THIS Lie About Love Can Wreck Your Family

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  • @CrossExamined
    @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +15

    Download FREE Cheat Sheet “The 4-Point Case For Christianity” 👉📱cutt.ly/ZYMC4nl

    • @CipherDVoid
      @CipherDVoid 2 місяці тому

      Well here’s the thing and I’m not bashing Christianity at all I just need to say this cause people have based Christianity on the King James Version.
      Which is Ironic cause it says in the Bible GOD never liked false idols. So he created the Nephilim to guide the hue-mans. Yes it’s originally spelled like that the Bible but every said it a silent e so it should be taken out like the other languages of the Bible.
      Anywho the one known as Jesus Christ was born in Israel and walked to China. On his way back from China he disappeared somewhere in Roman Empire. Along his journey he aided any he could for asking for nothing in return. He didn’t fight rather he would just leave if anyone mistreated him.
      Now he was said to have features of all humanity. Dark skin like Africans cause he walked through a desert, slanted eyes to deal with harsh winds. Dense bones & muscles like Norse and was hot-blooded like Spanish.
      Why cause if you approach religion as history the way it’s intended then everything in the Bible is real. A man walking from, Africa, Europe & Asia and helped those he walked passed is well simple.
      Approach this with the year before money was invented and boom you got this awesome guy.
      The only issue that began in Christianity was because it was so new. They used the term Messiah which means Divine Messenger. Causing all the Messiahs to ever be born into one person that has perfect face, hair and nails.
      When people also forget King James was an effeminate man who played the role of Messiah in plays. People forget idiots live throughout time & space. So someone saw a play(media) and thought this show is awesome why would I read the book.

  • @ibperson7765
    @ibperson7765 3 місяці тому +295

    “Love is sacrifice; not approval.” 🔥❤

    • @robertdouglas8895
      @robertdouglas8895 3 місяці тому +3

      If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent.

    • @ibperson7765
      @ibperson7765 3 місяці тому

      @@robertdouglas8895
      Hebrews 13:15
      By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.
      Hebrews 13:16
      But to do good and to communicate forget not: for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.
      1 Peter 2:5
      Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ.
      Romans 12:1
      I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
      John 15
      12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. 13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
      1 John 3:16
      Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому +1

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

    • @robertdouglas8895
      @robertdouglas8895 2 місяці тому +1

      Sacrifice is self-punishment, the opposite of healing.
      Love your neighbor as you love yourself.

    • @mick776gold
      @mick776gold 2 місяці тому

      @@robertdouglas8895 Sacrifice is not self-punishment. Often a Christ-like person would sacrifice for issues that they do not deserve any punishment.

  • @troylouis162
    @troylouis162 2 місяці тому +94

    I love the saying, love is not a feeling, love is something you do for others despite how you feel.

    • @hharden4969
      @hharden4969 Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely true!!🙌🏻

  • @James-ns3zi
    @James-ns3zi 2 місяці тому +171

    Here is what most people including many Christians do not seem to understand. "Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth"(1 Corinthians 13:6)

    • @hikerhobby1204
      @hikerhobby1204 28 днів тому

      True! If it’s a sin or biblical. Many of my Christian friends like to push people around because it’s their opinion not bibical.

    • @WaspLife
      @WaspLife 25 днів тому

      @@hikerhobby1204 Examples?

    • @hikerhobby1204
      @hikerhobby1204 25 днів тому

      @@WaspLife Telling friends “they should” do this or that. The word should is actually an abusive word. Telling friends how to spend their money, not their business. The Bible is filled with “stay away from toxic people.” It also says every word that comes out of our mouths needs to be of encouragement and to build up, not tear down. The Bible also says “mind your own business.” Plain manners tells us to leave adults to their business.

    • @WaspLife
      @WaspLife 25 днів тому +1

      @ What about the parts where we are expected to edify each other and help each other avoid sin?

    • @hikerhobby1204
      @hikerhobby1204 25 днів тому

      @ None of the things I mentioned are sin. Yes, we can go to a friend and lovingly point out a sin. However, the things I mentioned are not sins. Simply peoples opinions of how others need to run their lives. No ones business, makes people sound like Pharisees. You can’t push people around, they will (if they’re smart and know what the Bible says) bolt.

  • @benknoedler9851
    @benknoedler9851 3 місяці тому +120

    This is why I reject the "Open and Affirming" BS.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 місяці тому

      same!!

    • @katelynhenry777
      @katelynhenry777 2 місяці тому +2

      Openness is just as important too
      Not always affirming of course but openness is always good

    • @smigletat9634
      @smigletat9634 2 місяці тому +1

      “Open & affirming -WORLDLY- B.S. 🤨😟😢😔

    • @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5
      @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5 2 місяці тому +2

      Accept the reality of their state, love unconditionally, but do not affirm sinful behavior or lifestyles.

  • @chloemartel9927
    @chloemartel9927 3 місяці тому +274

    Proverbs 22:6 " Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it."

    • @T0Mmichael1234
      @T0Mmichael1234 3 місяці тому +3

      Hi Chloe, hope all is well with you and your family 🙏❤️
      I see the stray dawg is on your heels, as usual.
      I am curious about something, do you have Hunts trained to roll over on command?

    • @T0Mmichael1234
      @T0Mmichael1234 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD
      Triggered?!?
      By YOU?!?
      😂 *BLAHAAHAAA* 😅

    • @chloemartel9927
      @chloemartel9927 3 місяці тому +9

      ​​@@T0Mmichael1234it is so easy to trigger huntsy.....the little cry baby. I am doing very well and pray you are also. God bless you.

    • @chloemartel9927
      @chloemartel9927 3 місяці тому +6

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD 🤣😭😭😭🤣

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@chloemartel9927
      😅🤣😂😂🤣😅

  • @knxcholx
    @knxcholx 3 місяці тому +393

    Oh wow. That last point hit the hardest......."God couldn't love you, if love required approval."

    • @mattslater2603
      @mattslater2603 3 місяці тому +3

      God also can't love you... if he doesn't exist.
      Can you actually show that he does?

    • @wlonsdale1
      @wlonsdale1 3 місяці тому

      Can you explain the second the universe started? Where did the particle come from? Where did the laws of the universe come from? How is it that earth is in a unique position to have life? How about the food chain? How do you know wrong from right? Who told you? I can go on and on. ​@@mattslater2603

    • @sidwhiting665
      @sidwhiting665 3 місяці тому

      @@mattslater2603 if you've been on Turek's channel for any period of time (and I believe I've seen you around quite a bit)... there is a ton of good information available. Read it and make up your mind if you believe it or not. I can't convince you, nor can anyone else. You get to decide for yourself. If you don't believe, then there's no reason to come here and comment just to pick fights.

    • @WaspLife
      @WaspLife 3 місяці тому +32

      @@mattslater2603 Arguing the existence of God is simple. It's *which* God that most intellectuals are actually debating. Even modern science only goes as far back as "Well, suddenly everything existed". To deny the existence of a creator in general denies cause and effect.
      With that being said, now you have to figure out *which* God is correct and that becomes a lot easier once you get past denying causality.

    • @Kaizy-edits
      @Kaizy-edits 3 місяці тому +15

      @@mattslater2603
      While I can’t prove that God exists, I can give you evidence that points to His existence. It is as follows:
      1. Order and design come from an intelligent mind. The order and design of this universe come from an intelligent mind. You don’t get order and design by chance or mere coincidence. It points to a designer. If you buy a designer shirt, it was made by a designer. If the sun were one kilometer closer, we would overheat; if it were one kilometer further, we would perish. Isn’t it unreasonable to think that it all happened by chance?
      2. Everything that has a beginning has a cause. The universe had a beginning; therefore, it has a cause. The best way to understand this is an uncaused cause, which is God. To me, it is more reasonable to think that life comes from life and not from non-life.

