HELLO FRIENDS!! merry christmas!! hope you enjoy this little journey of me getting my custom black reception dress!! you can check out stephanie at odylyne the ceremony here! instagram.com/odylynetheceremony/ :) i hope y'all are having a wonderful holiday season! xoxo, saf
One perk of the black dress is you could easily wear it out on the town for anniversaries, etc. and not look like you're wearing a wedding dress to dinner.
Wonpoodle plus the "first look" before cerimony. IMHO: a) no force in nature (or not-natural) could actually dent Saf+Ty relations, so... b) for any couple, not sure adding that "jinx" legends help. As Amari Productions said, a "first look" help to vent out some nerves, gave time for the couple alone for photo and just "adjust" before hordes of relatives and friends start to stampede around, and stress and music and crying and on.
You can tell how much Tyler loves that velvet suit 😂 When saf said “I’m not sure about velvet anymore” he looked up straight away and went “for you?” Bless his face filled with relief when she said yes
it would be crazy if tyler wore a black tux while you are wearing the white dress... and when you where the black dress he changes in to a white tux... confuse even some of the guests with the "swapped colors" thing
Ok the thing about Safya is the fact that she wears everything with so much confidence that it looks good on her by defalult. However, this. This looks truely exepional.
One thing that I love about Saf is how positive, optimistic, and chill she is. If stuff doesn’t work out, she just carries on without a sweat and I find that so admirable
The final dress is so gorgeous. When Stephanie pulled out the sheer star fabric, I had the thought that this is THE one too. Can't wait for the last video of this series. I really appreciate that you share with us the whole wedding dress making process
I really love that Stephanie was going above and beyond to help safiya how the dresses she wanted, I feel like it shows that she genuinely cares about the people she's designing for
I like that it’s 100% reasonable to say that you could wear it again at another occasion if you choose to do so. Personally the idea of spending a ton of money on a dress that you can only wear once stresses me out, but the black dress could totally be worn again.
Yeah everytime she flashes her inspo pics and her chic appointment only (I'm working directly with a designer)... All I see is money. And imagining spending that much money makes me feel sick. I can't imagine actually doing it. O.o
Saf is just a huge inspiration to every type of person. Wears what she wants. Flaunts what she has. Isn’t afraid to talk about her insecurities. I just love her and Tyler so much. Also, Tyler looked so damn cute and happy in his suit! Me and my long time boyfriend broke up a little bit ago but Safiya and Tyler give me hope!
@Forks With Thee I think they mean she wears her good features with confidence. Like she wanted the dress to make her figure and butt look good. How is that sickening? I don't think they mean flaunting material wealth bc she didn't do that at all...
you are REALLY channeling your inner morticia with that dress ... i absolutely adore it and you are right: unless a fabric sparks that "it belongs to me" , it's not the right fabric for that dress
can we just talk about how good of a designer Stephanie is? She made exactly what Saf asked, and she looks like she really enjoys the process and making people happy with the clothes she makes
I love how Saf is willing to not follow total stereotypes and wants to do what makes her happy at her wedding day the best day of her life. You go girl
I love your choices! My husband and I got married 16 years ago on Halloween. I wore a black vinyl ball gown for our rehearsal dinner/costume party. For our actual wedding I wore a white organza "princess bride " type gown with floor-length sleeves. We decorated with black magic roses and white pumpkins. People still talk about our wedding; even the older, more conservative members of our families still tell their friends what a beautiful day it was. I hope you and Tyler are as happy as my husband and I are after these years!
I love how Safiya is so comfortable with her goofy and positive personality. You can see how quickly Stephanie starts to open up around her and the camera and kind of match her fun vibes. It's so sweet! Keep up the amazing job Safiya, and I know I'm late in saying this, but CONGRATULATIONS!! Tyler is a great guy.
The dress suits you so much!! I think that some embroidery on the waist area with more light beeds contrasting with the black fabric would really give the dress a final special touch, and it would reassemble stars and constellations even more!
I was just thinking that I wanted to see some sparkle too! I love the stars but you can't have stars in a flat black scheme, especially not with a silhouette as dynamic as hers and in a dress meant for dancing!
Theyre already married and sone though. But i agree the starry nights gorgeous but i love the slight sparkle element that comes with those constellation dresses etc
You know that she’s working with the right designer when she describes how she wants a “celestial” dress, and the designer is LITERALLY wearing a celestial shirt. 😂
@@conn1e Per public records she makes about $1.6 million a year from her UA-cam channel. That is an estimation based on the view count and ads shown. She does spend a lot of money researching and buying her own materials for her channel so probably half of that alone is business expenses. After taxes in California though - it doesn't really come down to a lot. She's very good at what she does and produces/create quality content. I look forward to her new uploads. I'm proud of her for making it.
Rachel L she can write this off as a business expense on taxes because she made a video on it. I love saf, but I can’t stand when beauty gurus make “I spent this much money on makeup” videos because they get to write it all off as a business expense
I got married in a black dress. I really liked it and my husband love it! It was at the courthouse though. 7 years later I still take it out and put it on once in a while and Love it. Why does it have to be "white" why not blue pink red Black?... Get what YOU love! 🖤🥰
That's right. I was married, widowed later, remarried later, and never was a traditional bride. At my first wedding, I was married in a lacey burgundy dress with a satin cummerbund and burgundy hat. For my second wedding, my dress was a custom lavender satin. It was a medieval style dress, with satin ribbon criss crossed down the bodice and white ribbon rosettes. The veil was a matching shade of lavender tulle, attached to a headband with flowers. Both of them were beautiful.
@@lindaway5889 fucking queen shit, that is so iconic and beautiful! Mind if I take inspiration from your dresses? I really want something untraditional!
