At age 18 , most of the girls have just completed their intermediate. Increasing age to 21 can change people's perception towards girl's higher education.
Good parents dont force their child to marry at younger age whereas good parents want their child to be successful in his her life and then do whatever he ,she wants
Well said , living in relationship is allowed well before 18 and can have sexual relationship at 18. All the problem is with marriage but you can have N number of relationship. Again you can't change your mind but propaganda to fuel. Well said, you can't change your own mind set.
Being a girl I can say that every girl who is living in this society more or less they are facing the same problem. The pressure from parents and society to get married even before they become independent. I totally support this Bill, if it works then it's a boon for our society.
23% marriages are Child marriages. And in many other cases I have seen, marriage of a girl is fixed before 18 and done immediately after she turns 18 (or after 12th board exams)
lol do you even know whats the definition of the child? Man in Texas USA you can get married as young as 13. Its not about the age, its about whether you are ready or not. Get off the colonial mindset.
@@agarmagar3607 offcourse it's cool..with marriage comes responsibilities...I don't think anyone is mentally matured to hold that amount of responsibility at this age...
I don't understand why marriage is a big issue in our country. I am 25 and I never want to marry or have kids. Everyone have right to make their own choices
Bhai society bolegi tu chakka hai isliye shaadi nahi kiya. Trust me i have seen a bhaiya living in my apartment get criticized like this just coz he wasn't married at the age of 28. We need mentality evolution.
No matter which party you support, you have to agree that this tackles a very important issue for women in our country. At the age of 18, people can barely manage themselves. How are they supposed to provide support to a partner as well. If people marry later, they have a better understanding of themselves and the world thus are better equipped to handle the challenges of married life. And yes, as Dhruv said that this bill needs to be implemented properly on ground level, but it is undoubtedly a good starting point.
In my opinion education is very important for a girl child because few years ago a maid works in my home she was having 2 daughters they both r teen child like 15 16 years old girls but they got married in under age like 16 17 because they were not educated 😢
Those people who are saying that this law will take away the choice of women to marry at 18, are ignoring the simple reality of India where most marriages are actually "arranged marriages". So, it's not really about taking away the "choice", it's about postponing the inevitable to a later age where the women might get the chance of higher education and working towards their career. Beacuse, let's face it, we all (both men and women) will be forced to marry at some point, but at least women will now have the chance to be at a better position educationally and/or financially (those women who would have been married away at a younger age).
Iam from a village in Rajasthan, the general trend regarding marital age for men and women in my village are Females- 22/23 Males - 25/26/27 MY parents married at a very early age and when My dad was 21 yrs old he had his 1st kid , at that time my mom was 18 urs old .. I see the transformation in society in my village
I support this bill. Because I know the consequences of getting married (specially arranged aka forced) I got married just after a month I became 18. And my parents are not illiterate or backward part society both of them are well educated in fact both are working government officials. I was a topper upto 12th. I appose for the marriage for days but I can't go against them. My in-laws were educated and government servants too. After marriage I started my college bt I was unable to concentrate on studies as l will have to choose my priorities between marriage and studies. And I end up with clg drop out due to failed in exam. I got into the depression because I was constantly a bright student. I succumb to my failures due to responsibilities at very young age. My mom in law was in hospital for serious issues during my exam period and I was asked to leave exam. My in laws and my husband were not against my education bt never helped me though. As a result my dreams ended up with a 3 years depression phase. So moral of my story is that girls get quality education get a job first make ur priority first nd then Think about marriage 😢😢
As a doctor, I have seen so many girls getting married at a younger age while their still not mentally matured, they are prone to suffer postpartum blues, postpartum depression and in extreme cases postpartum psychosis. The step to increase the minimum age limit of girls to 21, would ensure to decrease problems like these.
@@Mdnazmus313 May be mai galat lagu apko...lekin mere hisab se shadi se zyada maa baap ko education pe dhyan dena chahiye kyunki shadi ke baad padhayi nahi ho pata due to post marriage responsibilities.
@@Mdnazmus313 abey bewakuf agar kisi ko shadhi liability lagti hai aur lagta hai ki vo debt trap me fas jaenge toh mat paida karo itne childrens rural areas me uneducated log 7 children karte hain fir unse child labour karate hai ya fir unki jaldi shadi karke apni responsibility ko khatam kar dete hain
This was a very good step. I fully support this. Atleast girls will be allowed to study till graduation. We should all see this in a bigger picture . This is very important for a country like India where people force their daughters to marry early.
@@jasontheconservative4056 For atheist, their bewildered thought, just can't stop atrocities on women by using all their weapons of legal stopping marriage and allow women to be sold for the night. Now doing ups and down.
@@piyusjain23 it's not about population increase, it's about sin as soon as you will marry you will not do jerk/sex without marriage etc these all things are Haram..
I as Girl ... fully support this decision of increasing 18 to 21 yrs for marriage. When a person dont even know what a marriage is and emotionally,personailty,career wise,mentally,economically not grown and ready for marriage. This ultimately will have impact great negative impact,influence,effect on society,family and individual him/her self . And We all know marriage is a legal agreement that is given to have sex,most of them dont even know what that lead to. A baby is born where the immature parents couple dont even know how to raise this newborn with no income,career will eventually may ruin and make the kids life in trouble of not getting right nutrition,education,manners,basic facilities. If it is a girl child the concequences may turn to more worse if immature couple parents listen to age old conservative thinking of "Girl child is burden" if they dont even can make their own decisions of protecting and providing their child. It mentally may lead to divirse,extramarital affairs,no stable emotional,economical and peacefull family life. What if one of the parent dies. Who gonna take care of that new born child. And this society will harrasss and hurt and make the lives of that young bride/bride groom and new born life a mess and hell. So when you look at all these. A proper education with maturity and girls knowing all the rights and required laws to protect themselves in any circumstance must be known and this decisions gives time to aquire all these. Will give oppurtunity for women to have a degree that makes her independent,confident enough to stand for herself for any injustice to her and can make her life and her husband,family and kids life more meaningfull and happy. Eventualky have a great positive impact on society and nation. I as a 21 year old young girl will whole heartedly support this decison.💥🙌😊
@Yash Hengne Then they should keep dating until they both reach the age of marriage and then get married. If their relationship can't sustain until then, it wasn't meant to be. Simple.
Bro you are illogical if any persona want sucide so they can ? Kyu ki usko wo sahi lag raha hai to 😂😂 are u kidding aur bhi crimes jisko lagta hai yeah thik hai wo kar sake bhai bole to thik se bole nhi to yeah chis me sense nhi hai
I think to complete education with a minimum degree takes 22-23 yrs for both men and women. I think it is good decision by India to make it both 21 so teens can focus more on their education and postpone marriage until minimum degree is achieved. I'm happy that India doesn't follow other countries blindly at least from recent years.
Too many broken children have been raised through broken parents. Hence its a good step to give this time for understanding yourself & your partner esp for raising a family. This is in the best interest for a stronger society at large.
As a girl I fully support this law when I came to know about this law I feel so satisfied cos I see in my surrounding there are lots of girls who are not mature in their 18 and they took wrong decision of marring wrong person and when they realise it its already too late and there no other option than regret.
Major focus should be on 'financial stability' for a girl . I still believe 21 years is less it has to be increased to 25 at that age girls can be financially independent and is capable of taking decision to marry after being financially stable. Most important thing which is necessary while taking marriage decison is 'free consent'. Marriage by force should be void . They should ban those marriages where free consent is not there be it any age . Marriage decison should be taken by those individuals and not some family members deciding for them and then forcing the person to marry. If a person is 18 years and he/she wants to marry it has to be their own choice and not by any force . Child marriages has to be completely banned because a person below 18 years of age is not capable of deciding such a big decision like marriage. Sadly in some parts of India child marriages is still followed and evn when a girls becomes 18 years of age family members tend to take decisions for their marriage . Individual choice and financial stability should be prioritised first.
True, it should have been 25 as this is still too low. Most students don't get to complete their higher education and nor get decent jobs until 25. And due to overpopulation, rather the govt should also incentivise people to opt for a single and childfree life.
I support this bill because it brings equality in marriage age of boys and girls...if a boy has a right to make his career till 21 then why not girls...why should girls marry early?
@Log To Khenge yarr I'm not talking about that ultra modern society where girls and boys are way ahead of their age and have physical relations...i'm deeply concerned for those girls who are forced to get married soon after they pass 12th grade. They never go to college and are advised to study further in their in-law's house. I don't support marriage of girls at 18.
@@aagyajain ignore the previous comment. Anytime you try to say anything positive, some people has to bring the less common negative examples to negate your logic.
it's not compulsory for women to marry at 18 , she can marry after 18 at any age if she is able to, making to 21 takes away right of women to marry between 18-21
@@syed.hidayath Marriage is not a right! No women will be harmed if they marry after they are 21. You say it's not compulsory for a woman to marry at 18. Do you think their families understand that? If the legal marriage age is increased up to 21, many women will be able to pursue higher studies after high school. And after that they can take an informed decision about marriage. Families sometimes force girls to marriage just after high school. At least this will stop.
@@ihmsfm1040 I understand what you are saying and you are absolutely right about forced marriages. But what if someone wish to marry @18 or 20 . They have to stop forced marriages by bringing easier laws by which one can easily case a file about it and then police Or Court can take action.
In India, people have a habit of violating government rules and regulations. So the government thought, if the age of marriage is fixed at 21 years, then the people will get married at the age of 18 after reducing it by 1-2 years.
