Would you spend that much on someone you love? And still forgive them? What message do you have for Charlotte? To share your story with us, send an email to yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.
People have no idea what love is or means anymore; there are many words in psychology to describe what ‘happened’ to this lady, long term and short term explanations. We can start with infatuation, both for the man and the culture :)
@@girumzemichael704 She is no victim, she betrayed a good man for her own selfish desires; and committed adultery for God's sake, if it was a man who did this, we would be calling him a dog. She wanted a younger man, and she had to pay for it. The real victim is the husband.
If you're unfamiliar with the concept of payback, here's a prime example: a wife cheats on her husband, and now it's her turn to reap what she's sown. Many Kenyan women have unfortunately found themselves in such predicaments, although they often choose not to publicly clear their names. Sharon, in this case, has demonstrated no remorse towards her Danish husband.
Pole sana Charlotte 👈 I lived in a Scandinavia country and visited others and I was amazed of how honest scandanavia people are. I believe you 100% BUT please, DO NOT trust people out there and be very cautious cos to YOU are an easy ATM target in the name of love👈
If you see this, run for your life. From bartering to murder or serious injury that you will not recover from. He’s a cheat and lier. May you find healing and love Charlotte. Sending you hugs. We all make mistakes but learn from it and not create reasons for those who can’t love you back. Remember he already has a wife before you …
That is not love. She is bewitched. Please God deliver her from all those Spirits of darkness. She is not herself. She still demands a reconciliation with a man who doesn't even care or love her. Just to make her poor.😢
It's a truly unfortunate situation, and my heart genuinely goes out to the husband from Denmark. From what's been shared, it seems he provided a stable and caring environment, which is no small feat. It's deeply saddening to see how his commitment and support were overlooked in pursuit of what appears to be a fleeting and illusory attraction. The turn of events for Charlotte in Kenya is regrettable. However, it's a stark reminder of how crucial it is to value and respect the commitment and stability in a relationship, rather than being swayed by transient emotions or superficial allure. This story, in many ways, underscores the importance of appreciating what you have and understanding the grass isn't always greener on the other side. In all of this, the husband from Denmark emerges as the real victim. His plight is a sobering example of how one's dedication and love can be taken for granted. I hope he finds solace and strength to move forward from this experience. As for the lady, this might be a moment of profound learning and introspection about life choices and their long-term impacts.
Walami wengi, si wote, hufanya hivi. Na bwana na bibi hukubaliana. Wanakuja kenya kuona wanyama na, sex safari. Hawa vijana, at times sehemu ya coast ni wale beach boys hujiuza. Pia, hua si vijana masaai but, makabila zengine. Utawaona wanapenda mavazi ya kimasai, hadi kusuka nyele n the whole 9 yard..
Charlotte is an honest person, the sooner she realises that this man never loved her but used her for his own ego. Love doesn’t have to hurt, it’s a beautiful thing.? You know with black culture telling a person you don’t love them anymore is some sort of taboo. I pray that you heal, may God of peace gives you that inner peace. No amount of money can value your love for someone. Strength to you❤❤❤
All I can say is God says TRUST NO MAN. These guys prey on lonely women and scam them, not only you, but several women every hour. Waus n actions speak louder than words. They are noted for sweet loving words to make u feel like someone you're not.😢😢😢😢😢
My heartfelt for this woman. Please don't waste your time with him. He will break your heart over and over again. You deserve better. Someone else may love you better.
Sorry Charlotte that you went through this. Those who say it is not love are mistaken. Whoever said love is blind was not stupid. It is the truth. A man mistreated me so much and l kept yearning to see him. When he showed up, it was just to verbally humiliate me. Love is not an item that you pick up and throw in the trash can. The heart takes a very long time to heal. I had serious depression for 3 years, but l forced myself to do other things until l began to realise l was surviving without him. I then found Jesus years later and He healed me completely. Charlotte, find a good church near you and you will snap out of this. I would never judge. God has His own way of bringing people to Himself. Let us all not judge lest we are judged. Good luck Charlotte. Jesus loves you and He is calling you to Himself. Say Yes to Him and you will be the happiest woman on earth.
I don't think it is love, it is Obsession and guilt. She feel guilty for leaving her husband because of the idea of forbidden love. Now that it didn't work and she lost so much, she rather not count her loss but continue. It has turned into something else entirely.
Sorry mum for what you're going through.as a kenyan woman i would say if this relationship is not working stop forcing it.when i realized love can be a scam i choosed to be independent for my life.Ill get my partner when God's time is ripe no forcing issues 🙏
It always amazes me how this woman's infidelity and betrayal of her Danish husband is treated differently and romantacised but if this were a man being interviewed saying the same thing he'd be crucified. The double standard is nauseating.
She got addicted to that Kenyan wood...maybe her husband was older and wasn't laying that pipe like David was...but after the betrayal she should have learned her but she thought that money was gonna buy him...but money can't buy love 😮😮😮
So sorry 😮. Please work on yourself, Madame. Love yourself first , then you get out of emotional addiction! All the best! (I had a similar story and I healed)
My husband was also taken from maasai mara kichwa tembo he was a waiter there and a Swedish woman liked him and did everything for him and my husband travelled to Sweden and they got married. Am now single because of such women 😢
@@theresaelizabethelijah117SHE MUST TO BLAME HER. THESE ARE OLD EUROPEA WOMEN, THEY GO IN POOR COUNTRIES TO LOOK FOR YOUNG MEN!!!! NO LOVE ONLY POVERTY MATTERS! AND FOR SEX!!! SORRY
Love isn't chasing him after he left you and saying that “Please I love you, don't leave me”.That's not love, that's just you being needy on the inside for someone who doesn't care about you, because if it was love, he would have stayed and figured things out with you. mover on from broken relationships .If it’s broken beyond repair, let it go and move on. Sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward. Pick up the lessons. You must evolve past certain people . Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Focus on what to do next. We can’t recover yesterday but we can win tomorrow. Get past your past without losing direction. The secret of winning is adapting quickly.
