@@cheriesdiaryif it were only as simple as walking away. With male abusers, they usually control the money or isolate the woman so they have very few means of calling for help. He was being threatened to being called an abuser. There has been stories of women hitting themselves with a hammer or similar object to leave bruises to put blame on the other person. Its possible she was just bluffing but you never know.
Because it’s embarrassing,,,no real man would ever let things come to this ,,he should have gave her the slap 👋 of her life from the first time she put a hand on him
I was in a similar situation. My parents always taught me to never hit a woman and I took that to heart. My ex got into heavy drug use and would go into crazy fits of rage and attack me and she'd always apologize afterwards. When I eventually had to defend myself because she had me backed up in the corner of our bedroom hitting me in the face with a lamp she called the police on me. Only by the grace of God was I spared because both my family and her family and friends all knew how she would behave and the case was dropped due to their testimonies.
The fact that male abuse is not talked about nearly as much as it should be is really unfortunate and sad, this really is something that needs to be acknowledged and discussed more than it is.
@@redflame300Yes recently a man came up but everyone only trust on women until that men has evidence no one is gonna trust him so that guy ends up doing sucide
Male Abuse is super sad - with a big factor being the lack of attention drawn to it, along with the inate prejudice and lack of belief in regards to men specifically. IT’S NEVER EMBARRASSING TO ADMIT TO ABUSE (no matter your genders, sex, or any factor for that matter) - REACH OUT ❤
@@XaraK1Almost as if for the longest time society keeps us from speaking up by calling us less of a man when it happens to us. I told my closest friends (1 guy and 1 girl) about how I was SA’d and they both laughed at me. Don’t try to make it seems like we don’t reach out because we do.
@@bitviper3430I'm sorry that happened to you. There is a HUGE stigma in society and it's DISGUSTING. I'm sorry to say, but those ppl are and never were your "friends". I was born in 1980.the 80s and before were literally generations of toxicity and gender roles that have lead us to the crossroads we're at today. The gender roles that define us have destroyed both at this point. Humans are AWFUL to each other and the selfish indignation is only getting worse.
Anyone whose abused for a long period looses their identity, their confidence and love for themselves. I watched a friend go though this and it was heartbreaking. All you can do is to let them know you're there and ready when they're ready to make that move.
Ray. If you must know.... She pressurized her ar$e by holding it in for a long time and then turned around and did a poop-shot across the room all over the poor guy. That's the way you do it.
Yeah, and Ray questioning it was kinda mean and judgy like he obviously had Stockholm so allowed her to do that to him but there doesn't have to be a reason "why". The fact is, it happened and he didn't deserve it.
Right, blame the alcohol, and not the problem and trauma going on inside the drinker's head. Abuse doesn't just come out of thin air. If drinking makes someone angry, that's a strong sign they need a therapist.
Richard not feeling safe to talk about it is sad. I'm a woman, but hearing about how male abuse victims aren't taken seriously and some people even go so far as to blame them "Oh well you must've done something." Is concerning. I've been questioned when dealing with creepy men and seeing men go through that is sad.
The sad thing is, it's males putting down males :( it's so sad, I'm not saying it as in a sexist way but this is how society thinks.. Its usually women that stands up for him. I feel so bad for him tho, he didn't deserve this, she srs needs smth worse than jail because this is absurd
To all men who are being abuse, please don't hesitate to ask for help and stand up against them. It won't make you less of a man. I hope you all find courage, justice and peace like Richard did.
That is simply not true😂 ppl wish their male aggressors would get a longer time. Some dont even get put in prison. The justice system has failed us all when it comes to these things
I know so many guys that have been stuck in a relationships with and Alcoholic angry abusive women. This is not uncommon at all. It's hard to get out of these relationships just like it is for a lady to leave an alcoholic abusive man.
@@roeldiamond353he was possibly abused as a kid so this relationship felt normal. Maybe not the pooping part. I'm pretty sure the only reason he even started documenting everything was just because she threatened to say he was the abuser. That's likely where he drew the line to defend himself from being called an abuser. If she hadn't pooped on him, who knows if he would have left her.
