What Is the “Thing We Don’t Talk About” in Your Family?

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  • @nightmarekitsune1473
    @nightmarekitsune1473 Рік тому +85

    the time when my dad accidentally cut his chest open while trying to grill burgers for dinner, he was completely unphased by it, he took his shirt off and pressed it against the wound then continued cooking, my sister had to try to drag him away and my mom had to come home from work to take him to the ER

    • @samoanjoseph1457
      @samoanjoseph1457 Рік тому +22

      I hope he's as good at cooking as he is at tanking critical hits.

    • @nightmarekitsune1473
      @nightmarekitsune1473 Рік тому +7

      @@samoanjoseph1457 his burgers are always pretty yummy, so, solid maybe

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 Рік тому +4

      Your dad is a master at not giving a shit.
      Seriously though, hope he went to the hospital.
      Imagine the scar though.

    • @nightmarekitsune1473
      @nightmarekitsune1473 Рік тому +2

      @@beastmaster0934 he did, and the scar might still be there

  • @SnowyWolborg
    @SnowyWolborg Рік тому +16

    I remember when I was 19, my uncle E told me that a burglar broke into aunt M's house when she was in her early 20s. But, she was armed and shot at the person before he could get very far in. I told my uncle it was lucky that she had protection that night.
    I'll never forget how uncle E said "no, nephew, that burglar is lucky she had bad aim that night. Because your auntie has killed a couple of people."

  • @ninomitchell2039
    @ninomitchell2039 Рік тому +39

    Bruno. All joking aside, though, my family is clinically insane. My parents don't talk about the others out of respect for each other, and my sisters and I try not to talk about either in that way but are in an obvious grey area. Also, I know "everyone's family's crazy," anybody thinking that, comment a story, and try and top it

    • @ivorynk752
      @ivorynk752 Рік тому +2

      My brother is diagnosed type two bipolar disorder and tried to commit suicide by cop while on the phone with my mom

    • @ninomitchell2039
      @ninomitchell2039 Рік тому +1

      @@ivorynk752 yeah there's one. Hope everything's ok

    • @ivorynk752
      @ivorynk752 Рік тому +2

      @@ninomitchell2039 He didn't succeed and is still alive, although him getting successful treatment to manage his mood disorder has been a Rocky journey.

    • @ninomitchell2039
      @ninomitchell2039 Рік тому

      @IvoryNK that's good. Happy to hear he's alive at least

    • @ik749
      @ik749 Рік тому

      What is Bruno?

  • @RosePetalSparks
    @RosePetalSparks Рік тому +3

    5:19 My great grandpa also did this. I was never affected because my mom highly suspected that he had something to do with my aunt's trauma (mom was adopted most of her early life so she wasn't affected either). It then comes out that my grandma was affected by him too and he's currently in some kind of home. My grandma and her mom (my great grandma) now have a strained relationship because she (GG) tried defending her husbands actions and let his behavior continue for so long, to the point where my grandma's own child (my aunt) was affected by that man.
    Now that I remember it, whenever my great grandpa was ever close to me, my mom was always right beside me, most likely staring daggers at him while I talked about Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
    My mom is really the only one I can talk to about these kind of family stuff as I'm way to scared to ask anybody else about my great grandpa at this point

  • @TrulyAGhost
    @TrulyAGhost Рік тому +129

    In my family, we don't talk about Bruno....

    • @STALKER953
      @STALKER953 Рік тому +10

      no no nO NO

    • @RosesTeaAndASD
      @RosesTeaAndASD Рік тому +3

      💀💀💀💀

    • @neonlights3739
      @neonlights3739 Рік тому +12

      The moment I read the video title I knew the joke was coming 😂

    • @LA-xc4tc
      @LA-xc4tc Рік тому +3

      We don’t talk about Tomas.

    • @cocomo3141
      @cocomo3141 Рік тому +3

      Crap beat me too it!!!

