Thailand Broke Up My Relationship
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- Опубліковано 26 бер 2022
- Today I talk about how the lure of Thailand ended up being a big factor in breaking up my relationship back home. I had a nice girlfriend and a ready-made family, but Thailand was in the middle of it all. Life's choices can be tough sometimes, love and partnerships can break and new chapters begin.
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Good for you, doing what makes you happiest.
My late hubby and I always wanted to travel abroad. We wanted to teach overseas, we were both teachers. Our luck never let that happen, but it was in the back of our minds the entire time. When he passed after 30 years of marriage, and after a year of grieving, I realized I could still travel overseas on my own. My entire life changed once I decide d to move to Thailand. The minute I stepped off the plane in Chiang Mai, I found a new love: Thailand!
Wow! that was great to read your story Beverly. Thanks for sharing that 🙏❤
Appreciate your openness with such a personal story Wayne.
It's good to tell my story Paul. Thanks.
“If I still have led in my pencil ✏️ “ is one of the best lines I’ve heard
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That was awesome, Wayne! I mean that you shared. I'm now 55, and I've been a wanderer for much of my life as well. I also tried to "settle down" in the US, but it just didn't work for me. I mean, I could have stayed there and just drifted along probably, but life is short. So I started my wandering again. Now, I am hoping that my new home will be Thailand. I really didn't want to come back after my recent trip!
I would hope that it is never too late to find someone who's right, wherever you may be. I believe that everything happens for a reason. It's not nice to hurt anyone, but I think if it had been me, I would have become resentful in your situation. Better that you are happy, wherever you are. I'm working at it!
Keep up the videos. I've really enjoyed them, and they've been rather helpful with getting the Chiang Mai 'vibe'.
Thank you Stefan, great to hear some of you're story too. I'm a happier person now, but it was a tough situation to be in. Thanks for liking the the vlogs mate.
Life’s short do what makes you happy Wayne
Cheers Jonny.
This is a quite sentimental story. I was hooked until the end. I hope you get over the sadness caused by that soon. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you! 👍
Wayne: I deeply admire your openness and self-awareness. I always stress with my daughter that life goals should follow these priorities in this order:
1. Your health
2. Your happiness
3. Do some good in the world
4. Don’t do bad things others
Whatever hits the best balance of these priorities is where we all need to be. Your self-awareness is a good foundation. Always enjoy and value your videos. Thanks.
Planning on moving my family to CM in January so, your videos are soooo helpful. Cheers.
Thanks Keith, i agree with all you mentioned above mate. Hit the nail on the head. Good luck on the move in January and hope to see you around 👍
Thank you for your telling/sharing this story Wayne. Your a great fella! Greetz from Samui
Thanks Hansie man! Hope you're well buddy.
Thanks for sharing your story Wayne. Dont beat yourself up about following your dreams. It must have been a very hard decision for you. Take it easy man.
Thanks buddy. It was tough at the time mate but it all worked out for the best. I'm alot happier now. Take it easy man.
Realest vid so far 👏 like Drake said Wayne: “The girl or the world, someone’s gotta lose. I thought I could have it all, do I really gotta choose? What good is all this cash, if it doesn’t buy time? And what good is being famous, if I’m never on your mind”
Thanks Justin mate. I'm not a huge drake fan, but great lyrics :)
Thanks for opening up brother much love from Florida ❤️❤️
Nice one Antonio dude 👌
Nice one Wayne, your vlogs are getting better and better, seems like Thailand is your destiny mate, keep safe x
Cheers Lee, great having on the channel for the journey pal.
Going through the job ordeal now not liking any task. Blessings as I have been single for 8 years and happy as well. Thank you for sharing mate.
I was away with the fairys in my job, i was in a trance everyday. Good that your happy though mate (minus the job) Thanks.
Thank you for sharing your story. You followed your heart, and sometimes that's hard to do.
Thanks buddy 👍
I have driven past the park numerous occasions on my way from Mae Rim into Chiang Mai and never thought of stopping to break the journey up, will do this on next visit. Cheers
It's the best park in Chiang Mai IMO Ken. It's always empty as well. Thanks.
