Ua neej npav noj qhov yooj2 yim xwb ces lub neej yeej kawg li ntawm, tus niam tsev you make the right decision for your life, peb cov hmoob tam sim no yuav luag txhua tus ces rau koj tus txiv sab khau ntag
You did the right thing for yourself. I praised you and your decision. No need to waste 16 yrs of your life to a no body. Time is precious. If the situation was switched, he would have remarried in a heartbeat and no one would complained, in fact, everyone would encouraged him.
Amy Yang respect to you my Hmong sister. Don’t try to be bias against the woman but I think there’s two side of the story. Instead of playing victim. I know she knows and benefit from his crimes. Or why marry the bad boy in the first place.🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Everyone is entitled to their own happiness. If the table was turned these men wouldn't hesitate to go seek out another woman. Txiv neeg no nas...tus poj niam tuag tsis tau muaj 3 hnub xwb tub noog tus ub tus no tias seb puas muaj hluas/laus nkauj nyob qhovtwg rau lawv tham. Do what is right for you...who cares what anybody says or does. He did it to himself
Luckily for you, the judge made the decision of leaving him easy for you. 16 years to wait for someone to get out of prison is long let alone waiting that long for someone to change - same difference. He was still the same after he got out of prison. Kudos to you for moving on and finding your own happiness.
Tus niam tsev aws yus xav Tia cia yus mus hloov luag lub siab phem kom nws tsim txiaj no tabsi tej laus has Tia qub nqaij tsw qub ntxhiab qub neeg coj qub siab muaj tseeb kawg li os. Hloov tsi Tau kiag li.
Ua neeg nyob tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej tus neeg twg ua dab tsi es tsis yuav lwm tus lus nws yuav nws lub siab zoo li tus txiv tsev no ces yeej muaj teeb meem rau nws tshaj tus niam tsev koj tus txiv tawv ncauj npaum ko ces kawg ua li koj ua lawm xwb nws xav tias nws ntse tshaj koj nws thiaj tsis mloog koj lus cia nom tswv txoj cai thiaj yuav hais tau nws xwb
Joy hunny you still don’t have blonde hair and blue eyes. They still look at you and say you love them long time. Until you change you name to Jane smith and eat potatoes instead of rice maybe you should shut the F UP. Dumb idiots like you that’s why we are not united... Such nasty bloodline you are passing on in our community. Get lost B
Tus viv ncaus aw koj niag txiv ces qub neeg qub siab os yog AV tsis lim zaum ob ces nws yeej yuav ua tsis tau neeg zoo lawm os, tos cov tub laib es tuag neeg tas los tua dua vim cov neeg zoo li no lawv lub siab yog siab dev es lawv thiaj li pauv tsis tau ua neeg tshiab.
Lady, you did what's right for yourself. Lawv txawm hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv Los yus tsis txhaum ces tsis muaj qab ntxhiab dab tsis kiag li os. Let them burn all the incense and papers they want.
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj txiav txim siab mus ua ib lub neej zoo zoo os me viv ncaus aw. Txawm yog kuv los, kuv yeej yuav ua li koj ua thiab os. Vim peb cov ntxhais hmoob tus twg los yeej nrhaw lub neej zoo zoo xwb os.
You are right for leaving him and moving on but you sound thirsty AF. If I were you, I would take a break from men until I find inner peace first. But maybe I am just not a thirsty woman so I can say that. LOL.
April83 it’s merely an excuse to get out of the toxic relationship. If she didn’t say she need her man to sleep with then she will have to have a strong case in order to leave her husband.
You did your best but he didn’t listened to you. It’s good that you’ve moved on and have a good life for you and your children. If it was vise versa he would’ve moved on before one year.
Ua yog lawm. Ib tug txiv es mus kaw 16 xyoo ces nrauj xwb. Tej kwvtij raum twb hais tsis tau lawv tus neeg ces tsis k. Txhob muab yus lub neej kuam nyob tos ib tus neeg phem tsis txim txiaj. Txhob hlawv hlawv ntawv tsam rov qab npam nej os, tus nyab tsis tau ua txhaum leej twg, nej tus tub yog tus phem nes.
Wow peb Hmoob tos tsis vam meej los ua dabtsi tsis ua ncaj ncees li. Koj muab luag tej minyuam los ua se twb tsis legal lawm 2 tuaj lawv noj Nyiaj thiab nw cas tsis ntshai li
The day he went to prison is the day he died. What you did was right. A guy like him will never change. Glad you didnt waste your time waiting for that low life.
koj yuav tau ib tug txiv neeg ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj...ib tug neeg ruam tsab ntse li no mas yeej tsis kam lees nws ruam li... ib tug txiv liam li no yeej yuav liam mus txog hnub tuag vim nws tub nkeeg tsis yog ib tug neeg tshaj haj. good for you that you left that loser all he'll ever do is bring you down or you'll end up just like him..
