Don’t stay, it is going to destroy you, that’s how people get illness and depression is over sadness and heartache!!! Please leave because that is untimate betrayal, it can never be forgiven or forgotten!!
Any betrayal is very disappointing and will never be forgotten but the fact that he had stick his sh*t into no one other than your own birth mom should be a total red flag h*ll no. Comes down to you and how much respect you have for yourself. He wasn't sorry that's why he did it. Good luck and I hope you save the remaining dignity you have for yourself and leave.
Sister you need to let him go. He's no good man/husband. You need to let go of your mom and your husband. You deserved better. Life is too short to hold on to your husband and your mom.
Leave his ass, make sure you get everything. If he make mistake with someone, there is room to work with. But not your Mom. Disown her too. Is more of her fault than him. She is blood. You don’t do that to your daughter. So sad😢😢😢
Muab sij hawm ntev ntev rau koj lub siab es koj mam txiav txim koj thiaj tsis ua tej yam koj tseem ua tsis tau tau, los yog ua yuam kev yam koj tseem khuv xim, tseem tshua.. Tabsis yog rau kuv ces ntshe ntxov lig los kuv yeej yuav ncaim kom tau ib leeg niam thiab ib tug txiv li nkawv os sister aw 💔💔💔🫂 Hlub koj os🫂
I would definitely leave him thaum zoo li no ces kev hlub tuag lawm mog nyob ua ke los tsuas muaj kev tu siab kev mob siab lawm xwb let go and find yourself love yourself before you look for someone to love you OK. You only live once you deserve better ,happiness and peace within yourself. I'm so proud of you the ways you choose to changed not to be like your mother. God bless and good luck ❤😊.
I don’t know you. And you don’t know me. But I can tell you that you are worth more. Love yourself, and leave him. If he truly loves you, he wouldn’t even have done that. Start the new year of 2025 with a fresh start. Learn to love yourself first. Sounds like you have great support. I wish you the best of luck.
It is best if you leave your husband. Don't let him break your heart again. You deserve so much better than to suffer in pain and stay in your marriage.
Oh sister, just leave him. Your heart will always be in pain for his betrayal. Cut ties with both of them. There is more to Life than living in hell with betrayal. That is so disgusting knowing that they both loved you and yet wronged you. No money is worth all that pain. Leave.
Sell that house and get out of that marriage. Sexual infidelity is grounds for divorce. Marriage can continue but the distrust will always make it broken. If I'm in your shoes, it is goodbye time because that shoe is too dirty and doesn't fit anymore. Sending you prayers for a new beginning.
Me ntxhais aws pab koj tu siab dhau os..tau ib leej niam siab phem lim hiam li ko ces txhob khuv lawm os..cov neeg liam li no yeej tsis hloov nws lub siab phem li os nws only care txog nws tus kheej xwb os. So you need to love and take care of yourself so you stay healthy..
Yog niam kiag nkawv twb si ua lawm ces 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢mob dhaus lawm es ua ib siab tsi yuav lawm ov vim hais ob tug tib neeg uas koj ntseeg tshaj twb tua kok koj lawm ces tsi muaj kev hlub kev ntseeg hlo hli lawm nawb tsua muaj kev mob lawm xwb ov thaum twg koj tsi nyob ces nkawv yeej rov ua lub qub duas xwb ov es tsi txhob yuav lawm zoo duas os thiaj yuav ran koj mob ntxiv lawm os mog me txhais aws tu siab dhaus lis lawm os 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
koj lub neej, koj yog tus txiav txim txhob tseeg leeg twg hais tsam koj ho tu siab rau tom qab. Muab qhov phem thiab qhov zoo los luj seb qhov twg ntau dau ces xaiv qhov ntawv nov yog kev xav xwb.
If you decided to stay with him, here are things to consider: it’s a permanent scar deep inside and brutal relationship outside that you have to overcome. Will you be willing to forgiving him unconditionally.. No matter what.. it will be the hardest thing to trust him again. He intentionally cheated on you with your own mom. A cheater will always be a cheater.. next time, he will hurt you even more.. life is too short so let him go and move on..