Lovely honest story of part of your life Wayne, yeah it is hard breaking up and saying goodbye,but it looks like you eventually got happy mate luv yer channel pal your doing a great job
Thanks Robert, great having you on the channel to mate. 👍
Thanks for letting us into your thoughts,your life, Wayne...Do what's best for yourself..Live a Happy life mate, life's short :)
Thanks Alex 👍
Thank you for your honesty being real is the best policy cheers for the video
Nice one Joel, i try to keep it as real as i can mate.
At the end of the day Wayne, you have to be true to yourself, just a shame that someone else might get hurt as part of that, and I've been in the same situation myself in the past and I'm probably better on my own than with someone else as well. Best wishes to you.
Thanks Tanya 👍
Good one Wayne! Ya can’t make others happy if you’re not! Ya done good buddy, ya done good 👍
Thanks David. 💪
Thank you for sharing your story, Wayne. Very courageous of you. As a Thai who left his country at 14 in 1980 it moves me to think that it had that much effect on you. I’m sorry you had to choose between the two. Wow, I hope Thailand does you justice for choosing her ☺️! Always enjoy your frank and real openness in your videos. Keep up the good work mate.
Thanks Jim, great to read you're comment. I'm happy now, and everyone that was around me seems happier too, so it all worked out for the best.
Good on you Wayne ! You were honest all around & made the decision to live your life !
Thanks Mike.
Hi Wayne. Just found your channel. Love what your doing. Love thailand. Currently living in Somerset, so i can relate. Be safe. I'm taking it eze.
Hey Nick, welcome to the channel mate. Thanks for watching. Hope life is ok back in Somerset. Take it easy man.
These occasional personal stories are alway interesting. Nice one Wayne. At least you and the old girlfriend shared a good chunk of time together. The call of Thailand could not be denied mate. Take it easy man. 👍🙏
Nice one Simon. When Thailand calls, it's hard to turn down mate.
New subscriber Wayne after watching this video. Admire your honesty and can relate to every word. I knew the very first moment I touched down in Thailand 30ish years ago that it was where I wanted to end up but got involved in different relationships and , like yourself, couldn’t settle long term as the lure kept making me want to return but I wasn’t brave enough to take the plunge
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I’m 58 now and finally moving over in July. You, have years on me and many more to truly enjoy in this wonderful country. Don’t plan and think ahead too much, what will be will be. You’ve already made the hardest decision. Look forward to your continuing story.
Hi Keef, thanks for subscribing and liking the channel mate, nice to have you onboard. Great to read your story. It was a hard decision, but i made the right decision. Thanks.
Hey Keef, You're just 58 and could easliy live another twenty or more years. Just eat right & excercise for fitness reasons and your life can still be great. Best of luck to you.
Thanks for sharing. I'm caught between staying in a nice flat in a nice area and being in a long distance relationship with a lovely woman and moving to Thailand to do the whole digital nomad thing. I've decided to go for 3 months after the summer is over in the UK to see if being in Thailand long term is really for me.
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I was in that same position mate. I think what you're doing is spot on, do the 3 months first before going all in. You will know after them 3 months. Good luck mate.
Hello Wayne thank you for your candid video in life you have to follow your heart and gut feelings follow your dreams experienced many things in my life myself its not selfishness but you do have to think of yourself first life is to short. I know this is off topic but I love travel and after being diagnosed with breast cancer and having a mastectomy early last year you do not know what is around the corner not that I want to be personal with my own story basically life is here to enjoy and go down that path live life to its fullness. The decision you made even though when you are in a relationship makes it hard but your dream was Thailand. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for sharing this comment Sue, firstly, i hope you are recovering and healthy now. You are so right, you never know what's around the corner. I want to do the things i want now. Thanks again for this comment Sue ❤❤❤
Good onya Wayne for following your gut decision to find happiness. I'm sure some khun suay Thai is just waiting to ride with you & Lucille. Have fun finding the one mate🙏🤞
Cheers Randy :)
Great honest video mate - very open and honest of you 🙏👍🏻😎 Take care man (oh, great singing 😎)
Thanks Simo! Can't beat a bit of Elvis mate 👍
Love the story telling.
Thanks Martin 👌
thanks Wayne for the transparency,.. can definitely identify
Thanks Ron. Good luck buddy.
