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  • @dmecca9283
    @dmecca9283 Рік тому +355

    Don't worry Munari, the time will come when MJ and Daiya will come to you willingly, without court procedures. You're a good father who loves his sons and it resonates whenever you guys are together. As long as you keep the lines of communication open, the bond can never be broken. Stay up!🙏🏾👍🏽

    • @HeartLatic
      @HeartLatic Рік тому +10

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +24

      Thank you, I really hope it's will work out that way

    • @aestheticsbyjasmine940
      @aestheticsbyjasmine940 Рік тому +18

      @@TokyoMeetsBrooklyn it will 1000% because you’ve been a great father to them and consistent those boys adore you

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 Рік тому +6

      @@aestheticsbyjasmine940 yes they adore him

    • @jeaninekeepitmoving8987
      @jeaninekeepitmoving8987 Рік тому +2

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @deborahcopeland4922
    @deborahcopeland4922 Рік тому +210

    You are an amazing father!!!! I am a 59 year old woman and I raised my kids solo (and I never had a child out of wedlock) because their father abandoned them. It amazes me how women use the children to hurt the man when they are in actuality hurting the child. Keep your head up, God sees all!

    • @sweetsensation8500
      @sweetsensation8500 Рік тому +10

      You are SOOOO right. I been in that situation. Well spoken!!💯💯💯💕💕💕😇🙏

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +8

      Thank you very much! Appreciate this. Hats off to you! Couldn't imagine that was easy!

    • @AngelinaK604
      @AngelinaK604 Рік тому +10

      We don't know both sides of this story. So, please don't villainize their mom. 🙏

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova Рік тому +7

      @@AngelinaK604 she said nothing bad about the mom smh

    • @silvertrees6326
      @silvertrees6326 Рік тому

      You know? You make a point, it’s hard to understand.

  • @kharimasnow
    @kharimasnow Рік тому +119

    Thank you so much for your honesty, & putting yourself out there at your most vulnerable. There is no such thing as a perfect parent, it’s the hardest job in the world. You’re a great dad, things will get better. Keep your head up & know that your fans love you & your family & are praying & cheering you on. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @dawnbell6137
    @dawnbell6137 Рік тому +39

    Don’t feel that way. The times that you’ve spent with them from birth to teenagers. They know. The videos show you showed them a lot and you did fun things with them and parenting things with them. Sometimes I wish I could go back with raising my daughter but you know, I did a pretty good dam job. Your kids love you. ♥️

  • @dianagittens5899
    @dianagittens5899 Рік тому +49

    I’m praying that you get to all be together really soon. It’s very clear that you’ve all your boys and enjoy spending time with them. Trust that God is working in your favor to reunite you and the older boys. Stay encouraged and continue to work on yourself. Peace ✌️ Love ❤️

  • @bossforlife08
    @bossforlife08 Рік тому +50

    You are a real good father! Your Channel literally helped me smile while I was in the hospital fighting for my life because of a stroke. I’m praying for your situation and your family. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +4

      Wow I hope you are feeling better now! Take care of yourself!

  • @iriswhite1220
    @iriswhite1220 Рік тому +57

    Stay positive, don't give up. I grew up in a single parent household. My bio dad never, never made the slightest effort to see me or to provide any financial support. He chose not to be in my life and I accepted that. It wasn't until I was an adult that I got a phone call from him and later found out that one of his relatives heavily encouraged him to do so. He is and continues to be a non-factor in my life. I was blessed to have a grandfather who was like a father to me and loved and cared for me like I was a daughter. Continue as much as possible to make sure they know this is not the choice you've made and you're fighting to have them in your life. At least knowing that you have fought to keep physical contact and communication with them will make them understand you are not the one choosing to stay out of their lives. Stay strong, keep the faith.

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +4

      Thank you for sharing this. Your grandfather sounds like a great man. I don’t plan on giving up!

  • @myawhidden1330
    @myawhidden1330 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up. I think you’re an amazing father and it’s obvious you would do anything for your family. Praying for you.