@@roeldiamond353 Because people would likely say he's a wimp for not being able to 'control his woman' or something like that. Same reason why he never reported it, because the general reaction is "you got beaten by a woman? lol. lmao even"
Thank you Ray for telling a male domestic abuse story. It’s sad these stories aren’t reported as much or tended too the way it is vice versa. If you love someone you don’t hit them Man or woman.
"why didn't he just leave her", "why did he marry her" do any of you even understand what psychological abuse does to a person's mental stability and thought process? jesus christ.
i'm pretty sure this was made into a TV show in the UK called My wife, my abuser. if any international people want to watch it i'm pretty sure it'll be out there somewhere online. definitely worth watching (my5 for UK viewers)
Dear Ray...I'll tell you how the pooping went down. He knew it was being recorded so he just let her do it to gather evidence against her. Hope this helps you sleep at night.
Its so sad how he still married her as if the abuse wasn’t a deal breaker, then kids were brought into this environment 😞, I feel bad that he didn’t feel like he could talk about it.
I hope his new partner is not an abuser, I have known more than one person who got out of an abusive relationship and jumped right into another one, almost like they seek out someone. For his sake and his kids, I hope he chose wisely the second time.
The reason male abuse is so “rare” is because the people being abused are scared they’d be seen as weak and that people will believe their other so there is less reports of this abuse
Abuse victims often stay with their abusers out of fear that leaving will end up being worse. A lot of times abusers will threaten pets and children if their partner leaves.
This abusive terrible woman should not be a parent. Kids shouldn't be brought into this abusive situations. I feel very bad for this guy😢 Are there are no resources for men being abused 😢?
Wow, that's insane. And the punishment she received was way less than she deserved. I mean seriously? What kind of uncivilized human being constantly berates someone for over 2 decades? And to top it off, uses defecation as a weapon?
Shame is a huge factor in dv😢 for both men and female victims… also there is a stereotype that victims are meek and shy, whereas victims can be very successful in their jobs both professionally/in the home.
Male abuse is not always talked about it is sad. People need to be more aware. There are both Male and Female victims.
People know this but hate taking real responsibility for avoiding abusers in their lives.
Why the HELL would someone have kids let alone marrying with someone who abused them is the real question ?
Seriously it’s so sad😢😢😢
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@@cheriesdiaryif it were only as simple as walking away.
With male abusers, they usually control the money or isolate the woman so they have very few means of calling for help.
He was being threatened to being called an abuser. There has been stories of women hitting themselves with a hammer or similar object to leave bruises to put blame on the other person. Its possible she was just bluffing but you never know.
Why does society see male abuse as embarrassing, it's honestly disgusting
Honestly more help needs to be provided
@TakeD.Lye
Because it’s embarrassing,,,no real man would ever let things come to this ,,he should have gave her the slap 👋 of her life from the first time she put a hand on him
Because we are usually the tuff one
Why is the car hitting the cart
We don’t always get a happy ending to these stories. I’m glad he was able to break free and found someone who loves him.
there was a time 1 one a girl punched me then she got into trouble
Hi
I was in a similar situation. My parents always taught me to never hit a woman and I took that to heart. My ex got into heavy drug use and would go into crazy fits of rage and attack me and she'd always apologize afterwards. When I eventually had to defend myself because she had me backed up in the corner of our bedroom hitting me in the face with a lamp she called the police on me. Only by the grace of God was I spared because both my family and her family and friends all knew how she would behave and the case was dropped due to their testimonies.
That sucks. I'm sorry it happened to you. Hugs from a stranger. ❤️🩹
Im glad you got saved.
I feel bad for you, be strong
Truth will out friend, I'm glad you're free 🎉
im so happy that you are free ❤️ i hope ur doing better now
The fact that male abuse is not talked about nearly as much as it should be is really unfortunate and sad, this really is something that needs to be acknowledged and discussed more than it is.