I don't think I've EVER been so in love with the story of someones wedding and reception dresses. Usually it's all the same. Find something on the rack and go. This is such an amazing story. Thabk you so much Saf and Tyler for sharing your amazing talent and lives with the world.
Vermont Maple I’m sure most people would love to get a custom, personalized wedding dress but can’t afford it. Wedding dresses are already expensive off the rack, can’t imagine how much more expensive it is to get it custom made by a designer.
@@vanessalizeth4266 My Aunt was a professional seamstress. We live in Vermont. Her dresses were anywhere for 400.00 to 2000.00 depending on material. Considering the market price. I don't think that is a huge amount of money. One thing she used to do, take old gowns and retrofit them for the bride. It was some of the most beautiful creations. I miss her so very much.
@@mememadore3174 Your aunt's pricer are much cheaper than custom dresses now/ other areas. Custom dresses would cost a good few thousand these days, especially in LA. You can barely find a rack-dress for less than $2000 these days
Vermont Maple Vermont is very different than LA, and a seamstress is different than a popular designer - which is what Safiya did. However, you do bring up a good point and I do think it would be a good option for some people to look for small, local designers or seamstresses. Still, a bit more expensive than off the rack.
Watching this back after seeing the final wedding video, I now see all the clips that are from the actual wedding. I love that they snuck those in there and none of us knew
@@vee025 no they said they're wedding would be in november sometime in october, if you look at one of safiya's instagram posts (the one after their engagement photos) tyler is wearing a ring
To say, "they are: engaged, betrothed, affianced" makes perfect grammatical sense. To say, "they are married and/or wedded" again, makes perfect sense. "Matrimonied" on the other hand, standing on its own or in context - well, it's not hitting it out of ballpark, that's for sure. It's not making it past the mound ;) Now, "married, wedded, ESPOUSED" not only works, but it is the perfect counterpoint to "affianced".
When you came out for that final dress reveal I couldn’t wipe the huge smile off my face! You looked so radiant and happy! That dress is such a perfect extension of you...the designer is truly incredible at her work💕
It's crazy because when you only see the drawing you think like "alright this is nice" but you don't realize how incredible it will look irl. When Safiya came out of the fitting room my jaw dropped!
Elsa Frost that’s the true talent of a designer or artist of any kind...they bring your vision to life, even when you didn’t quite know what it was you were dreaming of. They take all of the little things you give them and all the little cues when they talk to you, bring them together and create magic like Saf’s perfect dress. I am so excited to see how her ceremony dress turned out too❤️
Idk if anyone else noticed, but it seemed like the designer coordinated her own outfits to match Saf’s theme while they shopped and had their consultation!
I realize this video came out 3 years ago, but I wanted to say that this video has become my safe space. Don’t ask me why, but whenever I’m anxious or sick or struggling to sleep, I come to this video. Something about the familiarity, your soothing voice, and the interesting content instantly calms me down. So thank you for this amazing video that fixes all for me
@@kaminaridenki2056 fr dont pressure her to share her life on the internet, i bet shell be happier she did if she doesnt feel an obligation not to "upset" her fans
Actually tons of goth people are super positive! I feel like Saf is the perfect example of what goths are like 😂 we were just moodier and withdrawn in high school, haha
Travel The World Remember that the dancing dress needs to be a bit less impressive than her gown 😉 If it shines too much she might end up liking that one more than her actual gown hahaha!
The dress is really like an old timey widow grieving her recently deceased wealthy husband who died in mysterious circumstances. Like a modern mystery movie set in the Victorian era, and frankly I love it.
Rewatching 2 years later and felt that I needed to say this as I just rewatched your first tattoo video - your next tattoo should be a star from this dress like the one you pointed out at 21:54. Maybe even a blend of it and a scallop detail from your ceremony dress. 🖤🤍
Not to be naive, I know she's an entertainer but Saf seems like such a happy person! I relate so much to her style and humour. Just unapologetically herself and seeing no reason to not chase all her desires and goals. So inspirational and I wish to reach that level of confident happiness one day 😄 Also, I wish best of luck on the wedding day. These big events are stressful but remember to put love and self fulfillment into it most of all above entertaining audience & family or having a cliche "perfect wedding"
@@angelsinthewindow we aint all happy 100% of the time, but that doesnt detract from the moments where we are, and she likes to share those moments on camera
@@Crosshill Oh I know. I know that all to well myself, but she doesn't put on a act. She does spill the tea at times when she isn't happy about something and she has already talked about how nervous she is about different aspects of her life happening, especially the wedding. But its not like she is forcing herself to be happy for us, I think she is generally happy to be in front of the camera and making videos even if its difficult to sometimes edit them (I know that well too from school). When I said it wasn't naive, I was talking about the comment thinking it was naive to think of her as a happy person. You can still be a happy person and have your down times too.
I really, really love this. Not only this black dress but the entire process for the whole ceremony. I always wanted to get married but was never inspired by the ultra “traditional” styles or settings - to the point where I settled on thinking that maybe a wedding just wasn’t for me. But this reminded me that you can still have a gorgeous ceremony with traditional ‘concepts’ but in a way that remains true to yourself. I love your non-traditional approach and I hope that I am lucky enough to have such a beautiful wedding.