Koj txiav txim siab tsis yuav kev daim nqaij mas muab qha kom qhuav los yeej tau ov ho tus neeg muaj lub siab lub ntsws thiab muaj txoj mas muab qha tsi congratulations for your success ziaj nomad koj tsua only hais yes thiab no nkaus xwb
Thaub shit yog thawj tug xav kom lawv muab xa 6 nplog muab ncaws kom tav lov xwb..nws g ris siab g muaj siab muaj ntsws..muab kaw los 3 tseem tau pooj nyiaj yug bread thiab..him jux a piece off shit...
You should’ve told them to do something about it? I bet all those stupid old hmong leaders can’t 💩 about it, if them did you just need to call the cop!
This man is bad influence to his kids .. luckily his kids didn't do what he asked. He is bad father. Our Hmong pple is hypocrite....they know that their son in jail long time. Why hold their daughter in law like widow? Hmong pple need to get real and let her move on with her life.
We all know no one will wait 16 years for their spouse for doing stupid shit like your ex husband. You did the right thing which was moving on. You told him. He didn't listen. You have every right to move on. Those that cursed you for moving on. They know they will move on too. I would! Ain't waiting 16 years for anyone. Haha
Yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ko tiag ces ua li koj ua yog lawm nawv. Hos tsis yog es koj tuaj hus koj kwj tse xwb ces lam tso koj pa xwb tsis muaj txiaj ntsim dab tsi li nawv raws li kuv mloog cov lus no naj.
Cas niam pog lawv ho tsis hlawv xyab ntawd kom lawv tus tub tsis txhob txhob puab es thiaj tsis tau mus nyob nkuaj nawj, koj tus qub txiv ko nyiam 2 troubles kawg
Yog president Trump yuav xa hmoob rov mus nyob teb chaw nplog ces xa cov neeg phem, neeg tsis mloog lus ua thiab noj cov qav no cov neeg ua xas teb dag noj dag haus rov mus nyob nplog teb vim lawv tsis tsim nyog nyob mekas lub teb chaw. Yog yuav sign thiab vote ces kuv yog tus first mus sign kom pass es trump thiaj li xa cov neeg no mus.
Vim txoj kev npam ntag vim nej cov team hmoob ko siab phem siab tsi ncaj vim kuv niam tai lawv mus nej cov team xav mus ua hauj lwm es lawm mus ua 3 hnub hauj lawm tab si them lawv 1 hnub xwb vim khuj noj khuj hau lawv mus hai npaum twg los tsi kam them nyiaj li vim saib tsi taug cov ruam cov lau ntag thiaj mus tsi txog qhov twg. Nws paub nws txoj kev npam lawm mas.
You ex husband is stupid as heck. He's purposely asking for it. But honestly though, what were you thinking letting your children & yourself be around the things he was doing? You knew what he was doing was wrong. Glad you moved on though.
Kuv tus kheej kuv xav tias yog hauv wb lub neej yog nws yeej hlub kuv heev xws li txoj kev hlub no nws hwm kuv hais lus paub ntshai tsam yus tu siab, yus ua tau zaub mov qab thiab Iav los noj es tsis txhob thuam es nws yuav ua nws ib co hos Nyiaj txiag yus yog tus niam tsev lawm yuav cia yus ua tus khaws ua tus Tswj es 2 leeg los ib pob Nyiaj ib tug acct es hlub yus hwm yus tam li yus yog nws txoj sia nws lub qhov muag lawm ces 16 lub xyoo los kawg tos tabsis yog zoo li tus no es tsis yuav tus Poj niam hais thiab zoo li tus kuv puav los es noj los Nyias noj Nyias Nyiaj txiag los Nyias muaj Nyias hos nws ruam tshaj yus tabsis nws mas cem yus li yus tsis yog neeg laus es tsawg lo los ruam es muab hais tias lam koom lub npe xwb tsis koom lub siab li ces nws mus mag law vim kev tawv ncauj ua ntau yam txhaum cai thiab ces kuv yuav tsis tos ib yam thiab
Ua neej npav noj qhov yooj2 yim xwb ces lub neej yeej kawg li ntawm, tus niam tsev you make the right decision for your life, peb cov hmoob tam sim no yuav luag txhua tus ces rau koj tus txiv sab khau ntag
You did the right thing for yourself. I praised you and your decision. No need to waste 16 yrs of your life to a no body. Time is precious. If the situation was switched, he would have remarried in a heartbeat and no one would complained, in fact, everyone would encouraged him.