Absolutely correct decision is made. Marriage comes with different kinds of responsibilities. You need certain maturity level to sustain marriage in long run.
It's actually pretty sensible that they've put the age limit to 21, so as to allow for better career, better pregnancy health, better mental preparedness, the benefits are endless, if implemented properly
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I think it is a Great decision by the Government of India. Girls from Villages will at least get the chances to improve their life and become Independent Women on their own. This will definitely help women in thier growth and help in reforming the New India🔥🔥
Already Sadi late hi ho Rahi he . Ab jisko 25 me krni he kre jisko 18-20-28 m krni he kre . Agar govt Ko girl education mulnutirion ki fikar he to kitne new college school girl k khole kitni job di .ssc ka result pending h 2019 se upper se BJP k neta hi unnaw Hathras m.rapist Ko suport krte .ye sab real issue inflation unemployment GDP se dyan hatane k tareeka he
This video is an example that Dhruv Rathee is not against any particular govt , he criticises all decisions irrespective of the time and govt , very informative and people needs to know about this
When it comes to Women empowerment BR Ambedkar plays an important role.He was a kind Feminist and drafted the Constitution with a view to free women felt in religious beliefs/rituals.Gave right to marry her choice,to divorce,to own the property,etc.
This is a very good decision for sure but sadly these laws are not being implemented properly. I know girls getting married at the age 16 and 17. Dowry is illegal as well but as a South Indian I am ashamed that it is still a very common tradition. And surprisingly the amount is just increasing!
It's not only in South. I am a Varanasi (UP) rajput family settled in Hyderabad. But still even if girl earns more than 30 LPA from well settled job, she needs to pay dowry even she wants to marry anyone. You can not even imagine how tough it is to fight against dowry when you are 30 years in Rajput family. Physical, mental and emotional torture etc.
I personally support this Bill but government should try their best to implement this properly. Like our village in many remote areas child marriage is being connected . Police also didn't try their best to prevent theses kind of activities 😥. So this act should be implemented porerly.
Everyone is talking about the legal age of marriage, what about the fulfilment of biological (sexual desire) of teenagers? In west they get it quite easily, in India they have to wait till they reach 30's. It is one of the major cause of depression in youths. I think that the law should be so that, marriage be allowed at the age of 16, but no babies till the girl is 21. Girls should be allowed to perceive their career, and every year or 2, there should be renewal of marriage till 21 yo. In this period if the girl or boy or their family want to terminate the marriage they should be able to do it easily.
I actually agree with this move cuz at 18 u maybe consider an adult but u don't have the level of maturity to deal with marriage. Moreover this will prevent girls being forcefully married against their will without taking their consent for marriage . At 21 you would have gained some level of maturity required to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage. I have 3 cousin sister and they got married when they thought it was right for them and to men they liked not cuz they were forced into it. That is the next step for rural Indian society to change for better
Nonsense logic. Any child who becomes an adult after 18 years gets the maturity to take their decision that is the reason Adult age is decided for 18 years now when any child boy less than 18 years done any rape then logic is given now children are more matured before age 18 need to get severe punishment raised a question on this logic.
@@Sanjana920 hello sis in india some parents force their children to marry below 18 or just after 12th which is totally wrong forcing someone to do something is wrong thats why it is needed in india so girls also gets time for all this stuf
This bill would also to some extend prevent forced child marriages, I am 19 and I cant even think about getting married, my parent were married at the ages of 24 and 27 in the 90s. Im glad my grandparents valued their education more
If I am given the choice to marry at the age of 20 as a female I do not believe I have the mental maturity or life experience to make an informed decision. 21 is the ideal minimum age to hold individuals accountable for a decision with serious consequences- legal and otherwise.
I personally feel govt. Restrictions were at 18 then in many places people were marrying their daughter and girls as soon as they turned 18. And so if we assume girls start their education when they turn 5 or 6 then we can see girls were getting married as soon as they pass out 12 hence that was taking toll on their education (higher studies) and everyone should have that right so it is fair and right to move that to 21 yrs so at least they can pursue and continue their graduation and try to follow their dreams rather than being just a groom and be a housemaker. On an avg girls get married at 22-24 and boys get married around 24-27 so there is nothing wrong but looks like it's a progressive steps towards women empowerment by increase their minimum marriage age to 21.
I see majority of us indians aren't mature enough till age 25. Its a good decision that a women will get some time to be mature (becoming mentaly aware) and take right decisions at such age.
Then age limit for voting should be increased too Edit: indian people make a big fuss about marriage Once in a life time blah blah blah Bro... You can marry and divorce how many times you like it's your life your choice So don't give excuses like it only happens one time voting takes 5 years.
Voting rights and marriage rights are two different things. Man has 21 year age for marriage but they can vote in just 18. Then it was not major issue so why it become major issue now.
21 is perfect. I agree with the age. But the society never understand a girl or boy's feelings. Specially those grandma's and grandpa's. They force on parents and then parents forces on their child to get married. This is wrong. Everyone have a right on theirselves. It's their choice. Why society doesn't change it's mindset. Please it's necessary to change the mindset of people. Otherwise no law can effect their mind.
Increasing marriage age will not definetly finish the child marriage issue. But it's a definetly good step. Still opposition party's only motive to oppose every bjp's move. They should appreciate if gov doning something good, and criticize bad things.
The funny thing is RSS leaders and several MPs of BJP were interviewed, Their answer was that.. " Ladkiyo ko aur time mil jayega ishq ladane ka,.." Let me tell you it's not bout govt. Or opposition. It's about mindset of uneducated mps and people of conservative societies. The legal age to marry in europe and America is 18 in most places. I don't see the problems listed in our reports in their country.The govt. Should work on societal level rather than legislative level. "Hindu Rashtra" karte rahoge toh bharat rashtra bhi nhi bachega.
In addition to this law, Indian Government must also pass a bill which requires consent of both Groom and Bride even after they attain marriageable age.
Ofcourse then it becomes forced marriage which is anyway illegal. Making another law for it wont help really but enforcing present laws properly would.
I agree but correction is they have to formulate a law against martial rape but there are loopholes in the consent thing. First it's not possible for a couple to have a record of consent before being physical everytime. Also such law can be used in inappropriate way too just to frame your partner. Hence for consent their should be a way to be found which can tackle both of these problems. I again say I strongly condemned marital rape and I believe it's equal to any other rape but marriage is something that makes justice delivering process complicated here. We have to found a solid ways. While almost every time a women is a victim but consent thing can increase the number of men victims of false accusations too. Just my perspective of the thing, sorry if I hurt anyone's sentiment.
A firm law on marriage age limit and child-marriage prohibition must be made and implemented. I've seen many cases where girls who could have done very well in their life but succumbed to the societal and family pressure. Parents should also be made aware of these things specially in rural areas. As I belong to one where not only the elders but youngsters also still have these notions if they don't get their girls married and young age they would go doing things that would defame their family respect and there is no such things for their boys. Girls should also come forth firmly to oppose these ill practices and speak up for themselves which they can do surely if backed up by a firm law and well implemented administrative set-up. I support it...
I am 19 years old my relatives used to ask my parents when will they fix my marriage..this was frustrating for me because I am studying right now... This law is a big answer to their shitty questions... Thank you govt... For this law...
@@a2fanpage985 toh roo kyu rha hai bhai tu ? Aise toh bachpan me bhi log mazak me puch lete hai isme aisa kya feel ho jata hai ? toda IQ bhi nhi hai kya ?
@@abhishekjha2442 majak nahi hai.... 16-17 k baad auntio ko ladkii k rishte k agg lggnr shuru ho jaati ha... Kro rishta kro rishta.. Bhoj kam ho jyga thoda.....
"Opposition does not mean to oppose every policy of the ruling govt. but should lend a hand to good policies." Sad reality is that Politics will always be Political be it good policies or bad policies.
Thats not bad thing,, in a democractic country talk,discussion, opposition must b alive...otherwise with power ,dictatorship will dictate over people..
@@prasenjittripura4691 Not every good decision should be criticized . China grew so much since it crushed anyone and anything that came in it's path and now is economic superpower and USA developed due to their businessmen and entrepreneurs. But here everyone is busy abusing Adani , Ambani and others since they don't support their party or leader. SO ya democracy has both pros and cons.
@@raghuveerprabhu dont go to that conclusion that muslims nly oppose it,,or nly muslims community is favour of child marrige,,, in data shows 65% of total child marrige occure in hindus...so our hindus also great contributor to it,,,,, my point is nt which religious leader is opposing,, if any bill bringing in parliament ,there should b talk,discussion, n opposition n thats how a damocratic country work
@@divyanshsingh9138 there is different between good governce n autocracy.....countries with good democractic foundation ,people have better socio economic life,in term of security, freedom, etc... In the name of superpower,,the thing is going on in china is dictatorship autocracy,, china's booming economy doesnt reflect on common chinese people,,in many social parameter china stay lower than most of democratic country..
Well, a good intiative taken by our Indian govt. to keep the same age for both women and men...I always used to think, that why age (18 yrs) less for women and why 21 yrs more age for men...But, moreover, in my opinion marriage should take place when both the partners are financially indepenedent...amd when two people are willing to do so..Basically, marriage should be a personal choice and not a compulsion...
