I agree men should wear it. If i see a man with a wedding band on, i do not approach him and i dont entertain him flirting. A wedding ring= Unavailable/Not yours... Leave that man alone..
I agree with you 100% ..Which is what I told some male friends that don't wear their ring that most women stop when they see a ring on a man friend zone immediately ..
Be respectful & honor your wife .. the ring signifies unity... be a blessing in her life & alleviate the stress & struggle she may have.. #Everydaythoughtz
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I was having lunch and male coworker came and started conversations about the weather and asked me what area I was located in. No ring on. Said his wife had family there. Then he started speaking about seafood which I was eating. Asked where did I get from. I told him. This fool says let's hang out sometimes and grab some I know the best places.🙄😶 I said bring your wife too. I'm sure she will enjoy that. 😑He got gone quick. Boy,take your @$$ on with that!
That was his way of letting you know he's married snd not gonna leave his wife, but if you tryna blend he's down.. so you would make up your own mind to be a fool and could never say he lied or promised you anything.. allowing him to cheat in peace with no nasty scenes or drama.. but you was on it sus!! 🙌🙏✊💅🥂💗💓
I can't stand deceptive men like that who blatantly don't wear their ring. I've gotten caught up like that before and it's devastating. If I choose to degrade myself by being with a married man, that's different and I will reap the seed that I sow. To be deceived, he has a whole other apartment, always over, going out like he's unattached, never wearing his ring... that's wrong. I don't want anyone's husband except my own. Married men, stop playing games before you run up on one that makes it be your last facade...
Get to really know someone first they family friends were they work and live last name it takes months years to really know someone these women are to fast a quick to fall for someone they don't know they get hurt
My husband took his ring off 3 years into our marriage and has not worn it since now 18 yrs found out he's narcissistic. Waiting for God to set me free.
SO GLAD YOU SPOKE ON THIS!! I call the men who walk around without them married bachelors! They ask for your number like they are single! If I see a guy trying to talk to me with that ring it’s an automatic NO! no need to even be friends! Thanks Tony!!
I remember back in the days the first thing people looked for was to see if a ring is on your hand. I have men approach me all day and don't even look at my hand. Disrespectful heathens 😎😎😬
That is exactly what was done. People back in the day would automatically look at that left hand. Not today. People don"t respect boundaries or the fact that the person is clearly unavailable.
Their excuse is to say that women, jezabel types do no care about the ring, quite the opposite they approach because of the ring!!! SICK WORLD WE LIVE IN!!!🤔
I totally agree! Men with a ring on do the absolute most too, but I rebuke all of the above. I do not care or want anything that isn't mines with or without a ring. Total turn off for me, it's honestly disgusting. I pray on a consistent basis for my future spouse. I've never been married or engaged, but I've personally considered getting a ring just to keep the nonsense from approaching me. Stay prayed up ladies😊
When I was a wife, my ring 💍 seemed to do the opposite. Men seemed drawn to it and were curious if I was happily married, etc. I'm not saying that a married, man or a married woman shouldn't wear the ring, but I am saying nowadays... marriage is a mindset.. There are so many men and women that do not respect marriage, whether they have a ring or not.
Same experience I had, one married dude even told me what I suspected, and that was that they seek out the married women because they can only expect sex from the men and have to get everything else from their husbands.
Wearing wedding ring on right hand which I have seen I'm not stupid means the marriage is over or about to be over I watch News and look at the men with wedding rings on their left hand on the TV screen but then I see a man with it on the right it means marriage is over or about to be over
😩💀😭😭😭😭😭😂 Every Kiss Begins Wit “K” Took Me Out 😂😭 TG these guys no what they doing... Allot of times most of these Dudes are Marrying Placeholders and have lost interest into who they Married! They Married that person for a Reason & that reason wasn’t Love!
I know a couple of guys who are in the band at my church, and I noticed that they did not have rings. So, I thought it was ok to be their friend. (I dont talk to married men)Then, someone told me that they were married. I personally never respected that, because they know what they are doing when they are ringless.
That's crazy. My soon to be husband already got his wedding band. He's excited about wearing it but didn't spend alot of money on it. He spent the money on mine instead as he wants me to shine.
Good afternoon 👋🏾! In my opinion whether a man or woman that plans to get married, to begin with that should of a topic already discussed even before engagement. Marriage is a contract, bond and unity. Part of that unity comes with the symbol of marriage which is the ring 💍,and if your not willing to commitment to wearing why even go through the whole process. Look save everyone’s time, money, headache and most of heart ❤️ ache!✌🏾✊🏾
I agree I think a ring doesnt make a marriage and I know people who'll speculate it's about trust my parents dont wear rings at all and they been married over 50 years there is so much more issues out there more than some jewelry I'm not saying never wear it but God knows my heart and my husband vice versa
My mom or dad didn't wear rings and neither do me an my husband it a simple I'm married because ring or not people will shoot there shot this is stupid
Right this is dumb....this generation don't care if you were a ring or not. I had on a ring, and he asked me if I was happy and can I have friends. Then he ended with I know how to play the game if you can....
