WHAT I WOULD DO DIFFERENTLY IN HINDSIGHT ONCE I WAS IN DEFAULT ON THE LOAN 🤔

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  • @ireneleedy1723
    @ireneleedy1723 2 місяці тому +6

    Only a real man would admit their failures. You’re the man ox. ❤

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +2

      I appreciate you. You know us guys never want to admit our failures 😆

  • @rockygerber2465
    @rockygerber2465 2 місяці тому +8

    Thank you Ox Talks for being open and honest with us. Hope you're enjoying your Father's Day

  • @diannemc3179
    @diannemc3179 2 місяці тому +9

    Awww. Milo is a good boy. Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there.

  • @betsyr4724
    @betsyr4724 2 місяці тому +10

    I love dogs. Thanks Mr. Ox.

  • @AppyRayn
    @AppyRayn 2 місяці тому +1

    Watching this Monday Happy belated Father's Day Ox love Milo

  • @attila2a746
    @attila2a746 2 місяці тому +10

    Thank you Ox

  • @denisewhite6237
    @denisewhite6237 2 місяці тому +3

    Keep in mind that the reason you are wise, today, is due to you learning from your past experiences. Your wisdom helps many. Thank you!

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you. I hope just one person listens and does not make the same mistake 🙏

  • @andyirons7162
    @andyirons7162 2 місяці тому +4

    Your channel is slowly finding it's own groove Matt.....i get a lot of value out of your FORECLOSURE video.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      I appreciate it. Thanks for watching

  • @jayneweaver8695
    @jayneweaver8695 2 місяці тому +5

    LOVE the dog!!! Milo is so cute, that is how we all feel today. : o)
    SO good for everyone to see that a professional, an upstanding man and his wife had a financial issue, how they handled it and how they recovered. THIS is a great series for you and for all of us. Mortgage broker, realtor for 27 years and 07, 08, to 2012 was brutal and no one that I know got out unscathed, very traumatic.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Jayne.
      Are you still in RE and mortgages?

    • @jayneweaver8695
      @jayneweaver8695 2 місяці тому +2

      @@oxtalks yes I am. IMO "this time" IF the Fed does not or at some point cannot keep interfering with the market will make the GFC look like Little Bo Peep. In 2008 San Jose in some zip codes had a 59% decline in value, much like your 50% decline. The stress is unbearable, financial death. VERY helpful and humble of you to share your experience. Grateful. : o)

  • @Retired-Sanitation-Worker
    @Retired-Sanitation-Worker 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing my comment Matt. Happy Fathers Day and Aloha from Kauai HI...Darin

  • @TravelT970
    @TravelT970 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Matt. Always appreciate you and JB.

  • @rodneybarington4483
    @rodneybarington4483 2 місяці тому +2

    You have a great show, keep it up !!!!!!!

  • @debbiecocoris8261
    @debbiecocoris8261 2 місяці тому +2

    You are giving real world advice and I for one appreciate it.
    Happy Father’s Day to you and your Dad. I’m sure he’s very proud of you!

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Thanks Debbie. 🙏

  • @tinahudgens3155
    @tinahudgens3155 2 місяці тому +4

    Awww Milo.🐶 Happy Father's Day Matt.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Thanks Tina

  • @tomcat6735
    @tomcat6735 2 місяці тому +4

    I have to congratulate your father that made you your character, I knew he would bail you out if you have a no way out. This is a trial and Baptism in fire. Happy Fathers Day Matt! You are fit to run for office in California. Milo is a couch potatoe!😂😂😂😂

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Hi Tom. Yes Milo is definitely a couch potato

  • @niccolewhite3149
    @niccolewhite3149 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for being transparent and sharing your story. Happy Father's Day. Love the hound dogs I have 4!

  • @nt6719
    @nt6719 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy Father's Day! I watch most videos from all creators at either 1.75 or 2 times the normal speed. I watched the whole video but if it was a 47 minute video my view time might have been as low as 24 minutes.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      I like that approach

  • @theotherorange3586
    @theotherorange3586 2 місяці тому

    I was on a road trip and enjoyed the long video and appreciated your story. These things can weigh on our hearts sometimes but remember God will never test you more than you can handle. I'm sure that lesson will save other's and thanks for reminding me of the importance of humility.

  • @vadra380
    @vadra380 2 місяці тому +1

    I went through something similar. It is like De-ja-vu today watching what is going on with the difference is we now have inflation with food, cars, and gas etc. I do t remember it being that bad 2008-2016. (Gas did go up ). Scary

  • @staceyhansen6089
    @staceyhansen6089 2 місяці тому

    Very interested on how all this works. Please expand on the housing topic.

  • @Nicki820
    @Nicki820 2 місяці тому +2

    Milo! Good to see you, bud!

