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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- Hey, My name is Tom. I don't know about you but I find myself wanting to DO everything myself. I consider myself a Jack Of All Trades. Master of none. What you'll find here will be anything from building or fixing cars or trucks, building or remodeling projects and everything in between. I get myself into some pretty interesting situations.
I'd love it if you subscribed so we can stay in touch... You might even learn something. I know I will!
Thank you for watching!!
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Email: Tom@TheMinimalMom.com
Rusty Judgment
PO Box 159
Elko New Market, MN 55020
You both are awesome people, working through a difficult time. Only those that don't know and love you and Dawn, make comments that are hurtful.
Keep your chin up, which will keep your eyes focused on the One that truly knows the truth, and who's grace is all we really need♡♡♡
I agree with these sentiments and want to say you are loved.
Wishing yee both peace of mind, body and soul. It is highly impressive that yee were able to holiday together. Take care. Small steps and it will hurt. You will get through this. God bless.
I’m praying for you, Dawn and the kids. 🙏🏼 You’re 💯 correct, our God is bigger!! He can move mountains! 🏔️
I have to confess that last week’s announcement from both you and Dawn was like a sucker punch and tough on my heart. Although you don’t see us on the other side of the camera, your family has been so precious to follow. I too am a Christian and tend to subscribe to UA-cam content that affirms my Christian values. I’m a senior widow and certainly not into renovations etc., Rusty Judgment has been so entertaining and a delight to watch. God bless you and keep you I pray.
I totally felt the same! It was tough and heartbreaking to hear. They have thousands who will be pouring out prayers for them- wow!
Same. Praying for you and Dawn and the kids🕊️✨💞
Don't believe everything you see. I don't trust anyone with a kitchen that looks like no one lives there.
We are rooting for you, Tom. Glad to hear you are growing and that the kids are staying front and center.
I am praying for you all. I was amazed at how loving you were towards Dawn. Sending hugs.
Tom, you and Dawn have both made a difference in so many people's lives. I will still watch BOTH channels. I too have experienced divorce and it is tough. Keep your head high and stay strong. I love your entire family!
I agree wholeheartedly.
Yes, blessings!
I'm not surprised that you took down last week's video. I was shocked at the number of negative comments. None of us knows the details of your lives, so I feel like we should not comment beyond being supportive of your whole family. I hope you are able to heal from this, and if you are able to restore your marriage, that would be so wonderful. Keep making videos! ❤
I wish neither of them posted their original videos. They shared too much of their personal life. You’re going to get a plethora of opinions when you share private details of your divorce on a public forum. A combined short statement would have been best, but what’s done is done.
I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself and surrounding yourself with good support in your men’s group.
Hey Tom- your channel is sooo good! You are a confident u- tuber. Keep it going. Praying for you at this time in your life. Your love for family is inspiring. Thank you for doing the Lord’s work as a great family man. God bless!
I’m glad you’ve all found a way to forge your new path ahead and I pray that you and Dawn can continue to be friends and friendly - for yourselves and your kids. My own parents couldn’t be married to each other, but they got along well just as friends and that meant a lot to me and my siblings. You got this!!
I can't imagine what you are going through. Im sorry, my heart breaks for you and your children! Praying for healing and restoration for your marriage!!
Praying for the best for you, Dawn, and the family. Been watching you both for a few years now and while upsetting to see, it’s also encouraging to see you both marching forward!
I am glad to hear about the support from the men at your Church. That is wonderful. I am praying for the whole family. Glad to know there will be more shenanigan videos in the future.
Tom, you do have friends!! :)
I’m speaking from experience. In our 30’s my husband and I both gave into a world of sin, separated for a season, but after a while realized we couldn’t live without each other. We are in our 80’s now, married 63 years. Don’t underestimate God’s redemptive power. God allows what he hates to achieve what he loves. Praying for you both.
Very profound
Amen.
Amén! Testify, Sister!
“God allows what he hates to achieve what He loves.” Well said! God Bless you for your witness & encouraging words! 😊
Amen. Wonderful testimony!!❤
I am so happy you are continuing your channel here! I'm sure it was a difficult decision for you to make, but now you know, Tom. You are very well loved, too! What you are experiencing is so difficult, but through it, it looks like you've discovered so much love and support that may not have known even existed. I'm grateful for that, for you. There's no question that you and Dawn would put your kids first. Any negative posters should be blocked. That is the very last thing you and your family needs right now! I can only imagine how difficult it is for you to be in the house. I hope that will somehow get easier for you. I can see where changing some of the rooms around your house would make being there a bit easier for you. Keep looking ahead. Keep moving forward. Stay busy. Keep your support network growing. All of these things are good for YOU. You are worthy and important! You, Dawn, and you children are in and will remain in my prayers. Blessings to all of you!
