The cat is trespassing and stealing your cat's food. This is hilarious. If they try to go the legal way you can file trespassing charges and sue for the stolen food and cleaning costs where the cat peed all over your house.
@@christinaburney5935 the law is different for cats and dogs. if a dog bites you, the owner is responsible, but if a cat does the same, the owner is not.
There was a guy in California who was told by his HOA to build a gate to hide his boat. He did so and commissioned an artist to paint a realistic picture of the view of the boat on the gates as if it was when there was no gate. Apparently the HOA couldn’t do anything about it.
I don't really understand, i'm not american, why it's this big of a problem to have stuff in my own yard? To me it seams just a bunch of gelous people who cannot afford a boar therefor noone can have it, or at least they have to hide it
Story 4: NTA Your wife is literally STARVING you, and using all kinds of manipulation to guilt YOU for making her cry and feel inadequate. Get a divorce lawyer YESTERDAY because you are in a very abusive situation, and you need to get out.
Whoa now let's not go to divorce just. She most likely has an eating disorder so ask for individual therapy and marriage counseling. If she says no THEN divorce her
No, don't go to couple counseling, don't have her go to therapy, go straight to a divorce lawyer and get away from her. She's gaslighting and damaging the relationship. Get it done now and don't look back.
Op really needs to start escalating and/or agreeing with the wife. Like "great appetizers, when is dinner?" Or "we've had this conversation for 6 Months straight, and you've done *nothing* to change. I'm concerned about your apparent memory problems." Or just make food and agree that: yes. Clearly she refuses to cook/change.
@@indigowulf i think if he did do that. she will cut the amount in 1/2 or even 1/4 and she get 2x-4x more to eat. the way it sound to me is she eating good or better, and he is getting the amount for a pet.
@@indigowulf Only issue is that its in murica... so that would probably be like, $1000. But, the idea is solid to basically clap her with the doctor. Like: "I have *no* idea why I feel constantly faint and nauseous. My wife if a dietician, and lets me eat 400 calories per day. And tells me that is *all* I need. So: What could be the problem?"
Not my cat story: OP, for your landlord you can try to talk to him about increasing your pet deposit and a small increase to your rent. At least you're trying to keep up with the cleaning when it sprays. As for the neighbor, well people can sue anyone for pretty much anything if they're willing to pay the filing fees and are willing to accept the penalties of losing the case. It sounds like she's neglecting her poor cat, which is one of the reasons he's adopted you. Maybe you can set up a hidden camera showing her throwing the cat back out after you've returned it to her a few times. Depends on the laws in your state. You're doing as best you can otherwise by getting neighbors saying it's not your cat. Talk to your local Humane Society about the cat situation and what you're allowed to do. Good luck. UPDATES: Wow, that was a wild ride. Glad your father got you a lawyer. At least the poor cat got the medical attention it needed and is now in a good home as well. Sheesh! Chef Petty stories: Well done sir. But I will say I PARTIALLY agree with the onion person. I prefer a SLICE of onion to having 2-3 rings of onion on my burgers/sandwiches. But I also prefer sweet onions to red, yellow or white onions. Food story: A large man working a physically demanding job burns a lot more calories than a petite, small woman doing much less physically demanding work. She's attempting to be very controlling. Personally, I would have told her at the very beginning if she didn't make you adequate amounts of food you'd go elsewhere for your meals or just fix yourself food at home regardless of what she had prepared, then do so. I'd also tell her I agree with her about her being useless as far as preparing you your meals go. Let her get mad. Sometimes the truth hurts. Good luck.
With that last story: how much is SHE eating? Because the human body needs a certain number of calories per day, just to perform the simple task of living and breathing. Add any kind of physical movement to the equation, and that number spikes. Is she eating enough? What does she do all day? Even if she conserves all her energy, she has to spend some somewhere.
Btw for people that don’t know, there is a Big Difference between Manufactured homes & trailers. We have Palm Harbor Good Sense Manufactured home with 8” thick walls that can s Super insulated
karen didnt return the home by next day because of a change of heart...she did it because she was caught. nothing was stolen/sold because she had no time. a person steals a car, is caught and car is returned is not the same as thief returning the car. if police didnt get involved she would have never returned it. she spun the story even to her lawyer to make it sound like she was justified. so again if police werent involved she'd likely have sold the home and belongings to make money
I didn't sere that part. The poor bub, I cannnot tolerate people who abuse animals, especially if they do it when they're out of the cute kitten/pup stage! My husband and I have planned on only adopting older/unwanted animals when the time comes. Our dog and two cats will be with us a while, I hope! We also feed neighborhood strays. If we can catch them, we get our vet to scan for a microchip, if there is one, the vet will call them and take care of it. If none, my husband and I pay for the neuter/spay and try to find a home for it. My husband swears there's a neon sign in our yard that only cats can see that offers, food, shelter, water and love (if they want it! ) :)
Final story of the video: OP, you're NTA. If anyone is the AH, it's your mentally abusive wife. You need to stand up for yourself, calmly tell her, "I'm NTA. You need mental help.", and/or just divorce her.
PSA: Always have security cameras if you have an HOA or Karen anywhere in the area. Always immediately call police if crimes are committed against you or your property. Story 2: Make sure you keep all correspondence from an HOA as it can be used as evidence of their crimes against you. Sending fraudulent fines through the USPS is a felony. Story 3: Take the other cat to a shelter if his owner refuses to be responsible for her animal. You can sue her for any fines or fees you incur due to her cat's damages. He's HER cat. Story 4b: OP is NTA. Wife may have some self esteem issues along with being seriously emotionally controlling that can only be helped with by a mental health professional.
You can`t legally sue cat owners over what their animals do...amusingly they have been declared independent and un-trainable and thus while you can try to sue the cat directly..the humans can`t be sued. Clearly the person who wrote that law was a dog owner but it is written in law.
Mobile homes and manufactured homes are actually two different things. There's nothing worse for someone who tries to play the hot shot, big shot, than being ostracized by their community. With things being made clear, that they're not a welcome or desired part of that community.
Story 3: OP's landlord is just using OP as a piggybank. He will fine OP if he lets the cat in and he will fine OP if he keeps the cat out. It's a guaranteed income.
Because there are rules; but too many people who happen to pay their measly rent more or less on time seem to think that that alone totally absolves them from keeping to the rules if they are not agreeing with them!
@@christiankucera7730you're ignoring the part where OP was actively seeking to solve the issue, and the several times they told the landlord it is not their cat. Landlord was being a hard ass anyway, and becoming another problem OP had to deal with on top of the cat running in and pissing on stuff and their nutcase neighbor who refused to take responsibility. Landlord should have pressured the neighbor, but went after OP because they saw $ signs.
If the neighbor really doesn't like their cat over at OP's house there is a very simple solution. Keep the cat inside. I really feel for that kitty. No kitty deserves that. I got a new kitten about 2 months ago. I decided that Sid needed a little brother. Holy cow, this cat is crazy!! He's viscous and he torments the other cats. But they get back at him by stealing his kitten food. The little guy seems to like water too. He loves to sit on the side of the tub when I'm in it with his tail in the water!! He looks like a long haired Siamese, but he's a ragdoll. He's precious when he's not tormenting people, cats or things. lol
Final story - the wife is trying to get him to lose weight without bothering to tell him what she's trying to do. Not OK. Imagine the backlash if the genders were reversed.
