She cheated for 12 years... He only kicked her out of his bed for 8 weeks... not out of the house. Not out of his life. Only out of his bed for 8 weeks. After she cheated for 12 years.
12 yeears??!!! She has been run through and through by him and OP has as well because he has been cleaning her up getting sloppy seconds from her all of these years..Nasty humiliating, disgraceful..
12 years! 12 years! if she was all that good at her job, instead of screwing her boss for the promotion she could have gotten to another job. she said she continued after retirement because she was addicted. if she was so addicted to how he made her feel or his sexual treatment of her why did she not go to her former boss when she was sleeping in the guest room?
I really believe in this story that she actually loved her husband. However, what she did remains unforgivable to me. The only reason she should get a pass is that she really loved him in spite of her crime. 12 years, though, damn. And guys like her boss get away with using their power. It's just infuriating!
I say no pass because she doesnt regret it and its only cause she got caught she would continue lying to him SORRY BUT THATS NOT LOVE TO ME LOVE IS TURNING HER SORRY A...S BOSS IN ALL IN ALL SHE WANTED TO DO IT AND WOULD CONTINUE
@murdock6273 I would agree, I mean for me no pass. But in truth, there really are people out there who are like that, and it's scary to know. They can really love someone and do things like what she did. Now, it may not be our definition of love, but to these kinds of people, they truly believe they love. With that being said, we have to realize that there are many definitions to people of what love is, and when we search for the right one, we must make sure those beliefs align. My main belief that trumps, all in my opinion, is trust . Trust must be the building block, followed by open communication and respect. Never put anyone before you, or put them above you, EVER. When you feel uncomfortable, strike immediately, never let it sit or fester, or build momentum. No one can respect you. If you allow disrespect, it's unattractive, unless your partner uses your weakness to dominate over you. Then, who really created that atmosphere in that kind of relationship? Everyone has their roles to play in the dance. Who takes the lead, who follows, who allows to let someone cut in for a dance, or whether you will ever dance again.
I like happy endings and her confession. No action against her Boss and lover? What happened when the children moved out? This story need a aftermath story.
What ? She betrayed him for 12 years. She cheated on him with a man that likes to sleep with married women. The other guy faced no consequences. She cheated once or twice a week for 12 years. She cheated on him over 500 times. She said she didn't even like him. That means she enjoyed sex way more with the other man than her husband.
Dude was so stupid..once I woman betrays your the loser and u need to save urself from these nasty ass modern woman..they don't deserve good men..they deserve to be used and discarded when done.
She cheated for 12 years...
He only kicked her out of his bed for 8 weeks... not out of the house. Not out of his life.
Only out of his bed for 8 weeks. After she cheated for 12 years.
The man was a SIMP, divorce is the only pure resolution... 304's are for the street.
Broken man for the rest of his life, I guess it is the curse of the simp.
SIMP story the moment OP considered reconciliation.
I would have kicked her out and sued everyone for ruining my marriage!!
Whatever her explanation intimacy with another man is always a deal breaker.the trust was gone and with no guarantee she has changed.
12 yeears??!!! She has been run through and through by him and OP has as well because he has been cleaning her up getting sloppy seconds from her all of these years..Nasty humiliating, disgraceful..
So she had sex with her affair partner Grant at least 624 times in the span of 12 years. It's incredulous the husband took her back.
And she keeps on saying she doesn't like Grant, the affair partner, but still constantly seeks him for sex. What a hypocrite!
dna test the kids, lawyer up
She took from OP everytime she disrespected her wedding vows.
Plot hole, never questioned paternity.
This story really needs a rewrite where he leaves her. This woman is broken and he cant fix her.
12 years! 12 years! if she was all that good at her job, instead of screwing her boss for the promotion she could have gotten to another job. she said she continued after retirement because she was addicted. if she was so addicted to how he made her feel or his sexual treatment of her why did she not go to her former boss when she was sleeping in the guest room?
SIMP story. Grant paid no cost for his actions.
The moment I found out I would have been speeding to the lawyer. 12 years is just too much.
Why didn’t the husband sue the company?
Because he is an idiot or a loonie.
Simp
This man is a complete tool.
The story was over from the start. The cheaters in a double-wide could not hear a truck pull up to the house?
That is the problem you don’t know how to keep your leg close
should have had a video recorder for this confession....
Why does intimacy have to enter into business activities?
The husband was a fool and a pure simp
Don’t believe her it bs
I really believe in this story that she actually loved her husband. However, what she did remains unforgivable to me. The only reason she should get a pass is that she really loved him in spite of her crime. 12 years, though, damn. And guys like her boss get away with using their power. It's just infuriating!
I say no pass because she doesnt regret it and its only cause she got caught she would continue lying to him SORRY BUT THATS NOT LOVE TO ME LOVE IS TURNING HER SORRY A...S BOSS IN ALL IN ALL SHE WANTED TO DO IT AND WOULD CONTINUE
@murdock6273 I would agree, I mean for me no pass. But in truth, there really are people out there who are like that, and it's scary to know. They can really love someone and do things like what she did. Now, it may not be our definition of love, but to these kinds of people, they truly believe they love. With that being said, we have to realize that there are many definitions to people of what love is, and when we search for the right one, we must make sure those beliefs align. My main belief that trumps, all in my opinion, is trust . Trust must be the building block, followed by open communication and respect. Never put anyone before you, or put them above you, EVER. When you feel uncomfortable, strike immediately, never let it sit or fester, or build momentum. No one can respect you. If you allow disrespect, it's unattractive, unless your partner uses your weakness to dominate over you. Then, who really created that atmosphere in that kind of relationship? Everyone has their roles to play in the dance. Who takes the lead, who follows, who allows to let someone cut in for a dance, or whether you will ever dance again.
No.
Meh op crushed her
Interesting story, thanks. I honestly didn't think they could reconcile.
Very good!😅
I like happy endings and her confession. No action against her Boss and lover? What happened when the children moved out? This story need a aftermath story.
Yes, we know the dutch men are simps.
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What ? She betrayed him for 12 years. She cheated on him with a man that likes to sleep with married women. The other guy faced no consequences. She cheated once or twice a week for 12 years. She cheated on him over 500 times. She said she didn't even like him. That means she enjoyed sex way more with the other man than her husband.
It is interesting the only two commenters that thought the wife should be forgiven have female names, Just shows a lot of women have no morals.
Dude was so stupid..once I woman betrays your the loser and u need to save urself from these nasty ass modern woman..they don't deserve good men..they deserve to be used and discarded when done.
Pwe!