  • @gailxavier8489
    @gailxavier8489 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing the struggles. The boys know that you love them and your ongoing fight is a testament to that. Will be keeping TMB Family in my prayers. Much Love

  • @Kitana1599
    @Kitana1599 Рік тому +3

    You're probably one of the kose honest Vloggers. Being a parent is a challenge I have two of my own and know. I hope everything works out for you and thr kids, they know that you loave them. We can only do thr nest we can as parents, proud of you for taking up some counselling to learn more about parenting, thats awesome. Stay safe Munari

  • @user-mt1yd5op9x
    @user-mt1yd5op9x Рік тому +3

    Your vlogs during quarantine were THE BEST! The whole family together (MJ, Daiya, Kai, Ashani, Munari) it was just the BEST TIMES❤️❤️

  • @ivyd5485
    @ivyd5485 Рік тому +6

    My goodness I really feel your heart in this vid. Personally, I've always admired your relationship with your sons and how present you are when you are with them. Man, my heart goes out to you Munari because parenting is so hard and it's even harder when your kids are not allowed to be with you the way you want. Let me say this and others have probably already said it - I haven't read the comments yet: your boys know you love them. They also know you're not perfect and that you're trying hard to be the best dad you can be even when circumstances are difficult. There's no way they don't know that - any stranger can see it. What I wish is for every little boy to have a dad like you. One who is able to think deeply about the lessons he wants to teach his sons. Mom's can't do that no matter what they say. You will have time to teach your sons to become men. Real men. They are going to seek you out on their own. Custody limitations will not last forever. You're their dad. Nothing will ever change that and they will want to know you and be close to you. For now, just pray that what you have taught them is going to hold them down. We all worry about the influences of others around our children, but they have your imprint on them. All children wander a bit, but the Bible says that we're to raise them up in the way they are to go and when they are older they will not wander far from what you've taught them. God bless you. Stay Strong brotha.

  • @Flaco27Tilly
    @Flaco27Tilly Рік тому +42

    Munari, my children's father passed way when he was 27. At the time my daughter was 5 years old and my son was 2 years old. He died from drugs. He was a jockey and one morning was working out a horse at the race track. His heart stopped while he was on the horse. I had kicked him out of the house 6 months prior to his death due to his drug use. I couldn't allow him to put our children through that. He knew how sick he was but didn't want help to get clean. Till this day I can never understand how he could choose drugs over his children. He never was able to get to the point to know he wanted to be a better person and be a better father. My children are grown now but they always wonder why their father didn't try harder to be a better person and try to be a better father. You sir are a great father. No one is perfect and we can only try to learn from our mistakes and do better..be better. I see and feel the love you have for your children. Trust me they know how much you love them. They see you trying. They are truly lucky to have you as a father. I have no doubt that things will work out for the best...for everyone. God bless you and your beautiful family.🙏❤️

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +15

      This was powerful massage for me. A lot people can learn from you experience.
      Thank you For sharing your story🙏
      I will never give up on my sons

  • @tdo2444
    @tdo2444 Рік тому +9

    父として、漢として
    色々な気持ち
    自分も苦労している最中なので
    共感して見てます。
    子供は宝ですよね😊
    応援しています、Big up🔥🔥🔥

  • @shirleybanks6582
    @shirleybanks6582 Рік тому +4

    Munari, I can see how this has been impacting you . You’re an AMAZING father , one of a kind ... the boys are growing up and soon won’t need a court order for visitation ❤️❤️❤️ Stay strong 🙏🏽

  • @DefJap411
    @DefJap411 Рік тому +2

    息子への気持ち、何がしてあげらるかとか無償の愛、すごく共感します!
    無也さんもチャンネルも日本から応援しております😊
    皆様、健康に安全に日々を幸せにお過ごし下さい🙇‍♂️

  • @wandacole7182
    @wandacole7182 3 місяці тому +3

    Hang in there because you are a wonderful father 😊

  • @hamahermit1917
    @hamahermit1917 Рік тому +34

    50歳前のただの日本人の中年オヤジなんですが、いつも楽しく観てます。15歳ぐらいまで東海岸で過ごしたのと、多少音楽やってたのもあって勝手に親近感を持って観てます。自分が住んでた当時から現地校では離婚家庭が多くて、どっちの親と住むか急に変わることになって転校することになったり、親の再婚相手と折り合いが悪くてハラスメントに遇ったり、離婚した親同士の悪口が子供に向かってたりというのはありました。みんなあまり直接口にしなかったですが、そういう苦労が見え隠れするときがありましたし、悩んでた友達も結構いました。でも、お子さんを思う気持ちは本人たちにも伝わってると思いますし、応援してます!

