Parenting after trauma // Autism // Finding rest in Jesus
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
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Sorry it was a fairly short vlog! I'm still figuring out how to structure my videos 😬
I'm also thinking I am not just Autistic but adhd also which would make A LOT more sense since I struggle to keep a routine and be organised, even though I crave order and routine! 😩
Anyway, i love you all and thank you for being here. I can't express it enough the love and support I've recieved this far and how much it's encouraged me. 🙏🏻❤️
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Your emotions are real and normal, and talking them through with your husband, is vital. What l see in you, is a loving, dedicated Wife and Mom, fulfilling the most wonderful role, God has given to be. I see a talented artist.....your drawing, photography, you have a wonderful eye in findings beautiful furniture, the list is endless!!!! Most important is your love for the Lord, and that shines both inwardly and outwardly!!! I understand how hard it is, I to feel things very deeply, it is all part of being a highly sensitive person. The major changes you accomplished this year were mighty ones!!!! Keep being who you are. Soon, the growing closer to your husband, will make home, feel like home. I just want to give you a big hug and say l understand. With God we get through the toughest of times....only believe. Praying for all of you and the little wee one growing inside you. ❤️🥰❤️💖🙏💖✨
@@michelleadonis3233 😭 thank you so much! I don't like to share too much of my thoughts, especially the flawed ones here but I think it's important to show the unfiltered you sometimes so people don't feel alone. It's always so encouraging reading your comments Michelle ❤️
Being a highly sensitive person has it's good sides and going through what I have, has helped shaped me into a more attentive mother. Marriage is another work lol but I have a husband who does his best and truly cares for me so I am blessed with what I have. Glory to God!
Your spirit and presence help me with never giving up on life
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Wow. So relatable. Thank you, Sis and Yeshua. 🙏🏼💜✝️🕎
Nice vlog!
I feel what you're saying about trauma and how you feel you never really got the chance to discover and be who you are. Being autistic and not knowing about it, masking and being in survival mode our whole lives, discovering who we are is a process, and it's not an easy one. For me, it involves a lot of grieving for all that I have lost to trauma, and for having lived a life so disconnected from myself, not knowing who I really was. I'm so glad I have God now, that I have Jesus, and that I am protected on this journey and my life is in God's hands. And it's wonderful you feel that too, in your own way. It helps so much. 💜🙏
@@annaviolette_art I love this.. Yes so true. I think the grieving part is the hardest, but there's so much joy on the other side because of Jesus in our lives. Amen friend ❤️🌻✨
I pray the Lord continues to strengthen, heal and guide you as you continue on your journey to finding your true comfort, peace and joy in him!
Hi sister in christ, I would like to know you deal with trauma. Other than trusting in God. I have been also traumatized in life and I have faith in God and still trying to heal from it and I have also autism. I am finding the future uncertain because of my limitations I was wondering how do you deal with the uncertainty of the future, other than trusting in God of course. Sorry the long rant.
@@heisawesome4329 certain activities help.. Getting outside everyday helped me a lot but it's not something I can do as much during these winter months, however I would still go for walks even on rainy days and that still helps. Getting fresh air and soaking in some sunshine really does wonders for our mental health. Gardening also is very therapeutic.. I plan to start a small garden this Spring. Baking, cooking, some kind of craft.
I am planning to share more on this in another video. Finding a hobby we love can be very healing. I believe because many of us who went through abuse as children/teens missed out on these opportunities to just enjoy simple hobbies so it really does help.
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I’m sorry I’m new to this channel may I ask how come you had to leave your country? While I’m back in my home country now I lived in North Africa for a year and I completely understand how you feel and it will get better. God bless you and your family.
@@rachelbush8652 honestly, it's was to be reunited with my husband. He lived with me in NZ for a year on a working visa and in that time we had our daughter. We couldn't afford to adjust his visa status and so he had to fly home. We wanted him to move back and live with me but so many factors didn't allow for that to happen, so we worked on a visa for me to travel to live with him instead. It wasn't my hope or plan so we believe it was God's plan but we hope it's also a part of His plan that we can move back some day! Financially, NZ is a very expensive country to live in but I'd give anything to be there again. America is so different, not terrible, just different.
@ that’s completely understandable, god willing you will get to go back to NZ one day. The culture shock is real and it will take time to get used to but you will find your place soon enough and before you know it you’ll feel more comfortable.
Just be you post having a cup of tea and speaking about god.if you don't post will miss you and also it can help you.
@@martl3288 thank you friend ❤️ I plan to post more of me, and less of the me I think people want to see.