She was cheating and was rubbing it in his face, her behavior towards him wasn't of someone who wanted to save a marriage. She is only wanting to save the marriage after he filed for divorce because she realized no one else would want her.
Is it me or did the whole "coincidentally bumping into ex and bringing him to dinner" point just up and vanished? Both as a source of potential infidelity to the consequences of her instability?
My guess is she has been cheating for a while. she probably was cheating with her ex. She purposefully didn't do housework well so her husband would do everything while she slept with clients and her ex. Even if not the way she treats him is enough. No partner should demean their spouse constantly
Yeah she's been cheating with her ex and when OP left she would have called the ex to see if he wanted to commit, he wouldn't so she tried to crawl back to her plan B.
I call BS on her 'act'. Whole narration shows how manipulative she is. She just learned a new 'facade'. This only lasts until she gets her way (split custody or other). Get ready for BS to restart shortly afterwards. And to those who say she changed: (Scorpion and the frog fable): "I can't help myself. It's in my nature"
All the people trying to convince Op to give his ex another chance should have been at the dinner, where Op's wife was belittling him in front of her ex-boyfriend. People who don't know the full story should mind their own business.
Got to admit being pleasantly surprised. As well as horrified. The lopsided chores and daily life were horrible, but to invite her ex over for dinner and insult her husband in her ex’s favor… why didn’t she just spit in his face while she was at it? But it seems that the end of her marriage and facing possible loss of custody knocked the stupid out of her.
Her ex. and male family members, are STAH hubby's? Nothing wrong with it but very unusual for so many in one group. She had no respect for her husband, brought home her ex to insult hubby, and earned her divorce.
These lame stories of weak-minded men that are so unrealistic are getting old. They all run away and cry. I don't know any man who would act like that.
@@nehcrum Many of these channels either use low-budget A.I. apps for writing and reading stories or they steal them from sites such as Literotica, storiesonline, smashwords, etc. without the permission or even crediting the amateur authors who wrote them. So far to date I have had 6 of my stories stolen from those websites and used on YT channels without my permission or credit. They are being passed off as someone else's "Real Life" despite the fact I wrote them as pure fiction LOL.
Various studies show that the divorce rate nearly doubles if the woman out earns the husband by more than $5,000 a year. Women will never respect stay-at-home fathers.
Stories like this is why I couldn't be a stay at home husband. She didn't respect him at all to the point she felt comfortable ROUTINELY tearing this man down and playing in his face. It makes me wonder if she objected to him getting a job initially because it kept him below her to stay unemployed.
Anyone else notice this was obviously written from a woman's perspective and then rewritten to be form a man's perspective? Especially at 13:50 when "Tessa" suddenly became "Tom"?
Stay at home dads are FOOLS. A woman that asks for her partner to stay at home can't be trusted. At least SOME (very few) men are actively supporting their stay at home wife, probably out of habits, pride, and if she's really lucky, out of unconditionnal love.
This is obviously a gender-flipped copy of an earlier story - not because of the reversal of traditional roles, but because it specifically refers to OP's wife as misogynistic (woman-hating)
Simp behaviour through and through. Even if u decided to co parent your child you shouldn't be kind to your ex-wife. It feels like he might soften and forgive her in the future. Just because she has now become an actual mother doesn't overwrite her previous behaviour towards her own child and MC. you should always be spectical of her... Be cold to her, don't even smile in front of her. And find a new girl for yourself as quick as possible... Make her realise her fault, let her repent in agony and guilt.
As an outsider, it's OP's choice to stay or leave. If you think about it, in the end, OP have to understand the situation and have make choice. OP's divorce proposal was a wake up call for his (ex)wife and need to step up. Some people may change and some may not. It allowed people sacrifice their pride and willing to make a difference for a better future. Second chance is hard at times due to trust. Ultimatum is usually a answer to make people realize the situation and solve it. It also settled both parent's dogma to find a solution even it may affect their children's life. In the end, people have to move on.
It sounds to me like your friends are her friends more and you should just tell them to shut the f up, that this isn't their business and that they get no say in what you do with your life.
@@tonkatruck5858 it's OP's choice if he decides to take responsibility for child and how OP raise his child but it doesn't affect us. Sure we understand their situation. We the audience just listen and intrigue about their situation but in the end we just commit it (give encouragement and advice but other hand, criticize OP like he's a doormat or a simp). We just worry about ourselves like nothing ever happened and some even think as long as it doesn't affect us in any way then we're fine.