Charlotte thank you for being vulnérable with us. These are the things we do for love. But take heart. Move on. Forget about David, he is not worth it. Pick up broken pieces. Stop loving someone who doesnt care about you. Just love yourself time will give you direction.
I'm in tears 😢 because I've been in a situation where I loved someone who didn't love me back. It took me 7 years to get over him. In those 7 years I gained weight, aged and developed high blood pressure and anxiety. I hated myself so much. I felt like no one could ever love me. I'm over him but it will take a while to go back to my old self. The only thing that helped me heal is avoiding any contact with him. No calls, no texts, nothing. Every milestone I hit was reason to celebrate. I celebrated every day, week, month and year of not contacting him until I got to the point where I don't even think about him. It can happen Charlotte, please take heart.
Woman, you deserve it all !! What goes all comes around. Love is not one-sided. You are lucky you did not contract diseases from your cheat rat. Count your losses and go back to your family while you are still alive and healthy 😊.
@@Agnes-mu8qc Lust tupu. Concur fully. Which "love",causes you to get tucked in a car,tena in a public place; tena on your first meeting!!??? Interviewer pia, umekuwa very shallow. Ie Wouid be nice to know of the following: 1) Charlotte and David's age? 2) His tribe? 3) What eventually happened to the car? 4) Does Charlotte have children? 5) Is going back to her hubby an option / do they still communicate?? Also I cannot absolutely discount the place of witchcraft in her diabolical manipulations by David. 10 years duration.
attachment wounds are so mean to our brain bc it’s like ‘I’m obsessed with this person! oh they’re obsessed back! time to distance myself bc someone seeing my flaws and still loving me is unfathomable haha!’ so shoutout to anyone healing theirs, you’re worthy of the love you give
Never fall inlove too much. Never trust too much. Never give too much. Never accept to much. Be proud of yourself. Respect yourself to be respected by others.
Am almost 30 single and not by choice but i can't love this way,i love myself so much,i know how much this mum is feeling, loving someone who don't love you back 😢😢hugs mom❤
You say you want other women to learn from your experience and not to go through the same, but truth is till now you have not learned your lesson yet!! As long as you say, " If he comes back and says he has changed, you will take him back," it means you have not learned your lesson!! From a Kenyan woman to another, my friend STOP this, go back home and delete Kenya from your world map, this man will destroy you, years are going you are getting older take care of yourself go home to people who truly love you!! I wish I could hit your head so hard until you wake up and realize he has never loved you and will never love you!! You are too kind-hearted and beautiful. You deserve better!! 😢😢
Wewe wacha kelele sis. Una sympathize na yeye kwani ni nyanya yako. Hawa watu after all they did to our forefathers they deserve it all, thunder and hellfire. Inaitwa reparations.
Charlotte should count her losses and move on. David will always come round for more money when he realizes she still lives him and hopes their relationship can work. Unfortunate that she left a very good thing, her established marriage for a Kenyan mandigo but that was a fantasy. Riding into the sunset was never meant to be and now she is minus 20 million.😰😰😰
she didn't share a single thing that made David look like a man worth all of this. He abused her, lied to her, beat her, stole from her, used her......what is so charming about him. I think she has a hard time letting go because she can't accept rejection. Charlotte how many times must he reject you before you decide to CHOOSE yourself. He is not going to choose you. Let go and find your peace and dignity
You are wrong. She was strongly attracted to the guy which made her realize that she wants to be with him and not his Danish husband anymore. This happens sometimes with White people. If she's cheated on him, that's wrong.
Charlotte, you need professional help. I'm not a therapist neither am I a trained counselor but what I know is that this is NOT love that you are feeling. Something has pushed you to this crazy path of desperation just to feel loved or get love. You need to find yourself & learn to love yourself first before seeking for it elsewhere. Fix yourself first, face & overcome your issues. Once you are at peace with yourself, true love will find you. It all begins with you...
There are hundreds of women like her who have been scammed out of thousands of dollars online dating where the scammers promise their victims to marry them but first borrow money multiple times but never chat on video call. Most of these women are in their senior years. Why can they not just enjoy their families ...children and grandchildren instead of making themselves bankrupt believing in fantasies. I think this woman regrets giving David all that money for nothing and wants him back to make herself feel better
So are we going to ignore how she destroyed her family, betrayed a husband who travelled the world with her. Are we going to say oh sorry poor lady as if the husband was like "I am happy you made the right choice".
She is not young or that beautiful either! I dislike these elderly white women trying to ensnare youthful black men they have no business contacting! They think they are so special which they are not ! Stay away from these young men, allow them to have relationships with their own women and stop with the self delusions!
Character development is very hurtful. He doesn't love u....when someone loves u, u know it. Love gives u peace and joy. Move on, deal with the pain but don't ever take him back even if he comes back. You will be ok
Life of a soul is very complicated. You just have to go with the flow. Don't judge yourself too harshly. When situation presents itself to move on, just move on in faith.
why doesn't this woman realize she is not being loved and why she is accepting being used to the tenth degree and why she understands love to be always giving to another person and not receiving anything back. This is not love it's a chemical addiction.
Hey Charlotte. I get a sense that you're a very sweet soft hearted human being. I'm sorry for what you've been through and I can relate. I hope you overcome this cycle with this man and find a better relationship.
She's a predator not sweet. Why do we give away everything we have? I am glad that the Kenyan left her! Why do these elder elderly white women think they are so special? Afrikan people wake up, black love is black power!
All I can see here, this woman is paying for the infidelity she started herself by lying and cheating on her Danish husband. Her Danish husband also went through the same pain of betrayal. Relationships are hard.