Nice topic Wayne.Life can be so destructive.Its so horrible.
Thanks Pat.
Great, honest & truthful post mate. 1 Life. Live it.
Thanks Darryn, hope all is well buddy.
btw, where about in CM did you record.. I am visiting tomorrow and that looks like a good place to walk around
@@darryncx This is Rama Lanna Park, north of the city. It's the biggest park here and always empty.
Thanks for keeping it real Wayne!
Cheers Owen 👌
Always look after number 1 Wayne and do what makes you happy
Thanks Jesse.
Hi wayne its good you realized,what you really wont to do.its so important to be happy.
Yes, i'm more happy now Julie, and as you mentioned, that's all that matters at the end of the day. Thanks.
You are right thailand does suck you in it is amazing take care mate look forward to the next blog.
It sure does David. Thanks for the support on the channel mate.
What a great park ,thanks to you it will be busy now. Lol. I feel you Wayne and appreciate you opening up. I picture you with a nice Thai lady living the good life . Take Care
It's a great park mate, the biggest in Chiang Mai. Thanks buddy.
Well done Wayne I was expecting a vlog like this from you. It allows us to know you a little bit better. You are a straight shooter. Better off in Thailand than on the bleak moors of your homeland.
Thanks Edward ! I was having nightmares about being back home when i first got here 🤣. I'm happier here, for sure.
Thanks for the honesty
Thank you
There's an old saying Wayne "To thine own self be true" if you are unhappy where you are it will show and ultimately make everyone round you unhappy. Keep up the good work. Alan and Lillian in OZ
I like that saying Alan. That's so true, i was just making everyone else unhappy. Thanks.
You know deep down where you need to be Wayne. You can only follow your instinct. Good luck to you mate. Alan.
Cheers Alan mate.
You can just tell, this dude is 100% genuine. 👊
Thanks Suburban!! I'm not perfect mate but my aim has always to be genuine. So thanks for them words buddy.
Love a story time wayne
Thanks Julie, i like doing these.
Do what makes you happy Wayne. That's always the most important thing. 👍
Thanks mate 👍
I was wondering if you were going to sing that Elvis sing, and you did, lol. I had the same feelings for Thailand for many years and did some long stints, it really does become almost an obsession for many of us & we just have to get back no matter what.
I’m aiming for a 2 month stay in July, can’t wait !! Even after a couple dozen trips over 25 years I’m still always excited when I arrive in Bkk airport and hear the lady voice saying ‘end of the walkway’ when I hit that moving walkway on my way to customs. It’s the little things, I then know I’ve arrived & can totally expect the unexpected which is the magic of Thailand 🇹🇭
🤣🤣 I love my Elvis mate. I've always got a Elvis song on somewhere. That feeling of touching down in BKK , nothing like it mate. Hope you can get over for July :)
Great vlog champ - wanderer I like that !! Good luck you'll be ok brother
Cheers Michael. 👍
Good vlog Wayne. It worked out for the best mate. Better this way than regrets later = grumpy old farang.
Thanks Don. That's right mate, this it the cards life dealt me and i'm ok with that :)
Mate, you did the right thing. And kudos for giving the relationship a good crack and not listening to the people who questioned your decision and instead followed your instincts. The pressure to conform and follow the status quo is HUGE. Some thoughts -
1. When you are torn between two life choices, best to try one and see how it makes you feel. You did the right thing giving the relationship a go. At least now you won't be second guessing yourself.
2. Don't be hard on yourself for 'throwing away' a great women. Sure you loved her, but if that love wasn't big enough to keep you there then she wasn't the right woman for you. End of story.
3. We have choices in life and choosing one path means we lose having the experience of all the paths we didn't choose. We can't do them all, so having made a choice, jump in 100% and don't look back wondering if it's the right one. It's the one you made. Believe in yourself enough to trust that you know what you really want.
4. Taking the more challenging path instead of the easy safe road ALWAYS leads to growth and better outcomes. Harder now, but at some point in the future you'll look back and go 'thank fuck I decided to go back to Thailand!'
Enjoy Thailand!
Thanks David, it was great to read this comment. Thanks man.
Great chat,,
Thailand casts a spell on us.
It sure does David. Thanks.
