Chinese Podcast #12: What do the Chinese Women Think of Chinese Men?中国女人如何看待中国男人？

In this video, three of us will talk about what do the Chinese women think of Chinese men. It's also a perfect material to learn Chinese as well as practice Chinese listening.
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[@OlmoLungring]

Thank you again, especially for the great hard work of providing Chinese subtitles! 🙏

[@dashumandarin]

Thank you for the support!!

[@RichardChineseLanguage]

谢谢Poona老师光临大叔中文，跟我们一起分享两性关系的话题，
各位同学有什么想法，也欢迎留言给我们！

[@christina_dafei]

我同意理查老师的观点。冷暴力是懦弱的行为。当然，忽视问题直到它消失会更容易，但这对对方是非常伤人的。我仍然和那些对我诚实的前男友做朋友，但不是和那些对我不尊重，让我质疑一切的男生。

[@Chineseforall]

理查老师没说出来的瓜我也想听😄送礼确实差距挺大，欧洲这边更注重心意和创意，国内觉得自己做的送不出手，还是要投其所好。

[@GuyinZhongguo]

哇，这条视频真有意思，我特别喜欢听中国人对我们老外的意见!

[@RichardChineseLanguage]

欢迎你常来大叔中文逛逛

[@DanielLeoSimpson]

Way to go guys! I always enjoy your show… your guest, Teacher Poona, was wonderful 😊

[@RichardChineseLanguage]

Daniel, you really love us...

[@dashumandarin]

谢谢Daniel的大力支持！

[@ugy_pattarawadee]

这一期的视频格外有趣 😂 四位老师说得很好 不过我听说中国男朋友确实不经常说:"我爱你"，有时会以为他们是不是在用冷暴力呢 🤣

[@midinette]

Your work is Amazing ! Thank you for this great content !!

[@dashumandarin]

thank you so much!

[@coolco1619]

Even to say "I like you" would be a major consideration to Chinese men and a big deal to Chinese women. So to say "I love you" would definitely lead to marriage! This is the different between East and West.

[@user-if8hp4mp9u]

我 对 你们 的 对话 很 高兴趣

[@MariusJovaisaChannel]

I just recently discovered your channel and started watching/listening every day. Thanks for great product, please continue! Can I ask how you make such detailed word-by-word captions? Is there some automated software solution or someone is meticulously typing it by hand? Thanks once again! Marius Jovaisa from Vilnius, Lithuania

[@dashumandarin]

很高兴你喜欢我们的节目😄有自动生成的字幕，不过还是得一个句子一个句子去校正，确保每个字都是对的。

[@MariusJovaisaChannel]

@@dashumandarin 谢谢你这么快的回答:)

[@acquiremandarin]

一直在旅行，终于有时间看这个视频啦！和三位大叔聊得很开心🥳

[@dashumandarin]

原来摩洛哥的视频是真的，不是以前的存货！

[@acquiremandarin]

@@dashumandarin 哈哈哈 虽然我经常搞存货 但这次是真的 那天我们聊完我们就飞来摩洛哥了

[@chrystels.1]

对我们来自西方女生来说，我们比较喜欢短痛的分手，想知道到底为什么男朋友不喜欢我们了。这样子比较容易翻页。我们不喜欢浪费时间，因为我们有期限😂，男生没有过期😊。虽然可能某个人没有想养孩子的打算，但是还是现实这样。

[@dashumandarin]

是的，长痛不如短痛。拖着真的很不好。

[@ChinesewithLydia]

“我只是犯了每个男人都会犯的错。”😓😓😓

[@dashumandarin]

😓

[@achaaa4322]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@yannie1012]

這集好多瓜吃🤭 我喜歡有心意的禮物，買也好可是一定要據對方喜歡的挑又實用的！特別日子好重要的，但我又不會期待每次都收貴重的禮物，做點氣氛煮或吃點特別的就可以了。 原來大叔們各有千秋，有冷酷的也有麻糬系。中國的我愛你耐用是因為希罕嗎 😂 我發現好多中國男生都沒太多自顧能力，都喜歡找媽的代替品煮飯洗衣服。。 沒婚的曖昧也很正常，可太多有伴侶結了婚的都隱瞞還遇過要求交往的😢 我不明白，沒一起時對方都這樣找其他的，那跟你一起同時也可能會找別人。你們接受得了嗎？這些動作很會露出一個人的本性，我一定不可以接受的！分開只是因為合不來，不喜歡，不可能因為遇見另外的才放氣。另結新歡的只是不懂自己，選錯人那怎肯定下一個是對呢？長痛不如短痛吧，不要浪費雙方時間。😂 璨叔很幸運，璨嫂原意抱著希望等你；不是每個女生都會的哦！ 身不合就訓練吧🤣

[@EazyMandarin]

😄确实是呢。不过，两个人要长长久久，也确实需要磨合。

[@isnisse3896]

Why is your channel called Dashu, if "Shushu" also means uncle, what difference does the words have? :)

[@RichardChineseLanguage]

Shushu can be a young uncle; but Dashu is a middle(or old)-aged uncle

[@acquiremandarin]

我的音频质量需要提高下，麦克风哪家好？

[@dashumandarin]

估计得ben叔那种麦克风才会比较好。

[@umutyldz6107]

提起男女关系让我想起了初恋的女孩 哎哎该怎么办 哈哈开玩笑了

[@dashumandarin]

那是好的回忆，还是不好的回忆？

[@yazhen8655]

😆😁😄😁😆😁😄😁😆😁😄

[@dashumandarin]

亚振总是前排观看 哈哈！

[@yazhen8655]

很棒的视频一定要前排观看 😁
感谢三位大叔一位大姐的分享，你们很棒！！

[@RichardChineseLanguage]

🤣😆

[@yazhen8655]

✨️✨️👍😁

[@kingslee1954]

The title of this video is very misleading.. The opinion of 1 Chinese woman definitely does not represent the thoughts of all Chinese women..

[@musaad9326]

暧昧vague 吧

[@dashumandarin]

应该可以这样说。但是又好像不能完全表达那个意思。