You have made a very good decision. You have to move forward and do not wasted your time.
Pom zoo li koj hais, yog neeg zoo raug iab liam ces tos ib sim neej twb tos, tab sis rua muag txhob txwm ua Txawm yeej paub yuav tsi kav ntev thiab lwj siab npaum ko lawm ces pom zoo nrog koj.
Moral of the story: Don’t try to change someone especially marrying them when you had foreknowledge of their behaviors.
Amy Yang respect to you my Hmong sister. Don’t try to be bias against the woman but I think there’s two side of the story. Instead of playing victim. I know she knows and benefit from his crimes. Or why marry the bad boy in the first place.🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej tos tsis taus tus txiv mus ib txoj ke twg tam siv deev hluas lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
Everyone is entitled to their own happiness. If the table was turned these men wouldn't hesitate to go seek out another woman. Txiv neeg no nas...tus poj niam tuag tsis tau muaj 3 hnub xwb tub noog tus ub tus no tias seb puas muaj hluas/laus nkauj nyob qhovtwg rau lawv tham. Do what is right for you...who cares what anybody says or does. He did it to himself
Totally agree
You did the right thing for you and your kids. Why wait for 16 yrs of your life for him. Glad you found love and happiness that you deserve.
I don't understand why good girls falls for bad boys. Bad boys are hard to change.
Good story to share with everyone.
Luckily for you, the judge made the decision of leaving him easy for you. 16 years to wait for someone to get out of prison is long let alone waiting that long for someone to change - same difference. He was still the same after he got out of prison. Kudos to you for moving on and finding your own happiness.
Tus niam tsev aws yus xav Tia cia yus mus hloov luag lub siab phem kom nws tsim txiaj no tabsi tej laus has Tia qub nqaij tsw qub ntxhiab qub neeg coj qub siab muaj tseeb kawg li os. Hloov tsi Tau kiag li.
Ua neeg nyob tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej tus neeg twg ua dab tsi es tsis yuav lwm tus lus nws yuav nws lub siab zoo li tus txiv tsev no ces yeej muaj teeb meem rau nws tshaj tus niam tsev koj tus txiv tawv ncauj npaum ko ces kawg ua li koj ua lawm xwb nws xav tias nws ntse tshaj koj nws thiaj tsis mloog koj lus cia nom tswv txoj cai thiaj yuav hais tau nws xwb
Ruam tsab ntse xav tau dawb xav tau qhe
Nws tsis mus nyob txim los yeej tsis muaj ib txoj cai los cheem koj mus aim lwm tus li es txhob cem cem tias nws tsis yog zoo txiv tsev.
To the owner of this life story you did the right thing.
I'm so happy you got out of this toxic marriage.
Koj txiav txim yog lawm. Yog koj mus nyob nkuaj los nws yeej yuav dua tus tshiab ib yam nkaus.
Koj ua yog lawm. Cov Niag neeg zoo li no mas cia T. Muaxa rov rau Nplog teb mas txhiaj tas.
Zoo kawg li os
I agreed with this woman. I once told my ex bf that if he don’t listen n get lock up, I’m not waiting for him.
He's one of those people that are going to be deported back the Laos!
hlubforlife Why I vote trump again. Ship all you hmong non citizen back!
You do crime and you are not citizen. Go back to your hole.
Joy they should deport you stupid ass too
Joy, you think you look different?
Joy hunny you still don’t have blonde hair and blue eyes. They still look at you and say you love them long time. Until you change you name to Jane smith and eat potatoes instead of rice maybe you should shut the F UP. Dumb idiots like you that’s why we are not united... Such nasty bloodline you are passing on in our community. Get lost B
Tus viv ncaus aw koj niag txiv ces qub neeg qub siab os yog AV tsis lim zaum ob ces nws yeej yuav ua tsis tau neeg zoo lawm os, tos cov tub laib es tuag neeg tas los tua dua vim cov neeg zoo li no lawv lub siab yog siab dev es lawv thiaj li pauv tsis tau ua neeg tshiab.
You did right.
Yes, if it's me I will move on too.
Them bad boys!!!!
Lady, you did what's right for yourself. Lawv txawm hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv Los yus tsis txhaum ces tsis muaj qab ntxhiab dab tsis kiag li os. Let them burn all the incense and papers they want.
bchang227 The men brothers don’t give a shit about you! Be smart and don’t be stupid married on and leave the fff Family
She did the right thing and will never regret her decision. She can even take her husband's relatives to court if she wants.
