Dom's Back, Deleting Tiktok and Social Media | Ep 38 w/ Dom & Maya

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  • Опубліковано 1 гру 2024

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  • @marlenbobarlen
    @marlenbobarlen 25 днів тому +513

    Like folks in the comments are saying, this podcast is so so needed because of the election results this morning. You two are breaths of fresh air. Dom, we’re happy to have you back! Let yourself grieve at your own pace. No one is going to say anything if you cry during today, next week, month, years episodes.

    • @lilyjun3
      @lilyjun3 25 днів тому +8

      they are quite literally boosting my mood as we speak, very much needed for sure

  • @ashleycrockett3908
    @ashleycrockett3908 25 днів тому +309

    I need this real bad this morning 😭

  • @jaehyunsbread23
    @jaehyunsbread23 25 днів тому +161

    i missed your voice, dom 🥹

  • @psemilanceata
    @psemilanceata 25 днів тому +126

    the way the light shines from Doms face is so beautiful

  • @brenten42069
    @brenten42069 25 днів тому +113

    my dad passed away around two years ago from a sudden anaphylactic reaction and it really is a hard thing to process. i’m sending all my love and good vibes from a fellow daddy’s girl. you’re not alone in the way you feel ever. ❤️

    • @upstairsneighborspodast
      @upstairsneighborspodast  24 дні тому +17

      hi it’s dom i’m so sorry i’m sending you the biggest hug thankful you’re a part of our community ❤️

  • @bentebungum5934
    @bentebungum5934 25 днів тому +49

    12:52 that was the hardest thing about losing someone I loved. My world stopped and the sun just came up in the morning. And that didn’t make sense to me. I couldn’t make that make sense. I’m so sorry for your loss may he rest in peace

  • @tikki777
    @tikki777 25 днів тому +126

    needed this badd..

  • @teaganwentz257
    @teaganwentz257 24 дні тому +14

    My dad passed early September, and I found this podcast soon after. It has been such a comforting podcast, and then to hear about Dom- my heart goes out. The grief is strong but we persevere

  • @larissa9346
    @larissa9346 22 дні тому +6

    i literally deleted tiktok and my socials a few days ago, it’s so true about the honest disconnect from life, i feel so much more focused and calm especially after the election, and the withdrawal goes crazyyy but it’s so worth it

  • @tinnycrochets
    @tinnycrochets 25 днів тому +42

    dude me crying with Dom rn…I’m so glad you have such supportive friends and I’m genuinely sending you all the love

  • @niya.8378
    @niya.8378 25 днів тому +72

    thank you guys for blessing me in this time of need 🙏🏽

  • @destinyb75
    @destinyb75 25 днів тому +43

    DOMM YAYYY! needed this after the election 💔

  • @jcheartspj
    @jcheartspj 21 день тому +4

    My true Presidents are back in office! Welcome back Queens, we love you

  • @ghaida3926
    @ghaida3926 18 днів тому +2

    damn i actually can't watch this bc i started crying when dom started talking about her dad , sending her love 💗 may god strengthen her heart and grant her patience bc that kind of loss is unfathomable

  • @kbppeuhle7872
    @kbppeuhle7872 25 днів тому +23

    so much hate in this world but not in this community! needed this so bad l

  • @lani5681
    @lani5681 25 днів тому +31

    a single tear rolling down my cheek seeing the new vid 🥲 y’all don’t owe anything to any of us but continue to brighten so many people’s mood with this pod ughhh ILY Dom and Maya!

  • @jessiebee3423
    @jessiebee3423 21 день тому +3

    Dommmm you are in my thoughts and in my heart. My best friend died suddenly in a car accident and the sudden grief knocks your world off its fucking axis. You carry this different perspective with you for the rest of your life and people love you just as much after as they will before and during this shift. We all love you guys so much fr

  • @Daniela-ui7po
    @Daniela-ui7po 25 днів тому +9

    ive missed dom’s “well here’s the thing”

  • @notjosh05
    @notjosh05 21 день тому +3

    my deepest condolences dom, so glad ur back 🫂❤️ great ep as usual divas 💕💕

  • @beommpy4413
    @beommpy4413 25 днів тому +16

    video quality is so crisp today. welcome back dom 🫶

  • @unicorncurry317
    @unicorncurry317 24 дні тому +3

    41:17 Maya i'm sooooooo happy for you because this quite literally is my tea, one hundred percent. It's actually kinda crazy cuz I haven't had tiktok on my phone in about 3 years, but ever since I got rid of it my shit has lowk been rocked. I have no tiktok, i have screenzen and don't scroll on instagram at all, and I really love it. I'm glad it did something for you and that you're able to get more out of life!

