DEALING WITH MEAN PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

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  • @zedmelor8842
    @zedmelor8842 3 роки тому +32

    "Do not carry the worries of this life because this is for Allah. And do not carry the worries of sustenance because it is from Allah. And do not carry the anxiety for the future because it is in the Hands of Allah".
    (Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah)

    • @AK-kr3uy
      @AK-kr3uy 3 роки тому +1

      masha Allah

    • @TheUneducatedTeacher
      @TheUneducatedTeacher 3 роки тому +1

      Ameen
      KM Hemmans The UA-camr

    • @watch13famouspeoplewhoacce45
      @watch13famouspeoplewhoacce45 3 роки тому

      Which imam Must we follow ❓
      We Must respect all the Imams by following they wish
      The reality is all Those people who claim they are following a imam have
      actually proved they are not following any imam by ignoring the following teaching of the imams
      All four imams made it very clear to the people by telling them if you find a saying of the Prophet P.B.U.H which contradicts what we have taught you ,then REJECT what we taught you
      Allah did Not order us to follow a imam, Allah says whatever the Prophet gives you take it & whatever he forbids you leave it ( Quran 59:7 )
      Allah did Not say whatever the imam gives you take it, & Allah did not say whatever the imam forbids you stay away from it

    • @amaanjuwaley4616
      @amaanjuwaley4616 3 роки тому +1

      @@watch13famouspeoplewhoacce45 Yes it's true you should only follow those imams may Allah be pleased with them all only if what they say is same as Allah and his Messenger peace be upon him in other words the Qur'an,Sunnah and Hadith

    • @thetruthwithproof8802
      @thetruthwithproof8802 3 роки тому

      The $ad Truth
      So many muslim youtubers do not speakout against each other because of their friendships
      Allah says we must take mistakes out of each other 👇🏻
      Allah says man is in Loss, except for those who believe, do good deeds, urge 0ne another to the truth ----(Surah-Al-Asr )
      We must not let our love for our friends take over the love of Allah & his Messenger P.b.u.h.

  • @kareemhasansaif3796
    @kareemhasansaif3796 3 роки тому +42

    To the person reading this : Even though I don't
    know you, I wish you the best of what life has to
    offer ☀️

  • @habibailiyasu1958
    @habibailiyasu1958 3 роки тому +15

    I recently turned away from some people too, always making me feel less than I was, and feeling bad about who I am.
    Honestly I felt guilty about almost avoiding them completely, but I feel better now.
    Though I still talk to them, just not so deep.

    • @Ninininou1
      @Ninininou1 3 роки тому +1

      SubhanAllah I have a similar situation as you but for me this is about my sister. I did everything for her that even our mom didn’t. However she treats me so badly probably bc of jealousy, that it actually makes me sick. I also turned away from her after a huge quarrel but exactly like you I feel bad for doing it bc I know that Allah forbids cutting off family ties. But I’m mentally drained bc of her. I feel so much better when I don’t talk to her. I honestly don’t know what to do bc it never stops with her.

    • @malangorthodontist511
      @malangorthodontist511 3 роки тому

      SubhanAllah I have the same situation. There are people who not only made mistakes but wronged me even though I tried to reconcile. But again for Allah almighty I will let it all go off. Allah knows and sees everything... anyone who fears of becoming lonely then they should read and learn the tefsir of 5:55 of Quran-kerim😇🙏

  • @arishakhan3080
    @arishakhan3080 3 роки тому +7

    It's really sad, that good people have to deal with such people who are mean and selfish, stop giving them what they want, don't waste yourself, there are many people who will value the good in you and appreciate what you do for them, stop entertaining such people, cutting them off is best for your sanity.

  • @qariabdulhaq1013
    @qariabdulhaq1013 3 роки тому +11

    I invite everyone to listen beautiful quran Recitation

  • @shahlasadath9545
    @shahlasadath9545 3 роки тому +1

    Ya Jamiu' Ya Allah, Ya vadoodu Ya Allah, please give our families the unity of care n' love n' oneness n' strong supporting each other.

  • @kulsummahomed7478
    @kulsummahomed7478 3 роки тому +1

    JazakaAllah mufti for the beautiful advice and May Allah guide us and grant us the understanding to benifit from this lacture ameen.

  • @abdullahtawhidahmad750
    @abdullahtawhidahmad750 3 роки тому +1

    this is very relevant to me. thanks for uploading!

