Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Do your best to move on with someone worthy of the love you have to give. Time is on your side so enjoy just enjoying some freedom and maybe independence.
So very true.... Time to reflector on oneself! And move forward with clear intentions!!! Cutting and removing weeds from your life is truly the best and making yourself a priority❤
I was an anxious "option" for 7 yrs only I didn't know it. He recently ghosted me. I chased him trying to get him to talk to me. Then, 3 months later, my cousin posted pics of her 50yr class reunion and I saw him with a woman. In Nov, he admitted he was seeing someone. In the conversation, he let it slip that there were 2 other women. So, I interrupted him as he was telling me how stressful 3 women were and I calmly and firmly relieved him of the anxiety he said I was giving him. Other sexual partners were never what we agreed to. Never. While it is sad to have been betrayed, it is more sad to realize what a true Cad he really was/is.
5 signs keep you an option 1. Off n on. Inconsistent. 2. Lack of transparency.No communication. Feeling unsure and confused. 3. Lack of commitment. Minimal effort. 4. No integration in his life. Don't meet his family or close friends. 5. Frequent excuses and broken promises.
Sounds like a dismissive avoidant. I believe my partner might be. We’ve recently hit the year mark and he’s a stranger. I’ve been feeling in my gut that he’s turned me into an option. After watching this video, my intuition is indisputably validated. He’s gone ghost numerous times, and during that time he’s had sex with random strangers he meets on a sex hookup site that he’s very active on. He micro cheats, and has been since we started dating. I put blinders on, telling myself he’d stop. I know he’s going to leave me for good, once he finds what he believes is the “perfect” partner. Idk why I stay. He treats me like I mean nothing to him. It’s extremely painful and borderline abuse. I’m mentally, emotionally and physically starving. I don’t want to give up, but he’s destroying me.
This isn’t narcissism. This is a trauma bond. (Respectfully) Just because a guy is a self absorbed asshole doesn’t mean he is a narcissist. Some are just assholes.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Do your best to move on with someone worthy of the love you have to give. Time is on your side so enjoy just enjoying some freedom and maybe independence.
So very true.... Time to reflector on oneself! And move forward with clear intentions!!! Cutting and removing weeds from your life is truly the best and making yourself a priority❤
I was an anxious "option" for 7 yrs only I didn't know it. He recently ghosted me. I chased him trying to get him to talk to me. Then, 3 months later, my cousin posted pics of her 50yr class reunion and I saw him with a woman. In Nov, he admitted he was seeing someone. In the conversation, he let it slip that there were 2 other women. So, I interrupted him as he was telling me how stressful 3 women were and I calmly and firmly relieved him of the anxiety he said I was giving him.
Other sexual partners were never what we agreed to. Never.
While it is sad to have been betrayed, it is more sad to realize what a true Cad he really was/is.
This is what I needed. This is just what's happening to me now.
The may keep us as an option but we certainly keep them as a non option for our own safety, well being, happiness and prosperity
In consistent. In secure . Behavior shifting emotionally inconsistent .
Actions showing disrespect .
Priorities ..options open..
No honesty .. clarity
I am also experience these 5 signs!
Thank you so much. I really appreciate this video.
5 signs keep you an option
1. Off n on. Inconsistent.
2. Lack of transparency.No communication. Feeling unsure and confused.
3. Lack of commitment. Minimal effort.
4. No integration in his life. Don't meet his family or close friends.
5. Frequent excuses and broken promises.
Sounds like a dismissive avoidant. I believe my partner might be. We’ve recently hit the year mark and he’s a stranger. I’ve been feeling in my gut that he’s turned me into an option. After watching this video, my intuition is indisputably validated. He’s gone ghost numerous times, and during that time he’s had sex with random strangers he meets on a sex hookup site that he’s very active on. He micro cheats, and has been since we started dating. I put blinders on, telling myself he’d stop. I know he’s going to leave me for good, once he finds what he believes is the “perfect” partner. Idk why I stay. He treats me like I mean nothing to him. It’s extremely painful and borderline abuse. I’m mentally, emotionally and physically starving. I don’t want to give up, but he’s destroying me.
Yeah, just talk
This behavior is suggestive of a narcissist, who is juggling other relationships along with yours.
This isn’t narcissism. This is a trauma bond. (Respectfully) Just because a guy is a self absorbed asshole doesn’t mean he is a narcissist. Some are just assholes.
It sounds just like Dr.Joe Dispenza talking, just voice and person is different!
Just oay attention to the content
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get lost peterson. what makes you such an autoirity on everything...huh.
A little harsh there Miss.. you spelled authority wrong sweetie.
Because he is
Is there anything here you disagree with? Maybe you’ve been blessed with a loving kind warm man and so don’t need to be hearing this?
@@ginalynn4493NO kidding, right! 👍
@@joyholtzhausen8976Exactly!!! 👏