@LadyD oh I know. My husband is a major hoe. He LOVES attention, but some of the women I had a chance to speak with admitted they new he was married. He didn't talk about his marriage good or bad. His favorite saying is, "don't worry about me and anyone else...just worry about us...let's be in the moment and enjoy our time" I just didnt know until I found out cause he would also spoil and love me to cover his cheating. I'm pretty sure my husband is a narcissist though
@LadyD yes ma'am 100% I have been on his rollercoaster ride for 20 years. And you're right. No remorse at all. I'm learning more daily on narcissist and trying to become stronger daily to not fall for his stuff anymore
@LadyD thank you so much love! Glad you saw the signs and escaped. I had no idea what he was until he left in June for the 4th time over 20 years and my friend said I swear hes a narcissist. Look it up. So I did and I was like OMG this is him! I'm convinced he's a covert narc. Very sneaky. Turned things around to make me feel it was my fault. That's why I never left. I was like well hes right I didn't do this the way he liked and if I had then he wouldnt have gotten mad. So stupid looking back now, but he is really good. Handsome. Charismatic. A master at love bombing. We have kids together so I'll never be free of him. I have to get strong and not be manipulated ever again. Thank you for your kind words. Prayers are always welcomed. I need the Lord to give me strength and opened eyes
Facts! As a single lady I check for the ring tan line/tattoo/ring, etc. Ha! I admire ur devotion to the ring! Continue to Skool these married brothers trying to take advantage of single queens! May god continue to bless u and ur family! Blessings!
Me neither don't trust men that don't wear a wedding ring.. That's Vice verses with women to unless they couldn't afford to buy ring.. They be acting like they single when they don't wear no ring🤔
Thanks for confirming this bro Tony. A while back I had a crush on a guy from church, he was really a nice guy and I thought he was single, the good thing was that I didn't mention it to him. Only to come and find out from my cousin sister who was close to him that he was married with 2 kids; his family was abroad. I was quite surprised by that. I thought because he was a committed Christian that was an even more greater reason for him to have his ring on at all times, but no. Thanks for your wisdom on this.
I’m so glad that you made this video, because this is so true “tattoo” this video has me cracking up, but some people don’t care about ring, they’ll say they don’t care I going let my hubby watch this video
MR. TONY THANK U FOR YOUR VIDEOS YOUR VIDEOS BEEN VERY HELPFUL THANK U I HAVE A QUESTION what IF HE WEAR HIS RING ON HIS chain round his neck what does that mean?
My is in his 70s and NEVER wore a wedding ring. He does not believe in MEN wearing JEWELRY. A boyfriend I had when I was younger I made sure he took his earring out before coming to the house because my dad will not take a man seriously who has an earring in. And he is 1 of the BEST Examples of a man who is In Love with his wife that I have ever seen. I agree with you Tony! And I believe my dad! So to each his own!
Never had so many women hit on me than when I was married wearing my wedding ring. I summed it up that single women like a challenge or something. Why do people want to flirt when you have somebody. When you are single, silence!
Michael West If that’s the case that single women will approach a married guy then they have set themselves up to the worst “challenge” of their life ... to be PLAYED and betrayed ... definitely a no-WIN situation.
Michael West He’s “worth somethin’ cause he’s married and loved”??? You got a married man out there cheating and lying to his beloved wife ... that’s pretty much WORTHLESS in my opinion. The most VALUELESS thing a woman can do is get messy with a married man.
Tony this man has me in my feelings... his UA-cam is the33secrets... he has me all upset.... he needs Tony Gaskins in his life.. I don’t even know how I came across his videos but wooooo total 360 from what you preach about! What a difference from a man that’s providing sound Godly advice vs. just bashing women. What’s disturbing is he has more of a UA-cam following than you. And the comment section on his videos... I mean all those men need to come over here and start watching your videos.