@Filthy Uncivillised terror Republic of porkistan brother ap muslims k against me ho koi dikkat nahi but aaise faltu k pages bana kar kisi ko misguide na karo
People must marry only when they feel that are ready and comfortable to get married. It must never be forced depending on age or any other factors or family and societal pressure. Period 😎😤😤😎
Dude... That's not how things work A 10 year old child just cant say I'm prepared for marriage and let's make kids. And Government is not forcing anyone to marry at the age of 21. 21 is just the minimum age to get married, after that its dependent on u, if u r ready or not.
Yes it does..she isn't mentally and physically fit for marriage until she's 25, when body and brain have properly developed, then she's ready for marriage and economically experienced to have kids.. It's a fact.
I think the decision of increasing the age of marriage for girls is a wise one taken by govt. But here, implementation plays an important role. Also, educating people more about girls' marriage age will be a great initiative.
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Sir In my view we should have to check out reasons behind child marriage inspite of thinking about marriage age. In my view my these are the most reasons 1. Expensive marriages - In most of the states where population living under below poverty line they have two aur three children they have not much money to spend on two aur three marriages. They complete their social responsibility in one function in this function if they have two aur three children all will have to do marriage whatever age. 2. Powerfulness of social castism groups and their rules. 3. Aata Sata pratha. Effective steps to be implemented to avoid child marriage. 1. Money spending on marriages to be fixed aur reduced. 2. Group marriage functions to be organised in local areas with the help of local social activist. Thank u for giving these informative videos
few more things to add. 1) Financially empower the girl child( first through education and then jobs), once she is not dependent on someone no one will force her to do any thing
@@raghuveerprabhu Yes the one that was hanged was a brainwashed child. People at the top brainwash others to turn them into their personal soldiers, don't you know how terrorism and hate mongering works?? And coming to wife beating: he beats his wife because he knows he can beat her without any retribution. Put a fear of retribution into him, he won't hurt his wife even if you put a gun to his head
I am 17 years old and have completed 12th grade. I have a friend who is 18 years old and already married. She got married before becoming an adult. Back when we were in 6th grade, she used to tell us that she was engaged, but none of us believed her. She ended up getting married when we were in 7th grade, claiming that it was her choice. She started living in her in-law's house when we were in 10th grade. She even invited some friends, including me, to her wedding. we studied in a english medium private school
@@True_Sachin21 It was something like her it was her grandma's last wish to see all girls marry before she dies. that's why she and her three sisters were married in one go. but her sisters were at a mature age while she was not at the time of marriage But she said she was not forced into this marriage and she also likes her husband.
@@True_Sachin21 you are right. and don't worry she is really fine. I still see her whatsapp status . though she doesn't contact me anymore but this reason was not related to her marriage , it was more like I was betrayed by my two bestfriends including her.😅
@@SakshiJajoriya-bq2vr yaa ! You could feel betrayed but it's nice that you and your parents choose good education for you rather than this stupid early marriage thing. Hope you are doing well.
The end part just solved the puzzle within a sentence!! Loved it 😅👍🏻 Career first, then marriage is really a sensible decision of life! Income is important or even proper maturity is must to raise a family with own kids! That's the basic foundation of a community's growth and development. Healthy families, healthy communities 🥲✌🏻
@@ashikshaikh7861 Itna darta hai bhai ki girls ko fight mein layega.. Khud fight karke dikha de g mein dum hai toh.... Ha aur tabhi agar girls ko lana hai toh le aa..Khoon ka barsat karwadunga..Fir sorry mat bolna kuch fayeda nhi hoga.
My sister is of 31 year and doing a very good job with govt. And still don't want to marry now and want to travel and persue her dreams.....so no one in the family never pressureised her for marriage cuz its her choice to marry or not.
Being a girl in an indian society is all about getting married asap. Everytime when there is a family gathering or a function....there has been always a question 'Now, she is next in our family'!.... Dude, I am just 18!!!!!😑😑 I need to grow independent and it's my choice when to get married!!! It's girl choice when to get married....and I am really happy age changed from 18 to 21 for girls....!!! But yes....harsh reality is 'child marriage prevail in indian society'....it should declared illegal not voidable!!!!!!
My classmate get married when she was in 10th standard (14years) My theen sister marriages are child marriages. Every marriage in my village is a child marriage. It become normal in my native place no one cares about this issue , if someone tries to be against with that person will. Be humiliated by society.
3:44 My answer to owaisi's question Because in india girls arent allowed to marry in their own will . They are forcefully married . and if she even wants to get marry then she isnt allowed to do love marriage . Forced marriages are very common in india and this modi ji understands very nicely so he made such a decision and i totally support it 😆😆
@Edu Priest no but girls will be independent and tomorrow if their parents will threaten or really throw them out of the house then they will confident enough to move out of the house . They will get a job and manage to live their lives independently . And in 18 yrs they wont be able to do such things as in 21 so☺ And sorry for late reply😉😉
@@perrybutter5082 u r correct but if police system will become tight then its possible , if the system is tight and if the law is that whoever is a miscreant would be dealt strictly then no one would ever try to break it but u know our dear lovely polititians . They know nothing but corruption so this was an exception but ur statement is true . Although it will take decades but nothing changes overnight , it takes time to develop and it wont be in one day but one day it will surely be because a reformation takes time to fully execute😊
It totally depends upon one's mindset and the mindset of society that If the parents and society wants the bright future for thier upcoming generation then they will definitely follow the rule but due to lack of education There are so many child marriages which is harsh reality and our shame government as well is responsible for all this
Not about the mindset .. go to the rural areas .. people wait once there children reach 18 they will let them marry .. now all the girls get some more time for themselves and for education too.
@@agarmagar3607 Abey dating ka matlab bhi janta hain , aur tujhe lagta hain Indian marriages me pyar hota hain , here 70% couples are have an abusive relationship in which 52% are men .
*The government needs to look into increasing access to schools and colleges for girls, including their transportation to these institutes from far-flung areas.*
@@NoName-tu9zd hn bhai isko kya pta girls k lia bhoot s faisla lia jate h. bhai y mat keh goverment busy h mandir or masjid m y keh ki tu nhi nikalna chahta us cheez s bhar.
I think the govt. has done a good work . i support dhruv's opinion too i think marriages below 18 should be void not voidable. even for the boys . because at the age of 18 most kids are just developing and are completing their studies and trying to become financially independent but if they are married at this age they can't manage the amount of stress to be in a marriage , its of course teen years we grow through a lot of physical and emotional change , most of them can't cope up with that , and having kids at that age is dangerous for girl's health and hygiene and at the age of 14 you are not ready to carry a kid when you are a kid yourself
Hey dhruv...loved this video...society takes a long time to change...yes we agree and we need to look beyond thinking of women & children as sheeps & goats 🙏..thank you for the education!!!
BJP is generally accused of being a very conservative party, but BJP is the party who ended Triple Talaq, working against child marriage etc. In my opinion BJP is way more 'truly liberal' party than most of the other parties.
Voting and health related issues are different. See, it's very clear. People can vote at 18 but can legally consume alcohol after 21. So there are many internal factors related to that age limit. In the same way, if early pregnancy is harmful for women medically (as per reports) why not raise the bar for their safety? That's a good thing by govt. Comparing the same for voting rights age would not be logical.
I hope you are getting married to her.. Go talk to her parents.. Hope you are not playing only dating dating.. Its so scary that 18 yrs these days are dating already.. When i was 18 i just had finished board and excited for college year.. Tell her to focus on education and career.. Marriage is far better than these dating trap...
This law doesn't effect society I saw this type of incidents happening in my surroundings this happens due to 1) economeconomical conditions 2) boys don't find girl for marriage because they don't have properties and job that's why his parents five some money to a poor family for their girl child This is sad but true reality 😢😢😢
@@raghuveerprabhu we can't pass any law without any concerns of general public and their representatives, it's politics and governance not a comment on UA-cam to be passed carelessly
I support the bill....I have seen lots of girls who wanted to study more and live more with their parents but they got married without without their choice, my mother is one of them...
As a girl I feel it's a good idea.. It will help to empower girls education. Atleast we can complete her graduation. My family is very progressive. My family gives priority to education and career rather than marriage..
Thank you Dhruv, for highlighting this topic. Your video is excellent , as always. In my opinion, early and late marriage both have positive and negative impact from mental, physical and financial capabilities. The adoptability issues may also crop up among people marrying late in 30s and 40s, resulting in higher divorce rates. They create generation gap with their children, childlessness, declining in birth rate, abnormality in children, fertility issues etc Therefore, age may not be the only criteria to solve all problems. Lack of 'education' is the root cause of most of the problems. More than just 'age' criteria, good education plays an important role to provide support system to bride, groom and both families to make a marriage successful. I know, it's easier to say, but implementing on the ground is really challenging.
I feel bill should be passed and age should be mention 28 I feel girl and boy would be more mature and independent for marriage by health mentally and physically and can have control on child too and can be financially strong matured love without break up and good for population too❤
Fertility rate will decrease drastically as statistics suggest than when a woman crossed the age of 30.... the possibility of miscarriage increases to a certain extent.....
Indians boast about their culture and this is what they do, huh? Child Marriages? Probably oldest civilization of a reason with still stuck with an old mindset. Indians should feel grateful they got help from the west(Technology) which is slowly changing their meaningless lives...
There are lots of pregnancy complications in teen age pregnancy, what you have missed to mention. And this is one of the most important thing to increase the age of marriage.
For those saying about gap between voter age and between marriage age , just ask the girls who get married at 18 that how much are they politically aware ?
