Girls, Don't Run Away to Get Married | Dr. Tanu Ma'am & Richa Anirudh's Powerful Advice

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 82

  • @prachipatel9231
    @prachipatel9231 2 дні тому +46

    1992 mai jo aapke mom dad ki soch usse bhi bekar soch hai hamare ghr ki 2024 mai ....
    They say... Shadi krani bs ... Sasural wale career ke liye mane toh thik wrna koi baat nhi.... Kitchen ke kaam aapko poore aane chahiye .... Bahar akele tum nhi ja skti even school clg ke alawa gyi bhi nhi kbhi akele ....
    But still i have decided mai krungi apne aim ko achieve i want freedom .... I will fight for my dreams untill i win😊😊

    • @hims.111
      @hims.111 День тому +4

      Tum apni freedom ko hasil kr logi 🕉️bs yaad rkhna hamesha ki kuch bhi ho jaye kuch bhi SAPNE DEKHNA KBHI MAT CHODNA LADKI🫂Be a butterfly 🦋apne cocoon se khud himmat krk bahar niklo aasaman besabri se intezar krra h ki kb tum udo aur is khubsurat duniya ko experience kro 🎉good luck 🤞

    • @lifeislearninglearningisli7929
      @lifeislearninglearningisli7929 День тому

      Bahut si ladkiyan aesa hi karti hai, pehle job aur career banane ke naam par bahar nikalti hain phir dusre mardo ke sath extramarital affairs me pad jaati hain.
      Bahut baar toh bechare husband ko pata bhi nahi chalta.
      Kai cases toh maine aese bhi sune hai jisme ladki kisi aur purush se pregnant ho gayi aur uske husband ko pata bhi nahi.
      Agar extramarital affairs ho pata chal jaaye tab bhi koi khaas problem nahi. Lekin ye jo mamla hai ki bachcha kisi aur ka hai aur purush ko pata hi nahi ye bahut hi bura hai kisi bhi purush ke sath.
      Inhi sab reasons ki wajah se purush apni wife ko job karwana pasand nahi karte.

    • @hims.111
      @hims.111 20 годин тому

      @@lifeislearninglearningisli7929 lyf ko jis nazar se dekhoge waise hi paoge, tum mat krna job , khana dusro ki kamai, aur jb dusro k liye krkr k mar jana toh sunna ki tumne kra hi kya h Mere tukdo p pal ri ho... Ek insan yha kya baat krra aur tum who ever u are apni faltu kahaniya lekr chali aayi .. tum mat krna job itta hi bura lgta h un purusho k liye toh jao bta do un pursho ko kyuki har rishte m sch janne ka haq sabka hota h aur usse bhi phle jao thoda padhai likhai kro, educate kro khud ko , yha kitti hazaro ldkiya h jo sb kuch krri h jaise tumhare ghar ki maa masi chachi toh bahar ki ladkiyo ko kuch bolne se phle example bhi dekho Jo tumhare ghar m h aur ghar m hi galat h toh shyd phle apne ghar ko aur khud ko soch ko sahi kro

  • @sapnasrivastava1111
    @sapnasrivastava1111 4 дні тому +33

    Ye baat sahi h larko/larkiyan dono ko pehle hi clear kar dena chahiye ki aap apne parents ke against nhi jaoge...varna ajkal to log 10 saal bhi kisi ke sath relationship me reh lete h sare jhuthe promises karke and last me family nhi maan rahi or caste different h ka drama karke kisi or se shadi kar lete h... pehle hi clear rakho taki insan pehle hi soch le ki relationship aage badhani h ki nhi itne saal relationship me rehne ke baad achnk se pata nhi logo ko maa baap or caste kaise dikhne lag jata h

  • @shweta8584
    @shweta8584 2 дні тому +12

    Court marriage krke jisko bhagna h ... Bhagiye But please 1year ussi city/ town me rahiye janha aapke Maa papa rhte h ...
    Taki aap bhi vo sb baate or tane face kre jo aapke jane ke baad aapki puri family face krti h
    Or han bhagne ke baad papa ko call krne ke bjaay other family members ko inform kr dena taki vo aapke papa ko preshan na kre ... Dhanywaad 🙏🙏