Nowadays there are silicon wedding bands that are not made out of any type of metal so any man using the 'reason' aka an excuse for not wearing their wedding ring cuz they are allergic to whatever type of metal is DEAD! .. It is exactly THAT, an excuse! Silicon wedding bands for him AND her are available many places like the site I have listed below! Ladies do NOT let ya man use any excuse (personally a man refusing to wear a wedding band is a problem for me) not to wear his wedding band!! A lil storytime for any of ya'll who wanna read my comment .. When my man asked me to marry him and I said before I say yes I have a question for you, he said what is your question Baby. I said are you going to faithfully wear a wedding band? And he said yes babygirl! Then he gave me that grin he has and said "Well honestly I wanted an engagement ring too, like I don't understand why women are the only ones who get engagements rings, why can't men have engagement rings to?!?!" I replied GOOD question Babe! .... Anyways after he and I had that discussion, I said "YES I will marry you!!", he put my ring on, we celebrated of course then the following morning I secretly went out and picked out my man his engagement ring, I wanted to pick his ring out jus like he picked mine out, I asked him Babe what are you going to do with your engagement ring when I replace it with your wedding band? He smiled and told me Baby I will move my engagement ring to my right hand on my ring finger when we say "I do"!!! 😊 I sure do love that man of mine! I am truly blessed that God created me for him! ... I love you Matthew!!! THE FOLLOWING SITE IS FOR SILICON WEDDING BANDS FOR MEN! These bands can also be used if your man works with electricity (or any other type of career that it is dangerous for them to wear any type of metal rings while working), or if he jus wants to change it up every now and then! Many of the silicon rings come with multiple rings in a pack! Matthew and I personally like the his/hers "Infinity symbol" silicon bands!! www.qalo.com
My husband always had a excuse not to wear his ring. He claims his slips off when he wears his gloves at work and all other excuses. His fingers shrink n swell..he was always full of excuses.
I agree on everything you say my brother , but on the other hand you have men who are Single would have a wedding band or just a ring on that left hand but they are Single. So I ask a male friend of my why do single man wear ring on that left finger. His answer was that single men do that to keep alots of women approaching them,or don't want to be in a relationship at this time. So is that true????
my husband tells me he does not like wearing rings as he works he is a painter and builder . he said his marriage is in his heart not in a ring do you agree we have two sons and been together 27 years
When I got married my ex husband took his ring off not long after . He said it would interfere with his work and eventually through the years he was flirting and than caught cheating by me . I’m now divorced only he done that many times and we split 6 times. After divorce he already had a woman move in with him in his new house. Both never healed from their baggage just got together like it was nothing.
He is speaking the truth!!! My ex- husband now claimed he lost his wedding ring. He was at the club acting single & cheating. It was planned. Ladies, periodically check to see if he has his ring on, if not ask WHY?
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I TOTALLY AGREE!! You said a rubber band!!😄 I remember when my ex husband did not wear his wedding ring until we got around my family😒 I didnt trust it then and I feel the same today. There is no excuse for this other than you not caring. Its is not material it is a symbol and if we agreed to this and I spent my money as well I expect it on your finger...It was better seen at the pawn shop for me tho😉
The amazing thing is those type of men do not accept the woman going around without her's. I have no beef with a husband who doesn't wear his ring, I just won't wear mine. After all, the commitment is in the heart. Is that not what they say?
you know what this video is 4 years old but I can't help but wonder, i know a man a pastor who does not wear his ring and he has a church and for many years he has not worn his ring, his wife wears here but recently i noticed she stop and this been going on for years, i no longer attend the church but know someone that does, why is he doing that to his wife?
One of my favorites as of recent, I'm separated, but u still in a whole marriage with family.🤔🙄 Sometimes I don't think men have it all there. I trust no one these days. I'm to a point people out here looking for victims to entertain their mess. 😔
My uncle never wore a ring and he left his wife. Every person I know who doesn’t consistently wear it either cheats or leaves. It’s a psychological thing as well.
I have a question . So for the ladies in the comments if u find out he’s not married but might be involved with someone do you still go for it ? Cause I know some women will say well if you’re not married you’re single and technically that’s true .
Hi, Oh thats Lauren My personal opinion is that he’s basically involved and in a relationship with someone, therefore he’s UNAVAILABLE. True the guy is technically single, however it’s not a good place for a GREAT gal looking for a guy to start from ... use discernment always to keep your life easier and on track.
Then they say its not good to sleep with it on. Because it slows your blood circulation in your finger while you are sleep and it would be hard to take off because your finger swelled up.
My wife watches your videos, she agrees with your content Aman to god. I find a good thing an thats a wife. Follows a man of God that is present 🎁 🙏 in our life.
My husband told me today that he will no longer be wearing a wedding ring. He wears a rubber ring and said it’s uncomfortable. We also happen to be seperated.
I respect your view; however there are denominations that see jewelry as an idol and the beliefs do not support the ring wearing. Some people have research the history of jewelry that includes thes wedding band.
@@msmelanin2425 that's awesome to hear. I'd be curious to know his denomination background. You can send me an email if you don't want to post here. I truly believe it's about character and principles.
@@aura5944 Actually the comment is relative if you listen to his message from the 2 minute mark to about 3.45 minutes of the message. He stated only for medical reasons is his only exception for married men not to have a wedding band on.