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +103

    4:30...
    "Love does not require 'approval'..."
    I recently had to explain this very thing to someone who tried to refer to me as "phobic." I said, "You do realize that it's possible for me to love you; and disagree with your lifestyle, at the same time, don't you?"

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому +2

      What did you disagree with?

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +8

      @kinggenius930:
      You didn't figure that out from the wording of my comment?

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому +1

      @@mr.dennis5503 No. Could you elaborate?

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +8

      @kinggenius930:
      Elaborate for what; so you'll have cannon fodder for an argument? My comment is self explanatory...

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому

      @mr.dennis5503 Evidently not, one could be "phobic" towards any number of things. What were you referring to?

  • @rachelm7525
    @rachelm7525 3 місяці тому +132

    Amen. 👏 Parents: you are not their friend. You represent God to your kids.

    • @ForgivenMuch
      @ForgivenMuch 3 місяці тому +16

      I was (shamefully) hard on my mom as a pre-teen. I screamed at her for not being my friend - she told me “I’m your mother, not your friend - you’ll have plenty of friends in life, I’m your only mother and my job is not to be your friend.” Praise and Glory to God for giving me so many good things that I don’t deserve, not the least of which, parents who have truly loved me.

    • @magnetsoldiercephas331
      @magnetsoldiercephas331 3 місяці тому +7

      Exactly. Kids are also looking for disciplined guidance.

    • @magnetsoldiercephas331
      @magnetsoldiercephas331 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ForgivenMuchamen

    • @shaneaudinett8464
      @shaneaudinett8464 3 місяці тому

      Friendship doesnt mean approval. I dont approve of my friends bad behaviour. You can totally be your kids friend. But the definition must change if you think it requires approval!

    • @IchNachtLiebe
      @IchNachtLiebe 3 місяці тому +2

      There is definite truth in this comment in a psychological context too. I've met a few people who described the moment that they realized their parents weren't all-knowing when they were kids. Some people shrugged and said, "Who knew?" And others, it was quite devastating.
      A toddler does see their parents as the all-giving, all capable. A toddler doesn't know the struggles a parent must go through to provide their home, their bed, and their favorite snack.
      As children, we begin to understand. Some really understand by older childhood, teenage hood, or young adulthood.
      Spoiled and blinded people sometimes never realize and expect to be provided for their entire lives.

  • @alexandersergal
    @alexandersergal 2 місяці тому +33

    I've always said "Love is not affirmative, it's the ability to tell someone what their doing wrong."

    • @Charles.Wright
      @Charles.Wright 2 місяці тому +1

      Even if they are spelling something wrong?

    • @alexandersergal
      @alexandersergal 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Charles.Wright especially that, they're*

  • @gdub7360
    @gdub7360 2 місяці тому +27

    "We will sacrifice them for our benefit, rather than sacrificing ourselves for their benefit". When he said this it hit hard. As a people-pleaser, that is exactly what I'm doing. What a perspective shift.

    • @xXEGPXx
      @xXEGPXx 2 місяці тому

      Turek has stated on many occasions that he is the second coming of Christ, that he is the smartest person ever born, and that he should be the ruler of the world. You are taking advice about humility from the least humble person on the planet

    • @gdub7360
      @gdub7360 Місяць тому +1

      @@xXEGPXx Tell me how to find one of these many occasions and I will go watch

  • @rhemalithduncan8802
    @rhemalithduncan8802 3 місяці тому +129

    "Jesus was not BARNEY!" lol 😆Timeless!

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +11

      Ha!

    • @USAFVET1998
      @USAFVET1998 3 місяці тому +7

      🎶 I love you, you love me 🎶 😂😂

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому +2

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

    • @Christine-te4mr
      @Christine-te4mr 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@amjidhuss1092
      What "scholars"?
      You're preaching the wrong crowd here.
      This specific verse relates to all prophets up to Yeshua, who indeed prophesied and was more than a prophet.
      Blasphemy leads to hell.

  • @boblott6692
    @boblott6692 21 день тому +5

    It wrecked my family. Keep speaking the truth, Frank.

  • @HelmichWilson
    @HelmichWilson 3 місяці тому +34

    “Faithful are the WOUNDS of a friend…” Someone who truly cares about you WILL HURT YOU (for your good).

    • @denisemayosky1955
      @denisemayosky1955 2 місяці тому +1

      They may hurt your feelings, but will they reject you if you don't live up to what they want? Even Jesus said He would never leave us or forsake us. Too many people are rejected by their families, friends AND churches for being who they are - even if you think that's not who they truly are - and that's sad. And if people say that they love their loved ones as they are at the point in time (it may change), then they're "loving them into hell". Is it more "loving" to reject someone and push them out of your life when they need you the most because they don't meet your approval? I just want you to think.

    • @PatrcWU67-w3c
      @PatrcWU67-w3c Місяць тому

      @@denisemayosky1955 Perhaps you should do what you advise others to do also.......Think!

  • @festushaggen2563
    @festushaggen2563 3 місяці тому +106

    In my experience, parents who stand by as an audience with their children's lives rather than disciplining them and giving them sound instruction leave those kids for the world to mislead them and they become adults who harbor resentment for their parents because they didn't say no, explain why not and lead them in the right ways instead.
    Children don't want cheerleaders. They want coaches in the game of life.

    • @dr00g28
      @dr00g28 3 місяці тому +6

      Agreed, brother.

    • @mattdillon4398
      @mattdillon4398 3 місяці тому +5

      Amen!

    • @mattdillon4398
      @mattdillon4398 3 місяці тому +4

      How have you been? I haven't seen you in about a year.

    • @festushaggen2563
      @festushaggen2563 3 місяці тому +7

      @mattdillon4398 Doing well Matthew. Has it been that long? I'd swear I seen you at the Longbranch not that long ago.

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +2

      Ah man Matt Dillon gets to actually hang out with you brother Festus, that would be awesome... I'll find you in Heaven brother...👍

  • @bethdeluca3491
    @bethdeluca3491 2 місяці тому +11

    I was pretty much raised by my mother and she couldn’t have been a bigger poster child for this truth. Everyone knew that I was raised differently. Everyone knew not to even bother trying to get me to try something I shouldn’t. I knew where she stood, and wasn’t going to even try and make anything sound innocent. The wisdom of the Holy Spirit would make things very clear and I knew better than to fight it.

  • @markreed2576
    @markreed2576 3 місяці тому +314

    You can either be slapped with the truth, or kissed with a lie !

    • @JesusistheonetrueGod
      @JesusistheonetrueGod 3 місяці тому +49

      Ecclesiastes 7:5 ESV
      It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools.

    • @Gek1177
      @Gek1177 3 місяці тому

      Chrstianity is made up.

    • @michaelkarimian7538
      @michaelkarimian7538 3 місяці тому +8

      Wow, this quote will stay with me the rest of my life

    • @AFFL1CTED1
      @AFFL1CTED1 3 місяці тому

      @@michaelkarimian7538 It's a rewording of Proverbs 27:5-6, which says, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses."

    • @moisestorres9618
      @moisestorres9618 3 місяці тому +8

      I'd rather be kissed with the truth if possible :) I'm just kidding. I love your quote.

  • @nei_hmande2427
    @nei_hmande2427 3 місяці тому +98

    A friend tells you you’re on the railroad tracks. An enemy will leave you there and smile about it- and watch the wreckage from a distance.
    Listen to your friends and family. They LOVE you.

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +8

      Amen!

    • @orangeandslinky
      @orangeandslinky 3 місяці тому

      90% of all divorces are filed by educated women. No, your family does not love you.