  • @bangchanswifey1113
    @bangchanswifey1113 3 роки тому

    Bangladesh is like the greatest example of that. even if u try to be all gud and maintain peace, they 'll be like u r dumb and u know nothing and will attack u more coz they have got demon in their souls and thinks that if u do bad u r smart... like hell, I m already so done I spent my whole life abroad and now came in this trash as it's my country coz dad just ended up loosing his job due to the pandemic but people here won't just let us live in peace today this, tomorrow that ughhh may Allah guide them to the right path, this thing is so relatable with the current situation I m going thro

  • @hmf33
    @hmf33 3 роки тому

    May Allah bless you dear Sheikh and grant you nothing but goodness. Ameen.

  • @muhammedq9109
    @muhammedq9109 3 роки тому

    May Allah ﷻ forgive us and bless us and grant us all the highest ranks of jannah Amen 🤲🏽

  • @حمزةقشلان
    @حمزةقشلان 3 роки тому +4

    thank you for this video I needed an answer

  • @anwarhussain2998
    @anwarhussain2998 3 роки тому +1

    JazakALLAH khair

  • @abdullahtawhidahmad750
    @abdullahtawhidahmad750 3 роки тому +3

    I have a suggestion. whenever you make a video, could you mark the key points of the video with timestamps. this would be great!

  • @Dura641
    @Dura641 2 роки тому

    its my Cousin , he stayed at my house , i give him 1 room but he taking advantages , he taken 2 rooms instead including My masterbedroom , & that is NOT his house , ITS MY HOUSE , i been patience for nearly 4 years already , now i will call my Uncle to teach him a bloody lesson

