BOOM💥For "Fun not for Future"! Get deep...shallow minds stay near the beach - NO ROOTS & easily float unachored!!! Key, my bruh, thank you for the breakdown
Well Doc I married the nerd that I thought was like her grandfather and he turned out to be a dismissive avoidant and I find myself starting over in my 40's. The dating pool is ghetto I don' t like it out here LOL
This is a complicated one. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be attracted to your mate and them wanting to be attracted to you. Now, it becomes a problem when that’s all a person values… but if a woman keeps herself up, handles her business, takes care of her body etc. it is not a shock that she will desire someone that does the same. From personal experience I have dated attractive and given a few guys a shot that I was not attracted to but they were nice. They turned out to have the worst character ever. My question is do the attractive guys get the wrap of having lots of options and they are unable to be faithful but the possibly not so attractive guys or guys a woman man not be attracted to will treat you better? I do agree that substance matters. A relationship cannot be sustained without it, but don’t get with someone because they are nice and you hope they become more attractive as you spend more time with them. It’s unfair to them and you. Yes there are times that the more time you spend with the person the more attractive they can become to you, but is not the case all the time. I would love to know more about what she was putting on display. If she is naturally beautiful that is not something she can control, but if she is online promoting a lot more skin etc then yes there is a certain type of person she will attract. This is definitely a topic worth diving into.
I have to disagree here. I agree with date based on your values but nerds/undesirable guys will cheat on you too. Lol Its more about is this person compatible with your needs (if you know em), has emotional intelligence and have work on their past issues. Plus we dont know what really happening with this * metaphoric* lady that is leading to this pattern. Nice advice but way more complex than that.
BOOM💥For "Fun not for Future"! Get deep...shallow minds stay near the beach - NO ROOTS & easily float unachored!!! Key, my bruh, thank you for the breakdown
Well Doc I married the nerd that I thought was like her grandfather and he turned out to be a dismissive avoidant and I find myself starting over in my 40's. The dating pool is ghetto I don' t like it out here LOL
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This is a complicated one.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be attracted to your mate and them wanting to be attracted to you. Now, it becomes a problem when that’s all a person values… but if a woman keeps herself up, handles her business, takes care of her body etc. it is not a shock that she will desire someone that does the same.
From personal experience I have dated attractive and given a few guys a shot that I was not attracted to but they were nice. They turned out to have the worst character ever. My question is do the attractive guys get the wrap of having lots of options and they are unable to be faithful but the possibly not so attractive guys or guys a woman man not be attracted to will treat you better?
I do agree that substance matters. A relationship cannot be sustained without it, but don’t get with someone because they are nice and you hope they become more attractive as you spend more time with them. It’s unfair to them and you. Yes there are times that the more time you spend with the person the more attractive they can become to you, but is not the case all the time.
I would love to know more about what she was putting on display. If she is naturally beautiful that is not something she can control, but if she is online promoting a lot more skin etc then yes there is a certain type of person she will attract. This is definitely a topic worth diving into.
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Churrrch! Attracting a Man and Keeping him are two different things...
Yes date your values first and then attraction
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I have to disagree here. I agree with date based on your values but nerds/undesirable guys will cheat on you too. Lol Its more about is this person compatible with your needs (if you know em), has emotional intelligence and have work on their past issues. Plus we dont know what really happening with this * metaphoric* lady that is leading to this pattern. Nice advice but way more complex than that.