  • @whatifshedidthat
    @whatifshedidthat 25 днів тому +17

    I hope y'all know how loved you are. Happy to have you back Dom ❤

  • @lilrere4899
    @lilrere4899 25 днів тому +5

    Dom, baby we missed you. Also after crying ALL day on and off due to the election, I remembered "it's upstairs neighbors day" . What a wonderful surprise to see my besties have been reunited on the pod. I love you both. So much. Very proud to have a parasocial relationship with yall

  • @micah1665
    @micah1665 25 днів тому +8

    WELCOME BACK DOM ❤️ it truly takes a village girl, i love how your friends held it down while you were away. so happy you’re back 💋

  • @chayarainer
    @chayarainer 21 день тому +2

    literally what I needed after the election results💔 was so nice to see dom again 🫶🏼

  • @destinyguzman487
    @destinyguzman487 25 днів тому +52

    Needed yall, bc we are in shambles 😢

  • @jadensvenus
    @jadensvenus 25 днів тому +12

    I just screamed !! WE LOVE YOU DOM 💓💓💓💓💓

  • @azaria4447
    @azaria4447 25 днів тому +9

    Thank god y’all posted. I’m fighting tears and dissociating getting ready for work rn

  • @aquaberry123
    @aquaberry123 24 дні тому +3

    Dom I cannot even imagine what you are going through, I’m so sorry about your loss and think that you are such a beautiful and bright soul, thank you for being vulnerable with us you are so strong and admirable, your dad raised an amazing woman 🩷 thank you for both putting so much work into this podcast, along with all your beautiful friends! I look forward to this every week and it’s so refreshing to hear other people with similar perspectives

  • @tooth1216
    @tooth1216 25 днів тому +8

    so happy to see y’all today. some levity was needed in this dark time (like omfg biting the curb)

  • @jocelynjohnson2247
    @jocelynjohnson2247 25 днів тому +5

    literally deleted tiktok while watching this… also love and appreciate you divas ❤️

  • @jpenman1217
    @jpenman1217 24 дні тому +2

    I relate so much to this Dom, especially the part about your Dad being the go-to person to call when something goes wrong or when you just need to know what to do. My dad is just like that, I feel like I'm always trying to absorb all of the information I can from him before he's gone

  • @imnotblonde670
    @imnotblonde670 25 днів тому +2

    your dad sounds like an angel, Dom!!!
    i wanted to cry so badly, but he was that girl!

  • @gorgonofyule
    @gorgonofyule 25 днів тому +4

    My uncle passed very suddenly from a heart issue and its still so shocking to think about and its so hard to still really fully process. I really do hope the best for you, Dom, and the community support for times like this is so so special and im so glad that you have the support of your community. Its such a beautiful thing and I hope you remember to heal on your own time.
    💗💗

  • @ashleycrockett3908
    @ashleycrockett3908 25 днів тому +9

    Welcome back Dom🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @gavinwalton6565
    @gavinwalton6565 25 днів тому +13

    welcome back dom!! definitely needed something to raise my mood this morning love both of you sm🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @bittytrt
    @bittytrt 24 дні тому +2

    DOM WELCOME BACK DIVA love you guys ❤

  • @narbie8147
    @narbie8147 10 днів тому

    I also lost my dad suddenly last year and the way Dom talks about the processing of it all is truly how I felt during that time. I’m so happy she has such a good support system of friends around her that make her feel deeply loved and cared for. It’s good to see you back Dom we love you ❤️

  • @angeldisguised
    @angeldisguised 17 днів тому +1

    yall got me crying in class

  • @chunkofcheese666
    @chunkofcheese666 25 днів тому +3

    being part of a loving community is so important and so so rare, so seeing yalls friends show up each week genuinely warmed my heart

  • @sbstnlxs
    @sbstnlxs 25 днів тому +2

    i ditched my last hour of work completely to watch this. love y'all and sending strength to all of you out there in the us fr

  • @genevievedavis8211
    @genevievedavis8211 25 днів тому +4

    y’all r blessing us in the most treacherous of times. thanks you guys.