  • @Amayawolf_01
    @Amayawolf_01 Рік тому +14

    "You don't wash bunnies"
    Huh. I had to Google why, and it turns out they get stressed and freak out. I guess mine was just very chill, cause I was able to bathe her multiple times and she just sat there. Seemed to enjoy bath time, actually

  • @tjdoescosplay
    @tjdoescosplay Рік тому +16

    Kinda in my stepmom family we don’t mention my cousin
    I made that mistake on Christmas by mentioning him but I immediately apologized because they all knew that I was super new but
    He suffered from depression and made really bad choices and is now living out in the street
    I kinda feel bad for him but deep down I hope he get help

  • @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens
    @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Рік тому +3

    10:55 Sounds like trauma due to either poverty (ie: food insecurities) and/or she was sexually abused and hasn't dealt with it. Or both. Very sad situation.

  • @shadowm2k7
    @shadowm2k7 Рік тому +6

    My Aunt's divorce 'cause I didnt even know that happened until 3 YEARS AFTER IT HAPPENED, I KEPT GIVING HER HIS BIRTHDAY AND CHRISTMAS PRESENTS TO GIVE TO HIM AND EVERYTHING AND THE WHOLE FAMILY WOULD JUST WATCH AWKWARDLY AS I GAVE THEM TO HER!!
    I'm betting that I probably STILL wouldn't know about it if my mum didn't blab because STILL NO ONE HAS BROUGHT IT UP!!! AND IT'S BEEN OVER 5 YEARS NOW

  • @reginaldinoenchillada3513
    @reginaldinoenchillada3513 Рік тому +2

    This got crazy dark. ❤
    Kudos to the ppl brave enough to get their story told. Bless u, be well as much as u can.

  • @ApricotStone
    @ApricotStone Рік тому +2

    The fact that my dad cheated on my mom a few years ago. My brother and I didn’t hear the part of the fight that had any specifics, but we know it happened. My brother especially was really mad at my dad for a long time, but it upset my mom too much when he made comments-even though he was mad for her sake-so he stopped. Since then, my dad’s gotten individual therapy, I think they both got couple’s therapy too. Both my brother and I are in college and moved out now, so they could divorce without it sending our lives into chaos if that was a factor, but they’re still together and seem happy. I do love both my parents as people, so if they’re happy, I’m happy. Tbh I would like to ask for more details because I’m nosy like that, but I’m never going to bc that’d only create more hurt

  • @hazelgrunts
    @hazelgrunts Рік тому +2

    - The huge political split in my family. The Canadian side ranges from centrist to leftist, and the Americans are all hardcore Trump supporters. It’s a sensitive subject, especially when the Americans consider LGBT to be a political issue and therefore a forbidden topic at family functions.
    - Adding on to that, I’m LGBT myself and the American side of the family likes to make passive aggressive Facebook posts somewhat directed at me, about how trans isn’t real n stuff. (Why would I “choose to be trans” if it gets me grief like that in the first place?)
    - Autism runs in the family and we’re all pretty sure that my paternal grandfather was autistic but nobody attempted to get any form of a diagnosis. Until you have an official diagnosis, neurodivergence is a bit of a no no topic outside of my own household.
    - My maternal grandmother has severe undiagnosed anxiety and it causes her to obsessively control her (and other peoples’) diets, plans, appointments, etc. Everyone knows it’s a problem, nobody talks about it.
    - My maternal grandfather’s parents were hoarders, I wasn’t alive when the house got cleaned out but I heard that it was certainly a process..

  • @agostinaalegre7734
    @agostinaalegre7734 Рік тому

    The people whom still mantain a relationship with their ex stepdad was the best❤️
    18:43 was the funniest.

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian Рік тому +4

    My oldest sister.
    A liar and a thief, my mom use to protect her. Now our mother is dead and as far as i am concerned, so is she.

  • @finchborat
    @finchborat Рік тому +12

    I learned this from my mom and it was never talked about ever and may never will.
    My uncle (dad's youngest brother) fathered a son when he was a teen.

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 Рік тому +2

      It seems a lot of families have at least one member that did this.

  • @beastmaster0934
    @beastmaster0934 Рік тому

    6:40
    I’m sorry.
    But OP saying that made me laugh my ass off.

  • @elizabethforsyth3054
    @elizabethforsyth3054 Рік тому +1

    glad to have some company... thank you for sharing

  • @stanford-nf4jk
    @stanford-nf4jk Рік тому +3

    That one of my grandads was a coke addict. Coca-Cola claims to have removed cocaine from their trademark beverage in the early 1900s. Growing up there was always cases of it in his house. So either Coca-Cola lied about the removal of the drug or he was using. Either way, we all just “blamed” his erratic behavior on all the sugar, caffeine, and overall crankiness due to the long hours he put in at work.