I was once 18 too, and I didn't voted for modi, everyone around me was going nuts for modi. And I was like, jisne dange Kara diye vo aacha nhi ho sakta. End of discussion. You don't have to be super intelligent for voting. Btw my parents voted for modi 😂😂.
What is your opinion?
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At age 18 , most of the girls have just completed their intermediate. Increasing age to 21 can change people's perception towards girl's higher education.
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Good parents dont force their child to marry at younger age whereas good parents want their child to be successful in his her life and then do whatever he ,she wants
@@parth8558 right
@@parth8558 right
@@parth8558 yes you are right
the hardest thing to change in this world is your own mindset...well said dhruv😊
Which means I am successful in doing worlds hardest thing
@@naman4067 yes i m also 😂😂
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Well said , living in relationship is allowed well before 18 and can have sexual relationship at 18. All the problem is with marriage but you can have N number of relationship.
Again you can't change your mind but propaganda to fuel.
Well said, you can't change your own mind set.
Indian society gives too much importance to marriage and not to a person
True 😢
marriage does deserve a lot of importance so thats fine but the person should also be willing
True
Haa toh shadi karne me galat kya hai
i totally support this bill
i am 18 and i can not even imagine marrying somebody at this age
Are padai likhai par dhiyan lagao IS YS banao aur desh ko lagao
Is umar me degree ke liye padna padta hai aur padte padte 21 year to ho hi jayenge so chill
@@_mrk347_ padhai krne kaha dete hai ladkion ko usse ptila hi shadi krwa dete h humare society m
This is BJP's propaganda nothing else they're indirectly targeting muslims 😡😡 modi fascist hindutva goon 😡😡😡
Im also 18 (male)
Being a girl I can say that every girl who is living in this society more or less they are facing the same problem. The pressure from parents and society to get married even before they become independent. I totally support this Bill, if it works then it's a boon for our society.
Boys are also forced but anyways who cares. 🙂😀
And miss what about those who wants to marry from 18yrs to 21 u must Think about them to na
@@jyotisanjeev7802 mentally grow hona bhi koi chez hoti hein kya nahi?
@@bhaumik718 par yahan toh ladkiyo ke age limit increase honi bat ho rahi hein na... bhai har chez ladka ladki nahi hoti hein
I think
This is right ☺️☺️.
Because yaar most of girl 12 ke baad tk 18 ki ho jati h☺️.
And uske baad unpar pressure bnaya jata h Saadi ke liye☺️
23% marriages are Child marriages.
And in many other cases I have seen, marriage of a girl is fixed before 18 and done immediately after she turns 18 (or after 12th board exams)
So true dude..some of my girl friends from 12th are married now and have their own childrens..
lol do you even know whats the definition of the child? Man in Texas USA you can get married as young as 13. Its not about the age, its about whether you are ready or not. Get off the colonial mindset.
@@shuaibkhan8525 are you sad because they got married early than you expected are are you sad that they got "married"😆
Yes even I saw...
@@kingsentertainment786 don't make stuff up age of consent is 18 in Texas for marriage 16-17 with parental consent
Totally support this bill. Because I've seen my talented classmates got married at an early age and suffering like hell. 😔
Hey
Mee also I have seen the same situation
That is sad how old were u?
@@DazaiBiggestfan was in 8th standard but she was a little bit older but still underage
@@jayasreedas1823 nah that's too young r u good now
I fully support this law..I'm 18 can't even imagine about getting married...
Marrying before 21 is curse,
Being GF-BF before 21 is cool...
Wahh re wahh...
Meanwhile OYO : Awo Awo Sex Karke Jao...
@@agarmagar3607are you making babies being someones BF/GF ?
Have you ever thought of pregnancy ?
@@agarmagar3607 kyu bhai upar sahi likha na 🤡
@@agarmagar3607 offcourse it's cool..with marriage comes responsibilities...I don't think anyone is mentally matured to hold that amount of responsibility at this age...
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I don't understand why marriage is a big issue in our country. I am 25 and I never want to marry or have kids. Everyone have right to make their own choices
Never want to marry lol
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Bhai society bolegi tu chakka hai isliye shaadi nahi kiya. Trust me i have seen a bhaiya living in my apartment get criticized like this just coz he wasn't married at the age of 28. We need mentality evolution.
@@bestiethegamer3867 haan to unko jo sochna hai sochne do, unki soch se ham hamare kapde na badle,tum kehte ho life ki choice hi badal de?🙄
No matter which party you support, you have to agree that this tackles a very important issue for women in our country. At the age of 18, people can barely manage themselves. How are they supposed to provide support to a partner as well. If people marry later, they have a better understanding of themselves and the world thus are better equipped to handle the challenges of married life. And yes, as Dhruv said that this bill needs to be implemented properly on ground level, but it is undoubtedly a good starting point.
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@@parth8558 paison ka Chakkar Babu bhaiya paison ka chakkar
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Agreed
@Filthy Uncivillised terror Republic of porkistan what is momin community? Like where is it found majorly?
In my opinion education is very important for a girl child because few years ago a maid works in my home she was having 2 daughters they both r teen child like 15 16 years old girls but they got married in under age like 16 17 because they were not educated 😢
Those people who are saying that this law will take away the choice of women to marry at 18, are ignoring the simple reality of India where most marriages are actually "arranged marriages".
So, it's not really about taking away the "choice", it's about postponing the inevitable to a later age where the women might get the chance of higher education and working towards their career.
Beacuse, let's face it, we all (both men and women) will be forced to marry at some point, but at least women will now have the chance to be at a better position educationally and/or financially (those women who would have been married away at a younger age).
This is BJP's propaganda nothing else they're indirectly targeting muslims 😡😡 modi fascist hindutva goon 😡😡😡
Very right comment , ignore other replies lmao
Right bro, and deaths in childbirth chances will also reduce.
@@funny__videos3428 Lol 😂 You are andhnamazi and andhvirodhi
Like seriously, just wait, mar nahi rahe hu bina shadi kare
I'm not a bjp fan but this decision by Modi govt is priceless. 🧡🧡🤍🤍💚💚
Yes ofcoure this is a very good decision taken by the government
@@parth8558 are you from Maharashtra
@@sumittt120 no i m from delhi
Pray to God that it don't end up becoming worthless, as other decisions by this government
Yes thanks
Iam from a village in Rajasthan, the general trend regarding marital age for men and women in my village are
Females- 22/23
Males - 25/26/27
MY parents married at a very early age and when My dad was 21 yrs old he had his 1st kid , at that time my mom was 18 urs old ..
I see the transformation in society in my village
My mom was only 16 when she brought me into this
My immune system suck* that's why
@@kunalraturi8260 yes it exists but mostly in villeges. Mostly poor people do this
I know a girl she's a minor may be 17.....and is married to a 23-25 year old man
@@deadinside8719 what's ur age
my dad is from rajasthan he married when he was 28 or 29 and my mom was 23 turning 24
I support this bill. Because I know the consequences of getting married (specially arranged aka forced) I got married just after a month I became 18. And my parents are not illiterate or backward part society both of them are well educated in fact both are working government officials. I was a topper upto 12th. I appose for the marriage for days but I can't go against them. My in-laws were educated and government servants too. After marriage I started my college bt I was unable to concentrate on studies as l will have to choose my priorities between marriage and studies. And I end up with clg drop out due to failed in exam. I got into the depression because I was constantly a bright student. I succumb to my failures due to responsibilities at very young age. My mom in law was in hospital for serious issues during my exam period and I was asked to leave exam. My in laws and my husband were not against my education bt never helped me though. As a result my dreams ended up with a 3 years depression phase. So moral of my story is that girls get quality education get a job first make ur priority first nd then Think about marriage 😢😢
Oooo so sad story meri rooh kaaph gaayi soch kr
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If you don't get married, what about sex?
Wtf 💀@@優さん-n7m
@@優さん-n7m you get married to have sex?
As a doctor, I have seen so many girls getting married at a younger age while their still not mentally matured, they are prone to suffer postpartum blues, postpartum depression and in extreme cases postpartum psychosis. The step to increase the minimum age limit of girls to 21, would ensure to decrease problems like these.
To sir ji iska bad chizo ko bhi batau garib admi ka modi kiya paisa dega
@@Mdnazmus313 May be mai galat lagu apko...lekin mere hisab se shadi se zyada maa baap ko education pe dhyan dena chahiye kyunki shadi ke baad padhayi nahi ho pata due to post marriage responsibilities.
@@nikhilbhatnagar3796 right. But if both the partners are financially independent, then they should be allowed to marry each other.
@@Mdnazmus313 abey bewakuf agar kisi ko shadhi liability lagti hai aur lagta hai ki vo debt trap me fas jaenge toh mat paida karo itne childrens rural areas me uneducated log 7 children karte hain fir unse child labour karate hai ya fir unki jaldi shadi karke apni responsibility ko khatam kar dete hain
@@akshat_2100 who disallowed them it's just a matter of time between 18 and 21
In rural areas Marriage age doesn't matter . There are also marriages of 16 year old girl . Even Law is there in the constitution .
Laws are nothing without Law enforcers.
This is a major difference between educated and uneducated peoples
Can you quote the Article of the Constitution which legalises child marriage in rural areas??
True i am 20 and girls younger then me are marrying in my village.
If mukhiya will try to take a stand against that, then he will loose definitely
Therefore a well educated and aware(if any) don't do anything
This was a very good step. I fully support this. Atleast girls will be allowed to study till graduation. We should all see this in a bigger picture . This is very important for a country like India where people force their daughters to marry early.
