My worst relationship mistakes (from 10 years of dating)

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  • Опубліковано 16 гру 2024

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  • @ShaneTSGTV
    @ShaneTSGTV 7 місяців тому +14

    What I have realized is that I first want to be complete with myself. I don't want to have a person who complements me, I want to be "complete" by myself, with someone who is also "complete" and then we can achieve more together, but first I have to work on myself!

  • @ielcalcita
    @ielcalcita 7 місяців тому +11

    "You deserve someone who pours in as much love and effort into you as you do into them" - agree and thanks for saying that on your video :)

  • @LaytonObserves
    @LaytonObserves 6 місяців тому +5

    The hard conversations point is so real. "If the conversation goes well, great. If it doesn't and you part ways, the relationship was never meant in the first place." Either way, knowledge win-win.

  • @shBW8719
    @shBW8719 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Tika! In this video, you have shared a universe of wisdom! Thanks and congratulations for that! I agree with almost everything you said. The bottom line: "Somebody has what you're looking for as well as somebody is looking for what you have." Romantic relationships are hard to get and harder to keep, but doable for those who persist. Wish you the best!

  • @Wild4lon
    @Wild4lon 7 місяців тому +6

    Let shit go is such good advice. I used to hold my partners to unrealistically high standards and still probably have a tendency to. Atm my gold rule is if it still bothers me a week or two later and it's recurring then bring it up.

  • @HeyHammy
    @HeyHammy 2 місяці тому

    Loved this episode. Also the timestamps are always appreciated

  • @EmilyTrinhHo
    @EmilyTrinhHo 6 місяців тому +1

    i absolutely love your vibe!!

  • @re4918
    @re4918 7 місяців тому

    Yes, the Swedish dating culture is quite unique. Many times the relationship just kind of happens after the guy introduces the girl to other people in a way that takes it from something casual to something more serious. Yes, initiation does happen from both sides, and is often not as explicit as in many other countries like the US.

  • @KenSam-x7m
    @KenSam-x7m 6 місяців тому

    love de vibe and story line eps the tips for a better relationships. thanks

  • @Serenaptt
    @Serenaptt 2 місяці тому

    Hi, what camera were you using in this video? It looks amazing. Also, I love your voice and your English accent, I can listen to your videos when I’m on the train and can still enjoy it, of course it would be better to watch it.

  • @mistahdieu
    @mistahdieu 7 місяців тому +1

    great advice & video! how do you deal with being jaded with going through failed relationship (if you are)?

  • @mwangi10
    @mwangi10 7 місяців тому +1

    love this vlogging style...and the advice..merci

  • @xav9156
    @xav9156 7 місяців тому +1

    And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make...The Beatles...Love Xav

  • @BigJoe-g3o
    @BigJoe-g3o 2 місяці тому

    wish you did street interviews. asking about various topics including how much they know about malaysia lol

  • @shaimiacabs
    @shaimiacabs 4 місяці тому

    What type of camera do you use?

    • @TikaGhafar
      @TikaGhafar  4 місяці тому

      i use the osmo pocket 3!

  • @rebeccal.672
    @rebeccal.672 7 місяців тому

    Having someone try to make you "perfect" at least to them. Sorry unless this person wants a stepford wife then forget it. No one is perfect and just remember you are perfect just the way you are warts and all.

  • @BillyWhaler
    @BillyWhaler 3 місяці тому

    I’m not a scientist but my theory is Kim Kardashian put relationships on tilt and the K-pop and kdrama finished the job. Unrealistic expectations. Every day can’t be sharing an umbrella strolling through cherry blossoms. 😂

  • @chibiitachi7828
    @chibiitachi7828 5 місяців тому

    Org Malaysia cari Nasi Lemak la for breakfast! 😁

  • @Iksvomid
    @Iksvomid 6 місяців тому

    I literally can't believe that you are able to make a mistake.

  • @edwingaray3960
    @edwingaray3960 6 місяців тому

    You are 27 you look younger

  • @msaidely
    @msaidely 4 місяці тому

    Easy Solution; eat laksa

  • @DEBTFREEMIKE769
    @DEBTFREEMIKE769 5 місяців тому

    So, the women make the first move? I may need a passport.

  • @klfighter1
    @klfighter1 7 місяців тому

    Second? 😮‍💨