  • @Sumanrathode583
    @Sumanrathode583 4 дні тому +27

    Main ak ldki hu mera bs ak hi spna hai ki mujhe bs maa papa ko sb kuch khrid ke de sku aur kuch nhi❤

  • @shrsingh8848
    @shrsingh8848 2 дні тому +12

    What rubbish! When father is doctor, there is no "gareebi"

    • @Rowdylady516
      @Rowdylady516 13 годин тому

      Jinke pass paisa power hai wahi jyada struggle kiye hote h😅😅😅😅😅

  • @prajaktajoshi4794
    @prajaktajoshi4794 2 дні тому +24

    Bohot asan hota hai ye sab kehna jab aapke parents thoda samjhane se maan jate hai... Jab koi thrill nahi hota.. same economic background ho to bohot easily parents maan jate hai... Lekin ye gyan tab do tab aap kiso aise ladke se shadi karna chaho jo itna ameer nahi hai... Tab aap ke maa baap kya bolte hai.... Aur 25 saal unhone paala ye to kitni faltu baat hai... Bacche to nahi ate maa baap ke paas hame paida karo... Upkar kyo jatate hai... Aur aap jaise log ye sab promote bhi karte hai... Maa baap bhagwan hote hai to itna darte ku hai samaj se ye bhi batao

    • @Solo_soul100
      @Solo_soul100 2 дні тому +7

      Right bro
      In logo ki family maan gyi aur achhe background se h toh gyan de rhi h
      What if parents nhi maan rhe irrelevant base pe like caste, income etc wo conservative h toh unke liye apni zindgi barbaad krle insaan ?
      Aur kr v li kisi se arrange marriage
      Toh kon hoga responsible us galat shaadi ke liye bcz that would be like buying a lottery ticket

  • @harishann.9164
    @harishann.9164 6 днів тому +32

    U should tell to boys also.. doesn't boys have the parents?being officers be equal in gender... don't do stereotypes

    • @Ms_PrattleSpiro
      @Ms_PrattleSpiro 2 дні тому +4

      Dear bo keh rhi hn k bo shadi jrur krengi lekin bhag ke or ma baap ko bejjti krke nhii , that means boys should make effort k bo mnaye family ko ldki ki afterall grl jaati h ldke k ghr naaaaki ldkaaaa ldki k ghr jata hhhh

  • @Indian-vi7jm
    @Indian-vi7jm День тому +4

    2:43 लड़किया खुद तो नही भागती है 😊

  • @QuEsTiOn_is_our_life321
    @QuEsTiOn_is_our_life321 День тому +1

    Very nice and fruitful conversation...we want full video of ma'am ❤❤😊

  • @zahidAli-wo5jw
    @zahidAli-wo5jw 2 дні тому +17

    Kisi exam ko crack karne se ye proof nhi hota ki aapko duniya ke sabhi topics/issues par sahi knowledge hai, Sab ki situation same nhi hoti.
    Aur hame kaise pta ki aap personal life me bhi successful hai, Ab camera ke samne koii batayga thodi na ki meri family life kaisi chal rhi hai.
    Ultimate goal toh achchi aur peaceful life jeene ka hai, na ki mene shadi kaise kari ye batana, kisi ki arrange marriage achchi chalti hai toh kisi ki love marriage aur koi bina shaadi ke bhi khush rhta hai, aur galat decision se aapki life kharab hogi na ki parents ki.
    Aur itna padhne likhne ke baad bhi aap kisi issue ko society ke nazariye se dekhti ho toh phir kya phayada.
    Aur tanu mam, kisi ideal interview/podcast me guest se counter questions kiye jate hai na ki unki har baat me ha me ha milakar hansi- tahake lagaye jate hai. Uske liye toh Ranveer allahabadiya hi kaphi hai.

