BEST FRIEND BETRAYAL CHANGED ME FOREVER 💔 Toxic female friendships
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- Опубліковано 11 жов 2024
- In today's episode of pointless stories with aditi, let's talk about female friendships- how the idea of a female friendship is wonderful but the reality is nothing short of a nightmare when your so called best friend is an insecure person. Sharing a pointless story from my teenage years about a 7-9 year long friendship during the most impressionable years of my life that had a huge impact on how I see girl best friends today.
The lying, manipulation, subtle disses and insults disguised jokes are not worth begging to "sustain" relationship and today we decode why many female friendships fail for all of us, what's the root cause of women pulling each other down and being in a secret competition with each other for no reason at all.
The aim of this video is not to place blames / spread negativity or self victimisation. We're all a product of our own decisions in life, we're all responsible for where we end up.
So let's try to re-evaluate where we're going wrong, what needs to be changed, who we need or don't need in our lives and how reflecting upon societal conditioning can actually help us break a toxic cycle of insecurities being passed on and finally be liberated from this unnecessary baggage. How can women uplift other women? help eo grow together? Let's find out....
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I can totally relate to you.. I'm 19 and I have no female friend because my every female friendship have been very toxic 🙃
More power to you bb🫶❤️
Ye age hi kuch aisi hoti hai, you'll find your person❤ trust me, i did too!
Same with me to be honest 😅
I m 24 only one female friend
Stay strong 💪💗 you are a stranger to me but i know that you are beautiful in and out and you are strong too !! :-)
Female friendships have always betrayed me, to the point that now I do not like being friends with them. I would rather be on my own than have friends who put you down in every walk of life. Thank you Aditi for sharing this. Thank you for normalising this. And thank you for reminding that we as a generation have got to do better with our kids. 💛💛
I can relate to you, girl. That's a harsh reality
" I am not a victim of my situations....I'm a product of my own decisions " ~ Aditi ✨
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Nice vlog
Please tell me Aditi's full name if you know?
@@divyadhurve1383 Aditi Shreshtha
@@divyadhurve1383Aditi Shrestha
@@divyadhurve1383 Aditi Shreshtha
I’m a sensitive person and at times when I sense jealousy it’s hard for me to continue being around them, so I tend to stay away, and that might be the reason why I have no close female friends, though I want to.
Thank you for sharing this ❤️
I actually cried along with your narration because somewhere I felt it was my story or I am just the same as you in nature and personality. I hope this episode goes trending and people like us feel encourage and empowered to face our truths. God bless you
Dear Aditi,
I would like to acknowledge you for being so raw on social media. Just like you saw *OG* creators to develop certain characteristics, I also saw you to cheer up myself and develop certain traits that were needed in my life at that point. All I want to say is A BIG HEARTFUL THANK YOU FOR JUST EXISTING IN OUR LIVES. You probably don't know but you touched my heart today.
I want you to keep growing and glowing and live a life like the main character.
Sending you warm hug,
Love, love
"wow, she's achieving so much!!" and "wow SHE is achieving so much?!" the difference is thin, but very important to gauge relationships
I hope those girls watch this video and understand how it affected you. I had a similar experience with my best friend from school so i totally understand what you went through. No matter how old we get, these bruises on our heart will always be there!
For total 4 years I had no friends felt alone but i learned how to be by myself . Today I have amazing friends who know my worth.
Hearing your story from school days is sending me back to when I used to go to school after taking few days off because of falling sick or any other reason and come back to find my then best friend with other new friends, ghosting me and being distant.The anxiety I felt back then at the thought of loosing that friendship and being easily replaced still haunts me, making friends was always hard as an introvert.I was so afraid to take a day off because of this back then even when I was suffering with high fever💀
Thanks for sharing your experience 🫶
Same thing has happened with me too many times even in college days as well
Let's just normalize having no friends at 17 because we never get to feel that secured vibe or Aura. Let's just normalize it. 👍
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Quirky, this video is such an eye opener. I had a flashback of memories which I thought only happened to me.
The second half of the video was amazing where you have given us a different perspective about this angle of friendship.