@@Jazz-fg2dm I don't blame you at all. Marriage is like a game of gambling, one in a million chances of getting the right person. Many people are wishing they could quit right now
Never to late.. Repent.Ask Jesus for forgiveness You beautiful lady.. Start christian orphanage in Kenya Or any christian charity Go to the church lady.. Maybe Jesus give you honest christian husband You can preach Gospel lady,once you repent, recieve Lord Jesus Christ as your Saviour.. Nothing is wasted Even!!! Worst life experiences,Jesus can use for He's Devine Purpose.. Recieve Lord Jesus beautiful lady He will give you DESIRE OF your heart 💖 Amen 🙏
At the start, Charlotte claimed that she was happy with her Danish husband. I do not feel sorry for her she is not a victim- she reaped what she sowed- oh well.
You left your good husband because he truly loved you…you spent all your money on a poor man because you really loved him …you never really loved your husband… and the Kenya man really did not love you… this is how love really works… when we love someone they will never love us…this is the real reality of life…Sometimes we need to love ourselves first…your old now good luck now…
The main problem is the lack of empathy from the key coup you man....this is a stab in the back. A love triangle is a classic in free societies like Kenyan or Danish. But on top of that, to suck the money of a generous woman without even showing her gratitude: it s primitive n fully wrong. Consider that he simply wanted to enjoy her money without any matrimonial duty in return..poor guy! No wonder it didn't last long
This is among the sad ever story I have heard. Though not new. These things do happen. But here we say "mapema ndio best" translations "The earlier you make a decision ,the better it becomes/you heal". He has shown all red flags. I know she might be a bit shocked because the age has slightly gone and she left her husband. But I can truly say this man never loved you but liked what you have "money" and believe me he will not change. Embrace first love. I mean, you need to love yourself and avoid such a relationship. Ten years is a lot plus the resources. Invest that money in your children if you have one. They will help you. The man will repay you with an infectious disease that will take her to an early grave. Again i say "mapema ndio best"
Sorry Mom, thank God that He has gotten you out that mess. God bless you! Thank God that you have lived to speak and help other vulnerable women to take care not be misused by men masquerading as genuine lovers.
Charlotte has a big kind HEART!!! OMG...for me just ONE red flag frm a dude,I RUN....I RUN b4 ....coz i know how much i can LOVE .... i'd RATHER cry for few days coz i've walked away more than crying for the rest of my life...😢. OMG, am REALLY SORRY Charlotte but plzzz DON'T go back to David 😢😢😢any man that lays his hands on a woman Will FOREVER be inhuman...RUN CHARLOTTE,RUN LADIES 💝💝💝
Charlotte, I wish you peace but please analyze this situation from an outside perspective and make a decision like someone else. Please love yourself and I am not sure he will ever change.
Having treated your husband so cruelly,you got your just reward by loving someone who has no intention of ever truly loving you.Some people never learn.
Totally devoted loving person and meets a parasites, it's a complete mismatch, a parasite will eventually drain the host of blood life and kill it. However, I must appreciate Charlotte fluid personality to accept circumstances ❤
Truly, this is financial, psychological, and physical abuse. I hope she learns that this man is not going to change and will keep on manipulating her forever.
Evils spirit from her husband to new guys new guys same evils spirit attracted each other Interview more class She should go to up 3/4to Kenyans Interview by that she rebuke the devil spirit To get good spirit of God and attract people of God's
I am not very good in Swahili but surely the love charlotte has for this philanderer “mapenzi ni sumu”…now I have evidence. Thanks tiki for sharing this
This reminds me of Hosea the prophet who was told to marry Gomer, who would leave him for other men, Charlotte, there is a lesson for us in this generation. Thanks for sharing i take it posotively,i wish i would me you girl.
Marriage is a commitment and for it to work,you have to be intentional on not cheating on your spouse‼️i wonder how you would have felt if your husband came to kenya and fell in love with the waitress and left you ⁉️What goes around,comes around ‼️Every tear your husband shed is what you are paying for‼️kimekuramba madam ‼️
Lesson to learn -Don't expect what you can't give---If you can not give loyalty,honesty ,trust ,etc don't expect to get it ....what you gave your husband just boomerang to u sorry anyway
This lady is telling the world to accept abuse. She needs help. This Tuko lady should have advised her and told her to leave this relationship. Suffering like this in a foreign land. If she's not careful and doesn't leave, she will end up destitute and homeless, in a foreign land. There's no future in a relationship like this.
I totally understand her I know how it feels when you do everything for a man that lies he loves you I feel her pain I was there before it's fastrusting that nomatter how bad the man treats you you still want them back just be strong and love yourself more to move away from what that hurts you hugs ❤❤❤
I really don't understand why she could go for 3 years as a secret lover. Why would she like to marry someone who is already married. She was willing to break someone's marriage knowingly. What she did was selfish... Once a cheater always a cheater😢😢
She needs to work on herself. She has a lot off issues . She destroyed her family for a fantasy. I am sorry I don’t feel bad for her. I hope she learned her lessons and will be a better and stronger woman after this experience 🙏🏽
That kind of obsession is called fatal attraction. It was never about the car . She wanted HIM back. Its not even the money. Shes infatuated with the guy !!! She has refused even common sense !!! 😢😮😢
Well....I somehow feel related to this Story....loving some one for Yrs. and yrs. She said she gave him lots of money and even bailed him out .....she still loves him. Eventhough he cheated on her with other women, she kept on loving him and providing him with money. Some of us women, we do get weak very often times. Even putting our own lives on hold. with no future with this person. We still keep on loving them. It,s an Endless Road and leads to nowhere.
This has nothing to do with love, but rather insecurity. Bcos Charlotte suffers from esteem issues, she cld hardly see that David is treating her for a sucker. It's hard to sympathize for someone who who identifies with their tomentor.
@@namkebanyanklaritinope that's NOT the definition of colonialism. Go do your research more on the definition of colonialism. While you're at it here is a simple definition...colonialism/coloniality= system of governance that an outside occupying power imposes on a conquered country. Read Thomas Hodgkins, Basil Davidson, Adu Boahen, etc.
