Ahahhaah omg yes!! But this was extremely helpful. Thank you so much love.❤️ Looking forward to more such intelligent and educational videos about social confidence. ❤️💯💖✨👏
Love love love your tips! As an over thinker in social settings, being intentional on truly actively listening can help a lot in having natural flow in conversation. P.S. where did you get that wave picture in the background? It always catches my eye when I watch your videos 😍
Yes but a robber story is pretty easy to generate dialogue around. I would love to see the same video with a less novel context. Thank you for your videos they are so good!
love this video niu! Not needing to do so much is such a key in interaction with others. Im observing my own response to be people-pleasing in conversations that activate sometimes of emotion reaction within me. Let me know if this is making any sense lol
Thanks Ariel! I think what makes conversations often difficult for me is being on the lookout for the undercurrent mood that might go against the person’s actual words. You had an example of repetition - “Yeah, it does sound like you ate a lot” - but the person might be secretly hoping you’d disagree with them, and simple repetition would only sour the relationship. And then there’s a whole category of people who initiate the conversation explicitly to trap you into complimenting them - “Oh nooo, what’re you talking about, you’re really pretty!” I never know how to escape the latter without being mean or impolite.
Love it, and thank you!! I found you via IG, and I’m glad I get the long version of you on here! Question…. How did you even figure out to even think/question these things…. I’m glad you did because it’s so helpful to me, but I’m just curious…
the agreeable dog has me laughing omg im so embarrassed I didn't realize how awkward that looks to someone else. officially reconditioned to never do this again lollll
Great video! How can we politely decline to discuss politics and what’s the best response if someone says something slightly offensive or racist and you want to be assertive but not mean. Thanks!
How to make it less about me? I am afraid i may be seen narcissistic for always reiterate n repeating their point to match mine. I find it easy this way to reiterate but it's hard to relate everytime it bcs I dont have the similar experiences.
Im really bad at making conversations or keeping it and my problem is i really cant pretend to want to keep talking with ppl and im rarely interested often times so even if i want to talk bettet with ppl i cant because the real me inside dont want to 😢😂 the struggle is real ..i dont want to make effort if im not interested to talk its what i mean 😅
I feel like I can slow down more in my videos so you guys can process better, yeah?? Aka another conversational tip 😂
Ahahhaah omg yes!! But this was extremely helpful.
Thank you so much love.❤️
Looking forward to more such intelligent and educational videos about social confidence. ❤️💯💖✨👏
Love love love your tips! As an over thinker in social settings, being intentional on truly actively listening can help a lot in having natural flow in conversation.
P.S. where did you get that wave picture in the background? It always catches my eye when I watch your videos 😍
I love your videos! You carry yourself so confidently yet gracefully. I need to learn!!
Yes but a robber story is pretty easy to generate dialogue around. I would love to see the same video with a less novel context. Thank you for your videos they are so good!
Love your content! Thanks for all your helpful insights
Thank you! I love your presence and energy ❤
just learned about you today and i so appreciate you! ur speaking my language
love this video niu!
Not needing to do so much is such a key in interaction with others. Im observing my own response to be people-pleasing in conversations that activate sometimes of emotion reaction within me. Let me know if this is making any sense lol
Just followed your podcast on Spotify. I love your content
Glad to have come across this video. Very helpful-now to watch your other videos since you explain everything so well
Niu I really love your contents!! you are giving the most real-life tips, thank you so much
Thanks Ariel! I think what makes conversations often difficult for me is being on the lookout for the undercurrent mood that might go against the person’s actual words. You had an example of repetition - “Yeah, it does sound like you ate a lot” - but the person might be secretly hoping you’d disagree with them, and simple repetition would only sour the relationship. And then there’s a whole category of people who initiate the conversation explicitly to trap you into complimenting them - “Oh nooo, what’re you talking about, you’re really pretty!” I never know how to escape the latter without being mean or impolite.
Love it, and thank you!! I found you via IG, and I’m glad I get the long version of you on here! Question…. How did you even figure out to even think/question these things…. I’m glad you did because it’s so helpful to me, but I’m just curious…
nice one :)
I thought dropping something that relates to their story in my story was really interesting- also the part about looking away consciously!
Try it out and let me know 😊
I love ur content…Kudos. Keep posting 🤗 From Sikkim, India.
Can you make a video about presenting a class or a course and how to conduct it successfully
Omg I neeed this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
the agreeable dog has me laughing omg im so embarrassed I didn't realize how awkward that looks to someone else. officially reconditioned to never do this again lollll
Where do you announce you livestreams ?love your content helps me a lot 🙏🏼
What are you using for your skin?????
amazing tips Ariel!
Great video! How can we politely decline to discuss politics and what’s the best response if someone says something slightly offensive or racist and you want to be assertive but not mean. Thanks!
How to make it less about me? I am afraid i may be seen narcissistic for always reiterate n repeating their point to match mine. I find it easy this way to reiterate but it's hard to relate everytime it bcs I dont have the similar experiences.
Can you do a video on being treated as only a listener and how to also input
thanks! 😊
Conversing
Im really bad at making conversations or keeping it and my problem is i really cant pretend to want to keep talking with ppl and im rarely interested often times so even if i want to talk bettet with ppl i cant because the real me inside dont want to 😢😂 the struggle is real ..i dont want to make effort if im not interested to talk its what i mean 😅
That makes sense. So you don't find yourself interested in conversations most of the time?
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My autistic ass like: write that down write that down
Underrated 💯🤌🏿