You're doing great, darlin'. I wish I had the guts to share my story, it's freaking scary. But it's what needs to be done; people need all the tactics and methods they can get, and you're a healing force opening up like this. I admire you. Thank you for this 💖
I’m so sorry that people made you feel that giving up your child for adoption was a bad thing! You gave your child life and a chance to be fully loved! That’s an incredibly loving gift: to want what is best for your child even if that’s not you! You had tremendous wisdom and courage- God Bless You! I hope one day you will be able to see that in yourself- I get it though it’s so hard!
No person gets up each morning and says how can I really screw up - we make the best decisions at the time we are making them and as Maya Angelou said- when we know better we must then do better- hoping you will heal and be able to give an abundance of love from that healing - you are brave and full of courage - thank you for your video♥️
Hi Love (Sorry for my bad english, not my motherlanguage) Thank you for sharring. You are brave and have come a long way. This video came in the best timing. Christmas is always a though period, and feels very lonely. You sharring made my day, just had an awful phonecall with my mom and was doomscrolling to cobe with it. Found your video in my feed, and I’m happy I did.
@@metha83 I am sorry about the call, I understand though, doom scrolling was something I did to cope too, but it also opened up some doors to healing so there. Sending hugs and love to get through the Christmas season
@@AsiaRivera you will never know. I have to actively remind myself that this cliche quote is true. It all happened for a reason. And your exactly where you are supposed to be ❤️❤️
This was such a helpful, touching video. Indeed, you did the best you could with the knowledge and support you had at the time. What a beautiful soul you have grown into. You’re an inspiration. Thank you for your willingness to share and may you always be blessed ❤
i am sorry, and I also very much understand, I also have CTPSD. have you found someone to help you work through your trauma? therapy was the best investment I ever made
You are worthy. You are worthy. You are worthy. You.Are.Worthy.
I am sobbing. This is so true. The 17 year old me deserved better. This version of me needs healing for her.
@@crystalperez8873 she does. And you will figure it out for her too❤️❤️❤️
You're doing great, darlin'. I wish I had the guts to share my story, it's freaking scary. But it's what needs to be done; people need all the tactics and methods they can get, and you're a healing force opening up like this. I admire you. Thank you for this 💖
@@HeidiCavalier than you. ❤️you will share when your ready and on your way too. Keep healing and if you feel called to share you will.
I’m 75yo and still trying to let my little girl self be okay JUST THE WAY SHE IS!! This video is awesome! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! 🙏 🤟
She is amazing just they way she is and so are you
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Thank you. I forget that little boy in me sometimes.
@@Nando_Disco it can be easy to forget ❤️
Nando, you are worth loving.
That was an incredibly brave share! Thank you for the wisdom!!
i hope it helps🥰
Subscribed! Thank you ❤
@@rheanelken2918 😊
I’m so sorry that people made you feel that giving up your child for adoption was a bad thing! You gave your child life and a chance to be fully loved! That’s an incredibly loving gift: to want what is best for your child even if that’s not you! You had tremendous wisdom and courage- God Bless You! I hope one day you will be able to see that in yourself- I get it though it’s so hard!
No person gets up each morning and says how can I really screw up - we make the best decisions at the time we are making them and as Maya Angelou said- when we know better we must then do better- hoping you will heal and be able to give an abundance of love from that healing - you are brave and full of courage - thank you for your video♥️
that is beautiful and you are very right, no one wakes up meaning to do anything more then get through day, and hopefully be happy and feel loved.
Hi Love
(Sorry for my bad english, not my motherlanguage) Thank you for sharring. You are brave and have come a long way. This video came in the best timing. Christmas is always a though period, and feels very lonely. You sharring made my day, just had an awful phonecall with my mom and was doomscrolling to cobe with it. Found your video in my feed, and I’m happy I did.
@@metha83 I am sorry about the call, I understand though, doom scrolling was something I did to cope too, but it also opened up some doors to healing so there. Sending hugs and love to get through the Christmas season
I appreciate your decision. At this point, I think I would have preferred 10 times that my mom would have given me up for adoption.
@@AsiaRivera you will never know. I have to actively remind myself that this cliche quote is true. It all happened for a reason. And your exactly where you are supposed to be ❤️❤️
This was such a helpful, touching video. Indeed, you did the best you could with the knowledge and support you had at the time. What a beautiful soul you have grown into. You’re an inspiration. Thank you for your willingness to share and may you always be blessed ❤
thank you for your kindness. they say pain to purpose, so hopefully I can inspire others to forgive and accept themselves too
Im 59 and loathe myself.I have CPTSD and have completely failed at life.
i am sorry, and I also very much understand, I also have CTPSD. have you found someone to help you work through your trauma? therapy was the best investment I ever made
This message 💜💜🌠
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You were such a little cutiie pie.
shes a cutie :)
Rina Sawayama has an anthem for this topic, "Hold the Girl"
@@allyson-- I will have to check it out. 🥰
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