    • @Trollbreezy
      @Trollbreezy 3 місяці тому +1

      if you're like me then friends and family arent a thing.

    • @nei_hmande2427
      @nei_hmande2427 3 місяці тому +4

      @@Trollbreezy then, my friend, it is an absolute honor to share this with you:
      Psalms 27:10 When my father and my mother forsake me,
      Then the Lord will take care of me

    • @Trollbreezy
      @Trollbreezy 3 місяці тому +1

      @@nei_hmande2427 someone had to watch over me lol main reason i believe in the Father,Son,and Holy Spirit. if not for them id be underground by the age of 7 😂

  • @DoGoodToThem
    @DoGoodToThem 3 місяці тому +69

    True. Love has two sides like a coin: Compassion & Rebuke

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +4

      So true!

    • @ForeclosureGhost
      @ForeclosureGhost 3 місяці тому +1

      My friend, you do err. True love is the love of Christ, unconditional. Compassion and rebuke are conditions. Think about it?

    • @philalcoceli6328
      @philalcoceli6328 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ForeclosureGhost You DO err, Mr. Ghost. Unconditional "love" is a 1960's demonic infiltration "flower power" deceiving cliché. Compassion and rebuke are at the VERY CORE of True Godly Love. Satan and Hell hate True Compassion and True Rebuke. He just unconditionally kisses your sinful behind until you fall down the Bottomless Abyss.

    • @ForeclosureGhost
      @ForeclosureGhost 3 місяці тому

      @@philalcoceli6328 My friend, there is no error. If God put a condition on anything you, me, and everyone else should probably be worried by now. It has nothing to do with "flower power". Get your head out of the gutter and think spiritual. And as far a Satan, you really don't know him but he is your carnal mind, the ego that brought you here and you agreed to do it.

    • @philalcoceli6328
      @philalcoceli6328 3 місяці тому

      @ForeclosureGhost You must be a New Age follower and expert infiltrator posing as a fake Christian. God does have requirements and conditions, that's why Heaven and Hell exist and Jesus-God had to Incarnate and come to Earth, otherwise his ministry and eath in the Cross would had been a gross and totally unnecessary spectacle.
      The real God is not a comfortable marshmallow Buddha, but a sacrificial, TRULY loving God. Your god is a false god with your own self-serving face right on it, a soft-with-sin, "love therapy" demon.

  • @joerecio4408
    @joerecio4408 3 місяці тому +29

    I am a father of 4! This message is just priceless! Thank you Jesus!

  • @antillious
    @antillious 3 місяці тому +76

    Love without judgment is just apathy with a smile.

    • @indigofenrir7236
      @indigofenrir7236 3 місяці тому +9

      We should put that on a plaque.

    • @kevinkelly2162
      @kevinkelly2162 3 місяці тому +1

      If I have to change who I am to recieve your love then you do not love me.

    • @indigofenrir7236
      @indigofenrir7236 3 місяці тому +17

      @@kevinkelly2162 Try telling Jesus that. He loves you but wants you to change your ways to please Him (Jn 14:15).
      If you won't change for the people you love, then you love yourself more than others.

    • @kevinkelly2162
      @kevinkelly2162 3 місяці тому

      @@indigofenrir7236 If he wants me to change before he loves me he does not love me. And loving yourself more than others is normal and natural.

    • @kurtgundy
      @kurtgundy 3 місяці тому +14

      ​@kevinkelly2162
      Jesus loves you the way you are, despite your sins. But he loves you too much to leave you the way you are.

  • @RachaelHall-gt1lg
    @RachaelHall-gt1lg 23 дні тому +3

    Love these theologians! Spending their lives helping us understand the Holy Scriptures ❤ Thank you ❤

  • @jeepstergal4043
    @jeepstergal4043 3 місяці тому +28

    Have to love our kids enough to risk them shutting us out.

    • @ronlanter6906
      @ronlanter6906 2 місяці тому +4

      *My adult child HAS shut me out of her life* because:
      I love Jesus, therefore hate people-gays, etc
      I am white, therefore am a racist (she is white too, but woke)
      I am a colonizer therefore have wiped out complete civilizations (I am not even 100yo)
      I stand for the US Constitution where everyone is equal under the law, therefore: (I am an oppressor)
      I stand strong in Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit and pray for her salvation 🙏🏻✝

    • @denisemayosky1955
      @denisemayosky1955 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ronlanter6906 Maybe your adult child is saying that we should be aware of others" suffering and want to do something to help alleviate or acknowledge it instead of turning a blind eye and acting all offended.

    • @denisemayosky1955
      @denisemayosky1955 2 місяці тому

      Does that include shutting *them* out if they don't - or can't - conform to what *we* say they should be like?

    • @ronlanter6906
      @ronlanter6906 2 місяці тому

      @@denisemayosky1955
      Why would you assume that I turn a blind eye and/or act offensively towards them? All people are image bearers of God Almighty.
      My daughter knows that I have been very active in homeless outreach programs since 2012. Through various Christian churches, I've gone out with them to bring warm dinners to homeless camps, personal hygiene products to homeless people walking the streets, finding shelter for them, etc. I personally talk with them, asking how we can best help them get back out their feet, given them tents, helping them get set up for medical care, help them get their government ID's, etc.
      I carry things in my car (gloves and stocking caps in the winter) poncho's, socks, t-shirts (year round) that I give away as we cross paths. I'll buy 100 McD's hamburgers and go to where they gather and give them out.
      If I may ask you, Denise, what do you do to physically help the downtrodden when you cross paths with them?

    • @ronlanter6906
      @ronlanter6906 2 місяці тому

      @@denisemayosky1955 No it does not Denise. *Matthew 18:21-22* says:
      *Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.*
      But first, *what is Biblical forgiveness*
      *Unselfish love is the basis for true forgiveness, since “it keeps no record of wrongs” 1 Corinthians 13:5*
      So, there is really no reason to ever shut your children (or your parents) out of ones life unless they are physically abusive towards you.

  • @LeviFisch
    @LeviFisch 3 місяці тому +7

    It's good to know there are some men who still stand for the truth. The world could use a few more like Frank.

    • @antichrist_revealed
      @antichrist_revealed 3 місяці тому

      If Frank lived in the truth, he would know and claim Jesus is the Son of God, and never once call him God. If the truth isn't in him, then what is? Satan?

  • @TJB-zt9tx
    @TJB-zt9tx 3 місяці тому +13

    Many pulpits have perverted the reality of what REAL Love is. Their day is coming!

  • @davidpate6095
    @davidpate6095 3 місяці тому +25

    "Love does not require approval." Well said.

    • @robertdouglas8895
      @robertdouglas8895 3 місяці тому

      Approval from God, not the world.

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

  • @TAdler-ex8px
    @TAdler-ex8px 3 місяці тому +30

    I wish I could like this 1,000,000,000 times! Love also doesn’t need to stress every rightness unless it’s damaging the person. Sometimes it’s okay to overlook minor immaturity. But sin is a completely different thing.

    • @mattr.1887
      @mattr.1887 3 місяці тому

      Sounds like subjective truth.

    • @TAdler-ex8px
      @TAdler-ex8px 3 місяці тому +2

      @@mattr.1887 I didn’t even mention truth, but it’s not subjective. I’m assuming it’s the word sin that’s sparked your response. Justify sin long enough and you will need drugs or alcohol to numb your soul. Jesus Christ will set you free from that emptiness, that soul pain and heal you and grant you eternal life. Repent and believe! You will never regret it.

  • @SheahanDevadoss
    @SheahanDevadoss 3 місяці тому +9

    The world needs to hear this.

  • @BrunoMCDowell
    @BrunoMCDowell 3 місяці тому +40

    Jesus's definition is Love is the opposite of the world definition of love.