  • @mayab3ll3
    @mayab3ll3 23 дні тому +1

    so happy to have u back dom🫂u have been missed!!! and this ep was perfect timing❤‍🩹 love u both

  • @miles3837
    @miles3837 25 днів тому +2

    will forever b thankful to my sister for putting me onto yall 😭 welcome back dom! 💓

  • @eibunnie
    @eibunnie 25 днів тому +2

    Missed your light and energy Dom, sending all my love to you and your family🤍🕊️

  • @manuelalilliana1652
    @manuelalilliana1652 25 днів тому +3

    thank y’all for this, missing u so much Dom ❤ sending so much love! you guys really fill me up with joy & it was much needed today 😔🥺

  • @marisajust9055
    @marisajust9055 24 дні тому +1

    lost my mom in 2019 and i still cry allll the time! thank you for sharing your grief, it can be so healing to share/hear other people’s grief. finding solace in your community is so so important

  • @siennasmith98
    @siennasmith98 24 дні тому +1

    so happy to have you back, dom🥺sending you lots of love

  • @zweihandre
    @zweihandre 25 днів тому +8

    Bleak day but yall made it a little better

  • @jailenegonzalez4094
    @jailenegonzalez4094 24 дні тому +1

    i cried with yall, love yall down 🥺

  • @mirayounn
    @mirayounn 24 дні тому +1

    grief is never easy, i hope you are taking care of yourself dom and remember that you are loved! ❤

  • @olivia-hd9kn
    @olivia-hd9kn 25 днів тому +3

    yall make my week 🤧 ilyall

  • @meowzerpie
    @meowzerpie 25 днів тому +1

    We missed you so much Dom 🥺 welcome back and thank you both so much for this episode today. Couldn’t have gotten through the day without you

  • @jasmineheard4129
    @jasmineheard4129 25 днів тому +2

    glad to have dom back! definitely needed this after last night :))

  • @ManuNanuu
    @ManuNanuu 21 день тому +1

    you guys are angels

  • @ArtleyDraws
    @ArtleyDraws 25 днів тому +2

    Love these divas downnnnnn. Ty for being a bright light today ❤️

  • @rurii1i
    @rurii1i 25 днів тому +1

    I’m so glad to see u back dom omggg

  • @kylemulii
    @kylemulii 14 днів тому

    life has certainly not been life-ing for me and as SOON as dom started crying i sobbed
    we'll get through this girly and ty to u both for making such a great podcast

  • @jollibeauty
    @jollibeauty 25 днів тому +1

    WELCOME BACK DOM!!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @ALittleBitALotPodcast
    @ALittleBitALotPodcast 23 дні тому

    such a beautiful thing to have such good friends to pour into you when you’re going through it. so glad to see you back on the pod Dom! ❤

  • @Tellepatia
    @Tellepatia 25 днів тому +1

    I’m so glad yall post early as balls so I can listen to the pod while getting ready and omw to work

  • @staraster333
    @staraster333 25 днів тому +1

    my heart is with you girls

  • @TheAfroina
    @TheAfroina 25 днів тому +1

    Rooting for you Dom!! This podcast brings so many of us so much joy! It made me so happy to see yall post today

  • @homesicknatalie
    @homesicknatalie 25 днів тому +1

    welcome back dom 💗 we missed you so much brother

  • @yipyipitsme123
    @yipyipitsme123 25 днів тому +1

    Dom it was beautiful to hear about your dad, I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @hyjlsf
    @hyjlsf 25 днів тому +1

    we love you dom and you have the space to take as much as time you need. you don’t owe us anything we love you no matter what 🩷🩷🩷🤞🏾

  • @ghosty9951
    @ghosty9951 24 дні тому

    My mon passed away almost a year ago, and I still have moments, days, weeks like this. Take your time and feel it all. Love you both, so glad to have you back Dom!!

  • @maracruz5176
    @maracruz5176 25 днів тому +1

    Needed my girls now more than ever. So happy you're back Dom !!

  • @sonyenterwayment
    @sonyenterwayment 25 днів тому +2

    welcome back dom! sending so much love and support

  • @caitlyngoodwin-oster148
    @caitlyngoodwin-oster148 25 днів тому +1

    This is exactly what I needed this morning. Thank yall for always being such a light 💖💖

  • @angelrocker010
    @angelrocker010 25 днів тому +1

    we’re so down bad rn on my knees thanking yall for this

  • @Just_Darling20
    @Just_Darling20 24 дні тому +1

    Im so happy so see you Dom im glad your recovering❤

  • @laneridao4371
    @laneridao4371 25 днів тому +1

    MISSED YOU DOM WELCOME BACK ❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurencurry7002
    @laurencurry7002 25 днів тому +1

    i feel like i just got the most needed hug ever ❤

  • @winter_wolf3284
    @winter_wolf3284 25 днів тому +1

    We love you so much Dom tysm for this I needed this episode today

  • @leslieorquiz9833
    @leslieorquiz9833 24 дні тому

    missed you so much dom!! sending you so much love as you continue to process and heal. this episode came at the perfect time with everything going on this week. i appreciate this podcast and community so much

