@@Petr214 yes well,when a woman tightens up down there it means discomfort and she isn't enjoying it. Because who the hell wants to wake up to being assaulted?
@@m.a.d.m.5425 some people laugh so as to not bawl their eyes out. And as the saying goes laughter is the best medicine, it really does help our physical and mental health to laugh not to great extents but it helps
@@jackwhite8020 yeah bambino, i think babies, ragazza are young woman, ragazzo are young men, ragazzi is multiple and ragazze are a group of both. if i lied, it's been a long night. something along those lines.
Yes but I can’t stop thinking about the sweater arms being fully rolled down while she’s kneading the dough PLEASE ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVES I’M BEGGING YOU 😭😭😭
This era of female singers always sound like Doris Day to my ear. Imagining her singing this song with her Colgate white smile and squeaky clean image creates quite the cognitive dissonance.
Oh it is a pre rock and roll look, but clean, looking freshly washed by far beats how today's girls are- tubby, tattooed, bizarre hair color, always "dressed down" not to speak of those metal hanging boogers we seem to see frequently. Today there is cognitive and aesthetic dissonance.
@@BrightStar-vp3wk "They" like what they do but that is a different concept than what Beauty is: liking something lies within the self but Beauty, in its noun form, lies without, it is external to oneself. Ugly can be popular to be liked by oneself or by many, as it is now, but that does not make it Beautiful.
@@albertofuzzi7200 just don't marry them lol. Back then they wouldn't sleep with a guy without a wedding ring. Now they'll sleep with you after you take them to Wendy's.
@@sn5806 if the girls are able to sustain themselves without any external help, sure they can do that. Otherwise i fear marriage (and consequentially divorce) is the only thing that allows them to survive in this harsh world
The “if you too tore señora I get it outside from my friend Leonora” and “if i fall asleep he puts it in himself” are so jaw dropping, flabbergasting, and downright diabolical ☠️☠️
@@RLomoterengeIf you enter into an agreement where you and your wife are supposed to cook for each other and ONLY each other, then feel free to cook for yourself, but don't have someone else cook for you when she just wants a break. She doesn't owe you pizza every dang night. Her fatigue (likely due to YOUR lack of care) is not an excuse for you to cheat.
@@RLomoterenge Then you need to get a divorce. Good luck finding someone who will make you pizza every single night regardless how tired or ill they are and never return the favor. There's still no excuse for cheating or salt.
My ex used to wait until i was asleep on nights i told him no. Its sexual assault and nobody should have to go thru it. If you didn't consent to it, it's SA. Im still healing from it.
@@shawnmccarty6923the ability to divorce and leave a bad marriage is a privilege we fought for, and attitudes and behaviours like the ones expressed in this song are the reason why we fought. Yes, we are far, FAR better off now.
@@shawnmccarty6923 "Back when divorce was unheard of" I think it goes without saying but a family that is only together through coercion is not a happy family.
And the problem is he will most likely agree if the wife does not give him pizza at least a few times per week. That is why she realized she needs to give him pizza. People have needs, if both partners don't give each other pizza, they will both eventually dine in other establishments!
@@_nupurrd_good lord you can’t be serious 😂 you gotta make sure of things before you go spouting off 😂😂😂 you’re right no woman ever had a bank account anywhere until fifty years ago 😂😂😂
Unbelievable that this would have been considered risqué but also funny and not problematic. It reminds me of that scene in Rosemary’s Baby where she’s been drugged and fell asleep on a night when she and her husband planned “baby making activities”. In the morning he tells her he went ahead with the activities despite her being asleep. I always thought that scene was so strange, how he said that so casually and how she just accepted it. But the older I get, the more I realize how widely forced marital relations was just culturally accepted.
I mean... Depending on the circumstance, if she's willing I wouldnt instantly classify it as SA just because she was asleep. If she declined advances and then ya do it, then it's 100% SA but if it was basically planned by both to procreate... 🤔 Or did they plan it while she was intoxicated? So many variables. Edit: Typo
@@__-tp4tmIf it is planned to have Sex together then consent for Sex while one is asleep is Not automatically given. What are you on about? These two Situations dont equal another. One has to consent explicitely to somnophilia before being subjected to it.