@@Stormyang4358 Did you completely forget what you first wrote? "As long as it doesn't affect others." Do you not consider a child "others"? Or more like if something doesn't affect YOU seems to be your position. 2nd comment quote: "We just worry about ourselves like nothing ever happened and some even think as long as it doesn't affect us in any way then we're fine." That's some weak-@ss sh1t right there and you clearly don't see it. "Lah dee dah. Here no evil, see no evil." Just threw up in my mouth. No, I think you just worry about yourself. There's no "We" in it. Even anonymously writing something so cowardly and weak would be unbearable. I've learned more about you from that follow-up response than you could imagine. Your mentality is of limited expectations of yourself compared to others. "As long as it doesn't affect me." 🤪🤮WOW
@tonkatruck5858 first part, others include the child yes but at the same time it's OP's responsibility and understand he have to do or no one is going to care his child. You can't give advice OP how to raise his child but unless he's willing to accept it. For the second part, some people have their own lives to take care of and can't neglect their responsibilities for someone else so you have to be careful about that. For example, it's nice to help other people in time of need but at the same time what happens you can't help your own family now you have family quarrels and disputes that can harm yourself. Another thing is, you keep giving and don't receive anything back, you are going to get frustrated and ruin your expectations because you didn't moderate selfish and selfless. Then the people you really care about (family and friends) confront you about why you are setting them aside for someone else and now you are in a dilemma. You saw my posts, most of the posts are based on opposite perspectives of others, Aristotle's idea of Moderate between selfish and selfless, nature vs nurture, Dogma vs Change, metaphysics, rational vs impression and other studies for certain topics. Most of my posts are to puncture the topic to understand the reasons people post.
this guy is soooo weak like most of guys nowadays. imagine your wife bring on a dinner her ex. idc if hes married, idc if he is dying, idc if hes got kast day of his life. i would throw them both. such a disrespect oh my. but well this weak beta was letting her walk all over him all the time.
Sorry but I have problem with this type of stories, I don't know if it is a cultural thing, but WHY "the friends" are getting involved? Why is he answering them? In my cultural I would be like "UHHH, IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, AND MIND YOUR SH1T OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED!" and those gym people!!!! "I will threat them with reports and sharing my personal number"
It's always amusing when I see the same story on other channels, but the genders are swapped. Some of it slips through... Tom, instead of Tessa, him instead of her and vice versa... This is from another channel: ua-cam.com/video/hv6aLZd4ZYc/v-deo.html
Dear Friends, None of you know all the facts but still feel qualified to offer an opinion. Guess what? You don't! Be advised that anyone, *ANYONE* who attempts to interfere in this matter will be automatically and immediately removed from my life. Best Wishes, OP.
This spineless fool allowed all that mess go too far because cowardly he refused to take control of the situation and used the son as excuse for his omission. He is responsible for most of it and even after the decision for divorce he allows contact with the witch and spends lots of time thinking about what others are thinking. Basically he is a lost case.
She was cheating and was rubbing it in his face, her behavior towards him wasn't of someone who wanted to save a marriage. She is only wanting to save the marriage after he filed for divorce because she realized no one else would want her.
Is it me or did the whole "coincidentally bumping into ex and bringing him to dinner" point just up and vanished? Both as a source of potential infidelity to the consequences of her instability?
Coincidence, sure 😂
My guess is she has been cheating for a while. she probably was cheating with her ex. She purposefully didn't do housework well so her husband would do everything while she slept with clients and her ex. Even if not the way she treats him is enough. No partner should demean their spouse constantly
Yeah she's been cheating with her ex and when OP left she would have called the ex to see if he wanted to commit, he wouldn't so she tried to crawl back to her plan B.
Shame it took a divorce to turn a selfish shrew into a caring mother.
I call BS on her 'act'. Whole narration shows how manipulative she is.
She just learned a new 'facade'. This only lasts until she gets her way (split custody or other). Get ready for BS to restart shortly afterwards.
And to those who say she changed:
(Scorpion and the frog fable): "I can't help myself. It's in my nature"
@@wrddrf2232 yup, this 👆
Hopefully she can at least be a decent mother. As the old saying goes 'even a tiger won't eat it's own cub.'
All the people trying to convince Op to give his ex another chance should have been at the dinner, where Op's wife was belittling him in front of her ex-boyfriend. People who don't know the full story should mind their own business.
Got to admit being pleasantly surprised. As well as horrified. The lopsided chores and daily life were horrible, but to invite her ex over for dinner and insult her husband in her ex’s favor… why didn’t she just spit in his face while she was at it? But it seems that the end of her marriage and facing possible loss of custody knocked the stupid out of her.
Op is simp , my wife would be kicked out with her ex
Disrespectful to invite ex to dinner and mock husband straight fire and brime stone 🤬😡
For the first 10 minutes, I thought this might be a lesbian relationship.
😂
Ikr, I thought the whole story, "Are you sure you're the husband and nor the wife?"
