Ending an Engagement (ft. Tianna Robillard) | Hot Mess with Alix Earle
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- Опубліковано 13 жов 2024
- (VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY AND UA-cam) This week, Alix sits down with Tianna Robillard to get the exclusive on her recent break-up drama. After discovering her fiancée had been cheating, Tianna broke off the engagement and never looked back. Listen to hear about how she gained the confidence to leave and how she’s rebuilding a life without him.
Alix and Tianna lighten things up and play a game of FMK. Then Alix answers some WWAD questions on her own.
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The way that she still til this day hasn’t bashed him says it’s definitely his loss
Loss*
Loss*
@@meganbrewer5591children 🙄
His loss? No offense but I think bro is fine with or without her 😭
Loss*
What’s wild is, is that she is still being tactful and protecting him by not ENTIRELY airing him out. She’s selective with what she says and how she explains it, out of love for him. Shes a good person, Cody lost a treasure.
Lawyers and NDAs tend to do that.
It means the guy wasn't foolish and knew his worth 😂
@@gabrielmeth4844yea I don’t think any of that was involved lmao
@@gabrielmeth4844nda 😂😂😂..he doesnt make the kind of money he would need to need an NDA...he may play in the nfl but let's not pretend he makes the kind of money his quarterback teammate makes. No one even knew who he was before she boosted him and his career.
damn right!
@@megacoolgamer1158 why not? All it takes is a good lawyer. I think you are assuming too much grace from someone you have no proof deserves it.
Tiana has so much class. No shit talking, no extreme detail. She’s so classy. I love how she holds herself.
And here he is making a react video to this podcast and saying he’s gunna make his own podcast with the “truth”.
classy? she could of kept what happened in her relationship private like any person with some decency would do
@@hemphill_cartershe in social media. this is also a podcast where almost everyone talks about what they’ve been/are going through. his name wasn’t mentioned once. she has the right to express how she felt about this online or offline.
Hi❤
@@hemphill_carterwhat he deserves worse than what she has done he ruined years of a relationship. Don’t cheat if you don’t want hate
Manifesting that this is going to skyrocket her career and it's going to be full of great opportunities moving forward. This is just a blessing in disguise queen. God sent you a clear message.
What career? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she's unemployed and gold digger.
This is such a sweet comment ♥️ manifesting amazing opportunities for you too babe!!! your comment alone makes me remember that humans are good :)
Thanks queen. Little did you know I needed this comment too 😊 best wishes your way too queen 🙌🏼
@@analili6955 keep looking up to pedos 🤢
Career?? What do you mean by that exactly? She was dating a successful person. Thats not a career.
THE WHO DID I NOT MARRY REFERANCE LMAO
HELPP
**reference
I feel for her so much when shes talking about how not only did the person betray you and hurt you so much but then YOU have to change and pick up the pieces of your life when you did nothing but love that person. Cheating will always be one of the most vile things you can do to someone. Shes very head strong and has a beautiful outlook on life❤️
No one knew Cody ford until TT came around . 💯
oh 100%😂 my bf didn't even know who he was and hes big on football
She wouldn’t have gotten big without him
Except for the NFL who pays him 10’s of millions of dollars 😂
@@stromboliolie8762nah he is currently on 1.3 million contract
@@stromboliolie8762actually he signed for about $1 million. She could easily make that on social media
She is an absolutely amazing role model for women, strong and independent and not afraid to put her foot down and leave a toxic situation.
She is but unfortunately most modern women are going to take this the wrong way
you call that a role model? damn women have really fallen in 2024
Yea being a gold digger is a great role model
@@megami215golddigger wouldn't have left that black fatherless cheating loss
Facts 💯
I think what tt was trying to get acrossed is that her entire life has changed and nothing will change for him. Her whole world was flipped and he gets to live without a broken heart.
The way she’s still smiling and happy talking about when he proposed like she loved him so much 😭🥹
Dang, she knew and didn't tell him until the next day 😢 she so strong for that
"I gave him everything, and it still wasn't enough" 😭
I feel your pain 😢
She didn't give him anything. She used him
@@megami215smdh i wont justify that with an answer. he doaent play with a great team lol he disnt have followers untill her i nver heard of him till her you must be a groopy clearly💯and still half the folloqwrs he xheatws you want a cbeater lol you probably do lol figures💯💯 and he is doing what great Now?