Check out Bernadette banner, she made a dress like that. I'll link it, it's part one of two. Actually there's kinda a 3rd because a company ripped off her design ua-cam.com/video/327azBjatjg/v-deo.html
I just wanna say that this woman works so hard on all of her videos and I feel that she genuinely appreciates her subscribers and enjoys her work! But some of the people in these comments are getting a little too cozy and think they’re entitled to decide what goes on in Safiya’s own wedding! If you are one of those people please stop, it is her wedding, you don’t need to make it more stressful for her by trying to make her change the color of her dress! Calm down, and let this hardworking woman wear what she wants at her wedding and stop being so entitled.
honestly everyone is crazy wanting more sparkle & glitter. the satin finish of the stars looks so gorgeous & the dress is SO safiya. this is the perfect dress & it looks beautiful
Coming back to rewatch vids while waiting for new ones has been fun tbh, really love Saf’s content. This vid in particular really got me into sewing and customising my own clothing as a hobby during lockdown. The whole process of trial and error, fabrics, cut/style and final product is so rewarding!!! Also more excitement to wear them out and about 😁
I can’t even begin to tell you how much I SCREAMED when you actually called the stars “Moravian Stars” I’m a Moravian and so many people just don’t understand that they are called that :,) ugh so HAPPY
I know I'm late to the party by a lot but I adore the amount of support and exposure these wedding videos have given to so many wonderful creators and business owners. This entire process was so fun to watch!
Safiya seemed like she definitely had more of a "say sure to the frock " moment in the black one. It looks gorgeous and the designer is so talented Edit: Spelling. This is definitely not to say she didnt love her white one, and we havent seen it finished yet but like i just enjoyed how happy she looked in it.
This is probably too late, but just a suggestion if you enjoyed the train of the black dress for aesthetics, you could have buttons in the back that pin up the train (and it can keep it up swoops that add to the drama of the look) and have it up for the dance and let it fall during drinks and dinner etc. my wedding dress had that detail and I loved it!
Bri Masu my cousin had that same detail and honestly it made the night so much more enjoyable for her. when it was time for fun and dance floor all she had to do was have me help her button the train up. genius, you're right!
When you rewatch this vid, you finally realize that a lot of pictures for the venue ideas and wedding details here were the actual wedding pictures 😂😂😂💘💘💘
anne dla they used those pictures as reference to what they bought. Those are not from the wedding those are from ordering things online or booking stuff. This was filmed and posted way before the actual wedding
I hope so because I'll just move in one day with a bunch of funky clothes & makeup and they'll just be like "so Cousin Mask, did you wanna help us shoot a video where we bake lipstick muffins?" 😂😂💜
This video is so wholesome!! Ty being super supportive and excited, Stephanie being an amazing designer (and you crediting her), Christie being a great supporter and helping you all find what you want for your wedding, fabric shops giving you time and samples and you shouting out their shop as helpful and interesting… I just love this video so much.
HELLO FRIENDS!! merry christmas!! hope you enjoy this little journey of me getting my custom black reception dress!! you can check out stephanie at odylyne the ceremony here! instagram.com/odylynetheceremony/ :) i hope y'all are having a wonderful holiday season! xoxo, saf
Merry xmas
I'm so excited for your wedding!
Safiya Nygaard when it says 37 seconds ago
I am living for this dress!!!!!!
I love you Saf!!!
Merry Christmas
One perk of the black dress is you could easily wear it out on the town for anniversaries, etc. and not look like you're wearing a wedding dress to dinner.
She’d just be slightly extra 🤏
@@gracenicole3392 truuuuu lol
Fantastic idea!
@@gracenicole3392 it’s safiya, she is the definition of extra lol
Second perk: you could be a bat 🦇
They are no longer engaged betrothed affianced
Now they are married wedded matrimonied
Monica Batra Ik
Lol
😂👏
Wifed and husbanded
You gave me a heart attack when I ready the first phrase
@Nin Wongjai lol me
Why no one is talking about how talented the designer is!?
I know, right, she really seemed to know what Safiya wanted
Yeah, they have't given us a Tyler wedding suit episode! Safiya, if you have spare footage put it in!
Right
Seriously those sketches were stunning
Nerd
*Instead of*
*Say sure to the dress*
*I'm down with the gown*
say yes to the dress/say sure to the frock*
@@bigbrainasian
Say yes to the dress Rhymes so I was getting another one that rhymes
😮
copied
😘💝
“yes, i was a theater kid... no one is surprised.” that sums up both of us sis
my reaction to that was "shes one of us"
no i was
same Chelsea same
SATANIC CULTS AND MIND CONTROL REALLY EXIST
Same
Why do I feel like once she’s married her new video opening will be, “I am married. I have tied the knot. Gotten hitched if you will.”
Why did I read that in Saf's voice?
Anushka Sanjeev same lol
Lol omg I love her and yessss!!! Lol that’s her
She is married already tho
@@Lauraschmidt811 she's engaged rn, not yet married
most people: it’s bad luck for the groom to see the dress before the wedding
saf and ty: [literally filming the entire process]
Wonpoodle plus the "first look" before cerimony.
IMHO:
a) no force in nature (or not-natural) could actually dent Saf+Ty relations, so...
b) for any couple, not sure adding that "jinx" legends help. As Amari Productions said, a "first look" help to vent out some nerves, gave time for the couple alone for photo and just "adjust" before hordes of relatives and friends start to stampede around, and stress and music and crying and on.
Ikr?
i'd be so sad if saf/tyler and cris/ben ever broke up. they're goals.
ChocoGamin3 😂😂😂😂
Also known as superstition, also known as fiction. Grow up.
I just have to say: stephanie is incredibly beautiful. Her persona and her physical self.
Hopefully nothing happens to her while in quarantine-
Her name is safiya not Stephanie-
Keeping up with Farida :D Stephanie is the designer
Ik I’m learning how to read auras from videos, and so far, hers is positive
@@farida9021 don’t worry I was confused at first too
You can tell how much Tyler loves that velvet suit 😂
When saf said “I’m not sure about velvet anymore” he looked up straight away and went
“for you?”
Bless his face filled with relief when she said yes
What time?