This will be a tough decision, but something like this cannot be forgiven. This bad image will always be in your head. Remember, a cheater will always be a cheater.
Kick him to the curb.....sleeping with your mother is not a mistake...it was a conscious decision. Shame on your mother too. I am sooo sorry to hear this happened to you. I wish and pray that you can heal from this. Good luck sister.
Dear sister, forgive them and move on! He is a cancer that will eat you alive. He cannot take back his wrong doing. He did not make a mistake. He made a very bad choice. Obviously he does not love you enough to choose you. You deserve better. Life will be better off without both of them. Remember you also have to make a decision. It would be irresponsible for you to choose him. Know that you are a living example for your kids too. I will be praying for you. May you find peace and healing in this lifetime.
Such a shameful act between your husband and your mother. Your mother is mostly at fault to be around the house dressing inappropriate. Having witnessed the both of them in action that image will forever imprint in your mind til eternity. 😢
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Divorce him. You have more than enough evidence to file for divorce and claim alimony. Regarding your mom, she's not your mom anymore. That's the worst crime she committed against you! If she can do that to you, she can do it to your sisters too! What kind of mother is she? What does that show your children, her grandchildren? Grandma and dad had an affair. How can they face your kids? Move on. You're better without those to back stabbers!!!
Not a mistake! Girl learns to love yourself, plus I bet this is not even the 1st they did this, and more of this is coming till u leave him . They might just end up together too
First, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I send you strength as you navigate the pain of this ultimate betrayal by these two people. Please stay strong for you and your kids at this time. As for what to do with your husband, if I were you, I don't know how I could ever live with a man that betrays me in the most unforgivable way and cheated on me with my mom. I would never be able to forget the hurt and betrayal. If it were me, I would divorce him, sell the house, and split everything in half, and go separate ways. There is no way I could ever reconcile with him. As for your mom, she has no love for you. She is selfish and does not deserve to be in your life anymore. The day she chose to sleep with your husband was the day she was no longer your mom. A mother would never hurt her child the way she hurt you. Be at peace knowing she is a h** and that you don't have to be around someone like her ever again.
Lady... they might do this for long before u catch. This kind of man will do thus to any lady if he has opportunities. N he will not stop.. if u willing to accept what n whoever he do this with in the future..then retake him. He will not stop. It s not a mistake..he did purposely... ...do not re-take him...
Now you know why all your good hmong bf dumped you not because of you but your mom's history. She's a bad influence so not sure why you allowed her in your house? Hope you find the right decision for yourself.
sister! too close for comfort. if ur man could get it on with ur own mom, then he has absolutely no control! let him go. am sorry to hear of ur situation. having an affair with a stranger is sufferage enough...but he did it with ur mom. I am totally grossed out! I think u are too. let him go. suffer now and be done vs welcoming him back and discover later that he continues his charade of cheating or again with your mom.
Kuv blamed koj niam nawb. Vim koj niam yog ib tug neeg uas xav kom ntau tau xwb. So if you have a man in your life, then stay far away from your mother.
Girl if u still young leave him people like that he did one time he is going to do one day in future leave him 4 good u still young good people still waiting for you
Kj niam los xuaj kj tus txiv los liam zoo li no ces muab nrauj kiag xb ..kj niam ces txhob xam tias yog kj niam lm ho kj tus txiv ces ua siab muab tso tseg tus txiv zoo li no ces nws yeej ua tau rau lwm tus thb twb yog kj niam kiag es tseem ua thb ces muab tso mus zoo dua nb
Your right but ur also wrong. Alot of parents these days will accept you no matter what ur parents are like because they don't place the blame on them.
