Thank you my friend is only 62 but has been disabled for many years. Healthcare worker has taken over everything isolated her moved her 5 kids and boyfriend. Silver lake home worth millions she’s on title😢and moving in less than 2 weeks. Has stolen jewelry first blaming relative. Took over all mail placed on all accounts including poa after withholding food, refused to pay until she was named in trust. Stolen everything moved everything
I am so happy he said that men who never leave their moms homes are lazy. So many men do not want to believe this.
I am a survivor of child abuse domestic abuse and elderly abuse....I had to leave my family........My daughter went through about 7 grand,kept my furniture..and falified my taxes....My mother also suffered from elderly abuse at the hands of my sister 11 years ago..Took me 6 months to get my mother to safety then, I had a mental meltdown and itso began 11 years in and out of mental hospitals and psych meds.I wasn't getting any support from my family..In November 2018 was when I walked away from my family..My daughter wanted me dead..She hung a rope in my closet and it almost became physical...I was so drugged up and mistreated I couldn't function..I felt trapped....I now live alone with my dog and a kitten someone gave me..I have no friends and have tried in vain to find some group therapy sessions in my area....I still love my family but, I have no contact with them anymore....It's very hard for me to think about what my daughter did to me as it breaks my heart..She is 45 years old and I don't even know her anymore....I feel good about one thing..I TOLD!!!! I finally TOLD! I understand fully why elderly abuse is such an epidemic..All those years I was being abused,I couldn't see it or perhaps I didn't want to see it...It's not easy to walk away from family whether they abuse or not...Very hard.....
God bless you. You just told my story. Thank you for sharing. I have left my family too. Only my son and I have a relationship and it is fragile. God help us both. I have to put up a boundary at times when my son becomes disrespectful of me. Thank you for sharing. It helps to know I am not the only one who is going through this type of thing. It hurts, but it has been a while and I am making it ok. But I never knew that people who are supposed to love you naturally can hurt you so badly. Never let them see your weakness. Be strong. I live alone but have a guinea pig. Furry babies help us. My daughter head bucked me and body slammed me to the bed and was on top of me with my arms pinned down and was beating me in my face and my grand daughter was screaming please don't hit my Maw Maw. That was the most painful part. Then she shut me out of their lives. After she beat me like that, she brought me a card and bottle of aspirin ....she made a joke out of it. I would never have put my hands on my precious parents like that. These things out daughters have done to is a terrible memory. I a, dead to my daughter...she is a different person that I do not wish to be around. Again stay strong
@@JaneA544 yes thank you. My life is very blessed in every way. It took some years but I have been able to put it behind me. I am 3njoying peace and learned to value myself. I walk away from drama now. Cit is everywhere. Solitute us bliss. I wish you well. Gid bless and stay safe.
My niece lives next to my unit and thinks my mind is gone! Comes to steal from me, while I am out. Just amazing your own family members do it us!!! What sad world we are living! We used to love and care for them!
I am going through it. Yes, one of family members and no one believes me. Just amazing how common this is! Shame on family members who abuse your elder and those who allow the abuse and ignore it. And doctors who decide diagnosis without any testing. Just astounding.
You must read my mind! I am going through it right now! One of my family members lives right next to my unit and has the exact same house key to both of our unit for the convinces! My daughter took me to her doctor for memory issues. This doctor without any test, he said to my daughter I had memory issues! Since then
my niece who lives next to my unit comes in and steals just about anything she wants. When I speak up for the thefts, I was told I was the one throwing out to trash to look like thefts! Refuse to come and check what went missing. Once I was very credible person, loved, respected. Today, I am an old person with memory issues and accusing a family member stealing. This experience changed my life forever. And elderly abuses are pandemic level worldwide.
Relatives are the worst offenders. You really have to be particularly careful with adult children, nieces/nephews or anyone who has direct access to the elder. I'm currently in medical school and one of the subjects taught is how to spot elder abuse and the most likely abusers.
Kids have no respect for their parents just greed and themselves
Probate abuse is happening in EVERY state and it's not just people who have no family locally to take care of them. It has now happened to our aunt and uncle who, according to Home health providers, physicians, specialists, and non-heir family members, were being cared for competently and attentively by their adult daughter, who sold her paid-for house in another state and gave up her job to take care of them for free. The courts put them under a conservatorship anyway and they've paid over $200k to attorneys involved.
We are no longer able to see the invoices from the attorneys or the conservator, or the repairmen and yard men they hire. We badgered the yard guy to provide his invoices, threatening to tell the city that he's using city-owned emergency vehicles for his private business. We found out that he's charged them $800 each time he mows their lawn! And the trustee and conservator okay it!
If you're a victim of court-sanctioned corruption and abuse, join our private Facebook group called "End Probate elder abuse (by attorneys, trustees, conservators). Attorneys and court employees are NOT welcome to join, but media and news outlets ARE welcome, as well as victims of the system. All potential members are checked out.
The Tulsa Police department ignored my complaint of sexual abuse and financial exploration by a law enforcement officer and a female law enforcement officer. Both of them stole money from me.
Such important information!
Its sad but the older you get the more abuse you get sometimes People get annoyed with you
i will put it out there,....i am 59 years old and being mentally abused by my adult child
@@anoodono1841 it hasn't changed much..so I decided that I will keep praying for her. all in God's hands and avoid her she figures things out.
@@anoodono1841 I never know when she will lash out.. so I have to have no communication . maybe she is going through stuff and cannot deal with it.. I'm concerned over that more than how she attacks me
Thank you so much 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️
I am afraid myself, my son just found out a week ago I was being mentally abused and it led to the physical abuse 2 days ago. I started believing crap they were feeding me. I thought I deserved it, his dad's fathers family will get away from it. I today am being thrown out although my rent was paid and they wil get away with it because I fear additional retaliation. I am afraid
APS is helping a lil. End of next month I'm homeless. I broke my arm, trying to walk 5 feet to restroom had to get surgery. I have to have back and neck surgery from fall in April. Thank you 😊! Positive messages make me stronger
God bless you
This is an outstandingly informative presentation. Thank you for posting it.
Governor, president, judge must register on line Complaints.
Ask courts to finalise elders cases.
Maintain Digital Register to Register Complaints of abuse.
For evidence based crime
On line complaints must be taken
Elders must be provided with separate Bus.
I HAVE RESURRECTED MYSELF.
Avoidance can b powerful
Elders should have separate Hotel.
LINK.
The dirty secret.
2:08 Min.
You wouldnt believe the things he did, if I wasnt living this night mare I would not believe any of it.
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My next door neioubirs hector angla jackie and her sister abuse verble 9 years
Elders should have Separate Banks.
Damn it Quebec...
I have an attorney that took my brother's case for elder exploitation. His home was stolen that was being held for safekeeping without consideration. My attorney never took upon a case like this and little by little he started understanding. He is a real estate attorney. My brother is legally blind, parkinson's, szchoprenic and this was his inherited home. The people who took it were family friends for 16 years. For 5 years I continue to fight for my brother's home whose mother had only 248$ in her bank account when she passed away and left only the house. This is unprecedented evil, the lies, now my brother is crippled. No one would take the case I had 30 attorney's I called. Then my friend who wrote "Great Balls of Fire" Murray Silver introduced our Attorney. We finally have a case management and one of the defendants are in contempt of court. We are fighting against 5 people. Thank you for keeping up the good fight for the disabled. Mickey Rooney is a hero. I hope my brother, Joe, who is a poet, will get justice. Many never see justice before they die. We have faith. Thank you for reading. Bernadett