H e l p M e 12:55 - 13:15
freya 20:05
I know i noticed this too
He was like " ...well I'm not changing"
it would be crazy if tyler wore a black tux while you are wearing the white dress... and when you where the black dress he changes in to a white tux... confuse even some of the guests with the "swapped colors" thing
OMG yes
Yes👏Oua-cam.com/video/kqiwIpYO-Tw/v-deo.html
Yesssssss❤
Everyone like this for Safiya to see
like yin and yang:)
Safiya has grown so much, she is way more comfortable being herself on camera then when she was at buzzfeed.
Roger Smith what?
Dude it's been so long I forgot she was on buzzfeed
@@tylerjones2306 She was on Ladylike before she started her own YT channel
Wait she was on buzzfeed
Lmao the comments on this thread
Ok the thing about Safya is the fact that she wears everything with so much confidence that it looks good on her by defalult. However, this. This looks truely exepional.
One thing that I love about Saf is how positive, optimistic, and chill she is. If stuff doesn’t work out, she just carries on without a sweat and I find that so admirable
Agreed!
Yeah
or edits it out ;p
to be clear, this is not a hate comment and even if it's edited it's rly nice of her to display a positive attitude in videos!
The final dress is so gorgeous. When Stephanie pulled out the sheer star fabric, I had the thought that this is THE one too. Can't wait for the last video of this series. I really appreciate that you share with us the whole wedding dress making process
Sharon Chua right?? Damn I want that to be my wedding dress and I’m not even in a relationship
SAME
She’s just getting one step closer to being a real life Morticia Adams
OMG true
Lolz
They're doing a tango. COME ON. I hope we get to see some of the final choreographed dance.
I was thinking the same thing. It so suits her well.
That is soooo true
I really love that Stephanie was going above and beyond to help safiya how the dresses she wanted, I feel like it shows that she genuinely cares about the people she's designing for
"because.....i like black"
-Safiya's most obvious quote ever
Tess Miller *cough* *cough* Love
Will you say the time stamp plz.
Frrr
beedsj roiue exactly no extra and a god
Chloe Maxwell lol
Safiya turning into some gothic queen with her black dress is everything
Yeah
I like that it’s 100% reasonable to say that you could wear it again at another occasion if you choose to do so. Personally the idea of spending a ton of money on a dress that you can only wear once stresses me out, but the black dress could totally be worn again.
Yeah everytime she flashes her inspo pics and her chic appointment only (I'm working directly with a designer)... All I see is money. And imagining spending that much money makes me feel sick. I can't imagine actually doing it. O.o
Lettuce desk
How much is the dress actually?
They're earning money from the video so it's like they're investing that money if you think about it🤷♀️
@@clueless_cutie she's rich tho
Tyler should have got some custom made wedding gym shorts
yassssss
Yesssss
He should have!!
😂😂
YES
"I was a theater kid"
"Ty and I are planning a choreographed first danced"
"more drama, I like that"
That black dress is stunning. And you could wear it at another black tie event. It's a real stand out.
Saf is just a huge inspiration to every type of person. Wears what she wants. Flaunts what she has. Isn’t afraid to talk about her insecurities. I just love her and Tyler so much. Also, Tyler looked so damn cute and happy in his suit! Me and my long time boyfriend broke up a little bit ago but Safiya and Tyler give me hope!
Completely agree!
I hope you keep that hope, it's so nice to hear positive comments like this :)
Forks With Thee how exactly?
@Forks With Thee it's called accepting and being confident about yourself.😑🙄😑
@Forks With Thee I think they mean she wears her good features with confidence. Like she wanted the dress to make her figure and butt look good. How is that sickening? I don't think they mean flaunting material wealth bc she didn't do that at all...
Finally, another woman who appreciates sleeves in all their glory
Reminds me of Napoleon dynamite “I like your sleeves” “thanks I made them myself”
you are REALLY channeling your inner morticia with that dress ... i absolutely adore it and you are right: unless a fabric sparks that "it belongs to me" , it's not the right fabric for that dress
Definite Morticia vibes witch is not a bad thing. 🤩
I was getting major Morticia vibes too especially the final reveal
I was literally thinking this too!
Chicken cards
totally morticia vibes
Honestly, you should invite Stephanie to your wedding. She seems super fun to be around.
The wedding already happened brah
sanityisrelative no it didn’t ?
@@jocelyna9573 Didn't Saf say that it was going to be in November?
Li Lifanov
I’m guessing next November? Idk
@@lifeisalie5236 She tweeted in October of this year "no we are getting married next month!!"
Talking to the designer:
Saf: “I want a celestial pattern fabric- Idk if that’s possible”
Stephanie (The designer:) *is wearing a star shirt*
I noticed that too! LOL
I saw that too!!
Ains Siglock ua-cam.com/video/1fs5aOhyMIY/v-deo.html. King of dancehall ✅
can we just talk about how good of a designer Stephanie is? She made exactly what Saf asked, and she looks like she really enjoys the process and making people happy with the clothes she makes
I love how Saf is willing to not follow total stereotypes and wants to do what makes her happy at her wedding day the best day of her life.
You go girl
I don’t know if you watch Erin Gilfoy but I read the “You go girl” in TJs voice
Tyler is SAFfianced
This deserves more likes. Like a couple thousands more idk
This is the best comment 😂😂😂
😂
Yes👏👏iua-cam.com/video/kqiwIpYO-Tw/v-deo.html
Thank you for that, I think we all need this comment in our lives
IMAGINE if tyler got a white suit bc saf got a black wedding dress. literal wedding goals.
I thought of that!
Prince marries evil
Yeesss
OMG YESSSSSSSS
Sara Duell I was thinking that.
Lol, remember when Zoom was for convenience and not a requirement?
remember when you could go outside without a mask
Remember when we where excited for 2020?
Remember when we thought 2019 was bad?