Sister your husband and mom they screwed you over just divorce him and your mom can kiss your ass It's not mistake it do on purpose how could mom do that to you, it mean she doesn't love you and care about your feeling
Tsis yog muaj AFFAIR, yog sib tsoob sib deev, Vim koj niam tsoob txhua tus txiv neej. Koj tus txiv yog ib tug txiv neej xwb. Lady, you know that your mother is this kind of poj laib, you should not let her be close to your husband. For men, it is hard to resist when a woman entices him.
Lao tradtion ..affair is very normal to their society. Lao society .they alway share wife. Once you marry to a laotiiane. You should ready and willing to face the affair with other man too. Both husband and wife they each have their own affair. Those affair include incest relationship too.. you go to Lao land. . You observe and study lao society for couple months you will see it for yourself. Ny recoment is you cannot fight them then you must joint them. Blend into their society then you will be happy. You can ask your inlaw. They are all doing that too.. you can ask your mom, maybe the same incident happen to your parent too... if it was. Then you and your mom walk on the same path..
Sister I be honest with you divorce is the worst thing each couple face. Everyone have their own opinion. Majority will telling you to leave him but their lives are stinks as your and can't even leave their partner. There lots of obstacles you have to face once you are separated. I telling you grass are not green on the other side. Grass green where all the manues remain. Forgiveness is to keep your marriage and moving forward. If u divorce u will either end up with another cheater or worst. Look around you in every race communities. Those who are break up are worst than your husband. Sit down with him n promise to love each other. If u break up not only both of are broken heart. It will impact your kids as well. If you can swallow all this pain through the narrow bottle. I'm sure you will live happily after. Don't hold grudge inorder to have a pure spirit. Whatever path you took. Good luck to you n ur husband.
So sorry, my dear.. it's very depressing. If I were you, I😢 would leave him. God bless you.
Don’t stay, it is going to destroy you, that’s how people get illness and depression is over sadness and heartache!!! Please leave because that is untimate betrayal, it can never be forgiven or forgotten!!
Any betrayal is very disappointing and will never be forgotten but the fact that he had stick his sh*t into no one other than your own birth mom should be a total red flag h*ll no. Comes down to you and how much respect you have for yourself. He wasn't sorry that's why he did it. Good luck and I hope you save the remaining dignity you have for yourself and leave.
Sister you need to let him go. He's no good man/husband. You need to let go of your mom and your husband. You deserved better. Life is too short to hold on to your husband and your mom.
Leave his ass, make sure you get everything. If he make mistake with someone, there is room to work with. But not your Mom. Disown her too. Is more of her fault than him. She is blood. You don’t do that to your daughter. So sad😢😢😢
Muab sij hawm ntev ntev rau koj lub siab es koj mam txiav txim koj thiaj tsis ua tej yam koj tseem ua tsis tau tau, los yog ua yuam kev yam koj tseem khuv xim, tseem tshua..
Tabsis yog rau kuv ces ntshe ntxov lig los kuv yeej yuav ncaim kom tau ib leeg niam thiab ib tug txiv li nkawv os sister aw 💔💔💔🫂 Hlub koj os🫂
Lady, stop fooling yourself. Your husband did not make a mistake, he did it deliberately and with your own mother. That's disgusting and unforgivable
Either way, they will still connect 😅
I would definitely leave him thaum zoo li no ces kev hlub tuag lawm mog nyob ua ke los tsuas muaj kev tu siab kev mob siab lawm xwb let go and find yourself love yourself before you look for someone to love you OK. You only live once you deserve better ,happiness and peace within yourself. I'm so proud of you the ways you choose to changed not to be like your mother. God bless and good luck ❤😊.
I don’t know you. And you don’t know me. But I can tell you that you are worth more. Love yourself, and leave him. If he truly loves you, he wouldn’t even have done that.
Start the new year of 2025 with a fresh start. Learn to love yourself first. Sounds like you have great support. I wish you the best of luck.
A cheater will always a cheater. Better leave than later.
It is best if you leave your husband. Don't let him break your heart again. You deserve so much better than to suffer in pain and stay in your marriage.