  • @friendsforever6422
    @friendsforever6422 2 дні тому +2

    Aapne jo kha vo sab sahi hai but thinking change hui hai bde shero me hui hai chote gavo me aaj bhi esa hi hal yha aaj bhi hr choti choti chizo ke liye rona hi pdta

  • @meenakshijaiswal0117
    @meenakshijaiswal0117 2 дні тому +5

    I don't totally agree with Richa mam...what about when a boy will accept the package ....girl should also accept the package of a boy.....ki jaise ladki apne parents ko priority degi..unka dhyaan rakhegi....shadi k baad bhi ..
    To ladka ki bhi priority apni maa ki hogi...fir ladki ye na kahe .ladka badal gya shaadi k baad pehle bada pyaar jatata tha .ab to maa maa maa karta hai..mere upar to dhyaan hi nhi deta...
    Things should be accepted from both the side

  • @Khushivibeswithkhushicorner
    @Khushivibeswithkhushicorner 14 годин тому +3

    Inke papa doctor h or inki Nani principal fir bhi apni beti ko or apni patni ko itna suffer krne diye ki unko tiffin survice or tuition padhna pda ??

  • @naturelovebeauty
    @naturelovebeauty 5 днів тому +56

    I m in job since 2020. To whom i wanna marry is in same job. Still family is not agree for marriage because of caste. Then what is the solution? Our age is also running.

    • @crazyman-mq3ru
      @crazyman-mq3ru 5 днів тому +2

      Listen to parents

    • @Neelamsharma-hi6jq
      @Neelamsharma-hi6jq 5 днів тому +22

      Try to convince your parents I'm also same situations but finally after a long time my family agreed so don't lose hope

    • @naturelovebeauty
      @naturelovebeauty 5 днів тому +31

      @@Neelamsharma-hi6jq tried..they don't agree. They say ap log court mrg kar le hme koi problem nhi h but we r not going to accept. Because we have to look at society. In other caste they are not ready to meet. But wait is the only option but how long we have already crossed 30. In this vedio they suggest na k bina parents ki rajamandi k mat kro independent bno. Already independent getting a good salary. Then is there any solution? Kher vedio me Gyan Dena asan hona h 😊

    • @divyanigam1869
      @divyanigam1869 5 днів тому +18

      Same situation baache hi hr baar smjhe aisa hi kyu parents kyu nhi smjh skte aur agar sb thkh hai to caste ki wjh se hi kyu humesa natak caste ye sb to humne hi banaya hai bt caste caste aur society ke naam pe hume kitna kuch bolte hain kyu samaj baache se bada hai kya😢​@@naturelovebeauty

    • @ItsAsthaYadav
      @ItsAsthaYadav 5 днів тому +6

      ​@@naturelovebeauty True! Just listen to your heart❤💯...aur family ka kya hi kaha jaye...abhi isme unki marji nhi h...aur unki arrenge karayi hui shaadi me aapki marji nahi rahegi...tb uss time parents jarur khush ho jayenge!! ...Khud pe aur apne partner pr bharosa rakho❤...God bless both of you✨💝

  • @Nishita-g4f
    @Nishita-g4f 5 днів тому +2

    Nice❤

  • @SRI_SAI_DURGA_PICKLES_VLOG
    @SRI_SAI_DURGA_PICKLES_VLOG 7 днів тому +3

    South Indian ❤❤❤

  • @alliswell5651
    @alliswell5651 2 дні тому +6

    If parents are not agreed with caste issue what to do mam?

    • @umrashah6200
      @umrashah6200 2 дні тому +9

      Don't get marry to anyone then... parents would definitely accept it after that😅

    • @Richa1410
      @Richa1410 День тому

      Accept their decision.

    • @doctorsholic4225
      @doctorsholic4225 День тому +3

      Just do seva ap ur parents but dont msrry to anyone ....this is for both partner

    • @VishnuNkant
      @VishnuNkant 23 години тому

      Ma'am ko kuchh nahi pata dude

  • @user-kq8jq3vh4l
    @user-kq8jq3vh4l 17 годин тому

    Aapki mom ki baat zabrdast h
    Kash Sare log yahi bole

  • @SRI_SAI_DURGA_PICKLES_VLOG
    @SRI_SAI_DURGA_PICKLES_VLOG 7 днів тому

    Pickles available madam

  • @alkayadav1052
    @alkayadav1052 2 дні тому

    Nice line ❤

  • @nikitakhupse-ro6vb
    @nikitakhupse-ro6vb 8 днів тому

    😊😊

  • @nithil25
    @nithil25 8 днів тому +3

    Change your teachings. Live for world.