Lots of power and love to you ❤️❤️
Glad you enjoyed it!🫶❤️
I don’t know but I kind of feel like you are my best friend. This channel is like having a sister a friend with whom we share all the stuffs..and we kind of feel so much connected❤❤❤
Nothing breaks you like being betrayed by a friend you gave your everything to, and Toxic Female friendships really change the way you look at everyone honestly 💔 More power to you Di💛💛💛
Thanks love 🫶
@@ThatQuirkyMissa0
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I’m 30.. nd i have literally no friends right now.. have been through some really bad relationships.. and female friendships also.. they were all very toxic.. i am married now.. i have a daughter 11 months.. all i want her to be confident in her own skin and not to be people pleaser like i was.. this video of yours brought tears in my eyes .. it hit hard .. i am so proud of you.. and your maturity.. m still working on myself.. and i have a daughter also.. i hope we grow together as humans.. love you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
I also have a 12 month daughter and your situation is so relatable with my situation and I also have no female frnd because of their negative vibe .love you dear 🎉❤
Same here
As you age, you find peace in relying on yourself, without worrying about friends or succumbing to peer pressure
Can totally connect with youuu aditi …. Have encountered not only toxic friends like this but also relatives who I used to love so much but they just downgraded me ,insulted me with their taunts and body shaming . Totally agree with you , I’ll never ever let my child to deal with any of it , I’ll make sure he/ she feels confident with his / her choices , body . ❤❤❤ Lots of love
Love you bb🫶❤️
Thank you for sharing your story💛 I have broken friendships due to their toxic behaviors. And I don't want to play the victim card, I have set boundaries for my own mental peace. School friendship has become a constant, as I only have one friend from my class. We stay miles apart and talk once in three months, but we have been the cheerleaders in our ups & downs. But, the flow of our relationship isn't the same. There are certain parts of our lives we don't share with each other. I don't know where this filtration started, but over the years, I realized that certain boundaries are needed to maintain any relationship. That's my view of relationships or friendships in general.
Boundaries are underrated but super essential to SUNSTAIN a HEALTHY relationship ❤❤❤
That " Imperfect Humans are being raised by imperfect humans " thats really true ❤ 💛💛💛💛
sometimes i think main kuch bhi bol deti hu pointless stories me apne dil ki lekin when it connects, and i get to know the feedback via comments like yours❤❤❤ I feel proud about opening up
@@ThatQuirkyMiss definitely 🧿 I am literally dancing seeing your reply to my comment thanks quirky.. I pray that one I will meet you 🙏 #manifest
At this point in my life i have no friends. I was left with one guy friend with whom I decided to spend my life and he’s the only one with me through everything. Always missed the female friendship hype. Still feel sad to not have a genuine female friend
Same here, & at times when my bf and I had any fight, I'm all alone. But that's okay. I can't fake friendships.
💛 You have truly portrayed the toxicity present in female friendships, even I have seen instances where a very close friend of mine had not been in touch when I had an operation done. Later she said about some academic stress which was present in me as well, but it somehow just made me detach myself from her coz physical health is way more important than any other kind of stress. I realised that one accident was so important for me as I was able to see the true faces of my so called "close friends".
Same has happened to me. Can relate with you 100%. I am 25 and I don’t have any friends. And my family is also toxic. But I don’t hate anyone since I’m a people pleaser I still try to make everyone happy and I keep on forgiving everyone no matter what they do to me. My career got affected because of my introverted nature and family. I’m stuck at a point where I don’t know what to do but I’m trying and learning and still not able to hate making everyone smile.
More power to you bb🫶❤️
Hello
It's so comforting to know that there are more girls that suffer from this friendship problem. Fortunately I have a boyfriend who is my comfort place but my heart still looks for a female friend that I can call my sister because female friendships hits different and it's sad that some of us are unlucky in this area.
Itsss same for me also a female friendship never worked but in college i have found a friend who is never jealous of mee and always protects mee 🧿🧿💕💕
Oh wow🫶❤️
Since school time, I've always had broken female friendships but I never learnt my lessons until this year. Lost a friend I was close with for 5 years and it did hurt me to a point that I couldn't put myself to sleep for nights. What hurt more was that the person didn't realise their fault and instead blamed me for something I just didn't do. It's been 9 months and I won't lie, it feels bad because I didn't get the closure that was important and needed, BUT I've come to accept that it is what it is and there's nothing I can do about something that's really not in my control.
can relate, the fact that she would blame stuff on me was peak gaslighting.
