10 FIRST DATE TIPS FOR YOUNG MEN!
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- Опубліковано 20 кві 2023
- Fellas it’s really small details that will set you apart!! It’s not the money, the car, the clothes etc! It’s the effort and energy! Also these should be done GENUINELY! Because YOU wanted to do them. So Don’t date or waste your valuable time, money etc or women you’re not interested in! If you’re bored you’re better off hitting the gym or kicking it with the fellas!!
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Are you a Mentor? If not, please consider bc our young men need someone like you 🙏🏽
We don’t
We don’t need more simps 😂
Hmmm so this guy has all the advice, but his results stink! No wife no kids no family 😂lol
@Ariana Hyundai turn them into simps and playas 😂😂
@Ariana Hyundai you don’t like his advice too? Fr
Really appreciate this info brother! Not all dates require spending $. Usually take a woman out for free the first time (scenic walks, museums, etc.). If she’s receptive to a second date, that’s when you know you found someone who is for YOU. Results may vary…
Edit: Apparently everyone has a different interpretation of hiking
I know the sentiment you're going for but hiking is a terrible idea! Don't get a woman to go into the woods or hills with someone she doesn't know!
i met my girlfriend by taking her out to coffee and a walk at the lake. We ended up spending hours there. Once we felt comfortable to continue seeing each other. we then went out to thai food. I paid of course. But... my point remains is you dont always gotta break the bank to meet women. Just take intiative, make plans and make it special! shoutout to my brokebois.
@@louisbromfield7794 Hiking is okay if its a popular spot. You aint gotta climb mountains, but if you go on a trail/light hike during the day and shes into it it's not a bad suggestion. You just gotta gauge the vibe with the person and whether they're into that or not.
Man said hiking for a first date lol mean like walks in parks or just walks in general not no hiking
Coffee as well
As a woman I appreciate you and these tips so much. It’s the small details that get me and guys STAY consistent ♥️carry this same energy into the 2nd 3rd and as many dates as you can… because it means a lot.
what about the guys you let smash without a date? did they even have a car to take you home?
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@@mattiaslp9645 😂😂😂
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@@mattiaslp9645nahhh facts tho she want niggas to simp for her ,hell naw🙅🏽😂😂😂😂
Your advice encapsulates all ages, not just young men. Trust me when I tell you that some older men are clueless and can use some coaching.
Big time.
@@arianahyundai480”Skeeza”, you’re hurt bro, go heal.
@@arianahyundai480 idk if you’re a guy or a pick me girl but that attitude you got is so unhealed n sad lmao
This man gey as hell though
Surely the answer.😊
I appreciate men like you. You're one of the rarest gems to find. Folks lack time, effort, emotional maturity, and communication. I love this
Yet women don’t have to do anything or put effort towards dating. That’s the only reason you like this
@Sieg And, your bitterness is the exact reason why my comment triggered your attention. Nothing in the video nor my comment implies about women being one-sided throughout the dating process. Go somewhere🙄
@@eboniivaationalblackrosebo4825 So if the man has to pay, set up the date, initiate conversation as per usual according to this video, how is it not one sided? You’re literally getting a free meal and fun time.
🙊 ooga booga
@Ariana Hyundai Yes, he is very much bitter. His response came from emotion and past experiences. Women like you need to stop cradling men fragility when it comes to dating with a purpose and showing women respect. "Listen to men's logic once in a while," like that's not something we haven't been doing since forever. I stand by what I said. Period.
Guys you don’t HAVE to spend money on the first date if it makes you uncomfortable or uneasy.. but IF you are in a situation where you invite her to movies, dinner, lunch, etc where a payment is required for entrance or services.. PAYING THE BILL often leads a good impression.
ALL FACTS!! SHARING ALL YOUR VIDEOS. It's the little things, take the time and make the effort.
I agree with everything he said. As man dating in 2023 I always plan dates and I always choose something I enjoy because if the date goes left at least I still had a good time and don't feel like I wasted my money.
Invite her over to smash. Only option.
I really admire Trell for his mannerism and respect for women👍🏽he can mentor other young men and gentlemen how to be more respectful of a real lady. Kudos to you Trell stay💪🏽 you will always have my support💃🏽
Thank-you for your understanding and guidance for our brothers.🙂
Dude didn't waste a single second in this video...appreciate you my guy, God bless. 🙏🏿
this video format is fire. no bs, straight to the point, just the key info. youre a legend
This man knows a thing or 2 about what women love 💕
As a guy slightly older in the game; agree but do not text her straight away give it till she tells you she got home safe or the next morning. Leave that message without a hope to catch-up again soon but a have a great week - try link it into an inside joke you had together or a topic like if she had exams etc; all the best for your exams go get em’. You need to give girls a moderate feeling of not knowing where they stand without thirsty immediate reassurance.. I know it’s fked up but this is how women in the west operate.
You give the absolute best advice. Men should use every video you bring out on UA-cam. I salute you, my brother. Keep educating!