The cat one, u get landlord to find costs of damage and sue nebour for the damage to your apartment with landlord involved . The owner can sue u but u should have real legal case of damages
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Grand theft. If this was her first crime and not likely to repeat, I could see a judge giving her fines and community service. As for the community service, in my county you can avoid trash pickup if you can find another government service in the county who is willing to assign and monitor your community service time. So Karen could have end up sitting in an air conditioned front office answering phones all day.
When I was 12 my grandpa accused me of stealing from him and I got community service and had to call around to see if any business was willing to allow me to do my service there. I ended up at the local hospital with this kind janitor/ maintenance guy as my handler and it was so much fun! Got to meet amazing people and help build and paint the park bridge they had next to the hospital. I got such good reports from them to the probation officer that once I was done not only did the hospital cover my restitution they got them to release me 6 month early from probation. My probation officer believed me when I told him I was innocent but not much he could do when the system is not designed for the innocent child when your words carry zero weight. Found out years later my grandpa knew who actually stole from him but he thought it was a good lesson for me to learn about the harsh reality of life. Who needs enemies when you got family that loves you enough to put you through the American judicial system of injustice. 😂😢
I have the same problem with my wife's behaviour when it comes to meals to the point where I had to put my foot down regarding it. I basically explained to her that if she made food I'd eat it WITH her if she quantified the portions before hand but if It wasn't enough for my needs I would get my own & she could not complain. I got satisfying result when she tried to make me share it with her and I only bought enough for myself. I started finding foods that was mouthwatering good for my dinner but allowed her to have 1 bite only. I'm cooking my own dinner nowadays 😂
I had one who hated us feeding the foxes that lived around us. She's come up and have a go at us randomly. One day she came up to us and started screaming while we were looking after an elderly women who lived opposite us because she had just fallen over and broken her arm and we were waiting for an ambulance. Later that day we heard her laughing about it while telling the neighbours. What a nice woman.
The only residences that an HOA belongs in is apartment / condo buildings; and even then way too many HOAs do nothing while still charging every month. I pay 300 a month and my complex has no public areas or buildings unless you count grass.
Story 4: I remember a line cook once telling me He wouldn't mess with anyone's food, that was how he clothed and fed his daughter. If his worst enemy came in to eat, he might hope the guy choked on it, but he would make it the same as he made food for everyone else.
Often times these HOA's actions are dictated by just 1 or 2 individuals that think they have more powers than they actually do. If the rest of their 'constituents' knew what they were up to they'd be trouble.
Story 4: OP's wife is abusing him seriously. Unless she is too deranged to not be under medical supervision, OP should divorce her. He really is in a horrible situation.
I think the kindest (but not the most legal) thing in the third story would be to get the cat neutered so he won't spray anymore and take him to the new house OP3 was buying. The cat "adopted" him and didn't deserve to be with the neglectful neighbor. Great stories, Ripe. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
How in HELL did HOA Karen get the Oversize Load Permit to move the home if their name was not on the Title/Deed? Moving a Manufactured Home (what is also called a Trailer Home) is NOT a trivial process...they need at least 4 Permits to move...Overlength, Overwidth, Overheight and Overweight...getting those Permits takes a LOT of Paperwork submitted to the County...and no Reputable Moving Company that has the ability to move a Trailer Home will do so without those Permits because getting caught not having them is Insanely Expensive...
mobile home is what you can legally drive on the road regulatory and has the function of a home and a car at the same time. a trailer home can be transported on a trailer but as a sole function as a home at a stationary location
I laughed so hard at story 3 about a cat trolling these people and then I realized a stray cat bullied his way into my house 8 years ago and ended up as a pet
Worked nearly 2 decades in food service and never messed with a customer’s order intentionally… unless you count the revenge I got on a coworker who had previously spiked my burger with an insane amounts of jalapeños and other things. I warned him that there would be retribution and then bided my time. He and his gf come into eat one night and he orders a grilled chicken taco. We made the taco by grilling the chicken and some onions and sliced peppers, lightly seasoning said peppers and onions… except that I dumped 3/4 of the seasoning from a *freshly opened* container over both the chicken and veggies, letting it cook into it and then spritzing it away with the oil we used to spray on the grill to make it presentable. Cooked it a little more and run wrapped it up all nice and neat, and sent it off to him… and then stood near the end of the counter to enjoy the reaction. Apparently there’s a lot of salt in the seasoning. When he complained, I reminded him about his treatment of my food and we called it even, though neither one of us would make the others food order. I definitely did some petty things like the one story though, like the one lady who wanted “extra pickles” on her burger. I asked her to define what she meant, and she said “as many as I could fit on there.” Ok… bet. We had these small styro cups for gravy and I crammed *so many pickles* into that cup… I think I got at least 40 in it. Gingerly deposited said pickles onto the burger, capped it with the burger and bottom bun, and wrapped it and sent it on its way. Not even 2 minutes later I literally hear a shrill “WTF!?” from said customer who calls me over to the table to complain about the sheer amount of pickles. Situation was quickly de-escalated when I pointed out that I had done *exactly* as I had been instructed to do… and her friend was laughing hysterically over it.
Story 3: Totally reminds me of the old song "The Cat Came Back", though you didn't go to the extremes the guy in the song did. Come for the stories, stay for the adorable white kitty getting scritchies at the end.
It is Nark like Narcotics the term She "Narced on me" means that someone "She told on me" like a tattle tail child running to their parent and getting their sibling in trouble.
Last story: OMG! Is she handles you with such a tantrum and doesn't give a f... about what you actually said, then I think this marriage won't last long.
Grand Theft Mobile Home ~ we'd played that game back in the day. We preferred Grand Theft Locomotive... Bet her honeymoon got interrupted with a visitor🐈~ oh, hai!
Neighbours Cat Story: OP needs to replace his cat door with a locking pet door that will only unlock with a transponder clipped to his cat's collar... In addition to that, OP needs to serve the Neighbour with a Lawsuit for failing to control her cat. OP needs to turn the intruding cat over to Animal Control and/or the local Animal Shelter... If the cat isn't properly vaccinated or cared for, OP needs to report the Neighbour for Animal Abuse...
1st story: Why is there always a karen, no matter where you go? 2nd story: How do HOAs to their boards attract karens like pigs to poop? And how do they always know when you'll be gone long enough to pull their illegal crap? 3rd story: There's a simple way to solve the problem, just one that you can't really mention Your neighbor doesn't seem to want him 4th story: I understand it when people order extra sides, I do it myself, but being petty like this is BS Can't you charge extra for extra toppings 5th story: This sounds like those high scale restaurants that serve tiny servings for outrageous prices
Re: 1st story: Entitlement seems to be a part of American culture. You're less likely to find a Karen if you go to another country (excepting East Asian countries).