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Hi Tom, prayers for you and your family. That is all.
What got me through the tough times was when you know better you do better. And even though you are no longer a couple you have been given the gift of spectacular children and that could never have happened without your former partner. Hang in there, for the nasty people just block them and remember the gift - the children that you both love.
I thank God that you are OK! Besides all your housing projects, I think it would be fun to see you & the kids cooking a meal with dessert together! Gotta have those cookie bars! Hopefully the swimming pool is still in good shape as that would also be fun to see again. You were what always made Dawn's videos so much fun & extra special, so if you just make a video where we watch paint dry, we would be glad for that too haha! We love your personality. Feel my hug! We look forward to your next video!
💙 You are a kind and gentle soul with a calming presence. The Lord's light shines through you. 💙 Looking forward to anything you desire to share. As a single woman, I've learned a lot from your many projects, big and small. Lord bless & keep you always...🙏🌲💙
It's so awesome to see your smile again. I am praying that God will continue to walk you all through this. He knows our needs and will provide. God bless!
Hangin there,Bud. It will all work out in time. You are loved and appreciated by those of us who have followed your shows. Take good care of yourself all the way around physical emotional and spiritually.
Tom, I am so glad you have some support around you . Two good people have had to make hard choices .You live and you learn . I truly believe better , brighter days are ahead . This was a very well done video ❤
You do whatever gives you comfort and helps in the healing process. Your peace and happiness will trickle down to the children. Best wishes.
I've always admired how genuine you are. Thanks for being a breath of fresh air and being real. Hope you are doing well. Excited to follow along with your projects
Agree, me too 🙏💕🙏
Tom, I am subscribed to Dawn’s channel and I have just discovered your channel too. I think you are both such wonderful people and I will be praying for comfort and peace and healing for both of you. So glad y’all got to have a fun family vacation!
I wish you could know the overwhelming support and kindness. I feel toward you during this time. My heart hurts that you’ve gone through this, but I am so impressed with your attitude. God bless you abundantly and more than you could ever dream. Keep on making videos it’s so wonderful to hear your voice and see what you’re up to.
Hoping for the best for you, Tom. We love you 💕.
You're like family Tom and when we don't see you some of us worry and wonder how you are doing. I'm an empath so it was hard for me to watch both you and Dawn last week but I've gotten over the shock and adjusted mentally. I am now in Prayer mode. So I'll keep watching and praying for you and the entire family. God is up to good things. Love from Jamaica.
I feel hopeful too!! God is good and It’s great to hear you have grown closer to God instead of going in the other direction - so glad you both are thinking about and putting the kids first !
Sending support to ALL of you. We see what good people you are and want the BEST for each of you! 🙏🏻❤️🌞 enjoy your videos!!
Hey Tom, Praying for your family!
Glad to hear you’re continuing your channel! I would love to see a video on how to buy & hang that sliding barn door behind you. We need to put one up & don’t know where to start How do you measure for it? Is the hardware sold separately etc. Looking forward to your future videos. Keep the faith! God bless you & your beautiful family🙏✝️
Me too, great idea! 💕🙏
So very glad you continue to post. I am so sorry you got negative comments. You must concentrate on the positive. My heart goes out to you. I can feel your kindness. I hope you will let us know about your personal growth. The physical exercise is good for your mental health too. Love is the answer no matter what the question.
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Love the video Tom! Keep up the great work! So glad to hear you have been feeling very loved. I really loved what you said about protecting your thought life. So important. I’d love to see more videos talking about this and about what you’ve been learning about yourself through counseling. ❤
Praying for reconciliation! 💜🙏
Love and prayers for you Tom. You are a good man and father.
Praying for you, Dawn and your children ❤
So happy to see you and hear that you are okay and have the support you need. The vacation looks like it was awesome!
I am looking forward to many more future videos Tom. Come back soon! 😊
Wow, that ziplining looks absolutely amazing! So glad you all had such a wonderful time. I am glad to hear that you have plans to make more videos. Your skill in construction is mesmerizing and I hope you are really enjoying it. I am happy to get to watch and to like your videos, Tom.
