік тому +3

    You two look like sisters 👯‍♀️ 💖♥️💥

  • @madilyn945
    @madilyn945 Рік тому +3

    How is Gerrick doing? Where does he stay now? Does it still see the kids?

  • @BabyKandFam
    @BabyKandFam Рік тому

    This is exactly how it was with my mother, so much missed time due to her struggling with the same things, however we never got to build a relationship as my mother passed away, so this is actually very healing to watch you both rekindle your relationship🥹🫶🏼 thank you so much for sharing this❤

  • @isabellayaconetti159
    @isabellayaconetti159 Рік тому

    I absolutely love seeing y'all together!!! God Bless You Both ♡♡

  • @dawnbrown1042
    @dawnbrown1042 Рік тому

    YES I MISS MY MOM SO MUCH!! She was exactly like your mom, she passed 3 years ago, I was 36. She just had stomach pain, went to the ER, diagnosed her with liver cancer and within a few months she was gone. It was the most sudden and devastating experience!!

    • @michelezeigler6167
      @michelezeigler6167 Рік тому

      I am sorry for your loss. Losing your mom is the worst. Been thru it too.

  • @nancygalle1379
    @nancygalle1379 Рік тому

    You r very lucky to have your mom and she got to be with you now and your babies We found out my sister had been using ,Meth for 3 months but she got severely sick and died

  • @jenniferthompson6280
    @jenniferthompson6280 Рік тому

    this gives me such hope but , deep down i know it won't happen for me bc my mother is a narcissist . she would never apologize and humble herself like your mother has..your mother is so adorable. best wishes for continued love and good times, i'm so happy for you all.

  • @samanthamitchell269
    @samanthamitchell269 Рік тому +1

    Your mother is beautiful!! ❤❤

  • @breaunnatriscari2293
    @breaunnatriscari2293 Рік тому

    My mom also struggled with addiction majority of my life. She was absent in my hardest times and I spent my childhood wondering why the addiction was more important than me. I’m so proud to see your mom acknowledging and validating your feelings for any pain/absent ness she had caused. My mom is finally consistent in my life and she’s always so willing to admit to and listen to all the feelings I had to feel. She never tried to gaslight me and seeing your mom doing the same is absolutely amazing. I can relate to your relationship with your mom in so many ways and it’s so amazing so see you both together and so full of light and love. 🤍🤍

  • @AniaTworzy
    @AniaTworzy Рік тому +2

    Wow super long one ❤ thanks Zoe ❤

  • @summermarie81
    @summermarie81 Рік тому

    Mom is so beautiful ❤️ awesome vlog. Loved it❤

  • @dreamanichols1088
    @dreamanichols1088 Рік тому

    That makes my heart. So happy to see you and your mother coming together and i was gonna tell you before you guy's said anything about wilder he does look like you and your mother but you answered before i ask lol well i love you guy's and your mother is the sweetest i love watching your vlogs even more with your Mom in them ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cjgamer830
    @cjgamer830 Рік тому +2

    Forever Love The Van Clan!

  • @oliviapinter9478
    @oliviapinter9478 Рік тому +1

    My boyfriend called me creepy this morning I still need to talk to him in person about how I am not comfortable with him calling me names in our relationship and that it really hurt my feelings when he called me "creepy" when I am not creepy and I know and respect myself and know that. even if he doesn't respect me.

  • @Kiley665
    @Kiley665 Рік тому

    This video was so good! So proud of your mom!!

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 Рік тому +2

    You and your mom should do a podcast together they podcast you were gonna do that would be Dope!!!!

  • @mariavalentinaguzman7843
    @mariavalentinaguzman7843 Рік тому

    You guys are so beautiful!! Sending you love💕

  • @mariahorsfield76
    @mariahorsfield76 Рік тому +3

    Where is the kids and what are u driving 😊

  • @hannahbard3655
    @hannahbard3655 Рік тому

    I am so stupidly happy for you & your momma ❤