Nope men give everything women just take cause women don't love there men unconditionally
TT is a class act, she could have bashed him and spilled the tea but she didn’t…she didn’t even allude to anything. God will bless you for this sis! Cheers to your growth and success TT… we support you.
she still speaks about their love so lovingly… to be a women 🤍
Unfortunately going through the same thing rn… sending everyone who can relate tons of light and love ❤
Going through this now sending love
you deserve better love, never ever forget
Is he a nfl player
@@NBaa2123 ya and ive heard from ppl who like football that he isnt even good tho
you deserve to be loved the same way you love. your right person is out there
The fact in only 2 years he cheated on her multiple times is crazy. Karma will catch up with him though.
It already did he sucks at football. My man said only reason he was resigned is because the bangles don't give a rata$$ about protecting joe.
Why did she still stay? She's the 🤡
@@frankgonzalez1450girl.. it’s not easy being in her position and there is no reason for u to be rude and call her a clown. she loved him, and it’s clear u don’t understand it bc no one has loved u lol
@@eliimvgno it's cause she was in love with the IDEA of his lifestyle. Him being in the NFL, tall, having money, etc. She gave more than he gave her. Then women go crazy over CF reaction to this video on stream. She was with him for 2 years and irs her fault for being blind to the obvious signs. Especially if he cheated multiple times. That's her own fault for sticking around. I don't really have remorse for her at all.
@@frankgonzalez1450 his actions arent her fault. her actions are her fault.
TT is about to have the most insane post-breakup era. She’s such a star.
Also the part where she prayed for a sign gave me CHILLS omg
alix repeatedly uplifting her almost made me cry lol, just so sweet
i’m so glad TT is getting the recognition she deserves! She is such a sweet light in this world! seriously love her! 🤍🥹💐
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.
Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.
this is exactly what i needed after seeing how she left all of a sudden! justice for her
yup
Why did you even need to hear it its not ur life💀
@@hawaiimadekalanikai4450it’s always the people with anime photos that hate on UA-cam 😂
@@thebanksfilms4426 yours is a airplane dog💀
@@hawaiimadekalanikai4450 well I’m a pilot and that’s a photo of me landing in my home airport. What’s special about anime photo my guy?
The part where she said they get to continue their life while you have to figure it out. So real :(
cody is so gonna regret leaving TT, she has such a beautiful aura and personality ❤❤
He didn’t leave, she did…
@@AlmightyLxck he cheated
Nope he not
@@nickhollinger7157he might not but karma will get him for sure 🤷🏼♂️
@@nickhollinger7157 aww u are in love w him
the vulnerability and she respect she has is absolutely inspiring and motivational. God is going to bless her in so many ways she doesn’t even know. A couple years from now she is going to be so so happy but at peace. Tiana you genuinely inspire and motivate others every single day. God put you through this for a reason i cannot wait to see what he has in store for you. Continue to heal and take all the time you need to be truly happy. God bless you sweetheart. 💕
her mentioning leaving the dogs tore my heart apart omg
Right!! I’m like TT if you don’t go and get your dogs!! HE DOES NOT DESERVE THEM!
The dogs were my first thought when I saw they broke up 😭😭😭😭
"Raising dogs" lmao. What does that even mean
as someone who also got recently cheated on, its nice to know im not alone 🥺
it seems like it will never get better but boo it will, that person is that there searching for your love. don't give up and remember your worth!!!
same 😢 she’s helped me move on bc if TT can do it so can I ❤️
same girl :/ !
someone who does you wrong just leads you towards someone who is right... ❤❤❤❤
same : (
She continues to speak so tenderly about their love. to be a lady Regretfully, experiencing the same thing again Sending heaps of love and light to everyone that can connect
shes absolutely so strong for this and the way shes not talking down on him is so womanly and i love it!!
I cry whenever I see my friends cry so when TT started crying explaining the breakup I could not hold it in. We truly love you on here TT and are supporting you every step of your path🩷She just feels like one of the girls
when she said “they can live their lives and I have to fight for a roof over my head,” 😭 we love you TT! praying God brings nothing but the LITERAL BEST. 💐🩷🙏🏼✨
As a man who has made mistakes before, this is motivation to be the best version of myself, and treat my woman the way you deserve to be treated
but what if they deserve to be treated like TT got treated? 🤨
@@cristix11then just break up. Don’t sacrifice your character for anyone. Now his bad character is on display.