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +2

      ありがとうございます。伝わってることを願います🙏

  • @chancellors2009
    @chancellors2009 Рік тому +3

    This brought tears to my eyes. Be encouraged that everything will work out for the best for your family. Communicate, communicate and communicate.

  • @sheilaingram4266
    @sheilaingram4266 Рік тому +10

    I feel that you are an amazing father. It is sad that the kids have to suffer. They need you in there lives so be encouraged and know that everything will work out for the good of your family. Don’t feel guilty or doubt your ability to be a great father. I believe in you. Fight on

  • @ericac8416
    @ericac8416 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your honesty and for sharing something so dear to your heart Munari. You and Ashani have a beautiful family and you are a great father to your kids. Your goodness is not unnoticeable and I am positive that MJ and Daiya know how much you love them. Keep being your best self and everything will fall into place the way it should. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @roslynbarnett5416
    @roslynbarnett5416 Рік тому +3

    This was a very sincere and heartfelt. You are working hard trying to the best father possible. Just keep working to bring the family back together again. You have always tried to bring all the boys together. I pray that you will get to spend more time with your boys.

  • @ariajazz399
    @ariajazz399 Рік тому +3

    I wish you guys the best! Praying that you all get to spend time together as a family again. Thank you for sharing.

  • @kirstensocialbutterfly6025
    @kirstensocialbutterfly6025 Рік тому +31

    Im glad you're keeping it real with us. Every 🎥 with your oldest sons. We can see the love & pride that you have for them. Always hold your head up high. Because no parent is perfect. We do the best that we can. Your sons know that you love them.

  • @keisha8685
    @keisha8685 Рік тому +30

    Munari I appreciate you sharing this about your life because I know you don’t owe us any explanation. I hope that things get better for you and your sons soon. Never give up on obtaining a better relationship/ situation for you and your boys. No matter what I hope they see your efforts and know that their Dad is trying.

  • @gabrielle8571
    @gabrielle8571 Рік тому +68

    Dear Manari,
    Thank you for being transparent about your process of growing into a father. You are honest about your past perspective and it is evident that your love for your children has outweighed any past mistakes you may have made. Before you even opened your mouth, I could see the love in your eyes for your boys (in this video and all the others). I am sorry your family is going through this. I do not know the details but I have seen resentment, bitterness, and jealousy make people act in ways that will only harm their children in the end by keeping them away from the other parent. I dont know if this is the case. But you making this video will be a representation for many men (and women) who go through this and feel alone and want to give up. This video will also be here for your boys when they grow up and look back and wonder, "why". They will know that you always wanted to see them and be around them.
    I did not have my parents in my life growing up, so it is painful to see you being denied this. But no matter how old they get, your children will ALWAYS need their dad. Trust me.
    Sending you best wishes. What you desire is yours, my friend. ☯️

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +12

      Thank you so much. It's sad to hear this is a common thing. I will never give up

  • @jackiesworld1970
    @jackiesworld1970 Рік тому +4

    glad you decided to share this very personal information, believe it or not your helping someone else out there going thru that exact same thing as you and your family ... I'm wishing and praying that you and your son's are united again ... I've been watching you and your family for a long time and I've always felt you were a great example of a dad that's very involved with his son's and always seem to teach them life lessons so don't hold your head up keep fighting until the end .. while watching this I had tears that settled in my eyes because my dad is no longer with me and a child needs their farther just as much as their mother ... life is full of lessons and UPS and downs hopefully this is just that a life lesson and you will overcome and be with your son's again ..

  • @nimatshaheed-jacks2128
    @nimatshaheed-jacks2128 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for being so transparent with your truths. God bless and hope that everything works out for the best with you and your family.