💛 Dearest Aditi, she was extremely jealous of you, and such people do exist. My cousin sister was like that too. They betray and backstab us, but we go out of our way to help them and make them happy and comfortable, and they never thank us in return. All they do is plan and plot against us, and lie to us repeatedly. Well, I finally took the bold step of cutting off all contact with her, and I'm not in touch with her anymore. I'm so happy that you've become such a strong and confident person now, and you're truly a beautiful person inside and out, my sweet quirky baby.
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Pointless story with Aditi was not pointless actually, I can totally relate to these stories, I'm so proud of you that you made it till here🐾🥂meri pyari Quirky🌻
Thanks love 🫶❤️
I've heard tonnes of such stories about betrayals by female friends since always. Sounds like I'm one of those rare people who have had queen female friends, who have set friendship bars to such level that none of my male friends could even come close to it. Although I eventually lost contacts with some of them but still never regretted being friends with them at a point of time in life. Not giving up on female friends has finally given me gems and accepting the fact that nothing's permanent, I believe, will keep giving me such gems in future too.
I'm 22 btw.
I had toxic friends not only in School but also in College I was so shy and introverted that time I could not say anything to them Even my relationships were toxic. Now when I am growing spiritually and emotionally I feel the toxicity moving away from me.!
Dealing with betrayal from a girlfriend can be painful and challenging, but it's essential to prioritize your emotional well-being and consider how to address the situation constructively. This might involve open communication, setting boundaries, seeking support from friends or a therapist, and ultimately deciding whether the relationship is worth repairing or letting go, so kudos to you for you firstly acknowledging this and sharing this on such a public forum and then moving on. It takes a lot of courage!
The only thing good in getting older was getting rid of friendship drama. At this point I am at peace with myself and others. I like being at home and enjoy my own company. Now I have very few friends but they are very close friends ❤❤❤ peace and mental stability is above everything.
Hahaha true 🫶❤️
How are you
Soooooo true 😶😶😶😶
I well connected with this!! My friends acussed , harrassesed and trolled me for standing against a guy u bad touched me only because he was their family friends!! Akai stand lena alag hota hai paar the stuff they did to my i had to go on therapy!! I use to think maybe i am the problem but after this video its evident u r not the only victim!! People are crying for this so called friendships in every corner of world!! I would love to hear more of aditi didis stories!! Idw i am feeling empowered and taken a back of!!!!
This all sounded so childish ofcourse it is a childhood story...but even so i felt like this was so so common and something so many of us gone through...and this is how you learn...nothing special unfortunately
More power to you, ADITI ❤❤
Friendship betrayals and teenage traumas are real! Most of us have been there. A group of 15 people bullied me so badly when I was going through a mental health issue in 10th standard. Surprisingly, it was the same group that gifted me 15 presents on my 15th birthday! I guess life throws challenges at us to make us better. It made me stronger, and I can see that it made you stronger too! ❤❤🌸🌸✨✨
I can totally relate to this 💯 never had any best friend who's not jeolous.... but you just have to focus on your growth and ignore all this toxic friendships and negative people in life👍🏻
Love you bb🫶❤️
Its so relatable... I thought its with me only , all my so called female friends either bullied me or used me at some point of time... By end of it i felt cheated / used ... Still somewhere felt love for my friends....i was stupid
But i know i am responsible for being mistreated by others...
I am so sorry you had to go through such a toxic friendship and am glad you are over it and made new friends 💛
Thank you 🤗🫶
Major connect! Lost 2 female bestfriends from junior and degree college.
It’s been painful till date but had to take this decision to completely detach myself from them.
More power to you bb🫶❤️
How are you all
How are you all
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Omg aditi i was searching to hear this from someone that yes not every friend you meet is your bestfriend i have met girls in my life who have betrayed me in freindships not just even once I loved when I heared this and learnt a lot thanks for bringing this on UA-cam even female friends judge you
Hearing from you brings a peace
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Totally relatable 😢 i m 25 and no female friendships jab bhi maine try kra efforts lgaye hamesha kbhi vo efforts samne vale se milna chhodo log situation ko hi itna toxic bana dete hai ki pucho hi mt
Menee bhi bahut effort lgaee bt meri frnds ne mujhe except krne ke bjaee mujhe taunt marte the 😢soo humiliation
@@lifeisgoodalways3723 koi ni we deserve better always
I was in your situation but i love that you know who wants in your life and i am happy with your success with not having any ego all the best for your future ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i could hard relate the moment when you said that you groomed yourself from watching youtube because for me its you. when i started watching you, i was in school, 2016-17 ig now im in 2nd year of my job !
