What I Wish I Knew BEFORE Becoming a Mom (Mom of 4!)

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  • Опубліковано 6 січ 2025

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  • @tamarmeisels4637
    @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +2

    I’d love to hear if any of these ideas resonate with you! 💕I know every parent is so different!

  • @angelafern445
    @angelafern445 Місяць тому +7

    This is so helpful for new or moms of younger babes! Mine are 17 and 19 now, and my time is pretty much mine again. It happened so fast. Now I'm going thru trying to find " myself " again. Taking time for self care and being a mom to baby adults. It's hard. It's a new chapter, but a bittersweet one. God bless!!

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      Wow!! Brand new season 😅💕💕
      Amazing how time flies...
      Thank you so much for your sharing🙏

  • @bookmouse2719
    @bookmouse2719 Місяць тому +10

    I wish I had taken Child Development in college before having kids. The way you were raised is how you will raise your kids unless you take parenting classes. I recommend taking some parenting classes. Make time to read to your children, help your own to learn reading through phonics.
    Be careful who you marry, you can't change your spouse.

  • @hilda4091
    @hilda4091 Місяць тому +1

    Tamar thank you I appreciate your advise it does help me and I even shared it with my husband

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you so much! Really means a lot to me 🙏❤️❤️

  • @amritbika6865
    @amritbika6865 Місяць тому +4

    You are doing such a great job raising your kids 🥰🥰 I love your videos ❤️❤️

  • @honeyrose7663
    @honeyrose7663 Місяць тому +3

    That baby is so precious 💕 i dont have kids yet but definitly want to have as many as possible!

  • @beans4853
    @beans4853 Місяць тому +3

    Hi from a fellow orthodox jewish mom of 4! So glad i found your channel!

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      Hehe that is so cool!! We prob have soooo much in common ❤
      Welcome aboard! ✨

  • @karlschreiber9286
    @karlschreiber9286 Місяць тому +5

    Most important Job!

  • @YtUser-c1c
    @YtUser-c1c Місяць тому +2

    Your kid blowing raspberries is sooo cute! My special needs child loved to do it for hours on end. We would have so much fun. I started investing time becoming a specialist on autism in children, and now on autism in young adults. It is intense, but very rewarding. My house is a mess sometimes, but never really out of control. And I can help other parents with their questions.
    And I am with my dad who is housebound two days a month to take care of him. Couldn’t have done this with a career.

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      ❤️❤️ Wow that sounds amazing!!! Thank you so much for sharing 🙏

  • @jamiestanley9234
    @jamiestanley9234 29 днів тому

    I never thought of I have my child and my spouse because that’s what god wants me to have. What great insight! This really does give me an entirely new perspective on motherhood. Another great video 🩷

  • @karenjohnson5634
    @karenjohnson5634 Місяць тому

    Love this video!!!! I will comment more soon! Had to get through Thanksgiving (which was so nice!!!) and started back work tonight (Sunday). Hope to comment in the next few days! I’m serious- you should look into counseling or life coach stuff! You are gifted in those areas!! ❤

  • @Libby_Hannah
    @Libby_Hannah Місяць тому +1

    Shalom sheli!
    Shavua Tov.
    The thing I learned not that late as a mom is DONT WORRY TO MUCH AND PRAY A LOT TO HASHEM❤
    I hd 3 kids, HaShem took 2 of them and my son is autistic so challenges are everywhere BUT my Tzadik and his wife (HaShem bless both of them❤) told me to read a book from the tzadik Shalom Aruch and one thing that sticks with me was that.
    And sure do your best but never push yourself way too much because whatever happens is a perfect way made by HaShem❤

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      I love THESE Libby Hanna! Thank you so much for sharing!!I
      --> PRAYING ❤️❤️ --> GIVING WAY TO HASHEM ❤❤
      May Hashem bless you with health, happiness and nachat!

  • @McAvoy-ft5fg
    @McAvoy-ft5fg Місяць тому +2

    You have Beautiful Children !!

  • @cameobourbon6628
    @cameobourbon6628 Місяць тому +1

    Tamar you are such a great Woman with a great Family❤
    I have no family but your video is even helpful for me

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      That is so sweet of you to say!
      Thank you ❤❤

    • @cameobourbon6628
      @cameobourbon6628 Місяць тому +1

      @@tamarmeisels4637 what you say is valid for different situations. And because you tried it in your family, i know that it is true.🥰

  • @karlschreiber9286
    @karlschreiber9286 Місяць тому +1

    Tough times for poor people. Especially for mothers. We could nt always be strong. And I could cry many people (not only men) take women like they we nothing. Stay strong.

    • @karlschreiber9286
      @karlschreiber9286 Місяць тому

      I m praying for Israel and peace especially for your family. It will last longer than we expected everywhere on Earth. Read tehellim ps. 104 so our hope won t be lost.

  • @travelroundvideos7470
    @travelroundvideos7470 Місяць тому +4

    ❤❤❤🇮🇳🕉️🇮🇱✡️🕊️🙏 most important job is motherhood..

  • @barbararadzeviciusbondi4150
    @barbararadzeviciusbondi4150 Місяць тому +2

    Time .. I'm 72 and 6 children. The first has a vision disability. The ME generations. Childbirth is the closest women come to death each time.
    There's those who don't want kids until their late 30's is a delusional lifestyle. The pill destroys fertility.
    So much over thinking.

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      Amazing ❤️❤️
      Ya I hear you ! Sad how in some countries there is even a negative birth rate ..

  • @antonellabaluganti8109
    @antonellabaluganti8109 Місяць тому +1

    Scialon cara a te e al tuo bambino. Che Ascen ti benedica grandemente ora e in eterno te e il tuo bambino gloria Eterna ad Ascen gloria eterna al Messia nei secoli dei secoli senza fine amen Alleluyia

  • @antonellabaluganti8109
    @antonellabaluganti8109 Місяць тому +1

    Cara io ho i soldi contati limitati devo ristrutturare la casa se no mi viene giu e sto aiutando due poveri che passano da casa mia credimi ora ho solo cinque euro finche non risquoto

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +1

      Shalom ! Thank you for your kind words! May Hashem bless you with prosperity and joy!

  • @emsdiy6857
    @emsdiy6857 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you beautiful video ,Are you a Jew for Jesus?

    • @tamarmeisels4637
      @tamarmeisels4637  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you so much!
      No😊, I'm a Jewish orthodox living in Israel❤️

    • @emsdiy6857
      @emsdiy6857 Місяць тому +1

      @ ok