Remember when we thought 2020 was the worse and nothing could possibly be worse? Ugh 2021 is rough
@@sidiwvwhi for you it's November 2020 but for my it's july 2021
So refreshing to see a bride be so transparent about her dress purchasing process! And refreshing to see Ty be part of it too!!
Safiya is grown and she can wear whatever she wants, black dresses are fabulous. The black lace is gorgeous on your dress..
I think its vile..and i can think what i want..deal with it.
I think it's a good choice for a reception dress but it's really cool she did a more traditional dress for the ceremony
@@0121-x2j Cool haha, I think that you suck and that it's none of your business...deal with it
0121 dude, don’t shit on people’s happy days. Breathe. She likes it, that’s what matters
0121 u don’t have to criticize just saying you don’t have to comment back
One might say “the stars aligned” when she picked the fabric
*applause*
Yessss
I read this in her voice
Scott Adam wtf
Scott Adam Bit sketchy but alright...
I love how happy Stephanie was when she found the right pattern, like she was so proud and she did so good ❤️
I literally gasped when she pulled out the star fabric it's so stunning.
I just got engaged and I can’t tell you how badly I want “Engaged. Betrothed. AFFIANCED.” merch
It’s a spin off Lion King. Maybe look through some Disney stuff?
Katherine Dean my yes
Congratulations!
Congratulations! 🎉
Yeah, that kind of merch would be so awesome!
congrats!
I love your choices! My husband and I got married 16 years ago on Halloween. I wore a black vinyl ball gown for our rehearsal dinner/costume party. For our actual wedding I wore a white organza "princess bride " type gown with floor-length sleeves. We decorated with black magic roses and white pumpkins. People still talk about our wedding; even the older, more conservative members of our families still tell their friends what a beautiful day it was.
I hope you and Tyler are as happy as my husband and I are after these years!
sounds wonderful ✨🙃
How lovely aw❤️✨
who goes to a wedding on halloween
It sounds magical for sure!
Ali Heppard ua-cam.com/video/bbsywAFSrIs/v-deo.html
I FOUND THE SONG 😭😭🔥
I love how Safiya is so comfortable with her goofy and positive personality. You can see how quickly Stephanie starts to open up around her and the camera and kind of match her fun vibes. It's so sweet! Keep up the amazing job Safiya, and I know I'm late in saying this, but CONGRATULATIONS!! Tyler is a great guy.
Why is no one talking about how cute Tyler looks in his suit
Emma Shubert HES ENGAGED
Edit: I known it was a joke lmao it’s the whole video
Yeah i know he still looks cute tho
@@ishaalk3560 someone can still be cute? A six year old is cute. Does that make me a pedo?
@@ishaalk3560 just because someone is engaged it doesn't mean we can't compliment them anymore. Get your facts right
true
The effort Saf puts into her content is second to none, she has 8+ million subscribers, and only puts ONE ad on a 24 minute video? A living legend
I didn't even have a ad haha
i had 2 😯
just get adblock
The dress suits you so much!! I think that some embroidery on the waist area with more light beeds contrasting with the black fabric would really give the dress a final special touch, and it would reassemble stars and constellations even more!
I was just thinking that I wanted to see some sparkle too! I love the stars but you can't have stars in a flat black scheme, especially not with a silhouette as dynamic as hers and in a dress meant for dancing!
Theyre already married and sone though. But i agree the starry nights gorgeous but i love the slight sparkle element that comes with those constellation dresses etc
I’m just now realizing that Ty and Saf had already gotten married when this video came out... iconic
my original comment was about ads but this dress is gorgeous 🫶
Facts tho
QueenNightGale exactly what’s the point of having 2 ads in a row in the first place 😭😭
@@z.z.s.m3573 moneyyyyyyy
Fr it’s ridiculous
True that
The emphasis of the stars on the fabric is phenomenal, can't say I'm not jealous.
we are all relieved that there is a black dress happening during her wedding
anna - I would’ve been worried she’s sick otherwise.
anna - he have to be
My wedding was like a funeral but way more fun and filled with love in the air...
And smell of blood
Yes
@@heysaucemikehere1804 •
You know that she’s working with the right designer when she describes how she wants a “celestial” dress, and the designer is LITERALLY wearing a celestial shirt. 😂
Okay but why is nobody talking about how nice Tyler looks in his suit ?
My guess is that people are skittish about complimenting another person's groom too much XD
But still, he looks great in it
You are :0
He looked awesome!
It looks gorg on him! Love the velvet/
perhaps were in shock seeing him in a suit lol
“As you guys can probably guess, this-“
“Cost a hell of a lot”
“-took a long time”
“Ohhhh” 😅
It probably did, but she just got 6.7 million views from it and like I don't know how generous UA-cam is but I imagine she's doing okay for money.
@@conn1e Per public records she makes about $1.6 million a year from her UA-cam channel. That is an estimation based on the view count and ads shown. She does spend a lot of money researching and buying her own materials for her channel so probably half of that alone is business expenses. After taxes in California though - it doesn't really come down to a lot.
She's very good at what she does and produces/create quality content. I look forward to her new uploads. I'm proud of her for making it.
Christy looks a lot Ike Chrissy Tiegan ...g
Rachel L she can write this off as a business expense on taxes because she made a video on it. I love saf, but I can’t stand when beauty gurus make “I spent this much money on makeup” videos because they get to write it all off as a business expense
666th
Safiya literally has the best personality ever
Yup
Im a blink too
@@fairypari Sameeee
I got married in a black dress. I really liked it and my husband love it!