Force marriage happens in rural areas not in urban areas
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Live & let Live. 🙏🏼
@@abhishekbhardwaj5272 True bro for Muslims it should be Religious and Uneducated
For Hindus: Rural, Uneductaed
@@jasontheconservative4056
For atheist, their bewildered thought, just can't stop atrocities on women by using all their weapons of legal stopping marriage and allow women to be sold for the night. Now doing ups and down.
@@abhishekbhardwaj5272 it happens in urban area as well
This is the best bill I have ever heard of. I support this bill. I wish it would implemented very soon. Thank you for making this video.
I fully support this law for atleast 21 years for marriage.
I'm 19 years old boy and I know still I can't even manage myself.
No issues mate. Atleast you have an intellect at this age. I didn't have that much at your age. 😂😂😂😂😂 Hope you get your best in life.
Hardly I'm 21 rn and I'm more was more than ready to manage myself at 18. It's a personal thing
Everyone is nt lyk u,u must grow up
@@piyusjain23 it's not about population increase, it's about sin as soon as you will marry you will not do jerk/sex without marriage etc these all things are Haram..
@@piyusjain23 I spoke about getting married not having childern. There's a difference. People mature at different ages.
I as Girl ... fully support this decision of increasing 18 to 21 yrs for marriage.
When a person dont even know what a marriage is and emotionally,personailty,career wise,mentally,economically not grown and ready for marriage.
This ultimately will have impact great negative impact,influence,effect on society,family and individual him/her self . And We all know marriage is a legal agreement that is given to have sex,most of them dont even know what that lead to.
A baby is born where the immature parents couple dont even know how to raise this newborn with no income,career will eventually may ruin and make the kids life in trouble of not getting right nutrition,education,manners,basic facilities. If it is a girl child the concequences may turn to more worse if immature couple parents listen to age old conservative thinking of "Girl child is burden" if they dont even can make their own decisions of protecting and providing their child.
It mentally may lead to divirse,extramarital affairs,no stable emotional,economical and peacefull family life.
What if one of the parent dies. Who gonna take care of that new born child. And this society will harrasss and hurt and make the lives of that young bride/bride groom and new born life a mess and hell.
So when you look at all these. A proper education with maturity and girls knowing all the rights and required laws to protect themselves in any circumstance must be known and this decisions gives time to aquire all these.
Will give oppurtunity for women to have a degree that makes her independent,confident enough to stand for herself for any injustice to her and can make her life and her husband,family and kids life more meaningfull and happy. Eventualky have a great positive impact on society and nation.
I as a 21 year old young girl will whole heartedly support this decison.💥🙌😊
Absolutely 👌🤗
Till a right man appears before u
@@sarwatsafia8832 are you out of your mind. This is type persons are shame for our country. Girls are not sex object.
Hey are u preparing for upsc?
@@ulquiorracifer3023 Yes 😁💥.....wish me luck !!!
The right time for my daughter to get married is when she thinks it's right for her.
@chapri jignesh ok nephew
@@prajullas 😂
@@prajullas 😁
Founded comment with sense! You're right!
@Yash Hengne Then they should keep dating until they both reach the age of marriage and then get married. If their relationship can't sustain until then, it wasn't meant to be. Simple.
My opinion is that just allow everyone to be free to do and be who they want....no one has the right to control anyone
Yep you're right BUT SADLY.... this is only possible in USA not in India bro.
Yep you're right BUT SADLY.... this is only possible in USA not in India bro.
Bro you are illogical if any persona want sucide so they can ? Kyu ki usko wo sahi lag raha hai to 😂😂 are u kidding aur bhi crimes jisko lagta hai yeah thik hai wo kar sake bhai bole to thik se bole nhi to yeah chis me sense nhi hai
I think to complete education with a minimum degree takes 22-23 yrs for both men and women. I think it is good decision by India to make it both 21 so teens can focus more on their education and postpone marriage until minimum degree is achieved. I'm happy that India doesn't follow other countries blindly at least from recent years.
Then Boy & Girl Also Should NotEngage In Any Bf/Gf relationship and have to focus on their study 😂😂😂😂
@@musically_boy shut ur mouth its their choice if they want to be in a relationship then who are u tell them ??
@@parth8558 yeah
@@parth8558 yes
@@parth8558 exactly...
Too many broken children have been raised through broken parents. Hence its a good step to give this time for understanding yourself & your partner esp for raising a family. This is in the best interest for a stronger society at large.
As a girl I fully support this law when I came to know about this law I feel so satisfied cos I see in my surrounding there are lots of girls who are not mature in their 18 and they took wrong decision of marring wrong person and when they realise it its already too late and there no other option than regret.
Let them regret
Don't give a f about what happened
See what will happen and how u can help to make the future bright
Powar akanksha..bad for boys
@@durontooprotiroddho8316 is ur family forcing u? If not obviously marry whenever tf u want
This is BJP's propaganda nothing else they're indirectly targeting muslims 😡😡 modi fascist hindutva goon 😡😡😡
@@funny__videos3428 This bill includes all regions, how is it against only Muslims?
Sabse jyada jaruri hai sabki soch badlna , mahilaon ke prati.
Major focus should be on 'financial stability' for a girl . I still believe 21 years is less it has to be increased to 25 at that age girls can be financially independent and is capable of taking decision to marry after being financially stable. Most important thing which is necessary while taking marriage decison is 'free consent'. Marriage by force should be void . They should ban those marriages where free consent is not there be it any age . Marriage decison should be taken by those individuals and not some family members deciding for them and then forcing the person to marry. If a person is 18 years and he/she wants to marry it has to be their own choice and not by any force . Child marriages has to be completely banned because a person below 18 years of age is not capable of deciding such a big decision like marriage. Sadly in some parts of India child marriages is still followed and evn when a girls becomes 18 years of age family members tend to take decisions for their marriage . Individual choice and financial stability should be prioritised first.
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I agree 25 is correct age...
It should be 40 for men, i think it will be enough for becoming independent and economically stable.
True, it should have been 25 as this is still too low. Most students don't get to complete their higher education and nor get decent jobs until 25.
And due to overpopulation, rather the govt should also incentivise people to opt for a single and childfree life.
Moral: The Bill probably has good intention but with limited Implementation problems !!✅
Conclusion
I have read it many times law implementation is the most important and difficult task and it is true
@@parth8558 bro implentation ka kya matlb h kam s kam jo nhi krna chahti usko legal support to milega aur jo krna chahte h unko to koi nhi rok skta.
Below 18 ke marriages to rok nahi pate, above 21 allow karne chale
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I support this bill because it brings equality in marriage age of boys and girls...if a boy has a right to make his career till 21 then why not girls...why should girls marry early?
@Log To Khenge yarr I'm not talking about that ultra modern society where girls and boys are way ahead of their age and have physical relations...i'm deeply concerned for those girls who are forced to get married soon after they pass 12th grade. They never go to college and are advised to study further in their in-law's house. I don't support marriage of girls at 18.
@@aagyajain ignore the previous comment. Anytime you try to say anything positive, some people has to bring the less common negative examples to negate your logic.
it's not compulsory for women to marry at 18 , she can marry after 18 at any age if she is able to, making to 21 takes away right of women to marry between 18-21
@@syed.hidayath Marriage is not a right! No women will be harmed if they marry after they are 21.
You say it's not compulsory for a woman to marry at 18. Do you think their families understand that? If the legal marriage age is increased up to 21, many women will be able to pursue higher studies after high school. And after that they can take an informed decision about marriage. Families sometimes force girls to marriage just after high school. At least this will stop.
@@ihmsfm1040 I understand what you are saying and you are absolutely right about forced marriages.
But what if someone wish to marry @18 or 20 .
They have to stop forced marriages by bringing easier laws by which one can easily case a file about it and then police Or Court can take action.
In India, people have a habit of violating government rules and regulations. So the government thought, if the age of marriage is fixed at 21 years, then the people will get married at the age of 18 after reducing it by 1-2 years.
Absolutely correct decision is made. Marriage comes with different kinds of responsibilities. You need certain maturity level to sustain marriage in long run.
No need marriage in india
It's actually pretty sensible that they've put the age limit to 21, so as to allow for better career, better pregnancy health, better mental preparedness, the benefits are endless, if implemented properly
Ok if its not implemented properly by govt this law should be removed bt govt?
@@technotrack5959 No it should not, implementation kya govt karegi? hume khud apni bachiyo ko waise sikhana padega
@@shivamtamboli3747 usne kaha if implemented properly jaise ye kam janta ka nhi modi ka hain isiliye me usko aise pucha
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लेकिन वो इंसानी रूप मै आते है इसलिए वो इंसानों के जैसे होकर सब कुछ करते है।
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@@kumargupt3426 bruhh....
I think it is a Great decision by the Government of India. Girls from Villages will at least get the chances to improve their life and become Independent Women on their own. This will definitely help women in thier growth and help in reforming the New India🔥🔥
Already Sadi late hi ho Rahi he . Ab jisko 25 me krni he kre jisko 18-20-28 m krni he kre . Agar govt Ko girl education mulnutirion ki fikar he to kitne new college school girl k khole kitni job di .ssc ka result pending h 2019 se upper se BJP k neta hi unnaw Hathras m.rapist Ko suport krte .ye sab real issue inflation unemployment GDP se dyan hatane k tareeka he
New India😂
chalo sahi kutch accha bill laya
@@Aryan-sn7ew not good for boys..ldko ki automatically 24 years ho gyi
From my decision the right age of marriage of boy is 30+ and girl is 28+ ..😅
I fully support!