  • @aiiimat
    @aiiimat 25 днів тому +1

    This is the only glimmer of hope today…. For obvious reasons. Luv you girls down so happy you are back Dom

    • @aiiimat
      @aiiimat 25 днів тому

      Also Mary & Max is one of my favorite movies ever too wow. No theatre near me is having a showing of memoir of a snail tho smh 😢

  • @jackie-lx4vt
    @jackie-lx4vt 25 днів тому +1

    sending so much love to you dom 💌 thank you for all you do girls ❤️

  • @sophie-qd3ps
    @sophie-qd3ps 25 днів тому

    my girls 😭😭🫶🫶🫶🫶 thank you for uploading. i love you both

  • @kailanismile8554
    @kailanismile8554 24 дні тому

    So happy to see you guys back together! And super grateful for all your guys’ friends that came on the pod. My favorite content comes from you guys. So thank youuuu sm! 😊

  • @jaehyunsbread23
    @jaehyunsbread23 25 днів тому +1

    i love you both 💗 my heart is with you, dom. crying and trying to get ready for the day rn aaaaaaaahh

  • @NalediNaledi
    @NalediNaledi 25 днів тому +1

    Welcome back Dom we missed you🤍🤍

  • @snickeysnack5000
    @snickeysnack5000 25 днів тому

    So glad Dom is back. Can't help but think about who will be there for me when the time comes and I'm so glad Dom has great people around her to support her.
    Maya super sold me on deleting tiktok. I need it for work but i logged out of my account and have rearranged my apps in my last attempt to cut down. It really is muscle memory and I'm really trying to everything not to get seasonal depression this year and I def think that not having tiktok will help immensely. And Dom saying she had to mute her friends is sooo real lol I have muted soooooo many people on instagram, that has helped my mental health a lot as well.

  • @Its_kkryss
    @Its_kkryss 24 дні тому

    Yall literally make my week! This podcast is such a safe space ❤

  • @nevaeh465Fw
    @nevaeh465Fw 25 днів тому

    SO GLAD UR BACK DOM!! I HOPE UR DOING GOOD💗

  • @sopcarbs8875
    @sopcarbs8875 25 днів тому

    So happy to see dom back I’ve been crying all day I really needed this safe space 😭😭😭😭

  • @clarissa3124
    @clarissa3124 25 днів тому +13

    thank you for this 🤍 trying not to crash out

  • @LaurenBrodauf
    @LaurenBrodauf 25 днів тому

    my fav pod welcome back dommm :,) 🤍🤍🤍

  • @milamontu6683
    @milamontu6683 24 дні тому

    So happy to see you guys back together! ❤

  • @BeautyGossip05
    @BeautyGossip05 25 днів тому

    going through the same thing the timing was almost surreal so happy to see you back dom!! and the pod has been a huge help with the continued episode ❤❤ it’s gonna get better!!

  • @marymargaretmargaretmaryyy1664
    @marymargaretmargaretmaryyy1664 25 днів тому

    this pod is my breath of fresh air! welcome back dom

  • @georgexiii7521
    @georgexiii7521 24 дні тому

    I love y'all, thank y'all so much.This is so real today.

  • @vitamin_k
    @vitamin_k 25 днів тому

    welcome back dom!!!!
    your words have insane strength just know y’all ARE THE IMPACT

  • @sunnysophia92
    @sunnysophia92 24 дні тому

    Dom is back! I needed yall this week! Thank you so much. ❤

  • @nasyamiles3317
    @nasyamiles3317 25 днів тому

    welcome back dom💗ease in things boo, things are getting crazier and crazier and we need to remember to take care of ourselves as woc!

  • @kennedygrey7846
    @kennedygrey7846 25 днів тому

    It’s the way I’m pausing every 5 mins to sob all over my screen. I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine the grief. Praying for your family 🫶🏾

  • @briacooper9899
    @briacooper9899 25 днів тому

    needed yall so bad this morning! hope dom is taking care 🩷

  • @RainbowProductions85
    @RainbowProductions85 25 днів тому

    love you guys so much. dom your presence has been missed

  • @sfshawty
    @sfshawty 25 днів тому +2

    so happy to see my girlypops together ❤

  • @aniadavis5808
    @aniadavis5808 24 дні тому

    Hi dom and maya I love the podcast. Dom im very sorry for your sudden lost, could not imagine the kind of pain you are going thru. I felt seen when you were talking about experiencing grief when someone so close to you just suddenly passes away and you feel like time has stopped and everything has stopped, but only for you and not everyone else so you feel very alone. I hope you guys are taking care of yourself and keep up the great content pls :) ps i love yall 10x more cause yall are blasian and so am I