Tom, I'm so glad to hear that you've a lot of supportive people around you. I'm looking forward to seeing your future videos. God bless!
Prayers for healing for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Tom you’re an amazing man. The zip lines looked lots of fun. I’m really looking forward to seeing more videos of all your projects.
Best of luck to you Tom and I hope you move forward into a wonderful life filled with all of the happiness you deserve. You and Dawn are doing a great job sharing the kids and staying as positive as you can.
Sending your family prayers. My heart goes out to you all. ❤
Stay strong! We love you and your family. Praying for you. ❤🙏
I am just going to say God bless you and your family! Whatever happened is between you, Dawn and the Lord and nobody else. You two are great people. Love and blessings to you, Dawn and your kids. God's got you and your family. Sometimes couples are better friends than spouses. Glad to see you two back and that you all are well.
I'm so pleased that you and Dawn have an amicable relationship and can have time together with your lovely children. The zip line adventure looks amazing. Would love to see all the changes you make of the home. All the best x
Thank you for sharing this video Tom. I look forward to see your upcoming projects. It's hard to hear about you and Dawn, I am sorry this has happened. I applaud you for working on your mental health and I pray that you get peace. God bless. See you soon.
Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about where you are at.
I just discovered you last week with your video about the divorce. Up to that point, I actually hadn’t ever heard of you guys but ironically, UA-cam showed me both of your videos (yours and dawns) on the same day. I commented some words of encouragement last week but I want to drop another note this week to say I’m excited to see your upcoming projects. Me and my fiance’ just closed on our homestead property today! We’ve been renovating my house and searching for a future homestead for the past few years. So I can relate to all the little projects you said were like 99% complete! We have a lot of those too. So over the next year, we have to build out our new home (there’s a structure but it’s gutted) while also finishing the renovations in this property so that we can get it on the market. So he’ll be living at the homestead while I’m living here and we’ll be going back and forth every weekend to complete renovations at each place! I guess the difference with us is that we are also trying to plan our wedding in the middle of all that! But we are probably a little older than you guys and our 7 (combined) kids are all adults so we are in the later part of our lives (the second mile)…but I’ve been through divorce when my kids were younger and I don’t wish that on anyone. So you all are certainly in my prayers and I’m excited to have found you and look forward to following your journey!
I am so glad you both are able to put the kids first. It sounds like you all had a really good time on vacation together. I am praying for all of you!
It’s good to see you again and I’m glad you have people to support you in this difficult time. God bless you
From the bottom of my heart I pray for your family and that both of you let God restore what he united and blessed all these years.
No matter what people say keep the faith because God is love and honor him and he’ll honor your family with restoration and a much bigger commitment ❤🙏🏻
OH sooooo many exciting things to come!! Cant wait to watch the next house!!
Keeping you & your family in my prayers!! Prayer changes things!!🙏🙏
We love you too Tom!
Praying for you💕
Praying for the restoration of your marriage❤
As am I too from FL 🥹❤️🙏🏼 I believe
Me too!
Amen in Jesus mighty name 🙏
Me too!!! NOTHING is impossible for God!
Me too!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You got this Tom, prayers for you sir.
Sending you prayers Tom. And I'm also here to see what we're all gonna learn on your next project. 😊
Appreciated how open you are about how you are caring for yourself and counseling. You are setting a wonderful example for your children and the community. Thank you❤
One more thing! This video shows what parenting can look like, even when you are no longer together! I hope you and Dawn can keep that friendship, that is still there:)
Nothing but love my friend. Praying for you both. You have wonderful kids and you and Dawn know better than any of your loyal followers what they need. So nothing but good wishes for you and your family.
Thanks for the update. Looking forward to the next project. Loved the pics of the kids zip lining 👏🏻👏🏻
You don’t owe your viewers anything, but what a blessing it was to hear an update. Continued prayers for your whole family as you all move forward. God bless you all and draw you near to Him.
I have watched you grow over the years, and it's awesome. You will always be loved by us. I pray God's will in your life. He loves you so much.❤
so glad you kept the house! Your kids will always be able to come “home”. Years from now, they will still think of it as home❤
I am hear for your next chapter. 🎉❤ praying for you always.
Praying for both you and Dawn and of course everyone that is impacted. ❤🙏
God bless you and your family. Life has some bumps and God has plans for you!