@@__-tp4tmif she had said "if I fall asleep you can still have sex with me tonight" it wouldn't instantly be SA/rape, there even are some girls who like this stuff. But just because two people talk about having sex that night, doesn't mean it's ok for him to help himself while she's asleep
Should I mention somnophilia like it’s a thing granted it’s a thing both parties have to consent in the end but yeah bdsm is very varied in the end so there is a big difference between consensual and not though always get consent like yeah and I will just stop talking now
"zero benefit" 🤣 your idea of a marriage must be miserable if sex is the only think you think you should get outta it. A couple should work together and make each other's lives better in what ways they can. If that's a provider and a housewife that's fine, but it could also be two working people with equal home responsibilities, it could be a working wife and a husband who got laid off and looking for a job, it could be one partner disabled. If they grow each other's minds, and care for each other's needs...that's what I'd want. Sex is a need and we can deal with solving that, but to imagine it's all I gave/give would be a miserable marriage. @@karstenengelmann925
I just realized that "Mozzarella" can be meaning consent. "He's never been one for mozzarella". Yet mozzarella is one of the key things on pizza. Consent is one of the key things of sex. He doesn't want mozzarella yet to have the pizza be the most enjoyable, you'll want the mozzarella. Edit: I understand that it's not what the singer meant, however it still makes sense and is interesting to think about
@@badtransistions Even though it was actually to show that the songs not about pizza and not what she intended, it still makes sense and adds deeper meaning.
our grandmas really went through it. I'm still dumbfounded by how many songs from the mid 20th century are like this, SA was rampant and protected from any repercussion
No they didn't lmfao this is just a funny song 😂 give grandma more credit, if he was actually that bad she would've just poisoned him. People used to take care of their own problems and could have a laugh before the internet 😂
There is a big difference between her mom telling her she has to do it, and what the song actually says, which is that her mom basically says "this is how you keep a man."
That fall sleep part just brought back some bad memories I tried to forget lmao. Thats very much still assault it wild how mfs can’t even wait for you to wake up first before just asking
She sounds very stressed while shes singing makes the audience almost feel her desperation for it to stop. I love this song. It has so much emotion in it.
Exactly, she can only bring 'awareness' to *existing* issues, it's still to an extent a hugely problematic issue with trapped spouses/divorcees that have 'baggage'. Let's not forget how many developing countries still only recognise women as 'dependents' which gives rise to social/work-related inequities such as reduced pay, misrepresentation and victimisation in law etc.
Well, as someone that still believes in the importance of a traditional family, I can say that pizza every night is neither necessary, nor expected. Couples shouldn't deny themselves from each other, BUT the husband should also take care to realize that he is no position to make demands of having pizza.
Right?! I’m a trad wife with a trad husband, so people might suspect us of agreeing with non consensual pizza, but we say who even wants pizza that isn’t offered consensually? The consent is the best ingredient 😂
@@Endo-girlie-tries literally! I’m don’t have “pizza” personally, but I feel like if I did taking it from someone who didn’t wanna make it would be REALLY uncomfortable!
It's so much worse tho. She introduces him as a nice young man, that's who she married. After marriage she's trapped. If she doesn't have sex when he wants not only will he ruin her friendship but she'll be considered at fault for marital issues and if he divorces her then considering the times her life is over, she's ostracized, penniless burden on her family, and practically unmarriable. She's too afraid to sleep because he assaults her in her sleep, and from irl couples mistakenly thinking it's sexy we know that can end up with a hospital trip and is painful. When she turns to her mother for help her mother tells her that's how marriages are, abandoning and dismissing her but also telling her that her own father is a rapist. He wants the enthuisiam from their dating life, when he was hiding who he was and likely much nicer- she is exhausted, disgusted, and understandably no longer wants to have sex with him.
I hope we do. The rise of truml and the far right in europw is a sign that it could happen. As it should. Men like sex and men should have the balls to just GET what they want without fear. As nature intended.