Right !!
I will marry a girl whose age is around 20-21
Right age fo boy to marry is never marry
Because all laws in favour of women and unrealistic expectations of girl and her parents
Can u stop spreading foolishness...if it's ur sole opinion i respect it...when will u experience love....I think 21-24 may be good
This video is an example that Dhruv Rathee is not against any particular govt , he criticises all decisions irrespective of the time and govt , very informative and people needs to know about this
But many peoples are still not going to understand this
Nah he is against conservative ideology , government doesn't matter to him!!!
@@raghuveerprabhu why do you want he talk about arab countries or pakistan .
@@raghuveerprabhu kunthit mansikta ke lagte ho har chiz me hindu muslim karna hai tum logo ko
Ye video to sahi tha
Lekin koi koi video mai to ye bhai esa brainwash karta hai ki mt hi pucho
Ex. Statue of unity
When it comes to Women empowerment BR Ambedkar plays an important role.He was a kind Feminist and drafted the Constitution with a view to free women felt in religious beliefs/rituals.Gave right to marry her choice,to divorce,to own the property,etc.
Feminism was a colonial propaganda to destroy countries and now women nature is destroyed, trying to become a man
@@web3dopamine nice buddy rights do matt aur mange to unko galat bol do
@@web3dopamine "Feminism" term is misinterpreted by most... Its not bad to be a feminist
He was not a feminist. Speaking up for women's rights don't automatically make you a feminist.
@@Volvo-f2y I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved.
Dr.B R Ambedkar
This is a very good decision for sure but sadly these laws are not being implemented properly. I know girls getting married at the age 16 and 17. Dowry is illegal as well but as a South Indian I am ashamed that it is still a very common tradition. And surprisingly the amount is just increasing!
hey girl come to Rajasthan in a Rajput family here dowry amount for your 7 generation savings
In our society there is no dwari system ( Arunachal Pradesh)
But Now Girls Take Drowary In the name of government Job or Good Job 👍👍face doesn't Matter 😒😒😒
21 Year is best age for every Girls and Boys ....
It's not only in South. I am a Varanasi (UP) rajput family settled in Hyderabad. But still even if girl earns more than 30 LPA from well settled job, she needs to pay dowry even she wants to marry anyone. You can not even imagine how tough it is to fight against dowry when you are 30 years in Rajput family. Physical, mental and emotional torture etc.
I totally support. Or mojhe to lagta hain ki 21 nahin 25 kardena sahiye .
Bf see cudai korago to shadi kau koro gi
True
Ha bhai 40+ kar de sale. 21 is good
@@themulticourse2460nhai 100+ kar do 😂😢
I personally support this Bill but government should try their best to implement this properly. Like our village in many remote areas child marriage is being connected . Police also didn't try their best to prevent theses kind of activities 😥. So this act should be implemented porerly.
Everyone is talking about the legal age of marriage, what about the fulfilment of biological (sexual desire) of teenagers?
In west they get it quite easily, in India they have to wait till they reach 30's. It is one of the major cause of depression in youths.
I think that the law should be so that, marriage be allowed at the age of 16, but no babies till the girl is 21. Girls should be allowed to perceive their career, and every year or 2, there should be renewal of marriage till 21 yo. In this period if the girl or boy or their family want to terminate the marriage they should be able to do it easily.
@@SethTheVictor bruh ! you dont have to get married to have SEX ! thoungh consent is must rest you decide
@@SethTheVictor you can live without that it's not like if you don't fullfill it you will be dead 😂
@@yakeen2run232 what kind of mentality u have !
Government kya kya karegi kuch hum logon ki bhi to jimmmedari hai ki hum ye laws ko follow kare
I actually agree with this move cuz at 18 u maybe consider an adult but u don't have the level of maturity to deal with marriage. Moreover this will prevent girls being forcefully married against their will without taking their consent for marriage . At 21 you would have gained some level of maturity required to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage. I have 3 cousin sister and they got married when they thought it was right for them and to men they liked not cuz they were forced into it. That is the next step for rural Indian society to change for better
True bro I am 18 now and I am deciding ny career rn
Nonsense logic. Any child who becomes an adult after 18 years gets the maturity to take their decision that is the reason Adult age is decided for 18 years now when any child boy less than 18 years done any rape then logic is given now children are more matured before age 18 need to get severe punishment raised a question on this logic.
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@@Sanjana920 hello sis in india some parents force their children to marry below 18 or just after 12th which is totally wrong forcing someone to do something is wrong thats why it is needed in india so girls also gets time for all this stuf
@@Sanjana920 educated fool alert!!
This bill would also to some extend prevent forced child marriages, I am 19 and I cant even think about getting married, my parent were married at the ages of 24 and 27 in the 90s. Im glad my grandparents valued their education more
Nice buddy
You,re parents shall be very proud on them
If I am given the choice to marry at the age of 20 as a female I do not believe I have the mental maturity or life experience to make an informed decision. 21 is the ideal minimum age to hold individuals accountable for a decision with serious consequences- legal and otherwise.
I personally feel govt. Restrictions were at 18 then in many places people were marrying their daughter and girls as soon as they turned 18.
And so if we assume girls start their education when they turn 5 or 6 then we can see girls were getting married as soon as they pass out 12 hence that was taking toll on their education (higher studies) and everyone should have that right so it is fair and right to move that to 21 yrs so at least they can pursue and continue their graduation and try to follow their dreams rather than being just a groom and be a housemaker.
On an avg girls get married at 22-24 and boys get married around 24-27 so there is nothing wrong but looks like it's a progressive steps towards women empowerment by increase their minimum marriage age to 21.
I see majority of us indians aren't mature enough till age 25. Its a good decision that a women will get some time to be mature (becoming mentaly aware) and take right decisions at such age.
True
Then age limit for voting should be increased too
Edit: indian people make a big fuss about marriage
Once in a life time blah blah blah
Bro... You can marry and divorce how many times you like it's your life your choice
So don't give excuses like it only happens one time voting takes 5 years.
@@kingnobie voting can be done every year but marriage happens only once a in a life
"Age doesn't shows maturity"
@@kingnobie U cant compete in election at 18 years u just have the right to vote.
Voting rights and marriage rights are two different things.
Man has 21 year age for marriage but they can vote in just 18.
Then it was not major issue so why it become major issue now.
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Excatly pls ask this question to mr owasi
Cuz marriage includes two personal life...voting??well,Indian politics is a joke
I always believed that people should have marriage rights at 18.
because at the time of boys almost whole India was uneducated 😩
21 is perfect. I agree with the age.
But the society never understand a girl or boy's feelings. Specially those grandma's and grandpa's. They force on parents and then parents forces on their child to get married. This is wrong. Everyone have a right on theirselves. It's their choice.
Why society doesn't change it's mindset. Please it's necessary to change the mindset of people. Otherwise no law can effect their mind.
Increasing marriage age will not definetly finish the child marriage issue. But it's a definetly good step.
Still opposition party's only motive to oppose every bjp's move. They should appreciate if gov doning something good, and criticize bad things.
Yes i also think the same they are just giving the bhakts excuse .
Yeah, i think the same too
@@ricksarma23 right
The funny thing is RSS leaders and several MPs of BJP were interviewed,
Their answer was that..
" Ladkiyo ko aur time mil jayega ishq ladane ka,.."
Let me tell you it's not bout govt. Or opposition. It's about mindset of uneducated mps and people of conservative societies. The legal age to marry in europe and America is 18 in most places. I don't see the problems listed in our reports in their country.The govt. Should work on societal level rather than legislative level. "Hindu Rashtra" karte rahoge toh bharat rashtra bhi nhi bachega.
@@RohitKumar-hi4qf 100 percent true statement
In addition to this law, Indian Government must also pass a bill which requires consent of both Groom and Bride even after they attain marriageable age.
bhai jinki itni jaldi shadi ho jati hein na... usme consent nam ki cheez hoti hein nhi hein
Ofcourse then it becomes forced marriage which is anyway illegal. Making another law for it wont help really but enforcing present laws properly would.
Yaa and after it gaurdian will mentally force their girl child to do so idiot 😒😒
I agree but correction is they have to formulate a law against martial rape but there are loopholes in the consent thing. First it's not possible for a couple to have a record of consent before being physical everytime. Also such law can be used in inappropriate way too just to frame your partner. Hence for consent their should be a way to be found which can tackle both of these problems. I again say I strongly condemned marital rape and I believe it's equal to any other rape but marriage is something that makes justice delivering process complicated here. We have to found a solid ways. While almost every time a women is a victim but consent thing can increase the number of men victims of false accusations too. Just my perspective of the thing, sorry if I hurt anyone's sentiment.
Absolutely right
I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved.
- Dr.B. R. Ambedkar
isne general category walon ki kitni mari hai bahut proud hota hai.
It would be best to marriage at the age of 25 both for girls and boys
I support 21 as marriage age..
18 age -- in class 12
21 age -- college competed
So education will help them..
Financial stability is the most important thing in any relation that can't be achieved by a 18-19 years old couple
Agree
Agreed but marry after age of 21 year
Unless they have inherited wealth.
You can pass 10th and work in mcdonals and have financial stability.
A firm law on marriage age limit and child-marriage prohibition must be made and implemented.