It is acknowledged and discussed widely, but despite that, most men don't come out and say it. They let it happen.
Victim blaming... nice @@redflame300
@@redflame300Yes recently a man came up but everyone only trust on women until that men has evidence no one is gonna trust him so that guy ends up doing sucide
@@redflame300it will be the men that laugh n make fun of other men, that's the sad part
@@redflame300 > They let it happen.
It's YOUR fault and YOU'RE ENABLING THIS TO BE PERPETUATED
He should do a DNA test to those girls! A narcissist is always a cheater.
I wonder what happened to those girls
@@Midnight0Mistress I hope they’re ok and away from their abusive mom 😔
Nah i think this is one of tgose controlling ones
1:39
If they got pregnant using IVF, the genes should be his
Imagine having to go through this, I hope the husband’s mental health is fine after this
No kidding… I hope he gets all of the help, love, and support he needs.
@@baileyjohn5010yeah I can see why, it must be hard accepting
@baileyjohn5010 Simpin' that bad is pathetic.
It’s all cool to say this… but do you really think he would ever be fine?
@@ARedMotorcycleVictim-blaming is that pathetic.
Male Abuse is super sad - with a big factor being the lack of attention drawn to it, along with the inate prejudice and lack of belief in regards to men specifically. IT’S NEVER EMBARRASSING TO ADMIT TO ABUSE (no matter your genders, sex, or any factor for that matter) - REACH OUT ❤
Women and specifically feminists hate men being acknowledged as victims...
When we draw attention to it, dudes show the most resistance. Guys need to start advocating for themselves
@@XaraK1Almost as if for the longest time society keeps us from speaking up by calling us less of a man when it happens to us. I told my closest friends (1 guy and 1 girl) about how I was SA’d and they both laughed at me. Don’t try to make it seems like we don’t reach out because we do.
@bitviper3430
Great comment.
It's not a great outcome. 😢
Sending ❤ straight to you, bitviper.
@@bitviper3430I'm sorry that happened to you. There is a HUGE stigma in society and it's DISGUSTING. I'm sorry to say, but those ppl are and never were your "friends".
I was born in 1980.the 80s and before were literally generations of toxicity and gender roles that have lead us to the crossroads we're at today. The gender roles that define us have destroyed both at this point. Humans are AWFUL to each other and the selfish indignation is only getting worse.
Anyone whose abused for a long period looses their identity, their confidence and love for themselves. I watched a friend go though this and it was heartbreaking. All you can do is to let them know you're there and ready when they're ready to make that move.
7:52 ONLY 4!??!?!?? WTH
If it was a man doing it, it'd be life sentenced or death penalty
RIGHT THATS WHAT I WAS thinking!!!!!!!
@Zyarzxvloging prob gender or something??? (Idk) 💀
Obviously it's because she a woman if a man did this it would be game over for him
FR
Pooped on him, That is so Amber Heard.
Memes aside, it's apparently the dog that did it, not her.
😂
Ray. If you must know.... She pressurized her ar$e by holding it in for a long time and then turned around and did a poop-shot across the room all over the poor guy. That's the way you do it.
This is a media propagandised take on Amber Heard. There was no proof she'd done it
I immediately thought that too.😅
Cant believe she LITERALLY sh** on him 😢 I'm happy he's settled down with a new partner now ❤
Yeah, and Ray questioning it was kinda mean and judgy like he obviously had Stockholm so allowed her to do that to him but there doesn't have to be a reason "why". The fact is, it happened and he didn't deserve it.
@scarlao plus he could've been asleep
As soon as I saw her face, I knew shit was gonna go down.
Literally.
That's crazy bro✋💀
😂😂😂
Well from the start i thought she really looks like amber heard. I didnt expect that much a resemblence tho
I see what u did there😂
Amber Heard: poops on bed
Sheree Spencer: hold my beer…..
❌ Don't drink and drive.
❌ Drink responsibly.
✅ Don't drink at all.