    • @TheGuy..
      @TheGuy.. 3 місяці тому +3

      Agreed. They are often merely infatuated with something and often temporarily.
      Love: An impassioned decision of commitment to have someone's "best" interest, forever, at the heart of your being.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 місяці тому

      facts!

  • @ng-marc
    @ng-marc 2 місяці тому +4

    Amen! Hot or cold is preferred. Lukewarm serves nobody.

  • @Project-ci5ld
    @Project-ci5ld 2 місяці тому +2

    Going through some hard times with my gf today, and just been talking a lot with God. This was much much needed….

    • @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5
      @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5 2 місяці тому +1

      Does she love Jesus more than you? If not, break it off until that time comes.

    • @Project-ci5ld
      @Project-ci5ld 2 місяці тому

      @@AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5 Yes she does

  • @mcfarvo
    @mcfarvo 3 місяці тому +15

    God tells us what love is in His word.
    Satan tells us "love is love" and "love is doing what feels good to you by your truth and your lived experience according to your self-identity."

    • @davepugh2519
      @davepugh2519 Місяць тому

      God says 'love me or else'. That's not love, it's abuse.

  • @borisiradukunda3063
    @borisiradukunda3063 3 місяці тому +20

    Thank you, Frank,
    This message is really good. It is a reminder that God did not need our approval to love and to sacrifice Himself for us,
    for if God had to wait around for our approval, there would be no salvation.
    1 John 4:10 "' This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins."
    And just like Jesus was not concerned for His well-being, instead Jesus was concerned for our well-being,
    We are to do the same for others by sharing the TRUTH.

    • @jaflenbond7854
      @jaflenbond7854 3 місяці тому

      The BIBLE exposes
      SATAN the DEVIL as the Father of LIES and Murderer of human beings as written in John 8: 44.
      Atheists
      who believe their own Satanic LIES and assertions that GOD doesn't exist and the BIBLE is just a worthless book of lies, myths, fictions, fantasies, and fairy tales
      and
      Jehovah's Witnesses, SDAs, Mormons, Catholics, Baptists, Born Again Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, and fanatics of all kinds of Religions.
      who
      believe their own Satanic LIES and Unbiblical teachings and doctrines about
      "hellfire", "afterlife", "immortality of the souls", "Armageddon", "Trinity", "rapture", and "reincarnation"
      clearly
      bring themselves nothing but their own dishonor, disgrace, shame, downfall and ETERNAL DEATHS,
      obviously
      lied to, deceived, and murdered by the Father of LIES and Murderer of human beings.
      The BIBLE reveals
      that
      the submissiveness of lowly, ordinary, kind, submissive, and respectful persons on earth
      to
      the authority of Jesus Christ written in Matthew 28: 18
      will
      definitely bring them honor and the Creator's favor and reward of ETERNAL LIFE and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and death as written in Revelation 21: 3, 4
      and
      the teachings of Jesus Christ about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead" written in Luke 4: 43 and John 11: 25, 26
      are
      the guarantee
      that
      loving, kind, submissive, and respectful persons on earth
      who
      died recently and thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Sarah, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Job, Naomi, Ruth, King David, Jesus Christ's Followers and disciples, and many others
      will
      all be RESURRECTED back to life in the right and proper time so they can happily and abundantly live and exist on earth forever as citizens and subjects of the "KINGDOM of GOD"
      and fully enjoy the eternal love, kindness, goodness, generosities, compassions, favors, and blessings of the Creator and his Christ for eternity
      under the loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection of Jesus Christ as the Creator's Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth as written in Revelation 11: 15.

    • @antichrist_revealed
      @antichrist_revealed 3 місяці тому

      God didn't sacrifice himself to anyone. Where did your truth go?

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

    • @borisiradukunda3063
      @borisiradukunda3063 2 місяці тому

      @@antichrist_revealed yes, you are right God the Father did not sacrifice himself for us. It's Jesus His son who did.
      But Jesus is Also God so that's why I said it like that.
      Apologies for the confusion.

    • @antichrist_revealed
      @antichrist_revealed 2 місяці тому

      @@borisiradukunda3063 Jesus is not _ALSO_ God. He exists on his own as he was born in heaven first (Rev 12:5) and then on earth later to become a flesh bearing son (Luke 1:35). God has many sons, (Gen 6:2, Job 1:6, 2:1, & 38:7, all show this. Jesus is the only son God sent down to shepherd us as a human. Hence his only begotten, as no other Son was born of flesh.

  • @wethepeoplegh
    @wethepeoplegh 3 місяці тому +81

    Unfortunately, a lot of people can't handle the truth.

    • @Thyalwaysseek
      @Thyalwaysseek 3 місяці тому +4

      Yes a lot of modern Christians can't handle the truth that Jesus is not God the Father.

    • @Moist._Robot
      @Moist._Robot 3 місяці тому +3

      We call them bible worshippers.

    • @joshuwaortiz
      @joshuwaortiz 3 місяці тому +4

      Some believe truth makes them feel good when in fact it requires you to give something up.

    • @HandledToaster2
      @HandledToaster2 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Thyalwaysseek Start over

    • @larzman651
      @larzman651 3 місяці тому +7

      @Thyalwaysseek absolutely right , JESUS is the son. HOLY SPIRIT makes up the triune GODHEAD

  • @lmullett4106
    @lmullett4106 3 місяці тому +47

    My mom just shared a story about a family that has gone to our church for 30 years.
    Their daughter came out lesbian so they left our church and now attend her church, which “affirm”
    Peoples gender identity.
    I said to my mom, I think that’s the saddest thing I’ve ever heard .
    I said …those parents are literally loving their child right into hell 😢💔

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому +3

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

    • @lmullett4106
      @lmullett4106 2 місяці тому +3

      @@amjidhuss1092 yes….I believe that! Jesus is the very Word of God.
      Gods ultimate revelation of Himself ☦️♥️

    • @KimS-MK
      @KimS-MK 2 місяці тому +1

      How sad. 😢

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому

      Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

  • @JiraiyaSama86
    @JiraiyaSama86 3 місяці тому +3

    Amen! Love does not require approval. Sadly, many don't seem to understand it the moment it is spoken. They know in their hearts that love doesn't require approval. Yet they resist.

  • @LourensKoster-k2l
    @LourensKoster-k2l Місяць тому +1

    Been struggling for decades with this subject but praise God I found this today! Not there yet but it clear now. Thank God for His patience been a born again believers for 30 years and only now some pieces of the Godly puzzel fit and make more sense.

  • @iztherelife1340
    @iztherelife1340 2 місяці тому +5

    My son took it all the wrong way It’s been two months since he’s communicated with me. He’s strayed, lying, going down a horrible road. I’ve had another sleepless night.
    He always thought I was out to get him when in fact I really tried to guide him to his best life. My heart is broken in a million pieces

    • @dberd9149
      @dberd9149 2 місяці тому +1

      I feel for you. I haven’t been the best example for my sons. My oldest has been against God and blames God for his circumstances. I/we(husband, but more me) have enabled him too much and now we are dealing with a 34 year old child who hates to hear their are consequences for your decisions. Told us we are the worst parents and flipped us off. Tried to use our granddaughter as a weapon, but now they broke up and girlfriend and granddaughter live 2 1/2 hours away. 😢 We watched her every weekend since she was born and now about once a month. She is going on 4 years old. It breaks my heart that he can’t correct his behavior and blames everyone but himself. I pray for him.