Oh sister, just leave him. Your heart will always be in pain for his betrayal. Cut ties with both of them. There is more to Life than living in hell with betrayal. That is so disgusting knowing that they both loved you and yet wronged you. No money is worth all that pain. Leave.
Sell that house and get out of that marriage. Sexual infidelity is grounds for divorce. Marriage can continue but the distrust will always make it broken. If I'm in your shoes, it is goodbye time because that shoe is too dirty and doesn't fit anymore. Sending you prayers for a new beginning.
When your mom is the town hooo ..can’t blame your husband 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ib ces tim koj niam tsis yog neeg tsim txiaj tab sis ob yog tim koj tu txiv thiab
Me ntxhais aws pab koj tu siab dhau os..tau ib leej niam siab phem lim hiam li ko ces txhob khuv lawm os..cov neeg liam li no yeej tsis hloov nws lub siab phem li os nws only care txog nws tus kheej xwb os.
So you need to love and take care of yourself so you stay healthy..
He's out the door. No take back. That image will always be in your head.
You need to leave him so you can heal. Best of luck.
Koj niam xuab thiag thiag li thaug kawg tseem nrov deev kiag tus vauv thiab nas 😮I feel so bad for you guys but txaws li guys are good kids…..❤❤❤
Yog niam kiag nkawv twb si ua lawm ces 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢mob dhaus lawm es ua ib siab tsi yuav lawm ov vim hais ob tug tib neeg uas koj ntseeg tshaj twb tua kok koj lawm ces tsi muaj kev hlub kev ntseeg hlo hli lawm nawb tsua muaj kev mob lawm xwb ov thaum twg koj tsi nyob ces nkawv yeej rov ua lub qub duas xwb ov es tsi txhob yuav lawm zoo duas os thiaj yuav ran koj mob ntxiv lawm os mog me txhais aws tu siab dhaus lis lawm os 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
😂tsis yuav yog ghov zoo lawm
koj lub neej, koj yog tus txiav txim txhob tseeg leeg twg hais tsam koj ho tu siab rau tom qab. Muab qhov phem thiab qhov zoo los luj seb qhov twg ntau dau ces xaiv qhov ntawv nov yog kev xav xwb.
If you decided to stay with him, here are things to consider: it’s a permanent scar deep inside and brutal relationship outside that you have to overcome. Will you be willing to forgiving him unconditionally.. No matter what.. it will be the hardest thing to trust him again. He intentionally cheated on you with your own mom. A cheater will always be a cheater.. next time, he will hurt you even more.. life is too short so let him go and move on..
Txog Kev uas yus tuas txij nkawm ntxeev siab rau yus lawm ces yeej zam txim tsis tau lawm,koj zam txim rau nws zaum no los lwm zaus nws tseem yuav rov qab ua dua , txawm tsis ua nrog koj niam los nws yeej yuav mus au nrog lwm tus li nawb mog ,nws lam dag koj xwb yog nws hlub koj nws yeej tsis deev koj niam li nawb mog !!!
This will be a tough decision, but something like this cannot be forgiven. This bad image will always be in your head.
Remember, a cheater will always be a cheater.
To koj tus txiv ho deev niam tais lo vim nw yog nplog xwb ne, nplog ce yeej coj koj pw nrog kuv poj niam kuv pw nrog koj poj niam no xwb os
Omg 😮your mom is a hose 😂ib leej tsis zoo niam kiag li os very sorry sister 😢
Kav tsij muab niag neeg dev lwj liam ntawd nrauj kiag mus txhob khuv xim tus zoo tseem muaj nyob tos koj nawv.
If I were you I’d let him go..it’s sooo🤮to be near him! You still young you will find someone who will ❤you, faithful to you! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Nyob ntawm kuv tu kheej muab divorce kiag nws ib qhov tais zoo rau yus tu kheej nb niam aw 😅😅😅😅
Kick him to the curb.....sleeping with your mother is not a mistake...it was a conscious decision. Shame on your mother too. I am sooo sorry to hear this happened to you. I wish and pray that you can heal from this. Good luck sister.