Thanks for sticking my side bb🫶❤️
I had no best friend till my college life but I had few "girl friends" but I never flet comfortable around them so I moved on. Then in 2019 I found a friend in my office who is my Bestest friend now. So you should not be disappointed for not having a good or best friend because some day you will connect with someone and you will realise that yes she is the one now and will be forever ♾️💛💛💛💛💛
So proud and happy for you to have broken fake social norms. Exposing the toxicity about your life and teaching the new generation to distinguish the difference between fake and real. Bless you
This video pointlessstory is so on point. It has my heart seriously. I am so full of mixed emotions in my head. You actually reminded me of my school and college life coz i was exactly the same shy and introvert person to such an extreme that i never confronted anybody and rsther i just went into depression without even knowing about it ki depression hota kya hai but childhood mein you dont realise all this all you know is the people you love are hurting you and they are not sorry about it. Such friendship is so toxic and they are there with is jab tak unka fayda ho raha hota hai. They bully you and make fun of you rven when u pass by. I could relate so much so much and abhi bhi kuch incidents huye whoch i actually confronted coz now we are mature and a bit of extrovert to talk about it and tell thst we are hurt. I am happy to have no friend in my life. Naam k liye hai friends but somewhere in your heart you miss having a friend in your life who is transparent and equally loves you. Very few are blessed and i literally crave for it.
You know we all love you! Our love can outshadow any negativity in your life❤️
I know that❤ it's only because of you guys that I'm still standing strong and have the courage to speak up about anything without the fear of judgement or negativity. Thank you for empowering me 💟
I was in 9th grade and the new kid in the school, the person who was the monitor was kinda dominating, pretty, and a known face among teachers & school, followed by folks around because of her personality. Ngl I was pulled by the same, she was studious in studies, had good intellect, witty & wholesome in a manner one would call. Initially, I wasn't on good terms with her, she use to mess with me. Gradually i became friends with her, she trusted me with almost everything of her life, she shared what all was not even meant to be, we had goals of travelling together, outfits in mind and all the daydreaming, hhahha nostalgic! Everything was going smoothly & then I choose to cheat her out of nowhere, i lied for a shit & to cover up i made up things and it became a vicious cycle. I kept lying and playing around for almost 2 years. She did what I said, she trusted me & I betrayed her, deliberately i would say, i knew the consequences tbh I never cared back then. I believe spending time with my own self made me realize i did wrong, so i confessed, she said she knew it all, it's just that she never spoke about it. I was bamboozled. Whatever i did must've bothered her studies, and affected her mental health but she never spewed it on me. I miss her, I lost a loving, possessive friend and true well-wisher. I remember her grooming me, what a piece of shit i am, what i've done. I've never made friends since that day, i looked for her to forgive, she said it's okay & that has nothing but left a void in my heart. I now can't trust folks as i consider that what if karma will hit me, what if somebody betrays me or something worse, well that doesn't scare me but how pathetic of a person i was haunts me. Looking back at times i feel i wish i had somebody to tell me that this has to stop but i was being cheered by people around. Honestly, this isn't my parenting, it just builts with seeing some shit around. I now have grown a lot, and have become a better person & i look for what I've lost. I am sorry to each one who had to face a toxic friendship as mine, We're sorry for being a challenge in your life, Sorry that you had to bear all this shit because we existed. I am not bad a person it's the time when you don't realize or even if you do you enjoy it. There are no bad people, they just don't realize their goodness.
Thank you, Aditi. You've taught so much, I am who i am today is because of you.I have become a better person because of you, i am improving curbing all the bad shit i had in me. I am vulnerable but i choose to speak up for whatever i have done,. I did wrong and i accept & choose to never repeat it.