FACTS
Or drink responsibly😊
@@ShivamGupta-sr9zf There's no such thing. Studies show that any amount of alcohol is bad for you.
@@ShivamGupta-sr9zf Honestly I dont like alcohol. But to those who drink, yes drink responsibly
Right, blame the alcohol, and not the problem and trauma going on inside the drinker's head. Abuse doesn't just come out of thin air. If drinking makes someone angry, that's a strong sign they need a therapist.
Richard doesnt deserve this ☹️
No one does
No, he does 😂
3:02 i actually feel bad for men, imagine being that beaten but you can't do anything coz no one will believe you
It's a human struggle for any victim
@ShadowRatandCat i know it's a bad situation for any victim but in this society, we kinda leans on one side
@@MoiseHectoryeah, the side of the abuser
This is why i fear of dating women because I'm afraid this will happen to me
We live in a judgmental society.
No one cares. That is the truth.
Richard not feeling safe to talk about it is sad. I'm a woman, but hearing about how male abuse victims aren't taken seriously and some people even go so far as to blame them "Oh well you must've done something." Is concerning. I've been questioned when dealing with creepy men and seeing men go through that is sad.
Even with evidence cops will still arrest the male victim of domestic abuse.
The sad thing is, it's males putting down males :( it's so sad, I'm not saying it as in a sexist way but this is how society thinks.. Its usually women that stands up for him.
I feel so bad for him tho, he didn't deserve this, she srs needs smth worse than jail because this is absurd
Thank you Ray for covering this story. More publicity needed when it comes to abuse against Men
To all men who are being abuse, please don't hesitate to ask for help and stand up against them. It won't make you less of a man. I hope you all find courage, justice and peace like Richard did.
That is NOT enough jail time. And yeah, I won't be able to sleep tonight either😂😂😂
I was expecting her to hurt him, but not poop at him 💀
She did hurt him
And poop on him
she did both
YIKESS
“One day they’re arguing and she’s drunk because well…..She’s always drunk” 💀💀😭😭
Please guys. PRESS CHARGES. Abuse is abuse .
6:27 "And ig she's drunk because she's always drunk" got a point 💀
9:49 if a man did that he would get life in prison 😢
Bro, the video is only 8:05 min
@Erwtenkok fr...
@Erwtenkok i think they mean 7:49
@@Hydrante1 yea probably
That is simply not true😂 ppl wish their male aggressors would get a longer time. Some dont even get put in prison. The justice system has failed us all when it comes to these things
Getting married does not solve bad behavior or any issues. Good thing he documented the abuse.
Richard, she deserves WAY more time for what you endured!! I hope this next chapter is wonderful and healing 🙏🏽
What a nightmare. No one, male or female should ever have to live like this. I do not understand this either!
5:15 was funny af 😭😭😭 it’s really not, but funny how you said it was slow af.. and he didn’t move 😭😭
Glad someone else caught that 😂😂
Reminds me of a Boondocks episode 😂
Sheree is literally Amber Heard's twin sister
I was thinking the same thing!
@JhayBia indeed
literally?
Yes, literally.
Man, I hate Disney for siding with the Female dog
I feel so bad for Richard.
What happened with the daughters though?? 😨 Hope they didn’t take after their mother by thinking the abuse was “normal” for relationships
That's what I was thinking! That is the example they had for how to treat your partner...disgusting!
Kids preferred him of course but there’s a doco about it called “my wife my abuser” he’s a very nice person and I’m so glad he is happy now.
He said his daughter so I'm assuming she's just the step. Or I must've misinterpreted
@@ahhwe-any7434 birth mother
so true..
This is my wake up call ray. Thank you.
You got this!
@ thank you for taking the time to even care to reply. Good still exist. Bless you and be well
He is crazy not for leaving her
I'm addicted to your crime stories
same
smae
thame
FOINE!
Who isn’t
It's like she watched the Amber Heard trial and said "I can top that".
they are more Amber Heards in the world....