  • @lebbarmohamed76
    @lebbarmohamed76 3 роки тому

    Here are some motivating tips from Allah and the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) to help you raise your degrees in Jannah as well as increase your property in Shaa Allah.
    I) Raise your degrees
    1) Memorising the Quran
    Abd-Allah Ibn 'Amr narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"It will be said to the companion of the Quran : Recite and rise in status, recite as you used to recite in the world, for your status will be at the last verse that you recite." [ Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood ]
    2) Doing a lot of dhikr
    Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Shall I not inform you the best and the purest of your deed in the sight of your Master, which is the highest in your degrees, is superior to your spending gold and silver in charity, and is better than confronting and fighting against your enemy, cutting one another's necks?". The companions submitted :"Yes, indeed!". He (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"It is remembering Allah." [ Sahih Tirmidhi ]
    3) Doing good deeds(at least compulsory good deeds) and staying away from bad deeds
    Allah said :" And whoever comes to Him (Allah) as a believer, and has done righteous good deeds, for such are the high ranks (in the Hereafter)." (Quran 20:75)
    4) Doing a lot of nawafil (non compulsory deeds)
    According to Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :" Allah said :" Whosoever shows enmity to someone devoted to Me, I shall be at war with him. My servant draws near to Me with anything more loved by Me than the religious duties I have enjoined upon him, and My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him. When I love him I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it. I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant : he hates death and I hate hurting him." [ Bukhari ]
    5) How to earn Jannat ul-Firdaws (highest degree in Jannah)
    Allah said :"1) Certainly the believers have succeeded : 2) They who are during their prayer humbly submissive, 3) And they who turn away from ill speech, 4) And they who are observant of Zakah, 5) And they who guard their private parts, 6) Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed, 7) But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors, 8) And they who are to their trusts and their promises attentive, 9) And they who carefully maintain their prayers, 10) Those are the inheritors, 11) Who will inherit Al-Firdaws. They will abide theirein eternally." (Quran 23 : 1-11)
    6) Making a sincere du'aa that you desire Jannat ul-Firdaws
    It was recorded in the Two Sahihs that the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"If you ask Allah for Paradise, then ask Him for Al-Firdaws for it is the highest part of Paradise, in the middle of Paradise, and from it spring the rivers of Paradise, and above it is the Throne of the Most Merciful." [ Bukhari and Muslim ]
    II) Increase your property
    II-1) How to earn a palace
    1) Reciting 10 times surah 'Ikhlas'
    The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:"Whoever recites Qul huwallaahu aHad (Surah Ikhlaas) ten times, Allah will build for him a house in Paradise." [Saheeh al-Jaami’ al-Sagheer, 6472)]
    PS : It is a very easy way to earn a palace and it only takes about one minute. So you can earn 10 palaces in 10 minutes. Don't waste this great opportunity and try to make this a motivating habit and earn as many palaces as you can.
    2) Praying 12 Sunnah rak'aat
    Narrated by Umm Habibah (RA) that the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"A house will be built in Heaven for one who prays 12 Sunnat Rak'aat in a day and evening as follows : 4 rak'aat before and 2 after the Dhur Prayer, 2 after the Maghrib Prayer, 2 after the 'Ishaa' Prayer and 2 before the Fajr Prayer." [ Tirmidhi ]
    PS : According to the scholars, the 4 rak'aat should be performed by 2 prayers of 2 rak'aat
    3) Building a masjid
    The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Whoever builds a masjid (mosque) for Allah, Allah will build for him likewise in Paradise." [ Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim ]
    4) Abandoning arguments and lies and improving your behaviour
    Abu Umamah (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"I am a guarantor for a house on the outskirts of Paradise for whosoever leaves off arguing, even if he is in the right; and a house in the center of Paradise for whosoever abandons falsehood, even when joking; and a house in the upper-most part of Paradise for whosoever makes his character good." [ Abu Dawud ]
    II-2) How to earn other great things in your property
    1) A tree in Jannah
    Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud (RA) reported that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"I met Nabi Ibrahim (AS) when I was taken on Mi'aj (ascension to the heavens) and he told me :"O Muhammad, convey my salam (greetings) to your ummat and tell them that Jannah has good soil and sweet water, but it is barren. The plantation of Jannah is (the recital of) Subhan'Allah, Alhamdulill'AH? La ilaha illa Allah and Allahu Akbar." [ Sunan Tirmidhi, hadith: 3462. Imam Tirmidhi has classified his hadith as sound (hasan) ]
    2) A palm tree in Jannah
    Hadhrat Jaa'bir (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"For the person who recites 'SUBHAN'ALLAH HIL AZEEM WA BIHAMDIHI' (Pure and Perfect is Allah in his glory and praise], - A date palm will be planted for him in Paradise". [ Tirmidhi ]
    3) Treasures of Jannah
    Hadhrat Abu Dharr (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :" Should I not tell you of one treasure of the unlimited treasures of Paradise?" I replied spontaneously "Oh Rasulallah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) that would be an honor indeed!" Rasulallah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"That rare is 'LA HAWLA WA LA QUWWATA ILLA BILLAH."(There is no power and no strength except with Allah) [ Ibn Majah ]
    4) A particular amazing room
    Abdallah Ibn 'Amr (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"There is a room in Paradise whose outside is seen from its inside and whose inside is visible from its outside." So Abou Malk Al Ach'ari (RA) asked :"For whom is it, O Messenger of Allah?". He (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"These rooms will belong to the ones who speak good words, feed the poor, they fast and pray at night when people are at sleep." [ Reported by Tabarani and authenticated bu Shaykh Albani in Sahih Targhib No. 617)
    PS : These 4 conditions can be done during Ramadan. So let's all strive for this amazing room.
    5) Hoor Al Ain (women of Paradise)
    The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Whoever suppresses anger and he is able to act upon it, then Allah (SWT) will call him on the day of judgement in front of everyone and make him choose whichever one of the women of Paradise he wants (of Al hoor Al Ayn)".
    [ Sahih Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud ]
    6) An honorable place in Jannah
    Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever goes to the mosque in the morning and evening, Allah will prepare for him a place in Paradise for every morning and evening.”
    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 631, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 669
    PS : Let's not let go of all of these wonderful rewards. Because remember, the bigger your property, the greater the pleasure. It's time for us to wake up.
    Share this with others so that you gain as much rewards as them practising.
    If you want to copy this comment and you use a smartphone, go to Google Chrome then to UA-cam, and then find this video and this comment and you'll be able to copy it in Shaa Allah.

  • @AkramBaig2689
    @AkramBaig2689 3 роки тому

    This happened to me

  • @waqif8928
    @waqif8928 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this ... Mashallah...may Allah bless you all.

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 2 роки тому

    There's a lot of bitter people around these days and they can't drop their grudges,I only hang around with people who are on the same vibration as me,energy vampires are not allowed to be in my space.