😂😂😂Each time she boarded those flights without remorse and made her husband discuss all the rubbish, and each time she returned to him without shame! She has not paid enough yet! I hope karma is still woke!😅
Would you spend that much on someone you love? And still forgive them?
What message do you have for Charlotte?
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Kawira I think she is drugged, wametumia juju on her.
Tupee handles za Charlotte
Nnojn
Nni😊
@@Godsbeloved_atalltimes2022ni nn ninjijii
That Public Investigator did a Superb Job. Without him this would have spiraled to a big con game! He is proffessional!
I imagine her Danish husband sitting back watching the drama 🎭 while eating popcorn 🍿 like a cinema
Hopefully with a lovely new girlfriend.
😂😂😂 I hope he's happy
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El problema es el juju la que le hizo todo esto
Imagine!!
David is a player who will never change. Hope our guest moves on with her life.
Am happy she's paying for her deeds
This lady is a cheater who cheated and left her husband only to get played big time.
@@BensonNyasaewomen still want to overlook that andbpraise this cheater
@@zacharyayaga6661 Some women, not all
@@BensonNyasaeno es su culpa es la brujería que te hace olvidar hasta de donde viniste es una droga emocional
Golden rule "Do not do unto others what you don't want others do unto you."
Africa lost the trust given to them by world community
Thank you she is paying the price
The bigger you love the harder you fall....a lesson for us all to learn.
Rubbish rubbish hate to hear a liar
You can say that again 😭😭
People have no idea what love is or means anymore; there are many words in psychology to describe what ‘happened’ to this lady, long term and short term explanations. We can start with infatuation, both for the man and the culture :)
@@girumzemichael704 She is no victim, she betrayed a good man for her own selfish desires; and committed adultery for God's sake, if it was a man who did this, we would be calling him a dog. She wanted a younger man, and she had to pay for it. The real victim is the husband.
Betrayal paid by Betrayal. I feel for her.
If you're unfamiliar with the concept of payback, here's a prime example: a wife cheats on her husband, and now it's her turn to reap what she's sown. Many Kenyan women have unfortunately found themselves in such predicaments, although they often choose not to publicly clear their names. Sharon, in this case, has demonstrated no remorse towards her Danish husband.
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Pole sana Charlotte 👈 I lived in a Scandinavia country and visited others and I was amazed of how honest scandanavia people are. I believe you 100% BUT please, DO NOT trust people out there and be very cautious cos to YOU are an easy ATM target in the name of love👈
What about David???
@@lauramunyasia479DAVID IS A POOR MAN!!!! HE MAKE THAT FOR THE POVERTY!!!!
she must have also suffered big time with her husband
If you see this, run for your life. From bartering to murder or serious injury that you will not recover from. He’s a cheat and lier. May you find healing and love Charlotte. Sending you hugs. We all make mistakes but learn from it and not create reasons for those who can’t love you back. Remember he already has a wife before you …
That is not love. She is bewitched. Please God deliver her from all those Spirits of darkness. She is not herself. She still demands a reconciliation with a man who doesn't even care or love her. Just to make her poor.😢
you say a very important point i have seen such incdent happen here in kenya.
Exactly. I also believe he tied this lady down. It's the juju
It's a truly unfortunate situation, and my heart genuinely goes out to the husband from Denmark. From what's been shared, it seems he provided a stable and caring environment, which is no small feat. It's deeply saddening to see how his commitment and support were overlooked in pursuit of what appears to be a fleeting and illusory attraction.
The turn of events for Charlotte in Kenya is regrettable. However, it's a stark reminder of how crucial it is to value and respect the commitment and stability in a relationship, rather than being swayed by transient emotions or superficial allure. This story, in many ways, underscores the importance of appreciating what you have and understanding the grass isn't always greener on the other side. In all of this, the husband from Denmark emerges as the real victim. His plight is a sobering example of how one's dedication and love can be taken for granted. I hope he finds solace and strength to move forward from this experience. As for the lady, this might be a moment of profound learning and introspection about life choices and their long-term impacts.
a good book says Mwanamke mpumbavu uvunja ndoa yake kwa mikono yake mwenyewe.
Walami wengi, si wote, hufanya hivi. Na bwana na bibi hukubaliana.
Wanakuja kenya kuona wanyama na, sex safari.
Hawa vijana, at times sehemu ya coast ni wale beach boys hujiuza.
Pia, hua si vijana masaai but, makabila zengine.
Utawaona wanapenda mavazi ya kimasai, hadi kusuka nyele n the whole 9 yard..
Your comment ! Wow! That's all I can say🎉🎉🎉
I couldn't say it better,well said,thanks bro
This is worth an essay.
U never considered journalism...
U write much better than many journalists...a nice pen.
Never betray your first love. Work hard to protect it even when temptation is roaring in your face
THIS IS JUST SO SAD. PLEASE JUST MOVE ON AND FORGET THIS LOSER OF A MAN. PLEASE GOD SEND THIS WONDERFUL KIND WOMAN A GOOD PERSON.🙏🏽🙏🏽
Necesita ayuda de un juju
Charlotte is an honest person, the sooner she realises that this man never loved her but used her for his own ego. Love doesn’t have to hurt, it’s a beautiful thing.? You know with black culture telling a person you don’t love them anymore is some sort of taboo. I pray that you heal, may God of peace gives you that inner peace. No amount of money can value your love for someone. Strength to you❤❤❤
She knows he doesn't love her but still willing to take the scraps. She is disgusting and I don't feel sorry for her one bit.
All I can say is God says TRUST NO MAN. These guys prey on lonely women and scam them, not only you, but several women every hour. Waus n actions speak louder than words. They are noted for sweet loving words to make u feel like someone you're not.😢😢😢😢😢
My heartfelt for this woman. Please don't waste your time with him. He will break your heart over and over again. You deserve better. Someone else may love you better.
She does not deserve better she is a cheat and a home breaker
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The husband loved her
@@zacharyayaga6661 she left him for a looser. Life goes on. She needs to dust herself and move forward.