Her ex. and male family members, are STAH hubby's? Nothing wrong with it but very unusual for so many in one group. She had no respect for her husband, brought home her ex to insult hubby, and earned her divorce.
These lame stories of weak-minded men that are so unrealistic are getting old.
They all run away and cry. I don't know any man who would act like that.
I think they took the story from antoher channel and reversed the genders.
@@nehcrum Many of these channels either use low-budget A.I. apps for writing and reading stories or they steal them from sites such as Literotica, storiesonline, smashwords, etc. without the permission or even crediting the amateur authors who wrote them.
So far to date I have had 6 of my stories stolen from those websites and used on YT channels without my permission or credit. They are being passed off as someone else's "Real Life" despite the fact I wrote them as pure fiction LOL.
Various studies show that the divorce rate nearly doubles if the woman out earns the husband by more than $5,000 a year. Women will never respect stay-at-home fathers.
"I, 35 Meters am filing for divorce for my wife Tessa, 28 Feet"
Yeah, the ai is stupid and the channel owner is equally stupid for not proofreading
@@RedHood410Or proof listening.
Stories like this is why I couldn't be a stay at home husband. She didn't respect him at all to the point she felt comfortable ROUTINELY tearing this man down and playing in his face. It makes me wonder if she objected to him getting a job initially because it kept him below her to stay unemployed.
This is a wife's story switched to a mans.
Yup, OP called his wife a misogynist. Gender bending incomplete. Either way, better off without the deadbeat partner.
the consequences of of not establishing the boundaries early and also second guessing your decision is what made her think you were a wimp
She went to college to be a personal trainer? She wants him to be a stay at home dad and they would live off her income ?
You did right. Heck with her disrespect! It would have ended later anyway
There is no way in hell i would let my wife humiliate me like that infront of an ex. She would think twice before even thinking of that bs.
Is it even OP's kid?
Divorce and walk away
Funny how friends choose sides! I never choose sides because I don’t live with either spouse, so ……I don’t know eithers situation!
This must be made up, never heard such modern nonsense in my days.
I think they have reversed the genders.
Basically they're all made up.🤔
"Wait, I humiliated him publicly, and he divorced me? WHY?" A literal FAFO situation.
He's 25 meters, eh? Talk about tall as heck. 😂
Even if it was 2.5 meters, that's still freakn tall.
See, nephilim do exist!😂
Anyone else notice this was obviously written from a woman's perspective and then rewritten to be form a man's perspective? Especially at 13:50 when "Tessa" suddenly became "Tom"?
Stay at home dads are FOOLS. A woman that asks for her partner to stay at home can't be trusted. At least SOME (very few) men are actively supporting their stay at home wife, probably out of habits, pride, and if she's really lucky, out of unconditionnal love.
Nevermind. This story is just genderbent, so yeah, i'm the fool now, just don't stay at home.
@@iwanttocomment8966 Believe it or not there stay at home dads. Some of them don't want to work and let their wife work.
This is a remake. It was a woman at first.
Can you link to the original story?
@@CheetahFoxx I will go back in my history to find it. Give me a day. It is the same thing and outcome it is just it's the man this time.
She would be out of kid life or just life . Her choice
Not the 35 meters again 😂
" ... thirty five metres... "
Now wife becomes Ex-wife.
What kind of weak assed man is this?
This is obviously a gender-flipped copy of an earlier story - not because of the reversal of traditional roles, but because it specifically refers to OP's wife as misogynistic (woman-hating)
To say nothing of "Tom" coming to visit them.
Simp behaviour through and through. Even if u decided to co parent your child you shouldn't be kind to your ex-wife. It feels like he might soften and forgive her in the future. Just because she has now become an actual mother doesn't overwrite her previous behaviour towards her own child and MC. you should always be spectical of her... Be cold to her, don't even smile in front of her. And find a new girl for yourself as quick as possible... Make her realise her fault, let her repent in agony and guilt.
That's... not misogyny.
Remember words are hurtful.
The bot meant Misandry
Am I the aholy?😂
Aholier that thou! 🤣
Sounds just like a story I heard yesterday, but it was thw husband inviting his ex
Why did he say that his wife was misogynistic?
I think this is one of those genderswapped versions of another story.
Got the words mixed up. Probably meant Misandrist
As an outsider, it's OP's choice to stay or leave. If you think about it, in the end, OP have to understand the situation and have make choice.
OP's divorce proposal was a wake up call for his (ex)wife and need to step up. Some people may change and some may not. It allowed people sacrifice their pride and willing to make a difference for a better future. Second chance is hard at times due to trust.
Ultimatum is usually a answer to make people realize the situation and solve it. It also settled both parent's dogma to find a solution even it may affect their children's life. In the end, people have to move on.
