When it comes to decisions that affect only you, yes, you can change your mind. If changing decisions affect others, that's different. Giving your word means something.
It depends. Giving your word is a promise and shouldn't be changed unless an emergency. Saying you might on the other hand opens the door for changing your mind because they know things might change. You also need to consider how it affects them so they can change their plans, not decide at the last second
Unless you tell someone you're going to do something and you promise them then it is good to have accountability as a person I like to know that if someone says they're going to be there I know I can count on them and they're not just going to "Change their mind"
Change majors yes but start flaking on dinner plans cause we don’t feel like it will make you become a flake. My mom taught me when you say your going you do your best to go. A friend may have really needed u at that dinner. You always feel better when you put your friends and family first. Being selfish doesn’t get you far in life.
Yes you are allowed to change your mind. However, there are consequences to changing your mind, and it is important to consider the potential knock-on effects changing your mind will have, especially when others are free to change their mind about you.
Ok, so your word means shit then? Commitment to someone else when you say you're going to do something with them? To hell with how it will make them feel or what it does to their trust in you, just say "fuck it, I'm allowed to change my mind" to everyone agreeing with this. I hope you're ok when the person you're dating/will date just gets up one day and never comes back, because they "changed" their mind.
I had a BTL and an ablation when my toxic ex told me to. I met my fiancé a year and a half ago, my only child d!3d in August, and now I desperately want another baby more than anything. Am I still allowed to change my mind about that? Cuz I really needed to hear that today
Is this meant to be deep? Yeah, no shit. Just know if you're ALWAYS doing it, people will get annoyed and you'll suffer. But obviously if you want to change your major...change your major.
@@Astromancy2112 Depends. If someone doesn't care about having relationships with others, nothing. But if you do care about relationships, and how people see you (and most narcissists do) then you should probably care enough to be forthright.
Made plans with a close friend pr a spouse? Just cancel! You're the most important person on earth and we're all your supporting characters. Slay, queen! *-scoff-*
When it comes to decisions that affect only you, yes, you can change your mind. If changing decisions affect others, that's different. Giving your word means something.
It depends. Giving your word is a promise and shouldn't be changed unless an emergency. Saying you might on the other hand opens the door for changing your mind because they know things might change. You also need to consider how it affects them so they can change their plans, not decide at the last second
Not really
Unless you tell someone you're going to do something and you promise them then it is good to have accountability as a person I like to know that if someone says they're going to be there I know I can count on them and they're not just going to
"Change their mind"
And what you want to do comes with consequences.
Change majors yes but start flaking on dinner plans cause we don’t feel like it will make you become a flake. My mom taught me when you say your going you do your best to go. A friend may have really needed u at that dinner. You always feel better when you put your friends and family first. Being selfish doesn’t get you far in life.
Yes you are allowed to change your mind. However, there are consequences to changing your mind, and it is important to consider the potential knock-on effects changing your mind will have, especially when others are free to change their mind about you.
Ok, so your word means shit then? Commitment to someone else when you say you're going to do something with them? To hell with how it will make them feel or what it does to their trust in you, just say "fuck it, I'm allowed to change my mind" to everyone agreeing with this. I hope you're ok when the person you're dating/will date just gets up one day and never comes back, because they "changed" their mind.
When your single yes but when your in a long term adult committed relationship then it is not only about you any more
I had a BTL and an ablation when my toxic ex told me to. I met my fiancé a year and a half ago, my only child d!3d in August, and now I desperately want another baby more than anything. Am I still allowed to change my mind about that? Cuz I really needed to hear that today
Thank you! I feel like we all need this reminder every once in a while
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I can report too, Gay person
Just hearing this made my day better! Great reminder! ❤
Is this meant to be deep? Yeah, no shit. Just know if you're ALWAYS doing it, people will get annoyed and you'll suffer.
But obviously if you want to change your major...change your major.
I changed my mind and women should not vote or drive without qualifying.
I think she’s saying she wants to leave her husband for me. I’m down!
Nothing is true, everything is permitted
Narcissistic mindset
So what?
@@Astromancy2112
Depends. If someone doesn't care about having relationships with others, nothing. But if you do care about relationships, and how people see you (and most narcissists do) then you should probably care enough to be forthright.
Umm
I think most people know this and it’s partially the problem. People change their mind too often and have no true commitment anymore
Good message ❤❤❤
have some discipline and own your accountability
Nah
@@Astromancy2112 not surprised and agree
Yup she’s the one talking about I can’t find a man
And when she does she won’t be happy when he changes his mind about her behavior 😂
Responsibility is far more important that gour happiness
Yaaaasssss
Also if you change your mind too much you'll be fired homeless and alone😅😂 life is not always about feelings feelings
Made plans with a close friend pr a spouse? Just cancel! You're the most important person on earth and we're all your supporting characters. Slay, queen! *-scoff-*
you ain’t important or special.. not even average
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You wanna spit vs swallow , do it
I freaking love you ❤