There is a very simple answer not involving cheating or a-salt for a man when your woman doesnt want to sleep with you. Go ask her/figure out the reasons as to why. If you agree with the reasons, work with her on a solution both of you can agree/live with If she doesnt want to do that or you dont agree with her reasons, leave the relationship and find someone who will do what she didnt want to. No reason for cheating or ab. u. se.
I wouldn't judge the song in this way. Rather, in a light-hearted and socially acceptable way, we draw attention to the existence of a certain thing. Also ofteb people use humor to cope with things they cannot do anything about.
If it’s not clear to you that the person singing is a victim from the 1950s, a time where you could not directly say “my husband is raping me” calling out for help in the only way she can, then I’m Sorry, but you’re incredibly unintelligent.
@@artcia3186 yeah it seems pretty clearly satire to me, in the same way Lehrer satirizes clearly bad things with clever metaphors. I don’t really get all the comments saying it was problematic because what it discussed is problematic, I would have thought if it was considered bad at the time it’s because they didn’t want women drawing attention to how this type of thing should be made illegal. Not because people thought the song was making it sound good.
This song is amazing for its lyrics and how much this husband loves baked goods made by his wife that of his wife is tired he will make the pizza himself! Such a nice guy
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The way my jaw DROPPED when she said he put in himself when she asleep 💀
@@Petr214 wtf??
@@Petr214 yes well,when a woman tightens up down there it means discomfort and she isn't enjoying it.
Because who the hell wants to wake up to being assaulted?
OMG WTF. HOW WOULD YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS, AND WHYS THAT FUN?
@@Petr214 ???
NGL, i was wondering how he put it in his own body but then i got it....
Guys... I suspect that she might not be singing about pizza.
Do you think she’s talking about panzerotti?
I mean they’re literally singing about pizza come on
Piece-a
Bro what are you talking about she literally said pizza.
You think? I don't know. I am almost sure is about pizza. But who knows. 😂😂😂😂😂
The way the dough became a stress ball 😂
Always has been.
Yea SA is not funny actually
@@m.a.d.m.5425that's why people like to jokes about it....laughing is less painful than crying
@@m.a.d.m.5425 Laughing is less painful than crying
@@m.a.d.m.5425 some people laugh so as to not bawl their eyes out.
And as the saying goes laughter is the best medicine, it really does help our physical and mental health to laugh not to great extents but it helps
Me when she said "that's why we have many bambino": 👁👄👁
Just realized that meant kids😭😭
she means kids, right?
Bambino means kid @@jackwhite8020
@@jackwhite8020 yeah bambino, i think babies, ragazza are young woman, ragazzo are young men, ragazzi is multiple and ragazze are a group of both. if i lied, it's been a long night. something along those lines.
I miss the good old days when people had good wholesome family values and they didn't do or say anything inappropri....OHMYGOD!
Do you realize it has obviously been made as a JOKE, and this doens’t mean it happenned to her ?
@@lealacey2895are you dumb
😂😂😂😂
@@lealacey2895person is taking a dig on today is vulgar, old was appropriate and Nicer time thing. In this comment
@@lealacey2895 yes
"If theyre unconscious, dont give them tea. Unconscious people don't want tea."
In this case pizza
Technically not true some people do but it must be arranged beforehand
@@justsomedude4469As long as it's arranged beforehand, have at it.
OMG I WATCHED THE VIDEO IN SCHOOL TOO
Gimme that tea, I will drink it
"That's A-Salt 🧂"
Time to get out the pepper grinder!
Getting Shrek (2?) vibes
💀
Don't forget the vegetable peeler. ☺️🔪
Woahhhh😂
The spray should do
The beat: 💃💃💃
The lyrics: 🚓🚓🚓
Yes but I can’t stop thinking about the sweater arms being fully rolled down while she’s kneading the dough PLEASE ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVES I’M BEGGING YOU 😭😭😭
I WENT TO THE COMMENTS EXACTLY FOR THIS
And put on an apron! You're gonna ruin the clothes
@@Just_a_dork
Same😂
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
Oh thank god I'm not the only one. I was so distracted
This era of female singers always sound like Doris Day to my ear. Imagining her singing this song with her Colgate white smile and squeaky clean image creates quite the cognitive dissonance.