@@zacharyayaga6661 she left him for a looser. Life goes on. She needs to dust herself and move forward.
Sorry Charlotte that you went through this. Those who say it is not love are mistaken. Whoever said love is blind was not stupid. It is the truth. A man mistreated me so much and l kept yearning to see him. When he showed up, it was just to verbally humiliate me. Love is not an item that you pick up and throw in the trash can. The heart takes a very long time to heal. I had serious depression for 3 years, but l forced myself to do other things until l began to realise l was surviving without him. I then found Jesus years later and He healed me completely. Charlotte, find a good church near you and you will snap out of this. I would never judge. God has His own way of bringing people to Himself. Let us all not judge lest we are judged. Good luck Charlotte. Jesus loves you and He is calling you to Himself. Say Yes to Him and you will be the happiest woman on earth.
I don't think it is love, it is Obsession and guilt. She feel guilty for leaving her husband because of the idea of forbidden love. Now that it didn't work and she lost so much, she rather not count her loss but continue. It has turned into something else entirely.
Yep, delusion and sunken cost fallacy. She was scammed, but she carries on because she sees it as some sort of twisted investment and can't let go.
Sorry mum for what you're going through.as a kenyan woman i would say if this relationship is not working stop forcing it.when i realized love can be a scam i choosed to be independent for my life.Ill get my partner when God's time is ripe no forcing issues 🙏
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Well said 👍
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The stupid things we do for love, I can’t blame this woman. Letting go is not easy, please let’s not judge her
Healing is a journey
We are not judging her,but Karma is.
Its called payback time.
No one is judging, rules of nature.
True!!! Love hurts 💔. Never love with your heart, love with your brains!!!!
whatever you are calling judgement is simply critical thinking. we gotta talk!
I can't judge her because I was also a victim. I learnt a lesson in a hard way 😂😂
This for sure is addiction. She need to be helped to leave this toxic relationship.
She's probably bored with her first husband looking for fun with David at her age.
she got big african mandingo and she lost her mind
and you are an idiot @@nsafelix
It always amazes me how this woman's infidelity and betrayal of her Danish husband is treated differently and romantacised but if this were a man being interviewed saying the same thing he'd be crucified. The double standard is nauseating.
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It's because she has been straight forward. Her love was genuine.
True karma got her good , she played her husband and she got played simple
@@khadraali2507 I couldn't agree more. It's not love, it's lust for exotica, for Mandingo.lol
She got addicted to that Kenyan wood...maybe her husband was older and wasn't laying that pipe like David was...but after the betrayal she should have learned her but she thought that money was gonna buy him...but money can't buy love 😮😮😮
So sorry 😮. Please work on yourself, Madame. Love yourself first , then you get out of emotional addiction! All the best! (I had a similar story and I healed)
Thanking God for you.
My husband was also taken from maasai mara kichwa tembo he was a waiter there and a Swedish woman liked him and did everything for him and my husband travelled to Sweden and they got married. Am now single because of such women 😢
Blame your husband not the Woman
Bwanako Ni cheap
@@theresaelizabethelijah117thanks for answering her for me❤
@@theresaelizabethelijah117SHE MUST TO BLAME HER. THESE ARE OLD EUROPEA WOMEN, THEY GO IN POOR COUNTRIES TO LOOK FOR YOUNG MEN!!!! NO LOVE ONLY POVERTY MATTERS! AND FOR SEX!!! SORRY
Can we be friends?
Love isn't chasing him after he left you and saying that “Please I love you, don't leave me”.That's not love, that's just you being needy on the inside for someone who doesn't care about you, because if it was love, he would have stayed and figured things out with you. mover on from broken relationships .If it’s broken beyond repair, let it go and move on. Sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward. Pick up the lessons. You must evolve past certain people . Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Focus on what to do next. We can’t recover yesterday but we can win tomorrow. Get past your past without losing direction. The secret of winning is adapting quickly.
Charlotte thank you for being vulnérable with us. These are the things we do for love. But take heart. Move on. Forget about David, he is not worth it. Pick up broken pieces. Stop loving someone who doesnt care about you. Just love yourself time will give you direction.
Exactly, but her problem is that she will never give up so long as this man tells her i love u 😘, iwill marry u." Only for material gains 😅😅😅😢😅😅😅
I'm in tears 😢 because I've been in a situation where I loved someone who didn't love me back. It took me 7 years to get over him. In those 7 years I gained weight, aged and developed high blood pressure and anxiety. I hated myself so much. I felt like no one could ever love me. I'm over him but it will take a while to go back to my old self. The only thing that helped me heal is avoiding any contact with him. No calls, no texts, nothing. Every milestone I hit was reason to celebrate. I celebrated every day, week, month and year of not contacting him until I got to the point where I don't even think about him. It can happen Charlotte, please take heart.
I don't know you but sorry for that situation you found yourself in.
Love is unpredictable
Yes, It feels bad.
I'm watching from GHANA, in fact, I felt very sad and worried for this woman.
The guy did not try at all. He'll surely pay back someday.
Woman, you deserve it all !! What goes all comes around. Love is not one-sided. You are lucky you did not contract diseases from your cheat rat. Count your losses and go back to your family while you are still alive and healthy 😊.
It's not love, it's an obsession
Lust! Lust!!
No LUST, DEMONIC
Lesson!Be Faithful to your partner PERIOD!
@@Agnes-mu8qc
Lust tupu.
Concur fully.
Which "love",causes you to get tucked in a car,tena in a public place; tena on your first meeting!!???
Interviewer pia, umekuwa very shallow.
Ie Wouid be nice to know of the following:
1) Charlotte and David's age?
2) His tribe?
3) What eventually happened to the car?
4) Does Charlotte have children?
5) Is going back to her hubby an option / do they still communicate??
Also I cannot absolutely discount the place of witchcraft in her diabolical manipulations by David.
10 years duration.