    • @bombshellonthego
      @bombshellonthego Рік тому +2

      In all honesty just a regular coca-cola addiction can cause trouble. My roommate in college in the 90s was a terror to behold before her first Coke of the day.

  • @Alwaysasherlok
    @Alwaysasherlok Рік тому

    The washing the bunny one had me like "wait... who died?" Before logic caught up.

  • @Minnimoss
    @Minnimoss Рік тому +1

    i was banned from spongebob for saying meow for a whole year

  • @julife.ka.3899
    @julife.ka.3899 Рік тому

    3:50 glad you did it.

  • @drsandy842
    @drsandy842 Рік тому +2

    A person can really die of a broken heart it’s now been determined to be a medical phenomenon.

  • @aqueercosplay5355
    @aqueercosplay5355 Рік тому +2

    I've got a list
    What my grandpa did while he was a cop
    My mom's whole childhood
    The fact my mom didn't think I'll survive infancy cuz she did drugs for the first 5 months
    All the partners of my father
    What my father did while he was deployed
    The fact that my grate grandfather was part of the mod
    My grandma real father

  • @Phoebe5448
    @Phoebe5448 Рік тому +1

    Pretty sure I'm the kid they don't talk about on my bio dad's side. I'm just there. My parents split when I was a year old, if not earlier. Bio dad never wanted to be a dad. He used to babysit my two cousins (his sister's kids) all the time apparently. I'm his only child. He was never in my life until 7 years ago. I'm 30 now. And my parents were married after being together for ten years, but the entire relationship was a shitshow. My aunt and my cousins and my now deceased grandmother knew about me. My dad's mum even asked about me when she was dying. We all live in England but that side always lived up north. I'm the only kid who was born in London. But when I first met my aunt after she remarried, she introduced me to my step great aunt or whoever. (My aunt's husbands mum) the second my aunt introduced me as her neice, this lady did a full on Looney Tunes double take. As if to say, "you didn't tell me you had a neice!" So it's fun being the freak kid who just exists and everyone ignores because you're the black sheep of the family.

  • @shinigami5716
    @shinigami5716 Рік тому +1

    We don't talk about my uncle and everytime I bring his name up I get the death stare from everyone specially my Aunt. Idk what happened cause I have no one to asked about it

  • @mztweety1374
    @mztweety1374 Рік тому

    My maternal grandparents never divorced, but they have been separated, literally all my life …I didn’t find out till grandads funeral.

  • @thunderstorminblack
    @thunderstorminblack Рік тому +1

    Two things on either side. One thing I don't know how true it is, because we don't talk about it, and it's not something you ask, but, my mom told me one of my cousins had an abortion at 14. What makes this so weird and we don't talk about it is my aunt and cousins are very religious, and pro life, pretty much just typical southern white people. She has kids now 3, and they're all really cool kids, and she's a great mother. I get it, she was 14, I don't know how anyone could do that at 14. But I'm not 100% sure because that kinda doesn't seem like something the cousin I know would have done then, but then again she's a few years older then me so maybe I just didn't know what she was doing. On my dad's side, my grandparents only had one child, my dad. They couldn't have more kids so adopted a girl. She ran away at 16, everyone on that's side story is she did drugs, and went insane. What my mom learned not long after her and my dad got married, was the rumors about another reason that child ran away. According to those rumors my grandfather molested her. And apparently did it so often that once she felt old enough she ran to the neighbors, that still live next to me. She stopped talking to my grandparents, she got pregnant had a baby, and went to my grandmother's brother and wife to introduce them to the baby. My grandma wanted to see the girls, she wanted a relationship with her adopted daughter back. But my grandpa shut it down, said she was dead to them now. My dad grew up to be an EMT, and one night on a run to one of the local hospitals, she saw him. She was sick and dying of cancer and wanted nothing but to talk to her brother. She knew that was her brother. But my father ignored her. I heard she died in 2002. I don't know anything other then a name, and didn't find out about her until after my grandfather passed in 2016, when I went into his wallet to find something me and my grandma needed to handle his affairs and saw a picture of her in it, and asked who she was. She told me the story about the drugs. My mom told me about the molestation. When my grandma passed in 2018, and I tried to get her will probated, I was told I had to find this grandchild even tho her will said nothing was to be left for her because she never met her. I have asked everyone on that side of the family, including the neighbors, and no one either knows, or will tell me. It's made things incredibly difficult. And my mom only knows what she told me. So yeah....two pretty fucked up things.