@@JamesDavy2009 I've heard karen stories from ALL over the world, not JUST America If you think, in ANY way, that you're better than someone else, you have the potential to be a karen/ken
That last one needs to take his wife with him to the doctor or a dietician and have THEM explain he needs more food then she is providing. It may just be that she has a low metabolism and honestly thinks that's all the food an adult needs because it's all SHE can eat without putting on weight. She probably also needs HER health assessed if she always eats like that, she may have a low thyroid. She sounds OCD to me. My first stepmom used to measure and weigh every ounce of food and drink she gave us. She would give us EXACTLY a cup of cereal with exactly ½ cup of milk and 4 ounces of juice for breakfast each morning. Our lunch bag had a sandwich with exactly 1 Tbsp of peanut butter and 1 Tbsp of jelly, carefully spread to the edges. Exactly a dozen grapes or ½ of a banana. 1 stalk of celery cut in sticks or 1 carrot cut in sticks, and a quarter for a carton of milk. She always insisted we choose white milk (she said it was healthier), but of course we always chose chocolate instead. She didn't limit our supper because Daddy was there, and when he was around she considered us HIS responsibility to deal with. Needless to say, that marriage only lasted a few months..... they were divorced before their first anniversary.
The husband who is being starved tell her straight out that she needs to make bigger portions. OP is not the AH but needs to be honest and tell her it's harming him and that she is doing wrong by him because she's not making enough food to sustain him. Keep telling her she's doing nothing wrong and she's going to continue to do what she's doing. Hopefully she's not as unintelligent as she's acting. Otherwise she needs help. Just because she stock to her strict barely eating anything diet doesn't mean it's healthy and it definitely isn't healthy for OP
People need to understand that cats DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FLYING FRICK, they see you as beneath them, as olivander said in the movies ‘the wand chooses the wizard’ in this case the cat chooses where they want to have their domain
😂 Cat story: By the end, if the neighbor sues for stealing the car, OP can countersue for the cost of food and the pet deposit. As for advice for the initial situation had he been sued by the neighbor and the landlord, OP can countersue the neighbor for food and the pet deposit while losing only damages to the landlord which are recovered from suing the neighbor.
In the second/title story. *ALWAYS* keep any und *ALL* paperwork, to include fines from an HOA in a file. To be used as evidence of ongoing harassment.
Boat vs Karen story: OP, you and your parents were lucky in your HOA. In far too many of them the Karens get control of the HOA to impose THEIR rules, regardless of the actual CC&R's. HOA vs mobile home: Good grief! Karen is damned lucky the mobile home wasn't damaged in the move. You need specialty trucks to move a mobile home. In many cases with mobile homes, once they are sited, the owners take the wheels off. having the home placed on blocks, in some cases on an actual foundation. But they also would have had to disconnect all the plumbing and wiring before moving it as well. And oh boy, did the HOA ever lie to their own lawyer about what was going on. I hope he resigned from that position.
Not Enough Food Story: OP needs to get his wife Therapy ASAP! She is showing signs of an eating disorder and/or some other Mental Issue... Her reactions to OP trying to bring up how small the portions are could also be a symptom of PTSD from an Abusive Past... Regardless of the cause (Personal Mental/Eating Disorder and/or being Abused in the Past), OP's Wife is in Desperate need of Psychological Treatment...
I live in the UK in a static mobile home and have done for the last 20 years. We have mains electricity, water and gas. Bought it brand new. Nowadays you can get a mortgage on them and they hold their value. I have seen them advertised for as much as £225,000.
Call animal control tell them it's not your cat but your neighbors and that she doesn't take care of it. Let them take it back over to her and when they see her toss it right back out they can take the cat or they can turn the cat over to you to be cared for. And that right there would be considered legal ownership
Title story is total BS. I say this AS a Mobile Home Owner and Manufactured Housing Development Resident. When Manufactured/Mobile Homes are installed the frame is set on concrete blocks (and leveled), the tires removed, the axles and tongue disconnected (and sometimes scrapped), multiple anchor straps installed for stability, grounding cables and rods put in, and the GAS, ELECTRICITY and OTHER UTILITIES need to be connected. All of which would need to be reversed to pull out a Mobile Home without demolition. (step order for demolition changes, but all still apply) It is usually ILLEGAL for anyone other than an APPROPIATELY LICENSED PROFESSIONAL to handle such connections and disconnections since several utilities involve elements that are potentially dangerous and/or life threatening if mishandled. Electricity, risk of electrocution; Gas, fire/explosion hazards; Sewer, Biohazard. The odds of arranging for ALL of this to happen in the single day the poster claims to have been away? Logistically, highly unlikely bordering impossible. The odds of a Mobile Home being moved and all the unsecured items inside being undamaged due to falls from inertia, impossible. Meaning there should have been Criminal Vandalism charges for anything damaged. Also, the stealing of a Mobile Home would fall under Grand Larceny due to a house being over $1,000 in value. Grand Larceny may result in: You may face 10 to 20 years in prison, a fine between $20,000 and $100,000, or both if the property is valued at between $5,000 and $35,000, or the property is: An explosive or trade secret, A schedule I or II controlled substance, or. A firearm. The story claiming she received no jail time? HIGHLY unrealistic. Especially if OP either owned a gun that was stored in the house or, had certain Prescription Medications.
Take the cat, get it fixed, set him up in your new house. Two cats. Seems he has fixated on you as his new owner. Love and loyalty. Take it to your new home-- you will not regret it.
It happened to me-in a time of yore known as the late '90s, an aunt of mine had a white cat named Sheba. She lived across the road and whenever I visited the aunt, I would give Sheba some attention. Fast forward and Sheba eventually adopted me and lived with my family as a second cat.
In some ways I'd prefer the cat over a person. A person can become a huge problem by causing problems in a person's life. Yes a cat or even a dog can cause issues, but usually no where near what a person can cause.
Male cats spray to mark territory. When they are fixed they are less likely to spray. It is rare for the males when fixed to stop spraying all together but it does happen. Also, you have a female cat, not all female cats stop going into heat when they are fixed. The fact that she did not have her cat fixed and tossed him outside should have been reported to the Humane society in your area. Also, report all that she has done to them, if you had done that, the Humane Society would not let her have the cat. She was training her cat to become feral. I ended up with two cats because a neighbor got them from the HS and found out their mother was allergic to them so they got tossed out for the neighborhood to take care of them. One day one of them got sick so I went to the neighbor and told them so but they just said, "You can have them" so i took them to the vet and got them updated on their shots plus medicine for the sick one. Living in a college town you have students who get puppies and kittens and don't realize just how much work and training you have to do. And when the puppy or kitten grows up, they aren't as cute anymore so they are booted out. Or they have to move and can't take the animal with them so they leave it behind.
Yes the landlord can sue you for damage but you can also sue your neighbor since it is her cat for reimbursement for what you had to pay , you can also sue for the cat food her cat ate if you have receipts.
Most HOA's are benevolent organizations and actually do good things. You almost never hear about the good ones. They organize the neighborhood to keep common areas like, for example, the central clubhouse, neighborhood pool or condo building maintained. When entitled, narcissistic, OCD, greedy, stubborn, criminal, A-hats get to be in charge then there are problems.
my parents own property in essentially an hoa (not called one but similar) they seem fair and do allow motor homes just 10 months of the year (2 specific months is a no no)
Story 4: gladly im the one who cooks, so i cook what i want to eat and how much i want. Im about to make me some spaguetti with meat sauce and some grinded cheese on top.