It was at the courthouse though. 7 years later I still take it out and put it on once in a while and Love it. Why does it have to be "white" why not blue pink red Black?... Get what YOU love! 🖤🥰
:D
That's right. I was married, widowed later, remarried later, and never was a traditional bride. At my first wedding, I was married in a lacey burgundy dress with a satin cummerbund and burgundy hat. For my second wedding, my dress was a custom lavender satin. It was a medieval style dress, with satin ribbon criss crossed down the bodice and white ribbon rosettes. The veil was a matching shade of lavender tulle, attached to a headband with flowers. Both of them were beautiful.
@@lindaway5889 fucking queen shit, that is so iconic and beautiful!
Mind if I take inspiration from your dresses? I really want something untraditional!
@@River-wc5bx Not at all. Go right ahead. I feel honored that you like my ideas so well!!
I want a royal blue and gold scheme, empress of china style dress, big hair and lots of hair accessories included👀
The designer needs to be famous! She is incredibly talented!!
i guess when she dances at her wedding, she'll be "dancing with the stars"
“We’ll be counting stars”
They got married in November.
Ha ha funny
Kinda. Safiya AND tyler will be dancing with the stars, because theyre dancing with the star decorations, and theyre dancing with eachother
Get out
I don't think I've EVER been so in love with the story of someones wedding and reception dresses. Usually it's all the same. Find something on the rack and go. This is such an amazing story. Thabk you so much Saf and Tyler for sharing your amazing talent and lives with the world.
Vermont Maple I’m sure most people would love to get a custom, personalized wedding dress but can’t afford it. Wedding dresses are already expensive off the rack, can’t imagine how much more expensive it is to get it custom made by a designer.
Vanessa Lizeth Yes, I thought that as well. Their story IS amazing, but most ppl just can‘t afford a custom dress
@@vanessalizeth4266 My Aunt was a professional seamstress. We live in Vermont. Her dresses were anywhere for 400.00 to 2000.00 depending on material. Considering the market price. I don't think that is a huge amount of money. One thing she used to do, take old gowns and retrofit them for the bride. It was some of the most beautiful creations. I miss her so very much.
@@mememadore3174 Your aunt's pricer are much cheaper than custom dresses now/ other areas. Custom dresses would cost a good few thousand these days, especially in LA. You can barely find a rack-dress for less than $2000 these days
Vermont Maple Vermont is very different than LA, and a seamstress is different than a popular designer - which is what Safiya did. However, you do bring up a good point and I do think it would be a good option for some people to look for small, local designers or seamstresses. Still, a bit more expensive than off the rack.
Watching this back after seeing the final wedding video, I now see all the clips that are from the actual wedding. I love that they snuck those in there and none of us knew
She just needs cristine to paint her nails red holo and she’ll look like Morticia from the Adams family
👌👌👌
_tea_._sis_, becoming*
@@nagaytokomaeda8177??
_tea_._sis_, you spelled ‘becoming’ wrong
@@nagaytokomaeda8177 ...i didnt comment becoming u alright😂
Saf just needs to do a “I Dressed Like a Cheetah Girl for a Week”
Kelly Fulton “I dressed Tyler like a Cheetah Girl for a Week”
PandaLady even better 👏🏽👏🏽
We are cheetah cheetah girls (and Tyler ) we stick together for life sometimes we don’t see eye to eye but we roll side by side 🤗
I would die for this
Kelly Fulton ua-cam.com/video/CITU4KH93aU/v-deo.html
anyone else immediately fall in love with dress 3?
just me?
I'm gonna go to my corner now
#3 was my favorite 😊
Lol
I love it but I get why she wouldn’t pick it for the reception
Yeah
@@norafassler5183 agreed
This is just a suggestion but If tyler wore a wine red tux it'll be like full on morticia and gomez vibesss . Just a suggestion u do u Safiya
yes!!!! i love this
they’re already married
Julia Mielcarek are they? i don’t see any wedding photos yet
Kayla Chereice they got married in November
@@vee025 no they said they're wedding would be in november sometime in october, if you look at one of safiya's instagram posts (the one after their engagement photos) tyler is wearing a ring
I think Tyler meant it was “written in the stars”
Nicki Official AIDA
Hai Voai and that is at all relevant how exactly?
Or "shoot for the stars"
love your profile pic!
Judging by your pfp I'm guessing you're passing stars anyway.
Spot on Morticia Addams moment, Gomez would be singing a serenade.
Cara mia!
To say, "they are: engaged, betrothed, affianced" makes perfect grammatical sense. To say, "they are married and/or wedded" again, makes perfect sense. "Matrimonied" on the other hand, standing on its own or in context - well, it's not hitting it out of ballpark, that's for sure. It's not making it past the mound ;) Now, "married, wedded, ESPOUSED" not only works, but it is the perfect counterpoint to "affianced".
I don't think anyone is thinking about grammar lol plus that word doesn't sound finished and would make the sentence feel unfulfilled
@@ddootzles As a sentence ending, "espoused" has the unfortunately similarities to "exhausted" and "exposed".
Um... ok
What?
It kinda sounds incomplete when you say it like that though?
Who else is SUPER exited for their real wedding vid 😁😁😁
You know when is it?
@@ceseba9938 nope, but im exited either way
Moonbain YAAAS
Gacha Cookie Chip Videos
YAAAAAAAAAASS
Mee
When you came out for that final dress reveal I couldn’t wipe the huge smile off my face! You looked so radiant and happy! That dress is such a perfect extension of you...the designer is truly incredible at her work💕
It's crazy because when you only see the drawing you think like "alright this is nice" but you don't realize how incredible it will look irl. When Safiya came out of the fitting room my jaw dropped!
Elsa Frost that’s the true talent of a designer or artist of any kind...they bring your vision to life, even when you didn’t quite know what it was you were dreaming of. They take all of the little things you give them and all the little cues when they talk to you, bring them together and create magic like Saf’s perfect dress. I am so excited to see how her ceremony dress turned out too❤️
Idk if anyone else noticed, but it seemed like the designer coordinated her own outfits to match Saf’s theme while they shopped and had their consultation!