  • @felisfigueroa264
    @felisfigueroa264 Рік тому +2

    Your doing the right thing " trying to be with your kids". It takes a toll but keep up what you're doing. I have faith in you and your family. God bless you 🙏

  • @danij3586
    @danij3586 Рік тому +1

    Praying everything goes well! We know you love your children! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @slwalker7
    @slwalker7 Рік тому +2

    You are such a good Dad and it’s heartbreaking to hear the separation between you and two of your boys. Keep fighting for time with your kids. I respect your sharing and honesty and I hope it was therapeutic for you. Keep the faith 🙏🏽

  • @courtneysantana7697
    @courtneysantana7697 Рік тому +2

    Praying for you and your family!!! You are a good father! Keep going! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @robbbase5349
    @robbbase5349 Рік тому +5

    I've been watching and you always make the extra effort. Your a great dad. I remember you had the birthday in the car for I believe it was MJ. That's the kind of things they will remember when they are older. The many dinners you've made for them is special times. Thanks for sharing and being so open and honest. You're a great guy and your family is lucky to have you. I'll keep watching, liking and sharing....

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому

      Having these videos also helps to preserve those memories for us to look back on. Thanks, Robb!

  • @allyknows6328
    @allyknows6328 Рік тому

    Munari, you being so open and real Is beautiful. Because you released that energy is very healing. I have a feeling things are going to get a lot better with this situation. As you go through this process stay strong, faithful and put love and God first. All things will follow. I hope this video has made YOU feel better. ❤️

  • @haley7804
    @haley7804 Рік тому +8

    its important for the kids to see this video once they are older with clearer eyes, as kids our memories are warped and twisted shaped by our parents/family. not until a kid is older thinking more for themselves can they understand exactly what was happening. so the good thing from this video is looking back your kids ….all of them can look at this and it can all come together for them to understand another perspective of their childhood from dad’s side . good job 👍🏽

  • @fifif7934
    @fifif7934 Рік тому +2

    Much love to you all!! MUNARI YOU ARE WONDERFUL

  • @123456711751
    @123456711751 Рік тому

    God bless your family! Thanks for your honesty and letting us know that you are ok.

  • @barbaraedwards5675
    @barbaraedwards5675 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. Praying for your continued strength and endurance during this trying time. It’s going to get better, and things will work out in your favor.

  • @annieg1706
    @annieg1706 Рік тому

    Munari, I think your subscribers can see that you are a good father. Parenting is a commitment. And as parents we don’t always get everything right. But I commend you for everything you’re doing to be a good parent. This shows your love for your kids. I hope a resolution is found soon and you and your boys are reunited. Prayers for your family and God bless. 🙏🏾

  • @foleymarika4915
    @foleymarika4915 Рік тому +3

    ムナリさんの気持ち、他人の私にも届いているから、子供達にも絶対届いてるよ!!
    大変だと思うけど、どんな時も応援してるし、UA-camで話してくれてありがとう。
    色んな事をがむしゃらに頑張る姿、カッコいいよ!!
    私も頑張ります。

  • @kokopuff8130
    @kokopuff8130 Рік тому

    You are already a rock star dad because your always showing your boys how much you love them and making sure they know they have a family waiting for their return. Keep your head up and know this will all work out in your favor.

  • @valeriekirkendoll634
    @valeriekirkendoll634 Рік тому +23

    You’re a very good father. Stay positive n focus. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep supporting your boys n let them know you never going anywhere. High School goes really fast. Your support is really needed there in everything they do,especially the two younger ones as well. You’re a good dad n husband. Don’t ever think different. Cooking with your young guys is forever stored in there memory. Keep doing what you’re doing and never give up. God bless you and your always.

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому

      Yea that right! I don’t remember spending a lot of time with my father but I do remember him cooking for me.

  • @tawandahaulcy8700
    @tawandahaulcy8700 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing with us and being so open. Your sons will always carry with them how much you love them. Hang in there and don't give up. One day your sons will become adults and they will need you even more. Hopefully you will be able to start seeing your sons more soon

  • @callycampbelldavis
    @callycampbelldavis Рік тому +1

    What an emotionally challenging video to make AND share.
    Find your peace and strength in the now. Have faith, and continue to channel pain into positivity. The fact that you acknowledge the pain is good, then you can see where your focus is. You are so blessed to have Ashani to support you.