@@cristix11you’re allowing yourself to turn into them if you stoop to their level. leave with class and let them figure it out.
No way, I'm just now realizing that he most definitely proposed to her thinking that when he cheated on her again, she would for sure stay because they are engaged. That's so manipulative and insane. I'm so glad to hear that she knows her self worth and a ring didn't mean more than respecting herself. Go Tianna honestly, that's so strong of her.
You provided such a safe place for her Alix! It was so warm and genuine! You can feel how natural the whole conversation went. Girlhood.
I have so much respect for Tianna. I would hope my daughter's would have the strength to choose themselves over a toxic relationship. Your guy is out there TT, and he will love you the way you deserve.
The fact that he cheated before and she stayed to build a life with him and he still couldn’t stay loyal. TT is too good for this world and the fact that she’s homeless while he gets to continue sleeping around is foul.
She put her whole heart into a man that knew he wouldn’t respect it and I hope for nothing but the absolute best for miss TT🖤
Well men should have multiple women not just one
@@gabisimms1132women do not put there whole hearts in marriage or relationships cause women don't love there men for real
@@gabisimms1132facts are she is like all women they don't love there men unconditionally
I went through a VERY similar situation. I was engaged, got cheated on again, packed my bags and said goodbye and restarted my ENTIRE life. Moved from AZ to Montana with just the stuff in my car and few bucks in my bank account, and never looked back. I met the love of my life, we built a home, have two kids together, and are living our best life. Fortunately, my breakup didn't unfold on social media (aside from a few caddy posts on his end) like yours did, but this too will pass. You'll meet someone who knows your worth. Your happy ending is coming
I love this for you ❤
Thanks for sharing this 😢 gives some us who were cheated on hope
I felt TT when she asked God to give her a sign and he did.. God works in mysterious ways
tiana is the sweetest, most genuine, and kind-hearted person. she deserves the world.
God you people with parasocial relationships are so embarrassing YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HER GOOF
I am an NFL fan but I am 100% with Tianna. I’ve been cheated on and I know the feeling she’s going through. Cody doesn’t know what he lost and I respect her so much for being the one to get out and not let him manipulate her to stay like most cheaters do
Oh my god now I have to adjust my sleep schedule for this [but I know it’ll be worth it]
Always is for tt
Real
LITERALLY
I’m glad we made the right one famous ACTUALLY she has class. Love
You Tianna.
TT was so mature and respectful! Love this girl. She has every right to tell her story and she does with so much grace (when she rlly doesn't have to) and kindness for herself. To leave like that shows how much self worth she has, I wish I had that when I was in my early 20s in horrible relationships. Definitely giving other girls the courage to do so by telling your story❤ thank you TT🫶🏻
Same shit happened to me 3 years ago. Tianna, you are doing the right thing. It does feel like you’re gonna die, but I PROMISE it gets better and God will give you the man you deserve. Prayers for healing ❤
The way I gasped when I heard “Ferndale” I’m from Mount Vernon, Wa. Literally so close to Ferndale. ❤ So much love and respect to Tianna! The way you carry yourself with class during such a tough time 10/10 Queen!!
She’s such a beautiful young lady, honestly too beautiful for him. Not that looks matter, but for him not to value her for the beauty she carries inside and out, and how much she adored him is mind blowing! Can’t wait to see what God has in plans for TT.
I love her genuine kindness. She’s actively making a choice to not bash him and that just shows how great her heart is on top of the maturity she has. Her actions speak for her & she honestly went through this so well. Props to her especially after that heartbreak that’s still going on within her
He literally watch the whole thing in silence on twitch and still made no apology by the end of his “speech”
I wish I could’ve seen his reaction ! I hope someone screen recorded it. My heart hurts for Tianna
He still loves her, she’s done no wrong so he can’t sit there and slag her off when she’s done nothing but protect him when he left her the most vulnerable 💔
wait fr?
Watched this?
Yes and now he is saying he will be coming out with a podcast to tell the other side pretty much. I feel he should just apologize and say everyone makes mistakes and every relationship is not perfect and close this chapter
I love how TT is so respectful even after everything that happened her aura is js so bright and loving. Love you tt🤍
Finally calling his ass out as u should
I’m glad she talked about it, she still is protecting him but I’m glad she let the people know what happened
I did not know she was 28 omg
I was looking for a comment that said this bc me neitherrrr!!