She's awesome.
I think she wore black when shopping to simulate the black backing fabric of the final dress.
Yes😳aua-cam.com/video/Rfdafts8kJk/v-deo.html
During the first facetime call, she wore black print with little stars and moons, mirroring saf's decoration at the wedding venue!
so cute!
I realize this video came out 3 years ago, but I wanted to say that this video has become my safe space. Don’t ask me why, but whenever I’m anxious or sick or struggling to sleep, I come to this video. Something about the familiarity, your soothing voice, and the interesting content instantly calms me down. So thank you for this amazing video that fixes all for me
If we don't get to see the full dance, I will be very upset.
Fashionably Bookish well shes not really obligated to share it with us
@@kaminaridenki2056 Of course she is not but after sharing that little bit with us, it would be too cruel not to let us see the rest of it haha
I will be mad too
I really want to see a video of the full dance
@@kaminaridenki2056 fr dont pressure her to share her life on the internet, i bet shell be happier she did if she doesnt feel an obligation not to "upset" her fans
Saf is the most positive person who wears black all the time😂😂😂
Edit: Thanks for the likes and Merry Christmas 😍😘
Actually tons of goth people are super positive! I feel like Saf is the perfect example of what goths are like 😂 we were just moodier and withdrawn in high school, haha
Oh my god ... army’s are everywhere ...I think I haven’t seen any comment section without army ..,💜
Op- Army 💜
hmmm not really accurate but okay.. most goths are ridiculously cheerful
The fact that wedding dress designer is wearing a star and moon blouse in the FaceTime 👀
I knoww
Yuppp
This wedding designer is so pure and gives me so much smiles 🥺💗
Sparkle would have taken the dress to a different level.
Travel The World and some gold detail😩
Yes I still hope she gets it embroidered with sparkle
Travel The World Remember that the dancing dress needs to be a bit less impressive than her gown 😉 If it shines too much she might end up liking that one more than her actual gown hahaha!
Cat Commander Cactus
Sometimes classy is much more memorable (:
@@ladyofthekitty6405 I understand but still it seemed lacking a bit.
Safiya, we need an Engaged Betrothed Afianced t-shirt.
In a stary pattern
I'll wear that.
I would buy it and wait till I'm actually engaged betrothed and afianced 😂
@@itzrivers I would too!! Excellent bridal shower outfit!
Yes
The dress is really like an old timey widow grieving her recently deceased wealthy husband who died in mysterious circumstances. Like a modern mystery movie set in the Victorian era, and frankly I love it.
Yes.
Best description ever! X
This. EXACTLY.
Rewatching 2 years later and felt that I needed to say this as I just rewatched your first tattoo video - your next tattoo should be a star from this dress like the one you pointed out at 21:54. Maybe even a blend of it and a scallop detail from your ceremony dress. 🖤🤍
Not to be naive, I know she's an entertainer but Saf seems like such a happy person! I relate so much to her style and humour. Just unapologetically herself and seeing no reason to not chase all her desires and goals.
So inspirational and I wish to reach that level of confident happiness one day 😄
Also, I wish best of luck on the wedding day. These big events are stressful but remember to put love and self fulfillment into it most of all above entertaining audience & family or having a cliche "perfect wedding"
I don't think thats being naive, I think that about her as well and really don't think that she is just putting on a face about it.
this is literally the most wholesome comment
@@angelsinthewindow we aint all happy 100% of the time, but that doesnt detract from the moments where we are, and she likes to share those moments on camera
You are so sweet!
@@Crosshill Oh I know. I know that all to well myself, but she doesn't put on a act. She does spill the tea at times when she isn't happy about something and she has already talked about how nervous she is about different aspects of her life happening, especially the wedding. But its not like she is forcing herself to be happy for us, I think she is generally happy to be in front of the camera and making videos even if its difficult to sometimes edit them (I know that well too from school).
When I said it wasn't naive, I was talking about the comment thinking it was naive to think of her as a happy person. You can still be a happy person and have your down times too.
I really, really love this. Not only this black dress but the entire process for the whole ceremony. I always wanted to get married but was never inspired by the ultra “traditional” styles or settings - to the point where I settled on thinking that maybe a wedding just wasn’t for me. But this reminded me that you can still have a gorgeous ceremony with traditional ‘concepts’ but in a way that remains true to yourself. I love your non-traditional approach and I hope that I am lucky enough to have such a beautiful wedding.
You should check out offbeatbride.com/ . They promote exactly what you described - nontraditional that remains true to you.
ChippyChin , what a great site. Thank you for sharing that!
@@Weirder_the_better You're welcome!
I understand that dress 3 was impractical but damn was it beautiful or what!
yesssssss! soon as I saw that drawing I was like saf pleeeeeease pick that one!
It probably wouldnt have complimented safs body shape either and the dress she chose was a lot more elegant and fit saf and her personality more
Me too my wedding dress will be royal blue silk with embroidery in that design? ????!!!&!
Check out Bernadette banner, she made a dress like that. I'll link it, it's part one of two. Actually there's kinda a 3rd because a company ripped off her design ua-cam.com/video/327azBjatjg/v-deo.html
The dressmaker is so talented!!!! I’m beyond impressed!!! 💜
I love how the stylist is consistently wearing your-dress-themed outfits
I just wanna say that this woman works so hard on all of her videos and I feel that she genuinely appreciates her subscribers and enjoys her work! But some of the people in these comments are getting a little too cozy and think they’re entitled to decide what goes on in Safiya’s own wedding! If you are one of those people please stop, it is her wedding, you don’t need to make it more stressful for her by trying to make her change the color of her dress! Calm down, and let this hardworking woman wear what she wants at her wedding and stop being so entitled.