  • @flowerflower2483
    @flowerflower2483 Рік тому +30

    Handsome, generous and dedicated, is what I would use to describe you. I think you should write a letter for the Diaya and MJ explaining in simple words how you feel not seeing them everyday, and when they visit, give them your feeling diaries, a copy each will be great. these diaries will state how you feel about them, and explain why you are proud of them.
    Stay positive and strong. Love to Ashani and Kai

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +4

      Thank you. I actually have been making a photo diary for them and I’m going to share with them when they are older.

    • @pihaat
      @pihaat Рік тому +4

      Writing a letter is perfect or making a diary for them to have one day so they will know his true feelings,. Only thing about writing letters is will the Mother give the letters to them. If you know MJ job go visit, and go to Daiya's games or practices.

  • @LetaLuvaLuva
    @LetaLuvaLuva Рік тому

    Just keep doing your best. As long as your kids know you love and care for them, nothing in the world can keep you all apart. Thank you for sharing your family 🙏🏾💕 you really don’t have to. Life is what it is and I respect your transparency. Wishing you all the best. ✨

  • @crissyslife227
    @crissyslife227 Рік тому +1

    I can respect & appreciate you sharing this part of your life keep being consistent & a positive role model for your boys it will work itself out best of wishes👍🏽❤️

  • @priscillathomas9993
    @priscillathomas9993 Рік тому

    You are a REAL stand up DAD; love your family and your courage to share.

  • @kimmcreynolds4021
    @kimmcreynolds4021 Рік тому +1

    Hey Munari, I think your an awesome dad to your kids!!! I’m sorry you don’t get to see the boys like you should, but, keep working hard and the day will come you can have them stay over again and enjoy time with them. I’m sure they know you love them and will always be there for them. Your a great person and I’m sending prayers to you.

  • @theresaef1207
    @theresaef1207 Рік тому +3

    I am very proud of you for trying your best. Keep up the great work.

  • @claudettelewis18
    @claudettelewis18 Рік тому

    It has always been so clear that you love your sons and want to be a part of their lives. I appreciate it your honesty, I hope and pray that your sons as young men will know how hard you fought to be present in their lives. I believe they will - we underestimate what children pick up on, especially when put in the middle of ADULT BUSINESS. Don’t be too hard on yourself, looking back often causes depression and alway looking to the future can make us anxious - live and accept the present always sending those two young men positive and loving vibes. YOU HAVE GOT THIS🙏🏿

  • @jojoko64
    @jojoko64 Рік тому +1

    Manauri you have been your son's solid foundation it has been shown by your actions. Your boys are so smart and they know you love them without a doubt. Love will always prevail over any and everything remain focused. Stay encouraged on your end goal this is a marathon not a sprint, life. ✌

  • @knkereen
    @knkereen Рік тому +1

    I’m praying for you and your family. This video made me sad but I hope you know that we all see what an amazing father you are. Please don’t give up 🙏🏾

  • @comfortable0707
    @comfortable0707 Рік тому +3

    いつも楽しみにしてます!
    これからも、頑張ってください!
    日本からですが、応援してます!

  • @Emmajojo1993
    @Emmajojo1993 Рік тому +1

    Keep fighting!!!!! They will know you never gave up. I really enjoy watching your channel. Hope it all works out!

  • @kishaw9573
    @kishaw9573 Рік тому +1

    @Mumari, God bless you and your famly. NEVER stop fighting for your kids and your family unit. It may get weary, but God got you hun. Send them letters, call, text, as much as you can, just continue to show them love and support anyway you can. You have a beautiful family and God will see yall through. Blessings to you sir.

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 Рік тому +2

    I see your heart in this video. I see the love you have for your children & I could never comment anything bad about that. I pray that the end goal you have in mind happens for you & your family.. God Bless.

  • @beccaboo9209
    @beccaboo9209 Рік тому +4

    Munari.. thank you so much for sharing. Your love and support for your boys shows through your eyes and words. Being a child of divorced parents who never provided love and support, your words brought tears to my eyes. I was a single parent to my son after his father chose a life of drugs and the promise I made to myself was always love first then discipline. Always support them in a way that they know that home is a safe place to share their feelings, bad or good. Keep up the fight as the boys will understand more when they get older. Family first as nothing in this world matters with out the love and support of family ❤️❤️❤️ I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому +1

      Safe place at home is very important.
      I will try to do that more.