  • @Julesb2183
    @Julesb2183 Рік тому +3

    Bruno

  • @carolinamurtha3102
    @carolinamurtha3102 Рік тому

    That my moms brother (oldest of seven) fathered a child with their second cousin while very much married to his wife. It was literally quite the affair. It is very much an open secret, like we all know about it (this uncle is old enough to be my grandfather and this love child is my age. I met him recently) but his wife refuses to acknowledge him, my cousins (his children with his wife who are all in their 40’s/ 50’s) don’t talk to him, their children (so my uncles grandchildren) have no clue about him. I nearly got slapped across the face because I cracked a joke about the situation in front of them (they were in their late teens, I thought they knew) and another cousin gave me the death stare. I wasn’t born yet but everyone knew something was up when she (second cousin) announced her pregnancy. My grandfather passed away around that time and pretty much called it on his deathbed. I know my uncle well enough that I am not surprised that he was careless enough in his extramarital with a family member that everyone figured it out and knew what was up … and no one was surprised.

  • @kimmiramone2055
    @kimmiramone2055 Рік тому +3

    My aunt was a lesbian. It was never addressed.

  • @lucoakanrogithe2ahashira509
    @lucoakanrogithe2ahashira509 Рік тому +2

    That my nephew was caught attempting to *R* his half-sister one thanksgiving. He was caught before he could do anything and man was he hit hard by his father and he lost a lot of the family’s love and respect especially mine

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 Рік тому +1

      If I was his dad, I’d throw his ass out the window.
      Just open it up, grab him by the collar, and throw him out like yesterday’s trash.

    • @lucoakanrogithe2ahashira509
      @lucoakanrogithe2ahashira509 Рік тому +1

      @@beastmaster0934 oh my mom said my older brother got a wooden board and hit him with it in anger. She said he probably would have killed him with it if she wasn’t there to stop it.

    • @taylermuilenburg5029
      @taylermuilenburg5029 Рік тому +1

      Honey, I probably would have done the same.

  • @b226tj
    @b226tj Рік тому +7

    Not family, but school. My parents didn’t want me to take my gaming laptop to school and once I did a sneaky sneak.

    • @evilsillyhill
      @evilsillyhill Рік тому +1

      no way 😯😯😯

    • @DollyNipples
      @DollyNipples Рік тому +1

      What happened and why didn't they want you to do it?

    • @b226tj
      @b226tj Рік тому +1

      @@DollyNipples What happened is that I played Ride 4 in class, they didn’t want me to because the laptop was expensive.

    • @samoanjoseph1457
      @samoanjoseph1457 Рік тому +1

      @@b226tj I learned real early that you don't bring anything to school unless you can risk going home without it. Because you just might have to.
      Of course if you had laptop specifically for gaming, then we clearly grew up in two different worlds, so maybe that wasn't a concern.

    • @DollyNipples
      @DollyNipples Рік тому +1

      @@b226tj I see.

  • @timriggins70
    @timriggins70 Рік тому +1

    The uncle who does not talk to the mom or grandparents may have been molested by the grandfather too.

  • @dayo8843
    @dayo8843 Рік тому

    The time my mom and stepfather were on Judge Mathis.

  • @A_Borden_History
    @A_Borden_History Рік тому

    We don’t talk about Lizzie in my family…

  • @dat_moody_cartoonist
    @dat_moody_cartoonist Рік тому

    Justin, one of my mom's exes was a cm (me and his bio kid as victims.) and is kinda a forrbidden topic. he's in jail and is known as "He who shall not be named" in our houshold.

  • @kristynkelsey9760
    @kristynkelsey9760 Рік тому +3

    My sexuality and that I was there to watch my dad physically abuse my mom.

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 Рік тому +1

    My family lives in a different continent. I know none of them. They are strangers with fragments of DNA that I share. They are nothing to me.