I had a bestfriend for like 14 years....she did so much horrible things to me, used me for her sake,insulted me....and at that time i didn't knew what being hurt by someone you love meant.....i never thought i will find any good friends but i did....just trust me guys just be you,do good,be kind and that is what will attract good people....and i am proud to say i have gotten my life time buddies whom i can rely on❤️
i'm so sorry for what you went through, relationships can be so damn hard❤
@@ThatQuirkyMiss Thank you for these types of videos Aditi didi....would love to hear you talk more...Love and prayers for you ❤️
@@ThatQuirkyMissI'm waiting please contact me
I have seen both kind of female friendships, who tries to take advantage and the kind of friendship who is there for you at any moment. I'm lucky to have great female friendships for 10+ years. It's such a blessing to have them. I pray you also get a good female friend.
Oh my god Aditi I'm literally going through all of this right now!! I just had a major friendship break up it does hurt like hell and truly there are signs and I have been seeing it from past 1 year and now when I saw a MAJOR SIGN and then I took that back step and still hurt likes HELLLL I'm literally dying inside but as of now I know it's better to be alone than to be with these people 💛
True bb🫶❤️
Some human beings are so toxic and the worst thing is that they don't even do anything about it😢
This is soo relatable...I faced this in school life then in clg and even in further studies.
I have been with friends who bully me but I still changed my section to be with them in school life. I have been with a friend who always lies about things going on in college and I am the one who is not hiding things and just helping her out . As a child it was really tough for me I spend my so much time thinking about these things only, feeling lonely. But lucky I found some people in my life who are just one call away 💛.
Great 👍 and love you🫶
💛💛💛💛💛 the last 10minutes got me like ….whole enlightened. Also one Take home msg for me would be .. ‘I am not a victim of my situations..but I am a product of my decisions’ owning up to everything makes everything worthy 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
Your conclusion is well taken, I also feel the same that we have faced as kids, we won’t let that happen with our kids.
Thanks bb🫶❤️
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It was sooooo relatable... And the thing you said about sustaining friendships!! I too think about that and blame myself... But then I take myself out of it reminding myself about the boundaries, red flags, toxicity, etc. I can't fake in any relationship and though it may cause certain relationships to break, I will not change being my authentic self or lower my expectations about the same from my friends.. ❤❤
Omg!!!! As a fellow Leo, I could always relate to you… But, this video is really something else Aditi.. from the beginning to the end, I could relate to each word you spoke. You have been an amazing person then and now you’re extremely amazing and loved by so many girls like me.. it was like, I was listening to my own childhood story.. the betrayals I’ve had and the jealousy.. wish I could have been there for you by then.. I already love you so so so much and this just made the love even more stronger ❤ you’ve become more stronger and wiser Aditi.. you’ve been an genuine friend ❤ for your good heart you will reach more heights.. I love you so much.. I wish we could meet and I wish we were close friends.. thanks for this wonderful video!! You’re kind, strong, hardworking and what not. I can keep going.. love you ❤
Female friendships are soo precious to me ❤️ I remember when my parents left me to my school on first day of my school I was crying soo muchh!! Like iske bad mumy papa dikhenge nhi yhi life h SCHOOL. So, a girl who was sitting beside me consoled me we were 5! “Koi bat nhi” “abhi activity hogi phir hume parents ke ps jane denge” those lines comforted me and made me feel relaxed. That was the first incident of my life when I sensed what female friendships is all about. Why do we share so much we need someone of our age our gender who is not a family to hear us and say sab thik h asa hi hota hai. Yes competition jealousy as we grow the things we are competitive about changes “having the best dolls” “who hosts the party best” “who wears best dress/outfit” “who hangs out with best people” “who is doing good in their life” it is there. But I don’t feel it is negative anymore. Success failure it does not matter ye sb jo bade hone k bad ki things ye side me rkh kr agr that person is still there to listen to talk to you thoda din me time nikal kr . The comfort after that conversation you have with female friends ❤❤. Some friendships which you force yourself to stay in will have expiry date but the natural relationship connection ap jaise logo apko mile that is gem ❤️ see Aditi, you also somewhere chose to be her friends because you were having perks of not getting out of your comfort zone and getting things done and she as her nature did it without asking why I should do that. The day you feel betrayed you sensed ab wo perks nhi mil rhe as she did something opposite to what you told her to do. I am not telling you that you are wrong she is right but both are wrong and right at the same time. Moving on is the key to these experiences rather than analysing it. Trust me i’ve gone through these kind of situations,friendships turmoil but overanalysing past stop us to live and build genuine trust or natural connection with people.. lots of love to you ❤ true essence of female friendships are felt with the comforting words and presence ❤️ And I sense it everytime things like that happens . To anyone who is a helper, listener and smiles with your female friends and supports without them knowing you’re doing that . Thank you ❤️
I guess in this generation true female friendship is very rare but toxic friendship has become very normal thing these days 💔
True 🫶
So true
I can relate to your story so well Aditi. It feels like you spoke what I wanted to say for a very long time.