Of course u agree it benefits u, to do all this and you ain’t even earned it or even know you well enough? Hell Nah, plus u ain’t the one paying for all dis jus to NOT smash? 😂*he said,a kiss on the forehead? Gtfoh. First date is gonna be a coffee date or meet up at the park for conversation n to get to know one another, dinner dates are reserved for 2nd or 3rd dates only, we gotta see if u worth it.
I love his videos. He is so informative and thoughtful.
Probably a woman 😭
Thank you so much, all your tips through out all your videos have improved me so much thank you so much again
Your attunement and leadership is top tier.
You've nailed all the tips, hopefully, this video will be viewed by single brothers seeking lastly relationships. Thanks for sharing 👍🏽 😊
I appreciate it man! Do you have a book out or anything I could learn more from you? I will be doing my best to learn how to become more of a mature man while I’m grinding and trying to do better. I appreciate the content and I’ll be watching more!
You really know how to tug on those heart strings.♥️♥️🔥
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 amazing tips.. I wish more men came across videos like this and were receptive to the advice you’re giving.
Love your energy 🤍
Active dates leading up to the dinner date are a must.
Teaching young men gentle man ways. It's perfect! Hope they follow your lead. Well, said. Now older men need to listen as well instead of asking a woman to their home instead of a proper 1st date. It's not happening ppl. Bless you for making this video.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿I sent Too My GROWN Son's🥰🥰
Thank You🙏🏿☺️ For Helping The Younger Men 🙏🏿And The...OLDER Men🙏🏿
Beautifully done 👏👏👏
Wow. Thank you for describing how a real man should perform on the first date. I truly enjoyed this.❤
,second, third, forth and fifth....in the words of Miss Faye "It cost to be King".
Just here to give a woman’s perspective:
Men….listen to him. HE’S ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
Simp 101 with some good ideas mixed in
I have nothing but❤ for you!! I binged watching your shorts. I can only wish 😔.
This man is 100 perCENT correct good Lord I want to date him RIGHT NOW because he's giving this fantastic, accurate TRUE advice WHILE he is completing his skin care...wow BE still my heart!!! Guys listen to this man!
Word of wisdom !! He who has an ear have to listen !
Thank you for teaching them. 💛
Classy stuff right here! I know old men that can learn from you. Bless you abundantly..
I don't really like dating coaches as most of them seem to prey on vulnerable, naive men. But I noticed your content is actually suited for matured man who just need a bit more guidance. Love your work, brother!
All great advice! Mind you, even IF you do all this, if it's not a match, it's just not a match. Don't take it personal and dont stop doin these things for other women. Best wishes yall! I know it's wild out here...
Bro a god man!! This video definitely just helped me have a great 1st date. With a super nice girl hella beautiful!! Can you make a video for post date and how to gurantee the 2nd date ?? I feel tht wud be very helpful to a lot of men. Cuz reality is even if you do all those nice things and impress a girl. You could still lose her interest b4 solidifying tht 2nd meet up!! And i cud use some tips myself to make sure I don’t fumble it. Cuz after tht 1st date im in a great position!! Don’t want to lose the momentum!!
Bro keep us updated you the truth !
See if I would have met a guy like this, I'd be a happy wife and a mother by now.
Man, I really appreciate your videos
Really helpful and inspiring ✨️
Real Grown Man Rizz right there. Respect 🙏
Great tips. Most women will appreciate the effort
Facts. Well said my brother.
There's hope for men out there and you could teach a community.. It's time men. Get it together.
Thank you. You are so wise, some men just don't get it.
this is great advice. also personal hygiene is very important. women pay attention to every detail.
Quick and to the point! I like it!
He gets it 💙
Etiquette is so important. A date I went on the guy was rude to the waiter, and it was such a turn-off.
Cuz he wasn’t good looking enough
@Sieg huh? No, you just don't treat people that way. If they're that comfortable treating a complete stranger, that way you can only imagine that that's how they'll treat you.
@@mart2023 cope
@@sieg6635 👍🏾
So if a stranger is an asshole to you, you can't be mean to them. Got it, you are delusional.
Sir,we want a video on how to organize things like wardrobe, clothes and saving space.
Common sense prevails, great advice.
My Ninja! 💪🏽
Always good to see a young black man contribute good energy. Jesus Christ loves you!
All that a woman need is a man who is a good leader that she can trust, then her feminity will naturally gush out and her aggression and self defense will dissappear while in his presence. She'll become like a submissive little girl again because she found a daddy that can take good care of her, though she may be able to take care of herself in certain ways.
Subscribed within the first 10seconds. Daaamn😍
Absolute gentleman!❤️
No liquor on a first date.❤
Wine with dinner?
You are So…So…So…RIGHT ABOUT FIRST DATE, and the Kiss on the forehead… this guy stole a kiss from me I was so mad…Ugh!
Ima have to take that line ”is the toes for me” fr
These are some amazing tips! ❤
My man clearing his pores while he’s spitting facts 🔥
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I really hope dudes are watching him and learning
I'd rather not learn than listening to a dude putting cream on his face in every single one of his videos like a woman 😂
@@antoinemantoux1520 word all that cream and oils and shit and they’ll still let stinky Brad who left the gym and didn’t even wash his ass blow their backs out 🤣
Great tips! I agree 100%❤
Such a gentleman!!!