  • @estherkang1634
    @estherkang1634 Рік тому

    You are a great father & I can tell you really try & always make the best of the situation. Keep fighting for them, once they are 18, they will willing come to you. Keep close to them even if just by phone, keep showing them love 💕 love your family & videos. Keep up the good work!

  • @vfrazier3329
    @vfrazier3329 Рік тому

    BRAVO AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS. KEEP YOUR SPIRITS UP AND YOU ALL WILL MAKE IT THRU THIS. THE BOYS WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES. 🥰

  • @tommycall355
    @tommycall355 Рік тому

    Bro...I had to write this comment before I finished watching...Bro I've always thought u were like the BEST dad...the best parents...showing love...showing patience...showing interest in your children....I've always marveled at how you interacted with your family while u and Ashani still taking time to love each other in special ways...I think u are being too hard on yourself about the guilt....sometimes certain things are not in your control...unless there is something different than what you'll show in your videos you are a great dad, and have a great family.

  • @yvonnegordon7125
    @yvonnegordon7125 Рік тому +5

    Feel your pain...love the vulnerability and honesty. They are getting older and will be able to make their own decisions and choices...they are great kids and I know that Kai would love to spend more time with them too. They will appreciate this video .. I hope you find some peace through this video 🙏🏾👍🏾

  • @feliciajones1864
    @feliciajones1864 Рік тому

    It takes great strength to open up to strangers, I respect you for fighting for your boys. God bless

  • @jennifermccullough9705
    @jennifermccullough9705 Рік тому

    They are good kids from what we see! Dont beat yourself up so much ! You guys are loving and have a beautiful family

  • @AKsArtDesignLife
    @AKsArtDesignLife 7 місяців тому +2

    Really miss this channel, hope yall have a joyful holiday 🎉

  • @wilmavannorden9727
    @wilmavannorden9727 Рік тому +3

    I’m praying for you guys that everything will work out for the family 🙏❤️🦋🦋

  • @kelevettanwajagu5940
    @kelevettanwajagu5940 Рік тому +2

    Praying, stay strong and determined.

  • @dorettabrown245
    @dorettabrown245 Рік тому

    You are not alone! There are so many families going through the difficulties of coparenting. Hang in there and counseling is a good thing especially for your boys. 🙏🏿

  • @deborahriley9910
    @deborahriley9910 Рік тому

    As a TMB fan; I enjoy the videos and appreciate you sharing your Family. Continue to Love ❤ them through All circumstances because that will be the ultimate impact YOU have in their lives.

  • @cassandrabest7910
    @cassandrabest7910 Рік тому +1

    You are a good man it will work itself out. Prayers !!

  • @dlot61
    @dlot61 Рік тому +2

    Munari being a viewer from a distance I feel your pain, fatherhood did not come with instructions neither does life. You can still be a good dad from a distance until time and life allows you to be the dad you hope to be. You will always be those boys dad and no-one can change that. They are growing up before you know it they both will be 18 yrs. Just make sure you take this time to work on yourself and family so that when those boys become independent you four will move forward happily together creating memories beyond your imagination and they will love it and love you for that. In the mean time and between time I'll keep watching your channel

  • @claudialinton-martins1133
    @claudialinton-martins1133 Рік тому

    My heart goes out to you. Loved the way you were so caring and attentive with your Family. Your wife and Children love you so just stay positive and be there for them all. Love can solve a multitude of sins. Keep everyone connected and the lines of communication open. Also keep them in touch with your Mum as it’s very important for when they grow up. Sending love 🇬🇧

  • @najajin
    @najajin Рік тому

    First of all you an an awesome human being and Father/Dad. Never let the situation get you just keep doing the kids see it all and appreciate it. They may not say it or you may not know but trust they see it. Keep striving to be the best all around. I love and enjoy you guys sharing your lives with us. Shani is awesome the boys please keep up the good work loads of love from my family to yours.