Koj yog neeg zoo ces txawm yuav neeg hmong neeg nplog los yeej zoo,cov niag neeg hmong ua pheej ces hais tias koj mus yuav cov niag niam txiv qua yeeb mes nyuam tsuam tsoov mas tsis zoo,tas sib txog kawg lawm cos tub yuav poj niam hmong neej puas tag thiab cov niag tub ntxhais mas tseem qias neeg tsaj thiab 😂😂😂😂😂,pom kiag ntawm kuv qhov muag 😂😂😂😂.
Koj niam yeej 1 txwm ua2 poj laib ces nws yeej tsis xyeej 1 tus txiv neej li os.
Dear sister, forgive them and move on! He is a cancer that will eat you alive. He cannot take back his wrong doing. He did not make a mistake. He made a very bad choice. Obviously he does not love you enough to choose you. You deserve better. Life will be better off without both of them. Remember you also have to make a decision. It would be irresponsible for you to choose him. Know that you are a living example for your kids too. I will be praying for you. May you find peace and healing in this lifetime.
Such a shameful act between your husband and your mother. Your mother is mostly at fault to be around the house dressing inappropriate. Having witnessed the both of them in action that image will forever imprint in your mind til eternity. 😢
😂😂😂😂right at the beginning of the story. Her said her mom is a whore 😊😊😊😊why is everyone comments are like "wow, what the f$@#"
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Divorce him. You have more than enough evidence to file for divorce and claim alimony. Regarding your mom, she's not your mom anymore. That's the worst crime she committed against you! If she can do that to you, she can do it to your sisters too! What kind of mother is she? What does that show your children, her grandchildren? Grandma and dad had an affair. How can they face your kids? Move on. You're better without those to back stabbers!!!
Not a mistake! Girl learns to love yourself, plus I bet this is not even the 1st they did this, and more of this is coming till u leave him . They might just end up together too
First, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I send you strength as you navigate the pain of this ultimate betrayal by these two people. Please stay strong for you and your kids at this time. As for what to do with your husband, if I were you, I don't know how I could ever live with a man that betrays me in the most unforgivable way and cheated on me with my mom. I would never be able to forget the hurt and betrayal. If it were me, I would divorce him, sell the house, and split everything in half, and go separate ways. There is no way I could ever reconcile with him. As for your mom, she has no love for you. She is selfish and does not deserve to be in your life anymore. The day she chose to sleep with your husband was the day she was no longer your mom. A mother would never hurt her child the way she hurt you. Be at peace knowing she is a h** and that you don't have to be around someone like her ever again.
That is the biggest betrayal ever! Love yourself. You can do better than your husband. Block your mother and husband from your life.
Thank you for your support.
You should NOT only leave him but your own mother too! DISGUSTING!
Lady... they might do this for long before u catch. This kind of man will do thus to any lady if he has opportunities. N he will not stop.. if u willing to accept what n whoever he do this with in the future..then retake him. He will not stop. It s not a mistake..he did purposely...
...do not re-take him...
Me ntxhais aw tsis yuav lawm mog
Leave him and give me a chance. Ill love u till the end of time
Now you know why all your good hmong bf dumped you not because of you but your mom's history. She's a bad influence so not sure why you allowed her in your house? Hope you find the right decision for yourself.
SISTER, MLOOG KOJ LUB SIAB XWB NAWV, YOG ZAM TSIS TAU TXIM CES KOJ YUAV LIVE UA IB LUB NEEJ LWJ SIAB
sister! too close for comfort. if ur man could get it on with ur own mom, then he has absolutely no control! let him go. am sorry to hear of ur situation. having an affair with a stranger is sufferage enough...but he did it with ur mom. I am totally grossed out! I think u are too. let him go. suffer now and be done vs welcoming him back and discover later that he continues his charade of cheating or again with your mom.