Exactly. Lust
attachment wounds are so mean to our brain bc it’s like ‘I’m obsessed with this person! oh they’re obsessed back! time to distance myself bc someone seeing my flaws and still loving me is unfathomable haha!’ so shoutout to anyone healing theirs, you’re worthy of the love you give
Omera
Never fall inlove too much.
Never trust too much.
Never give too much.
Never accept to much.
Be proud of yourself.
Respect yourself to be respected by others.
Ella le ha hecho una brujeria esto no es amor es una estafa por dinero
@@moninahmed3513who performed witchcraft? Is it him on her or her on him?
This is too heart's touching. Some of our African brothers should stop these unwanted behavior.
Am almost 30 single and not by choice but i can't love this way,i love myself so much,i know how much this mum is feeling, loving someone who don't love you back 😢😢hugs mom❤
Buy a dog
U a 30 single, watch the space.
Me too 32 and single, can we risk
@@gencoengineeringcompanykam3122am not desperate for a man brother
@@8Ton-Entertainment can you share your mail
You say you want other women to learn from your experience and not to go through the same, but truth is till now you have not learned your lesson yet!! As long as you say, " If he comes back and says he has changed, you will take him back," it means you have not learned your lesson!!
From a Kenyan woman to another, my friend STOP this, go back home and delete Kenya from your world map, this man will destroy you, years are going you are getting older take care of yourself go home to people who truly love you!! I wish I could hit your head so hard until you wake up and realize he has never loved you and will never love you!! You are too kind-hearted and beautiful. You deserve better!! 😢😢
Truth
True but don't hit her head please that's violent. Even a teacher in class cannot hit the head for the point to be absorbed 😅😅😅 umenichekesha kweli😅
Wewe wacha kelele sis. Una sympathize na yeye kwani ni nyanya yako. Hawa watu after all they did to our forefathers they deserve it all, thunder and hellfire. Inaitwa reparations.
I think this woman is playing a mind game...nataka David ajirudishe ndio amfunze adabu pia..my thought
Charlotte should count her losses and move on. David will always come round for more money when he realizes she still lives him and hopes their relationship can work. Unfortunate that she left a very good thing, her established marriage for a Kenyan mandigo but that was a fantasy. Riding into the sunset was never meant to be and now she is minus 20 million.😰😰😰
But love is beautiful, when you find the right one
Yes but tread carefully
she didn't share a single thing that made David look like a man worth all of this. He abused her, lied to her, beat her, stole from her, used her......what is so charming about him. I think she has a hard time letting go because she can't accept rejection. Charlotte how many times must he reject you before you decide to CHOOSE yourself. He is not going to choose you. Let go and find your peace and dignity
Leaving your husband and finding another man as your husband it's not love but lust and immoral thing.
You are wrong. She was strongly attracted to the guy which made her realize that she wants to be with him and not his Danish husband anymore. This happens sometimes with White people. If she's cheated on him, that's wrong.
True!
💯 % facts 😢
Yup agree.
I call it gross madness!
Charlotte, you need professional help. I'm not a therapist neither am I a trained counselor but what I know is that this is NOT love that you are feeling. Something has pushed you to this crazy path of desperation just to feel loved or get love. You need to find yourself & learn to love yourself first before seeking for it elsewhere. Fix yourself first, face & overcome your issues. Once you are at peace with yourself, true love will find you. It all begins with you...
True 💯 she misses something that is pushing her to seek love from david
There are hundreds of women like her who have been scammed out of thousands of dollars online dating where the scammers promise their victims to marry them but first borrow money multiple times but never chat on video call. Most of these women are in their senior years. Why can they not just enjoy their families ...children and grandchildren instead of making themselves bankrupt believing in fantasies.
I think this woman regrets giving David all that money for nothing and wants him back to make herself feel better
It is soo painful but my sister from Denmark you will heal,but don't commit your self to that guy because by the end of the day you might regret
The pain of being in love and not getting the same love back 💔💔💔
It’s the worst feeling ever .
You're absolutely right . Heartbreaking 💔
Wacheni mchezo😂 she cheated first😂
Unrequited love that is what it is called 😢
@@joseO12326😂😂😂 women don't understand that this was cheating they glorify this as 'love'
So are we going to ignore how she destroyed her family, betrayed a husband who travelled the world with her. Are we going to say oh sorry poor lady as if the husband was like "I am happy you made the right choice".
She is not young or that beautiful either! I dislike these elderly white women trying to ensnare youthful black men they have no business contacting! They think they are so special which they are not ! Stay away from these young men, allow them to have relationships with their own women and stop with the self delusions!
It sounded like she fell in love with someone else and divorced the guy
Abi ooo?
Mwanamke akipenda amependa kweli
Atliest you think like a mature person
And after all this, she's still willing to take him back ? This is obsession !!!!!!
Charlotte, you were not loving him. He played you. That's what it was.
To say the least 😢
Shumaaaa ya doshiii 🥶🤣
Our Kenyan men don't disappoint with character development 😂😂alipenda doshi na mapenzi alipewa ya uongo😂
I won't judge you instead I'm learning a lesson 😢
Please now stop saying you love him, learn from your mistakes.He will never love you and even if he does,he is not worth it
And men also the faithful men has learned barely the ugly reality of women, don't be faithful no matter who you love cause you'll bear more pain
Character development is very hurtful. He doesn't love u....when someone loves u, u know it. Love gives u peace and joy. Move on, deal with the pain but don't ever take him back even if he comes back. You will be ok
Life of a soul is very complicated. You just have to go with the flow. Don't judge yourself too harshly. When situation presents itself to move on, just move on in faith.
why doesn't this woman realize she is not being loved and why she is accepting being used to the tenth degree and why she understands love to be always giving to another person and not receiving anything back. This is not love it's a chemical addiction.
Hey Charlotte. I get a sense that you're a very sweet soft hearted human being. I'm sorry for what you've been through and I can relate. I hope you overcome this cycle with this man and find a better relationship.
She's a predator not sweet. Why do we give away everything we have? I am glad that the Kenyan left her! Why do these elder
elderly white women think they are so special? Afrikan people wake up, black love is black power!