Amen amen!! I met a brother about month ago at a gym who claims to be a personal trainer, Looked nice and seem to be somewhat interested in me long story short no ring on finger I looked him up on Facebook and seen him with a woman in lots of pics and he even called himself a pastor on his page and she had his last name. Ran into him again and he insisted I call him about workout plan... I myself is married living single but respect enough not to fool around even thou my husband sleeping around.(Facts)..The guy was nice looking and I was lusting which I later repented it was truly a set up yet the Lord kept reminding me of who I am and where he has brought me from.I was like 😯 vexed in my spirit bc of my thoughts towards this guy and the only thing I can think of is God is my husband my provider my strength my friend and I thank you Lord am not where I used to be. If u desperate and not careful enough u will settle for the tricks of Satan.I was real close to falling but God. I make good money and pay my own bills God has brought me here and I dare myself to lean n depend on a man for his satisfaction...Be careful in this evil world I have a 14 year-old daughter which reminds me a nice looking person will be tried by the ones we look up to the most..Stay prayed up..
I agree married men should wear their wedding rings respect your marriage. if they don't want to wear it then dont get married they got something to hide. Real faithful men thats really truly in love wear their wedding rings always. Thank you tony good message.👏👏
I get more women chasing me with a ring on than when I take it off. I once had a chick hand me her phone with naked pictures of herself knowing I was married.
That true. But check this out you have some people doesn't like to wear jewelry but they know that they are faithful. Some people don't like jewelry at all.
I disagree, but will subscribe 'cause I feel you're write. hahah but, man... I know a guy who don't wear a ring for years and never had an affair with somebody else.
Too bad life dont work this way...ring? No ring? Character determines the outcome of Sin...I do believe in supernatural powers once we are in spiritual alignment.
You can't speak on something you know nothing about just because your wife didnt trust you enough and said you have to have your ring on don't judge. My mom and dad both never wore rings and faithful for 39 years trust and love each other and never a problem. The ring you can take off and put back on but with trust, love and God you don't need any material things to be faithful you are not supposed to do things or hang around temptation so that's on you not to trust because you have those issues .
Jayann Did you all listen to the vid, he didn’t say people would had didn’t religious beliefs or couples who agreed not to wear rings were in trouble. He said men who agree to wear rings with their spouse in the beginning but over time come up with a lame excuse not to wear it are dangerous, if they have a deceptive spirit. Now the single woman being approached by the married man has a difficult time figuring out if he’s taken or not. Not all men with rings are faithful, not all men without them cheat that’s a given sis!
@@aura5944 he still said men that don't have a ring he wouldn't trust thats something he knows nothing of. And my parents never agreed they just didn't and they are both trust worthy.
Dating men in the service is so tricky. That's why I've decided not to flirt with any military men anymore. I've met sooo many married men who don't wear their rings. They make rubber rings for use at a gym, or sports, so they have no excuses. I don't appreciate the deception. And I hope their wives know, too.
This is so not true. It is so many other reasons people may not wear a ring. Let's stop assuming everyone is the same. People cheat with a ring on and post their family and social media.
I agree men should wear it. If i see a man with a wedding band on, i do not approach him and i dont entertain him flirting. A wedding ring= Unavailable/Not yours... Leave that man alone..
Ariel Sky
Amen sis
Yesssss
I agree with you 100% ..Which is what I told some male friends that don't wear their ring that most women stop when they see a ring on a man friend zone immediately ..
I agree with that. 110 percent it also applies to women too. Though this is for men.
I agree 100%. Any married man who refuses to wear a wedding ring is suspect in my eyes...If you're allergic to metals, get plastic ring. 😂
Lol@ plastic
90% of being faithful is minimizing opportunities for nefarious things to happen.
mareelovely BEST COMMENT!! Ever!! 🙌🏾
Well said.
At this Points I don’t think I should be dating at all point blank. Because dudes are way too freaking sketchy and a way to fake for me
"Every kiss begins with a K" 🤣🤣🤣
Ronda Lovee 😂😂😂
Lol lol. You stoopid lol lol
Be respectful & honor your wife .. the ring signifies unity... be a blessing in her life & alleviate the stress & struggle she may have.. #Everydaythoughtz
I wish my husband felt this way about wearing a ring. He refuses to and we're separating because of it.
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I was having lunch and male coworker came and started conversations about the weather and asked me what area I was located in. No ring on. Said his wife had family there. Then he started speaking about seafood which I was eating. Asked where did I get from. I told him. This fool says let's hang out sometimes and grab some I know the best places.🙄😶 I said bring your wife too. I'm sure she will enjoy that. 😑He got gone quick. Boy,take your @$$ on with that!
That was his way of letting you know he's married snd not gonna leave his wife, but if you tryna blend he's down.. so you would make up your own mind to be a fool and could never say he lied or promised you anything.. allowing him to cheat in peace with no nasty scenes or drama.. but you was on it sus!! 🙌🙏✊💅🥂💗💓
I can't stand deceptive men like that who blatantly don't wear their ring. I've gotten caught up like that before and it's devastating. If I choose to degrade myself by being with a married man, that's different and I will reap the seed that I sow. To be deceived, he has a whole other apartment, always over, going out like he's unattached, never wearing his ring... that's wrong. I don't want anyone's husband except my own. Married men, stop playing games before you run up on one that makes it be your last facade...