"You can take Jack the lad out of Thailand...you cannot take Thailand out of Jack the lad"....thanks for Vlog Wayne, your singing is improving mate. Cheers Steve
🤣🤣 Cheers Steve. My singing ability goes up when it's Elvis mate 🤣
Best quote ever!!!
Stunning video. Lots of honest open gold nuggets of wisdom and perspective in there I hope will find the right person watching now. It's all about love - love means different things to different people. We love Thailand as if it were another partner... the partner that always understands us and makes us most happy... if we desire and pursue another PERSON, society is more understanding, and even see it as an act of passion worthy of Shakespearian admiration. However, when we desire a country (lifestyle), people are too quick to judge it as hollow and selfish. Thus, whether it's a person, oneself, a hobby, or a country, after a 'shaky' past 2 years and ever shakier future, we must all now pursue our true love.
You had a horrible decision to make, but you did the right thing, mate.
That was great reading you're comment mate. Thanks buddy.
Thanks for sharing. 40"s is young. I was in my 60's when I first got hooked in Chiang Mai. Miss my Papaya Salad (puk,puk) with one pik (chili). Enjoy!!
Cheers Aaron. Yep, i still got some time left in the tank yet mate. Mmmmm Papaya Salad.
How many guys wish they did what you did when u did?! Instead of beining in their 70s rockin around pattaya 😂😋
I hear you on that one Rob. I'm lucky to be doing this in my 40s.
You chose wisely, it's always a tough choice between head and heart. Being an independent wanderer/explorer/free spirit does come at a little cost, but if it's you, you are best off following your instinct. Took me a long time to realise that.
Thanks Joe 👌
THAILAND IS A OK WAYNE...GLAD UR HAPPY!
Thanks Charles 👍
Hi Wayne. Love your channel, love your honesty and all that. I'm down here in Devon watching you get sunburned. I'm not sure Thailand is for me. For a holiday for sure, but living there perhaps not. One thing I think you would be advised to think about going forward is when you come back to England, which you will probably do at some date. Your pension. Your national insurance contributions. You're gonna be well behind on that. Time shoots by and at some point, you're gonna need to sort yourself out as you get older. Take it from me, I'm 60 things start to wear out. Think about your pension, your retirement. You don't want to be working your socks off into your dotage.
Thanks for liking my channel mate, great to have you apart of my journey. I still pay my UK taxes from here , so that won't be to much of a problem. I would be earning more if I was home and putting more coin in the bank for retirement, so I agree with that. but I want to live now and do these things when I'm relitievly young.
Thanks again for liking the channel. Say hello to good old Devon for me ☺️
I hope long term you're okay. I couldn't last more than 6 weeks in Thailand. Tried it three times. Went nuts every time, and worse every time. Not having something specific to do, not being really part of a wider community, the feeling that I was warehoused, and this was an open prison...I couldn't take it, and I fear that the position I ended in quickly is just the position more would end in, given more time. Aristotle said Man is a zoon politikon - a sociopolitical animal. It's a very strange thing being a man of leisure in an inexpensive country. I'm not sure many of us are cut out for it.
Nearly 5 years so far and I haven't had them problems Craig. I was feeling that way in The UK though. I guess everyone's different. After my first 6 Weeks here, I was chomping at the bit for more. That feeling is still strong after many years. Maybe one day it will change though. Thanks mate.
I kind of crashed also. And the girls. But next time I will find things to do. And flying around the country is fun and cheap.
So sorry to hear that you had nothing to do. Where did you land, may I ask?
I was in Chiang Mai, and jumped into live theater, having never set foot on a stage since childhood. Auditioned for a part in English-speaking theater and got it, first try. Then so damned busy with rehearsals for months, but made a ton of friends. Also learned how to do acrylic painting, got into photography, walking around Chiang Mai every morning, snapping photos and shooting video for a few hours after breakfast. There are so many expat groups also in CM.
I learned that when you are 'retired' you have to act like you are playing hooky from school, like a child on holiday, away from the watchful eye of your parents! Get up early and dare yourself to try new things!
I think the key is to have things to do, and not be a "man of leisure" in the sense of being totally idle. Creative endeavors are a good thing in this context. I plan to go for a long-term stint later this year, and one of my main activities is going to be writing and producing music. Screenwriting will be another. Cooking will be yet another...