She is paying the price of her idiocy KARMA WILL FOLLOW HER EVERYWHERE SHE WILL GO TO HELL ALL THE WAY
All I can see here, this woman is paying for the infidelity she started herself by lying and cheating on her Danish husband.
Her Danish husband also went through the same pain of betrayal. Relationships are hard.
True
@@Jazz-fg2dm I don't blame you at all. Marriage is like a game of gambling, one in a million chances of getting the right person. Many people are wishing they could quit right now
@@Jazz-fg2dmdon't give up there are many great women out there. Like me, I've been celibate for 7 years after my relationship with my husband ended
Kalma
Never to late..
Repent.Ask Jesus for forgiveness
You beautiful lady..
Start christian orphanage in Kenya
Or any christian charity
Go to the church lady..
Maybe Jesus give you honest christian husband
You can preach Gospel lady,once you repent, recieve Lord Jesus Christ as your Saviour..
Nothing is wasted
Even!!! Worst life experiences,Jesus can use for He's Devine Purpose..
Recieve Lord Jesus beautiful lady
He will give you DESIRE OF your heart 💖
Amen 🙏
At the start, Charlotte claimed that she was happy with her Danish husband. I do not feel sorry for her she is not a victim- she reaped what she sowed- oh well.
He has done Black magic on this poor lady.
You left your good husband because he truly loved you…you spent all your money on a poor man because you really loved him …you never really loved your husband… and the Kenya man really did not love you… this is how love really works… when we love someone they will never love us…this is the real reality of life…Sometimes we need to love ourselves first…your old now good luck now…
😂😂😂😂😂 good punishment for leaving the first hubby ,.. let her enjoy her old days with another African boys , wametushida, yeye akafiri atawaweza 😂
The main problem is the lack of empathy from the key coup you man....this is a stab in the back.
A love triangle is a classic in free societies like Kenyan or Danish.
But on top of that, to suck the money of a generous woman without even showing her gratitude: it s primitive n fully wrong.
Consider that he simply wanted to enjoy her money without any matrimonial duty in return..poor guy!
No wonder it didn't last long
This is among the sad ever story I have heard. Though not new. These things do happen. But here we say "mapema ndio best" translations "The earlier you make a decision ,the better it becomes/you heal". He has shown all red flags. I know she might be a bit shocked because the age has slightly gone and she left her husband. But I can truly say this man never loved you but liked what you have "money" and believe me he will not change. Embrace first love. I mean, you need to love yourself and avoid such a relationship. Ten years is a lot plus the resources. Invest that money in your children if you have one. They will help you. The man will repay you with an infectious disease that will take her to an early grave. Again i say "mapema ndio best"
I've learnt that What you give comes back to you in double portion....
You lied & cheated your habby .
You reap what you sow.
Sorry Mom, thank God that He has gotten you out that mess. God bless you! Thank God that you have lived to speak and help other vulnerable women to take care not be misused by men masquerading as genuine lovers.
Sounds like a case of low self esteem… it’s not love anymore, it’s self abuse.
It's lack of spiritual consciousness and connect and constantly chasing pleasure to compensate for it 🙄
A glutton for punishment 🙄😂
You are very right,some underlying issues too might be the cause
I thought the same too as I'm watching
Exactly
God can't give u a husband while u have onother one,that's punishmnt
So sad....abuse is addictive. It is hard to hear n see how women die in relationships
You need counseling.. but I like the fact that you are so kind.
Charlotte has a big kind HEART!!! OMG...for me just ONE red flag frm a dude,I RUN....I RUN b4 ....coz i know how much i can LOVE .... i'd RATHER cry for few days coz i've walked away more than crying for the rest of my life...😢. OMG, am REALLY SORRY Charlotte but plzzz DON'T go back to David 😢😢😢any man that lays his hands on a woman Will FOREVER be inhuman...RUN CHARLOTTE,RUN LADIES 💝💝💝
My prayer is that you find God dear sister. Life is too short for a woman to chase after a man.....
Charlotte, I wish you peace but please analyze this situation from an outside perspective and make a decision like someone else. Please love yourself and I am not sure he will ever change.
Infatuation at its best.Go back to your danish hubby if he is still unmarried.
Maybe he's not that stupid to pick her back.
This is why she's so stressed.
I wish there was a way we could protect our hearts. May God truly heal this woman.
Amen. She need God love❤
God tells us to guard our hearts. The book of proverbs provides us with wisdom to apply in our lives.
She is paying the exact price she supposed to pay KARMAA feels good
Having treated your husband so cruelly,you got your just reward by loving someone who has no intention of ever truly loving you.Some people never learn.
Totally devoted loving person and meets a parasites, it's a complete mismatch, a parasite will eventually drain the host of blood life and kill it. However, I must appreciate Charlotte fluid personality to accept circumstances ❤
You would take him back😮😮😮😮. More than 20M😮. I need a muzungu too, am very loving and am half masai for real. Delulu is never the solulu
😂😂😂 the old fat desperate ones. Are the jp
Truly, this is financial, psychological, and physical abuse. I hope she learns that this man is not going to change and will keep on manipulating her forever.
The man is scared of ex husband the man lover won't come back
She should find another Kenyans holy man .....knowing surely now divorced and single
Its called Karma. She left her innocent husband because of selfish interests, kikamramba.
Evils spirit from her husband to new guys new guys same evils spirit attracted each other
Interview more class
She should go to up 3/4to Kenyans
Interview by that she rebuke the devil spirit
To get good spirit of God and attract people of God's
You need to see therapist,this guy manipulate you
@@monniemugo3793🍆🍆she enjoyed it
Sorry for this lady, she knew little about some manipulative men in Kenya, hope she finds peace and love.
She is not a victim she did the same to her Danish husband.