Please shut up, Johnny Depp is quite literally an abuser. there is shit ton of prrof that is went bothways and dude is a creep
😂
No shit thats what I was thinking. oops
@@kikikanadano shit? there was shit.
I know so many guys that have been stuck in a relationships with and Alcoholic angry abusive women. This is not uncommon at all. It's hard to get out of these relationships just like it is for a lady to leave an alcoholic abusive man.
The cycle of abuse is no joke. It's ironic that it's so hard to leave someone who hurts you like that.
I go through withdrawals waiting for your videos, you make my day, thank you💕
0:23 YWO FOINES IN ONE VIDEO, TODAYS IS A GREAT DAY
I love it!😂😂🤣
It is Foinne!
Every thing is FOINE
Say less😂😂
TWO❌️
YWO✅️
Poor Richard I feel bad because he doesn't defend himself or calls the police that his girlfriend beating him up. :(
I don’t understand why he didn’t just leave her the very first time she behaved like this I think he may have mental issues
@@roeldiamond353he was possibly abused as a kid so this relationship felt normal. Maybe not the pooping part.
I'm pretty sure the only reason he even started documenting everything was just because she threatened to say he was the abuser. That's likely where he drew the line to defend himself from being called an abuser.
If she hadn't pooped on him, who knows if he would have left her.
@@roeldiamond353Well if he left her then she'll of course tries to blame and frame him and say that he's the abuser and she's the victim.
@@roeldiamond353 Stockholm syndrome
@@roeldiamond353 Because people would likely say he's a wimp for not being able to 'control his woman' or something like that. Same reason why he never reported it, because the general reaction is "you got beaten by a woman? lol. lmao even"
3:54
THAT LOOKS SO PAINFUL OMLLL
The blinks 😂.. mini animations might engage the audience. Food for thought.
8:00 hahaha “Boom! roasted”
You mean Boom-Boom? (Pls don’t kill me)
?
Thank you Ray for telling a male domestic abuse story. It’s sad these stories aren’t reported as much or tended too the way it is vice versa. If you love someone you don’t hit them Man or woman.
Male abuses are most likely not heard
Poor richard...
He doesn't deserve this
She is so lucky he doesn't lay a hand on her
fr
"why didn't he just leave her", "why did he marry her" do any of you even understand what psychological abuse does to a person's mental stability and thought process? jesus christ.
4:46 Just NOW things are starting to get really out of control??
Fr
Ye
i think it means it's getting more out of control than ever before
Poor Richard 😭😭😭😭
I heard the word poop and thought of Amber Heard.
Edit: changed if to of
"My dog stepped on a bee😫"
Same
Me 2😂 amber turd
Everyone will tell him he's "a real man" for not retaliating
Why is it ok for Ray to say "He lets her abuse him" but we, as a society, can't say "She lets him abuse her"?
And no, it's not okay forRay to say that
Great video. Male domestic abuse victims should be allowed to express their feelings without the judgment of others. Where are the feminists now?
She definitely crazy bro. Just look at her mugshot
she was drunk or sm
If the male was the abuser the prison sentence would have been way longer.
As it should, because it's more often. It has to stop. This case is like 1 in a million.
@@nfdslkfladhf An abuser is an abuser, the sex of the abuser should not matter. The frequency of who specifically is an abuser should not matter.
@@nfdslkfladhf it should be equal men abuse does exist women can be way more toxic than men
@@nfdslkfladhfequality is still a factor here. Women shouldn't be exempt from harsher sentences because men do the crimes "more often"
@@nfdslkfladhf Does this imply that the rarity of the crime diminishes its severity?
Her picture has me dying💀 7:22
Jezebel, without the make-up....😬...
Fr 😂
Fr fr
Why they make the guy look different from real life and her to
fr why her hairline built like that 💀
I know a narcissist personality disorder when I see the patterns
i'm pretty sure this was made into a TV show in the UK called My wife, my abuser. if any international people want to watch it i'm pretty sure it'll be out there somewhere online. definitely worth watching (my5 for UK viewers)
Those poor kids who had to deal with this their whole lifes also
They probably hated seeing their dad being abused 😢
0:04 I thought this was a Johnny Depp amber heard case
Me too
@@SevaSeva-i9lme three
Sad part is most people are laughing at him and don't feel for him at all.