I think with the world so much smaller due to the internet that will be less and less of a problem for most. I could spend a year just trying to learn to speak Thai. Traveling all over the country. Meeting Thais and expats, working on setting up an online business. And living in an inexpensive but fairly modern country with very good infrastructure would enable all that.
It’s really interesting to hear you open up like this. My last relationship was over 2 years ago but it was only for a few months, as we started dating I realised my mind was always on Thailand, I was learning Thai, watching GMMTV and listening to Thai music, part of me was always in Chiang Mai. I split up with him for a few reasons but one was the realisation my heart is in Thailand and I can’t be with someone who doesn’t share this. I would never tell my friends this as they would think I am nuts. I am open to dating someone but I’d be very surprised if I can meet someone in the UK that feels right. But that aside…to be honest I also like my freedom and honestly after the honeymoon period is out the way, so far I have preferred being single. Honestly 🤷♀️
Thanks for sharing this Rebecca, it sounds very similar to my situation. We just have to do what feels right. That's how i think now, best to be single if no one can fit into what you want to do. Thanks Rebecca.
Honesty! Good luck to you....🇹🇭🐘🙏🇭🇲B
@Rebecca and @Wayne
If you do believe in past lives (if you don’t it s fine) your yearning to come back and live in Thailand, not other countries in the world is because your past life memories of “my happy place”. 🙏💖
Your story touches my. But living your life is what we must People can t do. My wife and i are thinking of making the moove to live our dream life. Thx for the story
Thanks Alain, i hope you and the wife get to live your dream soon.
You can freeze your "led" indefinitely. 😂
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If you do believe in past lives (if you don’t it s fine) your yearning to come back and live in Thailand, not other countries in the world is because your past life memories of “sanctuary”. 🙏💖
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Every man has a story here Wayne, I split from my wife not my choice but now it's the best thing that could of happened to me I got here in January and I live here now it's crazy how fast things have moved on I have a fantastic girl now who I knew 18months ago we just met on tinder while I was in the uk I wasn't sure that I wanted a relationship but it can be lonely out here at times so we agreed to meet up and it's been fantastic ever since so anything is possible in this life so go live it but stay grounded and don't lose focus💙🙏🏼
Nice one Stuart, great to hear your story mate. Glad your happy and enjoying Thai life.
I feel in love with Thailand myself. I understand your feelings exactly. However after 5 years... dealing with unpleasant immigration...I understood that Thailand didn't love me back. I'm still abroad...but in a country that wants me here. 😆
I hear you mate. It can be a ballache dealing with everything here.
There's a special select few of us that are destined by our Almighty Father to take a path less traveled. We will see what our future beholds! Nice one, Wayne! 👍
Nice one Jason. 🙏🙏
I know what ya mean mate.. had that with HK for yrs.. then it changed so much I fell out of love with the place.. found Vietnam and now I feel about VN the same... tbh I will probably feel the same about Thailand when I eventually get there.. once a place gets in your soul its in and it will likely never leave... and why I have left Thailand for last... VN just isnt a viable place to live anymore... but Thailand is very much becoming more welcoming and looking a better option! Can't wait to get there later this yr and see if it really delivers... so far it ticks more boxes of what I am looking for in a place to live!! CAN NEVER GO WRONG WHEN YA FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!
Nice one Mark, you know that feeling mate. I really like Vietnam also, i could see myself staying there but i've not been for long enough to see if i would stay longterm. I hope Thailand delivers for you mate. Thanks mate.
@@WalkAboutWayne much better visa options and lovely people and food so I think I will be fine lol Beers or coffee on me when I eventually visit Chiang Mai
She had TWO kids that aint yours. U did the right thing for sure mate
I'm more happier now Tommy. Thanks mate.
Can relate to your story, it’s hard in the west do you stay alone, have an LDR & visit her 1 or 2 times per year? Or take a chance & make the move to LOS, it’s a tough decision & some times you need to take a risk either way, stay or go?
It's very tough Billy, i was caught in that trap of not knowing what to do. I'm more happy now and i'm not hurting people , so life is good. Thanks mate.