Home-stealing Karen should have gone to prison. I hope the HOA had to pay OP for the MH towing charges, that ain't cheap! 🤨 Cat story... SUE that neighbor for damages, lock the pet door, take cat to the shelter, see about moving. 🤨
Story 2 manufactured home or mobile home aren't that easily moved they still have connections for water, sewer and power at the least. HOAs aren't the government they can't make laws they can only make rules. While not a traditional foundation alot of mobile homes have the wheels removed and are put on at least cinder blocks, then connected to the ground with some form of tie downs. Sounds like Karen was just waiting and started to move shortly after OP left
yes, it sounds like "nark" not "nars" it's shorthand for "narcotics" and it means someone who is working with the narcotics police team/unit behind the backs of the local dealers
Press charges against the cat for trespassing and stealing your 🐈 cat's food 😂😆. Your neighbor is responsible for it, tell her next time you will call animal control. In my area it's $65 to get the pet back after being picked up. Neighbor will get tired of that cost 10-20 times a month. You can bet it's spraying her house too which is why she wants it outside, probably due to not being spayed or neutered (I don't know which is for male animals). Soon she will keep it indoors or it will be with a new owner who actually cares about it
I don't know where the cat story took place, but most areas of the US do not have cat leash laws. Therefore if the cat damages anything, the only person responsible to fix it is the one who owns the damaged property, regardless of who actually owns the cat. OP did the right thing treating it as feral for TNR, but nobody in the story could have been successfully sued for damages the cat caused.
The person calling a manufactured home a mobile home, they aren’t the same thing. Mobile homes are on steel rails making them a trailer, aka mobile. Manufactured homes are traditionally built and not really any different then any other house other then the sizes being picked specifically for the ability to move it to it’s permanent location.
The first story, at least the HO.A. at the time was a good one, let's just hope it stayed that way. Now you dang bots get off of Ripe lawn and leave him alone, he don't want you or your type around.
Letting an unfixed male cat run wild alone is shameful pet owner behavior. Unfixed males mark way more, and cat urine is infamously difficult to remove. On top of that, he's probably helping populate any stray cat communities around. On top of all the other info in the story, the cat owner is not fit for pet ownership.
just start malicious compliance style, asking for seconds and dessert like it's expected, and refuse to engage with her manipulative bs. she'll either adapt and grow as a person, or her true colors will show very fast
Cat story sounds familiar, if a cat doesn't want to leave, it won't! I have a neighbor-cat just like it and have installed a catdoor that works with a chipreader and only opens for my cats. So at least he doesn't come in my house anymore, as he also sprayed here and there, ruining stuff. Besides, good catfood isn't cheap, and I'm not willing to pay for someone else's cat. The neighbor also does absolutely nothing to keep the cat contained more at her place. Just tosses it out about 24/7 as she is barely even home herself. She couldve made at least some sort of shelter for her cats in the shed she has. Put a cat door in, some catbeds and some food, but no... there is absolutely nothing there for those poor cats. So they roam the neighborhood and steal food from other catowners. And i would've fed them, but my cats do not like that one cat and get stressed out, so I try my best to keep him away, but to no avail as he is in our yard daily. At least he can't get in my house anymore. Since his owner isn't paying for any damages because of the spraying either, nor will she pay for all the food he's been eating previously. Ps I live in the Netherlands, its pretty common to see cats outside here, as we don't have big predatory animals roaming around, like bears, coyotes and such. They're relatively safe here. My cats don't really go beyond our own yard, so I am thinking of completely making it cat-proof, so no others can come in and my cats can have some peace and quiet in their own yard.
all is a gigantic no also the other cat own probably could get arrested for animal neglect sense she has no control over her cat and she seems to not being tacking care of it so all the fines would go to her 16:13
We have one who lives near my aunts house who seems to think it’s her job to report everything she wants to the state government but we have no hoa cause they have no power in the state I live in are laws prevent them
They cannot sue you for not your animal you should sue her not only for neglecting a animal witch could be seen as animal abuse you also getting emotionally harassed by her and the landlord for something that is not your problem Don't cut your animals let them be natural if you gonna neuter your pet neuter yourself
Cat story: it's just completely abysmal that the cat is going over towards OP's area because the owner of that cat is literally mistreating it. I mean seriously that is a terrible cat owner. Honestly what's the point of keeping a cat if they are not going to treat it with respect and love
A spraying tomcat getting fixed is most certainly not "ruining" the cat, that stink is terrible. Poor boy, luckily it's now in a real home with no one chasing him away or not feeding him. cats have moved into my house and I get them fixed and vaccinated etc. No one who cares about their cats leaves it unfixed to roam and they don't give the vet treatment either.
The wife might be trying to get the husband on a diet. Instead of confrontation, women will often use tactical phrasing and such to let men think something is “their” choice or decision. A couple of guys I know will also do this in a non-confrontational way of getting their wives on diets. That and inviting them to go on hikes.
If a cat adopts you and its original owner is horrible, it's your cat. That's how the cat distribution system works. I don't make the rules.
Right?!?! But it has to be you they adopt, not the food. But yes, I agree completely with you!
The cat is trespassing and stealing your cat's food. This is hilarious. If they try to go the legal way you can file trespassing charges and sue for the stolen food and cleaning costs where the cat peed all over your house.
Amusingly no you can`t. Cat owners legally aren`t responsible for what their animals do. You can try but you will be laughed out of court.
@@berain-vo9ur This isn't true at all. When dogs bite or destroy things people sue for that all the time and win. You just rarely see it for cats.
@@christinaburney5935 the law is different for cats and dogs. if a dog bites you, the owner is responsible, but if a cat does the same, the owner is not.
There was a guy in California who was told by his HOA to build a gate to hide his boat. He did so and commissioned an artist to paint a realistic picture of the view of the boat on the gates as if it was when there was no gate. Apparently the HOA couldn’t do anything about it.
I saw that. It was very realistic too. Hilarious.
I don't really understand, i'm not american, why it's this big of a problem to have stuff in my own yard? To me it seams just a bunch of gelous people who cannot afford a boar therefor noone can have it, or at least they have to hide it
Treated like a child, respond like a child 😂
Story 4: NTA Your wife is literally STARVING you, and using all kinds of manipulation to guilt YOU for making her cry and feel inadequate. Get a divorce lawyer YESTERDAY because you are in a very abusive situation, and you need to get out.
Whoa now let's not go to divorce just. She most likely has an eating disorder so ask for individual therapy and marriage counseling. If she says no THEN divorce her
Fucking exactly, textbook manipulation from her end, and he's too dense to see it.
That is emotional blackmail! She is trying to control you. Get counciling.
@@markitawilliams4219I agree with this. There's a time and place for pack a bag and run. This isn't it. Ask for some kind of therapy/consoling first.
No, don't go to couple counseling, don't have her go to therapy, go straight to a divorce lawyer and get away from her. She's gaslighting and damaging the relationship. Get it done now and don't look back.