This video is so apt n true and relatable. I have been a very sensitive person since my childhood. I always ended up giving more than required in my friendships and as a result I was the one suffering the guilt and pain always . Now I have learned my lesson n I’m very happy alone even with just one friend . I’m 33 now it took me literally so many years to learn that female friends can pretend so much much and we believe them to be our well wishers and then comes the REALITY
This is the exact reason why I never made any friends in my life...
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💛 yeah….right. Even I had some friends who were like that exactly and I am glad I am not friends with them anymore.
good for you❤❤❤
💛loved it i could relate..I was a people pleaser once but not anymore
Thanks 🫶❤️
I have faced such a betrayal but that’s how life is it needs to move on , we knew each other since kindergarten imagine 😢
I wish your betrayal bestie sees this video & see what a gem she lost 🥺🥺 But keep going you are very brave to puke this out for your audience to inspire us too ❤❤❤
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People who replace you were never there for you. They just wanted to use you.
entering my 20's with NO friends, I only have my boyfriend who is my best friend, boyfriend, supporter the one who understands me, cares for me and is always there for me at my worst and cheers me and at my best to congratulate me, I have accepted the fact that keeping the small circle is the best thing in my Life. Ive closed the doors for Frienships.
then HE is ENOUGH ♥️
Indeed He is 💜
I have been hurt by two of my female friends who meant so much to me and at the end, they blamed me for everything like I was the worst person 😅 it felt so bad that I no longer have tight bonds with friends anymore, I don’t share my feelings, choices, opinions with anyone. I just try to be all by myself most of the times & I guess that’s more comforting❤
i can relate to this conversation 100%, specially in the girls hostel when i was in class 9 i legit got betrayed by my girlfriends....literally this is horrible thing that any girl can go through!!!!! girls friendship are toxic
More power to you to you love🫶❤️
Aditi ❤I feel you bro I went through same betrayal strategies by my so called BF I was was heart broken and I am still crying 😭 while listening to you like it’s my own story
Girl best friends are rare but those who have them are really lucky 😊
True bb🫶❤️
Mere pas h 15 sal se❤❤ 2 Dil mere
Coming from a person who was so shy in her childhood, your speaking skills kept me hooked till the end 💛
I do not how to express it but everything you said is so relatable to mine situation...they just keep on blaming us judging us and pointing out mistakes though there are absolutely no mistakes from my side and always there is friendship out of convienenece...and so much more... I hope I get out of this friendship asap.... Hope I will take stand and speak what I feel and stop being too nice and say no when I want to say no... I wish I just cum out of dis baseless mean and one sided friendship
Aditi ❤ you're very strong and always an inspiration ❤️ stay blessed
Thanks love🫶❤️
You don’t even know i much i relate with your point less stories that not that point less tbh. Please please please continue this series more often. Lots of love 💕
This really helps in clearing my mind to some extent...Thankyou Aditi for sharing...More power to us💛💛
Means the world ❤ thankyou!!
My nature is also like yours. And I too have been cheated many times by female best friends.I forgive them very easily. but after watching your video I got a reality check again. Thank you dear ❣️
#PointlessStoriesWithAditi will always be my favourite series from your channel Quirky✨
Even i faced toxicity from such female friendships but i learnt to focus on my self and grow in life 🫶🏻🤍
Thankyou for bringing this episode today:)
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Oh man! This is so true… trust me i never ever commented on youtube, but this video impelled me to.. I always reconsidered myself after every such incident.. that is it just me? This video made me realise, there’s a whole world outside there feeling the same thing throughout their lives… Thanks for opening up!