I've seen many cases where girls who could have done very well in their life but succumbed to the societal and family pressure.
Parents should also be made aware of these things specially in rural areas. As I belong to one where not only the elders but youngsters also still have these notions if they don't get their girls married and young age they would go doing things that would defame their family respect and there is no such things for their boys.
Girls should also come forth firmly to oppose these ill practices and speak up for themselves which they can do surely if backed up by a firm law and well implemented administrative set-up.
I support it...
lol
i 100℅ support ... to change the age limit
No indian youtuber could match the level of your content, keep it up Dhruv
Soch - mohak mahal... Nam tho suna hoga
@@shaileshkumar6237 nhi
@harry he is far from being a bhakt tho
@harry lol
if anyone disagree he is bhakt lol
dhruve is the most anti modi person out there
@@Anonymous-td2mr sahi bola
I am 19 years old my relatives used to ask my parents when will they fix my marriage..this was frustrating for me because I am studying right now... This law is a big answer to their shitty questions... Thank you govt... For this law...
Are mazak kar rhe honge 😂😂
@@abhishekjha2442 bhai tere liye mazak hoga par inse puchh inko kya feel hota hoga
@@a2fanpage985 toh roo kyu rha hai bhai tu ? Aise toh bachpan me bhi log mazak me puch lete hai isme aisa kya feel ho jata hai ? toda IQ bhi nhi hai kya ?
@@abhishekjha2442 sahi bol rahe ho bhai kuch log relative ki bato ko serious le lete hi
@@abhishekjha2442 majak nahi hai.... 16-17 k baad auntio ko ladkii k rishte k agg lggnr shuru ho jaati ha... Kro rishta kro rishta.. Bhoj kam ho jyga thoda.....
"Opposition does not mean to oppose every policy of the ruling govt. but should lend a hand to good policies." Sad reality is that Politics will always be Political be it good policies or bad policies.
Thats not bad thing,, in a democractic country talk,discussion, opposition must b alive...otherwise with power ,dictatorship will dictate over people..
@@raghuveerprabhu and the ruling party supports it to appease its own community,NO?
@@prasenjittripura4691 Not every good decision should be criticized . China grew so much since it crushed anyone and anything that came in it's path and now is economic superpower and USA developed due to their businessmen and entrepreneurs. But here everyone is busy abusing Adani , Ambani and others since they don't support their party or leader. SO ya democracy has both pros and cons.
@@raghuveerprabhu dont go to that conclusion that muslims nly oppose it,,or nly muslims community is favour of child marrige,,, in data shows 65% of total child marrige occure in hindus...so our hindus also great contributor to it,,,,, my point is nt which religious leader is opposing,, if any bill bringing in parliament ,there should b talk,discussion, n opposition n thats how a damocratic country work
@@divyanshsingh9138 there is different between good governce n autocracy.....countries with good democractic foundation ,people have better socio economic life,in term of security, freedom, etc... In the name of superpower,,the thing is going on in china is dictatorship autocracy,, china's booming economy doesnt reflect on common chinese people,,in many social parameter china stay lower than most of democratic country..
Yes this is right information , please continue this series🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Well, a good intiative taken by our Indian govt. to keep the same age for both women and men...I always used to think, that why age (18 yrs) less for women and why 21 yrs more age for men...But, moreover, in my opinion marriage should take place when both the partners are financially indepenedent...amd when two people are willing to do so..Basically, marriage should be a personal choice and not a compulsion...
Well said
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People must marry only when they feel that are ready and comfortable to get married. It must never be forced depending on age or any other factors or family and societal pressure. Period 😎😤😤😎
Exactly!
Age does matter
5 yr old doesnt get to choice
Dude...
That's not how things work
A 10 year old child just cant say I'm prepared for marriage and let's make kids.
And Government is not forcing anyone to marry at the age of 21.
21 is just the minimum age to get married, after that its dependent on u, if u r ready or not.
Totally agree 💯
@@saffronboy2731 child marriages r illegal but it's definitely happening in the country. So the minimum age of 21 is a great decision by the govt 😒😏😏
A person cannot decied what should he should do after 12...How can he take such a big decision of marriage🤐
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Age Doesn't matter SHE has to be
*PHYSICALLY FIT AND MENTALLY FIT* for Marriage.
Yes it does..she isn't mentally and physically fit for marriage until she's 25, when body and brain have properly developed, then she's ready for marriage and economically experienced to have kids.. It's a fact.
I think the decision of increasing the age of marriage for girls is a wise one taken by govt. But here, implementation plays an important role. Also, educating people more about girls' marriage age will be a great initiative.
This is really a very very good decision
I am really happy after this decision
Now girls can focus more on education/skill building also
Interestingly i got so many like but didn't even got a single notifications
Well im not like seeker
But its anyway feels good when we comment something and people likes it😮
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@@universeguy4771 comment
Sir In my view we should have to check out reasons behind child marriage inspite of thinking about marriage age.
In my view my these are the most reasons
1. Expensive marriages - In most of the states where population living under below poverty line they have two aur three children they have not much money to spend on two aur three marriages. They complete their social responsibility in one function in this function if they have two aur three children all will have to do marriage whatever age.
2. Powerfulness of social castism groups and their rules.
3. Aata Sata pratha.
Effective steps to be implemented to avoid child marriage.
1. Money spending on marriages to be fixed aur reduced.
2. Group marriage functions to be organised in local areas with the help of local social activist.
Thank u for giving these informative videos
few more things to add. 1) Financially empower the girl child( first through education and then jobs), once she is not dependent on someone no one will force her to do any thing
@@raghuveerprabhu Just ban on alchole is the reason for beating then must be stopped as well as find out the reasons behind alchole drinking
@@raghuveerprabhu Yes the one that was hanged was a brainwashed child. People at the top brainwash others to turn them into their personal soldiers, don't you know how terrorism and hate mongering works??
And coming to wife beating: he beats his wife because he knows he can beat her without any retribution. Put a fear of retribution into him, he won't hurt his wife even if you put a gun to his head
I am 17 years old and have completed 12th grade. I have a friend who is 18 years old and already married. She got married before becoming an adult. Back when we were in 6th grade, she used to tell us that she was engaged, but none of us believed her. She ended up getting married when we were in 7th grade, claiming that it was her choice. She started living in her in-law's house when we were in 10th grade. She even invited some friends, including me, to her wedding. we studied in a english medium private school
How can a 6th standard girl got engaged!! Really feel awful to listen this 😞
@@True_Sachin21 It was something like her it was her grandma's last wish to see all girls marry before she dies. that's why she and her three sisters were married in one go. but her sisters were at a mature age while she was not at the time of marriage But she said she was not forced into this marriage and she also likes her husband.
@@SakshiJajoriya-bq2vr it could be her choice but at the age of 14-15 , the choice can't be said as a choice. hope she is fine.
@@True_Sachin21 you are right. and don't worry she is really fine. I still see her whatsapp status . though she doesn't contact me anymore but this reason was not related to her marriage , it was more like I was betrayed by my two bestfriends including her.😅
@@SakshiJajoriya-bq2vr yaa ! You could feel betrayed but it's nice that you and your parents choose good education for you rather than this stupid early marriage thing. Hope you are doing well.
The end part just solved the puzzle within a sentence!! Loved it 😅👍🏻
Career first, then marriage is really a sensible decision of life! Income is important or even proper maturity is must to raise a family with own kids!
That's the basic foundation of a community's growth and development. Healthy families, healthy communities 🥲✌🏻
So true 😀❤️👍
Girls career is useless.
@@ft.rishav Bete kabhi mil mat jaana itna maar khilaaunga tujhe unn girls se jinhe mai jaanta hu fir tu khudki shakal nhi dekh paayega zindagi bhar...
@@ashikshaikh7861 Itna darta hai bhai ki girls ko fight mein layega.. Khud fight karke dikha de g mein dum hai toh.... Ha aur tabhi agar girls ko lana hai toh le aa..Khoon ka barsat karwadunga..Fir sorry mat bolna kuch fayeda nhi hoga.
@@ashikshaikh7861 Ha aur girls ko wahi rehna chahiye where they deserve to stay. Unlog ke marzi se kaam nhi chalega.
My sister is of 31 year and doing a very good job with govt. And still don't want to marry now and want to travel and persue her dreams.....so no one in the family never pressureised her for marriage cuz its her choice to marry or not.
Your sister is lucky though that she has such a understanding family. God bless her!
Yeah and she's having tapatap with her bf's without marrying. That's nice 🥳
@@sulemanamir5943 lol
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@@sulemanamir5943Not you thinking it's cool to sexulize a women just because she doesn't lead her life as your mentality
@@sulemanamir5943show your mother what you commented here. I am sure she will regret giving birth to an asshole like you
13:40 ive waited my whole life for this one line
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Dhruv Rathi bhai ka story samjhane ka Tarika bahut achcha lagta hai mujhe, 👏☺️
Being a girl in an indian society is all about getting married asap.
Everytime when there is a family gathering or a function....there has been always a question 'Now, she is next in our family'!....
Dude, I am just 18!!!!!😑😑
I need to grow independent and it's my choice when to get married!!!
It's girl choice when to get married....and I am really happy age changed from 18 to 21 for girls....!!!
But yes....harsh reality is 'child marriage prevail in indian society'....it should declared illegal not voidable!!!!!!