Oh it is a pre rock and roll look, but clean, looking freshly washed by far beats how today's girls are- tubby, tattooed, bizarre hair color, always "dressed down" not to speak of those metal hanging boogers we seem to see frequently. Today there is cognitive and aesthetic dissonance.
@@grandrapids57 maybe you should notice how they aren't trying to fit your Standard and are just doing what makes them feel comfortable
@@BrightStar-vp3wk "They" like what they do but that is a different concept than what Beauty is: liking something lies within the self but Beauty, in its noun form, lies without, it is external to oneself. Ugly can be popular to be liked by oneself or by many, as it is now, but that does not make it Beautiful.
@@grandrapids57 What you believe is beauty is no longer important and we all know that’s what you’re really angry about. 😉
@@grandrapids57oh
I appreciate the salt reference very much, and cleverly done.
I thought that's how Italians said thanks alot
My grandma literally told me once, I have no idea why, but that if you don’t give it they will find it somewhere else
Why should a man stay with a woman that doesn't want to be intimate with hum
Luckily now if they try that you can take the house, the kids, and half of their income in one fell swoop
Smart woman
@@albertofuzzi7200 just don't marry them lol. Back then they wouldn't sleep with a guy without a wedding ring. Now they'll sleep with you after you take them to Wendy's.
@@sn5806 if the girls are able to sustain themselves without any external help, sure they can do that. Otherwise i fear marriage (and consequentially divorce) is the only thing that allows them to survive in this harsh world
put the sausage back in the meat grinder-
If the pizza oven is a tight fit, it's about the same thing.
😂😂
I'm a Woman & my legs LITERALLY Crossed & I WINCED ... IDK how guys react to that image! 😭😂
@@florencepierce1864 Ever seen the "Thousand-Yard stare" image? It's something like that.
Oh, Cell Block Tango getting a new verse.
1993. That’s when physically forcing your wife to give you “pizza” every night, even while she is sleeping became illegal in all 50 states. 1993!
Omg I thought it was like actual pizza till you said it with the ""
1953. Please put your glasses on.
What does she mean by “ pizza”
Oh
OMG Relax
The “if you too tore señora I get it outside from my friend Leonora” and “if i fall asleep he puts it in himself” are so jaw dropping, flabbergasting, and downright diabolical ☠️☠️
If the wife doesn’t make food at home you gotta look elsewhere or cook it yourself
@@RLomoterenge🤦♀️😐
@@RLomoterengeIf you enter into an agreement where you and your wife are supposed to cook for each other and ONLY each other, then feel free to cook for yourself, but don't have someone else cook for you when she just wants a break. She doesn't owe you pizza every dang night. Her fatigue (likely due to YOUR lack of care) is not an excuse for you to cheat.
@@rubyrangitsch5248 I’ll find a better pizza maker then
@@RLomoterenge Then you need to get a divorce. Good luck finding someone who will make you pizza every single night regardless how tired or ill they are and never return the favor. There's still no excuse for cheating or salt.
Shes dressed like one of those candies in a strawberry wrapper thats always in your grandmums purse.
Its not pizza if there's no consent.
I wanted to use the "Sleeping people don't want pizza" line to reflect the tea metaphor but in that one specific instance the analogy doesn't work.
Nope, that’s grapes! They don’t go on pizza
@@kayvee256 You can't make pizza if you're asleep, maybe ?
Sounds like expectations should be clearly set before marriage
@youroldman8129 sounds like they were, he told her how often he wanted it and that if she didn't want to he woulsonemmit somewhere else
I thought it was legitimately a weirdly pizza-obsessed man until I saw the comments
Me too 😢
You must be slow
@@cisummusic22 Slow or not, buddy got their heart in the right place.
@@greed94true, even his username is tangentially related to pizza. Bro got his mind on the Za
@@cisummusic22 no, Just inoccent
My ex used to wait until i was asleep on nights i told him no. Its sexual assault and nobody should have to go thru it. If you didn't consent to it, it's SA. Im still healing from it.
I'm sorry that you had to deal with this 💩. I'm glad to read that it's an ex-💩 now and that you won't have to deal with his ☠️ behavior anymore.
