how to find your personal style

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  • Опубліковано 2 чер 2024
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  • @Sweetinfernalcreature
    @Sweetinfernalcreature 4 місяці тому +11

    This might be weird, but I am my fantasy self. I dress up every day, I wear very extravagant outfits. I put a lot of thought into my clothing and I get a lot of compliments. This isn’t to toot my own horn because that style that I wear every single day (that takes not a lot of effort because I do it so much) doesn’t match with my lifestyle. This style comes from having postpartum depression with my first child, and knowing that putting effort into how I looked every day made me feel better. Now that I have three children, this style is very high maintenance and I’ve noticed that it stops me from doing some of the things that I want to do with my kids. I don’t have the option to decide to go to a park because I’m not dressed for it. I don’t have the option to play on the playground or get my son when he climbs too high because I’m not dressed for it. Sometimes killing your fantasy self means buying a whole new wardrobe and it will take a lot of time for me to curate some thing that actually works for my lifestyle. I feel like this is an uncommon problem but maybe someone else understands that their fantasy self doesn’t really work but in an entirely different way thank you for sharing your thoughts on your personal style and how to get personal style. I’ve always had a very strong sense of self and very strong personal style but it wasn’t until recently that I noticed that I have put myself up so high in fantasy That I no longer can live a life that’s joyful. I’m just thankful I really love Thrifting and I can start this journey, more sustainably, and with more thought towards conscious consumption.

  • @Ash.Marie.
    @Ash.Marie. 8 місяців тому +8

    This is by far, my favorite personal style video I’ve ever watched. Very relatable for me and I totally agree about how your clothes “make you feel”. I’m 100% comfort above all else lol. Great video! Subscribing!

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  8 місяців тому

      Wow thank you so much!! I’m glad you enjoyed ☺️💗

  • @madisondickson5434
    @madisondickson5434 10 місяців тому +5

    From a male perspective I couldn’t agree more! Most men I know through work or friendships struggle with this topic as well. We just don’t come clean because we’re men. While I push back with my wife’s advise around clothing I almost (9/10) times side with her and thank goodness or I’d be “that mid 50’s guy stuck on the set of your favorite 90’s sitcom! I truly appreciate your honesty and genuine “own who you are” attitude! It’s inspiring!

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  9 місяців тому +2

      You better listen to mom!! She has you dressing nice 😎

  • @mamibacera2905
    @mamibacera2905 8 місяців тому +4

    This was actually such a mind blowing and educational video on fashion that I have seen in years!! Everything you said made total sense to me! I’ve been into fashion as far as can remember and I’m in my 30s trying to wear what makes me happy but not necessarily meets the standards here in Japan where everyone is all dressed in the same way that I even get stared at sometimes lol
    Your video has given me so much courage to just keep going with my own style that I’ve already discovered and loved no matter what people think of me! I love your style and energy by the way! More people need to watch this!

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!! I’m glad it was helpful 😊

  • @clarkmia9814
    @clarkmia9814 4 місяці тому +3

    Ugh this video needs so many more views! You make great points!

  • @Kitechie
    @Kitechie 10 місяців тому

    This is so helpful! i love the idea of wearable wardrobe bc personal style 100% feels like you gotta choose a style and be 100% into it

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  10 місяців тому

      Thank you! 🥰 it’s so overwhelming sometimes!

  • @maeganmchugh
    @maeganmchugh 10 місяців тому

    This is so helpful!

  • @serriak2221
    @serriak2221 4 місяці тому

    Thank you❤ i recently read a book on fantasy self so i get it. So it was so easy for me to translate that into clothes. I realized that what i bought & what i liked i didn't wear. You explained it that it's ok to like but not buy a thing fantasticly. Also the colour thing you nailed it. My colours they did were so wrong for me but i redid my closet in colour blicked them & i realised after i cleaned out the things that had blocked me & those that didn't feel righ that I had solved how you said colours etc should feel on you . Brilliant 💕 i learnt 2 new things from you (about your version of colours & your use of comfortable) & you confirmed the rest to me. You are better than you think. Quitting r job & doin utube you will be great.

    • @tempestgrey4629
      @tempestgrey4629 4 місяці тому

      That was what I did too I found the nicest hot pink cardigan and work it into my own style

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for all your nice comments!! 🥹🩷🩷

  • @katelynadrienne
    @katelynadrienne 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi new subscriber here! I loved this video, super helpful! 💝💝

  • @verymuchgerman
    @verymuchgerman Місяць тому

    The video would be so much better without the background music.

    • @michaeladickson
      @michaeladickson  Місяць тому

      yep! I don’t do music anymore- always testing stuff out 😎