Dummy Thiqq thank you!
People in these comments really think this is their wedding lmao
i am doodle lmao i know right!
Agreed! It's her big day people!!
Exactly! Let her wear and do whatever the heck she wants, it’s her and Tyler’s day!
honestly everyone is crazy wanting more sparkle & glitter. the satin finish of the stars looks so gorgeous & the dress is SO safiya. this is the perfect dress & it looks beautiful
Am i the only one that wanted a bit of gold glitter in the black dress
Nouffy 24 noo, it’d look so cute, righhttt?
Or like some golden thread lining the stars 😭😭😭
I wanted this too! Thought it would be so cute! I think the sleeves looked better in plain black organza too
Yesssss like the pinterest dresses that she showed
It was also my thought but she seemed to really adore more of the plain design, I know I would have gone full shimmer and sparkle but it fits her 😂
Coming back to rewatch vids while waiting for new ones has been fun tbh, really love Saf’s content.
This vid in particular really got me into sewing and customising my own clothing as a hobby during lockdown. The whole process of trial and error, fabrics, cut/style and final product is so rewarding!!! Also more excitement to wear them out and about 😁
Even the way saf talks just radiates Shakespearean theatre kid
Kasia Kim can’t stand it tbh sounds so affected
Shakespearean theatre kid that doesn't know what she/he is doing.
Mo Mo I love the way she talks actually (probably cuz I’m also a theatre kid lol)
Okay I just realized HOW DAMN accurate this is!!!
@@MoMo-xx8to the way she talks never really bothered me I think cuz she is very well-spoken and articulate.
the dress is like a celestial themed morticia addams moment and I’m obsessed with it omg
I can’t even begin to tell you how much I SCREAMED when you actually called the stars “Moravian Stars” I’m a Moravian and so many people just don’t understand that they are called that :,) ugh so HAPPY
I know I'm late to the party by a lot but I adore the amount of support and exposure these wedding videos have given to so many wonderful creators and business owners. This entire process was so fun to watch!
You kinda look like Morticia, and that’s a compliment.
lol
morticia is hot 🥵
I thought the exact same thing!! She looks amazing!!
Morticia is #Goals!
@@honeymoonlyrics. jk9
Is it really a saf wedding video if she doesn’t say “engaged, betrothed, affianced»?
I suspect the next one or the next after that will evolve to the final form, or state it in the past tense as a transition.
What does saf mean
Nifty TV safiya
No it’s not
Reese R ah thanks
Safiya seemed like she definitely had more of a "say sure to the frock " moment in the black one.
It looks gorgeous and the designer is so talented
Edit: Spelling.
This is definitely not to say she didnt love her white one, and we havent seen it finished yet but like i just enjoyed how happy she looked in it.
@@shahrabya saying sure to the frock is a call back to her first wedding dress vid 🙃
It’s say sure to the frock
We haven't even seen the white one in its entirety!
@@jednrrp Yes, Im excited to see it! And I dont doubt how amazing she'll look in it
Her voice is just so perfect...
This is probably too late, but just a suggestion if you enjoyed the train of the black dress for aesthetics, you could have buttons in the back that pin up the train (and it can keep it up swoops that add to the drama of the look) and have it up for the dance and let it fall during drinks and dinner etc. my wedding dress had that detail and I loved it!
Bri Masu my cousin had that same detail and honestly it made the night so much more enjoyable for her. when it was time for fun and dance floor all she had to do was have me help her button the train up. genius, you're right!
When you rewatch this vid, you finally realize that a lot of pictures for the venue ideas and wedding details here were the actual wedding pictures 😂😂😂💘💘💘
anne dla they used those pictures as reference to what they bought. Those are not from the wedding those are from ordering things online or booking stuff. This was filmed and posted way before the actual wedding
@@v7014 No those are definitely pictures of the actual wedding. The posted the wedding video a long time after the actual wedding
watch the wedding video. those were defo photos from the wedding.
anne dla uuhgvnc
She totally looks like Morticia Addams in the dress and that is an aesthetic I'm here for
I hope Stefanie and Christy are skyrocketing with their success. They did a wonderful job
OH MY GOD YOU GUYS ARE DANCING THE GOMEZ AND MORTICIA CHOREOGRAPHY?!?!
OH MY GOD IF THEY DO I WILL BE SO HAPPY!!! THEYRE PERFECT FOR IT!!!
I hope! Even if they don't this is giving me very much that vibe!
Hahah THATS LITERALLY PERFECT
Yeah I'm excited about the dance.
They are already married - got married a few weeks ago
He sounded so worried when Safiya said “Maybe we shouldn’t do velvet”
Him - “ for you” fast response
13:10
DragonWolf Studioz Yeah, like an “Are you sure?” tone of voice
Yeah, a bit.
Kind of:
- gonna restart with a new suit from scratch?
With a hint of
- Again?
*13:07
@Karly Rivera
Ok? Lol
He said “For you” at 13:10 :p
Who else sees Saf and Tyler as a modern take on Morticia and Gomez Addams? So in love and so unbelievably beautiful together
I hope so because I'll just move in one day with a bunch of funky clothes & makeup and they'll just be like "so Cousin Mask, did you wanna help us shoot a video where we bake lipstick muffins?" 😂😂💜
CARAMIAAA
That one clip with the dance move reminded me of the dance scene in Addams Family Values. She is the modern Morticia.
Elizabeth Alderman I see it too
was about to comment this
This video is so wholesome!!
Ty being super supportive and excited, Stephanie being an amazing designer (and you crediting her), Christie being a great supporter and helping you all find what you want for your wedding, fabric shops giving you time and samples and you shouting out their shop as helpful and interesting… I just love this video so much.