  • @roseyrose9467
    @roseyrose9467 Рік тому

    I think it is very admirable that you came forward to explain the situation. I also find it inspiring how hard you are working to make changes. I know you will all live together again. Thank you for sharing. Love ❤️ & Prayers for you all
    ❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️

  • @moro-hm5sz
    @moro-hm5sz Рік тому

    その気持ち、想いは必ず伝わると思います。
    皆んなで遊べるようになる事を願ってます!
    これからも動画楽しみにしてます。
    応援してます✌️

  • @sabrinawhite7185
    @sabrinawhite7185 Рік тому +1

    And this too shall pass! God is with you through everything. Those young men know how much you love them. Stay the course. Peace and Blessings to you and your family!!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @hatcher2262
    @hatcher2262 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed your video. The realness of this video is so palpable. I hope you do more videos like this, reading all the comments you have a lot of friends standing with you.

  • @my3suns568
    @my3suns568 Рік тому +14

    Munari, thank you for sharing your family struggles. The boys are old enough to tell the Judge what they want. Can you talk to them by phone? Hopefully, an Arbitrator can help so that the boys can be with you. It is so very important for boys to have their father in their lives. I hope that the mother sees this. Pls do not lose faith. If you are doing the right thing, then the universe will bring the boys to you. God Bless you and your family.

  • @fifif7934
    @fifif7934 Рік тому +13

    I never usually comment on your videos but I i just wanted to say that you’re a very good father and you are amazing!! We can all tell from your videos how much you love your sons and you are a good person! Hang in there :) lots of love xx

  • @jamaicadreamgirl
    @jamaicadreamgirl Рік тому

    I have watched your vlogs for a long time now and what I’ve seen, is that your a re an excellent father and husband. Yes we have all made mistakes when bringing up our children, especially when you live in two different households. But as you said it’s about showing them that you care and you are doing everything, in your power to change things for the better.
    You have done a great job with your three boys, and you shouldn’t beat yourself up about, what’s already happened and passed. All you can do is not make these same mistake again, as your a different person now than when you became a father for the first time. But you have to remember you can only take account and responsibility for your actions and no one else.
    Sometimes you have to just step back and breathe, and take a minute.
    Be positive that everything will be all right, and you’ve done enough work where your boys knows there dad/father, they know that you love them with all of your been. ❤️🇬🇧

  • @gildabinam5474
    @gildabinam5474 Рік тому

    You’re a wonderful father, don’t believe you aren’t ! Everyone makes mistakes, the only best things to do, it’s to learn about its, not denied its. One day things turned good for your all because you still working on that… I sincerely wish you the best and will always support your family and Channel. Thank you for being honest with us

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii Рік тому +3

    We’re usually our own worst critic. However, from all that I’ve seen from y’all’s videos you always make such a sincere effort to be the best dad to all of your boys. Plus you lead by example, which is so important. Keep the Faith and keep your head up. All will be well.☀️

  • @helenhamilton9561
    @helenhamilton9561 Рік тому +1

    Munari you and your wife both love all your boys, and are Wonderful Parents.
    When Kai was a toddler you could see how much your older boys loved spending time holding and playing with their little brother, and how much he adores his big brothers.
    You really invest your time in your boys teaching them about their culture, supporting them in sports, and their interests.
    And Ashani is so involved with your sons she has a great sense of humor, playful, and loving.
    Nobody is perfect but God, so many women would wish their ex. would be so involved and enjoy being with their children like you.
    I hope the situation improves and your ex and you co-parent so that the boys get the best of you both.
    Stay Strong, and God Bless

  • @meritsolarahaureong
    @meritsolarahaureong Рік тому +1

    You have the intention of being a good father, as long as you keep trying, your kids will understand. These videos are helping your kids get you, and see who you really are. Thank you for being real. Authenticity is gold.

  • @AngieTheENTJ
    @AngieTheENTJ Рік тому +1

    Munari, I know it's not easy but you're not alone. Many of us either came from blended families or married into one. The blessings do outweigh the messes, most times. However, the messes take a lot of energy to work through and that can be discouraging. Add to it that you're dealing with teens and most teens tend to forget about their parents. Stay strong, there is a light at the end of this situation.