Married Men in Los Angeles are the worst they don't wear rings or behave like they're Married Hell they worse than the Single Men
Get to really know someone first they family friends were they work and live last name it takes months years to really know someone these women are to fast a quick to fall for someone they don't know they get hurt
@@JESSICA-jq4kj that's still no excuse for being deceptive!
My ex wore his ring for a few months. Then the excuses started. Now divorced he was a cheating piece of crap.
My husband took his ring off 3 years into our marriage and has not worn it since now 18 yrs found out he's narcissistic. Waiting for God to set me free.
SO GLAD YOU SPOKE ON THIS!! I call the men who walk around without them married bachelors! They ask for your number like they are single! If I see a guy trying to talk to me with that ring it’s an automatic NO! no need to even be friends! Thanks Tony!!
I remember back in the days the first thing people looked for was to see if a ring is on your hand. I have men approach me all day and don't even look at my hand. Disrespectful heathens 😎😎😬
@Love 23Amazed Lol. I still look. Then you have the ones trying to hide their hand in there pocket. No sir....pull that hand out..Lol
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That is exactly what was done. People back in the day would automatically look at that left hand. Not today. People don"t respect boundaries or the fact that the person is clearly unavailable.
Such behaviour is born from habit. If people don't look, we simply make them aware.
It up to You to respect your marriage! Disrespectful is if You entertain them in any way
Their excuse is to say that women, jezabel types do no care about the ring, quite the opposite they approach because of the ring!!! SICK WORLD WE LIVE IN!!!🤔
I TOTALLY AGREE...
THATZ THEIR MOTIVE,
TO DESTROY THAT MARRIAGE❗😈
100% true. Married people must NOT deceive single people by not wearing their ring.
I totally agree! Men with a ring on do the absolute most too, but I rebuke all of the above. I do not care or want anything that isn't mines with or without a ring. Total turn off for me, it's honestly disgusting. I pray on a consistent basis for my future spouse. I've never been married or engaged, but I've personally considered getting a ring just to keep the nonsense from approaching me. Stay prayed up ladies😊
Either one ring on his finger, or two black ones around his eyes!
You had me laughing at this one!
Right!
Lol I like that one
Ha ha !
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When I was a wife, my ring 💍 seemed to do the opposite. Men seemed drawn to it and were curious if I was happily married, etc. I'm not saying that a married, man or a married woman shouldn't wear the ring, but I am saying nowadays... marriage is a mindset.. There are so many men and women that do not respect marriage, whether they have a ring or not.
Same experience I had, one married dude even told me what I suspected, and that was that they seek out the married women because they can only expect sex from the men and have to get everything else from their husbands.
@@onevenus6040 exactly
I have met many men who wear his wedding ring on the right hand the same finger. When ask if married they reply no but that's clearly a wedding band.
In my country people wear the wedding ring on the right hand.
Wearing wedding ring on right hand which I have seen I'm not stupid means the marriage is over or about to be over I watch News and look at the men with wedding rings on their left hand on the TV screen but then I see a man with it on the right it means marriage is over or about to be over
😩💀😭😭😭😭😭😂 Every Kiss Begins Wit “K” Took Me Out 😂😭 TG these guys no what they doing... Allot of times most of these Dudes are Marrying Placeholders and have lost interest into who they Married! They Married that person for a Reason & that reason wasn’t Love!
I know a couple of guys who are in the band at my church, and I noticed that they did not have rings. So, I thought it was ok to be their friend. (I dont talk to married men)Then, someone told me that they were married. I personally never respected that, because they know what they are doing when they are ringless.
95% of the men in my department are married, and none of them has a ring on the finger. The world we live in.
That doesn’t mean anything
That's crazy. My soon to be husband already got his wedding band. He's excited about wearing it but didn't spend alot of money on it. He spent the money on mine instead as he wants me to shine.
But trust that those same men will be upset if their wives do not wear their rings
@@michellem5567 more like he wants you to wear it.
Are you South African?
Some that wear a ring still cheat. So its not a guarantee .
true...one tried me and I turned his ass down!
That’s what he said in the vid.
True, but it gives the woman the opportunity to say no when they see it.