I don't think that's the case at all.
Dear Ray...I'll tell you how the pooping went down. He knew it was being recorded so he just let her do it to gather evidence against her. Hope this helps you sleep at night.
I always watch ur vids while playing fortnite or gta half my headset on while playing and im listening to ur story in the background 💪
I love that you made a secondary video that you edited in, cause the poop was on your mind so much. That says alot
I'm not denying that it's true, but it feels weird how surprising this is. Stop domestic violence and abuse.
Never expected that I needed to see Ray in a limp bizket shirt but I love it😂
Agree! I love his shirts 😊
😅Waittt i didnt realise
Its all about the crime here crime there bullsh!t
Poor guy ... she is a monster
That poor guy. This story is heartbreaking 💔 I’m glad he made it out alive
First time watching Ray's premiere. I am thrilled
Same too ❤
Same
The yaaaaahhh in the background killed me 😂
The sad thing is that there are so many Richard’s in jail who don’t have nanny cams.
Its so sad how he still married her as if the abuse wasn’t a deal breaker, then kids were brought into this environment 😞, I feel bad that he didn’t feel like he could talk about it.
Rag why am I addicted to your stories? 😂
I hope his new partner is not an abuser, I have known more than one person who got out of an abusive relationship and jumped right into another one, almost like they seek out someone. For his sake and his kids, I hope he chose wisely the second time.
He shouldn't have waited so long 💔
Victimblaming✅
"he's not going to admit to anyone that his girlfriend beats him up, that's embarrassing"
The double standard, Wow
The reason male abuse is so “rare” is because the people being abused are scared they’d be seen as weak and that people will believe their other so there is less reports of this abuse
5:50 i like how ray records these little bits just so he can get the video up to 8 minute's 😭
Amber Heard 2.0
You know it’s about to get serious when Ray says “until”
Yo ray. You sure this isn’t Johnny depp and Amber heard? 🤔
These stories are great n all, but that way he says Foine! And other stuff cracks me up and so I just subscribed
this is heartbreaking, I am so glad he finally got the courage to leave .. couldn't have been easy for him
Man that pic of his arm stopped my heart for a sec
How on earth did he put up with all this???
Plot armor, resilience, or he just wanted to gather some evidence
fr bro has patience of a monk
Abuse victims often stay with their abusers out of fear that leaving will end up being worse. A lot of times abusers will threaten pets and children if their partner leaves.
6:49 had me lol - always good Ray, thanks for posting
Eww... luckily, this dude has all the evidence against this evil woman
idk why but the "clean my sh*t up" bit caught me off guard
I laughed really hard . It was like a funny skir
2:00 that forehead is BANGINGGGGG!!
Fr i noticed that too
Bro I was literally about to comment that
That is ksi cousin
@@Lloyd.Z.2012 no, ksi is his own species,
Crainius Maximus
@VanillaIceCream-d2w ok
The start, “so his wife pooped on him” WT-f
First ray premiere for me 🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳
This abusive terrible woman should not be a parent. Kids shouldn't be brought into this abusive situations. I feel very bad for this guy😢
Are there are no resources for men being abused 😢?
Ofc no one talks about male abuse, its illegal to hit a woman if your a man but it’s legal to hit a man if your a woman
what about the kids when shes drunk 💀
IKRRR
I heard this story on This Morning(it's a UK programme here in England and it's also in Ireland too). Poor guy
That's soo insanely disgusting
Wow, that's insane.
And the punishment she received was way less than she deserved.
I mean seriously? What kind of uncivilized human being constantly berates someone for over 2 decades?
And to top it off, uses defecation as a weapon?
Shame is a huge factor in dv😢 for both men and female victims… also there is a stereotype that victims are meek and shy, whereas victims can be very successful in their jobs both professionally/in the home.