  • @habibailiyasu1958
    @habibailiyasu1958 3 роки тому

    First video I am seeing without any dislike, Alhamdulillah

  • @spotmikestudios1020
    @spotmikestudios1020 Рік тому

    Thank you sir. :) May Allah bless you.

  • @abdulazizirajab7448
    @abdulazizirajab7448 3 роки тому

    الحمد لله رب العالمين

  • @desonmonde4086
    @desonmonde4086 3 роки тому

    I suggest all oppressed people make dua against their oppressors, if those oppressors are oppressing you deliberately. Doesn't matter if those oppressors are your relatives or even your parents.

  • @mohammadfarhan6302
    @mohammadfarhan6302 3 роки тому

    Beautiful advice ❤️

  • @mahadawan7970
    @mahadawan7970 3 роки тому

    Beautiful

  • @achibatain8
    @achibatain8 3 роки тому

    If someone gives you respect it means he is also respectful but if someone donesn,t give you respect it means he is also disrespectful.

  • @bluelight111
    @bluelight111 3 роки тому

    So what if these people is your own parent?

  • @BobbyDeniroX
    @BobbyDeniroX 3 роки тому

    It's not about mean people they have reasons to why they are being mean. Most times they show racism nowadays by being mean without using racist words.

  • @nabeeshahussain5521
    @nabeeshahussain5521 3 роки тому

    *Forgiveness of sins*
    Abu Hurairah (ral) reported that Allah's Messenger (Sal) saying:
    'He who recited after every prayer:
    SUBHANALLAH 33 times
    ALHAMDULILLAH 33 times
    ALLAHU AKBAR 33 times
    and completes the hundred with;
    LA ILAHA ILLALLAHU WHDAHU LA SHARIKA LAHU LAHUL MULKU WA LAHUL HAMDU WA HUWA 'ALA KULLI SHAI'IN QADIR, his sins will be forgiven even if these are abundant as the foam of the sea.
    Sahih Muslim 597.

  • @minaahmad5547
    @minaahmad5547 3 роки тому +2

    Wow I’m the first one to view this Alhamdulilah

  • @afiaqaisar3105
    @afiaqaisar3105 3 роки тому

    Allah bless us all

  • @AllahsBlessedChannel
    @AllahsBlessedChannel 3 роки тому +1

    I invite everyone to listen beautiful recitation of The Holy Quran and get more knowledge about Islam

  • @hudaadgudoo4474
    @hudaadgudoo4474 3 роки тому +1

    Allah is definitely wth me,☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️🍃☝️☝️☝️🍃☝️

  • @Sikandirt
    @Sikandirt 3 роки тому

    🤲🏼

  • @Deen.revival
    @Deen.revival 3 роки тому +8

    I invite everyone to listen the holy Quran.

  • @allahisthegreatest6302
    @allahisthegreatest6302 3 роки тому

    MIND BLOWING ALLAH MIRACLE the quran was sent down in 7th century Arabic over 23 years to prophet. The Quran is the meaning and it is not confined to one language. The purpose is to understand and it can be in any language including anyone's mother tongue.
    Al hayat” (life), 145 times; “al mawt” (death), 145 times“al-dunya” (mundane life), 115 times; “al akhira” (the afterlife), 115 times“malaika” (angels), 88 times; “shayatin” (demons), 88 times“ar rajul (man), 24 times; “al mar’a (woman), 24 times“as salihat (good deeds), 167 times; “as sayya’at” (wrong doings), 167 times“qul” (say), 332 times; “qalu” (said), 332 times“an nas” (people), 50 times; “an nabiya” (prophets), 50 times“al muslimat” (Muslim women), 41 times; “al muslimin” (Muslim men), 41 times"yawma-izhin" (That day), 70 times; "qiyama" (Judgment day), 70 times"dunya" (near), 115 times; "akhira" (far), 115 times"shitaa" (winter), 1 time; "sayf" (summer), 1 time"Isa" (Yahushua), 25 times; "Adam", 25 times
    Iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times and seek refuge from iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times.
    Belief and disbelief 17 times
    Clay (teen and sperm (nutufa
    112 times (how ALLAH says he made us)
    Charity (zakat and blessings (baraka same amount of times.
    The words "Sea" and "Land" are used 32 and 13 times respectively in the Quran. 32 plus 13 equals 45, and the two words make up 71.1 and 28.9 percent respectively of those 45. These percentages roughly correspond to what we today know the proportion of the Earth's surface made up of water and land to be."Human being" is used 65 times: the sum of the number of references to the stages of man's creation is the same:
    al-Fatihah in itself has 7 verses, 3.5 dedicated towards our praise of the Omnipotent, and the next 3.5 dedicated towards our prayers to the Omnipotent.The words “salawat” (prayers) and "aqimis-salah" (establish prayer) are mentioned 5 times in the Quran, the same as the number of mandatory daily prayers.The word "alwan" (colors) is written 7 times, the same as the number of colors of the rainbow.The words "samawat" + "sab" (heavens + seven) are written together 7 times, the same as the number of heavens described in the Quran.There are 365 days in a year. The word "yawm" (day in singular) is written exactly 365 times.
    Months is 12 times
    Muslims circumambulate around the Qibla, seven times during pilgrimage. The word ‘Qibla’ is used in the whole Quran exactly seven times: 2:142:8, 2:143:15, 2:144:8, 2:145:10, 2:145:14, 2:145:18, and 10:87:12"
    ua-cam.com/video/Fb92bx1kYYU/v-deo.html
    www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symmetry_in_the_Quran&ved=2ahUKEwjC8KWIgbjxAhULQEEAHThcBFwQFjAAegQIAxAC&usg=AOvVaw0fvhfLuAaW4M9JHqnXti5h&cshid=1624803774708