"Affairs happen with 3, 4, 5 rings on" 😂😂😂
I definitely believe in wedding rings. It’s a symbol at least to others outside that You are “off the market”
Good afternoon 👋🏾! In my opinion whether a man or woman that plans to get married, to begin with that should of a topic already discussed even before engagement. Marriage is a contract, bond and unity. Part of that unity comes with the symbol of marriage which is the ring 💍,and if your not willing to commitment to wearing why even go through the whole process. Look save everyone’s time, money, headache and most of heart ❤️ ache!✌🏾✊🏾
So true...and so many married men do not wear them.🤔
Rings don't make people faithful or loyal. Their character does. I respect different opinions though
You should not leave yourself open to temptation that is like saying im in a good neighborhood I don't need to lock my car
I agree I think a ring doesnt make a marriage and I know people who'll speculate it's about trust my parents dont wear rings at all and they been married over 50 years there is so much more issues out there more than some jewelry I'm not saying never wear it but God knows my heart and my husband vice versa
My mom or dad didn't wear rings and neither do me an my husband it a simple I'm married because ring or not people will shoot there shot this is stupid
I had more men try and talk to me the Lil time I did. Wear a ring lol they actually want you more if you're married
Right this is dumb....this generation don't care if you were a ring or not. I had on a ring, and he asked me if I was happy and can I have friends. Then he ended with I know how to play the game if you can....
OMG I’ve been asking this question for the longest. Thank you for addressing it!
Yeah cause my "husband" wore his, but it was like women looked at it like a challenge or something
Erica McCuin it was a challenge to see if they can get that man to leave his wife. It’s disgusting smh
@@lotusflower950 I agree 100%
@LadyD oh I know. My husband is a major hoe. He LOVES attention, but some of the women I had a chance to speak with admitted they new he was married. He didn't talk about his marriage good or bad. His favorite saying is, "don't worry about me and anyone else...just worry about us...let's be in the moment and enjoy our time"
I just didnt know until I found out cause he would also spoil and love me to cover his cheating. I'm pretty sure my husband is a narcissist though
@LadyD yes ma'am 100%
I have been on his rollercoaster ride for 20 years. And you're right. No remorse at all. I'm learning more daily on narcissist and trying to become stronger daily to not fall for his stuff anymore
@LadyD thank you so much love! Glad you saw the signs and escaped. I had no idea what he was until he left in June for the 4th time over 20 years and my friend said I swear hes a narcissist. Look it up. So I did and I was like OMG this is him! I'm convinced he's a covert narc. Very sneaky. Turned things around to make me feel it was my fault. That's why I never left. I was like well hes right I didn't do this the way he liked and if I had then he wouldnt have gotten mad. So stupid looking back now, but he is really good. Handsome. Charismatic. A master at love bombing. We have kids together so I'll never be free of him. I have to get strong and not be manipulated ever again. Thank you for your kind words. Prayers are always welcomed. I need the Lord to give me strength and opened eyes
A real kingdom man talkin 🙏🏿🙌🏿✊🏿
Facts! As a single lady I check for the ring tan line/tattoo/ring, etc. Ha!
I admire ur devotion to the ring! Continue to Skool these married brothers trying to take advantage of single queens!
May god continue to bless u and ur family! Blessings!
Me neither don't trust men that don't wear a wedding ring..
That's Vice verses with women to unless they couldn't afford to buy ring..
They be acting like they single when they don't wear no ring🤔
I agree, Tony. Good word. TFS.
Thanks for confirming this bro Tony. A while back I had a crush on a guy from church, he was really a nice guy and I thought he was single, the good thing was that I didn't mention it to him. Only to come and find out from my cousin sister who was close to him that he was married with 2 kids; his family was abroad. I was quite surprised by that. I thought because he was a committed Christian that was an even more greater reason for him to have his ring on at all times, but no. Thanks for your wisdom on this.
I don’t believe in that tattoo on the wedding finger either he need to have a ring on!!! 🤷🏽♀️
Amen Sista Justeen Jo, no tattoo, just wear yo’ ring!!
That’s a mess they need to wear it
Shar Diva my wife and I don’t wear a ring🤷🏾♂️
May God continue to bless all men who are faithful to their wives and keep their wedding rings on.
I’m so glad that you made this video, because this is so true “tattoo” this video has me cracking up, but some people don’t care about ring, they’ll say they don’t care I going let my hubby watch this video
Thanks for posting
Yess tony teach these men and women ‼️
I concur, blessings to you sir.
Thank you brother.
FACTS....YOU ARE SPEAKING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!
I love it that your wife told you that. How would a man feel if his wife did not want to wear her ring?!
I agree. You rock. ✌️
"Hives as medical reason" 😆
Absolutely I agree with you 100%
Hii Tony.. They still make men like uuu? Were, at
MR. TONY THANK U FOR YOUR VIDEOS YOUR VIDEOS BEEN VERY HELPFUL THANK U I HAVE A QUESTION what IF HE WEAR HIS RING ON HIS chain round his neck what does that mean?
Thank you
My is in his 70s and NEVER wore a wedding ring. He does not believe in MEN wearing JEWELRY. A boyfriend I had when I was younger I made sure he took his earring out before coming to the house because my dad will not take a man seriously who has an earring in. And he is 1 of the BEST Examples of a man who is In Love with his wife that I have ever seen.
I agree with you Tony!
And I believe my dad!
So to each his own!
Never had so many women hit on me than when I was married wearing my wedding ring. I summed it up that single women like a challenge or something. Why do people want to flirt when you have somebody. When you are single, silence!