    • @iztherelife1340
      @iztherelife1340 2 місяці тому +2

      @@dberd9149 we live in a tough society for raising kids. I pray all day every day that God get his attention. It crushes me that they can turn against us after bringing them up. My health suffers for it. I knows yours does too. Somehow, we have to learn to take care of ourselves and just take a back seat to all of it. I don’t know how to do that, I just know it’s time for The Serenity prayer for us. ❤️

    • @dberd9149
      @dberd9149 2 місяці тому +2

      @@iztherelife1340 I agree with you. I am praying for God to be in charge and for me to step out of his way(God’s way) because he truly loves our children and knows best for them. I have another son who just called me yesterday and told me he is planning on getting baptized. It was so amazing to get that call! I will pray that our children come to know and love God. May God keep us strong and believe he will do his best for our children and they turn to him, in Jesus name. AMEN! God bless you and your family. ❤️

    • @iztherelife1340
      @iztherelife1340 2 місяці тому

      @@dberd9149 I’ll stand in agreement with you. And pray the Lords will over our children

    • @juzeus9
      @juzeus9 2 місяці тому

      homosexuality was never a sin. people who say otherwise are reading the bible the same way pharisee read Exodus 20.8

  • @camilleroseministries
    @camilleroseministries Місяць тому +1

    FINALLY. A real Pastor!! Amen and thank you for doing God's work in using true love! ❤✝️💥

    • @Smartcom5
      @Smartcom5 Місяць тому

      He's just Frank, you know …

  • @rlunnerstall3527
    @rlunnerstall3527 3 місяці тому +3

    Well said Frank,
    Thank YOU

  • @jimzoumas2255
    @jimzoumas2255 Місяць тому +1

    YES FRANK THANK YOU FOR PREACHING THE TRUTH GOD BLESS YOU

  • @1pnavarrette
    @1pnavarrette 3 місяці тому +3

    Happy to hear this from Frank...

  • @ByCloud_ByFire777
    @ByCloud_ByFire777 21 день тому

    AMEN TO THIS MESSAGE! The WORD of GOD says it all...AND I STAND WITH HIM, John 1:14, I am a sinner and HE IS NOT! HE KNOWS WHAT IS BEST...and I NEED TO WALK WITH HIM, no matter the COST! AMEN AND AMEN...STAND!

  • @LexRex717
    @LexRex717 3 місяці тому +13

    This is a great message! Biblical truth we need to live by!

    • @LexRex717
      @LexRex717 3 місяці тому +5

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD I suggest a harder look at the probability we just got here by chance. Eternity is a long time to get wrong. The evidence for Jesus Christ coming back from the dead is staggering. All the Biblical prophecies have been 100% accurate. In fact the Rapture and Tribulation are about ready to happen according to prophetic convergence.

    • @T0Mmichael1234
      @T0Mmichael1234 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD
      Hey HuntsyDuncey, who made you an arbiter of what bad parenting is?
      Imagine that, a pro abortionist actually judging what a bad parent is 🤦‍♂️
      You're either bat crap crazy or your arrogance is out of this world.
      Or just as thick as a 2X4...

    • @TomMichael5678
      @TomMichael5678 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD
      😂 *ROLLING OVER LAUGHING* 😅
      Someone went off like a nuke here, 😂.
      How was your sleep last night hoghunter? Bet I was on your mind, huh, LOL 😂
      I shouldn't be so selfish, I bet Jad was on your mind as well, huh? AND Gil, and Chloe, and Fess 😂. Wholey mackerel, I don't think you actually got any sleep now that I think about it, thinking about all us Christians, hahaahaaa.
      I'm not a snow❄️ like you, Hunts, I couldn't care less what someone decides to tell their children is a lie or not.
      And as a staunch pro abortionist, neither SHOULD YOU.

    • @LexRex717
      @LexRex717 3 місяці тому +3

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD The Old Testament correctly predicted Israel would become a nation again on May 14, 1948.
      It was prophesied that in the end times in book of Revelation, the Euphrates river would dry up - that is happening now. First time ever.
      It was predicted that an alliance of Turkey, Russia, and Iran would form a partnership to go against Israel. This happened last year for the first time in recorded history. (Ezekiel 38 & Ez 39).
      It was predicted in the book of Revelation that people would buy and sell using a biometric mark in their hand & forehead. And that buying and selling would be controlled by a globally controlled government. This is happening now with people getting chips in their hand in Sweden to buy things. Amazon One, Whole Foods, and many more are coming up with biometric sensors in the hand.
      Here is the verse:
      "And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads: And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name. Here is wisdom. Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast: for it is the number of a man; and his number is 666." -Revelation 13:
      This is just a small sampling. I have been studying this for many years. the Bible has correctly predicted the future every time. In the Book of Daniel, every nation was predicted by name and correct order to come into existence. People don't even realize this. sad.

    • @lane21007
      @lane21007 3 місяці тому +5

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD
      We didn’t say it, Jesus did.
      John 14:6
      6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”
      Isaiah 43:11
      11 “I, yes I, am the Lord,
      and there is no other Savior.”
      Acts 4:12
      12 “There is salvation in no one else! God has given no other name under heaven by which we must be saved.”

  • @winstonwesleydesign
    @winstonwesleydesign 3 місяці тому +2

    Awesome! Love does not mean affirming or approval! Well spoken and true!

  • @arkansasrebel348
    @arkansasrebel348 3 місяці тому +3

    Words of wisdom!! Thanks Frank!!

  • @cheleradatti
    @cheleradatti 15 днів тому

    ❤️❤️ thank you Jesus For your (unAPPROVAL required ) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ❤️

  • @nancyzammit3298
    @nancyzammit3298 3 місяці тому +4

    How true trying very hard not to get approval made mistakes but learning to correct myself praise jesus who gives me strength 🙏 ❤

  • @harrionl
    @harrionl 3 місяці тому +2

    Excellent message! God is good!

  • @samsam-nx8gq
    @samsam-nx8gq 3 місяці тому +5

    Always great answer but this video is one of the best so far. Jesus bless you.

  • @carolinelease1647
    @carolinelease1647 3 місяці тому +1

    So, so, so good - needed to hear - thank you, Frank!!

  • @evelynsilverknight7699
    @evelynsilverknight7699 3 місяці тому +15

    Nailed it, literally, on a cross!

  • @RetsuhcsJ13
    @RetsuhcsJ13 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow.. that last one, if love required approval God couldn't love me. That hit hard.

  • @ilovetheLordChirst
    @ilovetheLordChirst 3 місяці тому +145

    Awesome, I couple years ago I went to a baby Catholic baptism, it was hard to stand there and listen to this priest talk about the Jesus was all about love, love love. When I had a chance I corrected his lies. I asked him what about Matthew ch 23 ? That’s not loving, he became upset and replied that’s your theology, I replied no! That is the Bible you supposed to read and teach! Liars not priest!

    • @rosemarybaxter9120
      @rosemarybaxter9120 2 місяці тому +18

      I would also have questioned the priest’s view that a baby is saved through baptism alone.

    • @lslagle9173
      @lslagle9173 2 місяці тому +9

      I would personally say that this was a different ‘dimension’ of his love (forgive the strange wording). Akin to how God’s love and justice caused him to exile the Israelites of Jeremiah’s day. It would not be loving if he did nothing to stop their decent into falsity and evil.