I believe this story gender where swap
Haha 0:06 I 35 meters 🤣
Finally grew a set but what a simp!
Only one chance no more, once you screwed up once we are done.
Sorry I can’t listen after “I 35 meters”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It sounds to me like your friends are her friends more and you should just tell them to shut the f up, that this isn't their business and that they get no say in what you do with your life.
I'm just calling bulshit with a total gender swap
This is a story about two chicks, right?...two wives?...
Think they gender swapped some other story
Weak man that was a doormat. He deserves what he is getting since he does not stand up to her.
Dude's a SIMP and paid the price for being weak.
Oh well it's his choice. As long as it doesn't affect others.
@@Stormyang4358 Not correct. Did you miss the part where there's a 4 year old? Zero slack given when you decide to add kids.
@@tonkatruck5858 it's OP's choice if he decides to take responsibility for child and how OP raise his child but it doesn't affect us. Sure we understand their situation. We the audience just listen and intrigue about their situation but in the end we just commit it (give encouragement and advice but other hand, criticize OP like he's a doormat or a simp). We just worry about ourselves like nothing ever happened and some even think as long as it doesn't affect us in any way then we're fine.
@@Stormyang4358 Did you completely forget what you first wrote? "As long as it doesn't affect others." Do you not consider a child "others"? Or more like if something doesn't affect YOU seems to be your position. 2nd comment quote: "We just worry about ourselves like nothing ever happened and some even think as long as it doesn't affect us in any way then we're fine." That's some weak-@ss sh1t right there and you clearly don't see it. "Lah dee dah. Here no evil, see no evil." Just threw up in my mouth. No, I think you just worry about yourself. There's no "We" in it. Even anonymously writing something so cowardly and weak would be unbearable. I've learned more about you from that follow-up response than you could imagine. Your mentality is of limited expectations of yourself compared to others. "As long as it doesn't affect me." 🤪🤮WOW
@tonkatruck5858 first part, others include the child yes but at the same time it's OP's responsibility and understand he have to do or no one is going to care his child. You can't give advice OP how to raise his child but unless he's willing to accept it.
For the second part, some people have their own lives to take care of and can't neglect their responsibilities for someone else so you have to be careful about that. For example, it's nice to help other people in time of need but at the same time what happens you can't help your own family now you have family quarrels and disputes that can harm yourself. Another thing is, you keep giving and don't receive anything back, you are going to get frustrated and ruin your expectations because you didn't moderate selfish and selfless. Then the people you really care about (family and friends) confront you about why you are setting them aside for someone else and now you are in a dilemma.
You saw my posts, most of the posts are based on opposite perspectives of others, Aristotle's idea of Moderate between selfish and selfless, nature vs nurture, Dogma vs Change, metaphysics, rational vs impression and other studies for certain topics. Most of my posts are to puncture the topic to understand the reasons people post.
this guy is soooo weak like most of guys nowadays. imagine your wife bring on a dinner her ex. idc if hes married, idc if he is dying, idc if hes got kast day of his life. i would throw them both. such a disrespect oh my. but well this weak beta was letting her walk all over him all the time.
Gentlemen, is this what we have become?....... shameful
AI generated stories will never make any sense whatsoever.
Sorry but I have problem with this type of stories, I don't know if it is a cultural thing, but WHY "the friends" are getting involved? Why is he answering them? In my cultural I would be like "UHHH, IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, AND MIND YOUR SH1T OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED!" and those gym people!!!! "I will threat them with reports and sharing my personal number"
I, 35 meters 😂
yup this is probably gender swapped at the started of update 2 seem like he forgot to change the name Tom or at least the other one is Gender Swaped.
Ya 35 metres 😂
I…35 meters
Charlie 5 Million
Love the AI reading
I can see why this guy got pigeon holed into this situation. He's a weak man and a pleaser..
It's always amusing when I see the same story on other channels, but the genders are swapped. Some of it slips through... Tom, instead of Tessa, him instead of her and vice versa...
This is from another channel:
ua-cam.com/video/hv6aLZd4ZYc/v-deo.html
Gayest man ever.
OP sounds like a total beta
Dear Friends,
None of you know all the facts but still feel qualified to offer an opinion. Guess what? You don't! Be advised that anyone, *ANYONE* who attempts to interfere in this matter will be automatically and immediately removed from my life.
Best Wishes,
OP.
Written by a woman
Husband is such a wimp like wth
Not everyone has to be stupid like u
This spineless fool allowed all that mess go too far because cowardly he refused to take control of the situation and used the son as excuse for his omission. He is responsible for most of it and even after the decision for divorce he allows contact with the witch and spends lots of time thinking about what others are thinking. Basically he is a lost case.