Michael West If that’s the case that single women will approach a married guy then they have set themselves up to the worst “challenge” of their life ... to be PLAYED and betrayed ... definitely a no-WIN situation.
@@BrendaBaBoom agreed! I have not figured out why. Someone told me that being married mean a man must be worth something someone already loves him?
Michael West He’s “worth somethin’ cause he’s married and loved”??? You got a married man out there cheating and lying to his beloved wife ... that’s pretty much WORTHLESS in my opinion. The most VALUELESS thing a woman can do is get messy with a married man.
You are so right brother my husband wore his until he got real sick it kept falling off he believed it it he was the best ❤️ I miss him so much
God bless you 🙏🏿🙌🏿
Your marriage is blessed in the name of 🙏🏿🙌🏿
Knowledge is power!! I always get that too,..."I lost my ring" after two rings. This is power.
Yes u or so rite god bless u and ur wife always
Yes...that is respect....
Let the wife lose her ring, he'll buy another one the next day though lol
Hmmmm... thank u!
Tony this man has me in my feelings... his UA-cam is the33secrets... he has me all upset.... he needs Tony Gaskins in his life.. I don’t even know how I came across his videos but wooooo total 360 from what you preach about! What a difference from a man that’s providing sound Godly advice vs. just bashing women.
What’s disturbing is he has more of a UA-cam following than you. And the comment section on his videos... I mean all those men need to come over here and start watching your videos.
Robin D. Thank you Robin you are 100% correct
I don't wear my wedding ring it's a 5k ring but me and my wife wear matching tungsten rings so everyone knows we married.
“Every kiss begins with KAY!” 😂😂😂
Amen!
Nowadays there are silicon wedding bands that are not made out of any type of metal so any man using the 'reason' aka an excuse for not wearing their wedding ring cuz they are allergic to whatever type of metal is DEAD! .. It is exactly THAT, an excuse!
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My husband always had a excuse not to wear his ring. He claims his slips off when he wears his gloves at work and all other excuses. His fingers shrink n swell..he was always full of excuses.
I agree on everything you say my brother , but on the other hand you have men who are Single would have a wedding band or just a ring on that left hand but they are Single. So I ask a male friend of my why do single man wear ring on that left finger. His answer was that single men do that to keep alots of women approaching them,or don't want to be in a relationship at this time. So is that true????
my husband tells me he does not like wearing rings as he works he is a painter and builder . he said his marriage is in his heart not in a ring do you agree we have two sons and been together 27 years
When I got married my ex husband took his ring off not long after . He said it would interfere with his work and eventually through the years he was flirting and than caught cheating by me . I’m now divorced only he done that many times and we split 6 times. After divorce he already had a woman move in with him in his new house. Both never healed from their baggage just got together like it was nothing.
He is speaking the truth!!! My ex- husband now claimed he lost his wedding ring. He was at the club acting single & cheating. It was planned. Ladies, periodically check to see if he has his ring on, if not ask WHY?
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I TOTALLY AGREE!! You said a rubber band!!😄 I remember when my ex husband did not wear his wedding ring until we got around my family😒 I didnt trust it then and I feel the same today. There is no excuse for this other than you not caring. Its is not material it is a symbol and if we agreed to this and I spent my money as well I expect it on your finger...It was better seen at the pawn shop for me tho😉
The amazing thing is those type of men do not accept the woman going around without her's. I have no beef with a husband who doesn't wear his ring, I just won't wear mine. After all, the commitment is in the heart. Is that not what they say?
you know what this video is 4 years old but I can't help but wonder, i know a man a pastor who does not wear his ring and he has a church and for many years he has not worn his ring, his wife wears here but recently i noticed she stop and this been going on for years, i no longer attend the church but know someone that does, why is he doing that to his wife?
I agree 100%
AMEN !!
I agree 100%.
My GOD, IT MATTERS🙌💖💖💖
Love your honesty and being straight up brother in Christ!!! Blessings to you and yours!!!
One of my favorites as of recent, I'm separated, but u still in a whole marriage with family.🤔🙄 Sometimes I don't think men have it all there. I trust no one these days. I'm to a point people out here looking for victims to entertain their mess. 😔
Stacey Crutcher You’ve got to vet (determine TRUST) with everyone that you meet ... otherwise it can get real messy in a hurry.
So what should I do if my Husband pawn his ring but yet say that he really was in need of the money. Hmm?? S.O.S please?
The only word that is needed is.. Amen❤🙏🏽
My uncle never wore a ring and he left his wife. Every person I know who doesn’t consistently wear it either cheats or leaves. It’s a psychological thing as well.
I have a question . So for the ladies in the comments if u find out he’s not married but might be involved with someone do you still go for it ? Cause I know some women will say well if you’re not married you’re single and technically that’s true .
