This honestly sounded like the dynamic I had with my ex. We both did it to each other until he chose to walk away from the relationship. He shared that he felt like he couldn’t be himself and always felt drained after we would hang out but he never expressed that until the end. After the breakup and some self reflection, I realized that I, too, was not myself and always felt drained seeing him because I always felt guarded.
I feel like you are talking about my situation. I figured out that it's a HIS problem. He's called a Fearful Avoidant. He is terrified of vulnerability and tightly controls the communication and everything. I get it, I do. People who are secure when they're dealing with people like this, become Anxious. It's very difficult. He's an Aries . We're both mature adults. Except he's 7. I have learned a lot about myself now but I'm not sure that I can do this soulmate twinflame situation. He created the Tower energy and absolutely blocked everything. I can't even talk to him. Got 2 feet out the door. It's too hard. I accept this gift of self illumination and I am done. Deadline is xmas for him to make contact and step forward. If he does, take it from there. I have asked my guides to step up and help me and him. I am always first now 💗
I resonate with your reading yes exactly as time spent together true colors starts coming out from my ex to his sex addiction, serial dater manipulations physical abuser lies gaslighting love bombing..
You nailed it!! Your gift is strong, girl! Thank you for sharing your magic with us! 💚✨️🙏🫶👏
Wow, you are spot on. Everything you are saying is what has been happening 😢
WHOAAAAAAAA.... that was just eerily spot on. I cut it in the summer but energetically it's still there and still confusing. Thank you.
Excellent reading! Summarises the relationship perfectly
Sounds like there's a lot of people dealing with the Avoidant Attachment style people 🥺
Thanks a 🎉 sounds pretty similar to my situation
This resonates
This honestly sounded like the dynamic I had with my ex. We both did it to each other until he chose to walk away from the relationship. He shared that he felt like he couldn’t be himself and always felt drained after we would hang out but he never expressed that until the end. After the breakup and some self reflection, I realized that I, too, was not myself and always felt drained seeing him because I always felt guarded.
I feel like you are talking about my situation. I figured out that it's a HIS problem. He's called a Fearful Avoidant. He is terrified of vulnerability and tightly controls the communication and everything. I get it, I do. People who are secure when they're dealing with people like this, become Anxious. It's very difficult. He's an Aries . We're both mature adults. Except he's 7. I have learned a lot about myself now but I'm not sure that I can do this soulmate twinflame situation. He created the Tower energy and absolutely blocked everything. I can't even talk to him.
Got 2 feet out the door.
It's too hard.
I accept this gift of self illumination and I am done. Deadline is xmas for him to make contact and step forward.
If he does, take it from there. I have asked my guides to step up and help me and him.
I am always first now 💗
I resonate with your reading yes exactly as time spent together true colors starts coming out from my ex to his sex addiction, serial dater manipulations physical abuser lies gaslighting love bombing..
He did everything but he doesn't communicate