Im so sorry, time helps everything ❤
You should have just told him ok.
@@sumduma55No means no. You’re gross for blaming the victim btw.
@@sumduma55 you evil as a demon
Our poor grandmothers. There's songs like this in every culture and it's f*cking heartbreaking.
Back when divorce was unheard of and families stayed whole
Yeah we are much better now SMDH
@@shawnmccarty6923the ability to divorce and leave a bad marriage is a privilege we fought for, and attitudes and behaviours like the ones expressed in this song are the reason why we fought. Yes, we are far, FAR better off now.
@@shawnmccarty6923 "Back when divorce was unheard of"
I think it goes without saying but a family that is only together through coercion is not a happy family.
Womp womp
@@ellaphx America does not seem better off
Just tell the jerk that if Leonora likes him that much, they're welcome to each other!
this song is from the 50's so this wasn't considered as bad behavior yet
And the problem is he will most likely agree if the wife does not give him pizza at least a few times per week. That is why she realized she needs to give him pizza. People have needs, if both partners don't give each other pizza, they will both eventually dine in other establishments!
If you arent giving him pizza, why would he give you covers?
also the wife will have nothing... didn't woman had bank accounts only after 1974
@@_nupurrd_good lord you can’t be serious 😂 you gotta make sure of things before you go spouting off 😂😂😂 you’re right no woman ever had a bank account anywhere until fifty years ago 😂😂😂
Unbelievable that this would have been considered risqué but also funny and not problematic. It reminds me of that scene in Rosemary’s Baby where she’s been drugged and fell asleep on a night when she and her husband planned “baby making activities”. In the morning he tells her he went ahead with the activities despite her being asleep. I always thought that scene was so strange, how he said that so casually and how she just accepted it. But the older I get, the more I realize how widely forced marital relations was just culturally accepted.
I mean...
Depending on the circumstance, if she's willing I wouldnt instantly classify it as SA just because she was asleep.
If she declined advances and then ya do it, then it's 100% SA but if it was basically planned by both to procreate... 🤔
Or did they plan it while she was intoxicated?
So many variables.
Edit: Typo
@@__-tp4tmshe fell asleep, she did NOT consent to being effed while asleep. DO NOT say this is ok when it's 100% rape.
@@__-tp4tmIf it is planned to have Sex together then consent for Sex while one is asleep is Not automatically given. What are you on about?
These two Situations dont equal another. One has to consent explicitely to somnophilia before being subjected to it.
I think its actually a social commentary
@@__-tp4tmif she had said "if I fall asleep you can still have sex with me tonight" it wouldn't instantly be SA/rape, there even are some girls who like this stuff. But just because two people talk about having sex that night, doesn't mean it's ok for him to help himself while she's asleep
Do not force your wife to make pizza for you, nor should you give an unconscious person a cup of tea.
Unconscious people, do not want tea.
Fellow Genshin fan spotted
Should I mention somnophilia like it’s a thing granted it’s a thing both parties have to consent in the end but yeah bdsm is very varied in the end so there is a big difference between consensual and not though always get consent like yeah and I will just stop talking now
Hahahahaha ‘force’.
There is ZERO benefit for men to get married. Stay single, stay strong bros!
@@karstenengelmann925 Bold of you to assume women wanna be married, I certainly don't
"zero benefit" 🤣 your idea of a marriage must be miserable if sex is the only think you think you should get outta it. A couple should work together and make each other's lives better in what ways they can. If that's a provider and a housewife that's fine, but it could also be two working people with equal home responsibilities, it could be a working wife and a husband who got laid off and looking for a job, it could be one partner disabled. If they grow each other's minds, and care for each other's needs...that's what I'd want. Sex is a need and we can deal with solving that, but to imagine it's all I gave/give would be a miserable marriage. @@karstenengelmann925
These old songs are 🔥🔥 😂
He puts it in himself, he'll be digging sausage out from the dog's mess in the yard the next day.
What does that even mean?
@@m.a.d.m.5425Lorena Bobbitt.
@@m.a.d.m.5425 the dog’ll eat his… yk.