Op really needs to start escalating and/or agreeing with the wife. Like "great appetizers, when is dinner?" Or "we've had this conversation for 6 Months straight, and you've done *nothing* to change. I'm concerned about your apparent memory problems." Or just make food and agree that: yes. Clearly she refuses to cook/change.
Or be direct: "show me where it says a grown man can survive on 400 calories per day."
he should bring his wife to the doctor with him for a checkup, and have the doctor tell his wife directly how many calories he should be eating
@@indigowulf i think if he did do that. she will cut the amount in 1/2 or even 1/4 and she get 2x-4x more to eat. the way it sound to me is she eating good or better, and he is getting the amount for a pet.
@@indigowulf Only issue is that its in murica... so that would probably be like, $1000. But, the idea is solid to basically clap her with the doctor. Like: "I have *no* idea why I feel constantly faint and nauseous. My wife if a dietician, and lets me eat 400 calories per day. And tells me that is *all* I need. So: What could be the problem?"
Cat story: In my opinion it seems like OP's neighbor isn't a good pet owner; it is special when a cat chooses you though. Good for OP to ask reddit.
Not my cat story: OP, for your landlord you can try to talk to him about increasing your pet deposit and a small increase to your rent. At least you're trying to keep up with the cleaning when it sprays. As for the neighbor, well people can sue anyone for pretty much anything if they're willing to pay the filing fees and are willing to accept the penalties of losing the case. It sounds like she's neglecting her poor cat, which is one of the reasons he's adopted you. Maybe you can set up a hidden camera showing her throwing the cat back out after you've returned it to her a few times. Depends on the laws in your state. You're doing as best you can otherwise by getting neighbors saying it's not your cat. Talk to your local Humane
Society about the cat situation and what you're allowed to do. Good luck.
UPDATES: Wow, that was a wild ride. Glad your father got you a lawyer. At least the poor cat got the medical attention it needed and is now in a good home as well. Sheesh!
Chef Petty stories: Well done sir. But I will say I PARTIALLY agree with the onion person. I prefer a SLICE of onion to having 2-3 rings of onion on my burgers/sandwiches. But I also prefer sweet onions to red, yellow or white onions.
Food story: A large man working a physically demanding job burns a lot more calories than a petite, small woman doing much less physically demanding work. She's attempting to be very controlling. Personally, I would have told her at the very beginning if she didn't make you adequate amounts of food you'd go elsewhere for your meals or just fix yourself food at home regardless of what she had prepared, then do so. I'd also tell her I agree with her about her being useless as far as preparing you your meals go. Let her get mad. Sometimes the truth hurts. Good luck.
With that last story: how much is SHE eating? Because the human body needs a certain number of calories per day, just to perform the simple task of living and breathing. Add any kind of physical movement to the equation, and that number spikes. Is she eating enough? What does she do all day? Even if she conserves all her energy, she has to spend some somewhere.
The average energy intake for a human adult is 8.7 MJ or 2,081.34 kcal per day.
Btw for people that don’t know, there is a Big Difference between Manufactured homes & trailers. We have Palm Harbor Good Sense Manufactured home with 8” thick walls that can s Super insulated
karen didnt return the home by next day because of a change of heart...she did it because she was caught. nothing was stolen/sold because she had no time.
a person steals a car, is caught and car is returned is not the same as thief returning the car. if police didnt get involved she would have never returned it.
she spun the story even to her lawyer to make it sound like she was justified. so again if police werent involved she'd likely have sold the home and belongings to make money
I’m glad the cat has a good home now!😅😊
I didn't sere that part. The poor bub, I cannnot tolerate people who abuse animals, especially if they do it when they're out of the cute kitten/pup stage! My husband and I have planned on only adopting older/unwanted animals when the time comes. Our dog and two cats will be with us a while, I hope!
We also feed neighborhood strays. If we can catch them, we get our vet to scan for a microchip, if there is one, the vet will call them and take care of it. If none, my husband and I pay for the neuter/spay and try to find a home for it. My husband swears there's a neon sign in our yard that only cats can see that offers, food, shelter, water and love (if they want it! ) :)
Final story of the video: OP, you're NTA. If anyone is the AH, it's your mentally abusive wife. You need to stand up for yourself, calmly tell her, "I'm NTA. You need mental help.", and/or just divorce her.
Sounded to me like the wife was a militant anorexic.
PSA: Always have security cameras if you have an HOA or Karen anywhere in the area. Always immediately call police if crimes are committed against you or your property.
Story 2: Make sure you keep all correspondence from an HOA as it can be used as evidence of their crimes against you. Sending fraudulent fines through the USPS is a felony.
Story 3: Take the other cat to a shelter if his owner refuses to be responsible for her animal. You can sue her for any fines or fees you incur due to her cat's damages. He's HER cat.
Story 4b: OP is NTA. Wife may have some self esteem issues along with being seriously emotionally controlling that can only be helped with by a mental health professional.
The OP whom had the cat adopting them: I would not have left my pet deposit or have sued the neighbor for the damages that her cat did.
You can`t legally sue cat owners over what their animals do...amusingly they have been declared independent and un-trainable and thus while you can try to sue the cat directly..the humans can`t be sued. Clearly the person who wrote that law was a dog owner but it is written in law.
@berain-vo9ur where did you read this?
@@berain-vo9ur where did you read this?
Mobile homes and manufactured homes are actually two different things. There's nothing worse for someone who tries to play the hot shot, big shot, than being ostracized by their community. With things being made clear, that they're not a welcome or desired part of that community.
Story 3: OP's landlord is just using OP as a piggybank. He will fine OP if he lets the cat in and he will fine OP if he keeps the cat out. It's a guaranteed income.
Because there are rules; but too many people who happen to pay their measly rent more or less on time seem to think that that alone totally absolves them from keeping to the rules if they are not agreeing with them!
@@christiankucera7730you're ignoring the part where OP was actively seeking to solve the issue, and the several times they told the landlord it is not their cat. Landlord was being a hard ass anyway, and becoming another problem OP had to deal with on top of the cat running in and pissing on stuff and their nutcase neighbor who refused to take responsibility. Landlord should have pressured the neighbor, but went after OP because they saw $ signs.
If the neighbor really doesn't like their cat over at OP's house there is a very simple solution. Keep the cat inside. I really feel for that kitty. No kitty deserves that. I got a new kitten about 2 months ago. I decided that Sid needed a little brother. Holy cow, this cat is crazy!! He's viscous and he torments the other cats. But they get back at him by stealing his kitten food. The little guy seems to like water too. He loves to sit on the side of the tub when I'm in it with his tail in the water!! He looks like a long haired Siamese, but he's a ragdoll. He's precious when he's not tormenting people, cats or things. lol
Man, last time I was this early, my wife wasn't impressed. 😂
Final story - the wife is trying to get him to lose weight without bothering to tell him what she's trying to do. Not OK. Imagine the backlash if the genders were reversed.
The cat one, u get landlord to find costs of damage and sue nebour for the damage to your apartment with landlord involved . The owner can sue u but u should have real legal case of damages
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I hope Butternut the kitty (because he slips in so easily and survived a Nutter 🤣) has a wonderful life on the farm.