    • @Phoebe5448
      @Phoebe5448 Рік тому

      Same here, my bio dad's side all live outside of London. They emigrated there, but I was the only one on that side born in the city. They're kind of suburban types and I've always been the freak kid to that side of the family.

  • @kneelingfish437
    @kneelingfish437 Рік тому +1

    Fish 🐟🐠

  • @brianna6309
    @brianna6309 Рік тому +2

    bruno

  • @dragonkyng
    @dragonkyng Рік тому +1

    So many of these are great r/thathappened material

  • @sherriemoon703
    @sherriemoon703 Рік тому +1

    That man is a sucker if he’s claiming a kid not his own.

    • @neonlights3739
      @neonlights3739 Рік тому

      Timestamp?

    • @sherriemoon703
      @sherriemoon703 Рік тому

      @@neonlights3739 it was the deployment guy who claimed the kid. Like the third story in.

    • @neonlights3739
      @neonlights3739 Рік тому

      @@sherriemoon703 oh mb I thought it was from said guy’s pov

  • @mizu7662
    @mizu7662 Рік тому

    I can't tell you, we don't talk about it.

  • @j.tgrooms
    @j.tgrooms Рік тому

    Here we go

  • @lifewithjels4694
    @lifewithjels4694 Рік тому +1

    Bruno.

  • @LaSoldier505
    @LaSoldier505 Рік тому

    My Family and I don't talk about Bruno..... Because he touched me in my No nO NO no.......

  • @Rick_SanchezZZZ
    @Rick_SanchezZZZ Рік тому +3

    my birth and birthmark.
    I was born on the sixth day of June at six o'clock in the morning, from a jackal that died giving birth to me and was buried in Cerveteri under the alias Maria Scianna.

  • @grymhunter2849
    @grymhunter2849 Рік тому +1

    Mostly my mom, cuz she is the kind who cares about nothing other than appearance. If anything outside of "approved" good news happens, it's never talked about so there's a LOT of secrets. Not the stuff my uncle's done, not what happened to my sister with her ex, not even that my grandma died. I found out three months after the fact and she thought it would be perfect to tell me in front of my new partner in a Chinese buffet. I've been NC with them for about three years so I've got no idea what's going on with my family, if I would've found out in the first place.
    And in my "new" family, aka my partner, we don't talk about anything negative. If it's not about how good we're doing or about what improvements he's made, it gets ugly

  • @IAmPantsu
    @IAmPantsu Рік тому

    sex, i find it cringe around my family but talk about it sometimes with my 1 friend

  • @puppetseducer
    @puppetseducer Рік тому

    My oldest sister's kids, or who the father of her youngest kid is

  • @randlewhitney6560
    @randlewhitney6560 Рік тому

    In my family if I told you. It would be bad for you

  • @coloradorc
    @coloradorc Рік тому

    Add a feeling that the top comment on this video would be related to Bruno and I was not disappointed.

  • @xak999
    @xak999 Рік тому

    BRUNO.

  • @VelvetteTheBackboneOfTheVees

    I’m sorry I have to we don’t talk about Bruno

  • @lillyisawesome3360
    @lillyisawesome3360 Рік тому

    👍

  • @aeneamacaulay9514
    @aeneamacaulay9514 Рік тому

    hello:)

  • @nicelydunwell5681
    @nicelydunwell5681 Рік тому

    You!

  • @liveoutbeauty2815
    @liveoutbeauty2815 Рік тому +1

    I couldn’t listen to the entire video. Every other entry was about sexual abuse and it was very disturbing.

  • @truthylucy7068
    @truthylucy7068 Рік тому

    For the guy whose mom thinks she's being followed, listened too etc. You might want to look into TI
    targeted individuals..

    • @emilybarclay8831
      @emilybarclay8831 10 місяців тому

      Or look into mental health care. The Ti community is an echo chamber of untreated mental illness

  • @AndrewBarsky
    @AndrewBarsky Рік тому

    What is an “h” overdose?

  • @RedditRev
    @RedditRev Рік тому

    🤐💯

  • @dimitrijenovakovic7942
    @dimitrijenovakovic7942 Рік тому

    First

  • @jonathanlabelle6725
    @jonathanlabelle6725 Рік тому +2

    Bruno

  • @marches45
    @marches45 Рік тому +2

    Bruno