  • @techKat6808
    @techKat6808 Рік тому +15

    This is more common than you think. Let the boys know you will always love. This is the most important thing a boy needs to know. No judgment here or shame. You are working hard brother.

    • @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn
      @TokyoMeetsBrooklyn  Рік тому

      Yes I heard it's a common thing.. That really sad.. Thank you for massage Brother 🙏

  • @empresskiya6466
    @empresskiya6466 Рік тому +1

    Munari don't be too hard on yourself You're a great father doing the best you can .. this has to be tough on everyone .. all of you will get through this together have faith ... It gets better

  • @yeahh5636
    @yeahh5636 Рік тому +1

    You’re an amazing person. I hope all turns out well for you❤

  • @omanduhuislife3367
    @omanduhuislife3367 Рік тому

    Your kids know your ❤️ is pure...they are with too in spirit. You'll have a lifetime together ❤️

  • @nadineaugust3594
    @nadineaugust3594 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. I wish u & your family all the best. U have a beautiful family, good things come to those who wait. PEACE!

  • @millieschattime9924
    @millieschattime9924 Рік тому

    Hang in there Luv it’s going to be ok! One thing your kids know you are fighting for them!! And no one is a perfect parent but you’re trying and Bless you for being an active father !!

  • @bettyebronner8245
    @bettyebronner8245 Рік тому +1

    You are a terrific father and your boy’s know that and love you dearly. Don’t be disheartened because things will work out. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and doing the right thing and you will get your blessings. Worry Not because it will all work out. I truly enjoy you and your loving family.💕❤️🙏🏾

  • @konnokoichiro6825
    @konnokoichiro6825 Рік тому +1

    big up! mi bredda!! nuff respect!! 応援してるよ!!

  • @firestar1728
    @firestar1728 Рік тому

    Munari what I have seen through all your videos is that you have a very big heart! You care and love all your children equally. The fact you have and continue to go through all these hurdles to spend time with your sons is proof enough of your never ending love for them. In time MJ & Daiya will fully understand the great efforts you took to continually be a guiding hand in their lives. It is hard but I and the TMB family commend and congratulate you for not giving up. Parenthood is not an easy path for anyone so be proud of all you have achieved and continue because what you do along with your visions for their futures is absolutely 💯 working. You are a Super Father and don't let anyone say different! Thank you for sharing. Peace!

  • @eileengineitis6721
    @eileengineitis6721 Рік тому

    Parenting is full of opportunities to feel guilty. None of us are perfect. Our kids just really need to know that we love them and will do our best for them. (Some days our best is better than other days. It’s all “quality time.”)
    Kids are egocentric. They should be. Keep letting them know they are your primary concern in life, and later, they will look back and appreciate your efforts. It’s about them now.
    Ashani probably has Mom guilt too, which comes with the working mother territory. You’re both doing all you can for your kids. Pat each other on the back. We all need to hear, “Good job, honey,” sometimes.
    Thanks for sharing your real stuff, and vulnerability. Every family goes through hard times. Every good parent has self-doubt and worries. You will make it through these days. Sending you strength.

  • @jimjimgl3
    @jimjimgl3 Рік тому

    All this work you are doing to understand yourself and your family and your children is the first part to opening a door to a more complete happiness.

  • @lsmwlsmw
    @lsmwlsmw Рік тому +1

    You're a great father, take it one day at a time! Keep up the good work!!!!

  • @TJ-yv3kp
    @TJ-yv3kp Рік тому +2

    Sending hugs & prayers to the fam from Chicagoland🙏

  • @lesbianfemforyou
    @lesbianfemforyou Рік тому +1

    Hi Munari, from what I've seen on your videos I think you are a wonderful father. I know MJ , Daiya, Kai LOVE their dad so, so much. I wish you guys the best and that everything works out in the end. Your boys are so handsome and they have wonderful manners and are super respectful to Ashani too. She LOVES MJ, Daiya very much too. Stay strong Munari and remember you got this!!!!
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @canmake-ml2qe
    @canmake-ml2qe Рік тому +2

    最近見るようになりました。以前の事はわかりませんが、とても優しくて力強いパパなんだと感じました。お子さんと、また会えて楽しい思い出作れると良いですね。頑張ってください。