Grand theft. If this was her first crime and not likely to repeat, I could see a judge giving her fines and community service. As for the community service, in my county you can avoid trash pickup if you can find another government service in the county who is willing to assign and monitor your community service time. So Karen could have end up sitting in an air conditioned front office answering phones all day.
When I was 12 my grandpa accused me of stealing from him and I got community service and had to call around to see if any business was willing to allow me to do my service there. I ended up at the local hospital with this kind janitor/ maintenance guy as my handler and it was so much fun! Got to meet amazing people and help build and paint the park bridge they had next to the hospital. I got such good reports from them to the probation officer that once I was done not only did the hospital cover my restitution they got them to release me 6 month early from probation. My probation officer believed me when I told him I was innocent but not much he could do when the system is not designed for the innocent child when your words carry zero weight. Found out years later my grandpa knew who actually stole from him but he thought it was a good lesson for me to learn about the harsh reality of life. Who needs enemies when you got family that loves you enough to put you through the American judicial system of injustice. 😂😢
I have the same problem with my wife's behaviour when it comes to meals to the point where I had to put my foot down regarding it.
I basically explained to her that if she made food I'd eat it WITH her if she quantified the portions before hand but if It wasn't enough for my needs I would get my own & she could not complain.
I got satisfying result when she tried to make me share it with her and I only bought enough for myself.
I started finding foods that was mouthwatering good for my dinner but allowed her to have 1 bite only.
I'm cooking my own dinner nowadays 😂
I had one who hated us feeding the foxes that lived around us. She's come up and have a go at us randomly. One day she came up to us and started screaming while we were looking after an elderly women who lived opposite us because she had just fallen over and broken her arm and we were waiting for an ambulance. Later that day we heard her laughing about it while telling the neighbours. What a nice woman.
Thank goodness your dad now has the abused cat from the nightmare neighbor. The cat was running away from the crazy abusive nut job
A cat is a FRIEND, FAMILY AND PET *NOT PROPERTY* OMFG THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT SHOULD NEVER HAVE A PET!!!
The only residences that an HOA belongs in is apartment / condo buildings; and even then way too many HOAs do nothing while still charging every month. I pay 300 a month and my complex has no public areas or buildings unless you count grass.
Story 4: I remember a line cook once telling me He wouldn't mess with anyone's food, that was how he clothed and fed his daughter. If his worst enemy came in to eat, he might hope the guy choked on it, but he would make it the same as he made food for everyone else.
Often times these HOA's actions are dictated by just 1 or 2 individuals that think they have more powers than they actually do. If the rest of their 'constituents' knew what they were up to they'd be trouble.
Yet another case of a Karen treating an HOA as their own micronation.
Story 4: OP's wife is abusing him seriously. Unless she is too deranged to not be under medical supervision, OP should divorce her. He really is in a horrible situation.
Sounded to me like the wife was a militant anorexic.
I think the kindest (but not the most legal) thing in the third story would be to get the cat neutered so he won't spray anymore and take him to the new house OP3 was buying. The cat "adopted" him and didn't deserve to be with the neglectful neighbor. Great stories, Ripe.
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Wonderful stories again today Ripe, hope You all had a great weekend, keep up the great work & I will see you again tomorrow,,😻😻😻😻😻⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
That shrimp one was genius
How in HELL did HOA Karen get the Oversize Load Permit to move the home if their name was not on the Title/Deed?
Moving a Manufactured Home (what is also called a Trailer Home) is NOT a trivial process...they need at least 4 Permits to move...Overlength, Overwidth, Overheight and Overweight...getting those Permits takes a LOT of Paperwork submitted to the County...and no Reputable Moving Company that has the ability to move a Trailer Home will do so without those Permits because getting caught not having them is Insanely Expensive...
Forged/fake deeds
Our HOA is amazing. Very few rules, we all get along, everything is neatly maintained. We lucked out.
Mine is like that too. HOA dues are $25 a YEAR!!
@@Julieb615 nice! $137 month but we have a pool, tennis courts and our lawns/roofs/roads maintained very well.
mobile home is what you can legally drive on the road regulatory and has the function of a home and a car at the same time. a trailer home can be transported on a trailer but as a sole function as a home at a stationary location
That cat must of been so DRAINING MENTALLY as all cats are normally
I laughed so hard at story 3 about a cat trolling these people and then I realized a stray cat bullied his way into my house 8 years ago and ended up as a pet
get your cat chipped and then get a chip reading cat door
Howdy Hi Ripe & All You wonderful people, time for fine stories from our Friend Ripe,,😻😻😻⭐⭐⭐
Cat: you allowed the problem. The Cat door, skunks, raccoons and possums could also come in. Shut the cat door and clean up the mess.
Worked nearly 2 decades in food service and never messed with a customer’s order intentionally… unless you count the revenge I got on a coworker who had previously spiked my burger with an insane amounts of jalapeños and other things. I warned him that there would be retribution and then bided my time.
He and his gf come into eat one night and he orders a grilled chicken taco. We made the taco by grilling the chicken and some onions and sliced peppers, lightly seasoning said peppers and onions… except that I dumped 3/4 of the seasoning from a *freshly opened* container over both the chicken and veggies, letting it cook into it and then spritzing it away with the oil we used to spray on the grill to make it presentable.
Cooked it a little more and run wrapped it up all nice and neat, and sent it off to him… and then stood near the end of the counter to enjoy the reaction. Apparently there’s a lot of salt in the seasoning. When he complained, I reminded him about his treatment of my food and we called it even, though neither one of us would make the others food order.
I definitely did some petty things like the one story though, like the one lady who wanted “extra pickles” on her burger. I asked her to define what she meant, and she said “as many as I could fit on there.” Ok… bet.
We had these small styro cups for gravy and I crammed *so many pickles* into that cup… I think I got at least 40 in it. Gingerly deposited said pickles onto the burger, capped it with the burger and bottom bun, and wrapped it and sent it on its way.
Not even 2 minutes later I literally hear a shrill “WTF!?” from said customer who calls me over to the table to complain about the sheer amount of pickles. Situation was quickly de-escalated when I pointed out that I had done *exactly* as I had been instructed to do… and her friend was laughing hysterically over it.
Story 3: Totally reminds me of the old song "The Cat Came Back", though you didn't go to the extremes the guy in the song did.
Come for the stories, stay for the adorable white kitty getting scritchies at the end.
It is Nark like Narcotics the term She "Narced on me" means that someone "She told on me" like a tattle tail child running to their parent and getting their sibling in trouble.
Last story: OMG! Is she handles you with such a tantrum and doesn't give a f... about what you actually said, then I think this marriage won't last long.
Grand Theft Mobile Home ~ we'd played that game back in the day. We preferred Grand Theft Locomotive...
Bet her honeymoon got interrupted with a visitor🐈~ oh, hai!
They stole my house, perfect time to go camping... 😂😂😂
Neighbours Cat Story: OP needs to replace his cat door with a locking pet door that will only unlock with a transponder clipped to his cat's collar...
In addition to that, OP needs to serve the Neighbour with a Lawsuit for failing to control her cat.
OP needs to turn the intruding cat over to Animal Control and/or the local Animal Shelter...
If the cat isn't properly vaccinated or cared for, OP needs to report the Neighbour for Animal Abuse...