He just went on twitch and said he’s coming out with a podcast with “all the details”. Cant wait to see how he spins this. CLOWN 🤡
literally so gross. weirddddddd behavior 🤡
@@Jacquelynnn955 when he basically said he didn’t get anybody pregnant so it doesn’t matter LIKE WHAT YOU STILL CHEATED
@@MrFiveathearthe has a terrible mindset 🤦🏽♀️
@@MrFiveatheart LITERALLY !! I love when he’s like I thought we were on the right track…. BRO U DECIDED TO CHEAT ?? the entire way he handled it was sooo icky he sucks
@@Jacquelynnn955and when he was like “we both did things in the relationship” NUHHH UHHH YOU ARE NOT ABOUT TO PUT IT ON OUR TT
TT is herself 24/7 and that’s what we love about you!!! You are strong, INDEPENDENT, brains & beauty, and can’t forget her humor 😂❤ girl your are more than a trophy, I honestly can’t wait to see how far she goes. You are amazing and i know a lot of people look up to you for your courage and strength ❤❤❤❤
The way T handled this is beyond hard she hasn’t said one bad word about this guy! But also trusted her gut and WALKED!! Your amazing T❤
Gosh, Tianna is such a strong smart woman!!! Her having the strength to walk away is admirable!!! Wishing her nothing but the best and hoping for her to continue to grow in her personal life and professional life!!!
Tianna is HER!
Don’t think any of Alix’s other interviews have come close to 1M and TT has it at 900K in just a day! Literally the most beautiful soul ♥️
So happy she found out before they got married! She’s so brave🙁🤍
He didn't want you to have anything so he could control you...classic narcissism...
I had the same thought. Huge red flag. Combine the classic narcissism with love bombing and here we are
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Ughh you can still hear the pain in her voice. It’s crazy how he pushed her to leave her job & pushed her to follow the social media life, but then started to have resentment towards her when she is the one winning. I feel like he hated that she was becoming more famous than he is and he hated that. Bcuz let’s be honest I never knew who he was until her!! Regardless WE LOVE OUR QUEEN TIANNA!! WE RIDE FOR HER!!!
First time watching Alix podcast love how she kinda interviews and Tiana is such a sweetheart I truly wish her the best cause she deserves this 🤍 hope things will be better soon 🫶🏽
TT!!! girl that noggin of yours is something special. it’s rare that someone has this mindset
She really holds herself well. I have the most absolute respect for her and the decision she made for herself! I didn't know her or him but she has a fan forever in me. ❤
Tianna is just pure class and I respect her so much for knowing her worth! Also Alix making such a safe space for Tianna to reflect and support her along the way! Girlies supporting girlies just warms my heart!
When she was talking about raising the dogs, then having to be the one to leave them 😭 it’s the worst
Yep went through this with a man with kids, I imagine it’s similar. Men suck.
Heavy on the she’s so smart! She really is standing on business and that’s amazing. So much self worth!
“who did i not marry” aha iconic. we love you TT and you’re so amazing!! hoping things brighten up for you as you continue to such a light to us!! ❤️
My sister just today broke up with her husband of 14 yrs and he moved out. Same thing it was all about him and I'm happy she finally is free. I only want the best for her and any woman going through this. I been through it before myself, Its best to focus on yourself and always be happy and smile do you life is too short. A good friend once said to me... "Smile it makes people wonder what you're up to." Her name was Shenee and she past away already. But I will always remember her words. Smile xoxo... Alix all love and positive vibes! 💕🌸
TT is such a class act, handling the situation with grace and dignity. Cody truly lost a gem.
Gosh i love her so so much 💖 She’s so strong & inspiring for women!!! My heart aches for her, but she did a damn good job!!
TT I went through the exact same thing at 28 & now I’m 30, living my best life. I promise life gets so much better. I’m sooo proud of you for leaving & choosing YOU. ❤️🔥
Tiana is such a strong, classy, boss woman. She’s gonna make it so much further without that distraction in her life. He lost a great woman but there’s a man out there who will treasure her and i hope when that person comes along she’s open to love & trust again. Nobody deserves to live with these feelings ever.. 😫
Alix you are such a good interviewer! You get the good questions but it feels so effortless.
Tiana is so graceful, what an interview! (I also had to watch in bits, as I couldn’t get past the enormous amount of times they both use the word Like. It’s WILD)
I love this. TT has such a pure soul and I wish her the best in her future. Alix did such a great job with getting the tea without being pushy.