Tom, just love you..not in a weird, inappropriate way...keep being you. It can take a long time to heal from trauma. Keep growing with God and you will be perfectly imperfect with lots of grace and humility which will be just awesome!❤
My husband and I are about to close on an old 1952 home that’s actually two apartments. It’s a complete gut job. We are 60 and 67… here we go. 🏠
I understand needing to change the house. I lost my mom and my house was then filled with her furniture and all the memories of her there. Honestly, I moved. I had to. It became a little depression den to me and I just needed out. You do whatever you need to do.
I’m rooting for you Tom.
We have such respect for you and how you are navigating this current season. We love you and pray for more good days ahead.
I appreciate the way you share your vulnerability and your honesty. I've loved all your videos and look forward to your the future ones. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Praying for all of you. I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I'm so glad to hear you were able to have a great time in the Florida sunshine! It was great to get another video from you and look forward to seeing all the projects you have going on. Continuing to pray for you and your family!
So happy to see you smile!
Yes, he has a great smile 😀
I understand a lot from your perspective. I’ve been doing DBT for years and I’m glad you have found it helpful and useful. Glad you have a great bunch of guys supporting you.
It seems you are in a better mental health space than years before regarding yourself even if your relationship with Dawn has changed and not where you thought it would be.
I really like you Tom. Like so many, I'm very shocked and sad about you and Dawn. Youre both great. God bless you❤
I have enjoyed both of your and Dawn’s videos. I have loved getting my own place more calm and minimal with Dawn’s help and I love your renovation videos! Just know there are many others out here praying for all of you! ❤
Thank you Tom & sending you love from aus xx
You are loved Tom. You are in my prayers. Stay strong and never lose hope. ❤
Tom, I'm in my 70s--so talking as a 'mother' image--and a Christian mom of 2 sons--our youngest already has 2 married daughters and 2 grandchildren. But our older son has been going thru an unpleasant separation for almost 5 years now. Although both sons live across the country, I've seen and heard his pain. So hear me when I say--keep close to your Christian men friends. My husband gets with Christian men friends in 2 different groups each week--as well as going out for coffee and shooting pool--(he says it helps his brain as he has had a very bad stroke years ago)--anyway--I see where having men friends is important and helpful--continue and make that a priority--and also take time to pray and read the Bible--don't just have religion--have relationship with God. Hugs! Married almost 53 years--not always easy but still in love.
Wishing you all the very best to you dawn and family Tom ❤
Thank you Tom. You are loved buddy!! You did what you had to do, we can respect this.
I saw your earlier video. Your personal life is your's to deal with and should not be for public consumption or gossip. It seems like you're handling it well. Best wishes.
You are getting so many life merrit badges. I cannot think of a better family than you guys. You inspire
Me. Your family trips are always so fun to watch. Your kids are dear and kind. Dawn is a gem. So are U.
praying for u all and sending love and hugs
I couldnt stay in that house...kudos to you for doing for the kids❤
Take care and God bless you and your family.
We did zip lining in Mexico about 10 years ago. So much fun! Even my husband who doesn’t generally like heights did it.
Looking forward to your future videos and any glimpses you want to share about your life and family.
We love you both, Tom and Dawn. Glad you are hanging in there, and so special that you both could vacation with the kids. So important to get along for the children! Keep looking UP 💜 Hugs from Park Rapids!
Good to hear from you Tom and glad to hear you are well loved!!! You are right.... Remember this is another season in your life... God is great and he has you and your family too❤🙏
I am definitely praying that there will be a way for you to restore that relationship. Either way praying for all of you
You are both beautiful souls who have given so much to so many. I don't know if you realize that beyond the practical help you give, from you showing us repairs and the nuts and bolts of your projects, to Dawn helping us simplify, you and your family have been an extraordinary comfort to some of us who needed to have exactly your sense of humor and reassuring content during such stressful times. We are very grateful to you and send love and best wishes for beautiful new pathways forward for each of you
I'm so happy you have hope!! God is amazing!! Expect big things!!
Happy to see you Tom and I hope you continue with all your projects, love them and your personality. My best to you for a wonderful future! Stay strong! God bless.
Hi Tom!! Been watching you and Dawn for years enjoyed all the videos. Thank You for the update and wishing you the best in whatever you do. Much love and prayers for you Dawn and the kids.💜
i want you to know that I genuinely like you, Your a wonderful father and you deserve a happy life. I'm so glad you are active with gym and church and great friends. My brother and I had difficult childhoods and brought allot of baggage to our marriages and relationships. At 76 years of age I still meet with a councilor every week. Give yourself grace and know you are loved.