    • @Nicki820
      @Nicki820 2 місяці тому +1

      Happy Father's Day

  • @kaiko982
    @kaiko982 2 місяці тому +51

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      @MIRAZBISWAS-ws6eb 2 місяці тому

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      @Valerie3Tytel 2 місяці тому

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      @ClienhfffCipladd 2 місяці тому

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      @leeleeaal 2 місяці тому

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      @KindraVillalta 2 місяці тому

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  • @rowillo
    @rowillo 2 місяці тому +1

    No worries, the content was great, I did not even realize that video re: your foreclosure was that long. If interesting material time doesn’t matter, at least not to me.

  • @mikewilkerson4154
    @mikewilkerson4154 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy Father's Day Matt. Hope you are having a wonderful day 👍. Great info today, most definitely staying in the house and saving all the money to apply towards another property. Especially if it's 2-3 years that's a lot of money 💰.

  • @Shell0003
    @Shell0003 2 місяці тому +2

    Real Estate agent said houses over MILLION slow sell and the ones under a million selling faster.

  • @howardbarrett9131
    @howardbarrett9131 2 місяці тому +3

    👍 Milo, spent wonderful time with my beautiful daughter who is accepted full scholarship to Phillips Exeter Academy in New Hampshire. My growing up dog was a Beagle.
    The videos are informative and appreciated.
    P.S. we are doomed.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Howard. I can tell you are very proud of your daughter 😊
      Thanks for watching. Yes there will be challenges ahead. Now is the time to prepare.

  • @rogersmith9705
    @rogersmith9705 2 місяці тому

    Good follow up video Matt! 👍

  • @donna-n5h
    @donna-n5h 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy Father’s Day ! Thanks for sharing your story with us . I haven’t always made the best financial decisions. It’s probably best to live somewhat below your means. You give very good financial advice and we appreciate it . Milo is a cutie

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Donna 🙏

  • @AndrewH-br3ye
    @AndrewH-br3ye 2 місяці тому +2

    Stay in the house until you get kicked out. Every day counts.

  • @denisewhite6237
    @denisewhite6237 2 місяці тому +1

    A neighbor, of ours, bought another home prior to vacating their current home (foreclosure).

  • @carolgeyser5415
    @carolgeyser5415 2 місяці тому +1

    HAPPY DAD'S DAY HUGS AND KISSES FOR MILO.

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 2 місяці тому +2

    In the state in Georgia- the county will foreclose in on you within 3 months if you do not pay 3 monthly payments

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Darn that is faster than Calif.

  • @charlesvandenburgh7754
    @charlesvandenburgh7754 2 місяці тому +2

    When you have the common sense to live within one's means, it's a financial victory in the long run. I am one who has lived the American Dream because of common sense.

    • @Barnfind.
      @Barnfind. 2 місяці тому

      SAME HERE FRIEND. WELL SAID. YEP IT ALL STARTS WITH JUST GOOD COMMON SENSE. MAYBE NOT SO COMMON THESE DAYS

    • @tomcat6735
      @tomcat6735 2 місяці тому

      @@Barnfind. Its challenging to not have common sense, but its something I can do without because its a exercise in liability and consequences learning life mistakes.

  • @Shell0003
    @Shell0003 2 місяці тому +2

    Ever since the NEW comers have come over the property taxes are going up like fireworks !

  • @melanietheisen5681
    @melanietheisen5681 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm wrestling with the decision to move. I owe 115K on a house currently worth between 430-460K. I've put in for full remote/out of state at work and have been working full remote since 2020, just in state. If I get it, was thinking of buying a small house in a rural area for 275-300K range so I don't have a mortgage and can get more chickens and a bigger garden than I currently have and some dairy animals. Issue is my family is here, but it's killer taxes, suburbia rules on animals/gardens, and housing is way overinflated. Thoughts?

    • @Barnfind.
      @Barnfind. 2 місяці тому +1

      Sounds like you're right on track

  • @ginamarchisio
    @ginamarchisio 2 місяці тому +26

    It’s a good plan. As an investing enthusiast, I often wonder how top level investors are able to become millionaires off investing.. I’ve been sitting on over $545k equity from a home sale and I’m not sure where to go from here. Is it a good time to buy into stocks or wait for another opportunity?

    • @LucaZaniolo
      @LucaZaniolo 2 місяці тому

      Well as you know; the bigger risk, the bigger results, but such impeccable high value trades are often carried out by pros.

    • @BigCheckerC
      @BigCheckerC 2 місяці тому

      People dismiss the importance of Advisors until they are burned by their own mistakes. I remember a couple of few summers ago after my last job layoff, I had to stay afloat, hence researched for licensed fiduciary advisors. Thankfully, I came across someone of practical knowledge and experience. My reserve fund of $225k has yielded significant interest since then.

    • @leongrant7439
      @leongrant7439 2 місяці тому

      In a field as rapidly evolving as the Real Estate and Stock market, staying updated is vital. An advisor provides continual research and adaptation to the latest market changes which would be instrumental in helping make informed decisions.