    • @DougDrebek
      @DougDrebek 2 місяці тому

      Prots are r3tarded

    • @hanymessiha1416
      @hanymessiha1416 2 місяці тому +6

      I've been down similar roads myself, that's why some priests have a "Love - Hate" relationship with me, regardless of denomination
      😁
      Regrettably, too many members of the clergy are more concerned with congregation "SIZE", than loyalty to the Word of God, and as such, are BETRAYING Jesus' Trust in them, that they would "Tend the Flock"

    • @frederickpile3599
      @frederickpile3599 2 місяці тому +1

      @@rosemarybaxter9120 Matthew 3:11 for repentance...
      Acts 2 (Baptism of fire)
      Ezechiel 36,25-27

  • @CoreySr301
    @CoreySr301 2 місяці тому +2

    THIS IS FIIIIRREEEE. I started using drugs at 15. I used to think my parents hated me because they always tried to stop me from getting high. It took me 20 years of drug use to finally get clean and realize that my parents LOVED me and they were trying to protect me from a life of struggle and hardship. I always tell people my parents didn't approve of my lifestyle but they LOVED me. My father was always honest with me and I took offense to it. I now realize that all he was doing was LOVING me. God bless!! 🙏🏿✌🏿💙💪🏿

    • @737smartin
      @737smartin 2 місяці тому +1

      Man, I hope my son someday turns to feel this way about us. 🙏 I hope you’ve had the opportunity to share these realizations openly with your loving parents!

    • @CoreySr301
      @CoreySr301 2 місяці тому +1

      @@737smartin I pray your son sees the love you have for him. Now as a father of five boys I understand how important a father's love and guidance is for young men. I lost my mother in 2014 and was able to tell her how grateful I was for all she taught me and the love she showed me before she passed. I use every opportunity to tell my father how much I love him. Without his guidance I would not be the man I am. As a young man I would say I didn't want to be like my father. At age 37 I realize my father is a great example of a man and leader of a family. My father is a retired Navy chief. He is incredibly smart, has morals and integrity, is honest and loves me unconditionally. I love my Pop and I pray I can lead my young men the same way he led me.

    • @737smartin
      @737smartin 2 місяці тому +1

      @@CoreySr301 ❤️

  • @signpost5596
    @signpost5596 3 місяці тому +11

    A lot of Christians and even some pagans know and quote 1 Cor 13: 4-8 regarding love. However, rarely do they pay attention to verse 6 which says love must include truth. Thanks to Frank for pointing this out.

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому

      What truth are they missing when they quote it?

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +1

      @signpost5596:
      Don't answer @kinggenius. He's just trolling for an argument.

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому

      @@mr.dennis5503 Why would you say that? My question is sincere

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +2

      @kinggenius930:
      Nothing you've done in this thread is "sincere!"

  • @markgraham2312
    @markgraham2312 2 місяці тому +1

    Superb and Fantastic!!!

  • @gi169
    @gi169 3 місяці тому +9

    Thank you CrossExamined.

    • @dr00g28
      @dr00g28 3 місяці тому +7

      Ah!! I wasn't fast enough Gil. The hateful troll got the drop on me. 🤦‍♂️ Anyway, God bless you! 😁

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@@dr00g28
      Any comment from a brother counteracts all the evil comments of a demonic troll... Thank you for being here brother.

    • @TomMichael5678
      @TomMichael5678 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@gi169
      I C A N N O T believe how easily Hunts is triggered by you!
      😂 *ROLLING OVER LAUGHING* 😅
      It's absolutely hilarious!

    • @dr00g28
      @dr00g28 3 місяці тому +3

      Always brother Gil! I see some raving lunatic in your post clamoring for attention. The Gadarene demoniac comes to mind 😖@@gi169

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +7

      @@TomMichael5678
      He's a weird dude brother, but you have known this for quite a while... God bless brother Tom.

  • @Vikingshop
    @Vikingshop 4 дні тому

    AMEN❗ AMEN❗ AMEN❗ TELL THIS TO ALL CHILDREN❗ ALL TEENAGERS❗ AND ALL PARENTS❗

  • @IwillsingtoGod
    @IwillsingtoGod 3 місяці тому +25

    Yes. Lost relationship with two of my daughters because I wouldn’t affirm the lie one of them believes.

    • @Gek1177
      @Gek1177 3 місяці тому +1

      Bad choice. I'm sorry to hear that but you made a bad choice.

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +11

      @@IwillsingtoGod
      Affirming a lie will help no one, that is a tough situation. I hope the Lord's peace and grace will find you and the Holy Spirit works on your daughter. God bless.

    • @TerryKristopher3707
      @TerryKristopher3707 3 місяці тому +7

      @@IwillsingtoGod Sorry to hear that. The right thing to do is almost always the harder path to take.

    • @lane21007
      @lane21007 3 місяці тому +12

      @@Gek1177
      You made a bad choice with your comment.

    • @Gek1177
      @Gek1177 3 місяці тому

      @@lane21007 not if it encourages this person to ask for forgiveness and reestablish a relationship with their kids.

  • @flavadave3943
    @flavadave3943 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Frank! I wish more people could wrap their brains around this. I lost my best friend because he couldn’t take my constant truth telling. He was more the type to tell people what they wanted to hear.

  • @vicjames
    @vicjames 2 місяці тому

    Wow.... here is a powerful compassionate truth speaker. God bless you Frank

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 3 місяці тому +5

    “Forgive and you shall be Forgiven.” Jesus Gives the Answer 😊❤

    • @robertdouglas8895
      @robertdouglas8895 3 місяці тому +1

      If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent.
      Who is innocent? All of those you forgive.

  • @ebubejamesoriehi2921
    @ebubejamesoriehi2921 2 місяці тому

    Wow! This is really deep... "Love does not require approval". More grace and wisdom to you sir.

  • @dwh5512
    @dwh5512 3 місяці тому +17

    By faith alone we are saved.

    • @TheGuy..
      @TheGuy.. 3 місяці тому +5

      Careful, lol. By grace alone through faith alone... But we get the point. Atheists may not.

    • @mattr.1887
      @mattr.1887 3 місяці тому +1

      You save yourself by telling God what he wants to hear.

    • @dwh5512
      @dwh5512 3 місяці тому

      @@TheGuy.. agreed

    • @jaysonmorrison4776
      @jaysonmorrison4776 3 місяці тому

      Faith alone isn't in the bible. Saved by grace through faith isn't salvation

    • @taylorthetunafish5737
      @taylorthetunafish5737 3 місяці тому

      How are you saved by believing in things without evidence?

  • @Jason4Peace
    @Jason4Peace 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing God's truth. God bless you and your family forever.

  • @JesusistheonetrueGod
    @JesusistheonetrueGod 3 місяці тому +3

    Only one of your books isn't on audible yet. But as soon as it is I will buy it.

    • @Moist._Robot
      @Moist._Robot 3 місяці тому

      Why not just read the book?

    • @JesusistheonetrueGod
      @JesusistheonetrueGod 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Moist._Robot I will eventually but my time is limited because I'm taking care of my wife and I was working two jobs but I resigned from one of them because I needed to be there for my wife. Long story short, it's easier to listen to it although I also have the physical copies of the books.

    • @HandledToaster2
      @HandledToaster2 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@JesusistheonetrueGodGod bless you man, wish you and your family the best.

    • @JesusistheonetrueGod
      @JesusistheonetrueGod 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HandledToaster2 thank you, may God bless you too

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому

      We thank you for your continued support!

  • @jM30w
    @jM30w 3 місяці тому +1

    Lord thank you for this ! Hopefully I can use it in my talks to my loved ones, but I am prepared for the knife that cuts ! Amen

  • @dwh5512
    @dwh5512 3 місяці тому +3

    1 John 1:9
    “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +1

      Amen!

    • @amjidhuss1092
      @amjidhuss1092 2 місяці тому

      @@CrossExamined Deuteronomy 18:15, Moses told the Israelites that God would raise up a prophet like him from among their own brothers. This prophet would speak God’s words and the people must listen to him. Many scholars believe this passage points to Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of the prophet that Moses spoke about.

  • @rosenrusev5291
    @rosenrusev5291 2 місяці тому

    Thanks God and thank you, Frank!

  • @jgamez5023
    @jgamez5023 3 місяці тому +4

    This is great !

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +1

      @@jgamez5023
      The CE channel is awesome. God bless you...

    • @CrossExamined
      @CrossExamined  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for tuning in!