Txawm txiv neej poj niam lo to tsis tau vim ntev dhau law
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj txiav txim siab mus ua ib lub neej zoo zoo os me viv ncaus aw. Txawm yog kuv los, kuv yeej yuav ua li koj ua thiab os. Vim peb cov ntxhais hmoob tus twg los yeej nrhaw lub neej zoo zoo xwb os.
You are right for leaving him and moving on but you sound thirsty AF. If I were you, I would take a break from men until I find inner peace first. But maybe I am just not a thirsty woman so I can say that. LOL.
April83 no ! Don’t mess with Hmong married outside the race. Hmong way is backward
April83 it’s merely an excuse to get out of the toxic relationship. If she didn’t say she need her man to sleep with then she will have to have a strong case in order to leave her husband.
Nothing I hate more than people who can't see their own skin. Joy, you are one of them.
Tiger Tee you live in the country and act like you are on a Hmong Laos jungle! That’s my fff problem. Is about you and your shit culture.
Why trump should kick u off the planet
You did good. You gave him too many chances. You deserve a good life!
Life goes on! You and your ex husband just wasn’t meant to be husband and wife. Glade you 2 still have responsibilities for the kids..
Qhov koj txiav txim yuav txiv yog koj tus kheej li hauj lwm yog thiab yuav kev rau koj xwb, tab sis qhov koj liam yog koj tsis tau nrauj txiv los koj txawm siv nrhab ceg rau lwm tus txiv neej muab koj caws ceg lawm. Koj txawm nqhis txiv neej npaum li cas los koj yuav tsum muab koj tus txiv nrauj kom tu kev tso koj mam li nrhiav txiv neej thiaj chaws Hmoob cai vim koj rov yuav Hmoob ntxiv.
You're strong as heck!
You did nothing wrong. Glad you're strong and move on.
Don’t blame you sister!!
You get what you ask for when you marry a husband like that.. plenty of fishes in the sea why not choose somebody else.
Its easy to say it to someone when you never walked in their shoe
Cov Txiv DEV zoolinov ces yog cov es Trump yuavtsum muab xa rovqab ntag mas.
It’s time to moving forward..
Yeap, This gentleman is deserting to deportation by by US constitution...
You did your best but he didn’t listened to you. It’s good that you’ve moved on and have a good life for you and your children. If it was vise versa he would’ve moved on before one year.
Lady, you did the right thing to move out of his life.
She righr
Ua yog lawm. Ib tug txiv es mus kaw 16 xyoo ces nrauj xwb. Tej kwvtij raum twb hais tsis tau lawv tus neeg ces tsis k. Txhob muab yus lub neej kuam nyob tos ib tus neeg phem tsis txim txiaj. Txhob hlawv hlawv ntawv tsam rov qab npam nej os, tus nyab tsis tau ua txhaum leej twg, nej tus tub yog tus phem nes.
Txiv laib luv siab laib yeej hloov tsis Tau ab Lim thiaj tau.yog kuv Los yeej tsis tos in yam tabsi koj twb paub nws yog laib koj yuav nws UA dab tsi?
Wow peb Hmoob tos tsis vam meej los ua dabtsi tsis ua ncaj ncees li. Koj muab luag tej minyuam los ua se twb tsis legal lawm 2 tuaj lawv noj Nyiaj thiab nw cas tsis ntshai li
Glad that you moved on sister! GL!
Koj puas yuav txiv mas yog koj tus Nyob nkauj
The day he went to prison is the day he died. What you did was right. A guy like him will never change. Glad you didnt waste your time waiting for that low life.
koj yuav tau ib tug txiv neeg ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj...ib tug neeg ruam tsab ntse li no mas yeej tsis kam lees nws ruam li... ib tug txiv liam li no yeej yuav liam mus txog hnub tuag vim nws tub nkeeg tsis yog ib tug neeg tshaj haj.
good for you that you left that loser all he'll ever do is bring you down or you'll end up just like him..
Sad story sister 😭😭😭😢😢😢
Koj txiav txim siab tsis yuav kev daim nqaij mas muab qha kom qhuav los yeej tau ov ho tus neeg muaj lub siab lub ntsws thiab muaj txoj mas muab qha tsi congratulations for your success ziaj nomad koj tsua only hais yes thiab no nkaus xwb
Thaub shit yog thawj tug xav kom lawv muab xa 6 nplog muab ncaws kom tav lov xwb..nws g ris siab g muaj siab muaj ntsws..muab kaw los 3 tseem tau pooj nyiaj yug bread thiab..him jux a piece off shit...