Kuv blamed koj niam nawb. Vim koj niam yog ib tug neeg uas xav kom ntau tau xwb. So if you have a man in your life, then stay far away from your mother.
Girl if u still young leave him people like that he did one time he is going to do one day in future leave him 4 good u still young good people still waiting for you
im affraid some women
Kj niam los xuaj kj tus txiv los liam zoo li no ces muab nrauj kiag xb ..kj niam ces txhob xam tias yog kj niam lm ho kj tus txiv ces ua siab muab tso tseg tus txiv zoo li no ces nws yeej ua tau rau lwm tus thb twb yog kj niam kiag es tseem ua thb ces muab tso mus zoo dua nb
Do Not marry your husband
Divorced him, he’s nasty
Tus sister pab koj tu siab tiag li os yom niam tsis yog leej twg ua rau koj es niam yog kiag koj leej niam na... yog muab xav rau kev mob siab chim siab ces yeej xav muab koj tus txiv thiab koj niam lawb hlo xwb mas tab sis Koj muab xav rau thaum koj tseem hluas hluas hmoob twb tib koj rau koj niam lawm es ziag no koj mus yuav nplog rov los los ntshe hmoob yuav hais tsis zoo rau koj dua thiab Nyob ntawm koj txiav txim siab xwb
Your right but ur also wrong. Alot of parents these days will accept you no matter what ur parents are like because they don't place the blame on them.
Sister your husband and mom they screwed you over just divorce him and your mom can kiss your ass
It's not mistake it do on purpose how could mom do that to you, it mean she doesn't love you and care about your feeling
It's your decision, but he cheated on you with your mother. how in the world can you trust him again?
Your husband having affair with your mom is never mistaken. U should divorce him....he will do it again. Cheater will always be cheater.
Ntuj awe cas pab koj mob siab ua luaj li os tus me sister aws…koj niam thiab koj tus txiv nkawv mas siab phem tiag2 os
You need to leave him. If you stay it will cause your death of heartaches. Broken heart aches death is worst than physical death. Gurl leave
Your mom is Maum Dev xwb os me Ntxhais aw……
If I were you, I would divorce .
I wouldn’t stay with him
leave your husband
So sorry that this is happening to you. You had a hard upbringing I said just divorce him if he loved you he would have slept with your mom
Yog kuv no kuv tsi yuav os tu txiv dev li ko
Why are you still with your doggy husband? Love yourself and recycled your husband so you can he happy.
Tsis yog muaj AFFAIR, yog sib tsoob sib deev, Vim koj niam tsoob txhua tus txiv neej. Koj tus txiv yog ib tug txiv neej xwb. Lady, you know that your mother is this kind of poj laib, you should not let her be close to your husband. For men, it is hard to resist when a woman entices him.
Lao tradtion ..affair is very normal to their society. Lao society .they alway share wife. Once you marry to a laotiiane. You should ready and willing to face the affair with other man too. Both husband and wife they each have their own affair. Those affair include incest relationship too.. you go to Lao land. . You observe and study lao society for couple months you will see it for yourself. Ny recoment is you cannot fight them then you must joint them. Blend into their society then you will be happy. You can ask your inlaw. They are all doing that too.. you can ask your mom, maybe the same incident happen to your parent too... if it was. Then you and your mom walk on the same path..
Sister I be honest with you divorce is the worst thing each couple face. Everyone have their own opinion. Majority will telling you to leave him but their lives are stinks as your and can't even leave their partner. There lots of obstacles you have to face once you are separated. I telling you grass are not green on the other side. Grass green where all the manues remain. Forgiveness is to keep your marriage and moving forward. If u divorce u will either end up with another cheater or worst. Look around you in every race communities. Those who are break up are worst than your husband. Sit down with him n promise to love each other. If u break up not only both of are broken heart. It will impact your kids as well. If you can swallow all this pain through the narrow bottle. I'm sure you will live happily after. Don't hold grudge inorder to have a pure spirit. Whatever path you took. Good luck to you n ur husband.