  • @chetanyadav5293
    @chetanyadav5293 20 годин тому +2

    Madam aapne dhratal nhi dekha ladkiyon ki padhai chhudakar Saadi kar di jati hai unki .unki marji ke khilaaf .Jo bachche bheekh mangte hai maa baap unke bhi hote hai.jruri nhi maa baap h to shi hi honge

  • @Solo_soul100
    @Solo_soul100 2 дні тому +3

    Aap galat chije promote kar rhi h😊

  • @krishna.sakhi-lm9xl
    @krishna.sakhi-lm9xl 3 дні тому +5

    Agar kisi ke parants nhi mane kisi sahi insaan ke liye bo bhi ego or caste samaj to kya kare insaan😂

    • @up_yashi
      @up_yashi 2 дні тому +6

      Mnao ldo jhgdo koshish kro but don't leave your love ... Zindgi bhr ka regret 😊 good luck

    • @Solo_soul100
      @Solo_soul100 2 дні тому +2

      Dont follow her useless gyan bro

    • @Richa1410
      @Richa1410 День тому

      Parents ki baat man lo

  • @ruprekhayadav5536
    @ruprekhayadav5536 14 годин тому

    Sare parents se request h ya hon vale parents dowry (Dahej)ke liye mat sochiye beti ko achhi discipline ke sath education dijiye health ko v bete ke tarah nutrition dijiye vo badi hoke khud independent hoke apne liye achhe bridegroom choose kr legi with family understand ❤❤

  • @Brijendrafb
    @Brijendrafb 19 хвилин тому

    Call me sterotype but "Mangh me sindhoor kaha hai"?

  • @decembersunita
    @decembersunita 11 годин тому +3

    Aise bol rahi hain jese ladki hi bhagti hai😂😂😂 bhagane wala to ladka hota hai. Agar ladka bhagane ko raazi na ho to ladki kese bhagegi?? Thoda dimag to use kr lo madam. Sab dosh ladkiyon ko dena thik nahi hai. Aur arranged marriage karne wali ladkiya koi teer nahi maar le rahi hain na unko koi medal mil raha din raat sabki gaaliya taane sun kr. Me to kahti hu jo chahe wo karo bs apne ko financially strong banao. Financially independent ladki ladke se koi panga nahi leta. Sab aage pichhe ghumte hain. Bas apni study se apni career se samjota mt karna. Ladka chhor do shadi chhor do lekin independence kabhi bhi nahi kisi ke liye nahi. Hamesha khush rahogi/rahoge. Pese se khushi kharidi ja sakti hai. Reality ko samjho. Apna khyal rakho baaki log apna khyal rakh lenge 😊

  • @meenadhurve9774
    @meenadhurve9774 17 годин тому

    N sbke parents aapke jese h n sb bache aapke jese

  • @Richa1410
    @Richa1410 День тому

    Is generation ka kuch nahi ho sakta, yeh apne ma baap ko ek second me chhod sakte hain apne love ke liye, jeevan me kabhi sacrifice kiya nahi hai inhone. Woh alag baat hai ki jiske saath kasame wade khate hain wahin inko dhokha de de tab akal aati hai.

  • @sejalraj2863
    @sejalraj2863 4 дні тому

    18 saal me hi affair😢

  • @Aspire_Wings
    @Aspire_Wings День тому

    Sabse dumbest idea hota hai ye. Cause jinko shadi krni hai sath rehna hai wo to puri zindagi rahenge. To do pal k liye bhag k ladki apna standard to low krhi deti hai aur sath hi sath us ladke ko v coward dikhaya jata hai. Moreover ladke ka parivar villian dikhta hai society k samne cause waise v ladki rehti to ladke walo k sath hi hai.

  • @pratikshajogdand5557
    @pratikshajogdand5557 17 годин тому

    Lucky to have such family ❣️❣️🥲