I can’t WAIT until the right man comes along that will love her, appreciate her, and protects her heart the way she absolutely deserves! INCREDIBLE, respectful, authentic woman TT, and I can’t wait to continue to follow your journey!! 🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
now I'm mad at my man for existing
😭😂 no but seriously!! he can sleep on the couch tonight!!
@@lacyeddleston5619lool he is a loser if he does it.
You lot are weird
@@joelbentley28i swear bunch of followers
@@lacyeddleston5619Hope he finds someone better
I hold a strong place in my heart for Tianna, not everyone including myself have the courage to go what she went through and still have the most positive mindset. If I were her I would’ve of fallen into depression or something. Thank you Tianna for showing us how women should move on!❤️👑
When you get cheated on it feel like your on this world By your self 😥 I wish you the best and I Hope Your find your person , YOU DESERVE IT!!💞👏🏾🙏🏾
What a strong woman. I commend her for keeping it respectful and I am so incredibly thankful she didn’t have his children. She will find so much peace, love and happiness. God’s got her ❣️
The tea is gonna be crazy ngl
I had never heard of Tianna before the breakup, but honestly she has handled everything with so much grace. She is genuinely seems like such a sweet person. I hope she finds her person and is able to plan that wedding she wants ❤
No bc not being able to take the dogs would hurt me most
I hope there is a part two since she didn’t ask any of the questions that we wanted to know, we already knew all of this… did Cody actually meet up with the girl, did Cody deny it, did Cody regret it? Is Cody still trying to be with TT, Maybe you can interview Cody cause there are lots of questions you didn’t ask..
They literally talked about it not being our business… let them live. It gave what it needed to give
@@Saintsfan15 why do the interview then, we knew everything she said from her lives…
If I did podcasts, I would have asked …
Was with someone for 6 years. He ended up cheating on me. Boy am I glad to be out of that dependent lifestyle. Didn’t help that he was also abusive in all areas. Tianna you are such a light and it’s so amazing that you got out of this because of the value you hold to yourself ♥️ you are so brave!
She has so much class and grace even after what she’s been thru🥺Love u TT and so proud of you🤍🤍
I love you TT!! 28 too and my 10 year relationship ended at the same time due to the same reasons and I feel like I’m completely starting over and have 3 kids. So much love for you!!
Alix is a great interviewer, I’m impressed!
Packing up the car and leaving the next morning is some g shit
I’ve never related to words more then when she said “they get to do that and they can just go on and live and I have to rebuild my life” this brought tears to my eyes knowing I’m not the only one feeling this way after being cheated on by my exboyfriend of 4 years
He cheated in beginning of relationship and again while she was in PARIS no other deets spilled
26:47 ugh this is so hard to listen to 😢 her voice being full of emotion and I just know that she deserves happiness tenfold! She will find the light at the end of the tunnel ❤
Her complete inability to remember any dates shows how disorienting this was for her. My heart beaks for this woman.
The maturity of TT is beautiful!!! The fact that Cody live-streamed his reaction tells me everything. I need little to no explanation just by that set of events.
*Update*
The strength you have to not let bs slide after already addressing and working through and left, I applaud you. You should have someone that celebrates your wins as much as you celebrate their wins. You are a huge role model
love how respectful she was! ❤ we need a TT podcast!
I love these two amazing girls
tianna is such a beautiful person, truly pure sunshine. i admire her for sharing this journey & showing so women it is possible to stand strong, value yourself, & leave the second you are no longer valued. speaks volumes he streamed this as it was premiering…weird WEIRD behavior. wishing the absolute best for queen tt💖
She knows her worth! She is a role model for many women! I know it’s a heartbreak but she won, she ate, she’s above it all. ❤
FOR THOSE WHO WANNA KNOW IT STARTS AT AROUND 14:00
As someone who was recently betrayed, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one.
Cody will definitely regret leaving TT because she exudes such a lovely vibe and charm.
Tianna is simply a beautiful woman and all you momma need to show her to your daughters as this is what your daughters need to look up to….. she is pure class, love, independence and honesty. #bemorelikeTT
We’ll always stick by you boo! 🤞🏽I love how you’re so classy & know what you deserve! Also I’m so glad you listen to God & let him show you, I think we all need that smack in the face!😂 We love you T! 💗
Tianna is the queen of class. She could have made this MESSYYYYY and dragged his name but NOT ONCE. Love you TT and Alix ⭐️