@@m.a.d.m.5425 Means he can urinate sitting down after that, and the dog's already had dinner. Got it? 🙄
We have a Lorena Bobbit here!! 😂
I just realized that "Mozzarella" can be meaning consent. "He's never been one for mozzarella". Yet mozzarella is one of the key things on pizza. Consent is one of the key things of sex. He doesn't want mozzarella yet to have the pizza be the most enjoyable, you'll want the mozzarella.
Edit: I understand that it's not what the singer meant, however it still makes sense and is interesting to think about
I assumed it was referencing man to wife fellatio actions...
I assumed it was referencing man to wife fellatio actions...
you’re overthinking, she just said that to show it’s not about pizza
@@badtransistions Even though it was actually to show that the songs not about pizza and not what she intended, it still makes sense and adds deeper meaning.
Not me thinking a mozzarella stick was her saying that basically he’s never been into men & is only into “pizza/Pizza oven’s” aka women 💀
How to start thinking it's time to get the sausage cutter out
If the pizza oven is a tight fit, it's about the same thing.
@@gamecraziyall act like the v can expand to the size of a watermelon.
diabolical
That was epic. Bring back the good old days 😂
I cannot express the amount of rage and anxiety I experienced while watching you hand mix dough with long sleeve clothing on.
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT
Dont know, but I have the sense that its not talking about an actual pizza, gotta do some more research 🤔🤔
I don't know if you are joking or not and that is concerning. 😶
@@laurakiner3942 JO-KIKG! man!
I actually thought it was talking about pizza till the A-salt part
Wait she’s not talking about pizza? Then what?
It's a Pizza dat ass
our grandmas really went through it. I'm still dumbfounded by how many songs from the mid 20th century are like this, SA was rampant and protected from any repercussion
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No they didn't lmfao this is just a funny song 😂 give grandma more credit, if he was actually that bad she would've just poisoned him. People used to take care of their own problems and could have a laugh before the internet 😂
Marital rape was legal in every state the US until the 1970s.
@@blamberton7893It's not just a funny song.
@@kyokosakura3192 it is just a funny song, that's why both me and the lady who sang it are happier than you
Honestly, I thought she was overreacting until I realized they were not actually talking about pizza 😅
The way her head picked up the moment she realized what "pizza" meant.
The saddest part is her Mama telling her she has to do it! Like there is no choice. That tells me it’s been going on for generations. Horrible.
There is a big difference between her mom telling her she has to do it, and what the song actually says, which is that her mom basically says "this is how you keep a man."
My mom always kept on telling me that for me to have a "happy" marriage is to always give it to my husband or he would turn aggressive or angry 💀
@@juslus1659That is quite concerning 😀
@juslus1659 From a scientific point of view, it's not wrong. It temporarily lowers the amount of testosterone, which reduces anger and aggression.
Whole woman generations have been abused in name of marriage
That fall sleep part just brought back some bad memories I tried to forget lmao. Thats very much still assault it wild how mfs can’t even wait for you to wake up first before just asking
Such a good song wish they made more music like this these days
I make my own sauce at home.
Wait...
We're still talking about pizza, right???
😂
My sauce is 🔥 spicy🥵
She sounds very stressed while shes singing makes the audience almost feel her desperation for it to stop. I love this song. It has so much emotion in it.
Those "good old days" can stay gone.
Such a nice song, gotta love those Italians!
It’s not problematic, many of Ruth Wallis songs were bringing AWARNESS to the issues women or other folks faced. Big difference
Exactly, she can only bring 'awareness' to *existing* issues, it's still to an extent a hugely problematic issue with trapped spouses/divorcees that have 'baggage'. Let's not forget how many developing countries still only recognise women as 'dependents' which gives rise to social/work-related inequities such as reduced pay, misrepresentation and victimisation in law etc.
I don’t like how often I’m seeing “duty as a wife” in these comments- like it is 2024 right? Haven’t we decided women aren’t property by now?
@charlieemily7319 yeah, just like we decided men aren't pursuers
Well, as someone that still believes in the importance of a traditional family, I can say that pizza every night is neither necessary, nor expected. Couples shouldn't deny themselves from each other, BUT the husband should also take care to realize that he is no position to make demands of having pizza.