Hey old man. Good job. But I stuck myself in C.M. with not a good attitude. So much to do and see. And I repeat that flying around the country is cheap and fun. I have a feeling the girls will flock to Wayne.
Hey Robert, i agree it's best to move around. One place can get boring. I get boring days here just like anywhere. The girls always make it better mate.
Wayne...Take my bar girl back to Isan. Her dad is dying again.
Thailand broke up my relationship too! Not in entirely the same way as yours but I know if my ex and I hadn't moved there it probably wouldn't have happened. Don't get me wrong Thailand is one of the best things that ever happened to me and I regard it as my second home, visiting whenever possible. You did what you had to do to find happiness and thats what counts.
Thanks for sharing this Shirley, it sounds like I'm not the only one that had these problems. I would have liked both lives but Thailand would have always been on my mind. Thanks.
@@WalkAboutWayne its on my mind most of the time. Just waiting for Thailand to open fully as I have booked with free cancellation for A month in July! Here's hoping!!
I think we are designed to be with someone - however relationships are not for everyone 🤔 - Ive had some great long relationships but , I’m not good at it - 5 yrs on my own now - and mentally I’m in a Good space - I’ve been looking after my mum for the last few yrs , it’s a mental challenge to try and set some goals , travel etc. , as well as look after my mum , I think if you can understand being on your own is a balance of being alone and being in solitude , I hate winters in Melbourne lol - thanks mate 👊😎👌🙏👍
Thanks Ant, always great reading your comments mate. 👍
Hi Wayne .How are you Doing ?
I'm all good thanks mate. I will be back soon.
You did the right thing. I wanna do the same. But I don't know how.
It's tough mate, just follow your heart. Thanks buddy.
"What's love, but a second hand emotion" Some chick from the 80's
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coffee lack of coffee Thai coffee
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Don't you miss your fish fingers and chips 🤣 Wayne in my opinion u had a lucky escape check being a red pill man
Cheers Brendan. I do miss some English food sometimes mate. Not a lot but a nice greasy Fish & Chips would be nice.
@@WalkAboutWayne could easily set up a fish and chip shop haven't seen one in Thailand a proper one
That's too bad, Wayne. Even love can't overcome you and your ex-partner wanting different things, a different future. (FYI, I can't believe you're in your 40's! I thought you were 30's.)
That's right Becky, when 2 people want different things, it's best to go seperate ways. How much do i owe you for saying i'm in my 30's 🤣🤣 Thanks.
Old grumpy man. ha.
Think your the typical expat really, I don't mean that in a bad way , as I'm one . A lot of use enjoy our single life and focus on personal reasons that lead us in that direction of tranquility
100% mate, i think we're all pretty similar. Thanks.
Hi Wayne I live in plymouth devon
Nice one Gary, not to far from me mate.
Better than being in the UK stuck in a situation you hate, only live once.
So true mate. 👌
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For?
@@WalkAboutWayne you said “ I’ll leave a link in the description “ I must be honest I can’t remember what it was for
I can't remember either mate 😂. Maybe I forgot to put a link in.
Wayne says Thailand like it is two words: Thai Land.
Really? never heard that one before. I guess it's just my accent.
@@WalkAboutWayne I am surprised no one has brought that up before.
Never buddy. Just sounds like Thailand to me.
You can be a free spirit and still be with a lady too... I know..
That would be the ideal solution 👍
@@WalkAboutWayne That said, can you let her be her too? As a Thai lady [not GF] once said to me as I was leaving from a vacation. "You'll be back, your heart is here" ... I think that is true for you too.. embrace it...
Maybe she would come for a visit.
Bit late for that now buddy .
@@WalkAboutWayne you never know
We broke up buddy, that ship has sailed.
You’ve not got a lady friend out there Wayne ?
Many Lady friends in Thailand Russ mate 😉
Sometimes the right thing is not always the easy thing. Too often we don't make life changes out of fear of the 'what if' and we stay stuck with a life that deep down we know it's not the one we want. Great changes don't happen inside our comfort zones. You followed your heart and it's paid off for you Thank you for sharing as that kind of video can give people stuck in a rut the inspirational nudge to make a positive change.
Thanks Monica. I'm happier now but it was tough.