  • @zinadzjambulatova1105
    @zinadzjambulatova1105 3 роки тому

    Assalamu Alaikum brothers And sisters. Pliees I need help. I am in debts. Is there someone out there that would help me out of this ? May Allah swt give u Jannah ameen for helping me out then ameen

  • @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243
    @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243 3 роки тому

    Ibn Umar reported:
    The Prophet ﷺ, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
    “Verily,
    Ashura is a day among the days of Allah. Whoever wishes to fast may do so,
    and whoever wishes to break his fast may do so.”
    (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim)
    Abu Qatadah reported:
    The Prophet ﷺ, peace and blessings be upon him,
    was asked about fasting the day of Arafat and he said,
    “It will expiate the sins of the previous and upcoming years.”
    Then, the Prophet ﷺ was asked about fasting the day of Ashura and he said,
    “It will expiate the sins of the past year.”
    (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim)
    Abdullah ibn Abbas reported:
    The Messenger of Allah ﷺ, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
    “If I live until next year,
    I will certainly fast the ninth day of al-Muharram.”
    (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim)
    Ibn Hajar said,
    “The fast of Ashura has three levels:
    the lowest is to fast one day,
    the next is to fast the ninth day along with it,
    and the next is to fast the ninth,
    tenth, and eleventh days.
    Allah knows best.”
    (Fatḥ al-Bārī)

    • @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243
      @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243 3 роки тому

      Ibn Al-Qayyim wrote:
      “This misguided person does not know that fasting in Ramadan and praying five times a day are much more important than fasting on the Day of Arafah and the Day of Ashura, and that they expiate for the sins between one Ramadan and the next,
      or between one Friday and the next,
      so long as one avoids major sins.
      But they cannot expiate for minor sins unless one also avoids major sins;
      when the two things are put together,
      they have the strength to expiate for minor sins.
      Among those deceived people may be one who thinks that his good deeds are more than his sins,
      because he does not pay attention to his bad deeds or check on his sins,
      but if he does a good deed he remembers it and relies on it.
      This is like the one who seeks Allah’s forgiveness with his tongue
      (that is, by words only),
      and glorifies Allah by saying “subhan Allah” one hundred times a day,
      then he backbites about the Muslims and slanders their honor,
      and speaks all day long about things that are not pleasing to Allah.
      This person is always thinking about the virtues of his saying “subhan Allah” and saying “la ilaha illa Allah” but he pays no attention to what has been reported concerning those who backbite, tell lies, and slander others, or commit other sins of the tongue.
      They are completely deceived.”
      (Al-Mawsu`ah Al-Fiqhiyyah)

    • @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243
      @evenfortheblinkofaneye6243 3 роки тому

      .. . .
      +fajr+
      Isha
      maghrib
      asr
      dhuhr
      **
      **

    • @amaanjuwaley4616
      @amaanjuwaley4616 3 роки тому +1

      @@evenfortheblinkofaneye6243 Thank you for this wonderful saying 👍👍👍👍