    • @FairGosling
      @FairGosling 2 місяці тому

      Your financial advisor must be really good, I hope it’s okay to inquire if you’re still working with the same Advisor and how can I get in touch

    • @BigCheckerC
      @BigCheckerC 2 місяці тому

      There are a handful of experts in the field but I’ve stuck with “Eric Paul Elmer” for about two years now, and his performance has been consistently impressive. He is quite known in his field

  • @silentsam5527
    @silentsam5527 2 місяці тому +1

    Milo - I'll turn around if you promice to send treats - pup peroni will work.
    On the sidelines till rates and prices become manageable, no arms, 15yr only 4 me. Close to the bottom . Foreclosed prop? Need to see if doable.

  • @user-oq5vu2es7c
    @user-oq5vu2es7c 2 місяці тому

    Very similar stories you and I ..... and Jeremiah. This kind of thing can happen to anyone at any time.

  • @user-mj6ro9eo7f
    @user-mj6ro9eo7f 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy Father's Day!

  • @Shell0003
    @Shell0003 2 місяці тому

    I took a drive around my area and there is so many houses up for sale .

  • @PlantNativeTrees
    @PlantNativeTrees 2 місяці тому

    Happy Father's Day! Love the Milo appearance!

  • @bibibachmd9995
    @bibibachmd9995 2 місяці тому

    Hindsight is 20/20. We have looked back and wish we made other decisions. To have one's credit destroyed for 7 years after a foreclosure is good. There will be no ability to run up debt and 7 years can allow one to get back on the straight and narrow.
    The body's requirement for carbohydrates is zero. The liver makes glucose. Best to stick to protein (red meat) and animal fat.

  • @tomhall7250
    @tomhall7250 2 місяці тому +1

    Happy father day Matt …sorry to say I’m not my three daughters disown me …over a car $2000.00

    • @melanietheisen5681
      @melanietheisen5681 2 місяці тому

      Sorry to hear that. I'm without someone to wish Happy Father's Day to, as my stepmother pushed my brother and I out of our father's life. So I'll wish you a happy father's day instead. Hope you still had a blessed Sunday.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      I see a lot of family strife in my profession. It’s very sad family members fight over money and disown each other. Very disheartening. I’m sorry for that Tom.

  • @user-qb8qm4mp5n
    @user-qb8qm4mp5n 2 місяці тому +2

    hindsight is 20/20

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 2 місяці тому +2

    How long does it take in California before a bank forecloses on you?

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Depends on the bank

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 2 місяці тому +1

    I tell people do not accumulate a lot of debt in your working life and if you have a mortgage, pay it by the time you retire. Pay off credit cards .Do not get into convoluted mortgage contracts. Look at that interest rate. get a fixed

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      All good advice

  • @tikimango9738
    @tikimango9738 2 місяці тому +1

    You just should have put more equity in the property to afford to stay instead of loosing.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому

      Yes you are correct sir

    • @tikimango9738
      @tikimango9738 2 місяці тому

      @oxtalks Happy fathers day.

  • @Barnfind.
    @Barnfind. 2 місяці тому +3

    I LIKE DOGS, DOGS LIKE ME

  • @Shell0003
    @Shell0003 2 місяці тому +1

    Lots of BOATS , Rv' s motorcycles and muscle cars up for sale ..........All the BIG TOYS are up first.

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +1

      Yep that stuff always goes first and is a tell tale sign

    • @Shell0003
      @Shell0003 2 місяці тому

      @@oxtalks Happy fathers Day to your DAD !! He has a great SON.

  • @wattasay2370
    @wattasay2370 2 місяці тому

    Thank you!!! How do you delay or prevent hard money from foreclosure ?

  • @stevenbrooks1243
    @stevenbrooks1243 2 місяці тому +4

    1

  • @alanzamora6504
    @alanzamora6504 2 місяці тому +3

    Sir * please don't take my comment the wrong way ( but ) you can do ( all ) you can do ( but ) we have been given the short end of the stick _ and sometimes no matter how good you know the rules of the game _ we're limited to so much * you did your best sir 👋

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +2

      not taken the wrong way I appreciate you watching. We’re all doing our best to make the best decisions we can with the information we have at the time.

    • @alanzamora6504
      @alanzamora6504 2 місяці тому +1

      @@oxtalks and you're doing a fine job sir * 🏆

  • @tomhall7250
    @tomhall7250 2 місяці тому +1

    What’s your opinion on reverse mortgage, I’m at 98% payed on $150,000 just retired 😢 please help

    • @oxtalks
      @oxtalks  2 місяці тому +1

      both my mom and my dad have reverse mortgages. if it’s not important for the property to be passed down and it’s more important that the cost of living be minimized I see benefit also many don’t understand that a reverse mortgage at death or before can be simply paid off if there’s a lot of equity in the property.