Ahahhaah omg yes!! But this was extremely helpful. Thank you so much love.❤️ Looking forward to more such intelligent and educational videos about social confidence. ❤️💯💖✨👏
Yes but a robber story is pretty easy to generate dialogue around. I would love to see the same video with a less novel context. Thank you for your videos they are so good!
Love love love your tips! As an over thinker in social settings, being intentional on truly actively listening can help a lot in having natural flow in conversation. P.S. where did you get that wave picture in the background? It always catches my eye when I watch your videos 😍
Love it, and thank you!! I found you via IG, and I’m glad I get the long version of you on here! Question…. How did you even figure out to even think/question these things…. I’m glad you did because it’s so helpful to me, but I’m just curious…
so helpful! could you make a vid on politely saying to relationships going beyond a conversation? I'm really good at connecting with others, but in the past I've had a hard time discerning how to say no when people ask to make plans. now that I teach in-person yoga, I find that I naturally connect with people but now I'll have students (or other teachers) ask to hang out and I have no intention of doing so. I just like having engaging conversation and connecting when I do see them
love this video niu! Not needing to do so much is such a key in interaction with others. Im observing my own response to be people-pleasing in conversations that activate sometimes of emotion reaction within me. Let me know if this is making any sense lol
Thanks Ariel! I think what makes conversations often difficult for me is being on the lookout for the undercurrent mood that might go against the person’s actual words. You had an example of repetition - “Yeah, it does sound like you ate a lot” - but the person might be secretly hoping you’d disagree with them, and simple repetition would only sour the relationship. And then there’s a whole category of people who initiate the conversation explicitly to trap you into complimenting them - “Oh nooo, what’re you talking about, you’re really pretty!” I never know how to escape the latter without being mean or impolite.
Great video! How can we politely decline to discuss politics and what’s the best response if someone says something slightly offensive or racist and you want to be assertive but not mean. Thanks!
Im really bad at making conversations or keeping it and my problem is i really cant pretend to want to keep talking with ppl and im rarely interested often times so even if i want to talk bettet with ppl i cant because the real me inside dont want to 😢😂 the struggle is real ..i dont want to make effort if im not interested to talk its what i mean 😅
How to make it less about me? I am afraid i may be seen narcissistic for always reiterate n repeating their point to match mine. I find it easy this way to reiterate but it's hard to relate everytime it bcs I dont have the similar experiences.
I feel like I can slow down more in my videos so you guys can process better, yeah?? Aka another conversational tip 😂
Ahahhaah omg yes!! But this was extremely helpful.
Thank you so much love.❤️
Looking forward to more such intelligent and educational videos about social confidence. ❤️💯💖✨👏
Yes but a robber story is pretty easy to generate dialogue around. I would love to see the same video with a less novel context. Thank you for your videos they are so good!
I love your videos! You carry yourself so confidently yet gracefully. I need to learn!!
Love love love your tips! As an over thinker in social settings, being intentional on truly actively listening can help a lot in having natural flow in conversation.
P.S. where did you get that wave picture in the background? It always catches my eye when I watch your videos 😍
Love it, and thank you!! I found you via IG, and I’m glad I get the long version of you on here! Question…. How did you even figure out to even think/question these things…. I’m glad you did because it’s so helpful to me, but I’m just curious…
just learned about you today and i so appreciate you! ur speaking my language
Can you make a video about presenting a class or a course and how to conduct it successfully
Omg I neeed this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
so helpful! could you make a vid on politely saying to relationships going beyond a conversation? I'm really good at connecting with others, but in the past I've had a hard time discerning how to say no when people ask to make plans. now that I teach in-person yoga, I find that I naturally connect with people but now I'll have students (or other teachers) ask to hang out and I have no intention of doing so. I just like having engaging conversation and connecting when I do see them
I got you! I have a professional boundaries scripts series coming soon and the responses I provide there will help you with this
of course you do! can't wait to check it out. thanks queeen@@ArielNiuViews
Thank you! I love your presence and energy ❤
Love your content! Thanks for all your helpful insights
love this video niu!
Not needing to do so much is such a key in interaction with others. Im observing my own response to be people-pleasing in conversations that activate sometimes of emotion reaction within me. Let me know if this is making any sense lol
Thanks Ariel! I think what makes conversations often difficult for me is being on the lookout for the undercurrent mood that might go against the person’s actual words. You had an example of repetition - “Yeah, it does sound like you ate a lot” - but the person might be secretly hoping you’d disagree with them, and simple repetition would only sour the relationship. And then there’s a whole category of people who initiate the conversation explicitly to trap you into complimenting them - “Oh nooo, what’re you talking about, you’re really pretty!” I never know how to escape the latter without being mean or impolite.
Glad to have come across this video. Very helpful-now to watch your other videos since you explain everything so well
I love ur content…Kudos. Keep posting 🤗 From Sikkim, India.
Niu I really love your contents!! you are giving the most real-life tips, thank you so much
Great video! How can we politely decline to discuss politics and what’s the best response if someone says something slightly offensive or racist and you want to be assertive but not mean. Thanks!
Underrated 💯🤌🏿
Just followed your podcast on Spotify. I love your content
nice one :)
I thought dropping something that relates to their story in my story was really interesting- also the part about looking away consciously!
Try it out and let me know 😊
Can you do a video on being treated as only a listener and how to also input
amazing tips Ariel!
thanks! 😊
Im really bad at making conversations or keeping it and my problem is i really cant pretend to want to keep talking with ppl and im rarely interested often times so even if i want to talk bettet with ppl i cant because the real me inside dont want to 😢😂 the struggle is real ..i dont want to make effort if im not interested to talk its what i mean 😅
That makes sense. So you don't find yourself interested in conversations most of the time?
Where do you announce you livestreams ?love your content helps me a lot 🙏🏼
What are you using for your skin?????
Conversing
How to make it less about me? I am afraid i may be seen narcissistic for always reiterate n repeating their point to match mine. I find it easy this way to reiterate but it's hard to relate everytime it bcs I dont have the similar experiences.
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