The best is 45 for boys and and 40 for girls.. Perfect.....should be implemented world wide
@@ivanrovinov it should be a choice
Only Educated and Sensible people know the value of Dhruv Rathee videos
Hats off to you Sir 🙏🙏🙏
Right sister
@@raghuveerprabhu Yes all his vedios are educational and make sense.
Damn true 💯 🔥
Yes
@@abuzaformohammedaman9205 this is what he said
You r a bhakt of dhruv rathee then lol
My classmate get married when she was in 10th standard (14years)
My theen sister marriages are child marriages.
Every marriage in my village is a child marriage.
It become normal in my native place no one cares about this issue , if someone tries to be against with that person will. Be humiliated by society.
अभि भी चलता हैं भाई तेरे गाव mai सच??😢
Meanwhile shewwag and riddhi:
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3:44 My answer to owaisi's question
Because in india girls arent allowed to marry in their own will . They are forcefully married . and if she even wants to get marry then she isnt allowed to do love marriage . Forced marriages are very common in india and this modi ji understands very nicely so he made such a decision and i totally support it 😆😆
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@Edu Priest no but girls will be independent and tomorrow if their parents will threaten or really throw them out of the house then they will confident enough to move out of the house . They will get a job and manage to live their lives independently . And in 18 yrs they wont be able to do such things as in 21 so☺
And sorry for late reply😉😉
@@akhaorinavelilal1521 yeah exactly but ppl are not going to follow it easily I think will take decades maybe
@@perrybutter5082 u r correct but if police system will become tight then its possible , if the system is tight and if the law is that whoever is a miscreant would be dealt strictly then no one would ever try to break it but u know our dear lovely polititians . They know nothing but corruption so this was an exception but ur statement is true . Although it will take decades but nothing changes overnight , it takes time to develop and it wont be in one day but one day it will surely be because a reformation takes time to fully execute😊
@@akhaorinavelilal1521 ya hoping for the good :D
It totally depends upon one's mindset and the mindset of society
that If the parents and society wants the bright future for thier upcoming generation then they will definitely follow the rule but due to lack of education There are so many child marriages which is harsh reality and our shame government as well is responsible for all this
Not about the mindset .. go to the rural areas .. people wait once there children reach 18 they will let them marry .. now all the girls get some more time for themselves and for education too.
Marrying before 21 is curse,
Being GF-BF before 21 is cool...
Wahh re wahh...
Meanwhile OYO : Awo Awo Sex Karke Jao...
@@agarmagar3607 Well marrying means completely settling down with a person while dating simply means having a relationship .
@@kunalmishra4363 vai mein to yahi janta hoon ki shadi mein pyar bhi hota hain...
Jab pyar hain to dating settings shadi ke baad...
@@agarmagar3607 Abey dating ka matlab bhi janta hain , aur tujhe lagta hain Indian marriages me pyar hota hain , here 70% couples are have an abusive relationship in which 52% are men .
*The government needs to look into increasing access to schools and colleges for girls, including their transportation to these institutes from far-flung areas.*
But sad reality is that government is busy in making temples and mosque
@@parth8558 are u sick . Gov. is doing many good things .temples are built from hindu temple fund
@@parth8558 n ur busying on utube comments.
@@NoName-tu9zd hn bhai isko kya pta girls k lia bhoot s faisla lia jate h. bhai y mat keh goverment busy h mandir or masjid m y keh ki tu nhi nikalna chahta us cheez s bhar.
@@lakshaysehrawat2919 pagal hai kya mene kab yeh acha step nhi hai pehle padhna sikh le 2 sal ke bache 😒
I think the govt. has done a good work . i support dhruv's opinion too i think marriages below 18 should be void not voidable. even for the boys . because at the age of 18 most kids are just developing and are completing their studies and trying to become financially independent but if they are married at this age they can't manage the amount of stress to be in a marriage , its of course teen years we grow through a lot of physical and emotional change , most of them can't cope up with that , and having kids at that age is dangerous for girl's health and hygiene and at the age of 14 you are not ready to carry a kid when you are a kid yourself
Hey dhruv...loved this video...society takes a long time to change...yes we agree and we need to look beyond thinking of women & children as sheeps & goats 🙏..thank you for the education!!!
BJP is generally accused of being a very conservative party, but BJP is the party who ended Triple Talaq, working against child marriage etc.
In my opinion BJP is way more 'truly liberal' party than most of the other parties.
True 👍
Well in some aspects only on the other hand they are also very conservative
Bjp has done very good things and very bad things too but tbh ground reality is different
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yes it is i completely agree but the only thing I hate is communal hate hope they have same beliefs with secularism too
Totally agree with you. This is the first decision of this govt that I support completely.
Voting and health related issues are different. See, it's very clear. People can vote at 18 but can legally consume alcohol after 21. So there are many internal factors related to that age limit. In the same way, if early pregnancy is harmful for women medically (as per reports) why not raise the bar for their safety? That's a good thing by govt. Comparing the same for voting rights age would not be logical.
My girlfriend was getting married at the age of 18. The government has taken this very good decision 🙏🙏🙏
Abe takle terepe posco lagna chahiye 😂😂
Congratulations🥳
Teri vajhse kardi Hogi takle😑
Ab aur 3 saal achche se maje lelo pura maza lena
I hope you are getting married to her.. Go talk to her parents.. Hope you are not playing only dating dating.. Its so scary that 18 yrs these days are dating already.. When i was 18 i just had finished board and excited for college year.. Tell her to focus on education and career.. Marriage is far better than these dating trap...
I think this decision is great 🙂
Yes bro this is very good decision by Indian govt.
@Vinitha Biju it matters but not in rural areas
@Vinitha Biju bhai boht matter krta hai
It will have no effect on the ground, things will go on as it is now.
@Vinitha Biju sarcasm or what ??
This law doesn't effect society I saw this type of incidents happening in my surroundings this happens due to
1) economeconomical conditions
2) boys don't find girl for marriage because they don't have properties and job that's why his parents five some money to a poor family for their girl child
This is sad but true reality 😢😢😢
@@raghuveerprabhu we can't pass any law without any concerns of general public and their representatives, it's politics and governance not a comment on UA-cam to be passed carelessly
I am 17 and I really didn't knew about this law but I am really happy
I support the bill....I have seen lots of girls who wanted to study more and live more with their parents but they got married without without their choice, my mother is one of them...
@Afroz Sheikh Tq for the compliment but I don't believe in making friends online specially with boys....No offence....
Same here 🥲
As a girl I feel it's a good idea.. It will help to empower girls education. Atleast we can complete her graduation. My family is very progressive. My family gives priority to education and career rather than marriage..
Dhruv literally explain all everything good bad behind any scheme of the govt which nobody nowadays talk about
Good work
Love from Assam
@meme bhakt lol your name should be Modi Bhakt, not meme Bhakt
@@hardikjain9913 👍👍👍
brother I like your research......
Uniform civil code should be implemented as soon as possible..
Yes
Yes
It's not beneficial
@@mahroofahmad6583 for the people like u yes na 😬😬
Mullas naraj ho jaynge 😂
Your video contains infinite amount of knowledge😍😲👍🏼
Thank you Dhruv, for highlighting this topic. Your video is excellent , as always.
In my opinion, early and late marriage both have positive and negative impact from mental, physical and financial capabilities. The adoptability issues may also crop up among people marrying late in 30s and 40s, resulting in higher divorce rates. They create generation gap with their children, childlessness, declining in birth rate, abnormality in children, fertility issues etc
Therefore, age may not be the only criteria to solve all problems. Lack of 'education' is the root cause of most of the problems. More than just 'age' criteria, good education plays an important role to provide support system to bride, groom and both families to make a marriage successful.
I know, it's easier to say, but implementing on the ground is really challenging.
Agreed. 👍
I feel bill should be passed and age should be mention 28 I feel girl and boy would be more mature and independent for marriage by health mentally and physically and can have control on child too and can be financially strong matured love without break up and good for population too❤
Fertility rate will decrease drastically as statistics suggest than when a woman crossed the age of 30.... the possibility of miscarriage increases to a certain extent.....
I think that we need a cultural change and raising the age will do it, just that it will be very slow.
Oh god what are u trying to say pls elaborate
Oh god what are u trying to say pls elaborate
Indians boast about their culture and this is what they do, huh? Child Marriages? Probably oldest civilization of a reason with still stuck with an old mindset. Indians should feel grateful they got help from the west(Technology) which is slowly changing their meaningless lives...
@@karthik_kp13 spot on
@@karthik_kp13 Why you so much care about what others do? It seems you learn all bs from the West but not liberty
There are lots of pregnancy complications in teen age pregnancy, what you have missed to mention. And this is one of the most important thing to increase the age of marriage.
For those saying about gap between voter age and between marriage age , just ask the girls who get married at 18 that how much are they politically aware ?
Yeah both guys and girls lol
I was once 18 too, and I didn't voted for modi, everyone around me was going nuts for modi. And I was like, jisne dange Kara diye vo aacha nhi ho sakta. End of discussion. You don't have to be super intelligent for voting. Btw my parents voted for modi 😂😂.
@@LYKANTHEANIMAL jisne dange kara diye bhai iss desh me kon sa aisa neta hi jisne dange na karaye ho
@@LYKANTHEANIMAL dange toh accusations hain bro. Courts ne toh clean chit di hain.
Jab khudki sarkar ban gayi to 100 khoon maf ho jate hain aur sabko clean chit milti hai. PM ban ne tak US Visa tak deny kiya tha Modi ko. Bhool gaye?