Right?! I’m a trad wife with a trad husband, so people might suspect us of agreeing with non consensual pizza, but we say who even wants pizza that isn’t offered consensually? The consent is the best ingredient 😂
Duty as a spouse and freely offered.
@@Endo-girlie-tries literally! I’m don’t have “pizza” personally, but I feel like if I did taking it from someone who didn’t wanna make it would be REALLY uncomfortable!
It's so much worse tho.
She introduces him as a nice young man, that's who she married. After marriage she's trapped. If she doesn't have sex when he wants not only will he ruin her friendship but she'll be considered at fault for marital issues and if he divorces her then considering the times her life is over, she's ostracized, penniless burden on her family, and practically unmarriable. She's too afraid to sleep because he assaults her in her sleep, and from irl couples mistakenly thinking it's sexy we know that can end up with a hospital trip and is painful. When she turns to her mother for help her mother tells her that's how marriages are, abandoning and dismissing her but also telling her that her own father is a rapist. He wants the enthuisiam from their dating life, when he was hiding who he was and likely much nicer- she is exhausted, disgusted, and understandably no longer wants to have sex with him.
My wife wants pizza just as much as I do!
Damn pizza without mozzarella? He must be from Chicago
.....It's under the sauce
@@ChronicallyTweakingbut there's no cheese on it
@@Loki-N its under the sauce.
I'm Italian and it's hurting me
My dumb ahh thought it was actually about pizza💀
bro same
The expressions while kneading
Her facial expressions are great!
That’s the first video I watched on your channel and the I found you❤❤❤
Memories!!! Hope you are enjoying the re-heated pizza
@@honest2betsy I hope the guys who ask for your recipe are at least civil.
@@honest2betsy ❤️❤️❤️ofc we are enjoying not just the re-heated pizza 🍕 but every video ❤️❤️❤️
Your poor sleeves!
The song isn’t problematic, it’s calling attention to the issue not endorsing the behavior
It was considered problematic back in 1953
@@MissDeadInside thats not implied in the video at all. She just calls it problematic.
Nobody cares. The moral compass isn't built around 21th century California women
@@cisummusic22I thought it was implied by her calling it that, it’s obvious she’s not talking about pizza and that makes it problematic for the times
It's problematic because it's painted as humorous/something to be expected rather than what it actually is: marital rape.
I miss the old songs
lol when I snapped to what she meant lol 😂
Lol why are they always so catchy though
I like how she laughs while singing at a few points.
This comment section is making me want to throw up. The song alone is very bad, but to think that some people still think this way...🤮
No one thinks rape is ok, idiot.
What they are talking about is the true purpose of the message of the song,also
Also it's catchy ngl
@@Fedurah i won't argue that the melody is catchy, but the lyrics are just wrong. Are you implying that they aren't?
@bildad_the_shuhite No i don't, the lyrics are a lil' concerning ngl
We are NOT going back!!!!!!!
I hope we do. The rise of truml and the far right in europw is a sign that it could happen. As it should. Men like sex and men should have the balls to just GET what they want without fear. As nature intended.
And this is why we season mozzarella with arsenic, the secret family recipe
Y'know, I've heard that some people just can't hold their arsenic, but he probably had it comin'. He only had himself to blame.
There is a very simple answer not involving cheating or a-salt for a man when your woman doesnt want to sleep with you.
Go ask her/figure out the reasons as to why.
If you agree with the reasons, work with her on a solution both of you can agree/live with
If she doesnt want to do that or you dont agree with her reasons, leave the relationship and find someone who will do what she didnt want to.
No reason for cheating or ab. u. se.
the amount of rage this song induces is not healthy. not even a little bit
Might be a you problem.
Bruh i thought she was really talking about pizza until the sleep comment lol
i actually heard this before when I was younger, Thank you for helping me find it again
Hold on, guys. This might be crazy, but hear me out.. I'm starting to think this song isn't really about pizza 🥺
@thorstmixx that's because it's not. It's using a metaphor for something else. Just read other comments.
A cutesy song about pizza is actualy abusive relationship... damn
I'm sorry what ? Are we talking about domestic r@pe in a lovely , silly song ?