1st story: Why is there always a karen, no matter where you go?
2nd story: How do HOAs to their boards attract karens like pigs to poop? And how do they always know when you'll be gone long enough to pull their illegal crap?
3rd story: There's a simple way to solve the problem, just one that you can't really mention
Your neighbor doesn't seem to want him
4th story: I understand it when people order extra sides, I do it myself, but being petty like this is BS
Can't you charge extra for extra toppings
5th story: This sounds like those high scale restaurants that serve tiny servings for outrageous prices
Re: 1st story: Entitlement seems to be a part of American culture. You're less likely to find a Karen if you go to another country (excepting East Asian countries).
@@JamesDavy2009 I've heard karen stories from ALL over the world, not JUST America
If you think, in ANY way, that you're better than someone else, you have the potential to be a karen/ken
Again, never ignore an HOA. They come after you, lawyer up immediately.
That wife story: that's weaponized incompetence.
That last one needs to take his wife with him to the doctor or a dietician and have THEM explain he needs more food then she is providing. It may just be that she has a low metabolism and honestly thinks that's all the food an adult needs because it's all SHE can eat without putting on weight. She probably also needs HER health assessed if she always eats like that, she may have a low thyroid.
She sounds OCD to me. My first stepmom used to measure and weigh every ounce of food and drink she gave us.
She would give us EXACTLY a cup of cereal with exactly ½ cup of milk and 4 ounces of juice for breakfast each morning.
Our lunch bag had a sandwich with exactly 1 Tbsp of peanut butter and 1 Tbsp of jelly, carefully spread to the edges. Exactly a dozen grapes or ½ of a banana. 1 stalk of celery cut in sticks or 1 carrot cut in sticks, and a quarter for a carton of milk. She always insisted we choose white milk (she said it was healthier), but of course we always chose chocolate instead.
She didn't limit our supper because Daddy was there, and when he was around she considered us HIS responsibility to deal with. Needless to say, that marriage only lasted a few months..... they were divorced before their first anniversary.
The husband who is being starved tell her straight out that she needs to make bigger portions. OP is not the AH but needs to be honest and tell her it's harming him and that she is doing wrong by him because she's not making enough food to sustain him. Keep telling her she's doing nothing wrong and she's going to continue to do what she's doing. Hopefully she's not as unintelligent as she's acting. Otherwise she needs help. Just because she stock to her strict barely eating anything diet doesn't mean it's healthy and it definitely isn't healthy for OP
People need to understand that cats DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FLYING FRICK, they see you as beneath them, as olivander said in the movies ‘the wand chooses the wizard’ in this case the cat chooses where they want to have their domain
OMG, an actual GOOD HOA? Thank you so much for sharing.
Quinoa = keen wah; narced = narked
😂 Cat story:
By the end, if the neighbor sues for stealing the car, OP can countersue for the cost of food and the pet deposit.
As for advice for the initial situation had he been sued by the neighbor and the landlord, OP can countersue the neighbor for food and the pet deposit while losing only damages to the landlord which are recovered from suing the neighbor.
In the second/title story. *ALWAYS* keep any und *ALL* paperwork, to include fines from an HOA in a file. To be used as evidence of ongoing harassment.
Boat vs Karen story: OP, you and your parents were lucky in your HOA. In far too many of them the Karens get control of the HOA to impose THEIR rules, regardless of the actual CC&R's.
HOA vs mobile home: Good grief! Karen is damned lucky the mobile home wasn't damaged in the move. You need specialty trucks to move a mobile home. In many cases with mobile homes, once they are sited, the owners take the wheels off. having the home placed on blocks, in some cases on an actual foundation. But they also would have had to disconnect all the plumbing and wiring before moving it as well. And oh boy, did the HOA ever lie to their own lawyer about what was going on. I hope he resigned from that position.
Not Enough Food Story: OP needs to get his wife Therapy ASAP! She is showing signs of an eating disorder and/or some other Mental Issue...
Her reactions to OP trying to bring up how small the portions are could also be a symptom of PTSD from an Abusive Past...
Regardless of the cause (Personal Mental/Eating Disorder and/or being Abused in the Past), OP's Wife is in Desperate need of Psychological Treatment...
I live in the UK in a static mobile home and have done for the last 20 years. We have mains electricity, water and gas. Bought it brand new. Nowadays you can get a mortgage on them and they hold their value. I have seen them advertised for as much as £225,000.
Call animal control tell them it's not your cat but your neighbors and that she doesn't take care of it. Let them take it back over to her and when they see her toss it right back out they can take the cat or they can turn the cat over to you to be cared for. And that right there would be considered legal ownership
Title story is total BS. I say this AS a Mobile Home Owner and Manufactured Housing Development Resident.
When Manufactured/Mobile Homes are installed the frame is set on concrete blocks (and leveled), the tires removed, the axles and tongue disconnected (and sometimes scrapped), multiple anchor straps installed for stability, grounding cables and rods put in, and the GAS, ELECTRICITY and OTHER UTILITIES need to be connected. All of which would need to be reversed to pull out a Mobile Home without demolition. (step order for demolition changes, but all still apply)
It is usually ILLEGAL for anyone other than an APPROPIATELY LICENSED PROFESSIONAL to handle such connections and disconnections since several utilities involve elements that are potentially dangerous and/or life threatening if mishandled. Electricity, risk of electrocution; Gas, fire/explosion hazards; Sewer, Biohazard.
The odds of arranging for ALL of this to happen in the single day the poster claims to have been away? Logistically, highly unlikely bordering impossible.
The odds of a Mobile Home being moved and all the unsecured items inside being undamaged due to falls from inertia, impossible. Meaning there should have been Criminal Vandalism charges for anything damaged.
Also, the stealing of a Mobile Home would fall under Grand Larceny due to a house being over $1,000 in value. Grand Larceny may result in: You may face 10 to 20 years in prison, a fine between $20,000 and $100,000, or both if the property is valued at between $5,000 and $35,000, or the property is: An explosive or trade secret, A schedule I or II controlled substance, or. A firearm.
The story claiming she received no jail time? HIGHLY unrealistic. Especially if OP either owned a gun that was stored in the house or, had certain Prescription Medications.
When I get a deli sandwich I ask for full disks of red onion, but I'm weird like that
When I get my take-out order home, I always add what I want to it, but maybe not a whole onion or a mountain of pickles.
Take the cat, get it fixed, set him up in your new house.
Two cats.
Seems he has fixated on you as his new owner.
Love and loyalty. Take it to your new home-- you will not regret it.
It happened to me-in a time of yore known as the late '90s, an aunt of mine had a white cat named Sheba. She lived across the road and whenever I visited the aunt, I would give Sheba some attention. Fast forward and Sheba eventually adopted me and lived with my family as a second cat.
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That poor cat! And poor OP, too.
In some ways I'd prefer the cat over a person. A person can become a huge problem by causing problems in a person's life. Yes a cat or even a dog can cause issues, but usually no where near what a person can cause.
THE CAT NOT BEING FIXED AT 6 MONTHS UP TO A YEAR IS THE REASON HE SPRAYS SO MUCH.