Hi, Oh thats Lauren My personal opinion is that he’s basically involved and in a relationship with someone, therefore he’s UNAVAILABLE. True the guy is technically single, however it’s not a good place for a GREAT gal looking for a guy to start from ... use discernment always to keep your life easier and on track.
Then they say its not good to sleep with it on. Because it slows your blood circulation in your finger while you are sleep and it would be hard to take off because your finger swelled up.
What about in the engagement period? I wear my ring but he does not have one. He says it’s because I have not bought one.
My wife watches your videos, she agrees with your content Aman to god. I find a good thing an thats a wife. Follows a man of God that is present 🎁 🙏 in our life.
My husband told me today that he will no longer be wearing a wedding ring. He wears a rubber ring and said it’s uncomfortable. We also happen to be seperated.
Can you pls do a video about guys who are flirting with other women eventhough they are in a relationship
I respect your view; however there are denominations that see jewelry as an idol and the beliefs do not support the ring wearing. Some people have research the history of jewelry that includes thes wedding band.
Fierce Royalty Exactly. My dad doesn’t wear one for this reason, he is very much loyal.
@@msmelanin2425 that's awesome to hear. I'd be curious to know his denomination background. You can send me an email if you don't want to post here. I truly believe it's about character and principles.
H T So he never had a ring, this message obviously does not apply to him or others of that religious (belief).
@@aura5944 Actually the comment is relative if you listen to his message from the 2 minute mark to about 3.45 minutes of the message. He stated only for medical reasons is his only exception for married men not to have a wedding band on.
Amen amen!! I met a brother about month ago at a gym who claims to be a personal trainer, Looked nice and seem to be somewhat interested in me long story short no ring on finger I looked him up on Facebook and seen him with a woman in lots of pics and he even called himself a pastor on his page and she had his last name. Ran into him again and he insisted I call him about workout plan... I myself is married living single but respect enough not to fool around even thou my husband sleeping around.(Facts)..The guy was nice looking and I was lusting which I later repented it was truly a set up yet the Lord kept reminding me of who I am and where he has brought me from.I was like 😯 vexed in my spirit bc of my thoughts towards this guy and the only thing I can think of is God is my husband my provider my strength my friend and I thank you Lord am not where I used to be. If u desperate and not careful enough u will settle for the tricks of Satan.I was real close to falling but God. I make good money and pay my own bills God has brought me here and I dare myself to lean n depend on a man for his satisfaction...Be careful in this evil world I have a 14 year-old daughter which reminds me a nice looking person will be tried by the ones we look up to the most..Stay prayed up..
I agree married men should wear their wedding rings respect your marriage. if they don't want to wear it then dont get married they got something to hide. Real faithful men thats really truly in love wear their wedding rings always. Thank you tony good message.👏👏
I get more women chasing me with a ring on than when I take it off. I once had a chick hand me her phone with naked pictures of herself knowing I was married.
@@spiro9210 oh wow. Most people don't take marriage seriously.
That true. But check this out you have some people doesn't like to wear jewelry but they know that they are faithful. Some people don't like jewelry at all.
If he’s allergic to metals, he can wear a silicone wedding ring. Silicone rings are more comfortable and come in all sizes too.
I disagree, but will subscribe 'cause I feel you're write. hahah but, man... I know a guy who don't wear a ring for years and never had an affair with somebody else.
Too bad life dont work this way...ring?
No ring?
Character determines the outcome of Sin...I do believe in supernatural powers once we are in spiritual alignment.
You can't speak on something you know nothing about just because your wife didnt trust you enough and said you have to have your ring on don't judge. My mom and dad both never wore rings and faithful for 39 years trust and love each other and never a problem. The ring you can take off and put back on but with trust, love and God you don't need any material things to be faithful you are not supposed to do things or hang around temptation so that's on you not to trust because you have those issues .
Jayann Did you all listen to the vid, he didn’t say people would had didn’t religious beliefs or couples who agreed not to wear rings were in trouble. He said men who agree to wear rings with their spouse in the beginning but over time come up with a lame excuse not to wear it are dangerous, if they have a deceptive spirit. Now the single woman being approached by the married man has a difficult time figuring out if he’s taken or not. Not all men with rings are faithful, not all men without them cheat that’s a given sis!
@@aura5944 he still said men that don't have a ring he wouldn't trust thats something he knows nothing of. And my parents never agreed they just didn't and they are both trust worthy.
Dating men in the service is so tricky. That's why I've decided not to flirt with any military men anymore. I've met sooo many married men who don't wear their rings. They make rubber rings for use at a gym, or sports, so they have no excuses. I don't appreciate the deception. And I hope their wives know, too.
You right nvm
My ex put their wedding ring in the offering plate at a church we didn't even attend regularly.
This is so not true. It is so many other reasons people may not wear a ring. Let's stop assuming everyone is the same. People cheat with a ring on and post their family and social media.
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