We buried our son today. / TTC after loss.

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  • Today, we said goodbye to our baby boy. We never got to meet him, we never got to hold him, and we never even got to see his face.
    Now six months after our loss, we have been trying ever since, and we have not conceived again yet.
    Trying for a baby can be exhausting. Trying after a loss can be even more so.
    If you are here because you have or are currently experiencing a loss of your own, I'm so very sorry. You are not alone in this pain. I'm here with you, just like so many others.
    I am one in four. We are one in four.
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    00:00 My pregnancy loss.
    00:40 Healing after loss.
    01:48 Sharing my experience.
    02:39 The funeral.
    06:27 Henry's memory box.
    11:01 Memorial bouquet.
    13:42 TTC after loss.
    15:39 Am I pregnant again?
    18:11 We are not alone.
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  • @jodyhuntsman4126
    @jodyhuntsman4126 8 місяців тому +5

    I am so sorry

  • @vanildaferreira8825
    @vanildaferreira8825 8 місяців тому +7

    You are so amazing! Doing this videos in this moment that is probably the saddest of your life to support other women. I wish all the love for you and your family. I will be praying for you tonight. ❤

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate this so much, thank you ♥️

  • @sanneorskov
    @sanneorskov 8 місяців тому +5

    ❤ Know what you are going through. Heartbeat in week 10 and lost in week 12. There are light at the end of the tunnel. Give yourself time to heal. Though it's years ago I still think about it, but I know that my body told me that something was wrong. But it is still hard.

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much. ♥️
      I'm so sorry you had to go through a loss too. Thank you for sharing with me. ♥️

  • @pamelaoetken5690
    @pamelaoetken5690 8 місяців тому +4

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs

  • @kenziegarvey5363
    @kenziegarvey5363 8 місяців тому +4

    You are so strong mama! We love you, Henry loves you and he’s always with you💛

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much ♥️♥️

  • @marcellemayer4772
    @marcellemayer4772 8 місяців тому +7

    Let yourself feel the pain. Don’t push it away. Take a deep breath, relax and release. Do this as often as you need . That’s processing. The energy will leave in this way.❤

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much ♥️

  • @kittykooky
    @kittykooky 8 місяців тому +5

    My sincere condolences ❤

  • @roseandtime994
    @roseandtime994 8 місяців тому +5

    Molly knew you were upset and wanted to comfort you.... Please give yourself a break.... You need it.... It will come when you least expect it.....

  • @kimahern6169
    @kimahern6169 8 місяців тому +4

    He’ll always be so loved 🩵

  • @melaniepeters4744
    @melaniepeters4744 8 місяців тому +3

    Abbie, you are such a strong person. My heart aches for you and I pray for you. Your feelings are valid. I have never experienced what you have so am not going to tell how to be or feel. Just keep strong and keep sharing your story if that's what helps you❤

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much ♥️

  • @patriciadurham815
    @patriciadurham815 8 місяців тому +5

    Sending love and prayers ❤

  • @itsjanie
    @itsjanie 8 місяців тому +2

    This is such a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing such a personal and vulnerable experience with us all. It is truly heartbreaking to hear this, but I hope you know how much it means to so many of us. 💜
    Your baby Henry will always be loved and he will be with you forever. He will watch over you, your family, and your future babies, and will always love you too. 💛

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much ♥️

  • @greenalien3857
    @greenalien3857 7 місяців тому

    Sorry to hear about the loss of your child 🌈💐

  • @itsjanie
    @itsjanie 8 місяців тому +2

    Btw I think your tattoos are beautiful, especially the butterfly for your son. 💛💜🦋

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, I appreciate that so much ♥️

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 8 місяців тому +3

    So sorry for you. Tina, Al's wife

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, Tina ♥️

  • @Kat-n-Ollie
    @Kat-n-Ollie 7 місяців тому

    I am so very sorry to hear this. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I send you many blessings 🙏 and love ❤.

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much ♥️

  • @leahclifton8749
    @leahclifton8749 8 місяців тому +3

    Sending love 😢❤

  • @jennyjenkins877
    @jennyjenkins877 8 місяців тому +2

    💛 Thank you for sharing your emotional story and about the beautiful ceremony that was held.
    I don't want to make this political but you are so well spoken and, if you feel like it's a slap in the face that your state refuses to issue a death certificate (even though the medical community at your hospital completely recognizes the loss of your baby), then maybe it's time for a change in that law. Maybe the hospital would be willing to start a petition!
    I'm sorry if any of these ideas are unwanted but I would feel bad if this information could help you and I didn't share it - Lindsay Lexus became pregnant while running her UA-cam channel and experienced a devastating miscarriage too. She credits getting pregnant again and having a full-term baby to going on a carnivore diet. I'm not entirely sure if she switched to "ketovore" during or after her pregnancy but it's basically like an elimination diet of foods that trigger an immune response and inflammation in the body. A "Low Histamine Diet" could be equally successful or possibly a "Low-FODMAP Diet" too.

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much. ♥️
      For the death certificate, it isn't something we feel we need. I expressed it more as an example of how quickly something can change within a pregnancy, or how the law will recognize a child with a difference of as little of one week gestation.
      I think that all children who are lost matter, regardless of how far along the pregnancy was, and I feel so lucky to have had a hospital who thinks the same. To provide a funeral service at no cost to the families is something truly incredible.
      Thank you again for your kindness and consideration. I truly appreciate your input. ♥️

  • @drivingmissdisney4322
    @drivingmissdisney4322 4 місяці тому

    ❤ My condolences ❤

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much. ♥️ I'm happy to let you know we have a rainbow baby on the way now! 🌈

  • @Pila2012
    @Pila2012 8 місяців тому +1

    Hello Mama, first let me say that I am so sorry for your lost. I am a Mother of 2 boys and got pregnant last year and lost it at 13 weeks didn’t know if I was having a boy or girl because we wanted to wait till delivery. Just know you are not alone.

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  8 місяців тому +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss as well. Thank you for sharing with me. ♥️

  • @bethhallman3856
    @bethhallman3856 8 місяців тому +3

    Hugs 🩵.

  • @eskilnyman089
    @eskilnyman089 8 місяців тому +3

    ❤️💙☀️, love Jannike Sweden 🕯

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 8 місяців тому

    Sorry 😢 💔

  • @dyaneuler3303
    @dyaneuler3303 7 місяців тому

    • @chicpeachaf
      @chicpeachaf  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for being here ♥️