I am not very good in Swahili but surely the love charlotte has for this philanderer “mapenzi ni sumu”…now I have evidence. Thanks tiki for sharing this
This reminds me of Hosea the prophet who was told to marry Gomer, who would leave him for other men, Charlotte, there is a lesson for us in this generation. Thanks for sharing i take it posotively,i wish i would me you girl.
That why it so difficult for such marriages be accepted in diaspora, even the genuine cases
Marriage is a commitment and for it to work,you have to be intentional on not cheating on your spouse‼️i wonder how you would have felt if your husband came to kenya and fell in love with the waitress and left you ⁉️What goes around,comes around ‼️Every tear your husband shed is what you are paying for‼️kimekuramba madam ‼️
😂😂😂😂
Arudi kwa husband yake
she looks a dangerous woman and out for a revenge of her own wickedness pretending to be still in love.
Kabisa.....arudi Denmark to her husband....
Watu wa Denmark wana kasoro
Woman move on! HE DOESNT LOVE YOU! By now he has a new Mzungu he is Bank Rolling!
😂😂😂 literally
A woman like this comes once in a lifetime
Lesson to learn -Don't expect what you can't give---If you can not give loyalty,honesty ,trust ,etc don't expect to get it ....what you gave your husband just boomerang to u sorry anyway
He seems to be a very good woman, pole mama
This lady is telling the world to accept abuse. She needs help. This Tuko lady should have advised her and told her to leave this relationship. Suffering like this in a foreign land. If she's not careful and doesn't leave, she will end up destitute and homeless, in a foreign land. There's no future in a relationship like this.
She has done so in the end
😂😂😂This is what my maths teacher in Primary called "madness without shoes"
finally "mwalimu wa maths" is remembered fondly for something. Lately mwalimu wa maths has been catching a lot of flak
😂😂😂😂😂niue
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I really don't want to laugh 🙊
Many women are similar situation. When she is realised that no way to stay... It will be a long healing process. I wish her all the best 💖
Kawira congrats, I think your star as a reality show journalist is shining. Well done.
Beautiful lady Run for your dear life......
My thoughts exactly
True.
I totally understand her I know how it feels when you do everything for a man that lies he loves you I feel her pain I was there before it's fastrusting that nomatter how bad the man treats you you still want them back just be strong and love yourself more to move away from what that hurts you hugs ❤❤❤
Charlotte, David is not a good person, i wish you had met a good person because they are there. Don't get back to him. Run and don't look back.
Tell Charlotte my brother is a Masaai and he is a good person, i will connect her.
But she was already married to a good man in her country and she decided to cheat on him with a Kenyan man. 😂
Good men where? Please,go somewhere else
@@Bouncing_back Where? In Mars or Jupiter?
Kindly leave that man alone you deserve better Darling ooh God.
I really don't understand why she could go for 3 years as a secret lover.
Why would she like to marry someone who is already married. She was willing to break someone's marriage knowingly.
What she did was selfish...
Once a cheater always a cheater😢😢
I think he got another foreigner in Mombasa. Leave him alone.
She needs to work on herself. She has a lot off issues . She destroyed her family for a fantasy. I am sorry I don’t feel bad for her. I hope she learned her lessons and will be a better and stronger woman after this experience 🙏🏽
and she's old Now 😢😢😢may b her hubby moved on
She is at fault for leaving her husband for the stupid liar.
That kind of obsession is called fatal attraction. It was never about the car . She wanted HIM back. Its not even the money. Shes infatuated with the guy !!! She has refused even common sense !!! 😢😮😢
True a car ...is just a ticket
..I am like her I hv bn to such. I need tha investigator
i feel so touched about true love Sharlord have and all the sacrifices she made even she was hurt by this David . That true LOVE deep from Sharlord!!!
can you find that man & bring him to hear his story as well?
Oh God, someone needs to shake this woman to her senses.As you tell the story you stil love him beats common sense.
😂
Love is blind ooh
@@phedinamuthoni3368People of the last hundred years 🙄 have zero idea what “love” is. This is NOT love and actual, real love is not blind.
@@girumzemichael704 oh is not?
When one door closes God opens two. How I wish my sister could move on
Yaani hakuna kitu haijawahi kufanyika juja, sijui Tulikosea wapi, but Charlotte you are really something else, you need to love yourself first
Did you have to say that 😂😂😂😂
@@sylviahkinyangi9892 yaani juja maica ata kama sio sisi tumefanya, we just get mentioned, we are always used as an example
Very beautiful lady,God give you strength to move on,1.Change the man 2.Stop giving him money and see,you won't hear from him,big hug my sister
Well....I somehow feel related to this Story....loving some one for Yrs. and yrs. She said she gave him lots of money and even bailed him out .....she still loves him. Eventhough he cheated on her with other women, she kept on loving him and providing him with money. Some of us women, we do get weak very often times. Even putting our own lives on hold. with no future with this person. We still keep on loving them. It,s an Endless Road and leads to nowhere.
This has nothing to do with love, but rather insecurity. Bcos Charlotte suffers from esteem issues, she cld hardly see that David is treating her for a sucker. It's hard to sympathize for someone who who identifies with their tomentor.
That's the definition of colonialism my dear.
@@namkebanyanklaritinope that's NOT the definition of colonialism. Go do your research more on the definition of colonialism. While you're at it here is a simple definition...colonialism/coloniality= system of governance that an outside occupying power imposes on a conquered country. Read Thomas Hodgkins, Basil Davidson, Adu Boahen, etc.
Ooooooh sorry dear lady.May God see you through.go back to your sweet heart.hii ingine ni mwiziiiiiii
Sorry to break your heart lady,but Karma is a bitch...i can only imagine how your husband suffered when you left him without notice
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😂😂😂😂😂Tabitha my mother🤣
@@rachealkibaiya7593 alaaar 😂🤣
😂😂😂Each time she boarded those flights without remorse and made her husband discuss all the rubbish, and each time she returned to him without shame! She has not paid enough yet! I hope karma is still woke!😅
This lady was hypnotized by this guy . She didn't go through all this with clear eyes. This is not love but effectuation