The Surprising Problems with Pursuing Your Passion

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  • Опубліковано 19 січ 2025

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  • @alirobe
    @alirobe Рік тому +3

    The reason that people say this is because curiosity, awe, standards, and willingness to ask for more are things that can’t be faked. Passion means you’re willing to clean the toilets at the place where your dream job is, even AFTER you’ve got the dream job. It means you’re always going to want to be involved. For fun, not money. It's not about the money. Most people, if they’re being honest, don’t cultivate passion. That's a mistake, because life without it is boring. Money will not fix the boredom. If you're faking passion for money, you're just another liar, chasing a mirage in service of your own self-image. That sort of lying creates insecurity, "impostor syndrome", and so on. If you find yourself expressing insecurity, find where you lied. Fix it. Be honest with people. Be vulnerable. If you’re claiming to be passionate but haven't acted on it, then you just have an interest, it's not yet a calling. You can cultivate it; but you must find your own reasons.
    People are different and diverse. This is not a 'structural problem that needs a structural solution', it's part of the complex tapestry of life which individuals need to navigate for themselves. There is no prescription for "success". There isn't even a definition for it. Life is a journey. Money, love, tragedy and comedy seem to come and go, of their own accord. Observe. Have fun. Try to be a good person, observe the best in others, and learn until your last day.
    Newton described his life thusly: "I do not know what I may appear to the world; but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the seashore, and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me."
    Happy, wealthy people are "wealthy" because abundance is built in to how they think. They'd be just as happy poor, and there are plenty of happy, poor, and passionate people who would be just as happy rich. So long as one gets to live on this planet, there's always a way to find something fun to do. People discuss passion because it motivates them, not money. If you ask a wealthy person what motivates them, don't expect them to give you the key to making money. While you're looking to climb a ladder to nowhere, they're looking to explore "undiscovered oceans of truth", and if you think it's not possible to incorporate that sort of exploratory nature into any job, then I'd posture the problem is a lack of imagination that cannot be rectified by any structural solution. Go look on UA-cam for 'amazing workers', and you'll see people can find art in any job. You'll also see that, if anything, dependence on wealth creates barriers to developing passion.

  • @BK-md2qw
    @BK-md2qw 2 роки тому +4

    Good points about the labor market and passion

  • @shihhann
    @shihhann Рік тому +5

    "What do I want my relationship to paid employment to be?"
    Couldn't have said it any better.

  • @somosagricultura
    @somosagricultura 2 роки тому +2

    I read So good they can't ignore you of Cal Newport and it's just about build career capital and no following your passion. I agree with all of this. Thanks for sharing.

  • @aoitetsu2947
    @aoitetsu2947 2 роки тому +5

    This is so true. I'm doing a secure job I don't have passion for to chase my own passion later because I'm not financially stable. My job is 40 hours a week but OT without pay because their KPI is ridiculously high. Crazy.

  • @mellow-jello
    @mellow-jello 2 роки тому +2

    Passion is Biz Speak, and need relativity. Realize that the Job Market does not care about your own passion, it is market driven. You do you, just take a risk, and try to make it work the best way you can.

  • @TheQuixoticRambler
    @TheQuixoticRambler Рік тому

    Nicely done! Might consider adding mention of the role of tacit knowledge to the section involving the coding aunt.

  • @nima.shokouhfar
    @nima.shokouhfar 2 роки тому +4

    Amazing content....
    I learned a lot.
    🙏

  • @florentshaw9279
    @florentshaw9279 Рік тому

    Very precise and clever. Thank you

  • @FeaRLeSSFalcy
    @FeaRLeSSFalcy 2 роки тому +5

    What if you’re not the employee. What if you’re immersed into your own business, life or career for yourself and for the good of your customers/product/ invention? Perhaps passion is not a challenge… but rather having a more balanced life… and more application of working healthy boundaries in our lives in general - whether passionate or not.
    I still love the video and the insights. Wonderful work!

  • @azhhazizah
    @azhhazizah Рік тому

    I love this so much

  • @mellow-jello
    @mellow-jello 2 роки тому +2

    If you read between the the lines, employers don't want automatons, who work with zero passion, and find excuses not to work. To avoid these, they look for passionate individuals who care for what they do, i e. have a passion for their job.

  • @forfun686
    @forfun686 2 роки тому +2

    But what s ur point tho? For me this is way far better that falling into a miserablr position of doing smth i dont love

  • @SwolHumanist
    @SwolHumanist 2 роки тому

    Excellent, the truth........

  • @iAbhijeetShukla
    @iAbhijeetShukla Рік тому +1

    Okay, do you hate your job?

  • @sf0101
    @sf0101 Рік тому +1

    Let's not forget to mention all the unnecessary abundance of "core" courses that also delay the goal and meaningful activities

  • @mellow-jello
    @mellow-jello 2 роки тому

    Caveat, Chat GPT will fundamentally compete with good white collar jobs, and confirm to labour laws before the OT violations lawsuits by overworked workers. Harp over life balance will be their ethics excuse to start the process, be warned.

  • @GabrielJustus
    @GabrielJustus Рік тому

    Giad Mia Wallace quit snorting and decided to do something with her life