MY ALLEY USED TO DO THAT TILL HE WAS FIXED
Male cats spray to mark territory. When they are fixed they are less likely to spray. It is rare for the males when fixed to stop spraying all together but it does happen. Also, you have a female cat, not all female cats stop going into heat when they are fixed. The fact that she did not have her cat fixed and tossed him outside should have been reported to the Humane society in your area. Also, report all that she has done to them, if you had done that, the Humane Society would not let her have the cat. She was training her cat to become feral. I ended up with two cats because a neighbor got them from the HS and found out their mother was allergic to them so they got tossed out for the neighborhood to take care of them. One day one of them got sick so I went to the neighbor and told them so but they just said, "You can have them" so i took them to the vet and got them updated on their shots plus medicine for the sick one. Living in a college town you have students who get puppies and kittens and don't realize just how much work and training you have to do. And when the puppy or kitten grows up, they aren't as cute anymore so they are booted out. Or they have to move and can't take the animal with them so they leave it behind.
Yes the landlord can sue you for damage but you can also sue your neighbor since it is her cat for reimbursement for what you had to pay , you can also sue for the cat food her cat ate if you have receipts.
Most HOA's are benevolent organizations and actually do good things. You almost never hear about the good ones. They organize the neighborhood to keep common areas like, for example, the central clubhouse, neighborhood pool or condo building maintained. When entitled, narcissistic, OCD, greedy, stubborn, criminal, A-hats get to be in charge then there are problems.
Story 3 - VERY irresponsible cat owner that shouldn't have cats anyway! Not neutering him, or giving him shots, and letting him roam! SO wrong!
my parents own property in essentially an hoa (not called one but similar) they seem fair and do allow motor homes just 10 months of the year (2 specific months is a no no)
Story 4: gladly im the one who cooks, so i cook what i want to eat and how much i want. Im about to make me some spaguetti with meat sauce and some grinded cheese on top.
If you feed a stray cat ONCE it'll never leave.
Home-stealing Karen should have gone to prison. I hope the HOA had to pay OP for the MH towing charges, that ain't cheap! 🤨
Cat story... SUE that neighbor for damages, lock the pet door, take cat to the shelter, see about moving. 🤨
Take the cat, get him fixed, keep him when you move. Don't let anyone know where you go.
Story 2 manufactured home or mobile home aren't that easily moved they still have connections for water, sewer and power at the least. HOAs aren't the government they can't make laws they can only make rules. While not a traditional foundation alot of mobile homes have the wheels removed and are put on at least cinder blocks, then connected to the ground with some form of tie downs. Sounds like Karen was just waiting and started to move shortly after OP left
yes, it sounds like "nark" not "nars" it's shorthand for "narcotics" and it means someone who is working with the narcotics police team/unit behind the backs of the local dealers
I many states if a dog or cat comes onto your property and chooses to stay it is yours.
Press charges against the cat for trespassing and stealing your 🐈 cat's food 😂😆. Your neighbor is responsible for it, tell her next time you will call animal control. In my area it's $65 to get the pet back after being picked up. Neighbor will get tired of that cost 10-20 times a month. You can bet it's spraying her house too which is why she wants it outside, probably due to not being spayed or neutered (I don't know which is for male animals). Soon she will keep it indoors or it will be with a new owner who actually cares about it
I don't know where the cat story took place, but most areas of the US do not have cat leash laws. Therefore if the cat damages anything, the only person responsible to fix it is the one who owns the damaged property, regardless of who actually owns the cat. OP did the right thing treating it as feral for TNR, but nobody in the story could have been successfully sued for damages the cat caused.
The person calling a manufactured home a mobile home, they aren’t the same thing. Mobile homes are on steel rails making them a trailer, aka mobile. Manufactured homes are traditionally built and not really any different then any other house other then the sizes being picked specifically for the ability to move it to it’s permanent location.
Cat story: Lead therapy will work on the cat, also sue the neighbor fir damages
The first story, at least the HO.A. at the time was a good one, let's just hope it stayed that way.
Now you dang bots get off of Ripe lawn and leave him alone, he don't want you or your type around.
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Trespassing cat? Don't buy the cat. Check. Lawyer up on the neighbor and landlord. Check. Poor cat sent to the farm. Check.
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Cat distribution service at work
Letting an unfixed male cat run wild alone is shameful pet owner behavior. Unfixed males mark way more, and cat urine is infamously difficult to remove. On top of that, he's probably helping populate any stray cat communities around. On top of all the other info in the story, the cat owner is not fit for pet ownership.
just start malicious compliance style, asking for seconds and dessert like it's expected, and refuse to engage with her manipulative bs. she'll either adapt and grow as a person, or her true colors will show very fast
Cat story sounds familiar, if a cat doesn't want to leave, it won't! I have a neighbor-cat just like it and have installed a catdoor that works with a chipreader and only opens for my cats. So at least he doesn't come in my house anymore, as he also sprayed here and there, ruining stuff. Besides, good catfood isn't cheap, and I'm not willing to pay for someone else's cat. The neighbor also does absolutely nothing to keep the cat contained more at her place. Just tosses it out about 24/7 as she is barely even home herself. She couldve made at least some sort of shelter for her cats in the shed she has. Put a cat door in, some catbeds and some food, but no... there is absolutely nothing there for those poor cats. So they roam the neighborhood and steal food from other catowners. And i would've fed them, but my cats do not like that one cat and get stressed out, so I try my best to keep him away, but to no avail as he is in our yard daily. At least he can't get in my house anymore. Since his owner isn't paying for any damages because of the spraying either, nor will she pay for all the food he's been eating previously. Ps I live in the Netherlands, its pretty common to see cats outside here, as we don't have big predatory animals roaming around, like bears, coyotes and such. They're relatively safe here. My cats don't really go beyond our own yard, so I am thinking of completely making it cat-proof, so no others can come in and my cats can have some peace and quiet in their own yard.
all is a gigantic no also the other cat own probably could get arrested for animal neglect sense she has no control over her cat and she seems to not being tacking care of it so all the fines would go to her 16:13
We have one who lives near my aunts house who seems to think it’s her job to report everything she wants to the state government but we have no hoa cause they have no power in the state I live in are laws prevent them
They cannot sue you for not your animal you should sue her not only for neglecting a animal witch could be seen as animal abuse you also getting emotionally harassed by her and the landlord for something that is not your problem
Don't cut your animals let them be natural if you gonna neuter your pet neuter yourself
Cat story: it's just completely abysmal that the cat is going over towards OP's area because the owner of that cat is literally mistreating it. I mean seriously that is a terrible cat owner. Honestly what's the point of keeping a cat if they are not going to treat it with respect and love
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A spraying tomcat getting fixed is most certainly not "ruining" the cat, that stink is terrible. Poor boy, luckily it's now in a real home with no one chasing him away or not feeding him. cats have moved into my house and I get them fixed and vaccinated etc. No one who cares about their cats leaves it unfixed to roam and they don't give the vet treatment either.
The wife might be trying to get the husband on a diet. Instead of confrontation, women will often use tactical phrasing and such to let men think something is “their” choice or decision. A couple of guys I know will also do this in a non-confrontational way of getting their wives on diets. That and inviting them to go on hikes.