And a sucker too!
A very handsome gentleman And that is the truth 100%❤❤
Damn this man is so wise
This is the type of date any woman would love to go on. Only use these tips with women that you actually do want to pursue. No great date ghosts round here.
Low key feels like he date ghost girls, or just post for going on a date with himself. Or he's gay.
The mic being clipped on the beard is hilarious to me 🤣🤣🤣
I like this guy keep on bro, much love!
Amen 🙏 praying for this
THIS!!! Men please take note. 🔥🔥🔥
You are One in a Million.
Trell raised the bar so high I think I should just date him at this point.
Good stuff brother thank you.
Trell 😭🔥🔥💯 you are amazing 👍🏾
I appreciate your videos i pratice some of the stuff you say and my girl and i have enjoyed ourselves more ever since
I like his advice.
You are amazing!! 🙌
Don't confirm no dates. If she doesn't show up, you dodged a bullet.
Don't hint at a second date, you want to give her room to tell it to you first, also no need to let her know how much you enjoyed your date either, same reason.
Excellent! 👏🏾
Fellas please listen to this man - please
I’m a new subscriber love your content on UA-cam and Instagram !! I was wondering what camera you use to record your videos because the quality is insane if you don’t mind sharing?
Sometimes I take a girl out for the first date just to find out that I’m not attracted to her. So all that texting after the date and kissing on the forehead stuff is out the window. I don’t do any of these things unless it’s a girl that I want to take off the market. Which is very rare
Bro so, what exactly are you saying?
He’s saying, he still doesn’t know what he wants and is willing to waist everyones time.
@@anulakshmi1630 No, he's trying not to lead his date on and have them hoping for more, when he's decides he's not interested.
@@kwasiahenkora6583 Thank you
I understand you don't want to lead the lady on when you aren't attracted to her bit I believe he's referring to a guy who desires to get a second date, which implies the guy most likely likes the girl. Also the the ice breaking activity before dinner he talked about also gives room for both persons to see if they like each other.
I agree with you on these things but for me this is mostly a second date thing. In these modern times I never know if a women is on date for me or just because, so I’d rather go to a coffee shop and spend $20 than on a date somewhere nice and drop $150 plus on someone who isn’t taking me seriously
Im a woman and I agree with you!!! I get so disgusted at the audacity of these little girls trying to take their friends, order the most expensive thing. On the flip side I’m tired of seeing these boys who think they paid for a meal and that entitles them to sex. Glad this chat is for grown men and women!!!! Not these kids. When me and my man started dating I always had my money just in case, ordered appropriately, offered to pay/tip ( he never lets me pay but I always ask to treat him). I snuck and did it once and he didn’t like that. Therefore I spoil him on his bday and other times. Cook/clean. I guess I’m old school. But we spoil each other!
Bro you’re the one picking them, how are you complaining.
@@TonyEbukaSG not complaining I’m saying for men in the dating landscape to protect their wallet. I have the money to drop but why would I do that when at the end of the date she ghost me? Most of the time women that are there for you don’t mind those $20 initial dates. I’m 34 and dated a lot in my 20s so I have seen it all
Brother you having that mentally will make them ghost you, enjoy yourself, that’s all, people will want to spend time with you. Like he said in the clip, don’t expect anything in the end.
You protect your wallet by Choosing your dates carefully in the first place, I am learning a lot from the clip creator btw one love
Don’t listen to @danaglass1265 I don’t understand a single thing she’s saying ,it’s called pity, it doesn’t apply to men.
Learn and adapt your own way that’s beneficial men
“It’s the toes for Me” ahh hell nah 🤣🤣
I love it!
Protect this man 😩
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I’m all for planning dates but last thing I need is to put time and effort into a date and she doesn’t have fun. That’s why I like to include her in the process
Trell the Trainer, You are a husband for a wife. Cause only a true husband and real gentleman. Continue to be a foundation and blessing. May Jesus Christ of Nazareth continue to be the head of your life Amen!!!
I agree with you on some parts
The pay the bill part was spot on and funny, definitely us as men we gotta pay up, (at least on first date). me rn im broje i aint thinking about dating anyone soon cos i gotta get myself right 😂🙏 thx for advice king, it hit home
Good luck getting your 💰 in order. We all have to be real with what we have and what we don’t. No shame in being on the come up. We’ve all been there.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 you too, we deserve to get ourselves right 🙏🏾🗣️
I always assumed paying the bill was standard bad date or not!
Find a good woman that doesn't care about that stuff and is happy to split it. I was lucky to find that in my wife, if she expects you to pay for everything she isn't the one
Chivalry ain’t dead. Who cares if the women deserves it or not. As a MAN if you invite, you pay.
❤great advice 👍🏽😊
I really wish there were more men who thinks like this I live in Philly I give up its not enough good men here.
Look like this dude is on a retro time machine. That used to work well in the 70s. Today girls are way up wild. Today you actually coming to a date to tame a beast.
Wow this was great . You did very good
Need more men like u 🤞🏽
“It’s the toes for me” 😭
“It’s the toes for me” 😂😂😂😂
You that nigga bro im thankful for brothers like you straight up