You should’ve told them to do something about it? I bet all those stupid old hmong leaders can’t 💩 about it, if them did you just need to call the cop!
Dev yeej ib txwm nyiam noj quav.
This man is bad influence to his kids .. luckily his kids didn't do what he asked. He is bad father. Our Hmong pple is hypocrite....they know that their son in jail long time. Why hold their daughter in law like widow? Hmong pple need to get real and let her move on with her life.
It’s an unfortunate and tragic event
Kij ntshaw txiv neej tus kwv xwb hahaha txaus hluas ua luaj
When you living with someone and had kids as family for many years you still have to file divorce paper even you never have a marriage license.
k.v only some states.. states that have common laws
We all know no one will wait 16 years for their spouse for doing stupid shit like your ex husband. You did the right thing which was moving on. You told him. He didn't listen. You have every right to move on. Those that cursed you for moving on. They know they will move on too. I would! Ain't waiting 16 years for anyone. Haha
Yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ko tiag ces ua li koj ua yog lawm nawv. Hos tsis yog es koj tuaj hus koj kwj tse xwb ces lam tso koj pa xwb tsis muaj txiaj ntsim dab tsi li nawv raws li kuv mloog cov lus no naj.
Cas niam pog lawv ho tsis hlawv xyab ntawd kom lawv tus tub tsis txhob txhob puab es thiaj tsis tau mus nyob nkuaj nawj, koj tus qub txiv ko nyiam 2 troubles kawg
Come on, this woman knows EXACTLY what she was getting into. Used him and than left him.
Tus neeg qub ces siab qub xwb os, koj txiav txim siab yog lawm, txawm koj tos yuav nws los yeej kawg rov puas tsuaj li qub xwb
If the was the other way around, men will do it without even asking you. So don't feel so bad.
Yog president Trump yuav xa hmoob rov mus nyob teb chaw nplog ces xa cov neeg phem, neeg tsis mloog lus ua thiab noj cov qav no cov neeg ua xas teb dag noj dag haus rov mus nyob nplog teb vim lawv tsis tsim nyog nyob mekas lub teb chaw. Yog yuav sign thiab vote ces kuv yog tus first mus sign kom pass es trump thiaj li xa cov neeg no mus.
Lady u do the right way but please don’t put on UA-cam keep in yourself for life
Vim txoj kev npam ntag vim nej cov team hmoob ko siab phem siab tsi ncaj vim kuv niam tai lawv mus nej cov team xav mus ua hauj lwm es lawm mus ua 3 hnub hauj lawm tab si them lawv 1 hnub xwb vim khuj noj khuj hau lawv mus hai npaum twg los tsi kam them nyiaj li vim saib tsi taug cov ruam cov lau ntag thiaj mus tsi txog qhov twg. Nws paub nws txoj kev npam lawm mas.
You ex husband is stupid as heck. He's purposely asking for it. But honestly though, what were you thinking letting your children & yourself be around the things he was doing? You knew what he was doing was wrong. Glad you moved on though.
Koj lucky koj niag txiv tsis muab Xais rau koj tsev xwb yog nws nqa los zaus hauv koj tsev es koj tsis paub ces koj ces mag mus nrog nws nyob ib nkuaj lawm thiab lau. Thiab cov niag thov Tom no ua koj poob plig yah ua koj tsev ntxiv yah yog muaj Nyiaj mas ho tig rov muab lawv food qhov lawv tuaj ua li no rau koj thiab naw yom haha
Kuv tus kheej kuv xav tias yog hauv wb lub neej yog nws yeej hlub kuv heev xws li txoj kev hlub no nws hwm kuv hais lus paub ntshai tsam yus tu siab, yus ua tau zaub mov qab thiab Iav los noj es tsis txhob thuam es nws yuav ua nws ib co hos Nyiaj txiag yus yog tus niam tsev lawm yuav cia yus ua tus khaws ua tus Tswj es 2 leeg los ib pob Nyiaj ib tug acct es hlub yus hwm yus tam li yus yog nws txoj sia nws lub qhov muag lawm ces 16 lub xyoo los kawg tos tabsis yog zoo li tus no es tsis yuav tus Poj niam hais thiab zoo li tus kuv puav los es noj los Nyias noj Nyias Nyiaj txiag los Nyias muaj Nyias hos nws ruam tshaj yus tabsis nws mas cem yus li yus tsis yog neeg laus es tsawg lo los ruam es muab hais tias lam koom lub npe xwb tsis koom lub siab li ces nws mus mag law vim kev tawv ncauj ua ntau yam txhaum cai thiab ces kuv yuav tsis tos ib yam thiab
Sounds like meth