  • @ezmepetersen2503
    @ezmepetersen2503 2 місяці тому

    Good sound bite. A wise Preacher taught me the following..... Love isn't a word or a feeling - it is action. That about sums up Jesus right there.

  • @Hernsama
    @Hernsama 3 місяці тому +8

    That boy quoted THOMAS SOWELL!!!

  • @DavidLukoson-om7rl
    @DavidLukoson-om7rl 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks. May God✝️ bless you.

  • @larzman651
    @larzman651 3 місяці тому +18

    24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes

    • @Thyalwaysseek
      @Thyalwaysseek 3 місяці тому

      All Praise to God the Father

    • @larzman651
      @larzman651 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Thyalwaysseek why would you put the father unless you know he has a son?

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@larzman651
      Got him again brother 👍

    • @GodSoLoved.Yeshua
      @GodSoLoved.Yeshua 3 місяці тому +4

      "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9

    • @larzman651
      @larzman651 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD what got removed?

  • @StudentOfLife365
    @StudentOfLife365 Місяць тому

    Oh he was cooking!!! Great message!!

  • @katamas832
    @katamas832 3 місяці тому +3

    This meaning of love works great, but keep in mind whether or not it is loving based on it depends on whether or not you are right. So using it as a defense "I am loving, I speak the truth" only works when you can defend it with facts, logic and argumentation.
    Otherwise, this is very easy to exploit for people with delusional convictions.

  • @jenniferjoaquin4717
    @jenniferjoaquin4717 2 місяці тому

    Thank you! I needed to hear this! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @JadDragon
    @JadDragon 3 місяці тому +4

    God's love is real love, and God is truth.
    Jesus lives! ♥️ and is Yahweh God 🙏🏻 Christ ✝️ and King 👑

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +3

      Before the trolls come brother.
      God richly bless you.

    • @JadDragon
      @JadDragon 3 місяці тому +3

      @@gi169 they need Jesus. God bless

    • @JadDragon
      @JadDragon 3 місяці тому +2

      @@HUNTSMARTFASTHARD I wonder if you'll ever stop trolling

    • @JadDragon
      @JadDragon 3 місяці тому +2

      @@gi169 it's like they camp out waiting 🤣

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@JadDragon
      This one is particularly off. Probably the meds...😂🤣😅

  • @bethsummerville341
    @bethsummerville341 2 місяці тому

    Yes, and amen! That's good teaching, preaching! Thank you!

  • @janna4994
    @janna4994 3 місяці тому +19

    Unbelievers only think some sins are wrong, so that's what the problem is. They'll agree with you that murder is wrong but that drunkenness is fun and not wrong 😒 I come from a family of heavy drinkers and drug users and I can sure feel that sword separating us.

    • @lawrenceeason8007
      @lawrenceeason8007 3 місяці тому

      No…we unbelievers don’t believe in sin

    • @festushaggen2563
      @festushaggen2563 3 місяці тому +13

      I know what you mean. Many will say, "why does God allow evil" but of course they only mean other people's evil they think is worse than their own. Their own is acceptable.

    • @lawrenceeason8007
      @lawrenceeason8007 3 місяці тому

      @@festushaggen2563 maybe some people would say that. I wouldn’t. But I would ask why does god design suffering…which would be evil

    • @Thyalwaysseek
      @Thyalwaysseek 3 місяці тому

      Right, so are you out there every day denouncing the murder of children in Gaza right now?

    • @festushaggen2563
      @festushaggen2563 3 місяці тому +12

      ​@@lawrenceeason8007 Accrording to you He couldn't have because you say He doesn't exist. You'll have to blame someone else. Can't have it both ways.

  • @jessicamdenham
    @jessicamdenham Місяць тому

    Oh wow thank you for that example you gave. It will definitely be used from now on.

  • @imthebiggesthypocriteiknow
    @imthebiggesthypocriteiknow 3 місяці тому +5

    hell isn't a place where i"m going or want to go. it's a place for anyone thats been created and doesn't want to be with GOD. I want to be with GOD and be in Heaven for eternity.

    • @thomeilearn
      @thomeilearn 3 місяці тому +1

      At the beginning, G created ppl, knowing that there will be a separation, so he created hell and evil (according to Isa).
      Hell, a place where ppl burn and scream and choke in fire for trillions of years, for they've been created exactly to oppose G in at most 40 50 years of self awareness, most of them dont even know there's a Bible. They're cursed, all the while he loves the others who are "the chosen one", aka the delusional ones who couldnt even get an objective proof about their magical bs stories.
      You all only want to judge the outgroup, and create a ground where youre superior.
      No wonder why the crusade happened. Smh

    • @thomeilearn
      @thomeilearn 3 місяці тому

      At the beginning, G created ppl, knowing that there will be a separation, so he created hell and evil (according to Isa).
      Hell, a place where ppl * for trillions of years, for they've been created exactly to oppose G in at most 40 50 years of self awareness, most of them dont even know there's a Bible. All the while he awards the others who are "the chosen one", aka the mindless robots that couldnt even get an objective proof about their magical bs stories, and live in that delusion for the same amount of time, might not even do anything but say "repent" all day long. Lol, talk about G's fairness.
      You all only want to judge the outgroup, and create a moral high ground for yourself.
      No wonder why those holy cleansing happened. Smh

    • @mattr.1887
      @mattr.1887 3 місяці тому

      Does God get to have a say-so in any of this?

    • @theeternalsbeliever1779
      @theeternalsbeliever1779 3 місяці тому

      NOBODY on this earth is going to Heaven. So says Jesus in Jhn 3:13, and quite clearly i might add.

    • @GiftofGod289
      @GiftofGod289 3 місяці тому +2

      @@theeternalsbeliever1779John 3:13 is the unremarkable statement that no one else has ever ascended to heaven and then returned, which is true.
      “No one has ever gone to heaven and returned. But the Son of Man has come down from heaven.”
      John 3:13

  • @tomm6167
    @tomm6167 Місяць тому

    Excellent and timely word from Dr. Turek!

  • @coldinwisconsin2017
    @coldinwisconsin2017 3 місяці тому +20

    HUGE LIE: Jesus loves you just the way you are.
    TRUTH: No! Jesus died for you just the way you are.

    • @007alztruli
      @007alztruli 3 місяці тому +1

      It's not clear what you mean when you say "Jesus loves you just the way you are". Are you arguing that despite the fact that we do or are doing terrible things, Jesus still loves us, or you are arguing that Jesus loves us and does not care that we do or are doing terrible things? Which is it, because they mean totally different things...

    • @kaluidika5534
      @kaluidika5534 3 місяці тому +3

      @@007alztruli he is simply saying that the idea that Jesus loves our character and personality no matter how bad we are, or that nothing we do offends him is a big lie.

    • @mattr.1887
      @mattr.1887 3 місяці тому

      How could God possibly be offended by anything? I would think God would be so far beyond the sum total of the absolute worst that the human race could do. And that's quite a bit.

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +2

      Jesus actually DOES love you the way you are...
      ...but He loves you enough not to leave you in a fallen state!

    • @007alztruli
      @007alztruli 3 місяці тому

      @@mr.dennis5503 Jesus does not love us as we are per se. He loves us despite of the way we are. If He loved how we are, there would be no need for repentance. What you said can mean the same thing as what I said, but it can also mean something totally different. I'm not sure what your meaning is but it is important you don't confuse or lead people astray with that kind of statement

  • @RedSeaConsulting
    @RedSeaConsulting 2 місяці тому

    The BEST message I have heard in a long time and so true! Why aren’t Pastors and others preaching this? I have now subscribed and will research and follow your ministry, Brother!!