Yes.
I wouldn't judge the song in this way. Rather, in a light-hearted and socially acceptable way, we draw attention to the existence of a certain thing. Also ofteb people use humor to cope with things they cannot do anything about.
If it’s not clear to you that the person singing is a victim from the 1950s, a time where you could not directly say “my husband is raping me” calling out for help in the only way she can, then I’m
Sorry, but you’re incredibly unintelligent.
Marital r@pe became a crime in 1993...spousal abuse in 1920. Yeah, it was the times
@@artcia3186 yeah it seems pretty clearly satire to me, in the same way Lehrer satirizes clearly bad things with clever metaphors. I don’t really get all the comments saying it was problematic because what it discussed is problematic, I would have thought if it was considered bad at the time it’s because they didn’t want women drawing attention to how this type of thing should be made illegal. Not because people thought the song was making it sound good.
This girls droppin knowledge¡
That's a-salt has so many layers to it, I shouldn't have laughed as hard as I did.
This song is amazing for its lyrics and how much this husband loves baked goods made by his wife that of his wife is tired he will make the pizza himself! Such a nice guy
She should slice the sausage into really thin pieces...
Ahh the good old days.
Hang on a moment. Am I just drunk or was this on youtube previously? I could swear I saw it months ago.
yup its a repost lol
@@cazpiana Thanks mate!
"That's why we got so many bambino" 💀💀💀 (Btw in italian bambino means children)
A small phonetic change from i to u in the word pizza and then you have a slang word in Greek whose meaning is exactly what the song implies.
Bro oven ain’t even hot when she’s asleep, that can’t possibly feel decent.
THE SLEEVESSSS EEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Her poor sleeves
_"He say if you are too tired Senora I get it outside from my friend Leanora"_ Ok that's it... Hell no.
That's a bop.
Back away slowly, and whatever you do: don’t sing the song.
Why ?
@@lealacey2895 look I may be autistic but even I can read body language like that.
It was recorded in 1975,but would 'Put Another Log on the Fire' fit? Also, 'Harper Valley PTA' was recorded in 1968.
In Put Another Log on the Fire she's leaving him, though, not just accepting it.
Holy crap!!! Yeah, we're not going back to that... wow!!!
Off topic, your outfit is very pretty! It looks like my countrys flag (Lithuania)
"Thats a-salt!"
Me now understanding what the song means : Ohh No… THE MAN SEXUALLY ASSAULTS HIS WIFEEE OHH NOOOO
😂🎉🎉🎉 I love Betsy...😅
@@international360 Betsy loves you too
@@honest2betsywhat’s the name of this song?
UNCONSCIOUS PEOPLE DON'T WANT PIZZA
Yes they do...don't speak for everyone. You only truly know you
@@Josh-th7tm god men are gross
THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED WHEN I REALIZED THIS WASNT ABOUT PIZZA...
Also why do you look like Veronica from a heathers show on yt...
Unconscious people dont want pizza!
The genuine horror that filled me with every new sentence, oh my fucking God 😀
Dude must be 600lbs eating p...... oooooo, now I get it!!!
Good song.
Truly enjoy your work!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
We have learned from Shakespeare and various other literatures that food doesn’t always mean food…
I feel like he needs to lose his sausage.
😢 so many comments sticking up for the cheating and assault. Its icky
Guy just wants pizza to be happy, very humble.
And thatsa awhy our grandaparents lived together longa ahappy lives
I shared the original post with all my peeps & I hope they gave you a bunch of traffic on the post which spurred the repost in my delulu brain ❤😂😘
I LOVE YOU HONEST2BETSY 😍
@@andream9141 that’s totally what happened! I love you too!
Bambini (m. pl. of bambino)
Had to make it rhyme with vino.
@@michaels4255 Could have plausibly used "vini" and "bambini"... :)
Just think of it as Englian, or Italglish, if you prefer.
I’m sorry but when the red flag popped up that said “that’s A-salt” I couldn’t help but laugh and now I feel terrible..
Lmao i got to this short after watching many food recipes videos! 😂
“that’s a-salt”
why am i laughing at this i shouldn’t be😭💀