Sad and i think every girl faced this kind of situation😢 but its life and we all are grownup now its a better change
Love you 🫶❤️
I felt like you are just explaining me and my past 🥹❤️all the scenes were sliding through my mind as you were sharing your story😩
I can totally relate with this... I m 27 and i have 0 female friends 😅
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i felt that hit of self-realisation listening to you, Aditi! thank you so much for that and please do more such very much 'pointful' pointless stories💛💛✨✨
I went through this with my cousin who was more like a friend…….she betrayed like anything it’s been 5 years I am still not over that
More power to you bb🫶❤️
Hi babe! I have a great idea for you. I’m sure you must have thought of it yourself. So ‘pointless stories with Aditi’ is such a classic, you have been podcasting before it even existed! So, if you convert ‘pointless stories with Aditi’ into a proper podcast, call other creators or people we know thru u, touch up on sensitive topics & experiences from their lives and in general, it would be AWESOME ❤❤❤❤❤ would love to see you talking more!
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Wanted to share a small story with you but not having enough courage to put it here...Hope you are doing great after all the hardships you have faced in your life... ❤️
Lots of love to you quirky!!
You can share any time bb🫶❤️
I feel like I’m the only one who goes out and above for my people but with time I’ve realised I’m not that special to people, they just like to hang out with me because I’m sort of cool but other than that there’s no one with me , if I’m going through with anything I don’t really have anyone to go and talk to
Adult life is tough and it gets quite lonely
My dms are always open whether you're cool or uncool❤❤❤❤
I'm lucky that my best friend is not jealous .. we both are proud on each other
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@@ghzxzxxx come on reality hi bol rhi hai quirky if you don't wanna listen then just go rather than being negative
@@ghzxzxxxindeed, I m sure Aditi herself would be the one who would be the most jealous of all of them
@@ghzxzxxx the whole point is of being nice and positive why be unnecessarily negative to someone who is saying nothing to you this world already have so much hate why to add one babes 😉😉
This needs more views!! Such an amazing video
Every word felt so relatable!!
Thanks love 🫶❤️
When bestfriends replace you that breaks your heart more than a breakup 💔💔💔
💛 I just needed this pointless story as I'm turn 20 this year so that I'm able to recognize the fact that you have to move on in your life at a certain point of time to grow and achieve goals 💛 Thank you Quirky for your warmth full of video for your squad love you lots❤
You know what I love about you... You value ur friends so much that even if she was toxic to u (G) then also in this I feel ur eyes were little teary... I also have had many toxic female friends but the way you understand their perspective also... I love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just know one thing- hurt people are the ones who hurt other people. If anyone hurts me, i try to find empathy in my heart for them. people aren't in their senses when they are hurting themselves and project their turmoil on people close to them. We all have issues, we all have our childhood baggage, and we all have an opportunity to be kind!!!
I tried my best to stay with her but i had to let go❤
@@ThatQuirkyMiss you are correct 💯
How did you create those lips please give us a tutorial on that..its looking amazing
It is 26th January...Off ...I am at home.. I was thinking same things ..old teenage memories...toxic cousins ..toxic neighborhoods ... U can avoid frndships but can't avoid cousins and toxic neighborhoods...UR VLOG CAME ON THE SAME DAY ..RIGHT DAY ..RIGHT TIME...UR VLOG IS MEDICIN FOR ME...SPECIALLY TODAY, WHEN I M SAD BECAZ OF TOXIC PEOPLE
Thanks bb and more power to you ❤️🫶
I total relate uh..mere kuch relatives v mere kuch achieve krne se jalte h or mujhe nicha dikhate h
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Female friendships are sometimes even more complicated than a toxic relationship
I hope we all find a true friend in our life💗✨
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Maintaining friendship in 90s and 2000s when your father has a transferrable job....my father has transferrable job and it was tough for me Maintaining friendship and at new places i feel left out....
you really are the strongest person and you never fails to inspire us ❤❤❤
Thanks love 🫶❤️
People can be so cruel.. I have had similar shitty experiences - even when I was a kid, like 6-8Y old.. I am sometimes confused how to behave with them when they cross my path either in person or virtually..