  • @ifiok-dan7926
    @ifiok-dan7926 3 місяці тому +4

  • @stever3953
    @stever3953 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow this is amazing. We need more of this.

  • @joshuwaortiz
    @joshuwaortiz 3 місяці тому +3

    True Love is a structured gift from God. It takes self control like management of the predator. Love unstructured is obsession or lust. And with lust you only get the crust. 🔥🐒

  • @joannfuhrer3114
    @joannfuhrer3114 3 місяці тому

    Well spoken. Thank you.

  • @intrepidus3378
    @intrepidus3378 3 місяці тому +3

    Love does not require approval.

    • @logicalatheist1065
      @logicalatheist1065 3 місяці тому +1

      Mohammad has entered the chat...

    • @itsJPhere
      @itsJPhere 3 місяці тому

      The truth doesn't require faith.

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +1

      Perhaps, but real faith requires truth!

  • @TEMPESTsonofThunder
    @TEMPESTsonofThunder 3 місяці тому +1

    Excellent video, CrossExamined. Thanks a lot.

  • @JediObiDave
    @JediObiDave Місяць тому

    Great message. 100% truth.

  • @one_bone_4_life647
    @one_bone_4_life647 3 місяці тому +7

    Better to take the rod to your son's back then to let him fall to the destruction of his own hands. Proverbs
    A strike from a friend can be trusted. Beware kisses from the enemy

    • @lawrenceeason8007
      @lawrenceeason8007 3 місяці тому +3

      You strike your son on the back with a rod?

    • @Thyalwaysseek
      @Thyalwaysseek 3 місяці тому +1

      You think these pastors like Frank are your friend? He has a net worth of a million dollars, doesn't the Bible say you will know them by their fruit?

    • @chloemartel9927
      @chloemartel9927 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Thyalwaysseekit definitely didn't say you will know them by their bank account. You must be jealous.

    • @one_bone_4_life647
      @one_bone_4_life647 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Thyalwaysseek There is nothing wrong with a pastor having a lot of money. What fruit spoken from him here is ill? King Solomon and David were some of the riches men ever to live. King David a man after God's heart and King Solomon the wisest man ever to live both summited to the Lord. Having money doesn't make you corrupt

    • @one_bone_4_life647
      @one_bone_4_life647 3 місяці тому +1

      @@lawrenceeason8007 Argue that with Solomon and the Old Testament. Its message is that it's better to punish your son yourself then let the Lord do it instead. If that takes using an actual rod on the back then so be it

  • @fanman8102
    @fanman8102 3 місяці тому

    Thank you! We need more pastors speaking out on these matters.

  • @ryant1506
    @ryant1506 2 місяці тому +4

    Stop with the background music pls 🙏 stand on the truth of Gods word - that’s all you should need

  • @EdozieNwokafor
    @EdozieNwokafor 2 місяці тому

    More grace, Pst. Frank.

  • @andrewschuricht6748
    @andrewschuricht6748 3 місяці тому +3

    I think forcing religion on your kids is child abuse.

    • @gi169
      @gi169 3 місяці тому +3

      What is forcing religion on kids? Taking them to church, telling them about Jesus?

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +3

      @andrewschuricht6748:
      Your first mistake was beginning your comment with "I think..."

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому +3

      @HUNTSMARTFASTHARD:
      I'm far more educated than you are. My comment stands, because, as quiet as it's kept; NOBODY CARES WHAT YOU "THINK!" And that's all you have to offer: your biased, jaded opinions!

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 місяці тому

      @HUNTSMARTFASTHARD:
      Well, I should be entitled to assume that you are less educated than I am, because you began your interaction with an insult. Insults are the default response of little children and illiterate adults.
      Our society forces all manner of things on children; school, being the first one! I believe in the rights of parents to guide and instruct their children. Atheist parents have the right to bring their children up believing there's no God, but once the children reach adulthood, and they become Christians, what right do you have to protest? I mean, for crying out loud; there are people in this society who are advocating "procedures" for children who are not even cognitively developed enough to understand themselves yet! Do you believe THAT is wrong?

    • @jbean195
      @jbean195 3 місяці тому

      ​@@HUNTSMARTFASTHARDreal educated to argue against something that you believe doesn't exist.

  • @dianeantunes6845
    @dianeantunes6845 2 місяці тому

    That was awesome!!! Truth unashamed. Nice!

  • @hansdemos6510
    @hansdemos6510 3 місяці тому +4

    Sure, I am all for telling people "the truth", but that includes that you tell them that you are only giving them *_your opinion_* of what this "truth" is. Don't tell your brother he will go to hell if he marries his boyfriend; tell him that *_you believe_* he will go to hell if he marries his boyfriend. That is the real truth.

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому +1

      Well said

    • @stephenkeen6044
      @stephenkeen6044 3 місяці тому +3

      What a lovely empty platitude.
      We're not talking about sharing "your truth" or "lived experience" with a stranger here. We're also not even just talking about preventing "someone you love" from choosing a path you believe is destructive, with irreversible consequences to immediate choices. As a parent you are their guardian, and that means you have authority to make choices and enforce them if you believe it is for their ultimate benefit. That's the hard line you walk in love. If a child is running into a busy road, you don't "inform them of your opinion", you stop them, physically if necessary.

    • @christinepeterson8097
      @christinepeterson8097 3 місяці тому +6

      The truth doesn’t need to be watered down by saying “it is my opinion”. The Truth is Gods word.
      There is NO covenant with God in a marriage between same sex individuals. That is The Truth.

    • @kinggenius930
      @kinggenius930 3 місяці тому +1

      @@christinepeterson8097 "There is NO covenant with God in a marriage between same sex individuals. That is The Truth."
      Ok. Prove it.

    • @hansdemos6510
      @hansdemos6510 3 місяці тому

      ​@@stephenkeen6044 You said: _" What a lovely empty platitude."_
      Well thank you Stephen!
      You said: _" We're not talking about sharing "your truth" or "lived experience" with a stranger here."_
      Not with a stranger, but is it now suddenly OK to lie, or not be completely honest with relatives? And anyway, aren't you supposed to care just as much for strangers as for yourself and your loved ones?
      But quibbling about who you are admonishing or preaching to is beside the point I was making. I think it looks exactly like "sharing your truth". You are telling the other person, whoever that might be, your opinion about "truth", you are telling them what you *_believe_* to be true; not what is undoubtedly, verifiably, objectively and knowably for all "True" (with a capital "T").
      So sure, go ahead and give your loved one your honest opinion, but don't pretend that it is more than that.
      You said: _" We're also not even just talking about preventing "someone you love" from choosing a path you believe is destructive, with irreversible consequences to immediate choices."_
      Correction; with *_your opinion_* about irreversible consequences to immediate causes... Just be honest, please.
      You said: _"As a parent you are their guardian, and that means you have authority to make choices and enforce them if you believe it is for their ultimate benefit."_
      And as long as we are talking about little kids, that attitude may be justified. But Dr. Turek is not only talking about little kids, is he. He is also talking about teenagers and adult children, and about spouses and siblings as well. He is certainly not talking about little kids when, at the 2 minute mark, he talks about "someone you love" getting into "aberrant sexual practices".
      You said: _"That's the hard line you walk in love."_
      I agree. But that is no reason to not be honest. If you declare your own opinions, your own beliefs, to be universal truths, you are not being honest.
      You said: _"If a child is running into a busy road, you don't "inform them of your opinion", you stop them, physically if necessary."_
      Sorry, but that is not the kind of situation Dr. Turek is describing. In fact, in this analogy, the question can be raised whether there is a road at all. It seems to be your firm opin ion that there is a busy road for your kid to run into, but I can't see it. And anyway, you don't stop them with unnecessary force. You don't break their ribs to stop them from running into the road when a gentle nudge would suffice.